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Messy Foods That Have Actually Improved My Hair Health

I’m certain I’ve been through the spectrum of hair health issues. At times I’ve dealt with oily hair, dry scalp, limp hair, itchy scalp, thinning, and excess breakage. I tried dozens of treatments at my local drugstore and have even tried a few treatments at the salon, but nothing worked. The solution was as simple as looking in my kitchen. Now some of my messiest foods are improving my hair’s health.

The Kitchen Serves Up the Solution

I’m always up for trying a DIY solution for beauty and health. When I read about some DIY hair recipes to improve my hair and scalp’s health, I had to try them.

I already had most of the ingredients in my kitchen, such as avocados, eggs, honey, and molasses. I did have to make a special trip for the seaweed recipe, though.

Restore Moisture With Honey

Honey isn’t the easiest to apply, but it took my dry, damaged hair and made it soft and luxurious. I also recommend it if you’re out in the sun a lot.

You should shampoo your hair before applying this DIY moisturizing hair treatment. Leave your hair damp. Then mix 2 tablespoons of olive oil with a half cup of honey and massage into your hair. The olive oil moisturizes your hair and helps the honey to spread evenly. Wait 20 minutes and shampoo out.

To help strengthen and moisturize, sometimes I add 2 tablespoons of pureed avocado, which rejuvenates my hair even more.

Eliminate Frizz With Avocado

You’ll notice I use avocado in many hair recipes. That’s because it’s full of nutrients that naturally improve hair and scalp health. It’s not just for great guacamole!

I love using this avocado recipe in the winter when my hair gets extra dry and frizzy. Apply half a well-mashed avocado to clean, damp hair. Leave on for 15-20 minutes and rinse. If you don’t mind a messier version, add in 2 tablespoons of coconut oil and 2 teaspoons of olive oil for extra moisture.

Eggs Treat All Types

Eggs are kind of a universal treatment for better hair health: Egg yolks moisturize, and egg whites treat oily hair. I usually have to use the egg whites in the summer when my hair gets oily fast. Once a month is all it takes for eggs to make a major difference. A single egg is ideal for normal hair. 

Honey and Yogurt Mask Fights Flakes

Even when my hair is oily, I tend to have flakes. It’s a battle I’ve often fought and lost. Now, my hero, the honey and yogurt mask, has saved me (or at least my scalp).

Plain yogurt strengthens my hair and erases dandruff. I love how my hair looks afterward, and a non-itchy scalp is a huge plus.

I use 2 handfuls of plain yogurt and mix in 2 tablespoons of honey. A banana or half an avocado would be a great addition too. Work the mixture over your hair and scalp, leave on for 20 minutes, and rinse.

Strengthen and Moisturize With Molasses

I honestly wasn’t sure how well molasses would work in my hair, but it’s become my go-to deep conditioner. Some people even use it as a pre-wash treatment.

I prefer to use blackstrap molasses, but any darker molasses does well. If you have light colored hair, use honey-colored molasses to avoid darkening your hair.

Mix one part molasses with one part olive oil, avocado oil, or coconut oil. The exact amount depends on your hair length. You can also add this to your favorite conditioner for an extra boost of moisture. Leave on for up to 20 minutes and rinse thoroughly.

Seaweed Heals Hair

Seaweed is a powerful little ingredient, though a bit messy. I’ve used several seaweed recipes and they’ve helped with dryness, dullness, and damage.

For the easiest DIY hair mask, add warm water and seaweed to a bowl. Let the seaweed soak for an hour. Strain out the water and apply the seaweed to your hair. I leave mine on for 30 minutes and then rinse.

I highly recommend trying different forms of seaweed and algae, as each has its own beneficial properties. Green, red, and blue algae boost hair growth, for instance.

I alternate masks depending on my hair needs. Since starting, I’ve noticed that my hair is healthier than it’s ever been. Try the best mask for you once every other week and you’ll start to see improvement.

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Are You Emotionally Mature?

We tend to think that age is indicative of maturity. The older we get in years, the better we can navigate and manage our feelings like grown-ups, right? Not necessarily. There are plenty of adults who act childish or try to escape responsibilities they may have. There are also a lot of young people who are very wise in how they think and behave. The truth is that emotional maturity takes energy, work, and honest self-evaluation. Here are some signs that you’re an emotional grown-up (and some tips to help you move forward if you’re a little behind).

