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The Art Of Procrastination: Just The Right Amount Of Nothing

Recent research reveals that just the right amount of procrastination may be the perfect thing to spawn originality and creativity. About one-fifth of the adult population would identify themselves as chronic procrastinators. All-in-all procrastination gets a bad rap—but wait (no pun intended) there is a real possibility that it isn’t a bad thing for everyone all the time. In fact, according to Adam Grant in his new book, Originals: How Non-Conformists Move the World, the fine art of procrastination may be the driving force behind more highly creative thought. 

Grant has been able to identify that a dose of procrastination may be the ticket to the fountain of creativity. He highlights famous procrastinators—such as Frank Lloyd Wright, Bill Clinton, and Steve Jobs—to make the argument that some very creative and productive people procrastinate. For the rest of us, he points to research showing that being given a task and then being asked to delay working on it produces something called divergent thinking—the very stuff of creativity.

Divergent thinking pulls information in from lateral thoughts and ideas. If I asked you how many uses can you think of for a paper clip, the answers would be drawn from divergent thinking. Grant’s central point about this delay in responding is that creativity doesn’t happen in spite of procrastination—it happens because of it. Waiting awhile after a task has been initiated gives us the advantage of generating more thoughts about the project. More thoughts increase the likelihood of some of them being better than the initial ones generated.

Adam Grant identifies himself as a pre-crastinator—meaning that he often completes material ahead of time, long before the deadline. As the youngest professor of management and psychology at the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania, he found that getting things done sooner rather than later has served him well. But after one of his students, Jihae Shin, challenged his pre-crastinistic tendencies, he has begun to mend his ways. Shin was able to show a link between workers who procrastinate and a higher rating by their supervisors on their creativity. 

As it turns out, too little procrastination cuts off lateral or divergent thinking—and delaying working on something too long produces anxiety and stems the flow of the creative juices. This should inspire us to build in a bit of delay to help open up our thoughts. As a writer, I’ve always found this helpful. I’ll write something and put it away for at least a few days. When I come back to it through the lens of fresh eyes, my mind has generated some renewed and (almost always) better thinking.

So which are you? Are you a pre-crastinator? Or a procrastinator? If you get everything done early you may be robbing yourself of more leisurely and creative thought. Getting things done without letting them incubate produces fairly predictable results that generally lack originality. On the other hand, if you’re procrastinating too long the pressure to produce also limits the production of more original or creative responses. If we wait too long we typically default to a less inspired creation. Why not try an experiment and let one of your projects simmer for a little bit and see what happens? Not too long or short—but just the right amount.

I’ve given this some thought and I think I’m an amateur-crastinator. I definitely don’t do things ahead of time—but I’m not a pro just yet. I’ve yet to find the perfect amount of time to delay a task. This is something I plan to work on.

Tomorrow.

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3 Secrets For Finding The Strength To Change Your Life

Nearly everyone wants to be a role model or a good example for others—especially their kids and loved ones. But that massive pool of people who desire to become strong leaders shrinks down to a puddle-size group of people who are actually willing to put in the work it takes to be effective.

Leadership requires personal growth and development, and just like muscular growth and development, it hurts!

If you are willing to start your training, here are the key character-building exercises we all need for personal development.

1) Flexibility

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What do we do with tight muscles? We stretch them. When we stretch a muscle, we move that muscle beyond what is comfortable in order to become more flexible, healthy, and mobile. Just like stretching a muscle, we need to stretch ourselves in life if we want to expand our reach. Like stretching, this will be uncomfortable—and even painful at times.

If we stay exactly where we are, avoiding ever going past our comfortable reach, we will actually shrink back even more—just like muscles respond when they’re no longer being stretched. The more we stay in our safe little box the more we will tend to hide out there, venturing out less and less. I know this because this is so me! I hate getting out of my box! But I know I need to do it. We all do.

If you want to make a bigger impact on this world, improve your reach and expand your horizons, you will have to purposefully stretch yourself regularly. This means going past your comfort zone and just showing up, ready and willing to be pulled, bent, moved, and twisted beyond what is pleasant or easy.

