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These Dress Rental Companies Are A Bridesmaid's Best Friend

We all know planning a wedding can stressful. As exciting as the occasion is, it definitely takes quite a bit of fine-tuning the details to create the party of your dreams. Choosing a wedding party is just one small piece in the grand design, but it’s inarguably crucial. After all, having your dearest guys and gals accompany you on such a special day can help create a beautifully memorable experience.
What nobody wants is for the pressure of planning the perfect color palette and style for their bridesmaids’ dresses to be compounded by yet another exorbitant expense (for anyone involved). Worry no more; you can take a deep breath and check one major to-do off the list. Enter dress rental companies.

Why rent a bridesmaid dress?

While it may not be the first option that pops into your mind, it may be one of the best choices you make. Renting not only dramatically decreases the financial burden of paying for a slew of dresses that—more often than not—will only be worn once, but it also aligns impeccably with our 2018 goals of living more sustainably.
Plus, what’s not to love about the convenience? The dress is mailed straight to your door, and you pop it into a UPS drop box when you’re ready to send it back. It eliminates the hassle of jumping from one store to another and at the same time opens up a world of sartorial possibilities you might not find at a local retailer.
Check out the two best options below; we think you’ll quickly find yourself convinced.

Vow to be Chic

This company promises to save renters precious time, money, fitting issues, and sanity—things we all need more of.
Vow to be Chic’s process begins with the bride (as it should). Brides can peruse thousands of designer dress rentals and consult a bridal stylist on style and color palette. After choosing the dresses you love, you can curate a “Bridal Suite,” which serves as an online closet of options for your ’maids. The site boasts countless breathtaking styles from well-known designers like Monique Lhuillier, Theia, and Nicole Miller. Even better? Many are sitting at prices under $100.
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As the bride, you electronically send invitations through the website to each of your bridesmaids, which shows them exactly which dress options you’ve selected for them. From there, they can select a dress, send in their measurements, and pay for the rental. You can track their orders and keep up with any dress-related communication through the site’s dashboard. Talk about easy.
Your bridesmaids will receive their dress rental (and a free backup size) two weeks before the wedding. After the big day, they’ll simply mail the dress back to Vow to be Chic in the prepaid package. Did you notice that we didn’t say anything about cleaning? Yep, that’s also taken care of!

Rent the Runway

We’ve all heard of Rent the Runway, but most of us have used it when we’re attending a wedding as a guest, not as a member of the wedding party. Turns out they’ve got the latter covered too.
With the new RTR Wedding Concierge comes a premier styling package for the gals in your wedding party. You’ll get a personalized style consult for each bridesmaid, an exclusive set of dress options, and a personal concierge to walk you through the entire process.
With thousands of styles at nearly every price point, there’s a gorgeous option for every one of your bridesmaids. Free backup sizes, returns, and dry cleaning are on RTR. When the festivities are over, your bridesmaids will package their dresses with the prepaid shipping labels and thank you for being such a helpful bride.

Our Top Rental Picks

For a Minimalist Wedding

For lovers of the simple and sleek, head over to Vow to be Chic for Nouvelle Amsale’s dreamy Willa gown; the soft blue Cloud color is perfect for a sunny summer wedding. At Rent the Runway, we recommend the Sleek Navy Cut Out Gown by Elizabeth and James; the column style is perfect for a no-frills formal affair.

For White Tie Glam

Your bridesmaids can go fully white tie in the Forest Gown by Badgley Mischka. (If green’s not the color you’re going for, RTR has several glitzy Badgley Mischka gowns that will turn heads.) The Donna Morgan Tiffany dress available at Vow to be Chic kicks shiny up a notch with a beautiful embellished pattern made of beads and sequins.

For a Vintage Vibe

This Blush Christie Gown from Jay Godfrey at RTR takes us back to the 1970s in all the best ways. To go even more retro, the sweet halter-style Watters dress by Mulberry hits the ’50s mark—we love it in plum.

For a Casual Affair

Your guests won’t be able to look away from the eye-popping Tara dress from Karen Zambos; for a summer bride who loves color, it’s the obvious choice. Vow to be Chic has the Kiera from Jenny Yoo; with a variety of colors and ways to tie the dress, it’ll work for any bridesmaid. For a super casual vibe, we like it loosely draped over one shoulder.

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The Best Honeymoon Destinations For Every Couple

The best thing about getting married, of course, is knowing that you get to spend the rest of your life with your person.
The second best part of getting married? Definitely the honeymoon. (Wink, wink.)
Couples tend to be a bit more adventurous these days when it comes to their honeymoon, opting for a honeymoon destination that really fits their personality and style as a couple rather than choosing a one-size-fits-all inclusive resort (not that those aren’t great).
Consider this honeymoon destination guide our wedding gift to you (because really, you aren’t going to use 12 fancy place settings). Whether you and your soon-to-be spouse are adventure seekers, foodies, or just want to relax with each other, we’ve got the best honeymoon destinations for you.

The Best Honeymoon Destinations If…You’re Looking for Adventure

Are you the adventurous couple whose first date included skydiving lessons? If you love to go off trail in exotic locations, these wild-child honeymoon destinations are meant for you.

    • Antarctica

      Believe it or not, a cruise to Antarctica is an amazing honeymoon destination. It’s remote, it’s quiet, and it offers plenty of reasons to snuggle up with your babe. But it does require more planning than your average trip to the Caribbean.
      For starters, there aren’t a lot of hotels on the remote continent. In fact, there aren’t any. So you’ll need to book your trip through an Antarctic travel company like Quark Expeditions. To go to Antarctica, you’ll need to take a cruise. Antarctic cruises take place from November to March, because those are summer months in the Southern Hemisphere. You’ll still need to pack super warm clothes, coats, and boots, though; summer temperatures in Antarctica are still well below freezing. Balmy!
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      Once you’re in Antarctic waters, you can leave the ship and visit the actual continent. You can look forward to guided hikes, kayaking, and seeing penguins, seals, and pods of whales up close in a truly natural habitat.

Let anyone who goes to a cheesy couples-only resort try to top that.

  • Essaouira, Morocco

    Casablanca and Marrakesh are the top tourist spots in Morocco, but the resort town of Essaouira is a truly a hidden gem, which makes it the perfect honeymoon destination for adventure seekers. We’ve included Essaouira on our list of best honeymoon destinations for adventure because of how special the experience is.
    Essaouira (pronounced “Essa-wira”) is a bustling port city located on Morocco’s southern coast. It literally means “little picture” in Arabic. And with its pristine beaches, charming blue-and-white medina (the inner walled city that looks like Princess Jasmine should live there), and brightly colored boats bobbing in the harbor, it’s easy to see why. In Essaouira, you can spend days strolling through the souks and perusing the shops’ offerings, kite-surfing off the beach, and drinking traditional Moroccan sweet mint tea.
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    Just across the water is the uninhabited Mogador Island, where the ruins of an ancient mosque still stand. Because an endangered breed of eagle lives on the island, there aren’t regular tours, but you can still visit the island from November to March. You’ll just have to obtain a permit from the city and then head down to to the pier, where you can hire a local fisherman to ferry you across.
    We recommend splurging on a stay at the Atlas Essaouira and Spa, located right on the waterfront. You can stroll their private beach then indulge in a spa treatment to wind down from the adventures you two will get into.

  • Maasai Mara Reserve, Kenya

    The Maasai Mara Reserve in Kenya is the ultimate safari honeymoon destination for any couple who truly loves animals. The Serengeti is better known by Westerners, but the Maasai Mara Wildlife Reserve is widely considered the best place to see African wildlife in a natural habitat.
    Maasai Mara Reserve, Kenya
    If you have the time, most tour guides recommend taking at least two weeks to see and do everything at Maasai Mara, including a guided week-long expedition to nearby Mount Kilimanjaro. (If you can conquer Kilimanjaro, the troubles of marriage won’t have anything on you two.) Insiders also suggest scheduling your trip to the reserve between July and August, as more than a million wildebeest, zebras, and antelope migrate through the Maasai Mara Reserve.
    You’ll want to book your stay at one of the all-inclusive resorts around the perimeter of the reserve, like Richard Branson’s Mahali Mzuri, a luxury safari camp just outside of the reserve. There you can get to know the Maasai people, indulge in pan-African meals with locally sourced ingredients, and become closer than ever with your new spouse.