One of the first indications is that you feel in control of your decisions. You’re the main character in your own life. While you take others’ ideas and perspective into consideration, it’s you who has the final say. I once worked with a client who was deciding whether she wanted to go back to school to get a graduate degree. She had a very busy life, and some members of her family felt that it wasn’t the right time for her to pursue more education. She valued their opinions, but it was her choice to make. Although she knew it wouldn’t always be easy, she made the decision to go back to school. This woman is a great example of emotional maturity in owning and embracing the ability to act for herself. If you find that you struggle with this, I’d suggest you start small. Make one decision completely on your own without any outside input. This will help you practice being the ultimate authority on your own life.

Another sign of emotional maturity is that you know what you think and how you feel. You can identify, articulate, and share your feelings in your relationships. You know what you need. Think of a young child who is cranky and overwhelmed from a sleepover. She probably doesn’t understand exactly what she needs, but a parent knows that having a nap and a story read to her would do wonders help her feel better. A mature grown-up can properly assess her own physical and emotional state. She knows what’s bothering her and can convey it to someone else if necessary. If you’re not adept at identifying your emotional needs, try journaling to get in touch with your thoughts and feelings. You can’t change what you don’t admit or understand, and it’s so important for your own well-being and for the health of your relationships to really dig deep into your inner experiences.

An emotional grown-up is considerate enough to empathize with another person’s struggles without taking them on as her own. For example, a young woman I worked with had gotten to the point that she stopped confiding in her mom about the difficulties she was facing. Her mother would become overwhelmed and distressed by the things her daughter had to deal with. It’s not helpful to anyone to be consumed by someone else’s problems. If you find that other people’s burdens weigh on you too heavily, imagine an invisible bubble around yourself (sounds weird, I know, but just go with it!) You can choose which ideas, words, and experiences you let in and which ones you keep out. As a therapist, I’ve had to use this small but powerful metaphor to keep myself sane and emotionally protected. Try it for yourself if you’d like.

An individual who is emotionally mature enjoys being with others as well as spending time alone. It seems that many people have a tough time being on their own. They may get anxious or restless without someone else there. If you have a hard time with this, try to become better acquainted with yourself. Go out to eat on your own or see a movie without anyone else. It really is a freeing experience to learn to enjoy your own company. You can create your own happiness. On the other hand, if you spend an inordinate amount of time alone, it might be time to branch out and seek social connection.

Being an inner grown-up doesn’t necessarily come as naturally or as easily as one may think. It’s not a question of years so much as it is one of emotional management. If you find that you’re lacking some emotional maturity, take small steps to get in better touch with and manage your own feelings, communicate in your relationships, and take a stand for yourself.

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Is Dry Shampoo Damaging Your Hair?

I have always loved volumized hair. I come from a family of women with “big hair,” in fact. But my thick, heavy locks aren’t naturally able to hold volume at the root. No product did much to help this. Mousse made things sticky. Hairspray only matted my style down on top after, oh, about 10 minutes.

What’s a girl to do? Discover the magical power of dry shampoo, of course.

Once I found at least three affordable dry shampoos I was obsessed with—Batiste, Garnier, and Dove—everyone started asking me what my secret was. I’d just pull a travel bottle of the stuff from my purse and excitedly share its wonders. Last summer, on a humid July day, you could also find me touching up random strangers’ lifeless ‘dos in the bathroom of my local beer garden. It is that fabulous. It also might damaging hair…?!

There have been a lot of whispers surrounding the product for past month or so. Like that it causes hair to fall out. Or that it dulls your color. Or that it even clogs follicles and impedes the regrowth of hair. (Which all sounds pretty terrifying, actually.)

What’s the deal with dry shampoo?

According to dermatologist Angela Lamb of Mount Sinai Hospital, dry shampoo works sort of like this: “It is basically powder that absorbs oils and dirt,” she explains. “When you shake out the powder, the oil and dirt go with it.” Voila! Yes! This is why my hair gets an instant lift every time I shake, spritz, and massage that mist through my roots. Woo!