I personally have never been as stretched as I was when I decided to do the Mrs. Florida pageant. I would have rather sung the national anthem, led a workout, or given a speech (all within my comfortable range of motion). I fought every second of it, but continued going out of my box daily despite how uncomfortable it was.

2) Resistance Training

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Personal growth requires heaving lifting, but are you staying in the same old routine? Or maybe you prefer a lighter load and avoiding heavy lifting altogether. If you want to grow, you will have to do some intense resistance training, which means you will have to lift more than you can bear right now.

Some of this will be by choice and some of this will not be welcome at all. When my husband and I went through marital struggles, I had burdens so heavy I thought I was going to fall flat. I was weighed down with so much that I was forced to use all the spiritual muscles I had in order to stand strong. Through this heavy lifting, I grew way beyond what I could have experienced if life had gone smoothly.

We all like to feel strong. So, what do we do? We tend to hang out in our strengths. In the world of fitness, that means we lift the weights we can lift and avoid the workouts we are weak in. It’s completely natural. You would think if we lifted heavier we’d feel stronger, but we don’t—not right away at least. At first, we feel even weaker.

Lifting heavier makes us struggle, strain, hurt, and leave feeling like a failure. It is only with repetitive heavy lifting that we begin to experience growth and start feeling stronger. Our growth depends on it. This is where the next step to personal growth comes in.

3) Endurance Training

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We have to stretch ourselves. We have to lift heavier loads and now we have to push ourselves to persevere. This is called endurance training. As you know, you don’t get more flexible with one stretch or get stronger with one heavy lift. Getting stronger requires a continual work and going the distance.

In fitness, pushing yourself may be entering a marathon or contest. It could mean dieting longer than you have ever stuck to a diet plan before. In the gym, it could simply mean committing to a long-lasting fitness program and sticking with your routine way past when you normally would quit.

Growth requires perseverance. We can’t expect to be overnight successes with anything in life, whether it’s a dream, a job, a marriage, or just becoming a better you. Growth will require continual work, from the moment you wake up to the moment you go to sleep—because at any given time you could be faced with the temptation to quit, cheat, or give in.

What does this mean for personal growth? It means you will only grow when you are pushed beyond the point where you would normally quit.

Get to Work

So, if you want to improve your personal development, you will need to start your training today! Now is the time to think about all the things you have wanted to do—or think about the person you have always wanted to be—and start doing all the things that are necessary to get there. It will require a commitment to stretching yourself, pushing against heavy resistance, and persevering even when you want to quit—but it will be worth it. Stretch, lift, endure, and grow.

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What Is Your Acne Trying To Tell You About Your Health?

I always thought acne was just the result of stress and poor eating habits. Although those can be contributing causes, I’ve recently discovered there are quite a few other reasons for breakouts. Specific health problems may result in acne on different parts of your face.
I was amazed. I never knew my acne could mean I had other health problems. Traditional Chinese medicine holds that each area of the face coincides with a different health issue, so it’s important to listen to what your body is telling you.

Upper Forehead and Urinary Issues

I personally experienced this one, and I can honestly say that drinking more water helped clear up the acne on my upper forehead.
A concentration of acne in this area may mean the bladder and gastrointestinal tract aren’t functioning correctly. Add some more water and fiber to your diet to improve your health and acne.

Lower Forehead and Heart

Acne on your lower forehead could mean your heart isn’t as healthy as it should be. I’ve noticed that when I’m not feeling well and stop exercising for a few weeks I tend to break out more in this area.
Take it as a sign to exercise more, eat better, and live a healthier lifestyle.

Ears and Kidneys

More water is needed if you’re seeing acne around your ears. I had a minor kidney infection once and my ears tried to warn me. Since I’ve been drinking more water, ear acne is a rarity.

Eyes and Liver

The entire area around the eyes—including between them—could be a sign your liver isn’t healthy. Alcohol, fatty and sugary foods, and even too much dairy could be the cause. Opt for fruits, vegetables, and other healthy choices to feel better and reduce the acne.

Upper Cheeks and Lungs

Your upper cheeks tie in to your respiratory system. If you’re a smoker, live in a busy city, or rarely exercise, you might see numerous blemishes in this area. Fresh air and cardio are your two best friends.

