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5 Toxic Personalities You Should Distance Yourself From

We all know an obviously toxic person. This person just screams bad energy. He may have a serious temper problem. Or she may have a tendency to shoot off about seemingly innocuous things more often than can possibly be healthy–for her to obsess over, or for you to hear.

More than likely, you’re not a glutton for punishment; you have scooted away from said toxic individual with stealthy success. (Go, you!) However, there may be more toxic people lurking in your circle than you realize.

I am someone who is very intentional. About everything. I don’t speak unless it adds to the conversation. I don’t do something unless it enhances my life. And I don’t consistently spend time with someone unless they’re worth the investment. If you spend time with toxic people, you’ll find that they will slowly but surely bleed you dry emotionally.  

I realized long ago that time and energy are both finite. You can only devote yourself to so many people–and you should never forget that friendships and relationships are two-way streets. You’re supposed to get something back when you give something away.

I’d rather have five really amazing people in my life than 5,000 who suck the life out of me. Don’t you agree? If you’re feeling socially taxed, then it’s time for a social cleanse. Here are five types of people you should separate yourself from pronto.

The Executor Of Excuses

This person always has an explanation for his poor behavior. Did he snap at you? He was under a lot of stress. Did he disappear for a week? He was super busy at work. Did he turn a simple comment about the girls at work into a criticism of your actions? He didn’t realize “you’d take it that way.” On the surface, this person is often level headed, articulate, and smart. Which is why he can talk his way out of anything.

In fact, the beauty of people with this personality is that they always have a reason for why they behaved so insensitively–meaning this behavior is fixable. Changeable. A total anomaly. Like, as soon as circumstances shift ever so slightly, so will they.

Be realistic, young grasshopper. Is this person actually going to change? The reasons he acts like this are simply excuses. Don’t be fooled.

The Woe-Wallower

Think of this personality as Eeyore from the childhood classic Winnie the Pooh. Woe. Is. Me. This individual is sulky, problem-plagued, and constantly offloading that baggage onto you. They don’t ask about your life. They simply tell you how bad things are going…for them.

You might think you can save them. I mean, think of all the sage wisdom you possess (amiright?) Welp, this is a fallacy. Just try giving the woe-wallower advice when they bring up their problems. They will nod in agreement and then proceed to ignore the obvious course of action to change their situation.

They enjoy wallowing for attention. No one’s problems are worse than theirs: a fact they will broadcast to anyone who will listen. Don’t let that be you. This person will just drag you down.

The Jealous Jane

There’s a good chance this person is an old friend–in your life long enough that they’ve compared your successes to theirs for years. Theodore Roosevelt said, “Comparison is the thief of joy.” This personality will never be happy for you when something goes well and will always be a bit dissatisfied with their own life because yours looks better.

Jealousy is dangerous, and it’s hurtful. This person will likely–knowingly or unknowingly–incite fights with you and talk behind your back. She may make snide comments about your promotion at work or the cute thing your boyfriend did for you. She will probably change the subject if you talk about the cool trip you’re planning to Europe…all in an effort to cast a dark cloud over your happy circumstances. It might feel tough to nix this friend from your circle because of your long history, but ultimately you deserve better than having someone perpetually rain on your parade. Friendships should build you up.

The Pot-Stirring Pollyanna

This personality likely claims to “hate drama,” yet drama follows her wherever she goes. She’ll usually be up on the latest gossip, and talk–innocently, of course–about friends behind their backs (“out of concern” or some such excuse). She’s typically the one to “accidentally” bring up the offhand comment you made about throwing a party–in front of the person she knows you did not invite. This will be passed off as an “oops” moment, or sometimes she’ll quietly slip away while you clean up the mess she created.

This person is not always easy to spot, because their claims and their actions do not align; it’s easy to miss negative behaviors if you’re busy absorbing those pretty words. But if you suddenly realize that you’re constantly involved in petty drama whenever you’re with her? Run, don’t walk.

The Lazy Leech

Maybe you knew this personality in college, and he was the life of the party. Whenever you get together now, the occasion usually begins with fun and good times. Slowly but surely, however, things start to decline: he forgets his wallet and doesn’t pay his tab at dinner or asks you to be best man at his wedding…even though you haven’t heard from him in years.

If he’s not putting genuine effort into the relationship on a regular basis–or sometimes, even his own life–except when it’s convenient for him or he needs something from you, you’re better off ignoring that call when his name pops up on your phone. His lack of effort is probably leading to some unnecessary resentment in your life, and it’s not innocuous. It’s toxic energy. (And he’s not really a friend. He’s a leech.)

Here’s the deal. Ask yourself these questions about each person you think of bringing into your life:

– Does this person add to my life?
– Do I consistently give far more to this relationship or friendship than they do?
– Are they sucking the life out of me every time I’m with them?