But is it dangerous? It is not, in fact, causing your hair to fall out or any of the scary stuff mentioned above. If you see an abundance of hair fall out at once, it’s probably because the dry shampoo’s slight tacky effect was holding strands against your scalp, so when you wash your hair, you might see some “extra” fall in the shower. This is not abnormal, actually, nor more hair than what you might have lost otherwise. You’re just dropping a bunch at once instead of losing it over a period of days.

The danger, says Dr. Lamb, is the hygiene issue. You can start to think that your almighty dry shampoo is a substitute for actual hair washing. You do not have SuperHair, she insists: “You can stretch shampoos and freshen your hair between washes—but you can try and stretch it too much, and then your hair just gets too dirty. It is also very drying.”

To have a healthy scalp (or any skin for that matter), you need to get the product, bacteria, and germs off your skin. Dry shampoo doesn’t do that. Real shampoo does. You’re going to have dirty, dull hair if you simply keep spraying stuff in it—even if it does remove oil.

What’s the bottom line?

You can use dry shampoo for a quick lift or to extend washes so that you’re not shampooing every day (if you tend accumulate shine at the roots). Lamb says to “use it conservatively” and wash your hair as you normally would. Every other day or every couple days is generally a good benchmark. “Generally, I recommend dry shampoo for people that exercise a lot or have oily hair,” she says.

At the end of the day, I feel better spritzing this stuff as a volumizer, and I’ll keep telling people how obsessed I am with dry shampoo. It is the secret weapon for volume! It’s just not the secret weapon for clean, healthy hair. Keep washing, kids.

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Go Ahead And Take A Nap, It's Good For You

Ah, a nap. How good we feel after we take one (or not). I’m not a napper, although I wish I could be. When I was young I always took a long nap on Sunday afternoons, and I always woke up feeling groggy. These days I take short naps occasionally (usually under 20 minutes). When I manage to take one I wake up refreshed and able to continue with my day. It seems that I’ve inadvertently stumbled on something that researchers have been examining for quite some time.

Why Nap?

There are actually a number of proven benefits to napping.

  • Napping improves mood – Perhaps it’s just the increased sleep, perhaps it’s not being cranky because you are tired. Whatever the case, napping consistently has been shown to improve mood.
  • Napping reduces fatigue – Well, that seems obvious. Any sleep should help improve fatigue, but regular napping decreases not only the fatigue of a bad night’s sleep but the fatigue that we feel as we hit that mid-afternoon energy slump.
  • Napping improves attention – Struggling to pay attention in those afternoon meetings? Perhaps heading to your car for a 15-minute nap before the meeting will help. Those who nap show a greater ability to pay attention than those who don’t.
  • Napping improves performance – A 2005 study by Hayashi et al. showed that performance and alertness dip through lunchtime when no nap is taken, but a short nap improves performance on logic, math, and reasoning tasks.
  • Napping improves reaction time – This may be the most important reason for those who are sleep deprived to nap. Whether you are driving or your work requires a quick reaction time, a nap can help you.
  • Napping improves memory – Napping improves both declarative memory (the ability to recall what you know) and procedural memory (the ability to recall how to do stuff).
  • Napping may reduce your need for sleep – According to Timothy Ferriss, the author of The 4-Hour Body, for every nap you take during the day your need for sleep reduces by two hours.

Of course, most of us just grab a coffee in the afternoon to get us through the slump. So how does a nap compare with coffee? The benefits of a nap are more reliable and last longer than caffeine. Naps don’t leave you with the jitters or a post-caffeine crash. They just work. Following your nap with caffeine will give you the greatest benefit.

Timing matters. The benefits of your nap are affected by timing in two ways: when you take the nap and how long you nap.

  • Timing of the nap – If you generally sleep well at night, you’ll get the most benefit from a nap taken sometime between 2 and 5 p.m. This is typically when your circadian rhythm dips, leaving you feeling tired. Naps during this timeframe show a greater improvement in performance than naps taken before the post-lunch dip. Of course, if you sleep later, then your nap should come later too. If you don’t generally sleep well at night and are sleep deprived, you’ll likely benefit the most from an earlier nap.
  • Nap duration – How long you nap matters, but how long is too long and how long is too short? Five minutes is too short, but short naps of 10–20 minutes show the greatest benefit. Naps longer than 20 minutes are still beneficial, but they come at a price. You wake up groggy, and it takes a while to clear your head, thus delaying the benefits. The longer the nap the longer the delay between the nap and when the benefits are seen. Naps longer than an hour show diminishing returns; basically you get the same benefit from a 2-hour nap that you’ll get from a 1-hour nap.