Outer Chin and Hormones

Stress and hormones are the usual culprits when it comes to outer chin acne. When I don’t sleep well or I’m stressing out, I always break out here, and this is where I break out most often. My advice: Rest and try to relax. Look for an herbalist or naturopath who can recommend supplements to help moderate your hormones.

Center Chin and Stomach

Your stomach and small intestines may be having issues if you’re seeing acne in the center of your chin. More fiber and water often help. Excess stress can cause digestive problems that lead to chin acne.

Neck and Immune System

I’ve noticed I always break out on my neck and chest when I get sick. The acne’s just trying to tell me that my immune system is working overtime and isn’t as strong as it should be.
If you’re seeing acne here and you’re not currently sick, it could be a sign that you’re getting sick or aren’t living a healthy lifestyle. Make sure you’re exercising, eating well, and getting enough sleep to keep your immune system strong.

Acne Doesn’t Lie

I used to panic over every zit; I was certain I was falling apart. But remember that acne doesn’t always mean you have a health problem. It could be a hormone fluctuation from stress or your menstrual cycle. It may even be a medication you’re taking.
I only pay attention now if I have a concentrated outbreak in a specific area. Usually changing up my routine—such as eating better and getting more water instead of soda—helps dramatically.

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What Are The Healthiest Flours To Add To Your Baking?

Maybe you’re a fan of baking your own bread or maybe you crave a slice of banana bread with your morning tea. For many of us, nothing says home cooking like fresh baked goods, but not all baked goods are created equal. In fact, the white refined flours that are often used in our favorite baked goods can add pounds to the scale while providing little nutritional bang for your buck. Why not try baking with healthier flour options instead?

The Problem with White Flour

Most baked goods are made with white flour, which is wheat flour that has been stripped of its two main components: the bran and the germ. This gives baked goods a lighter texture, and although your bread may be light and airy, it lacks much of the nutrition that it once had. For example, the B vitamins and iron have been removed, as well as the fiber. When white carbohydrates like white flour break down in the system, the body treats them just like it would white sugar. So in the end, refined white flour—just like refined white sugar—can lead to weight gain.

Going Gluten-Free

Fortunately, when it comes to choosing a better flour, a number of options have become available, including gluten-free flours. If you suffer from celiac disease, which is an autoimmune response and severe allergy to gluten, you can try a number of gluten-free options that make for tasty baked goods. If you have a less severe gluten sensitivity or allergy, you may want to experiment with the many gluten-free options too.

Some good options include nut and seed flours such almond, quinoa, and corn flours. Coconut flour and almond flour, which I’ll discuss in depth below, are two of my favorites. If you’re looking for a lighter, airy flour to add to baked bread, all-purpose gluten-free flour is likely your best choice.

Deliciously Healthy Flour Options

Whole Wheat Flour

Just as you might guess, whole wheat flour is white flour before it’s been processed.

This means that the bran and the germ—and therefore all the important nutrients—are still intact. Whole wheat flour contains protein, fiber, and B vitamins, as well as trace minerals like iron and magnesium. A diet rich in whole, unprocessed grains has been shown to reduce the risk of type 2 diabetes, heart disease, and even some forms of cancer. Whole wheat flour can be heavier than white flour in some recipes, especially cakes and pastries, but it works well in homemade breads. The best way to make your end product less dense is to use half whole wheat flour and half white flour, or use whole wheat pastry flour, which also has a lighter feel.

Spelt Flour

Spelt flour can be substituted for white flour in many baking recipes including cookies, sweet breads, and cakes. But unlike white flour, it has a ton of health benefits. Spelt is known for its ability to regulate the body’s metabolism, increase circulation, build strong bones, lower blood sugar, and reduce cholesterol in the body. Spelt is also high in protein and fiber as well as trace minerals such as iron, zinc, and selenium.

Coconut Flour

Coconut flour is made from the solids of a coconut that have been ground into a fine flour. It’s one of my favorite flours because it’s both delicious and loaded with nutrition. It works really well in pancakes and muffins. Coconut flour is high in protein, fiber, iron, and vitamin C, and unlike many flours, it contains beneficial fats called medium-chain triglycerides (MCTs), which have been shown to boost metabolism.