  • Budget Option: Tulum, Mexico

    Skip the spring breakers in Cabo and head to Tulum, a Caribbean city on Mexico’s Yucatán Peninsula.
    There’s no shortage of places to stay in Tulum. Nueva Vida de Ramiro is one of the first eco-friendly hotels in Tulum. The hotel doesn’t skimp on luxury but still employs sustainable practices for the least amount of environmental impact.
    One of the best parts of Tulum is its central location to other incredible sites. If you rent a car, you can visit Punta Laguna Spider Monkey Preserve, about 40 miles outside of Tulum, to see more than 800 spider monkeys in their natural habitat. There are also the ruins at Cobá, which contain one of the last Mayan pyramids that tourists can still climb.
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    Adventure seekers will also love rappelling down into one of the Yucatán’s many cenotes (underground pools of water formed by the collapse of limestone bedrock). It is thought that Mayans communicated with their gods in cenotes, as several skulls (believed to be sacrifices) have been found in some of the underground pools.
    Our favorite part of Tulum is the beach road. The businesses on this road are about 15 minutes south of the famous Tulum ruins, and you can spend days wandering in and out of the restaurants, shops, and bars that are located on each side of the road: right on the waterfront or ensconced in the jungle. Grab a drink and stroll the (free!) public beach as you lovebirds decide what to do that day—if anything at all.

    The Best Honeymoon Destinations If…You Want to Get Your Sweat On

    What’s the saying? The couple who sweats together stays together? Maybe not, but either way, for the newlyweds who are all about working out, you won’t want to miss these fitness-inspired honeymoon destinations.

  • Costa Rica

    Costa Rica may be known for its lush jungles and brilliant blue waters, but it’s also a fitness enthusiast’s dream honeymoon destination.
    For the couple who likes a challenge, climbing Costa Rica’s highest peak, Cerro Chirripó, is a must. The hike covers over 10,000 feet in elevation, but you’ll be rewarded at the top, where you can see both the Pacific and the Caribbean at the same time. To say it’s a good spot for a newlywed photo op is an understatement.
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    When planning your trip, take into account that most hikers split the trek over two days, spending the night in one of several mountain huts along the trail, as tents are not allowed. (You’ll also need to make a reservation with the park before you hike. The reservation process can be a little tricky, but this website does a good job of explaining how to get your pass.)
    After an overnight camping trip, book the rest of your honeymoon accommodations at the glamorous Hacienda AltaGracia, a luxury resort that boasts private mountain biking and hiking trails, daily fitness classes, and a full-service spa.

  • Iceland

    Iceland is a popular honeymoon travel destination right now, thanks to lower airfares from a handful of major U.S. cities. For active honeymooners, Iceland is a hiker’s paradise.
    Travel junkie Maria Pimienta says, “If you do one thing in Iceland, Skógafoss Falls is a must-see.” Skógafoss Falls is a dramatic waterfall nearly 200 feet high, where you can see vivid rainbows on sunny days. The falls, which are about as tall as Disney World’s Cinderella castle, are easily accessible and are also located at the trailhead of the popular Fimmvörðuháls day hike.
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    The Fimm hike, as it’s colloquially known, features countless scenic overlooks as you trek through two glaciers and an inactive volcano. Be prepared: The hike can be done in one day, but to really take in the scenery, most travel guides recommend making it a two-day trip, with an overnight stay at the mountain hut located halfway through the hike. Cuddle up with your sweetie and enjoy the remote landscape at night—fingers crossed that you’ll get to see see the Northern Lights.
    For adventurous accommodations, Pimienta suggests staying near Mount Hekla, an active volcano that erupted four times in the 20th century. Despite being located in an active volcano chain (or maybe because of it!), the Hotel Leirubakki is highly rated on TripAdvisor for its clean rooms, Hekla information center, and beautiful scenery.

  • Kitzbühel, Austria

    If the only thing you know about Austria is that the hills are alive, you need to visit Kitzbühel, an under-the-radar honeymoon destination in Europe’s Swiss Alps. The resort town of Kitzbühel is located about four hours west of Vienna, and with its numerous ski slopes and chalets, it’s the perfect honeymoon destination for the couple who loves to play in the snow.
    Joshua Willis, who honeymooned in Austria in 2017, recommends first flying into Vienna and splurging on a meal at Silvio Nickol at Palais Coburg. “We had dinner [at Silvio Nickol] and it was insane,” Willis tells us. “It is a two-star Michelin restaurant and probably the best dining experience I’ve ever had.”
    Kitzbühel, Austria
    Once you’ve treated yourself to a honeymoon-worthy gourmet meal, book a train to Kitzbühel. Once there, consider staying at the Hotel Schloss Lebenberg, a renovated 400-year-old chalet perched just above the city, where the rooms are as dreamy as the views.
    The hotel also has a full-service spa that will be perfect after days spent tackling the Streif, one of the most famous ski runs in the world.

  • Budget Option: Rocky Mountain National Park

    If you want honeymoon adventure but can’t quite afford the airfare to Europe, look no further than Rocky Mountain National Park in Colorado.
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    Summer is the best time to visit the park, but it’s also the busiest season, which will require a bit of planning. You could stay in a hotel outside the park, but to get the most out of this honeymoon destination, consider packing a sleeping bag and camping at one of the five campgrounds in the park.
    From your campsite, you can access over 300 miles of hiking trails. You won’t want to miss the panoramic view from Flattop Mountain or the stunning vistas from Baker Pass.
    The eastern base camp for the park is the town of Estes Park. Twin Owls Steakhouse has vegetarian and gluten-free options, while Seasoned offers both of those options plus some vegan menu items. In Estes Park, you can also tour the Stanley Hotel, which inspired Stephen King’s novel The Shining. If you see a ghost, take the opportunity to cuddle up!

The Best Honeymoon Destinations If…You’re Looking for Foodie Paradise

If your first date was at an exclusive pop-up from a James Beard Award–winning chef or your idea of a casual Friday night at home is taking a crack at a seven-course dinner for the two of you, you just might be foodies. These are our top honeymoon destinations for the couple who wants to experience gastronomic excellence.

  • Bordeaux, France

    The Bordeaux region of France is best known for its wine, and to add to that, the city has recently emerged as one of the top foodie hotspots in the world.
    “I highly suggest one of the guided wine tours,” says Morgan Anthony, who recently visited Bordeaux on a romantic getaway with her husband. “In order to get to the wineries in Bordeaux, you either have to rent a car, which can be hard if you don’t speak French, or book one of these tours and let them do the work for you!”
    Bordeaux, France
    Anthony recommends booking a private tour with Bordovino, which offers a variety of wine-tasting tours throughout the Bordeaux region. That said, if you’re feeling a bit more adventurous, renting a car and exploring the French countryside is an experience that can’t be replicated.
    “One restaurant in Bordeaux you don’t want to miss is Ô p’tit Bahut,” says Anthony. The bulk of Ô p’tit Bahut’s website is only en francais, but it’s fairly easy to navigate. The restaurant, which loosely translates to “the little buffet,” serves excellent charcuterie and fromage. It’s a perfect lunch stop after a day of touring wine country, but Anthony says reservations are a must, so be sure to call ahead.
    For dinner, you’ll want to try the Restaurant du Loup, which Anthony describes as classy but also cozy and casual. They’re known for their foie gras, but if goose liver isn’t your thing, there are plenty of other delicious menu selections.

  • Tokyo, Japan

    There’s nothing like a culture shock to bring two people together. Although Tokyo is easily one of the most advanced (and astonishingly clean) cities in the world, and Japanese people are incredibly welcoming, it’ll still take teamwork from the both of you to figure out where you’re going—and what to order.
    For a unique gastronomic experience, food writer and photographer Spencer Pernikoff recommends Tora-fugu Tei, which serves only fugu (pufferfish): “You can’t get it like this anywhere else in the world. They show you the live fish, then come down with it broken down, then they do like a five- to 10-course menu using the fish … All of it. Ovaries. Fins. Everything.”
    Tokyo, Japan
    When in Japan, do as the Japanese do: Eat sushi. As Pernikoff notes, “the quality of sushi basically all over the damn country is amazing,” so you really can’t go wrong anywhere.
    Specifically, he recommends Tonkatsu Yachiyo. He says, “It may seem weird to recommend a [sushi] place [that specializes in] fried pork cutlet, but it’s just amazing.” The restaurant is in Tsukiji Fish Market, and Pernikoff tells HealthyWay, “I figure foodie tourists are already going to [the market] anyway, ’cause it’s f***ing bonkers.” That’s a recommendation we’ll gladly take.
    Because of its lively nightlife and entertainment, Roppongi is a great base of operations while you’re in Tokyo. Stay at the ANA InterContinental hotel, and dine at Chef Pierre Gagnaire’s eponymous restaurant, which has had two Michelin stars since 2010.
    But there’s more to this honeymoon destination than food. No Tokyo honeymoon would be complete without participating in a traditional Japanese tea ceremony, like this private ceremony in a traditional Japanese garden. You may not think of a tea ceremony as necessarily being romantic, but the quiet beauty of it will have you and your new spouse in reverent mood, perfect for reflecting on your future together.