The answers to that quiz should be yes-no-no. If they aren’t, it’s time to nix ’em.

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Our Grandparents Never Had Food Allergies – So Why Do We?

To Baby Boomers and members of the Greatest Generation, food allergies were an anomaly. Few had to worry about the possibility of an All-American treat like peanut butter causing problems.
Times have changed.
For years, food allergies have been increasing in the American population, and scientists and physicians have been working to explain phenomenon.
According to a survey conducted by the U.S. Center for Disease Control, the prevalence of food allergies increased for children under the age of 18 between 1997 and 2011. Specifically, the increase in allergies to peanuts was marked.
The New England Journal of Medicine noted that the prevalence of the allergy has nearly quadrupled recently. In 1997, peanut allergy affected 0.4 percent of American children. However, it increased to 1.4 percent in 2008 and more than 2 percent in 2010.
On the whole, peanut allergies (and other food allergies) are still rare in terms of total population. Despite that fact, the impact of the issue can be seen in everyday life.
The peanut butter and jelly sandwich, once the king of brown-bag lunches, has been banned in certain schools. Some airlines have stopped serving peanuts as an in-flight snack. Parents are thinking twice before serving “ants on a log” to their children’s friends.
So what’s going on? Are today’s kids just weaker than their forebears?
Well, there might be several answers to that question.
Medical professionals and scientists have known for a long time that certain foods, such as peanuts, tree nuts, eggs, shellfish and fish, can produce strong allergic reactions.
In a (potentially misguided) attempt to protect infants and toddlers, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommended in 2000 that parents limit exposure to those foods until the age of three. At the time, the AAP hypothesized that early exposure could lead to allergic reactions. In 2008, the group retracted its recommendation.
Comforting.
Now, some physicians believe the lack of exposure to these foods early in life can lead to a more extreme immune reaction. A recent study showed a correlation between expecting mothers eating peanuts and lower instances of peanut and tree nut allergies. However, it wasn’t a controlled experiment. Just correlation.
Some other long-term, controlled studies are focusing on the subject, but we will have to wait for any conclusions on the matter.
Our grandparents, had no such reservations. The didn’t have Dr. Oz or parenting blogs or a hundred books telling them how they should be raising their kids. Granted, that doesn’t mean they were always right.
For example, smoking and drinking during pregnancy was much more common in the 60’s. But one has to think parents back then weren’t avoiding peanut butter and eggs at all costs before the age of three. It’s also reasonable to assume less processed food was available, but more on that later…
Other leading explanations center on the environment we’ve created in this modernized, industrialized country. As our civilization has advanced, we’ve left some things behind, and it’s starting to present problems.
It all comes back to the theme of exposure.
The hygiene hypothesis argues Western countries and recently developing countries have become too clean. While it sounds like a great excuse for a kid trying to avoid bath time, the consequences could be quite serious.
Essentially, young children aren’t exposed to enough bacteria, viruses and infections, and it impedes the development of the immune system. In turn, it’s theorized that the limited exposure increases the chances of allergies and autoimmune disease later in life.
So, while grandpa was outside collecting grass stains and skinning his knees, modern children are slathered in Purrell and are protected by each and every thing by overzealous helicopter parents. Now we could be seeing the results of an over-sanitized, over-protective culture.
Yet another explanation blames Western diets. A Study by physicians in Italy compared gut bacteria from healthy children in a small agrarian village in Burkina Faso and healthy children in Florence, Italy.
The children from Burkina Faso, who subsist on a high-fiber, seasonal and mostly vegetarian diet, showed greater biodiversity of bacteria. The Italian children, on the other hand, had a typical Western diet higher in fat, sugar, protein and starch. Predictably, they had less diverse bacteria.
Increased biodiversity in the gut is important. It helps resistance to pathogens and trains the body’s immune system not to attack body itself or harmless pathogens. The result is fewer instances of allergies and autoimmune diseases.
What’s happened is that one door has been closed but another’s been opened.
Western countries have been able to control infectious disease with hygiene measures and vaccines. Nonetheless, our taste for processed food with high sugar and fat content has reduced exposure to certain bacterias. That doesn’t sound bad until you realize it’s very possible that lack of exposure to those bacterias could lead to problems such as food allergies.
It’s frustrating, and there seems to be no easy answer.
However, if there is a common thread among these theories, it could be the virtue in letting our guard down. It’s easy to want to protect and shelter something as precious as a child. But, we have to ask ourselves, could it be beneficial in the long run to let go a little bit?
Perhaps, we need to expose our children to more. Let them have a bite of your PB&J. Let them play in the dirt and the grass. Even though it’s quick and easy, put the box of mac and cheese down once in a while.
Who knows? It could save us all a lot grief down the road.