Additionally, researchers have found that those who nap daily get more restorative benefit from their naps than those who just nap occasionally. 

So take a little time each day—but not a lot—and schedule a nap. You’ll be glad you did after you reap the benefits of improved attention, alertness, performance, reaction time, and a better mood. Go ahead, take a nap. It’s good for you!

Source: Milner CE, Cote KA (2009). Benefits of napping in healthy adults: impact of nap length, time of day, age, and experience with napping. Journal of Sleep Research, 18(2):272–281.

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Small Ways To Boost Your Mood

We all get a little down from time to time. Sometimes it’s because of major events such as divorce, job loss, death of a loved one, etc. Other times it’s simply because we are human and naturally experience sadness. During these times it can feel really good to have a little emotional pick-me-up. Here are a few small but powerful ways to boost your mood and lift your spirits.
One of the fastest ways to feel better when you’re low is to listen to music. Put on your favorite song, dance around, rock out in your car or bedroom, and remember that there’s a lot to be joyful about in life. Research shows that the type of music (country, pop, hip hop, etc.) doesn’t really matter; just pick something that you like! It doesn’t even have to be a happy or upbeat song, either. If you’re going through a breakup or something else that’s particularly tough, sometimes you have to go through that painful emotion to move past it and get to a more cheerful one. Might be time to break out the Adele…
Another way to quickly improve your mood is simply to smile more. Studies show that even a fake smile can help you feel better, and by continually practicing this technique you can quit faking it and truly be happier. There’s a great feedback mechanism that when we act as if something is true, it can actually become true. So show the world your pearly whites and feel your mood lifting.
Sunlight is an important tool to beat the blues. Who doesn’t feel better after spending some time in the sun? The light and vitamin D that you get from being outside are so good for our bodies and our spirits (don’t overdo it, though: Skin cancer is a real thing, so sunbathe with caution and always wear sunscreen.) Exercise can also be a great way to get those endorphins going. Get to the gym and work up a sweat to improve your mood. If you’re not up for a full workout, then just take a walk up and down the street or do something else to get moving.
The next tip may surprise you a bit. Do you remember being taught as a little kid not to talk to strangers? As a professional therapist, I’m telling you to toss that advice aside, get outside of your comfort zone, and converse with people you don’t know! Research shows that this actually makes us feel better (cool, huh?) We’ve culturally been brought up to be a bit more cheerful to new faces, so this can help us feel cheerful and happy as well. So why not strike up a conversation with the cashier at the grocery store, the woman you sit next to on the train, or the new co-worker you haven’t met yet? Interacting with strangers (or new friends) is really energizing and can bring out the best in us.
A final piece of advice I can give you to help lift your mood is to change your mind. When we’re feeling down our thoughts slow down too, so the solution is to help speed up and change our thought patterns. Maybe play a fast-paced game, talk to a friend who’s cheerful and high energy, or try something new—anything to switch up your thinking. Another thing you can do is challenge negative thoughts. Too often, we tend to be self-defeating by saying negative things to ourselves. Become aware of your own internal dialogue, then fight back against your inner critic. For example, if you find yourself thinking that you’re not intelligent, challenge that thought. Ask yourself if it’s really true, if it’s an assumption you’ve made, or if it’s something you’ve been taught. You can often get rid of those kinds of pessimistic ideas about yourself just by confronting them.
I promise that these mini-changes can work for you. From my own experiences (as well as those of my friends, family, and clients, and also as shown by clinical research), they have been shown time and time again to really work to drive out the gloom we all feel sometimes. Try them today if you need an emotional boost.

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Building Young Runners: 8 Tips For Introducing Your Kids To Running

Before I had kids, I would often hear stories of the dreaded “little league dads” or “dance moms” who would go over the edge when it came to their children and athletics. You know the type of parents I’m talking about: the ones who would be yelling at referees, pushing their kids to train for a sport far harder than any little kid should train, or simply forcing their kid to participate in an activity that the kid highly disliked, but the parent wanted them to do anyway.

I vowed I would never be one of those parents.

Then I became a mom and simultaneously discovered my love for running.