  • Mendoza, Argentina

    Like Bordeaux in France, Mendoza is mostly wine country, known for producing Malbec wines. You’ll definitely want to take advantage of the many vineyards in the region, like Casa El Enemigo, the top-rated Mendoza vineyard on TripAdvisor. Pick out a bottle of wine together to take home and save as a special treat for your first anniversary.
    Mendoza, Argentina
    After a day of wine tasting, make like the locals and siesta for the afternoon (the perfect opportunity for some afternoon delight). Since most restaurants in Argentina don’t open for dinner until after 8 p.m., head to Silla 14 for coffee, pastries, and light sandwiches to tide you over until a late evening meal.
    For dinner, 1884, the restaurant of world-renowned Chef Francis Mallmann, is a must-do for any foodie couple traveling in Mendoza. The winery, which houses the restaurant, was built in 1884 and turned into a restaurant in 1996. The restaurant’s menu pays tribute to Argentinian culture, featuring South American items like spider crab and pacu.
    Instead of having dessert at the restaurant, head straight back to your hotel room (which is where we recommend most newlyweds spend at least 75 percent of the honeymoon anyway). On the way, pick up a few postre vigilante, a light Argentinian dessert made of cheese and quince paste that pairs perfectly with a sparkling wine like Siete Fincas Dulce Torrontes. Trust us, you’ll be glad you brought a snack back!

  • Budget Option: Thailand

    Did you know that many Thai spices are said to be sensual aphrodisiacs? It’s true, which is just one reason we’re naming Thailand one of the best honeymoon destinations—in Asia or anywhere else.
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    Make sure to get in the honeymoon mood (as if you need any help!) by having a delicious green curry meal, which is packed with ingredients such as lemongrass, cardamom, basil, ginger, and asparagus, which are traditionally said to be aphrodisiacs.
    If you only have a short amount of time in Thailand, skip Bangkok and head for the northern city of Chiang Mai to check out the Chiang Mai Night Bazaar, where street vendors sell everything from televisions to sizzling barbeque along a kilometer-long stretch of Chang Khlan Road. At the night bazaar, you’ll get an authentic Thai street food experience with a variety of local dishes like sai ua (spicy lemongrass sausages).
    In Thailand, the farther north you go, the spicier the food becomes. Make sure to visit the hidden local gem Khao Soi Mae Sai for the best khao soi (a spicy curried noodle dish) in Thailand. The restaurant doesn’t have a website, but it’s located at Ratchaphruek Alley. Make sure to get there early, as the restaurant usually sells out of khao soi fast.

The Best Honeymoon Destinations If…You Want One-on-One Romance

Are you a traditionalist who prefers Romance (with a capital R) when it comes to your honeymoon destination? Well, scratch Paris from your short list, because we’ve chosen four of the most romantic honeymoon destinations sure to put you and your forever-boo in the mood for some serious lovin’.

  • Tofino, Vancouver

    If you thought the most romantic thing to do in Vancouver was a Twilight location tour, then you need to visit Tofino, a perfect honeymoon destination on Vancouver Island.
    Instead of booking your stay at one of the several resorts near Tofino, consider renting a private vacation home, like this one, through Airbnb. Home rental rates are often less expensive than hotels, meaning you can splurge on honeymoon fun, like hiring a private chef for a romantic meal. Plus, you won’t have to worry about the nosy couple in the next room when you’re trying to set the honeymoon mood.  
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    For a relaxing, romantic day trip, head to Hot Springs Cove in Maquinna Provincial Park, which is accessible only by plane or boat. Once there, you’ll take a scenic walk (a little over a mile) to the springs, where you can take your pick from seven hot spring pools.
    Because it’s a bit of a trek, you should plan to spend most of the day at the springs, so pack a romantic picnic lunch and dry clothes for the return trip.  

  • Florence, Italy

    Like Dean Martin sang, “When the moon hits your eye/Like a big pizza pie/That’s amore!”
    Find your own amore in Florence, one of the best honeymoon destinations in Europe.
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    Start your trip by staying at the four-star Torre di Bellosguardo, a luxury hotel with incredible views from high above the city. The hotel even has its own small garden and offers guests the chance to take authentic Italian cooking lessons with the lady of the house, Ana Franchetti, using vegetables sourced from the hotel garden.
    If you can bring yourself to leave your bed (and the hotel grounds), take advantage of Florence’s rich Renaissance art history by visiting the famed Uffizi Gallery. (Be aware though: Art at the gallery is so beautiful, it’s been known to overwhelm those who view it in a bizarre condition called Stendhal syndrome.)
    Don’t forget to visit Boboli Gardens, a centuries-old open-air museum with sculptures, fountains, and plenty of hidden spots where your honey can steal a kiss.
    Mostly, just enjoy your time in Florence. Wander the ancient streets hand-in-hand. Stop (often) for a caffè e gelato. The romance of slowly exploring Firenze cannot be overstated.

  • Big Sur, California

    With its sweeping views and and majestic mountains, Big Sur, California, is easily one of the most romantic honeymoon destinations in America.
    “Start your trip with a drive up the rugged coast on historic Highway 1,” says Jennifer Sparks, who recently visited Big Sur. Because of the mist that’s typical along the coastal highway, Sparks says to be patient at overlooks. “There were moments when you couldn’t see your hand in front of your face [for the mist and fog], but if you waited 15 minutes, the view was completely clear.”
    Big Sur, California
    After a romantic drive up the coast, head into Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park where, Sparks gushes, “When you arrive into the park, you immediately begin to see the huge sequoias. The views are amazing!”
    For a little late-night fun, visit the hot springs at Esalen. They will open the springs between 1 a.m. and 3 a.m. nightly to just 20 guests. Enjoy the view of every little star in the night sky in the clothing-optional pools; it’s an experience you and your love will never forget.
    For the ultimate in honeymoon romance, stay at the rustic-glam Post Ranch Inn, with stunning clifftop views and romantic honeymoon packages. Not feeling the $1,000-per-night price tag? (Shocking!) You might opt to stay at a more affordable bed and breakfast, like Big Sur River Inn, instead.

  • Budget Option: Croatia

    Eastern Europe may not seem like a honeymoon hotspot, but Croatia is quickly becoming one of the best honeymoon destinations in Europe for newlyweds on a budget.
    Elizabeth White, who recently honeymooned with her husband, Matt, in the walled city of Dubrovnik on Croatia’s coast, tells HealthyWay, “Try to find an Airbnb or hotel inside the city walls of Dubrovnik. We were there in the summer, and during the day the city was very crowded with tourists from cruise ships that dock for day trips.”
    But, says White, “When the sun goes down, and all of those crowds leave, the city is a completely different place. All of the restaurants set up tables in the streets, there are musicians everywhere, children playing, and awesome cliffside bars lit by candlelight.”
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    White says one of her new hubby’s favorite things was walking the city walls. “Just make sure to do it [walk the walls] early in the morning or late in the afternoon, because they get really crowded,” White notes. “My husband loved this activity because we got to visit some of the filming locations of Game of Thrones.”
    May a honeymoon in Croatia be the start of a marriage that’s better than, well, every single one on Game of Thrones.