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Wellbeing

What My Children Taught Me About Confidence

I spent the majority of my twenties absolutely hating my body.
I wasn’t thin enough (which sadly I was too thin, but just didn’t see it for myself), I wasn’t fast enough (yet I ran a 1:39 half marathon), and I just wasn’t GOOD enough for anyone. I entered my thirties with zero confidence and absolutely miserable.  My life wake up call came when I was 32 and found I was pregnant. Suddenly my priorities had to switch from caring about ME to how was I going to care for this wonderful new life growing inside of me? It was a challenge and I was terrified.
If I thought I was slow before, being a pregnant runner was humbling. I will admit that I took the “eating for two” recommendation a little too far and packed on 65 pounds—most of it from ice cream.
Fast-forward to 10 years later and I now have four healthy, yet wild, little boys. While I am no longer that rail thin person I was in my twenties, I am much stronger both physically and mentally. My confidence is at an all-time high and I give full credit to my kids.
Here are four confidence lessons they have taught me:

1. Face your fears.

My middle son has some issues with social anxiety.  Although he is an amazing football player, the beginning of the season is always tough for him because he has to adjust to a new situation. We talk about his fears, he tells me how stressed he is, and yet he gets out there every year and faces his fears.
Whenever I pitch my blog to a new company, I feel the same thing—-“what if they don’t like me?”— now I think how if my son can do it, so can I!
If you want to get anywhere in life, you have to meet challenges head on. It’s okay to be afraid, but facing those fears is what will get you through them and make you strong enough to face the next one.

2. Bring your A game.

My kids are very competitive. They love to win and will go all out in their sports.  There are days when I am tempted to just dial-in a workout and then I am reminded by their enthusiasm for their sports.  I wouldn’t want them to just show up and be on the field without actually trying, right?  So the same goes for me.
Whatever plans you’ve made or goals you’ve set for yourself, always stick to them and just do your best. Obstacles arise and some days your motivation just isn’t there, but fighting through discouragement will always make you feel better than giving in to it.

3. Make new friends.

We just moved to a new neighborhood and I am amazed at how easily my kids make new friends. My 5-year-old asked me to ride bikes around the neighborhood with him so he could “meet new friends.” He told me maybe I would meet some new friends too! They make it sound so simple—and it is. I just need to step out of my comfort zone and talk to people because chances are, they could use some new friends too!
It is definitely more difficult to make new friends as an adult, but sometimes all it takes is a kind voice and a big smile. Look around at the people in your neighborhood and I bet you can find someone who shares the same interests as you.

4. Be happy in your body.

My kids never care about what they wear,  how their hair looks, or if their butt looks big! They are just happy to “be.” Sometimes I catch myself looking at my rear view and have to remind myself that no one else cares about it, and therefore neither should I!
We often are our own worst critics. Practice positive self-talk and be kinder to yourself. When negative thoughts pop in your head, remind yourself of how far you have come and how amazing you are!
Becoming a mom has brought me confidence in my life that I never thought possible. My kids love me unconditionally and because of that, I am able to do so as well.

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Snacking Strategies From The Average Breakroom

I came into work the other day and the most beautiful sight met my eyes — frosted cupcakes. They were the good kind too. Professionally made from a boutique bakery, a solid two and a half inches of icing, and they were fresh. Huddled around these cake perfections was a group of people, basically drooling. To be honest, it was faintly uncomfortable. I felt like I needed to stuff one in my mouth just to prove they wouldn’t bite.
How many of you know that person at work who constantly talks about their diet, or says the phrase, “oh I really shouldn’t eat this but…” Dude, come on, I KNOW you’re going to eat way worse than that when you get home; don’t try and bamboozle me with these fake “healthy eating” habits. If you want a cupcake, eat the freaking cupcake!
And to be honest, if ONE donut is going to make or break your diet you probably need to reevaluate your eating plan. I promise, you will not turn into a human sized marshmallow with one bite.
As I was leaving the kitchen I heard someone say, “I’ll eat this cereal instead.” This is a fantastic decision – except the amount of Fruit Loops you just poured definitely cancels out anything you were trying to accomplish.
And this leaves us with the four types of eaters you’re bound to encounter at work.
1. The Happy Eater
The happy eater is someone who genuinely enjoys eating right but will splurge every now and then; they have nothing to hide. They’ll come in with their bagel or yogurt parfait. Will help themselves to birthday cake in the break room, but only if they want it. They may even want it, but decide against it because they’re going out later for happy hour. But they DON’T feel the need to announce their decision to everyone in a 12 foot radius.
2. The Pseudo-Healthy Eater
This person brags for days about how they’re vegan, only eat kale, and insist on having their water filtered three times followed by a natural blackberry infusion…
So what you’re telling me is you’re a vegan, but got McDonald’s last weekend when you were hungover… riiiight. Pseudo-healthy eaters find superiority in critiquing others’ food choices, and will make sure that their disapproval is sent with just the right amount of shade.
3. The Eater Who Needs Validation
Essentially, this type of snacker comprises the majority of the people we all work with. A typical conversation will go something like this:
“Oh wow, look at those brownies. They look so good. Ohh, I really shouldn’t eat them, but just one can’t hurt…right?”
“Oh you’re fine, just take one it’s not going to kill you.”
*Two hours later* 
“I’m just so hungry, do you think one more would be bad? I mean I’ll just go to the gym and workout longer to make up for it.”
These conversations are boring and tedious and should be curbed, like your appetite.
4. The Person Who Gives No F%*@s
Finally, we have the individual who couldn’t care less; they’re basically poisoning their body before your eyes. They’re fine eating Twinkies three times a day, will most likely eat a rather unhealthy amount of pizza, and leave your lunchroom smelling like tuna.
Between these four stereotypical snackers, company provided lunches are a living nightmare. People start self-validating themselves before they’ve even finished reading their email. Is it really that difficult to just eat something and move on???
Next time someone brings in cupcakes, I dare you to eat one. No not just one, how about five? Eat five and then go back to your desk and act like nothing happened. Chances are you’ll be the most talked about person of the day!