I loved running so much that of course I wanted to share it with everyone in my life…and my kids were no exception. As soon as my oldest son could toddle, I wanted to enter him in tot trots and start building his own collection of finishers medals. 

He, on the other hand, wasn’t as thrilled about the idea of running as I was. In fact, at his first official race, he protested the entire time. He screamed as we tried to pin his race bib on him and then tried to rip the bib off of his shirt. He cried as we lined him up with his fellow tots at the starting line, refused to move when the starting whistle blew, and then sat down in the field halfway through his 100-meter dash, declaring his race over.

The other kids seemed happy to run as fast as their little feet could take them from the start to the finish line, but my kid made it perfectly clear that he was not as big of a fan of running as his mother was.

At least, not yet.

I learned very quickly that afternoon that you simply cannot push your love of a sport onto your child. Since that fateful day, however, I have also learned that there are a number of things you can do to encourage your kids to have a happy, healthy relationship with running. And nine years later, I am the proud mom of two little runners who seem to love running as much as I do…on their own terms.

Here are my running mom tips:

1) Lead by example. Your kids are watching EVERYTHING you do. Setting a positive example of your love for running will give your kids a healthy outlook on the sport of running. They will view running as a normal, fun activity rather than some sort of punishment or insufferable weight loss method. Plus, seeing how much you enjoy running may encourage them to give the sport a try for themselves. After all, what little kid doesn’t want to emulate their parents?

2) Start them slow. Just like any new runners, kids need to start off with short distances so their little bodies can adapt to the stressors of running. Start with age-appropriate distances. Although running is a completely natural activity for kids (they do it on their own all the time), if you have any concerns please consult with your child’s pediatrician before taking them running.

3) Make it fun. As mentioned already, kids run every day, on their own. Just head to your local playground and you’ll see kids sprinting during a game of tag or simply running from one side of the playground to the other to see who can get to the swings first. With this in mind, you can introduce your kids to running longer distances by teaching them fun running games. Things like relay races or “animal tag” will encourage young runners while keeping and holding their attention.

4) Teach them about pacing. Little kids have two paces: lightning fast and walking. Once your child is interested in running longer distances (more than a minute or so, for most kids!) you will need to teach them about pacing. Let them know that starting slow many not feel as fun at first, but it will allow them to run farther before they get tired. This will make running for longer durations more enjoyable for your child.

5) Encourage—never discourage. Never make running a punishment, and never speak condescendingly to your kids about their running. Things like “come on, your sister can do it, you can too!” may seem encouraging to you, but might discourage your little runner from building a healthy relationship with running. Instead, encourage and celebrate their strengths, and be understanding of the days they simply may not feel like running.

6) Ensure they have the proper gear. You don’t need to buy your kid an entire new wardrobe from some designer athletic apparel line, but you do want to make sure they have comfortable athletic gear. Sweat-wicking, lightweight clothing just like you would wear can be bought at most major department and big box stores in little kid sizes. Provide comfortable sneakers that will help encourage the natural movement of their little feet.

7) Water and fuel: Make sure your kids are taking in enough extra calories and extra water to compensate for their caloric expenditure and sweat loss. Encourage them to “fuel” their bodies with these healthy foods and water!

And finally…

8) Be accepting of their desire to run…or lack thereof. No matter how hard you try, no matter how much you encourage, some kids may have absolutely zero desire to run. And that is okay. Instead, encourage healthy movement and exercise through other physical activities or sports that pique their interest. Don’t give up hope; they may come around and enjoy running one day.

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How To Get Heard In Your Relationships: The Power Of Active Listening

There is nothing worse than not feeling heard. You’ve probably encountered a bad listener at a party, at work, or even in your personal life. It’s the person who continues to talk without pausing for you to get a word in, and when you do finally get the chance they don’t ask any follow-up questions because they probably didn’t even hear what you said. 

In general, most people are not good listeners, but it isn’t always intentional. If you think about a world in which the majority of human beings have not been properly supported or validated, you would realize that we have a large population of individuals who long to feel heard and thus would prefer talking to listening.

Listening is a skill that can be strengthened or weakened depending on many variables. Personality, upbringing, levels of frustration, mindfulness, and empathy can all play a part in whether someone is a good or bad listener. When I work with couples in my practice I almost always have one partner who can’t listen and a partner who doesn’t feel heard. These couples come in to work on “communication,” but it’s less about what’s being said and more about what isn’t being heard. 