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Decode The Dress Code: What To Wear To A Wedding

Wondering what to wear to a wedding? You’re not alone. After all, who doesn’t love a wedding dress code? Well, a lot of people. And others? Oh, they want some direction! At least a little bit. No one wants to show up in a full-length gown when everyone else is in sundresses.
Unfortunately, wedding dress codes have sort of gone out of style. When was the last time you got an invite with crystal clear directives? More likely it said something like “BBQ chic” or “casual cocktail attire.” What does that even mean?
“The codes of black tie are alive and well,” explains Kelsey Motes-Conners, founder and owner of Field: A Wedding Design Studio in Montana. “But outside of the clear requirements of black tie attire, and especially outdoors, guests’ attire can really vary in formality and style. Some couples are insistent on their wedding feeling comfortable and so encourage their guests to wear sensible shoes or warm layers, taking an almost reverse approach to attire recommendations.”
Motes-Conners continues:

And although rule of thumb is to not out-dress the couple, it seems that guests’ attire has more to do with the guest than the wedding—by which I mean what the guest feels is appropriate. I’ve seen grandmas in tracksuits and grandmas in fringed flapper dresses and grandmas in floor-length gowns; uncles in white tie and uncles in denim with imposing belt buckles; friends in all manner of sundresses, wool fedoras, sequin bodycons, polished wingtips, tennis shoes. But I think the default is very much cocktail attire.

What does this mean for you, the lovely guest? No need to panic! We’re here to relieve all your anxiety as you decide what to wear to a wedding.

What to Wear to a Wedding: the Ground Rules

It’s hard to go totally wrong figuring out what to wear to a wedding, but it is possible. Here are a few choices that are a clear no:

  • Don’t wear white. Or white with flowers. Or white with stripes. Or white with teeny tiny polka dots. Leave the white to the bride. If you have to ask if it’s too white, it is.
  • Be cautious about wearing black. It’s not a funeral, and you don’t want your friend to think you think it is. That said, black is no longer totally unacceptable, especially at big-city weddings. If it’s the wedding of a close friend, check in with her to see if she has an opinion one way or another.
  • Don’t wear denim. Like, anywhere on your outfit. No jeans, no jean jackets, no cool skirts. Save it for the Friday night rehearsal dinner or the brunch.
  • Don’t dress like you’re going to the club. You know what we mean: Make sure your booty isn’t showing and your breasts are (basically) covered. Make sure nothing is ripped. If you wouldn’t wear it in front of Grandpa, save it for another time.
  • Don’t make it about you. Look your best! But don’t turn the spotlight on you. Crazy hat? Pass. Neon jumpsuit? Skip it. Let your friend have her day by not grabbing the spotlight from her.
  • Don’t wear something with stains. This means getting your clothes to the dry cleaner a few weeks before the event. There’s nothing worse than pulling out your fave outfit and realizing there’s wine on it from the last wedding you attended.

What to Wear to a Wedding With a Dress Code

What to Wear to a White Tie Wedding

The fanciest, most formal of all weddings. Think: floor-length, black (yes, black!), classy. Nothing too crazy (not the time to wear a club-appropriate bandage dress). You can even wear gloves! Men: wear a white tie.

  • This floor-length number ($388) with a sweetheart neckline and fitted bodice from Reformation will make you feel like a queen—and an eco-queen at that. Reformation uses the most eco-friendly, efficient technology possible.
  • This cap-sleeved gown from Adrianna Papell ($299) will have you shimmering on the dance floor (just stay away from the white, so you don’t upstage the bride).
  • The Symphony Dress ($440) from Anthropologie’s BHLDN is deco-inspired and incredibly chic.
  • Lulu’s Scallop Lace Mermaid Gown ($88) is a sleek option when you’d prefer to let your makeup do the talking (and it’s easy on the wallet!).

When in doubt: Go with a single color and make it as fancy as possible.

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What to Wear to a Black Tie Wedding

This is the second most formal option, so you’re still safe with a floor-length look, à la white tie. If you don’t want a frock that goes to the floor, you can do a cocktail dress—as long as it’s very formal and goes to your knee or beyond.

  • This gorgeous long chiffon gown from Jenny Yoo can be tied a variety of different ways to create different looks. Combine different tying methods and different statement jewelry pieces and you’ll be able to wear this versatile piece again and again throughout wedding season (and it’s under $300!).
  • This ethically made bright red showstopper ($323) from Monsoon is perfect for getting down on the dance floor.
  • This cutout back floral lace and chiffon dress ($178) is sexy in its simplicity. And at under $200, you can’t beat it.
  • Get on trend with the Winslow dress from Reformation ($268). It comes in six understated neutral hues, and the georgette fabric drapes like a dream.

When in doubt: Go floor length.

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What to Wear to a Black Tie–Optional Wedding

Do you want to chance being the fanciest person at the wedding? Then you can go floor length. Otherwise, a fancy knee-length option (think really snazzy cocktail attire) will work.
That brings us to…

What to Wear to a Semi-Formal or Cocktail Wedding

Jumpsuits! Short, stylish dresses. Big jewelry. Heels.

  • Try this gorgeous lace Sheath Dress from Bardot ($129). All of Bardot’s dresses are fun and flirty, great for weddings and cocktail parties, and most importantly reasonably priced.  
  • This short shimmery Elin dress from Anthropologie’s BHLDN ($200) is fabulous.
  • Comfy and adorable, the Eliza J Flounce Sleeve Sheath Dress ($118) will be a great and versatile addition to your closet. Also: pockets! Could you ask for anything more?
  • Jumpsuits are killer for cocktail attire. Try this fun halter style from Julia Jordan ($158).

When in doubt: Bold lip, heels, and a fancy—but not extravagant—dress.

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What to Wear to a Casual Wedding

Casual usually means just that: casual. But remember, no jeans. Instead, think sundresses, jumpsuits, or a fabulous skirt/shirt combo.

  • This simple and versatile silk tee dress from Cuyana ($215) would look great with some wedges and a pendant necklace.
  • The Fig Dress from Reformation ($218) is lovely in lilac. Pair this breezy dress with a fun necklace and a block heel or wedge and you’re all set for a casual affair.
  • This fun, flirty lace midi dress from ASTR the Label ($89) is perfect for a wedding outdoors or on the beach.
  • The Daphne Wrap Dress from Plenty by Tracy Reese ($158) would fit in perfectly at a garden party in the green motif.

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What to Wear to a Wedding With No Dress Code

No dress code? No problem. If the invitation says nothing about what to wear, don’t panic. Just use this handy guide.

  • What to wear to a religious ceremony: Dress modestly and/or cover your shoulders. You don’t want to feel awkward in a church, mosque, or synagogue. If you’re determined to wear a strapless affair, cover yourself entirely with a shawl that you can then remove for the party. Choose a dress that goes to your knee.
  • What to wear to an outdoor wedding: Don’t wear heels. You’ll spend the entire evening sinking into the grass. Flats or chunky low heels are the way to go.
  • What to wear to a beach wedding: Bring a hat and sunglasses. Everyone will understand if you don’t want to be burned by the sun. Just don’t make it a baseball cap or one of those frayed numbers from the thrift store.
  • What to wear to a winter wedding: Bring a change of footwear. There’s no reason you should wear snowy boots the whole time! Most venues will have a place to leave boots (with your coat). Stick a pair of flats or heels in your bag.
  • What to wear to a summer wedding: Go one notch up from a sundress and choose bright colors. Outdoor summer weddings are often informal, but you don’t want to feel like you’re out for a beer.

At the end of the day, there’s no need to obsess about what to wear to a wedding. This is all about enjoying yourself and honoring your friends. The most important thing is to feel good in what you’ve chosen. So be you! And if you’re really fretting, remember: All eyes will surely be on the couple anyway!
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Health x Body Wellbeing

Beneath The Surface: What Causes Cystic Acne And Which Treatment Options Actually Work

While you wouldn’t be able to tell from her clear complexion, Holly Cutler battled with severe cystic acne 20 years ago. She tried medical and topical treatments with no success. Amid the physical difficulties, cystic acne also affected her emotionally.
The emotional impact of having cystic acne all over my face was devastating,” she says. “You wouldn’t believe the comments people actually made to my face to blame me for the breakouts.” People even called her ugly to her face.
Eventually an esthetician managed to resolve her cystic acne through multiple sessions that involved European-style facials and light-based therapy. But, as is the case for many people who have cystic acne, Holly’s skin was scarred afterward. She says this was a shocking surprise, especially since there were no scar-reversing treatments available at the time. This journey prompted her to look into ways of healing her skin’s scars—and eventually she did just that.
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The emotional impact of having cystic acne motivated Holly to become a medical esthetician herself. Now a well-known figure in the field, she founded FACE Skincare~Medical~Wellness in Bingham Farms, Michigan, where she and her staff use approaches that she says are far more advanced than those that cured her cystic acne nearly 20 years ago as they incorporate lasers, injectables, and naturopathy.
Cystic acne affects many people and as with Holly, it can have a huge emotional impact. Fortunately, it can be treated. Here’s what you need to know about your cystic acne treatment options.

