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Boots, Bags, And Bomber Jackets: Must-Have Fall Wardrobe Items

When cool weather hits, the first thing on our minds is making a warm cup of tea and transitioning our closets to toastier clothes. This season we’re seeing lots of gorgeous prints and fashion trends we can’t wait to stock up on. From embroidered florals to silks and satins to classics like wool, our favorite stores are boasting the best fabrics just in time for the transition into fall and winter.
We’ve broken our favorites down by category so we can share our best fashion finds for the months ahead.

Bags

Handbags with geometric features and embroidered details are huge this season. Think of them as subtle statement bags. Instead of a giant bag in a bold color, this season’s bags are smaller, more structured, and a bit more understated than we’ve seen in seasons past.
Embroidered bags like the Aldo Aferidia and the Steve Madden Faithe are the little black bags of the season. They both have that small and structured vibe with gorgeous threaded floral patterns.
For just-off-the-runway geometric flair, many handbags feature circle elements. This Ban.do Amigo circle bag hits the nail on the head by being totally circular in shape. For a slightly subtler take, opt for the Sam Edelman Elina bag. It has circle handles for a fun touch.
All of these bags are perfect for fall with their trendy features and black color bases, which will compliment your wardrobe well into winter.

Boots

Fall weather means it’s finally boot season. Can we all give Mother Nature a little thank you for that? These seasonal boots take on a couple of distinct looks. There’s the western-inspired ankle bootie, the lace-up work-inspired boot, and the chic knee high.
For a western-inspired bootie, you can’t go wrong with the Lucky Brand Belia boot. It has the western vibe with a cowboy boot–inspired toe and heel panels that don’t look cheesy. Plus, the different color options (like beet, java, and cashew) will have you sporting your autumnal color of choice.
Our work boot–inspired choice is the Timberland Glancy. It’s a bit taller than the bootie as it covers the ankle, and it has a solid three-inch heel. Pick it up in all black for a kick-ass boot you can wear from now through the winter months.
Knee-high boots are a strong look that pairs well with a casual sweater dress or flirty cocktail attire. The Steve Madden Hansil Harness boot gets you the look in suede, which means it has instant autumn appeal. Choose taupe to keep it a little more casual or black for a sexier look.

Jackets and Blazers

The right outerwear can turn any blah outfit and into a showstopper. Want to add some oomph to a jeans-and-tee day? Pop on a cool leather jacket. Need to look chic in a minute? Longline coats have your back.
Menswear-style blazers have been trending this fall. Keep an eye out for gray checked patterns to ace the trend. The great thing about the gray blazer trend is that even though it involves a pattern, it’s still neutral, so it goes with everything. This Fashion Union Double Breasted Blazer nails the look.
A longline coat is also great for fall and winter because you can get nice and cozy inside that extra coverage. We’re into this ASOS Slim Wool Coat. The charcoal color is perfect over rust-colored sweaters or cool winter blues.
A leather jacket is a huge investment piece you can wear for decades. If you’ve got some extra dough burning a hole in your pocket (holiday bonus, anyone?) you can opt for the real deal. We’re drooling over the Allsaints Papin Leather Biker Jacket. Our favorite faux leather choice is the Levi’s Asymmetrical Diamond Quilted Moto Jacket.
Bomber jackets have also been doing the rounds this season. Silky fabrics are taking this old school shape and making it modern and feminine. This 9 Crowns Quilted Bomber comes in a bunch of different colors, though the army green is our favorite this fall. For a waterproof option, try the Short Bomber Jacket by A Blues Man.

Hats

Cute baseball caps and fedoras are both having their moments this fall. They add a fun touch to casual outfits and can keep your head just a little bit warmer now that there’s a nip in the air.
We’re liking this sporty faux suede baseball cap, which will give you the casual weekend look without breaking the bank. As for fedoras, we’re loving this fashionable pick by D&Y. Both come in a variety of fall-friendly colors, so whether you’re going for athleisure or want to nail a trendy look, we’ve got you covered—literally.

Jewelry

Astrology- and zodiac-inspired jewelry is trending this fall along with ear cuffs, which are kind of ’90s, but still cute. To do both trends, you can head on over to Mejuri. They have these adorable gold zodiac necklaces and a couple of edgy ear cuffs, too. For ear cuffs with a little more bling, check out Astrid and Miyu for their Circle Ear Cuffs edged in diamantes.
Fall is our favorite season for fashion. Because, let’s be honest, nothing feels quite so good as that first fall sweater! Plus, adding accessories like scarves and hats keeps you looking cute and enjoying the warmth of fine fabrics at the same time. Best feeling ever.

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Favorite Finds Motherhood

Baby & Toddler Gift Ideas

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There’s no shortage of options for presents, but we’ve curated a list of our favorite toys that help kids learn and grow while they’re having fun. Everything in this collection has overwhelmingly positive reviews and wholesome objectives. Enjoy!

1. Inspire future architects and construction workers with an endlessly fascinating set.

These Mega Bloks can be built and rebuilt as a child grows and changes interests. The set comes with 80 blocks in five different colors.

The set encourages creativity and hands-on exploration as kids choose what they want to build (and figure out how to build it). The best part is that it’s compatible with any other Mega Bloks sets, so collections can grow and masterpieces can become more intricate.

2. Help the toddler in your life take one of their most important steps (literally).

The VTech Sit-to-Stand Learning Walker coaxes children onto their feet with tons of fun features. As toddlers push along with this handy walker, they’ll have all sorts of musical and educational games to play on the way to their next destination.

The walker has two colorful spinning rollers, three shape sorters, and three light-up buttons. A telephone offers a fun way to learn important communication skills, and there are over 70 sing-along songs and sound effects. And for all the exhausted parents out there—this product comes in easy-to-open, frustration-free packaging.

3. For a slightly different take on sit-to-stand toys, here’s another option from VTech.

The Sit-To-Stand Ultimate Alphabet Train grows alongside your child. Younger children can play with the train or ride on the seat; when they begin to walk, the seat transforms into a wagon for hauling toys around the house.

The side of the engine features 10 interactive activities that teach letters, numbers, colors, and more. The set includes 13 double-sided letter blocks that the train counts as you drop them down the chute. Have fun role playing with the walkie talkie and get inspired with over 100 songs and melodies.

4. It’s never too early to start training for the Olympics (or maybe just high school track and field).

This activity gym from Bright Starts offers a multitude of activities in one cute, contained area. If you know parents with a tiny-home mentality, this is the perfect gift.

The walls can go up or down depending on the activity, meaning the gym works great as a tummy-time mat or a ball pit. Speaking of which, the set comes with 35 colorful balls, a bead chaser, a musical elephant, a baby-safe mirror, and interactive crinkle fabrics. And with all the time baby’s going to spend in this gym, parents will be glad to know it’s machine washable.

5. Sometimes you can’t beat a classic.

The Sit ‘n Spin from Playskool is as old school as you can get. Children twirl themselves in circles as fast or slowly as they choose on this absorbing toy.

The look and style is the same as the ones from your childhood, but Playskool has improved the mechanics so this incarnation spins more smoothly. This fun and nostalgic toy promotes good balance and coordination as well as an active lifestyle from the earliest stages.

6. After an action-packed day, little ones need a whole lot of sleep.

This Baby Einstein Sea Dreams Soother plays 10 classical melodies as well as gentle ocean sounds. Motion and light effects help little ones slowly nod off for naps or bedtime.

This handy machine has four soothing modes and volume control to achieve the perfect ambiance for every baby. It fits onto crib rails with a universal crib attachment.

7. Babies and toddlers love making noise and getting into a rhythm.

These Rattle ‘n Rock maracas are the perfect catalyst for waking up a child’s inner drummer. Toddlers will have no trouble gripping and shaking these musical toys with soft pom-pom bottoms.

The maracas are filled with colorful beads that make a gentle rattling sounds as baby shakes them. These toys are easy to clean and promote sensory and gross motor skills.