In this context, the reason for poor listening is usually due to escalated feelings or defensiveness because one partner feels attacked or judged by their partner’s expression of dissatisfaction or hurt. When any of us become activated or dysregulated by strong feelings we organically have a much harder time hearing what the other person is trying to say. This is why two people in an argument might just yell at each other without any ability to resolve the problem. Your brain’s prefrontal cortex takes in information from an external source in a way that allows for reflection. This is easy when you’re calm and focused, but when you or someone you’re trying to talk to gets upset, that part of the brain goes offline and a more primitive part of the brain takes over. This reptilian-like part of the brain just wants to defend and protect; it doesn’t want to hear and resolve.

The good news, however, is that human beings are wired for resolution and reconciliation. We are actually driven to make amends and resolve things peacefully. We want nothing more than to get along and feel loved and connected. This is why we work so hard and stay in difficult relationships for so long. We want them to work even if it means literally fighting for that to happen. Getting out of our own way and learning how to really listen is possible for anyone if the willingness and vulnerability required can be tolerated.

The technique I love the most for becoming a better listener is called active listening. It requires the person on the receiving end to do two things. First, they need to make themselves present and available through eye contact and body language by looking at and facing their partner. Second, they need to repeat back what they hear verbatim.

There are no interpretations, perspectives, or opinions allowed. This is a very difficult process not only because it’s not how we’re used to communicating, but also because it requires the listener to stay out of their own head and really hear what’s being said. Normally we are constantly building our response, story, explanation, or defense in our own minds while our partner is talking. This makes it impossible to remain present. This exercise forces the listener to set aside their own agenda long enough to really hear what they need to hear.

This technique is especially well-suited for difficult conversations (such as arguments with a spouse) and for expressing support. Research suggests that using this technique can help others feel more understood and improve relationship satisfaction. Active listening can be used with other people in your life, such as students, co-workers, or your children. It strengthens trust and can also serve as a means to get away from escalated and cyclical arguments by preventing miscommunication. When you express an active interest in what another person has to say and make him or her feel heard, you foster empathy and connection and reduce the risk of making others feel neglected, disrespected, and resentful.

This communication technique can feel awkward and hokey at first, but without the ability to listen or feel heard you run the risk of increased stress, poor relationship health, and even losing out on the opportunity for the increased happiness that comes with deeper connections. Active listening isn’t just about improving your communication style, it’s also a way to improve your overall well-being.

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Healthy Travel: The Importance Of Vaccinations

When we first start making travel plans we often put a great deal of thought into where exactly we want to go. We’ll spend hours researching destinations and looking for the best deals on airfare, accommodations, food, and activities once we get there. Unfortunately, we don’t always put the same amount of effort into learning about the health issues we might face while traveling. These challenges could potentially have a major impact on how much we enjoy our trip, not to mention our long-term health after we return home.
Generally speaking, the health risks tend to be quite low with domestic travel. But venture abroad and it becomes an entirely different story. Many international destinations can expose travelers to a wide variety of viruses and parasites, some of which can be extremely dangerous or even life threatening. That’s why it is important to understand exactly what you’re dealing with before you go and to prepare yourself as best you can.
Both the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and the World Health Organization (WHO) can provide up-to-date information regarding health concerns for the destinations that you plan to visit. The two organizations not only list viruses that have historically existed in countries around the globe, but they also track current outbreaks—such as Ebola or Zika—that could be of concern as well.
Beyond that, however, the CDC and WHO are both great resources for travelers because they can tell you exactly which vaccinations and medications you’ll need when visiting a new country. They’ll also provide current travel alerts about which regions should be avoided altogether.
Before setting out on a trip, be sure to consult either one of these websites—or better yet talk to your doctor about which vaccinations are necessary for your planned destination. Getting immunized before you go will not only allow you to stay safe and healthy while on the road, but it will also prevent the spread of dangerous diseases to other regions.
Most doctors recommend that travelers be immunized against measles, mumps, tetanus, polio, diphtheria, rubella, and whooping cough no matter where they are going. For many of us, those are all vaccinations that we got as children, which means we generally are immunized against those threats. Some, like tetanus for example, require an occasional booster from time to time, however.
Of more concern for travelers are the viruses that they don’t encounter regularly, so they haven’t built up any sort of immunity to or been vaccinated against them. These include yellow fever, malaria, dengue fever, typhoid, and hepatitis. Each of these diseases can be extremely dangerous, but most of them can be prevented through the use of vaccines or medications.
Travel vaccinations can be expensive, and since they are nonessential and voluntary, they are often not covered by insurance. Because of this, many people choose not to spend their time or money getting the shots and medications that they need to keep them safe while on the road. Staying within your travel budget is important, of course, but not at the expense of your health or the health of others. If you get sick, you could end up spreading a virus to someone else, which then makes the cost of getting immunized seem inconsequential.
It is also important to note that some countries will not allow visitors to enter without showing proof that they have actually gotten immunized against certain diseases. When you get your travel shots you should be given a yellow immunization card that provides a record of the date and type of vaccinations that you’ve received. This is normally kept with your passport and shown to immigration control officers when entering a foreign country. Failure to show the proper records could mean that you won’t be allowed in and will be sent home on the next available flight out. That would be a sad way to end a trip that had taken so long to plan.
If it’s not abundantly clear by now, travel vaccinations are something we all need to take seriously. While they do add expense to the cost of a trip, they are also essential for staying healthy and helping to prevent the spread of dangerous viruses to other parts of the world. If you’re planning a trip to an exotic locale in the near future, be sure take some time to find out what health threats you could face there and get the proper medications and immunizations 4-6 weeks in advance. That way your body has time to adapt to the vaccine and you’ll be fully prepared by the time you set out.