What is cystic acne?

Acne occurs when a pore gets clogged. Typically, a clogged pore will have dirt, dead skin cells, and bacteria inside,” says Janet Prystowsky, MD, a Manhattan-based dermatologist. “When the clogged pore is deep in your skin, then it can develop into a cyst, i.e. a tender bump from inflammation.”
A cystic acne pimple is deeper than a regular whitehead. As a result, it doesn’t have a white bump that can be popped, says Prystowsky. The cyst can feel painful and might be felt under the skin before it shows. The area around the cyst might also appear inflamed and red.
Cystic acne can affect people of all ages, but it’s most likely to affect people in their teens and early twenties, says Toni Stockton, MD, a board-certified dermatologist based in Arizona. “The most common age to develop acne is between 12 and 24 years of age but we still see some patients continue to have to deal with this frustrating condition well into their forties and fifties,” she notes. The acne typically appears on one’s face, back, neck, chest, and upper arms.
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Genetics are probably playing a role in some patients but hormones are a more common cause for cystic acne,” says Stockton. Endocrine conditions like polycystic ovary syndrome, for example, can increase your chances of developing cystic acne.
“The type of sebum (oil) that we that we produce can play a role in whether we get small bumps, whiteheads and blackheads, or cystic lesions,” she adds. “In some patients, their sebum causes only a small reaction in the skin but in others, their bodies make a lot of inflammatory cells that cause a deeper inflammation.”

How can cystic acne be treated?

Unfortunately, cystic acne isn’t something that simply goes away over time—so don’t wait to get help, or the scarring will just get worse, warns Holly. Cystic acne can be painful and inconvenient, but fortunately, it’s treatable. Your best bet is to see a dermatologist as soon as possible so that they can treat your acne before it becomes more severe. According to Stockton and Prystowsky, there are a number of different treatments available for those who suffer from cystic acne.
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    • Steroid Injections

      A cortisone shot, or direct injection of cortisone into a cystic pimple, can be a really effective way to reduce its size and impact. There are side effects, though: The area might look sunken in after some time, as the cortisone affects the fatty tissue in the area around the injection site. Additionally, if cortisone shots are administered too often, they can adversely impact the skin’s ability to heal itself.

    • Antibiotics

      Antibiotics like minocycline or tetracycline can help reduce cystic acne by preventing the spread of bacteria, a main cause of acne. “We do try to limit the length of time that we use antibiotics to three to six months if possible due to the development of drug resistance,” says Stockton. “If a patient is not getting better in this period of time then we would move to another treatment option.” Note that these medications aren’t advisable for pregnant women or those who might conceive while on a course of treatment for cystic acne.

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    • Topical Treatments

      Your dermatologist might recommend retinoid creams and benzoyl peroxide washes to treat your cystic acne. Retinoid topicals, which include a derivative of vitamin A, work to unclog pores whereas benzoyl peroxide topicals reduce acne by killing the acne-causing bacteria on your skin. Some people might be sensitive to these topicals and have adverse reactions that could include painful, red, itching or peeling skin at the application site.

    • Oral Contraception

      Certain forms of oral contraception can improve skin conditions by balancing the hormones, which in turn will regulate sebum production. Of course, some people experience mental and physical side effects when they’re on birth control, which means this treatment isn’t advisable for everyone.

    • Cryosurgery

      A more invasive therapy used by Stockton and other dermatologists to treat cystic acne is cryosurgery. Cryo means cold and cryosurgery involves applying extremely cold substances, like liquid nitrogen or cold carbon dioxide, to the cysts. Cryosurgery causes ice crystals to form within the damaged skin cells, which eventually tears those cells apart. It also reduces blood flow to the cysts, and it can reduce acne scarring. Note that you may feel a tingling, uncomfortable sensation after treatment.

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  • Isotretinoin

    Isotretinoin, also known as Accutane or Roaccutane, is a strong and effective treatment for acne. It contains a strong form of vitamin A. While Stockton prescribes it to her patients, she notes that it’s only used as a last resort for cystic acne that resists other forms of treatment. This is because isotretinoin unfortunately has many side-effects, including dry mouth, chapped lips, and nosebleeds. As with antibiotics, isotretinoin is not advisable for pregnant women or those who may become pregnant, as it can be lethal to a fetus.

  • Changes in Diet and Lifestyle

    One possible way to reduce cystic acne is to start with the food you consume. Stockton says that dairy and whey protein products can trigger or worsen cystic acne. Prystowsky recommends patients avoid whey, dairy, and sugary foods to see how their skin responds.
    Many people are interested in naturopathic, holistic approaches to treating cystic acne. Doug Cutler, ND, of Cutler Integrative Medicine notes that diet and food sensitivities can be linked to cystic acne. As a naturopathic physician, he treats patients by first running a full food sensitivity panel and a comprehensive stool analysis.
    “Food sensitivities originate in the gut and create chronic inflammation, which can impact every part of the body,” he explains. “80 percent of our immune system is found in the gut, so we want to make sure there is no chronic inflammation, which can imbalance the hormones and lead to cystic acne.”
    From there, he might place the patient on an elimination diet for a few months. This involves removing certain foods from your diet to see whether you have an intolerance for them. The elimination diet can help heal the gut and reduce inflammation.

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Cutler also suggests supplements like probiotics and addressing emotional and lifestyle factors. “Internalizing stressors and negative emotions can lead to inflammation and skin issues,” he points out. “It is important to recognize our emotional habits and make lifestyle changes, as well as do mind–body medicine therapies throughout our life.” Cutler’s assertion that stress has been linked to skin conditions and aggravating hormonal imbalances is also supported by ample research and more mainstream MDs.
Of course, many people are drawn to alternative cystic acne treatments because of the side effects associated with mainstream treatments. That said, it’s important to remember that alternative treatments may have side effects, too. Stockton notes that many of the alternative treatments that are suggested for cystic acne haven’t been studied thoroughly. Because of this, certain alternative treatments can be risky unless done under the supervision of a health practitioner. For example, alternative treatments like including supplements and herbs in one’s diet require straightforward conversations with healthcare providers, and it’s imperative to tell your doctor which supplements you’re taking since they can interact with other medications.
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We have to be careful with these types of products because these are not regulated, so some of the products can obtain other materials in them and some of these contain very high levels of supplementation that can even be toxic in the younger population,” Stockton says. “There are a few products that have some support. The best help with navigating alternative treatments is to make a consultation with a medical provider who is knowledgeable with the current use of these products.”
In addition to supplementation and dietary changes, many people are after natural home remedies for cystic acne, but Stockton and Prystowsky both advise that there aren’t any effective home remedies. Seeing your dermatologist should be your first port-of-call, and from there, they can advise you on how to properly care for your skin.

Should you pop the pimples caused by cystic acne?

Definitely not, according to Stockton. “The more you manipulate it, the more likely you are to cause permanent scarring,” she says. “I would suggest leaving the surgical treatment of acne to skincare professionals to avoid unnecessary scarring of the skin.” As tempting as it may be, the depth of cystic acne means the follicle will just burst within the skin, causing further inflammation.
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Speaking of scarring, one of the most difficult aspects of cystic acne is dealing with the scars it leaves behind. “The best way to reduce your chances of permanent scarring is to seek care early, before you develop the scars and to avoid picking and squeezing cystic lesions,” says Stockton. “Understand this can be a long process, but most of the time, we can successfully control the condition.”

The Psychological Impact of Cystic Acne

Unfortunately, we live in a society where clear skin is seen as essential to beauty. For many people with cystic acne, this can be heartbreaking as they can be made to feel unattractive and undervalued. As in Holly’s case, people might also be bullied or teased because of their skin condition. Cystic acne can have an effect on your mental wellbeing, too.
One study shows that adolescents with acne—especially teenage girls—are likely to experience negative psychological impacts including anxiety due to their skin conditions. Another study links acne to poorer mental health and lower self-worth. Of course, this stress isn’t good for your soul or your skin, and unfortunately stress is related to more agitated and blemished skin, as well as a range of physical and mental health issues.