8. Let baby experience the thrill of a swing in the safest way possible.

Little Tikes Snug ‘n Secure swing has redundant safety features to keep children safe. With an easy-in T-bar and stay-put shoulder straps, you can be confident that baby is safe as they experience flight for the first time.

This classic toy is made in America and can be installed inside or outdoors. As children grow, the T-bar and straps can be removed, increasing its lifespan as a child’s favorite toy.

9. Just because they’re too young to ride rides at an amusement park doesn’t mean they can’t build one of their own.

The Loops and Swoops amusement park playset gives children the power to create an exhilarating theme park. As children send the two roller coaster carts around the park, a variety of fun interactive features are triggered.

Lift a ramp at the end to send coaster cars flying when they reach the bottom. This set encourages creativity and helps strengthen dexterity and hand-eye coordination. It’s also a heck of a lot of fun.

10. Kids won’t get bored anytime soon with this awesome variety pack.

The Roarin’ and Rollin’ Oball gift set has four unique toys to fascinate babies. The toys are designed so that even the tiniest of hands can easily grasp and explore them.

These toys are perfect for teething and traveling. The set includes a rattle and roll car, the Oball classic, a roar-o-rattle, and the clickity twist.

11. Let’s not forget how much a good toy can improve bath time.

This floating octopus comes with three rings that can be tossed onto the tentacles for a fun and stimulating game. It’ll improve hand-eye coordination and distract from the not-so-fun aspects of bath time.

Having a trusty friend in the bath can help kids look forward to baths instead of dreading them. This BPA-free product is irresistible to kids and makes a fun pool toy as well.

12. Kids still love tea time, but the toys have improved dramatically.

A musical rainbow tea set from LeapFrog makes tea time an even more joyous occasion. The set lights up in six fun colors and plays seven different tea-time songs.

As kids pretend to prepare tea, the pot makes realistic gurgling sounds. The sing-along songs teach manners and greetings and encourage children to share. Find out for yourself why this awesome set won the 2013 Practical Pre-School Award.

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Motherhood

Help Them Help Your Child: Pediatricians Share 8 Tips For Getting The Most Out Of Your Appointments

When I was pregnant with my daughter, I was the quintessential first-time parent. At the turn of my third trimester, I outlined my list of to-dos, and “interview pediatricians” was near the top. I believed, and still do, that a family’s pediatrician is part of their parenting team, part of their village. They need to be there for us in good and bad, sickness and health; finding a provider you trust and understand is crucial.
In the weeks leading up to my daughter’s birth, I met with three pediatricians, and I asked questions. I listened. I waited for a connection. And then I chose.

Your child’s care is my priority, and that’s all that really matters.

For the first few years of my daughter’s life, my husband and I partnered with a pediatrician, a parent himself, in the Pacific Northwest. He was well-researched, didn’t stoke my first-time parent worries, and he even saw us through our first emergency room visit. To him, I’m forever thankful. He ushered me into motherhood and helped me find confidence in myself while offering me the support I needed to properly oversee my daughter’s health.
As a parent, how do you find that partnership? Do you need to interview multiple pediatricians like I did? Maybe. But now, as a mother of four, I actually think the most important thing is learning how to help your chosen pediatrician help your child.
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There are a few things we as parents can do to get on the same page as our care provider. In the sections that follow, a number of pediatricians and experts from the pediatric field will chime in with tips that will allow them to better aid each of us in caring for our littlest loved ones.

Stop doing your own research online.

We employ pediatricians for a reason: they’re experts! In fact, they go to school for at least 11 years. So, when you’re tempted to consult Google, know that you’re most likely fueling your worry with misleading information, and it’s not even close to the help 11 years’ worth of education can provide.
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“As doctors … we strongly advise not looking up symptoms or situations online, as many of those sources aren’t reputable, and you will never truly know the depth of any health situation without proper medical processes,” says Constantine George, MD, a Las Vegas-based pediatrician.
Becky Johnson, a pediatric medical assistant, echoes George’s concern: “Sometimes it is very frustrating because [parents] will come in loaded with their Dr. Google information… [They are] so certain that they’re correct [that] they end up not wanting to listen to the doctor tell them otherwise, and a lot of the time they want a lot of unnecessary tests done on their child.”
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I’ll confess, I’ve been that parent who typed my concerns into Google before calling my pediatrician’s office for an appointment. I think part of me doesn’t want to bother them if it’s not a big deal. Then, thanks to Google, I don’t sleep all night because my child either has a viral rash…or cancer.
Mohan Rayala, MD, a Massachusetts-based pediatrician, doesn’t want parents to ever feel like they’re a bother: “Come in and get your child checked out and ensure your peace of mind. Your physician is on your side and wants to work for what is best for you and your children.”
I, of all people, need to remember that.

Bring a list of questions to each appointment.

Multiple pediatricians I spoke to stressed the importance of preparing a list of questions you hope to discuss at your appointment.
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Nerissa Bauer, MD, a pediatrician in Indianapolis, takes it a step further and encourages parents to prioritize that list: “By honing in on what’s most important, you and the doctor can tackle your biggest concerns first and make the most of the scheduled appointment time.”
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In addition to questions, a detailed timeline or diary of issues provides data which doctors can use to more quickly diagnose, saving you time and money while getting your child back on track. Prepare for doctor’s appointments as if they were a work meeting where you’ll be collaborating with an expert for maximum results.

Don’t be afraid to get personal.

Growing up, I always admired how much effort my pediatrician took in getting to know me and my sisters. She not only knew our health history, but she recalled our dog’s name, knew where we had recently traveled, and always had insight into our hobbies.
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The medical field might not be like the old school home-visit days, but pediatricians still love getting to know their patients. After all, a good relationship between patient and provider results in better care, reported the Harvard Business Review.

Know that doctors have no idea what anything costs.

Well, they have an awareness, but it definitely isn’t their primary concern. That’s why each office has staff committed to billing and liaisons willing to help parents get the care their children need—regardless of cost.
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“Medication [expenses] are very difficult, thanks to insurance companies. The covered and preferred medication lists change on a regular basis. One month, something is covered; the next, it isn’t,” Johnson, our trusty pediatric medical assistant, says. “We encourage our patients to let us know if there is a problem, so that we can try something different. Sometimes when I have to verbally call in a medication, I’ll ask if it is covered by they’re insurance and how much it costs before finalizing it.”
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In the end, parents are responsible for understanding their insurance policy and out-of-pocket expenses.

Trust your nurse.

They might not be able to give the final diagnosis, but nurses and other support staff see a lot, and thus, know a lot.
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“I feel it is a trust system between doctor and nurse/assistant,” says Johnson. “We know our limits of knowledge. And our doctors trust that we will run things by them if we’re unsure and need clarification on something.”

They can help with more than coughs and colds.

“Up to 50 percent of the questions and concerns parents bring up are behavioral,” Bauer says. She provides three very distinct ways parents and providers can partner to make strides in resolving those issues:

  1. “Ask for help outside of the clinic! I frequently makes phone calls to patients’ schools (with parent permission) or even do school observations to discuss behavioral issues and help craft action plans. And sometimes, the behavior issue isn’t a problem at school: I help parents make changes at home in those cases.”
  2. “Don’t be afraid to tell the doctor what you really want to get from the appointment. You will get better advice. If a child isn’t sleeping well, the doctor’s first instinct might be to work on improving the bedtime routine. But if the family’s priority is reducing overall stress (caused by crabbiness and lack of sleep), that’s an important distinction that I can work on right away.”
  3. “Adult anxiety and depression, and even postpartum depression, can impact kids’ behavior. Part of each appointment is spent asking parents how they are doing. If mom or dad is not coping well, I wants to know that. Many times, kids’ behavior issues are resolved by getting the parent the help they need.”

They want you to practice good health habits, too.