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How To Be Compassionate To Yourself

Have you ever noticed how much we talk about self-esteem? From the time that we’re very young, we learn that it’s important to feel good about ourselves. It’s not a bad thing, really. After all, confidence is the key to success and long-term contentment. But self-esteem has its limits. It is usually dependent on our performance, and therefore can waver, which means it isn’t a reliable source of comfort when we may need it the most. 

For example, if I bomb a work presentation or ruin my New Year’s resolution of taking it easy on the sugar by bingeing on peanut M&Ms, I can’t reach for self-esteem to make me feel better. A few years ago, Dr. Kristin Neff introduced a new idea to help us reframe this discussion. Whereas self-esteem is how we evaluate ourselves, the concept of self-compassion refers to how we treat ourselves. Let’s explore this a bit further.

Self-esteem is related to how unique we are, how successful how we are, and how well we can hide our shortcomings. By contrast, self-compassion is something that everyone deserves, doesn’t require success, and is always available, even in the face of mistakes. 

As a therapist who has worked with many individuals who berate and judge themselves harshly, I can tell you that self-compassion is much more important than self-esteem. Though some may initially think that being compassionate toward ourselves is self-indulgent, in reality self-compassion allows us to look outward to others once we’ve made peace with ourselves. The more patient you are with yourself, the more you have to give to others. And when it comes to compassion, it’s safe to say that women are usually pretty compassionate in nature, but sadly are often not very kind to themselves. Here are some strategies to help you increase the amount of compassion you show toward yourself.

The first thing you can do is to tune in to your own suffering. Often when we’re in pain we want to avoid our feelings, but I challenge you instead to be brave enough to acknowledge them. 

If you feel guilty for yelling at your kids, for example, don’t shy away from your shame. Look at the situation without making less or more of it. This is not self-pity, it’s simply an evaluation of your own emotions in the present moment. You’ll be more compassionate if you can be honest with yourself about what’s going on. Then practice self-kindness. This goes beyond simply saying nice things to yourself. It’s an opportunity for real self-soothing. Imagine if a friend came to you when she was experiencing something really tough. You’d likely say reassuring things to her, but you’d also just sit with her and let her know that you cared about her. 

Let’s try that same technique on ourselves. Be as kind to yourself as you’d be to someone else. Even on your worst days, you deserve it. The truth is that there are times when no one else is available (physically or emotionally) to help you feel better, so be there for yourself; that’s essentially what self-compassion is.

Speaking from personal experience, I can tell you that self-compassion works. It feels really good. I’ve practiced it on myself several times in this past year when I was experiencing overwhelming pressure from some of the professional projects I’ve been involved in. I allowed myself to be aware of my own pain, then found ways to soothe it, whether through self-talk or giving myself a hug (sometimes literally!) 