Almond Flour

Almond flour is just almonds ground into a soft flour. It’s rich in healthy fats and protein as well as micronutrients such as vitamin E, magnesium, and calcium. Almond flour is a bit denser than some other flours, so when you’re baking cakes and cookies, you may want to add in some white flour or pastry flour to lighten up the batter for your almond flour recipes.

With so many delicious and nutrient-dense flour options available today, baking just got a whole lot healthier.

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On The Run: What To Do When Animals Attack

As the saying goes, the best way to avoid a bear attack is to make sure you run faster than your slowest friend. 

Come on, you know you laughed. 

But on a serious note, while it makes a hilarious joke and a potentially unfortunate situation for your slower friends, the truth is that animal attacks are something that endurance athletes—runners, cyclists, and swimmers alike—truly do have to consider as a real possibility. 

When it comes to running, we are exposed to a number of dangers. One of the more obvious ones, aside from distracted drivers, is encounters with wild and even domestic animals. Although we are conditioned to fear aggressive and territorial dogs, animal attacks don’t stop there. Personally, I’ve experienced everything from being chased by an angry goose to nearly tripping over a deer when rounding a blind corner. And although they are rare, attacks from animals such as bears, mountain lions, and coyotes are not unheard of.

As always, knowledge is power: Here are a few tips on how to prevent animal encounters and what to do if they happen. 

Avoid areas where aggressive animals are known to live. This is perhaps one of those “easier said than done” tips. But if you know of an area where, say, a mother bear and her cubs are known to frequent, avoid running there during cub season. Or more realistically, if you know of an area or neighborhood where people tend to let their dogs roam free—or worse, not care for their dogs—avoid running through that area.

If you see an animal from a distance, steer clear if possible. Many animals only attack if they feel you are a threat to themselves, their offspring, or their territory. Staying as far away as possible may limit the potential for an attack. Retreat slowly, if you can, and keep your eyes on the animal while you do so. If you must continue on your path, slow down and give the animal time to leave the area.

Do not panic. The saying that “animals can sense fear” is absolutely true. Panicking can let the animal know that you are vulnerable, and may provoke an attack. Stay as calm as possible.

Don’t run. If an animal does approach you, don’t run unless you are absolutely certain you can reach a safe spot almost immediately. You will not be able to outrun a dog, bear, mountain lion, etc. Instead, running will trigger the animal’s instinct to attack.

Tall and loud. For most animal encounters, instead of running, it is advised that you stand your ground. When it comes to dogs, experts agree that standing very still and acting “boring” will cause the dog to lose interest. When it comes to bears and other wild animals, oftentimes if you identify yourself as a human by standing tall and talking calmly, the animal will shy away. If the wild animal acts aggressively, try using a loud, firm voice, and throwing rocks or sticks at it to try to scare it away, especially in the case of bears or mountain lions. When it comes to dogs, however, waving or throwing items may instigate an attack. In any case, your voice must be firm, calm, and loud; any shrieking or sounds of fear can be sensed by the animal and may trigger an attack response.

If you are attacked: If you are attacked by a domestic dog, try your best to cover your head and face to prevent soft tissue damage. Remember, the dog will lose interest and may retreat. But if you are attacked by a bear, mountain lion, wolf, or any other wild animal, fight back with any possible method. In all instances, a product like mace, pepper spray, or bear spray may help ward off the animal. Continue to yell loudly and firmly for help. 

We cannot avoid doing the things we love simply out of fear, but we can take precautions to lessen the potential danger and educate ourselves about what to do if we encounter danger. Hopefully, any animal encounters you have will end up being as hilarious as the time I was chased by a goose. But if not, please keep these tips in the back of your mind, just in case.

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Is Your Phone Making You Fat?

It’s 10:00 at night and you’re texting with your friend on your smartphone while watching the latest episode of House of Cards on your Mac. Sound familiar? It should be. Polls conducted by the National Sleep Foundation show that 95 percent of Americans use some sort (or multiple sorts) of technology an hour before bed. Most of us don’t realize that this is a big problem.