Zeshan Qureshi, a London-based pediatrician, reveals his biggest pet peeve when it comes to parents: “Smoking.”
“I completely understand that it’s extremely difficult to give up smoking,” he says, “but I don’t think parents are fully aware of its consequences. Right from the beginning, it increases the risk of stillbirth and miscarriage. Carrying on, it increases [the chance] of a newborn baby [passing away]. Most commonly, I see it in the context of chest infections and asthma. Parents tell me they smoke outside, but the smoke is still on their clothes.”
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“They then say they change their clothes, but its still on their body,” says Qureshi. “They then say they shower, but it’s still in their lungs, and you can’t wash your lungs. I know it’s difficult, but the best thing you can do for your child’s health, as a mother or a father, is give up smoking—right from the moment you are trying to have a baby.”

A doctor’s office is really busy.

“Mondays and Fridays are always the worst,” says Johnson, “The ‘post-weekend and ‘Oh-no-the-weekend-is-coming’ crowds.”
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Actual numbers fluctuate anywhere from 15 appointments to 30, she says, with the cold weather season being the worst due to increased breathing complications. That’s why it’s so important to arrive on time for appointments and have your list of questions and concerns ready when you have the doctor’s attention.

If we don’t get along, it’s okay to part ways.

Not every doctor–patient duo is going to mesh, so if you have found your family at a practice that isn’t working for some reason, it’s okay to end the relationship and move on.

I learned this during my pediatrician interviewing days. The doctor I ended up deciding to see long term closed our initial Q+A with a sentiment along these lines: “If you choose me, I’ll be happy to have you, but if we aren’t a good fit now, or anytime in the future, don’t worry! Your child’s care is my priority, and that’s all that really matters.”

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Happy x Mindful Wellbeing

It Turns Out That Doing Good For Others Also Does Good Things For Your Mental Health

So, the holidays are driving at us with the speed of the Polar Express, and suddenly you feel like you should be doing a little volunteer work. There are toy drives to be run and carrots to be peeled at the community center Thanksgiving dinner, and it’s all for a good cause, so you had better be out there helping, right?
Of course, when we show up at any volunteer event to lend a hand, we have the best intentions in mind: helping others. But if you’re feeling the urge to give back this season, it’s okay to admit to yourself that you might also be looking for a little pick-me-up.
It turns out volunteering doesn’t just help others. It can boost our own mental health in countless ways. And that’s a good thing!

Dumping Depression

Rates of depression tend to skyrocket around the holidays, with a chunk of the country facing less sunlight (and an increased risk of seasonal affective disorder) and the stress that comes with finances, family, and all that cooking.
If you’re feeling a little overwhelmed, it might be worth swinging a hammer for Habitat for Humanity or lending a hand at your local food bank. Studies have shown that charitable efforts give us purpose when we’re feeling lost, and that can actually help us in a battle against depression. Helping others feel better literally makes us feel better!

Major Mood Boost

You don’t have to be facing full-blown depression to need a little good juju in your life. Sometimes the benefits of lending a hand come in the form of a simple mood boost.
In one study, more than three-quarters of respondents said that volunteering made them feel better and even reported it helped reduce their stress levels. There’s no shame in taking a little satisfaction in knowing you’ve done something kind for someone else.

Loneliness? Ain’t nobody got time for that.

Feeling isolated? When you’re trying to keep up with work and home, friends can (and too often do) fall by the wayside. A quick chat in a Facebook thread is great, but it doesn’t quite make up for those in-person gossip sessions with a girlfriend.
That’s where a trip to the library to shelve books or an afternoon at the animal shelter walking the dogs could help fight your lonely feelings. Volunteering has long been shown to help people combat their isolation—at least when you pursue charitable acts that involve other people. It tends to put us in contact with new faces, and the grassroots needs of non-profits make working together a must.
You can get the best of both worlds by inviting your BFF to volunteer with you—time to give back and time to gab!

Go where you’re needed.

There are dozens of charities that could always use an extra hand around the holidays, from the churches throwing holiday meals for the community to the organizations putting together toy drives for families who could use a little help playing Santa.
But there are also dozens more that could use a helper all year-round. The folks at VolunteerMatch have a free tool that will partner you with a charity that could use your skills, so you know you’re truly making good use of your time. Or you can simply look around your neighborhood with your own interests in mind.
Love dogs and cats? You can take advantage of the stress relief of spending time with animals while actually helping the critters at your nearby shelter become more adoptable.
Have a knack for art? Give yourself a little art therapy while volunteering to lead painting classes at your local senior center.
Whatever you choose, it’s okay to admit you’re taking something away from giving back.

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Gifts For Kids 11 And Up

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Get bodies moving and the thinking gears going by giving these great gifts. Best of all, you can bond with your special buddy as you both master new skills.

1. Inspire young photographers to explore and create with this awesome blend of retro and new.

The FujiFilm Instax teaches beginners how to take great photos with easy-to-understand settings. Photos print out immediately so friends can share instant keepsakes.

Kids can use the macro lens attachment for extreme close ups of pets, flowers, or whatever else deserves a closer look. The selfie mirror helps capture the perfect pose without any wasted film. This camera is as fun as any toy, but also teaches photography skills and creates unforgettable photos.

2. Put your favorite flight-enthusiast in the pilot seat of a drone.

The Sky Viper is one of the easiest-to-control and most versatile drones on the market. It can perform barrel rolls and flips with the touch of a button. However, the most innovative feature is the headset that holds a smartphone and allows the operator to see from the drone’s point of view.

The drone’s camera can capture and stream video in 720p high definition. This state-of-the-art gadget is worth the price for its unique first-person-view function alone. Its HD camera makes it even more of a bargain.

3. This truly creative gift allows for an infinite array of personalized cosmetics.

The Make Your Own Nail Polish Kit comes with eight colors that can be combined to make any shade you can imagine. The set comes with funnels and blending tools, along with simple instructions for making the custom polish.

All polishes are free of toluene, formaldehyde, dibutyl phthalate, and camphor, making them safe for everyone. DIY nail polish is a perfect accessory for a girls’ night in that blends fashion and creativity.

4. Plant the seed for gardening in someone’s soul.

The Grow N’ Glow Terrarium comes with everything a young botanist needs to create a whole new world on their desktop. The set includes a mason jar, potting mix, organic chia and wheatgrass seeds, sand, river stones, and garden figurines.

Kids can grow two full life cycles of plants in their own tiny ecosystem. Seeds start growing in as little as three to four days and glow-in-the-dark stickers make the terrarium look magical at night.

5. The telephone game finally has an update, and it’s fun for the whole family.

Telestrations mixes the telephone game (you know, where one person whispers a phrase to the next person, and little misinterpretations stack up, changing the meaning of the original message entirely) with Pictionary. The first drawer reads a card and illustrates the phrase. The next person looks at that drawing and tries to guess the original phrase.

The next player gets to illustrate the new phrase, and so on. When all of the drawings and phrases have been passed around, it’s time to look at how the original phrase has morphed in the course of the round. The creativity and absurdity involved in this spin on a classic will keep the whole family laughing hysterically.

6. Bring the excitement of a basketball court or arcade into your basement.

These Double Shot Arcade Hoops let future Steph Currys and Maya Moores practice rain or shine. Face off against friends or siblings and see who can rack up the most points.

The rims are adjustable from 82 to 90 inches, and an infrared optical sensor keeps score so there are no disputes over who got what. The set comes with seven basketballs, a pump, and a needle to ensure young athletes can get their game on any time.

7. Equip them to creatively document memories and experiences with loved ones.

The It’s My Life Scrapbook Kit from Creativity for Kids has everything someone needs to create a one-of-a-kind scrapbook. A 9-inch square, spiral-bound notebook with 16 pages allows young archivists to preserve memorable moments in style.

The set comes with over 200 stickers, rhinestones, a stencil, and other decorative materials. With over 32 layouts, there’s plenty of room for photos, letters, and drawings to document a young person’s life.

8. Give a heavy-duty, HD camera for a lot less than you’d think.

The GoPro HERO5 takes 4K video and 10 megapixel photos in just about any environment. Users can take it underwater or down a mountain, and this little gadget will just keep filming.

The HERO5 is ideal for young users because of its limited menu options. After briefly learning the settings, novice photographers can begin exploring and creating with stunning results.

9. Combine style and substance for the music lover in your life.

Water Dancing speakers from SoundSOUL provide a mesmerizing visual while pumping out crisp audio. Colored LED lights look dazzling as fountains of water bubble across them.