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Is Your Body Asking For A Water Detox?

The benefits of water are endless. The majority of our bodies are made up of water—60 percent for men and about 55 percent for women. With this in mind, it should come as no surprise that we’re told to drink more water as part of the cure for whatever ails us.
The body has some pretty amazing ways of letting us know that something is up:

  • Skin rashes, itching, and acne flare-ups likely indicate that some sort of toxin or allergen is present.
  • A bloated belly could be a symptom of premenstrual syndrome or a reminder that we’ve overindulged in more salt-laden foods than we could handle.
  • Cravings are the body’s way of telling us that we’re hungry or thirsty.
  • An upset stomach? Something is probably interfering with our digestive process.

The list goes on and on.
Keeping the body properly hydrated isn’t easy for most of us. We’ve all heard the old adage, “drink 8 glasses of water per day.” I don’t know about you, but this isn’t something I can do without making a concerted effort. (And actually, the Institute of Medicine [IOM] recommends a total water intake of 91 ounces daily for women and 125 ounces for men.) But don’t fret—total water intake includes everything we drink (including coffee!) and even the water we get from our food. According to the IOM, up to 20 percent of our daily water intake comes from water-rich fruits and vegetables.
Have you ever been to a spa and seen the big glass water jugs filled with floating herbs and colorful sliced fruits? Not only do these add-ins make the water taste good, they actually have vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants that give your body a boost.
So what the heck is a water detox, and how is it different from just drinking lots of water?
Excellent question!
Now we know how much water we need to be drinking, and we can determine if we need a detox by looking at that list of symptoms we talked about earlier.
Longing for clear skin? Check out the Cucumber, Lemon, and Mint Detox Water recipe below.
Did too many tortilla chips and margaritas last night leave you with a bloated tummy when you woke up? You get the picture…
Give one of these three detox waters a try for a healthy hydrating kick.
Cucumber, Lemon, and Mint Detox Water for Healthy, Glowing Skin
Recipe courtesy of Healthy Holistic Living

Ingredients:

  • 12 cups (3 quarts) of filtered water
  • 1 medium organic cucumber
  • 2–3 small organic lemons
  • 10–12 organic mint leaves

Directions:
Wash lemons and cucumbers; slice thinly. Add lemons, cucumber, and mint to pitcher. Cover with water and refrigerate at least 4 hours or overnight
Cucumbers are rich in silica, which is known for its ability to brighten skin and give an all-around healthy glow. They also boast a 96 percent water content, making it one of the most water-rich foods you can eat. A 2009 study at the University of Aberdeen Medical School in Scotland found that adding hydrating veggies like cucumber to a glass of water can provide even more hydration than water alone. Since hydration is a must for good skin, cukes should be at the top of your list if a healthy glow is one of your goals.
Lemons provide more than 50 percent of our daily dose of vitamin C, as well as small amounts of B vitamins and essential minerals like calcium, iron, magnesium, phosphorus, potassium, and manganese.
Vitamin C is a powerful antioxidant helping to fight damage caused by harmful ultraviolet rays from the sun and environmental pollution. Vitamin C plays a critical role in the formation of collagen, which gives the skin its strength and elasticity, keeping wrinkles at bay and promoting an overall healthy complexion.
Holiday Detox Fast Flush Water for Reducing Belly Bloat
Recipe courtesy of doctoroz.com

Ingredients:

  • 3 cups watermelon
  • 2 cups water
  • 1 cup coconut water

Directions:
Put all ingredients in blender. Blend and serve. Drink up to five cups of this refreshing beverage daily.
Note: If you’re taking a diuretic medication, be sure to talk to your doctor first.
Juicy watermelon consists of 92 percent water and works as a natural diuretic, ridding your body of excess sodium and water. Watermelon is also a good source of potassium, which is important to balance against sodium levels to beat belly bloat.
Another natural diuretic, coconut water (the juice inside of a coconut—not water with added coconut flavor) is another good source of potassium, as well as sodium, magnesium, and calcium.
This concoction is super hydrating and a delicious summer beverage. As the name implies, this is a “fast flush” to help readjust electrolyte levels after overindulging while away on vacation or after a Fourth of July barbecue.
A healthy diet, good hydration, exercise, and restful sleep are necessary for long-term weight management.
Health-Is-Sweet Immune Booster to Support a Strong Immune System and Fight off Germs
Recipe courtesy of certified nutritionist August McLaughlin

Ingredients:

  • 1 cup of cubed fresh pineapple
  • 1 cup of chopped strawberries
  • 2 peeled and sectioned oranges
  • 3 quarts water

Directions:
Fill a pitcher with three quarts of filtered water. Add fruit and chill for at least two hours before drinking.
A strong immune system is important year-round. To boost your immunity and keep nasty summer colds at bay or fight infections faster, try this super-serving of vitamin C with a boost anti-inflammatory benefits.
All three fruits in this detox drink offer a whopping dose of vitamin C, well known for its ability to keep the immune system in tip-top shape.
Pineapple also contains ample amounts of bromelain, a substance with anti-inflammatory benefits that also aids with digestion.
Strawberries and pineapple are both sources of manganese, a mineral necessary for strong bones, healthy connective tissue, antioxidant protection, and blood sugar regulation. According to the University of Maryland Medical Center, as many as 37 percent of Americans don’t get the recommended dietary intake (RDI) of manganese in their diet.

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My First Time: A Tale of The Unlikely Yogi

Last night, I did something I thought I would never do.

I took a yoga class.

In the past, I thought yoga classes were strictly for aging hippies and young people who “weren’t religious, but definitely spiritual.” I have no doubt that this is the result of growing up in a family where there were four “real sports,” five if you included golf.

My dad barely recognized soccer as a sport. To him, it was more like cross country with a ball. Also, apparently, it was for socialists. Needless to say, I wasn’t taking any yoga classes in high school.

But for the good of HealthyWay, and my fragile flexibility, I decided to take the plunge and go to a yoga class. My girlfriend was a huge proponent of the idea. She routinely teases me about my inflexibility and warned me it’s only going to get worse if I don’t pair my weight training with some sort of stretching.

I had to begrudgingly admit she was right.

The search started for a class we could both make it to after work. I found a studio in a quaint area of our city that offered beginners classes for a reasonable price.

Bingo.

Because I was a bit nervous about this new endeavor, I took the instructions on the studio’s website seriously. We bought some yoga mats and packed a bag with towels and water bottles. The site also advised to eat within two hours of the class.

Since the studio asked that you arrive to class 15 minutes early and it was about 20 minutes away (accounting for traffic), we didn’t have much time to eat. Unfortunately, the fridge contained no leftovers and the meal we had in the crock pot wouldn’t be ready in time. We didn’t even have the proper ingredients for a sandwich or salad (don’t judge).

That left a couple cans of soup. This is where I learned my first lesson. A hearty stew is not yoga food. I implore you: Eat anything else besides piping hot soup before yoga. Trust me, a can of Campbell’s Chunky sloshing around your stomach while doing downward dog is to no one’s benefit.

After scarfing down that ill-advised early dinner, we departed.

We arrived early to a beautiful brick building with an alley entrance way. As soon as we stepped in the door, it was like hippie yoga bingo. There were incense burning in multiple locations, statues of Eastern deities and everyone was barefoot and soft spoken.

If someone had been drinking a green smoothie, I would have lost it.

I quickly started to think, “What have I gotten myself into” and hoped no one would ask me about Phish or quinoa. I didn’t have much more time to fret, though. Soon it was time to start class.

We walked into a small room (also burning incense) with seven or eight other people and put down our mats. The instructor was very nice and soothing, and I thought this whole thing might be alright.

We started with a simple position and some deep breathing. There were a lot of confusing, and seemingly nonsensical, instructions like “lift with your abdominals!” and “push through your elbows!” I went with it, though, deferring to the expert.

Looking back, it seems like the start of the class was a bait and switch to pacify people like me. The remainder of the class WAS NOT soothing. It was tough. It hurt. It was just as much of a workout as lifting weights, except I know how to do that without looking like an idiot.