Although culturally we’re not trained to give ourselves the gift of kindness that we offer so freely to others, we can develop self-compassion as a way to help ourselves cope and find peace during our struggles.

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Inside The New Brothing Craze

I don’t get the whole juice fasting fad. I believe that fruit is a snack or a nice accompaniment to a meal, not a meal itself. My belly and body think that if you don’t chew it, it won’t satisfy you…proven by the fact that I can drink the apparent equivalent of an orange grove and still want to chew my arm off. Same goes for soup. It seems to me to be more of a hot beverage than an actual meal. 

So I was kind of skeptical (and admittedly a bit curious) when I heard that brothing (drinking the liquid part of soup) was the “new juicing.” Clearly juice has vitamins and minerals and other stuff that’s super-dee-duper good, but what the heck could the juice of chicken noodle soup do for me? Apparently, a whole lot.

Broths (or brodo, in Italian) have been around for centuries, dating back to prehistoric times when our ancestors probably made their soups by dropping fire-heated rocks into the stomachs of whatever animals they managed to kill. They knew it was good for them and so it evolved into a staple in virtually every corner of the world. 

Broth is made by boiling the bones of chickens, turkeys, cows (or the animal of your choice) with veggies and herbs, then straining the solid parts and consuming the liquid. This “juice” contains all of the benefits of the veggies, plus the collagen, gelatin, and amino acids of the bones. Broths contain healing compounds that can do incredible things for the human body like:

  • Soothe your belly. The gelatin in bone broth protects and heals the lining of your digestive tract and helps aid in the absorption of nutrients. It also promotes the growth of probiotics (the good bacteria in your stomach).
  • Soothe your mind. The amino acid glycine (found in bone broth) has been found to calm nerves and anxiety.
  • Improve bone density. The calcium that leaches out of the bones into the stock is in the perfect form to be readily absorbed into your body to help fight osteoporosis and strengthen bones.
  • Reduce joint pain and inflammation. The glucosamine in bone broth can actually stimulate the growth of new collagen, repair damaged joints, and reduce pain and inflammation. The gelatin in bones also contains glycine, an amino acid that promotes healthy cartilage and joints.
  • Fight colds and flu. Studies show that the yellow fat from chickens holds immune-boosting powers and that eating chicken soup when you have a respiratory infection reduces the number of white blood cells, which contribute to flu and cold symptoms.
  • Keep you in optimal health. Bone broth contains minerals from the bones that are not only abundant but easy for your body to assimilate.
  • Help you look younger. The collagen and gelatin in bone broth support hair growth, help to keep your nails strong, and smooth out wrinkles, keeping you looking healthy and youthful.
  • Help you lose weight. Bone broth is low in calories and low in sugar (unlike juices), which keeps your blood sugar stable, a key to weight loss and feeling full.

If you’re interested in “brodo-ing,” or experimenting with brothing, you can visit some of the cool new brodo places popping up in major cities, or you can make broth yourself. It’s cheap and super easy to make. You can use the carcass of a chicken or beef bones leftover from dinner along with some veggies, or buy meat on sale and strain it. Here’s a fast and easy recipe for chicken broth.

(Recipe from www.tasteofhome.com)

EASY CHICKEN BROTH

TOTAL TIME: Prep: 10 min. Cook: 2-1/2 hours + chilling

MAKES: 6 servings

Ingredients:

  • 2-1/2 pounds bony chicken pieces
  • 2 celery ribs with leaves, cut into chunks
  • 2 medium carrots, cut into chunks
  • 2 medium onions, quartered
  • 2 bay leaves
  • 1/2 teaspoon dried rosemary, crushed
  • 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
  • 8 to 10 whole peppercorns
  • 2 quarts cold water

Directions

1. Place all ingredients in a soup kettle. Slowly bring to a boil; reduce heat. Skim foam. Cover and simmer for 2 hours.

2. Set chicken aside until it is cool enough to handle. Remove meat from the bones. Discard bones; save the meat for another use. Strain broth, discarding vegetables and seasonings. Refrigerate for 8 hours or overnight. Skim fat from the surface. Yield: about 6 cups.

Nutritional Facts

1 serving (1 cup) equals 245 calories, 14 g fat (4 g saturated fat), 61 mg cholesterol, 80 mg sodium, 8 g carbohydrate, 2 g fiber, 21 g protein.