Speakers plug into a computer or phone via a standard 3.5 mm connection port. The relaxing and meditative visual will provide the perfect accompaniment to their favorite playlist.

10. Gift a fun experience and an adorable finished product in one.

This bracelet kit from Melissa & Doug provides a fun activity to do while spending quality, screen-free time with a young relative or friend. The instructions are easy-to-complete, kid-friendly, and result in elegant jewelry.

Have fun making design choices while you craft unique bracelets for yourself or others. This kit is great for creative young fashion or art lovers.

11. In a similar vein, here’s another option for future fashion designers.

The Fashion Studio from Creativity for Kids comes with everything that a future Donatella Versace needs to get started. The set has a dress mannequin, fabric, sketchbook, trims, ribbons, and much more.

Like a real designer, kids will create sketches and bring them to life with a real sewing kit. Start a young designer on the path to Project Runway with this educational and entertaining pick.

12. Toys have become incredibly sophisticated since we were kids.

The Razor Hovertrax 2.0 is the smartest self-balancing electric scooter on the market. This little contraption can maintain speeds up to 8 miles per hour for up to 60 minutes.

With a weight limit of 220 pounds, even adults can try this addictive toy. New features on the Hovertrax 2.0 include an LED light-bar display, fender bumpers, a battery-power indicator, and a special riding mode for training.

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Nutrition x Advice

What Are Macros? Everything You Need To Know About Counting Them And More

Eating for health and weight loss can be a frustrating experience. You diligently count calories and aim to get enough iron, calcium, and vitamins in your diet. Despite all of this, you’re feeling totally depleted of energy, you aren’t losing weight, and your workouts are suffering. If this sounds familiar, it’s time to find out what a macronutrient is so you can decide if a macronutrient-based diet might be right for you.
Depending on your goals, there’s a macro-based diet for almost everyone—regardless of your fitness level or [linkbuilder id=”2537″ text=”favorite foods”]. Macro diets don’t necessarily restrict intake of meat, dairy, or other food groups, but they can accommodate vegetarianism and veganism, meaning the basic principles and defining ratios of macro diets are applicable to anyone looking to eat healthfully and reap the benefits of doing so.

Why Macros Really are a Big Deal

Whether you decide to go macro or not, understanding the role of macronutrients will help you better understand your body and whether the foods you choose are helping or hindering when it comes to your health and fitness goals. While many of us are interested in [linkbuilder id=”5671″ text=”clean eating”] and fitness, the facts about how food impacts or performance, weight, and disease risk really do exist at the macronutrient level, which makes educating ourselves in this area super important.
A solid understanding of the major components that make up everything we eat is powerful knowledge. In fact, a thesis completed at University of Arkansas, Fayetteville, in 2012 reports a positive relationship between nutritional knowledge, proper eating habits, and decreased incidence of obesity. With estimates that 72 percent of American women will be overweight or obese in 2020 and the fact that even trained athletes who get plenty of protein may not spread protein intake throughout their day to their best advantage, it’s clear that understanding macros can benefit you now and well into the future, whether you’re training, looking for an energy boost, or gearing up to lose weight.

Ideas to Invest in Before You Begin a Macro-Based Diet

Like many trending approaches to eating, a macronutrient-driven diet should include plenty of whole foods so that you can keep up with your body’s micronutrient needs. If possible, it’s definitely worth sitting down with a registered dietician or similarly trained wellness professional to discuss a macronutrient ratio that will work best for you and your current activity level.
Macronutrient calculators can also be helpful when determining the correct macro ratio for your lifestyle. These calculators will use information about your weight, gender, activity level, and goals to suggest a macro ratio (more on that to come!) that you should aim to consume. The ratios can be tweaked based on your body’s responses to the changes in your diet.
Most importantly, obsessing over your diet for any reason can be stressful. Make sure to give yourself room for mistakes, an occasional treat, and plenty of kindness as you embark on this new eating adventure!

So, what are macros?

Macros, or macronutrients, are the three basic building blocks of our diets that we need to consume in large quantities: protein, fat, and carbohydrates. Macronutrients can be eaten in different ratios depending on the particular wellness goals you’re trying to achieve. But first, it’s important to understand the role each of the three macronutrients serves when it comes to fueling your body and keeping it running smoothly.

The Power of Protein

Protein is a macronutrient frequently praised for its ability to help the body build and maintain muscle tissue. In fact, protein is a building block for many of your body’s most basic structures and functions. Protein is used all over the body. It helps keep bones strong, forms the keratin that makes up your skin and hair, and makes up part of your DNA. Protein is more difficult for your body to digest than carbohydrates, which means your body burns more calories when digesting protein.
As a macronutrient, protein is recognized for its ability to stave off hunger and keep you feeling more satiated for longer periods of time, which is why it’s often associated with its ability to help with weight loss and weight maintenance. A single gram of protein contains four calories. Ultimately, the proteins in food are made up of very small amino acids, which are utilized by the body to put together new proteins.

All About Amino Acids

The protein in our own bodies is made up of 20 amino acids, nine of which we’re unable to create for ourselves and must get from our diets. On a molecular level, protein is made up of strings of amino acids which break down into single amino acids or small strings of them (which are called peptides) in our digestive systems.
These individual amino acids form new protein bonds that are unique to their specific functions in the body. Protein that comes from meat is similar to our own and contains all nine essential amino acids whereas most plant-based sources contain only a few amino acids.
It used to be thought that vegetarians and vegans needed to combine protein sources at every meal to satisfy their macronutrient needs, however current research shows that as long as you’re eating a varied plant-based diet, your essential amino acid needs will be met, which is reason for flexitarians, vegetarians, and vegans to rejoice!

A Frank Look at Fat

Fat has long been the most vilified of the three macronutrients our bodies need to run smoothly. But, while it can feel counterintuitive to reach for the full-fat option of your favorite snack, it might actually be healthier than opting for a fat-free alternative.
Fat is in almost all foods, from meat and dairy to plant-based cuisine because fat is used by many living things (including human beings) as an efficient means of storing energy. Fat is the main carrier of flavor, which is why low-fat and fat-free products often have copious amount of sugar and salt added to them for flavor.
Fat is a crucial part of our diets because it gives us energy, keeps us warm, cushions our organs from harm, keeps our skin and hair looking healthy, contributes to normal brain function, and is a source of fatty acids that our bodies can’t make on their own.
So why, when fat is clearly so important, has it historically had such a bad reputation in the Western mindset? At 9 calories per gram, fat is the most calorie-dense of all the macronutrients. Fat is often seen as a culprit that instigates heart disease, obesity, and high cholesterol, but these claims are now being debunked by new research.

Here a Fat, There a Fat—Thinking About All the Kinds of Fat

Triglycerides make up the vast majority of the fat that is in our bodies and that we consume through our diets. A triglyceride is one glycerol molecule that has three fatty acids attached to it. These fatty acids can be either saturated or unsaturated, which leads us to the following…

Saturated Fat

Saturated fats are typically found in meat and dairy products and are usually solid when stored at room temperature. You might think of saturated fat as the “bad” fat, but recent studies have disproven much of the negative stigma surrounding this particular macronutrient. In fact, saturated fat, which has long been linked to raising “bad” low density lipoprotein or LDL cholesterol is now thought to have little if any effect on increasing LDL cholesterol.
The recommended daily intake of saturated fat is between 5 and 6 percent of a 2000 calorie-a-day diet according to current information from the American Heart Association, making it an important component of a macro-based diet. Common sources of saturated fat include red meat, dairy, poultry, and cheese.

Polyunsaturated Fats

Polyunsaturated fats are typically found in oils which are liquid at room temperature and are often described as “heart-healthy” fats because they are effective at lowering LDL cholesterol levels when eaten in moderation. Polyunsaturated fats are high in vitamin E, an antioxidant that plays a key role in supporting your body’s immune system and keeping your skin and eyes healthy.
It’s recommended that the majority of your daily fat intake should consist of polyunsaturated fats, meaning olive oil, sesame oil, avocado, and seeds have their place in macro-conscious cuisine.