One thing became readily apparent when we started some positions meant to help stretch and strengthen our legs (the muscles and tendons around the ankle, calf and foot specifically), I was probably the least flexible person in the entire class.

Years of playing sports, lifting weights and never stretching had caught up with me. I started to wince and take breaks during what looked like simple positions. I caught looks of concern on my girlfriend’s face a few times, but I powered through because I’m good sport.

Also, I’m stubborn.

By far the most embarrassing example of my physical malleability, or lack thereof, came toward the end of class. We were instructed to lie flat on our stomachs then arch our backs and move our legs up toward the front of our bodies. Then, we were to reach back with our arms and grab our feet. I think it was called a “bow pose,” but it just looked like the worst rocking horse ever to me.

I was literally the only person so inflexible that I couldn’t do the pose to some degree. The instructor tried to help me. I think she thought I wasn’t trying hard enough, but after a few more tries I explained to her that my range of motion was truly that bad and everything hurt.

Luckily, the end of the class was near and we ended with some guided relaxation.  Afterward, I started to wonder if they offered a remedial yoga class and tended to sore muscles I was previously unaware of.

Even after all that, I would recommend a beginners class to guys who have never tried yoga. It was difficult for me, but I’m convinced it can only help my other workouts. Obviously, it will improve my flexibility, but I can see it improving my spatial awareness, balance and muscle control.

Yoga can seem daunting for a lot of people. It can seem intimidating to guys, who may not be naturally flexible to begin with, or who see it as a feminine domain. Believe me, I understand being afraid to look silly.

That’s the great thing, though. From what I saw, there seemed to be a communal support structure, even to newcomers. No one at the studio was judgemental, and you only have room to improve.

Don’t let your hypothetical idea of something stop you from experiencing its reality.

Namaste.

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Nosh

Battling The Midnight Munchies

Before I lost weight, my husband and I would sit on the couch after the children were asleep and work our way through a bag of chips followed by a bowl or two of ice cream. And then, to even things up, we’d have a few more chips. I woke up in the morning feeling tired, bloated, and ravenous.

Scientists at the Salk Institute for Biological Studies have recently published research showing that mice allowed to eat for only eight hours a day were actually healthier than others that ate around the clock–no matter what the contents of their diet. If proven in humans, this could mean that when we eat contributes as much to the U.S. obesity epidemic as what we eat.

If you’re having difficulty breaking your nighttime eating habit, I want you to know it can be done. Here are nine techniques I used to break the hold that nighttime snacking had on me.

Break out your calculator.

The first thing to do is break out your calculator and figure out how much you typically eat at night. I know, it can be scary.

I literally gasped to myself when I calculated I was consuming an average of 800 to 1,000 calories after dinner. If your total is more than 100 or 200 calories, you are probably eating too many calories after dinner.

Plan your evening–including the food.

The second thing to do is plan your evening. I know you plan your day. Why not do the same for the evening? Structure your activities so you stay away from the pantry and out of the kitchen.

Shut down the kitchen.

Sweep or mop those floors, put the dishes away, turn off the lights, and close the door. It seems simple, but once the kitchen was sparkling clean and everything was shut down, it helped me remember that I was done eating for the night.

Develop new skills.

Watching television or surfing the Internet is fun and entertaining, but sometimes it wasn’t enough to distract me from food. So I learned new skills that involved my hands. When I was knitting, sewing, or scrapbooking, I couldn’t eat without messing up my creations.

Give up and go to bed.

This did not happen very often, but there were nights when the cravings for sweets were hard to resist. Instead of giving in, I gave up and went to bed. After all, I couldn’t eat while I was sleeping. When I woke up in the morning the cravings were gone, and I was refreshed.

Always have a hot drink on hand.

Hot drinks helped me avoid nighttime snacking. Sometimes I would have herbal tea, and other times I chose decaf coffee or green tea. The hot drink seemed to fill me up and take away the urge to eat.

Remind yourself of your goals.

If you’re feeling bored and wanting to eat, tell yourself that part of your plan is to cut down or stop nighttime snacking. Sometimes I would have a little internal dialogue with myself that got me back on track.

Have healthy snacks available.

There were times when I was legitimately hungry after dinner. Sometimes it was because I was so busy tending to the kids that I did not eat much, and other times I still had calories left from earlier in the day. It is okay to eat at night if you have something healthy. Think carrot sticks or low calorie cheese instead of cookies and chips.

Brush your teeth.

Brushing your teeth leaves a minty feel in your mouth that doesn’t go very well with food. I often brushed my teeth directly after cleaning the kitchen. Having a clean mouth helped me skip the nighttime snack and improved my oral health. It was a win-win situation.

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Unsuspecting Condiments Are Ruining Your Diet

I’ve always loved a well-seasoned homemade burger loaded with all the fixin’s like, mustard, ketchup, mayonnaise, and a host of other toppings. In fact, during the days before I started watching my weight, I could easily overload a burger to the point where condiments were literally dripping down my arm.