Research reveals that using digital technology such as smartphones, iPads, computers, and some TV screens up to an hour before bedtime can disturb sleep schedules. The light from these screens messes with evening sleepiness and melatonin (the hormone that causes you to feel sleepy) because it confuses your circadian rhythm. 

Your circadian rhythm—also known as your body’s internal clock—is a 24-hour cycle determined by light and other environmental factors. Your circadian rhythm tells your body when it’s time to sleep, get up, eat, and other processes. It also determines when your body releases melatonin, which is essential for sleep. 

Basically, because of circadian rhythm, when bright light is present in your environment, your body knows it’s time to wake up. The trouble with using blue screen technology is that the screens are so bright during the evening/night (an odd time) that your body is tricked into believing that the sun is coming up and you should wake up. So it wakes up! This leads to restless nights and sleep deprivation.

What happens when you don’t get enough sleep? Nothing good, that’s for sure! Studies have also found that those who are consistently sleep deprived have trouble with short-term memory and cognitive function.

Sleep deprivation has also been linked to psychological disorders such as anxiety and depression, and physical disorders such as diabetes, heart disease, cancer, and obesity.

A Harvard study that put 10 people on a schedule that messed with their circadian rhythms found that participants’ blood sugar levels increased and their levels of leptin—the hormone that makes you feel full after eating—decreased. The participants became pre-diabetic and reported feeling hungrier and eating more all day.

But you like to keep connected at night and watch your favorite Netflix obsession, you say. I’m with you! Here are some suggestions we can all use to help us be healthier, brighter eyed, and more energized for the next day.

  • Avoid looking at bright screens 2–3 hours before bed.
  • Switch back to paper books or use a Kindle or non–blue-light-emitting device to read.
  • Get lots of bright light outside during the day. Outdoor sunlight is best.
  • Try using dim, red lights as nightlights. Red lights have the least power to mess with your circadian rhythm. Candlelight also works!
  • Use blue-blocking glasses when reading or watching a show at night.
  • Install a program on your computer that automatically adjusts the color and brightness of your screen.
  • Charge your phone in another room at night so that notifications don’t wake you (and you’re not tempted to check email in the middle of the night).
  • Don’t use your phone as an alarm clock.
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Adding Insult To Injury: Male Infertility May Predict Other Health Problems

Masculinity is a complicated thing. And there’s no more masculine way for a man to express his, well, masculinity than by making babies. That explains why being infertile or having erectile dysfunction (ED) is so strongly connected with depression (in both directions—depression itself can cause ED, and ED and/or fertility problems can cause depression). Infertility is already difficult enough on its own, but unfortunately new research has found that infertile men are significantly more likely to suffer from a variety of other health conditions as well.
As odd as it sounds, the health of a man’s sperm may offer some valuable insights into his overall health.
Between 10 and 15 percent of American couples are “infertile,” a rather loaded term that the Mayo Clinic defines as “not being able to get pregnant despite having frequent, unprotected sex for at least a year.” We have a tendency to think of fertility problems as a women’s issue. But the truth is that men are just as likely as women to be the “cause” of infertility. (In 40 percent of cases it’s a female issue, 40 percent of the time it’s a male issue, and in the remaining 20 percent of cases the cause is “unexplained.”)
As everyone knows, we men are generally reluctant (or, as some would say, “self-destructively unwilling”) to see a healthcare provider for regular checkups or to take care of our own bodies. However, we’re more willing to get checked out if we think it will help a loved one (such as a wife or girlfriend who wants to get pregnant). This creates an odd situation where the first doctor some men see in their adult lives is a fertility specialist (who in most cases is an obstetrician/gynecologist), and the even odder situation where a women’s doctor might save a man’s life by identifying a potentially life-threatening medical condition.

Sperm: the Window to a Man’s Health?