Where do the omegas fit in?

A great example of healthy fats, omega-3 and omega-6 fatty acids are found in polyunsaturated fats and are especially important to include in our diets because our bodies can’t make these fats on their own. Good sources of omega-3 and omega-6 fatty acids include fish and shellfish, flaxseed and flaxseed oil, kale, and cod liver oil.

Consider your carbohydrates.

Carbs have been given an undue bad rap since the Atkin’s diet was reintroduced as a popular weight loss method in the ‘90s. When it comes to carbs, the important thing to consider is the type of carbohydrate you’re eating because not all carbs are created equal.
Many potential health benefits of carbohydrates depend on whether your carb of choice is simple or complex. But first, what is a carb and what does it do?
Technically, carbohydrates are a source of glucose (aka blood sugar), which your body turns into energy so that you can remain active and your bodily functions can continue running smoothly. There are three carbohydrates that our bodies use for fuel: starch, fiber, and sugar.
Fiber is the only carbohydrate we don’t digest, although it still needs to be a regular part of your diet as it reduces the risk of several cancers, is great for gut health, and plays a role in preventing certain types of heart disease.
Complex carbohydrates are made of long sugar-molecule chains and take longer for your body to digest, which means they serve as a time-released source of energy for your body. Good sources of complex carbohydrates include whole grains, legumes, some fruits, and vegetables, which will definitely be a part of your macro diet given the importance of incorporating fresh eats.
Simple carbohydrates, which should be eaten in small quantities regardless of your diet, are made up of one or two sugar molecules which are quickly digested and only usable as energy for a short amount of time. Unfortunately for us, many tasty treats are technically simple carbohydrates. Sugary fruits, white rice, white bread, desserts, candy, and white pasta are all on the simple carbohydrate list. They can be part of a macro diet, but need to be consumed in thoughtful moderation.

Types of Macronutrient Diets

Diets that focus on macronutrients place a strong emphasis on what your body actually needs by counting macronutrients by the gram either alongside or in place of [linkbuilder id=”2538″ text=”counting calories”].
However, a diet based on tallying up your daily macros isn’t a guarantee that you’ll be eating healthier. Karina Inkster is a certified personal training specialist and certified online trainer who specializes in teaching her clients about a plant-based nutrition and physical activity.
She cautions against blindly following a macronutrient diet, saying, “Macros are just one aspect of nutrition. They’re an important piece of the puzzle, but they’re not the be-all, end-all measurement in nutrition. Remember that you could theoretically have a ‘macro balanced’ diet eating processed junk foods.”
With that advice in mind, let’s explore some of the more popular macronutrient-based diets you might decide to follow.

High Carb

40 to 60 percent carbohydrates, 25 to 35 percent protein, 15 to 25 percent fat

Good for: bodybuilders, endurance athletes, long-distance runners

This diet is focused on high carbohydrate intake, which is great for people who expend a lot of energy. Inkster specializes in weight lifting and follows a vegan form of this diet, albeit with a slightly higher fat percentage and lower protein percentage.
“I aim for 50 percent carbs, 30 percent fats, and 20 percent protein. This is the macro ratio I suggest for my vegan strength-training clients as well. For endurance athletes, ratios will differ slightly, favoring higher carbs,” she says.
Her favorite vegan meals that fit into the high carb ratio include pan-fried tempeh with a veggie stir fry, tofu scramble with veggies, and Thai coconut curry with tofu.
Note that a high carbohydrate diet should include plenty of whole grains, vegetables, leafy greens, fruit, and cereals.

Low Carb

10 to 30 percent carbohydrates, 40 to 50 percent protein, 30 to 40 percent fat

Good for: weight loss, prevention of heart disease

Low carb diets can be an effective way to kick off weight loss, although a study published in The New England Journal of Medicine showed that at the one-year mark this diet didn’t boast any benefits when compared to diets with a more balanced ratio of macronutrients.
When following a low carb diet, it’s important to include plenty of lower fat and plant-based sources of protein in your diet, of which there are plenty! It’s important to make sure you’re still eating carbohydrates, specifically complex carbs that will give you long-lasting energy throughout your day. Steamed, grilled, or roasted veggies are great choices when paired with a protein source such as meat, fish, eggs, tofu, legumes, and tempeh.

The Maintenance Diet

30 to 50 percent carbohydrates, 25 to 35 percent protein, 25 to 35 percent fat

Good for: weight maintenance, overall wellness

This ratio of macronutrients is a good place to start if your goals have more to do with maintaining your weight and eating a straightforward, healthy diet. Like high and low carb diets, the focus should be on the quality of the foods you’re eating, not just meeting macro requirements. Choose from a wide array of whole foods such as fruits and vegetables, pulses and legumes, organic dairy (whenever possible), lean meats and fish, and polyunsaturated fats such as olive oil and avocados.

To macro diet or not to macro diet?

If macronutrient ratios are a helpful reminder to include certain foods in your diet, then by all means use them as a way to track your goals and achieve an overall sense of wellbeing.
If you find yourself obsessing over this diet, or any other one for that matter, then it may be helpful to speak with a registered dietitian, a clinical therapist, or your family doctor about how you can eat for overall health and wellness, not just your waistline or gym agenda. Eating should be a pleasurable activity, and it’s difficult to enjoy your meals if you’re constantly worrying about having the right macronutrient ratio on your plate.
And remember, there’s always room for the occasional dessert when eating for health and happiness!

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Happy (Healthy) Holidays: Here’s How To Stay In The Moment This Holiday Season

The holidays are supposed to be the happiest time of the year. There’s a lot to celebrate in November and December, but for many people the stress starts in the lead-up to Thanksgiving and lasts until the new year. In fact, more than 60 percent of Americans report feeling stressed during the holidays. Travel, social obligations, and pressure to make everything just right can turn the holiday season from a dream come true into a nightmare.
Slowing down can help you break that pattern of stressing. Setting aside a moment to relax, take a deep breath, and remind yourself what the holidays are all about (giving, family, and celebrating your beliefs) can help you reconnect with the joy of the season. Here are simple ways to connect to your holiday spirit no matter how busy the season gets.

While Traveling

For many people travel is a huge source of holiday stress. Whether you are traveling far or making a day trip, flying or driving, on your own or with kids, traveling can sometimes be downright miserable. But here are ways to chip away at the stress.
First, leave early and give yourself plenty of time. There is bound to be extra traffic and longer lines this holiday season, and running late will just add to your stress levels. By giving yourself extra time to get to your destination you can let go of stress about delays. You can also build in breaks along the way for coffee or a quick stroll. This will leave you feeling more refreshed when you do reach your destination.
Another great trick is to bring entertainment. Music has been shown to release feel-good hormones that will give your mood a boost. Audiobooks are a great option that can make your travel time fly.

While Shopping

Shopping is an integral part of the holidays for many people, but it can also be super stressful. One way to avoid stress is to shop early and avoid peak times, whether you’re shopping for Thanksgiving dinner or heading to the mall for presents.
When you’re checking off your list of people to buy for, consider selecting a gift for a child or family in need. Many community centers, churches, and schools have so-called giving trees, where you can purchase for a specific child. Giving back this holiday season will leave you feeling great.

At Parties

Parties are par for the course during the holiday season, but they can take a toll on you physically and emotionally. One way to keep up with all the socializing is to skip the sweet snacks (or eat them in moderation) and instead opt for protein and a vegetable. This will help stabilize your blood sugar and prevent the crash that can come after eating too many simple carbohydrates.
Just because the holidays are supposed to be a fun time of year doesn’t mean that you can skimp on the self-care. In fact, it’s more important than ever. This holiday season remember that you are a human being—not a human doing—and take a moment to stop, relax, and breathe. Your holidays will be better for it!

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Cyber Monday 2017: Our Favorite Fitness Finds

vWe’ve got the Cyber Monday scoop for all of your fitness needs.
This year, brands are offering up some pretty sweet deals on fitness essentials. We’ve combed through all of them to find you the best on everything from a new sports bra to luxury yoga pillows to a brand new bike. Happy shopping!