I had the same issue with barbecue sauce, sometimes adding in excess of a cup to anything from grilled chicken to baked beans. Now, this might seem a tad bit trivial to some. After all, condiments undoubtedly add flavor and zest to foods that might otherwise be boring.

But, condiments aren’t simply flavorful toppings. They are actually calorie-carrying foods and eating too much of them can do some real damage to your diet and sometimes even your health.

For instance, ketchup is packed full of added sugars including sucrose (table sugar) and high-fructose corn syrup. These sugars tend to digest rapidly causing pronounced rises in blood sugar (glucose) and even greater increases in insulin, which is the hormone responsible for lowering blood glucose.

Given that continuous elevations in glucose and insulin contribute to weight gain and possible obesity, haphazardly adding sugar-rich condiments like ketchup can put a real hurting on the waistline over time.

Does this mean that a single serve pack of ketchup is the kiss of death? Of course not!

However, if you find yourself repeatedly squeezing out pack after pack, you could have some problems in the long run.

Similar to ketchup, barbecue sauce contains very large quantities of added sugar but this condiment is also extremely high in calories, about 30-35 per tablespoon to be exact. Considering that the average portion size of sauce on a drenched quarter of barbecue is six or more tablespoons, you’re easily looking at over 200 calories in a single sitting.

That’s more calories than you burn during a 30-minute walk.

Dressings are another breed of condiments that can sabotage a diet, especially the creamier ones like Caesar, ranch, French, thousand island, and mayonnaise. Believe it or not, just one tablespoon of these dressings can house anywhere between 50 and 80 calories and a standard one-quarter cup package is typically around 300 calories.  

Some people try to escape the calorie counts by switching over to “fat-free” versions. While such dressings are generally lower in calories, their subpar nutritional quality can do you more harm than good, as these typically contain higher levels of added sugars.

Using fat-free dressings on vegetables and fruit can also reduce the amount of nutrients absorbed by the intestines. This occurs because many of the vitamins and antioxidants (vitamins D, E, and K, beta-carotene, and lycopene) contained in these foods are transported through the body by attaching to fat.

It’s better to add sensible portions of full-fat dressings to foods so that your body can better absorb the nutrients they contain. In this case, simply measure how much dressing you use and when dining out, request your dressing on the side and add it conservatively to your salad only as needed.

In addition to calories and sugars, all condiments contain unhealthy levels of sodium, which comes with its own set of risks.

The primary side effect of excess sodium is dehydration. Dehydration causes the body to retain water leading to bloating and unnecessary weight gain. Over time, excessive intake of sodium can significantly raise blood pressure, which greatly increases the risk of heart attack, stroke, and kidney failure.

While occasional use of condiments certainly won’t pose any significant risks, using them in excessive amounts can easily turn otherwise healthy foods into unhealthy ones. To optimize your diet and your health, be sure to carefully monitor your portions of any condiments you use and always adhere to recommended serving sizes.

I also suggest experimenting with less processed varieties like herbs and spices, mustard, horseradish, low-sodium hot sauce, sriracha, salsa, and even vinegar, as these tend to be relatively lower in calories, sugars, sodium, and other additives. Such condiments also have the added benefit of boosting metabolism and curbing appetite in ways that support weight management.

Still, the next time you sit down to eat a meal, I challenge you to enjoy the sweet or savory tastes of your foods in their natural form. Don’t be so quick to pile on the condiments before even taking a bite. Over time, you’ll be amazed to see how much of a difference it makes!

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The Amazing Health Benefits of Watermelon Seeds

Growing up in a family of five whose income was well below the poverty line, wasting food was never an option. From stews to soups during weekdays, to at-home smorgasbords on weekends, my parents made sure each and every morsel of food purchased with their hard-earned income was in some way consumed.

Always looking to spare the family some cash, mom had a knack for making innovative snacks at home. A few of my personal favorites were sun dried and roasted pumpkin seeds, sunflower seeds, and, believe it or not, watermelon seeds.

For mom, repackaging seeds as snacks was just another way to avoid wasting food. Mom didn’t even realize she’d actually incorporated among the most incredibly nutritious snacks into our dietary repertoire.

Watermelon seeds are a valuable source of protein – their most valuable attribute.

This holds especially true if you’re a vegetarian, vegan, or simply looking for a natural way to boost your intake. Protein is an essential nutrient that’s absolutely critical for injury prevention and recovery, weight management, and muscle health. The protein housed in watermelon seeds is comprised of numerous muscle-building amino acids including arginine, lysine, phenylalanine, tryptophan, and leucine, which is a huge plus if you’re one who regularly engages in resistance exercise or high-intensity interval training.