There is hope for Cystic Acne Sufferers

Therapy can be a useful way to work through these feelings. Kelley Kitley, LCSW, says that she often has clients who struggle with self-image and body-image issues due to acne. She recommends therapy to anyone who struggles with self-esteem and confidence issues due to acne or any other cause.
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The treatment I often use is cognitive behavioral therapy, which is restructuring automatic negative thoughts and focusing on the positive,” she says. “If they are getting treatment for the acne, we work on recognizing that the acne is temporary.” While it’s important to sort out the physical effects of cystic acne as soon as possible, the same can be said for the emotional effects of acne. It’s best to see a therapist sooner rather than later.
Holly feels that she’s lucky because her cystic acne motivated her to find her true calling. “I will never forget my experience with cystic acne, and would never want to go through it again, but it did provide me with a life changing experience,” she says. “If we use our challenges instead of letting our challenges use us, we can change the world one person at a time. That is my purpose and destiny now, every day.”

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Nutrition x Advice

Food And Flow: The Best (And Worst) Foods To Eat When You Have Your Period

During your period, your body is going through a lot—you’re losing blood, experiencing pain, and enduring mood-altering hormonal changes. The food you eat—and don’t eat—during your period can have a profound effect on the symptoms you experience.
“The impact of diet during periods starts in the two days and up to a week before the period actually starts,” says OB-GYN Cindy Duke, MD, PhD, and medical director of the Nevada Fertility Institute. Many people notice that they have strong cravings before and during menstruation. This is usually because your body lacks a certain nutrient and your brain interprets this as a craving for an associated food.
“Some research has suggested that a key mood hormone in the brain, which is known as serotonin, can be affected by foods such as white, processed sugars, chocolate, and carbonated drinks,” Duke says. If you indulge in these cravings, it can increase the mood swings you experience during your period. Duke says that a balanced diet can improve your mood while reducing cravings.
What you eat during your period is important—but which foods should you munch, and which ones should you avoid? Here’s a quick guide.

Foods to Indulge on During Menstruation

Protein

Protein-rich foods help maintain your body’s blood sugar levels according to OB-GYN Kecia Gaither, MD, MPH, who is double board certified in maternal-fetal medicine and is the director of perinatal services at Lincoln Medical and Mental Health Center. Gaither recommends consuming protein-rich foods like eggs and tofu. A high protein diet can also reduce your sugar cravings, so it’s a win-win!

Fruit

Fruit naturally contains fructose, a particularly sweet form of sugar. Gaither says your sweet tooth can be satisfied with a little fruit, which has the added benefit of providing vitamins, fiber, and micronutrients, making it a much better choice than processed candy or milk chocolate.
If you want to add more fruit into your diet, avoid processed fruit juices with added sugar. Instead, try to have a fruit-based smoothie each day of your period. Sliced fruits can also be convenient snacks to take on the go—perfect for when those sugar cravings hit.

Iron-Rich Foods

Those with iron deficiencies are likely to face a range of problems during their periods. Since you’re losing blood, you might feel more light-headed and fatigued than usual. Consuming iron-rich foods all month long and especially during your period is a smart move.
Stock up on iron-rich foods like spinach, liver, quinoa, legumes, tofu, and dark chocolate with at least 70 percent cacao solids (yum!). One iron-rich food you’ll want to avoid is fatty red meats (read on to understand why).

Flaxseeds

Flaxseeds are a versatile ingredient that’s rich in omega 3 fatty acids. “Some research has revealed that consumption of omega 3s around your period helps to diminish those mood swings and other PMS symptoms,” Gaither notes.
Add some flaxseeds to your smoothie or sprinkle them over your salads. Alternatively, add some salmon or walnuts to your diet to increase your omega 3 intake.

Water

It might seem obvious, but water is a key part of a balanced diet. When you’re losing a lot of fluids each day, it’s even more important to increase your water intake. Try to drink more than the usual suggestion of two liters a day.
Tired of the hollow taste of plain water? Mix it up by trying some tasty infused water, which can also contain trace amounts of vitamins and minerals.  

Foods to Avoid During Menstruation

Salty Foods

For many people, menstruation means bloating, and bloating means lethargy and discomfort. Foods high in salt don’t help with water retention since they can make you bloat even more according to Gaither. While it might be tempting to reach for a packet of chips, resist the urge to consume salty foods—your body will thank you!

Fatty Red Meats

Many of us crave red meat during our periods. Duke says that if you have an iron deficiency you might crave red meat to make up for the low iron levels you experience while menstruating. However, fatty red meats should be avoided. “Red meats high in fat can increase cramping  by causing the release of substances called prostaglandins,” says Gaither.
Prostaglandin levels are partly responsible for helping your uterus expel its lining during menstruation. However, very high prostaglandin levels are strongly associated with severe menstrual cramps.

Dairy

You might want to comfort yourself by digging into a tub of ice cream, but Gaither suggests reducing your dairy intake during menstruation. Like fatty red meats, dairy increases your prostaglandin levels, which can increase cramping. Long story short? Keep dairy to a minimum. Consider replacing your dairy-based creamer with a non-dairy alternative like coconut milk.
Other than nutrition, there are a few things you can do to reduce the negative symptoms associated with menstruation. Herbal teas can be comforting and potentially healing. For example, peppermint tea might have an analgesic and anti-inflammatory effect, reducing the pain, swelling, and inflammation associated with periods. Ginger tea, on the other hand, can reduce nausea and stomach aches.
Exercise can also be beneficial during your period. Certain exercises can reduce bloating and cramps. When you’re achy and sore, exercise might be the last thing you want to do, but this counter-intuitive approach to menstrual cramp management is actually pretty effective, so when you know your monthly visitor’s on its way, pencil in some time for exercise and swing by the store for your favorite period-approved treats.
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In the Kitchen Nosh

From Hummus To Vegan Meringue: Why Chickpeas Should Always Be In Your Pantry

You’d never guess by looking at it, but the humble chickpea is actually one of the most useful items in your pantry. Chickpeas are the main ingredient in classic favorites such as hummus and falafel, but they can also be used to bulk up vegetarian curries and stews. Even the water from canned chickpeas can be used to create a delicious vegan meringue. (Yes, you read that correctly!)
Whether you love the convenience of canned chickpeas or the nutty flavor profile of dried chickpeas, there are plenty of good reasons to get inspired by this versatile ingredient.

Chickpeas are a nutritional powerhouse.

A single one-cup serving of cooked chickpeas contains an incredible 50 percent of your recommended daily intake of fiber and 14.5 grams of protein—a winning combination that will help you stay full throughout the day. With a modest 269 calories per serving, chickpeas are a natural pairing to fruits and vegetables as well as lean sources of protein such as chicken and fish.
Chickpeas are also an excellent source of folate, which can help prevent anemia and birth defects when consumed in adequate quantities by pregnant woman, and manganese, a trace mineral your body needs for normal brain and nerve function as well as fat and carbohydrate metabolism. Chickpeas are a good source of iron if you follow a vegetarian or vegan diet, as a one-cup serving contains 4.7 milligrams or 26 percent of your recommended daily intake.

Chickpeas: Are they a fruit or a vegetable?

Neither. Chickpeas are legumes—a broad term that refers to either the fruit or seed of a plant. Chickpeas are actually the seeds of the chickpea plant, which is why they are classified as legumes rather than a fruit or veg.

Canned Versus Dried Chickpeas

Canned chickpeas win major points for convenience as there’s no overnight soaking or lengthy cooking period to take into consideration when using them. The main drawback of using canned chickpeas is that they tend to be on the bland side, lacking the depth of flavor found in dried chickpeas.
Canned chickpeas are ideal for use in dishes whose flavor relies on other components, such as bean salads, curries, and soups. Dried chickpeas are much nuttier in flavor and are great for recipes such as hummus and falafel, where their flavor plays a starring role.

Cooking Dried Chickpeas Like the Pros

To make dried chickpeas from scratch, soak the chickpeas in plenty of cold water in a large bowl or nonreactive pot for 12 to 24 hours*, by which time the chickpeas should have doubled in size. Stainless steel is your best bet since reactive vessels, like those made of aluminum, copper, or cast iron might react with the chickpeas, adversely affecting their taste, color, or smell.
Drain the chickpeas in a colander and rinse with cold water. Transfer the soaked chickpeas to a large stock pot and cover with at least three inches of water. Bring the water to a boil and then lower to a gentle simmer, cooking uncovered for anywhere from 60 minutes to two (or more) hours. Taste periodically to test for doneness, making sure to replenish the cooking liquid as it evaporates. The perfectly cooked chickpea should be firm yet soft in the middle, but don’t fret if you’ve overcooked your chickpeas—these can be ideal for dips like hummus!
*Forgot to soak your chickpeas? It’s not too late! You can cover dried chickpeas with boiling water and let them sit (off the heat source) for one hour in a nonreactive pot or large, heat-proof bowl before proceeding to cook them as you normally would.