Workout Clothes

Bloomingdale’s has its “Big Brown Bag Sale” going on, where select items are up to 50% off. This Marc New York tee is a cutie, and with 40% off it’s only $39 right now.
At JCPenney you can score up to 40% off select styles of women’s athletic shoes.
RBX Active has your back for super cute exercise clothes. They’re offering 36% off for 36 hours starting Sunday at noon and going all day Cyber Monday with the code CYBERBX. Their cowl neck sweatshirt would make a cute addition to your workout wardrobe.
For yoga leggings that you could totally wear as a fashion statement, head to Aurum. Get 30% off the whole site with the code GOLDGIVING. We highly suggest the Passion Mesh Leggings.
Instead of the traditional exercise legging, why not get a bit more cozy with a pair of joggers? Ready and waiting for your chilly morning stretch is the PACT Organic Women’s Jogger. It’s going to be 30% off (along with the rest of the PACT site) on Cyber Monday.
Get a grip with Tucketts toe-free grip socks. They’re great for slippery yoga mats, your weekly barre session, and martial arts. Take 30% on Cyber Monday plus free shipping within the United States.
Getting your swim on? All of Deakin and Blue’s eco-friendly swimwear will be 25% off plus free shipping during Cyber Monday. Their swimmies are made from post-consumer waste and designed to fit any body (we’re talking AA to HH cup).

Workout Gear

Lady lifters, rejoice! WOD Fever is offering up to 35% off and free shipping on Cyber Monday. We suggest a fresh pair of hand grips or a jump rope if you want to get your cardio in.
Get 15% off the cutest set of yoga pillows we ever saw. Brentwood Home’s Crystal Cove Bundle gets you a meditation pillow, yoga bolster, and Pranayama pillow for $144 with the code BLACKFRIDAY.
For hiking and camping aficionados, a collapsible water bottle is crucial. Nomander has 15% off of their collapsible water bottles in purple, pink, lime, and army green on Amazon with their code KMEVMGL2.
Take an additional 25% off sale items at Nike, where you’ll find training tights, shoes, bras, and more. We’ve got our eye on the Converse Thunderbolts. Use code EPIC25; some exclusions apply.
Dry winter weather can take a toll, but if you’re armed with stylish hydration accessories, you’ll come out on top. Take 25% off your entire purchase at S’well.
Looking for kicks that are both comfortable and cute? Look no further; Saucony has got you covered. Take 25% off select Saucony Originals with the code FAVORITE25.

Exercise Equipment

It’s finally time to get biking! Save up to 40% off select bikes at Raleigh and get free shipping with the code CYBERSALE. The Raleigh Revere 1 will be 40% off, at $359.99 (originally $599.99).
Bored of your resistance band? Shake things up with the Tension Toner. Kick your resistance-band routine up a notch so you get more muscle activation doing the same exercise. Take 25% off your whole order on Cyber Monday.
There’s no time like the present to get in that new workout you’ve been thinking about. Use these great deals as motivation to get a jump on your New Year’s fitness goals now! 

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Is It Really Possible To Get Rid Of Stretch Marks?

Repeat after me: There is nothing wrong with having stretch marks.
Got it? Good.
Some women like to think of stretch marks as battle scars, and I understand why. When I look in the mirror, I see a body that lost a significant amount of weight. I see a body that has gone through the physical trauma of childbirth.
Even though I try to practice body positivity daily and encourage it in others, I have to admit that I’ve purchased just about every cream on the market that promises to get rid of stretch marks.
All bodies should be celebrated, but who wouldn’t want a tummy (or underarms, or inner thighs) that are “blemish” free?
To understand how you can prevent or reduce the appearance of stretch marks, you first have to understand how and why they occur.

What causes stretch marks?

“Stretch marks are very common and are the result of tears in the dermis layer of the skin typically caused by rapid weight gain, rapid growth, pregnancy, puberty, hormonal changes, bodybuilding, and some medications including steroid use,” says cosmetic plastic surgeon Stephen Greenberg.
Plastic surgeon Brian Pinsky elaborates, “This [stretch marks] happens when the forces stretching the skin area are greater than its inherent elasticity. Once it’s gone, it never comes back.”
Also called striae or striae gravidarum (which kind of sounds like a Harry Potter spell) in pregnancy, stretch marks can appear anywhere on the body, but are most commonly found on the stomach and breasts during pregnancy and on the arms, hips, and thighs from rapid growth like that experienced as a result of bodybuilding or puberty.
According to the American Pregnancy Association, there are three stages of stretch marks during pregnancy. First, stretch marks will appear light in color and the surrounding skin may be itchy. Then, the stretch marks will deepen in color to a dark purple or red and grow in length. After pregnancy, the red and purple stretch marks will fade to a color a little lighter than your natural skin tone.
Except for that one person we all know on Facebook who posts pictures of her nonexistent third trimester bump, exclaiming, “Can you believe I’ve only gained five pounds this pregnancy?” most women gain weight rapidly while pregnant, but not all pregnant women develop stretch marks.
Why is that?
Well, genetics have a lot to do with it. According to WebMD, if your mother developed stretch marks during pregnancy, more than likely you will, too.
Supporting the evidence that genetics may predispose certain people to get stretch marks, the company 23andMe conducted a study that pinpointed four genetic variants that directly influence whether or not a person will develop stretch marks. According to 23andMe’s report, “The analysis identified an association between stretch marks and a variant near the ELN gene that encodes for the protein elastin. Defects in the gene are known to affect the integrity of the skin as well as cause heart defects.”
Think you’re in the clear because your mom had a stretch mark–free tummy in her last trimester?
Well, you still may earn your stripes.
“Just because your mom did not get stretch marks while pregnant does not mean that you will not develop them,” says Greenberg.
Up to 90 percent of women get some form of stretch marks due to pregnancy, and up to 70 percent of us will experience stretch marks that are not pregnancy related.
With such a high percentage of the population impacted, it’s no wonder that there are over two million Google Search results  for the phrase “stretch mark removal.”

Preventing stretch marks is as easy as a day at the spa.

Ok, so not really.
But, most of the things dermatologists say might prevent stretch marks, like getting massages and daily stretching, are just as relaxing.
According to Candy Campbell, RN, an assistant professor at the University of San Francisco, “Research shows greater BMI … and larger weight babies cause more stretching of the dermis and is more likely to cause stretch marks on the abdomen, breasts, and thighs.”
While you can’t do anything about the size of your baby, you can be mindful of weight gain during pregnancy. Most doctors recommend a healthy weight gain of 25 to 35 pounds for the average women (which is easier said than done when the only thing that staves off morning sickness is all of the carbs). Reach for the fresh fruits and veggies instead of empty calories though, and you may just prevent stretch marks from forming.
In addition to keeping an eye on weight gain, one of the easiest ways to possibly prevent stretch marks is to hydrate your skin by drinking plenty of water.
According to a resource published by the University of Wisconsin Hospitals and Clinics Authority, “If your skin is not getting the sufficient amount of water, the lack of hydration will present itself by turning your skin dry, tight and flaky.”
Dry skin is more susceptible to stretch marks and wrinkles because the skin is dehydrated. Water helps the skin stay plump, smoothing cells and mitigating the risk of stretch marks.
Daily massage may also keep striae at bay. One study done by researchers in Turkey showed that pregnant women who massaged their skin at least 15 minutes a day with bitter almond oil reduced their likelihood of developing stretch marks by about 20 percent.
According to the study, “It was found that a 15-minute massage applied with almond oil during pregnancy reduced the development of striae gravidarum, but using bitter almond oil had no effect on this in itself.”
The researchers’ takeaway: “It is recommended that pregnant women be informed about the positive effects of massaging applied with almond oil early during their pregnancy.”

I’ve got stretch marks anyway. Now what?