The first (and, arguably, the most fun) test the doctor will order for the man is a semen analysis to identify possible fertility-affecting problems. Specifically, the doctor will look at semen volume (that’s the fluid that carries the sperm), quantity (the number of sperm per milliliter of semen), motility (are your boys moving around well enough to get them all the way through the female reproductive tract?), and morphology (the percentage of your sperm that are shaped normally).
Michael Eisenberg, director of male reproductive medicine and surgery at Stanford University School of Medicine, and his colleagues reviewed insurance claim data from 115,000 men (average age of 33) and divided them into three groups: those who had been diagnosed with infertility, those whose fertility wasn’t in question, and those who’d had a vasectomy (which the researcher took as an indication of fertility). Their goal was to determine whether the infertile men were more likely to develop health complications than those in the other two groups.
What they found was pretty shocking: Infertile men were 48 percent more likely than fertile (or vasectomized) men to develop heart disease and 30 percent more likely to develop diabetes, even after factoring out obesity and smoking. They also had a far higher risk of having kidney disease or abusing alcohol.
As always, it’s important to remember that correlation is not the same as causation. In other words, infertility doesn’t necessarily cause heart disease, diabetes, kidney disease, or anything else. Likewise, none of those conditions is likely to cause infertility.
Eisenberg suspects that something that happened during fetal development—such as exposure to an environmental hazard—might be responsible for fertility and other health issues in adult life.
Bottom line: If you’re dealing with reproductive issues, consider that a reminder to get a checkup. Catching any potential health problems now will help your doctor put together a strategy and interventions to lower your risk. If you don’t want to do it for yourself, do it for your partner and your future baby. They need you to be alive and healthy for a long, long time.

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5 Traits Of Successful Runners

If you asked most people what traits they think are important for someone who wants to be a successful runner you’d likely hear terms like “fast” and “strong” getting mentioned. Although those are indeed nice qualities to have, they don’t necessarily make someone a successful runner. In fact, the best traits a runner can possess are often not physical at all, but instead are intangible qualities that help set them apart from the crowd and even give them an edge over someone who is quicker and more agile than they are. With that in mind, here are five traits that every successful runner possesses.

Tenacity 

Let’s face it: Running is not an easy form of exercise to get into. It can be downright grueling on both your lungs and your legs at times, particularly when you’re first starting out. Those early days of running can often be cruel, and it doesn’t always get better later on when you’re ramping up your speed and distance, either. It is tough enough that at times you’ll wonder why you ever decided to take up the sport.

But successful runners are tenacious. They force themselves to push through the pain and adversity, even when their body is begging them to stop. Over time, that tenacity begins to pay off in the form of increased cardio fitness and better overall strength. But in order to get to that point, we must be willing to suffer a bit along the way and push ourselves to our physical limits from time to time.

Consistency 

One of the keys to becoming a successful runner is staying consistent with your workouts. That means setting a training schedule and sticking to it as closely as you can. The only way to become a better runner is to run on a regular basis, which isn’t always easy when you lead a busy lifestyle.

But good runners don’t just find the time to run, they make time to run. It is the constant repetition over countless miles that helps build strength and conditioning, creating successful runners in the process. If you want to see progress, be consistent with your training.

Short Memory 

It may seem counterintuitive, but it’s true: Successful runners often have a short memory when it comes to both their successes and failures. In other words, they don’t dwell on how well or poorly they’ve performed on any given day but instead recognize that there will be some training sessions that go great and others that will seem like a struggle. This is natural, of course, and being able to shrug off the bad days will allow you to continue to focus on long-term goals rather than overanalyzing why things didn’t go as planned.

Focused 

Very successful runners are often highly focused individuals too. They set goals for themselves and work hard to achieve them. Whether they want to run a 5K, 10K, or a half or full marathon, they commit themselves to a training program and focus on getting physically and mentally ready for the challenge ahead. It is this focus that helps see them through the more difficult segments of their preparation and keeps them training even when it feels like progress is slow or nonexistent.

Confidence 

Perhaps the most important trait of all is confidence. It is the feeling that comes with knowing that your running workouts have paid off and your fitness goals are within reach. It is an inner strength that reassures you that you’re on the right path and that no matter what challenges lie ahead, you’re ready for them. Confidence doesn’t mean complacency, however. It’s just knowing that you are ready to push yourself even harder, and that your body will respond positively to the new goals that you set for yourself.