Freezing Chickpeas 101

Chickpeas triple in size once they’ve been cooked, which means you might have leftovers that are ideal for freezing. Frozen chickpeas can be kept in resealable bags for up to six months and defrosted in under an hour at room temperature. For the best frozen chickpeas, arrange them in a single layer on a baking sheet to ensure they freeze individually (rather than in a chunk or pile) before transferring them into bags or containers.

Buying the Best Chickpeas

Even dried chickpeas need to be fresh, although it can be difficult to identify chickpeas that are past their prime. Bags of dried chickpeas that have sat for too long will wind up shriveled and discolored and can take much longer to cook than a fresher option would. The best place to shop for dried chickpeas is your local Middle Eastern, Greek, or Arabic grocery store as they tend to have higher turnover rates. If dried chickpeas are unavailable in your area, they can be purchased online.

Cooking with Chickpeas

Discover the magic of aquafaba!

Aquafaba is the totally amazing but entirely unassuming liquid found in all cans of chickpeas. If you thought a good vegan meringue, marshmallow, or egg white cocktail was an impossibility, prepare to have your mind blown by aquafaba. Amanda Li, registered dietitian, founder of Wellness Simplified, and professor at the Chef School at George Brown College, is a huge fan of aquafaba as a vegan alternative to egg whites.
She suggests “[saving] the water from canned chickpeas and pouring it into your KitchenAid mixer with the whisk attachment. Add a bit of sugar and whisk on high for 10 to 15 minutes. You’re left with an incredible white foam, which you can than bake into meringues or use in desserts that require beaten egg whites like souffles or angel food cake.”
To replace egg whites in a recipe with aquafaba, substitute 2 tablespoons of aquafaba for every one medium egg white. Note that the liquid leftover from cooking dried chickpeas will probably be too thin for achieving your desired result, so sticking to the aquafaba from a can of chickpeas is your best bet.

Enhance your protein-packed dishes with chickpea flour.

Chickpea flour is made from grinding up chickpeas, which means it retains all the amazing health benefits of regular chickpeas (aka tons of protein, fiber, and iron). Popular in Indian, Italian, French, and Bangladeshi cuisines, chickpea flour is just starting to gain momentum in the States.
Chickpea flour can be used to make fritters, flat breads, crepes, and in Li’s case, her Savory Chickpea Waffle recipe. Li is a huge fan of chickpea flour not only for its taste but “because even for people who may not like beans or legumes, it’s a great way for them to start incorporating these fabulous high-fiber goodies into their diet!”

Baked Falafel

Most of us are familiar with falafel thanks to street stands and Middle Eastern restaurants, but did you know these vegan patties are easy to make at home with chickpeas? Try this homemade version made with dried chickpeas next time you’re hankering for falafel.  Tuck them into pita bread or add them to your next Buddha bowl. Instead of the traditional frying method, this recipe relies on baking the falafel in order to cut down on excess fat.

Servings: 6 to 8 (makes about 24 falafel patties)

Ingredients:

  • 2 cups of dried chickpeas (canned chickpeas won’t work)
  • 1 small red onion, diced
  • 6 cloves of garlic, finely minced (or about 1 Tbsp. of jarred minced garlic)
  • ½ cup fresh parsley, loosely packed
  • ½ cup fresh cilantro, loosely packed
  • 1 Tbsp. + 1 tsp. cumin (make sure the cumin is fresh as it needs to have a pronounced taste for this recipe)
  • Pinch of cayenne (optional)
  • 2 tsp. kosher salt
  • ¾ tsp. freshly ground black pepper
  • 1 tsp. baking powder (this acts as the leavener in this recipe—ensuring airy, lightly textured falafels)
  • Juice of half a lemon
  • 2 to 3 Tbsp. grapeseed oil (opt for this oil for its neutral flavor and high smoke point)

Special Equipment:

  • Large bowl
  • Colander
  • Measuring cups and spoons
  • Food processor
  • Large cast iron pan OR large rimmed baking sheet
  • Long-handled tongs

Method:

  1. Soak the chickpeas in a large bowl that has been filled with cold water, making sure all of the chickpeas are covered with at least 3 inches of water. Let them soak for at least 12 hours (up to 24 hours is ideal). The chickpeas should be double in volume by the end of their soaking time.
  2. Preheat the oven to 375° F before proceeding to the next step.
  3. Drain the soaked chickpeas in a colander and transfer to a food processor. Add the red onion, garlic, parsley, cilantro, cumin, cayenne, salt, black pepper, baking powder, and the juice of half a lemon to the food processor and pulse until smooth.
  4. Using your hands, roll the falafel mixture into small balls about 1 inch in diameter. You should end up with about 24 falafels.
  5. Coat the bottom of a large cast iron pan or wide-rimmed baking sheet with grapeseed oil (you might need to use two vessels to cook all the falafel at once).
  6. Place the pan or baking sheet in the hot oven for 10 minutes or until the oil begins to look shimmery.
  7. Remove the pan or baking sheet from the oven. Working quickly and using long-handled tongs, space out the falafel balls in the hot oil so that they aren’t touching before moving them to the oven.
  8. Bake the falafels for 15 minutes. Carefully turn them over and bake for another 15 minutes. When you remove them from the oven, the falafels should be golden-brown and slightly crispy.
  9. Serve the falafels warm in a pita or in a salad with shredded lettuce, tomatoes, cucumbers, red onions, and tahini.

Short on time? Skip the chickpea prep with a pre-made falafel mix like this one from Tarazi.

Basic Hummus (and Some Suggestions on how to Spice it Up!)

Hummus is so delicious and easy to make at home that you’ll be wondering why you’ve been settling for store-bought all this time. This basic recipe for hummus uses canned chickpeas, but it’s also a great way to use dried chickpeas that have been overcooked. Once you’ve mastered this basic hummus recipe you can create your own variations on the classic dip (or try one of the suggestions below).

Ingredients:

  • One 15-ounce can of chickpeas, drained OR scant 2 cups of overcooked chickpeas
  • Juice of one lemon
  • ¼ cup tahini*
  • 1 to 2 garlic cloves, minced**
  • 3 Tbsp. olive oil + more for drizzling
  • 1 tsp. cumin
  • ½ tsp. kosher salt + more to taste
  • 2 to 4 Tbsp. iced water***
  • Paprika
  • Small handful of fresh parsley, roughly chopped

*Tahini is a thick paste made from ground sesame seeds. It has a nutty smell and flavor and is an important ingredient in Middle Eastern cooking. Tahini can separate easily, so stir in the top layer of oil before using.
**The garlic used in hummus will become significantly stronger after even a day in the fridge. If you plan on having leftovers, restrain yourself to a single clove of garlic. Your loved ones will thank you!
***Using iced water helps with emulsion, resulting in a hummus that is whipped and rich.

Special Equipment:

  • Food processor
  • Spatula
  • Measuring spoons
  • Shallow bowl for serving

Method:

  1. Add the chickpeas, lemon juice, tahini, olive oil, cumin, and salt to a food processor. Blitz until smooth (this may take several minutes), scraping down the sides with a spatula as needed.
  2. Beginning with 2 tablespoons of iced water and using up to 4 tablespoons, pulse the chickpea mixture until completely emulsified. The hummus should have a texture like whipped clay and be completely smooth.
  3. Transfer the hummus to a shallow serving dish and serve at room temperature with warm pita bread or crudites. Top the hummus with a dusting of paprika, a drizzle of olive oil, and a sprinkling of fresh parsley.

Once you’ve mastered the basic recipe, you can play with these and other variations to find your favorite.

Moroccan-Style Hummus

Add 1 teaspoon of Ras el Hanout and one preserved lemon. Top with cilantro and mint.

Sweet Potato Hummus

Add the flesh of one steamed or roasted sweet potato and the juice of one orange (in place of the lemon juice). Top with Aleppo pepper.