Despite all that pampering, you may still develop stretch marks.
While there’s nothing wrong with having stretch marks, you might feel a little self-conscious when you look in the mirror.
If you’re like me, you’ve probably thought about trying or actually invested in creams that claim to reduce the appearance of stretch marks.
But do they work?
Unfortunately, not so much.
“I would be [wary] of any topical creams or ointments that promise a reduction in appearance or removal of stretch marks,” Greenberg tells HealthyWay.
Unfortunately, if a product claims to reverse stretch marks once they’ve formed, it’s probably too good to be true. However, just because a moisturizer can’t completely reverse stretch marks doesn’t mean the product can’t effectively reduce the appearance of stretch marks.
In particular, dermatologist Lela Lankerani, DO, says products containing topical tretinoin can “improve the appearance of stretch marks.”
Topical tretinoin is commonly used to treat acne, but it can also be an effective treatment for wrinkles and dark areas on the skin (like stretch marks). According to the Mayo Clinic, topical tretinoin works by “by lightening the skin, replacing older skin with newer skin, and by slowing down the way the body removes skin cells.”
That’s because tretinoin is a retinoid. Retinoids are derived from vitamin A. When applied to the skin, retinoids can help boost collagen production and even out some skin discoloration.
You may have to see a dermatologist for prescription-strength tretinoin cream for stretch marks, but many over-the-counter face creams contain tretinoin or retinol, which could help diminish the appearance of stretch marks.
Lankerani says chemical peels may also help reduce the appearance of stretch marks. Chemical peels are cosmetic skin-resurfacing treatments that help reduce the discoloration stretch marks can cause. Unlike tretinoin creams that can be purchased over the counter, a chemical peel can only be done in your dermatologist’s office, so you may want to pick up the phone and schedule an appointment.

Say so long to stretch marks for good.

If you’re ready to see your stretch marks disappear permanently, there are a couple of ways to truly banish them.
More women than ever are turning to plastic surgeons postpartum for a trendy “mommy makeover,” which can include the removal of stretch marks in addition to other surgical procedures.
“Depending on the area of the body, the only way to get rid of them is cut them out with procedures such as a tummy tuck, brachioplasty, or thigh lift,” says Pinsky.
Many women still feel like they should keep their tummy tuck a secret, but there’s no shame in getting plastic surgery. If removing your stretch marks through plastic surgery helps you regain your pre-pregnancy confidence, then go for it. Just know that like any medical procedure, most cosmetic surgeries will require significant recovery time. While it’s usually totally safe to get pregnant after cosmetic surgery, most doctors recommend waiting for plastic surgery until you’re done having kids—or else you may end up opting to have the same procedure done a second time.
If you’re looking for a less invasive option to remove stretch marks, dermatologists also recommend laser therapy.
Laser therapy to remove stretch marks works by emitting pulses of laser light that trigger new skin-tissue production at the site.
“The only proven and effective treatment for stretch marks are select lasers,” says Greenberg.  “In my practice we have had great success in treating stretch marks with a fractional non-ablative 1440 laser.  This laser treatment … uses fractional laser light to shrink, fade, and smooth stretch marks for a marked reduction in their appearance. This treatment initiates new tissue and collagen production at the target site resulting in this improvement in color and texture.”
Laser therapy is generally done in your cosmetic surgeon or dermatologist’s office but is considered a lunchtime procedure, meaning you can be in and out of your appointment in about 30 minutes with minimal discomfort.

There is a third option.

Haven’t you heard? There is a third option when it comes to stretch marks.
You can reduce stretch marks’ appearance, remove them through surgery, or take the advice of dermatologist Fayne L. Frey, MD:
“Women should embrace their stretch marks. In a culture that has emphasized physical beauty, it is time women embrace themselves for who they are, not what they look like!”
Amen, sister!
Frey says, “Almost 95 percent of women ages 18 to 98 feel inadequate with themselves when they walk past a mirror.”
I can relate. I’m only a few months postpartum. I’ve lost most of the baby weight, but my favorite pre-pregnancy jeans still don’t fit. Even though I have a great support system at home, I feel like I’m sometimes looking at a stranger. I don’t like the body I see in the mirror most of the time.
I’m not alone.
But ladies, we’re being too hard on ourselves.
Greenberg often reminds his patients to “remember that their [stretch marks’] presence is often a reminder of a big life accomplishment; most commonly the birth of a baby or significant weight loss.”
If you’re struggling to embrace your stretch marks, there are few things that can help you learn to love your new body:

Appreciate your new assets.

Yes, I’m talking about your new boobs. You may have a few stretch marks, but you’ve got Dolly Parton-size breasts now. And aside from your labor and delivery bill, they were totally free!

Schedule some alone time.

A lot of new moms think they’ll be seen as bad parents if they leave their kid for even a second. But I have news for you: Alone time is necessary for your sanity and self-image. Do something just for you. Schedule a massage. Go for a 20-minute walk. Sit in your car and watch Netflix on your phone. Whatever you do, make sure it’s something that you do for you. You’ll be more relaxed and more apt to like what you see in the mirror.

Remember that you don’t have to like your body all the time.

Being body positive does not mean you have to love your body all the time. Instead, try practicing a bit of body neutrality. Sometimes striving for body positivity can be just as harmful as a negative self-image because you’re still putting a lot of pressure on yourself to live up to a certain ideal. Body neutrality simply means saying, “This is my body and I’m fine with it most days.”
The bottom line on stretch marks? Do whatever makes you feel good.
Buy the cream. Schedule a chemical peel. Get cosmetic surgery.  Or, do nothing.
How you think about and respond to your stretch marks totally your choice.
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These Are The Most Common Thyroid Problems (And How To Manage Them)

What are some of the most common health complaints among your friends? If you’re like most women, fatigue and an inability to lose weight are probably near the top of the list. These can be signs that—like many women—you or your friend is over-scheduled and overstressed. However, they can also be signs of a thyroid condition.
You’ve probably heard of the thyroid, but might not understand exactly what it is. This small gland has a huge impact on your health, however, so learning about what it does and how to keep it functioning properly is very important. Because thyroid disease is common among American women, having an understanding of the thyroid and what can go wrong with it can help you get a proper diagnosis if you begin having health concerns.
Read on to learn everything you need to know about your thyroid and to get familiar with the most common thyroid problems you might encounter.

What is the thyroid?

The thyroid is a butterfly-shaped gland that is found in your neck right below your Adam’s apple. The gland is about two inches long and is made of two lobes (think of them as the wings of a butterfly) connected by a thin piece of tissue. The lobes sit on either side of your windpipe.
The thyroid is responsible for producing, storing, and releasing two types of thyroid hormones: triiodothyronine (T3) and thyroxine (T4). These hormones travel to every area of your body in order to control metabolism, the process by which your body converts the food you eat into fuel. Metabolism is the process that keeps your entire body functioning, and the hormones that control that process are essential to good health.
“The thyroid is so important because it produces thyroid hormones, which are needed by every organ in the body in order to maintain life,” says Jessica Kanwhen, doctor of pharmacy. “So this means your heart, liver, kidneys, muscles, skin, reproductive organs, etc. all need thyroid hormones to be able to do the processes that maintain your life.”
The thyroid is one of many hormone-producing glands in your body’s endocrine system. These glands work together to produce the hormones that your body needs to function properly.

What causes thyroid issues, and are women more at risk?