The best part about this list of traits is that you’re not necessarily born with any of them, but they are instead developed over time. And as you become a stronger runner physically, these individual qualities will continue to grow too, making you more mentally tough over time as well.

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Motherhood

Pregnancy Weight Doesn't Have To Be Permanent

Pregnancy weight can be difficult to lose, but I’m here to tell you that it doesn’t have to be a permanent addition to your waistline, hips, or chest. As a mom to seven children, I know all about pregnancy weight gain and losing weight after pregnancies. If you are feeling frustrated and about ready to give up on losing those pregnancy pounds, there is hope.
One of those most common reactions I get when people find out I have seven children is, “Wow! You look great.” In fact, the other day when my family and I were at a concert, one lady actually said to me, “Why aren’t you fat?” Okay, that was a little rude of her to say, but she brings up a good point. There is often a perception that pregnancies make women fat, especially when there are multiple pregnancies involved.
The good news is that you don’t have to live your life after pregnancy struggling with your weight or feeling fat. You can get the pregnancy weight off, but it takes work.
There have been research studies that show that women who gained too much weight in pregnancy and didn’t lose it within about six months are more likely to be obese for the long term.
That’s depressing.
In case you were wondering, I was morbidly obese during my second and third pregnancies, lost 150 pounds after the third pregnancy, and managed to get back to a healthy weight after each of the last four pregnancies.
To lose pregnancy pounds, you’ve got to focus on two concepts: Patience and endurance.
Patience is required because pregnancy weight doesn’t come on in a single month. Remember it took you about nine months to gain weight. And for the majority of women, it sure doesn’t fall off during the first 30 postpartum days.
Endurance is important because you can’t give up on yourself. Losing weight is never easy and throwing in the towel because you don’t lose weight immediately makes it likely you will just keep gaining weight, especially if there may be another pregnancy in your future.
The process for shedding pregnancy pounds is the same whether your baby is three months old or two years old. However, there are some special considerations if you are a nursing mom losing weight.

  • Eat enough calories. You shouldn’t drop your calorie level too low if you are exclusively breastfeeding. La Leche League recommends at least 1,500 calories a day. When I was breastfeeding, I ate about 1,800 calories a day and still lost the pregnancy weight fairly easily.
  • Wait about 60 days before you actively try to lose weight if you are breastfeeding. This waiting period gives you a chance to firmly establish your milk supply and not stress about weight loss.

All postpartum moms—breastfeeding or not—who want to lose weight should be concerned about nutrition, healthy eating, and exercise.
Here are a few things you can do to drop the pregnancy pounds and start feeling like your old self again.

1. Take your baby on walks.

I lost weight initially by walking, and post pregnancy was no different. As soon as your doctor gives you the green light for exercise, put your baby in the stroller and head out the door. Walking is gentle on your body but can be a good calorie burn if you walk briskly.
Mom tip: Bring a carrier such as a BabyBjörn in case your little one decides he hates the stroller mid walk. Then you can snuggle him close to you and push the empty stroller if he begins to fuss.

2. Count your calories.

Keeping track of your calories and food selections just makes sense. You can ensure you are getting enough calories whether you are breastfeeding or not, and tracking calories gives you valuable information about the quality of your diet.
Mom tip: Do this on your phone right after you eat. That way you don’t forget in the busyness of taking care of your little one.

3. Be satisfied with slow progress.

It’s tempting to want to fit back into your skinny jeans immediately but don’t rush the process. Slow progress is fine. As long as the scale is sliding down, it’s okay.
Mom tip: Remember it took you nine months to gain weight, you aren’t going to lose it all in a few weeks.

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This 7-Step Natural Beauty Routine Will Turn Back The Clock

Finding the perfect natural beauty routine means targeting the culprits that cause aging in the first place, including stress, sun damage, and dry skin. Routine self-care is essential to looking and feeling your best. Fortunately we’ve got a seven-step beauty routine that protects and restores beautiful skin.