Along with their rich protein content, watermelon seeds contain substantial amounts of B-vitamins and key minerals like iron and phosphorus, all of which work together to support the body’s endless oxygen requirements and energy demands.

You can also get a good amount of zinc from eating watermelon seeds – one of only a few minerals that is also an antioxidant. Zinc specifically helps the body’s immune system function both efficiently and effectively, especially important during pregnancy, infancy, and childhood.

Surprisingly, the list of valuable nutrients contained in watermelon seeds continues. They also house a rich supply of important electrolyte minerals, namely potassium, magnesium, and calcium. These electrolyte minerals collectively function in maintaining proper fluid balance, regulating nerve function, and coordinating the many processes involved in muscle contraction and relaxation.

Due to their unique electrolyte composition, eating watermelon seeds may delay or even prevent the onset of exercise-induced muscle cramps. When you work out, electrolytes are lost in sweat, which greatly increases the likelihood of cramping. If you’re prone to muscle cramping, pop a handful of watermelon seeds as a pre-workout snack.

Capping off the superior nutritive profile of watermelon seeds is their beneficial composition of polyunsaturated fatty acids, which you’ve probably heard of. Often classified as “healthy” or “good”, these fats have been shown to considerably lower the risk of many diet-linked chronic diseases (high blood pressure, diabetes, and cancer) when regularly consumed.

While polyunsaturated fatty acids play a huge role in the overall nutritional quality of watermelon seeds, better not to pop them by the cupful, as the calories that accompany these fats can quickly add up. In fact, a cup of watermelon seeds contains nearly 600 calories!

In addition to protein and fat, these seeds also contain healthy amounts of dietary fiber, all of which provide superior satiation. Just don’t overdo it.  A 1/4 or 1/2-cup serving a day is all it takes. Enjoy them as a stand-alone snack or add them to your favorite cereals, side dishes and entrees for unique flavor and texture.

Mom was unknowingly on to something when she introduced watermelon seeds into our diets.

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5 Reasons You're Not Losing Weight

It’s always a good idea to check-in on what you are, or are not doing, to see if you are sabotaging all those great efforts you are making in the gym. If you are killing it with Pilates classes, HIIT classes and cardio and still not seeing results, something is probably off. Hopefully these five tips will help you reassess and get you back on track to those fitness goals and results you are wanting.
1. Too Much Cardio. Cardio can definitely help to burn fat, but it can only take you so far. Plus your body gets bored over time, and eventually your metabolism stops responding in the same way.
What to Do? Cut your cardio workouts in half, and replace that time with weight training. Not only will you tone your body, you’ll also increase your resting metabolic rate, which means you’ll burn continue to burn fat throughout your day. Did you know that after one Pilates class you will continue to burn fat for the next 24-hours?
2. A High Sodium Diet. Although sodium doesn’t necessarily contribute to belly fat, it does cause your body to retain water. This bloating is going to make your belly look bigger than it is, and hide all the hard work you’ve been putting in at the gym.
What to Do? Pretty simple cut out the salt. Try adding others seasonings to your foods. Fresh herbs and spices like cayenne pepper will actually help you burn more calories and fat.
3. Drinking Soda. Think diet soda won’t interfere with your fat burning efforts? Diet soda is full of artificial sweeteners and ingredients that throw your metabolism off track, leading to hunger spikes and sugar cravings. Regardless of what the drink says, read the label and look at the primary ingredients. Stay away from sugar and artificial sweeteners.
What to Do? Replace soda with drinks that actually help to burn fat. Water’s the best natural detox for your body. My favorite is to add lemon to my water and drink at least 90-ounces a day. Keeps me feeling full and healthy all day long.
4. Poor Sleep. Clients are often surprised by this tip, but one night of poor sleep really does a number on your metabolism. Not only will you burn less fat, you’ll also end up with non-stop cravings for everything bad. You know those cravings, something sugary and salty. This is because sleep plays an important role in regulating key hormones related to hunger and metabolism.
What to Do? Make sure you’re getting a solid 7 to 8 hours of sleep every night, and make sure it’s good sleep! If you have one of the new fitness apps, you can track you sleep to see just the quality of sleep you are getting.
5. Drinking Alcohol. The problem with alcohol is that it’s really high in calories, regardless of what it’s mixed with. When consumed on a regular basis, it’s definitely going to interfere with your fat loss efforts. Sorry, but that whole one glass of red wine a night for heart health – really isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.
What to Do? You don’t have to give it up altogether, but try cutting down on how often you drink. Definitely cut down on high calorie drinks like beer, sugary and salty drinks like margaritas, and anything mixed with fruit juices or soda. When you do drink, try sticking to vodka, champagne or gin and soda – as these are lower in calories overall. Cheers to staying healthy in moderation!