Thyroid problems occur when the thyroid produces too many or too few hormones. These problems can affect both men and women. The American Thyroid Association estimates that 12 percent of Americans will develop a thyroid issue during their lives, but 60 percent will not know that they have the condition. Although thyroid conditions occur in men and women, females are six to eight times more likely to develop a thyroid condition, according to the association. In fact, about one in eight American women will develop a thyroid issue.
So, why are women affected more than men? There are a few reasons. First off, the female hormones can interfere with the thyroid or increase the chances that the body’s immune system will begin attacking the gland (more on that to come), according to Kanwhen. The normal hormonal fluctuations that many women go through over the course of their lives can also put a strain on the thyroid.
Pregnancy is another big risk factor for thyroid issues, explains Prudence Hall, MD, author of Radiant Again & Forever. Iodine is a critical mineral needed for the thyroid to function at a healthy level. However, in order to develop its own thyroid hormones, a developing fetus will draw iodine from the mother, often leaving her with too little of the mineral. This can cause the thyroid to be hypoactive.
Finally, and somewhat controversially, some believe that women use more beauty products that can disrupt the endocrine system. Certain ingredients in cosmetics and other beauty products contain parabens and other chemicals that have been shown to disrupt the endocrine system in large doses. Peer-reviewed research on the subject doesn’t clearly indicate how much of an impact this has on thyroid health, but some experts, including Kanwhen, believe the impact is significant.
“Unfortunately, a lot of these personal care products contain toxic ingredients that disrupt the body’s hormones,” she says. “These toxins can lead to poor thyroid function and the creation of thyroid issues.”
Kanwhen emphasizes that not all women will develop thyroid issues, but that they are common enough that all women should be informed about them.
“I hope you don’t feel doomed to have thyroid issues just because you’re a woman,” she says. “Being a woman doesn’t make you destined to have thyroid issues. Rather, being a woman should encourage you to be informed about what will and won’t work for the makeup of your gender.”
Finally, some people are simply more likely to develop to thyroid issues, although scientists aren’t yet sure why, says Melanie Goldfarb, MD, an endocrine surgeon and director of the Endocrine Tumor Program at John Wayne Cancer Institute at Providence Saint John’s Health Center in Santa Monica, California.
“Many people are also genetically predisposed (they have family members whose thyroids didn’t work properly),” she says. “We really don’t know the underlying cause of what causes many thyroid disorders.”
However, science has come a long way in understanding how the disorders operate and affect the body.
Here is a look at the most common types of thyroid disorders.

What is hypothyroidism and how can it be treated?

Hypothyroidism is the most common thyroid disorder. It occurs when the thyroid is underactive, producing too little T3 and T4 to keep the body running properly. In turn, many of the symptoms are things you would expect to experience when your system is operating too slowly, including an inability to lose weight, fatigue, intolerance to cold, forgetfulness, depression, and hair loss.
Most people with hypothyroidism are told to start treatment with more natural remedies. One way to control hypothyroidism to boost your intake of iodine, which is critical for thyroid health, says Hall. Selenium is another nutrient that is important for thyroid health. Increasing intake of these can help people with hypothyroidism avoid the need to take hormones.
Hall says that a common treatment is to take between three and 12 milligrams of iodine either in a pill or a tincture (which involves diluting it in alcohol). Eating seaweed is a good way to boost your iodine naturally, she says. Taking 200 micrograms of selenium or eating four Brazil nuts every day also promotes thyroid health. However, these measures don’t control hypothyroidism for everyone.
“When a hypothyroid condition is not corrected by iodine and selenium, thyroid hormones needs to be taken,” Hall says. She goes on to say that most people need to take both T3 and T4 to return to optimal health.
“A natural thyroid hormone combining T3 and T4 is best, as both are essential for the body’s optimal health,” she says, noting that the most commonly prescribed brand name thyroid supplements are Armour and Nature-Throid.

A Unique Kind of Hypothyroidism

Many people who have hypothyroidism are suffering from Hashimoto’s disease, an inflammatory condition of the thyroid gland caused by an autoimmune imbalance. In these cases, the immune system attacks the thyroid gland.
“In Hashimoto’s, our immune system incorrectly targets the thyroid gland as a foreign invader and begins to destroy it,” Hall says. The way the disease presents is a bit complicated. “It usually leads to low, hypothyroid conditions and symptoms, but as the gland is being progressively destroyed, can also cause intermittent hyperthyroid surges as well.”
In order to treat Hashimoto’s disease, a healthcare provider and patient must work together to find the underlying cause of the autoimmune response. This might be caused by gluten intolerance, iodine deficiency, digestive problems, or low estrogen, Hall says.
Hashimoto’s disease is very common, with about 5 percent of American’s living with it, according to the National Institutes of Health.
“Hashimoto’s may sound like some foreign, far off disease, but it’s not,” says Kanwhen.
People who have other autoimmune diseases—like celiac disease or lupus—are more likely to develop Hashimoto’s disease. Some of the symptoms of Hashimoto’s disease can be alleviated by taking supplemental thyroid hormones, but Kanwhen says that addressing the underlying autoimmune disorder through dietary changes, stress management, and other holistic approaches is also critical.
“Failure to address the autoimmunity will result in the patient requiring supplemental thyroid hormone replacement indefinitely,” she says.

What is Graves’ disease and how can it be treated?

While many women are familiar with the fact that there are adverse effects associated with the thyroid slowing down, having an overactive thyroid is also very dangerous. This condition is known as hyperthyroidism, which is commonly referred to as Graves’ disease.
Graves’ disease causes the thyroid to produce too many hormones. This can cause heart palpitations, difficulty sleeping, rapid weight loss, anxiety, irritability, bone loss, thinning hair, loose bowels, and muscle wasting, according to Hall.
Graves’ disease is also an autoimmune condition that involves antibodies attacking the thyroid. It can be a serious condition that is difficult to control.
“These conditions are harder to treat, with doctors frequently resorting to drugs, surgery, and radioactive iodine,” says Hall.
However, both surgery and radioactive iodine destroy the thyroid gland, meaning that the patient will need to take supplemental hormones for the rest of their life. Because of this, Hall recommends trying dietary changes to alleviate symptoms before more drastic measures are taken.
“Anti-inflammatory herbs like ginger, basil, and rosemary can help, and having a diet rich in green nutrients also is important,” she says. “Removing sugar, additives, and processed foods, as well as decreasing dairy can help.”

How can we promote thyroid health?

Thyroid issues can cause some pretty scary health effects. Because of this, it’s important to make healthy lifestyle choices that can discourage thyroid issues from developing.
“Thyroid conditions do not happen independently of our lifestyle and general health,” says Hall. “The thyroid gland is very sensitive to toxicity and stress, which needs to be managed. Dietary interventions definitely help keep it healthy.”
Hall recommends getting eight hours of sleep a night, eating iodine-rich foods like seaweed, and avoiding pesticides and refined sugars to keep your thyroid healthy.
If you’re concerned about your thyroid health, ask your doctor to run a full thyroid panel. One reason that thyroid disease is often underdiagnosed is because doctors only measure levels of thyroid stimulating hormone (TSH) rather than doing a more in-depth test that measures levels of T3 and T4 as well as other thyroid markers, says Kanwhen.
“Thyroid stimulating hormone is considered the ‘gold standard’ thyroid function test. Unfortunately, TSH alone does not give the full picture of thyroid function,” she says. “Most traditional doctors do not order a full thyroid panel and this is why so many thyroid issues are not being diagnosed. Because the right thyroid tests are not being ordered, people are going undiagnosed and their health and well-being are at stake.”
This can be incredibly frustrating for people who are suffering but feel that they are not being heard.
“It is this lack of appropriate thyroid testing that causes people with thyroid issues to feel like they are crazy.  They’re told they are hypochondriacs or that their symptoms are all in their head,” Kanwhen says. “They are not crazy. They are actually sick and they need the detailed care of a health care professional who actually understands the thyroid gland and how to fix it.”
However, Goldfarb says that some people become fixated on a thyroid issue because the symptoms are relatively common.
“Many people blame their thyroid for many symptoms that are nonspecific and unrelated,” she says. “If you have some of the symptoms above but your labs look great, you don’t have a thyroid problem.”

Is there a cure for thyroid problems?

Goldfarb says that people with thyroid conditions should feel good knowing that they will likely get relief.
“Thyroid disorders are very [treatable] and 99 percent of people will feel normal once they are on the right dose of meds,” she says.
However, there is no way to permanently cure true thyroid conditions.
“Since we do not understand the etiology [that is, the underlying catalyst] behind the cause of many thyroid disorders, I would say that they are mostly ‘treated’ [rather than cured],” she says.
The good news is that it’s possible to live a full life with a properly treated thyroid condition. Although these conditions might seem scary, knowing what to look for, what tests to discuss with your doctor, and what lifestyle changes can promote a healthy thyroid gland can empower you to maintain your optimal health.
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