1. Dry Brushing

Dry brushing not only helps exfoliate your skin, bringing new skin cells to the surface, it’s also beneficial to the lymphatic system. The lymphatic system is important to the body’s immune system because it transports lymph throughout the body and helps it naturally detoxify itself. Here’s how to get started dry brushing:

  • Choose a dry brush made with natural bristles.
  • Do it daily before you shower.
  • Start at the feet and move up the legs, working in long smooth strokes.
  • Always brush toward the heart, where the lymph drains.
  • Move to the arms, again working in long strokes toward the heart.
  • Finally, apply long strokes to the abdomen.

2. Abhyanga Massage

Abhyanga is an Ayurvedic self-massage that’s done with warm oil. It’s great for detoxifying the body, similar to dry brushing, but it’s also important for grounding the mind and reducing stress. If you have dry skin, it’s especially good for adding a layer of moisturizing protection before you bathe. Good choices when it comes to oil include coconut or sesame oil. Here’s how to do traditional Abhyanga massage:

  • Take a small amount of warmed oil in your hands and rub it together. Start by massaging your scalp.
  • Move on to your face, making circular motions over your forehead and temples, cheeks, and jawbone.
  • Use long strokes to massage the front of the neck and the shoulders.
  • Use long strokes to massage the limbs and then circular strokes to massage the joints.
  • Massage the abdomen in a circular motion to promote movement of the bowel.
  • Allow the oil to sink into the skin 5 minutes before bathing.

3. Cleanse Your Face

Once you get out of the shower, start your facial routine. Cleansing is crucial for removing built up makeup, dirt, or other particles that can settle on the skin. Choose a natural face cleanser that’s free of parabens, fragrance, triclosan, petroleum or mineral oils, and sodium lauryl sulfates. Use EWG’s Skin Deep Cosmetics Database to choose safe products. Spend time massaging the cleanser on your skin, working it into the forehead, delicately around the eyes, and along the jawbone, neck, and décolletage. Take your time and enjoy the process. Make it relaxing.

4. Use a Toner

Toners help bind moisture to your skin, which helps your moisturizer work better. Toner also helps control oil on the skin. For a great all-natural toner, use raw apple cider vinegar diluting it with double the amount of water. You can also choose a toner that contains effective natural ingredients like vitamins C and E, which are both potent antioxidants, and [linkbuilder id=”6711″ text=”witch hazel”], which is a natural astringent. Often toners that contain alcohol are too drying to the skin.

5. Add in a Homemade Avocado Mask

Once a week add in a deeply moisturizing homemade facial mask. Avocado has both vitamin E and healthy fats to smooth your skin, uncooked oats serve as a light exfoliant, and apple cider vinegar is a skin brightener. Here’s how to make it at home:
DIY Avocado Mask

  • 1/2 avocado
  • 1/4 cup uncooked rolled oats
  • 1 Tbsp. apple cider vinegar
  • 2 Tbsp. raw honey

Method

  • Mash all the ingredients together in a small bowl and apply the mixture generously to your face.
  • Let sit for 20 minutes.
  • Rinse with warm water.

6. Moisturize Your Face

When it comes to skin maintenance, it’s important to have one product that you use in the morning that contains a broad spectrum SPF and another moisturizer to repair skin overnight. Moisturizers should be free of potentially toxic ingredients like parabens, fragrance, phthalates, sodium lauryl sulfate (SLS), and sodium laureth sulfate (SLES). Again, the best way to ensure you’re choosing safe products is by using EWG’s Skin Deep database.

7. Drink Eight Glasses of Water a Day

I know many will say this isn’t a necessary step in skincare, but I disagree (even some doctors say it doesn’t make a difference). I’m all about personal results. I’ve tested this theory of drinking eight glasses of water per day and not drinking the eight glasses. There is a distinct difference in my skin if I don’t drink enough water. When I’m not at the top of my water game, my skin becomes dry and fine lines start to appear. Ugh. So I drink up on a regular basis and have a normal water routine that I practice daily.
This simple, relaxing, and rejuvenating skincare routine will make your skin look and feel its best without expensive spa treatments. Give it a try! And if you wear any kind of cosmetics, be sure to choose clean products that don’t contain any of these harmful ingredients that can stress out your skin.