Avocado Hummus

Add the flesh of one avocado, 1 teaspoon chili powder, the juice of one lime (in place of the lemon juice), and top with chopped tomatoes, red onions, and cilantro.
Like the convenience of single servings? Make sticking to your meal plan easy with pre-portioned hummus packs like these made by Sabra.

Basic Roasted Chickpea Recipe

Roasted chickpeas can be seasoned with wide variety of herbs and spices, making them an easily customizable snack for any occasion. When making roasted chickpeas it’s important to ensure the chickpeas are completely dry before adding the oil and seasoning or they will end up with a soggy coating and a mushy texture.
Watch the chickpeas carefully as they are roasting as they can go from undercooked to burned in a matter of minutes. Store roasted chickpeas in an airtight lidded contained away from direct sunlight for up to two weeks.

Yield: 4 Snack-Size Servings

Ingredients:

  • One 15-ounce can of chickpeas, drained and patted dry
  • 2 Tbsp. olive oil
  • ½ tsp. kosher salt + more to taste
  • Your choice of seasoning: smoked paprika, chili powder, cumin, Italian seasoning, dill, herbes de Provence, curry powder, za’atar, or garlic powder

Special Equipment:

  • Paper towel or clean tea towel
  • Mixing bowl
  • Large spoon or spatula
  • Parchment paper
  • Rimmed baking sheet

Method:

  1. Preheat the oven to 400°F.
  2. Dry the chickpeas completely, rolling them in between two paper towels or in a clean tea towel.
  3. Transfer the chickpeas to a mixing bowl. Drizzle the olive oil over the chickpeas and add the kosher salt and your favorite herbs and spices. Taste a chickpea before roasting to see if they need more salt or other seasoning.
  4. Spread the chickpeas in a single layer on a parchment-lined rimmed baking sheet.
  5. Roast the chickpeas for 30 to 40 minutes, giving the baking sheet a good shake once or twice to ensure the chickpeas are evenly roasted.
  6. Remove the chickpeas from the oven and enjoy them hot or at room temperature.

Need roasted chickpeas on the go? Li recommends the Balsamic & Cracked Pepper chickpeas from Three Farmers. Her favorite way to use them? “I absolutely love them topped on my salads as croutons!”

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Get The Best Rest: These Are The Best Sleeping Positions For Your Health

We spend about one-third of our lives sleeping—or at least trying to: getting our rooms to the perfect temperature and lighting, nestling under just the right amount of covers, arranging our limbs into the best sleeping position. And yet sleeping—one thing that should be so easy—is a struggle for many.
Of course, sleep is complicated. Sleep quality is a major health issue for Americans. According to 2014 numbers from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 35.2 percent of adults get less than seven hours of sleep per night.
If that sounds like you and you’re looking to make a change, take note: Your bedtime and your sleeping position aren’t the only factors that determine the quality of your sleep. According to the Division of Sleep Medicine at Harvard Medical School, improving your sleep hygiene—the habits that affect your sleep—can make a substantial difference. If you’re on prescription medication, living la vida loca, feeling especially stressed out at work, or are indulging in a few too many coffees a day (especially close to bedtime), look at tweaking those parts of your life where you can.
But if you’ve already zenned out around matters both professional and personal, you eat the healthiest foods at the healthiest of times, and your bedroom is perfectly designed for a peaceful slumber—and you still can’t sleep, it might be time to look at how you’re sleeping. Specifically, you need to figure out the best sleeping positions for you because the way you sleep impacts how good that sleep is—and your overall health.
“The biggest purpose for sleep is to help us recover from the activities of the day physically, mentally, and emotionally,” says Scott Bautch, chiropractor and president of the American Chiropractic Association’s Council on Occupational Health. “The physical part is that if I sleep in a good posture, meaning neutral, my spine is resting, and everything is in the right position…I’m trying to help the body recover by trying to be as neutral as possible, so those ligaments and muscles get a chance to recover from the activities of the day.”  
A poor sleeping position can contribute to all sorts of conditions, from insomnia to back pain. But you can make a few minor changes to the way you lay to figure out the best sleeping position. Don’t be surprised if you see—and feel—major results.

Best Sleeping Positions: The Basics

Sleep specialists typically break down positions into three categories: side, back, and stomach. Within those three categories, there are plenty of variations. For instance, sleeping in the fetal position will actually affect you differently than sleeping with your back straight in what some refer to as the log position.
Sleep specialists typically make a simple recommendation: Do what makes you comfortable. If you’re having issues falling asleep or staying asleep, however, the best sleeping position for you likely involves sleeping on your side. 
That’s especially true if you have trouble breathing in other sleep postures. Harvard’s Division of Sleep Medicine also suggests that side sleeping is the best sleeping position for you if you struggle with troubled breathing at night as it may reduce the risk of obstructive sleep apnea (OSA), an extreme and potentially dangerous type of snoring. The school notes that weight loss and continuous positive airway pressure (CPAP) therapy are more effective methods of ensuring long-term healthy sleeping, but if you only experience breathing issues while sleeping on your back, you might consider being comfortably situated on your side as your new best sleeping position.

Best Sleeping Positions for Insomnia

Around 10 percent of American adults suffer from daytime impairment resulting from insomnia and around 30 percent of American adults deal with regular sleep disruption. It’s clear that sleep is a problem in America, and it seems to be getting worse: According to reporting from The New Yorker, insomnia diagnoses rose from fewer than one million to more than five million between 1993 and 2006. It’s a big deal, considering that sleep deprivation can seriously affect health.
To treat insomnia, you have to identify the cause of the condition. That’s not always easy, though, since everything from diet to television-watching habits can affect how you sleep (or don’t). One factor that researchers generally agree upon is that finding the best sleeping position for you can affect whether or not you’re getting healthy sleep.
Issues like back pain and indigestion can also contribute to insomnia, and if you’re constantly tossing and turning to try to get more comfortable, that won’t help you solve any of those issues. That’s why identifying any other physical issues—and attempting to remedy those through sleeping positions and other measures—is key.

Best Sleeping Positions for Back Pain

Back pain is incredibly prevalent. In 2012, the American Physical Therapy Association reported that nearly two-thirds of Americans experience low back pain. Put another (equally painful) way, on any given night, some 31 million people will suffer from low back pain in the States alone.
Even worse, low back pain and poor sleep work together to make sufferers miserable: One study from The Clinical Journal of Pain found that a bad night’s sleep indeed led to a day of increased back pain. Here’s the kicker: A day of worse pain was also associated with a bad night’s sleep! It’s easy to fall into a downward spiral of pain and fatigue.  
Finding the best sleeping position for back pain that works for you could be a game changer. Here’s what medical science says about finding the best sleeping positions for back pain:

Supine Sleeping (or Log Position)

The best sleeping positions for back pain involve keeping your posture neutral, meaning that the body doesn’t bend or twist out of line. Bautch explains, “If you’re standing up and your ears are over your shoulders, and your shoulders are over your hips, and your hips are over your knees, there’s a neutral posture from front to back and left to right. So we want to reproduce that [in sleep].”
Whatever you do, don’t sleep on your stomach, researchers say. The key to finding a healthy sleeping position that eases pain in your back is to keep the spinal column aligned according to its natural shape, which requires support. Sleeping on your stomach doesn’t offer much support for the spine and may even push it into an unnatural curve.
Sleeping face-down can lead to other health problems as well, Bautch warns. “That’s by far the worst,” he says, referring to stomach-sleeping. “People that sleep on their stomachs have more hand and arm problems than any other population…And because we’re not going to breathe into our pillows, we twist our neck all night long. Often we bring our knee and arm up. We’ll put our hand underneath our head, and that continued irritation, we don’t recover from. As life goes on, we start to have more numbness symptoms in our neck and arm.”
Your spine is a long cord of vertebrae, the smaller interlocking bones. Between each vertebra, there’s a squishy intervertebral disk—the skeleton’s shock absorbers. These disks are mostly made of water. Why is this important? When you’re upright, you put pressure on your intervertebral disks, slowly squeezing out some of the fluid. Sleep is when your disks rehydrate. Therefore, the best sleeping position for back pain is one that evenly distributes your body weight to keep pressure on the spine at a minimum.
If you’re most comfortable sleeping on your back, that’s great (unless you’re pregnant—in which case, read on!). “Sleeping on your back is definitely the best position for all body parts, because we’re less likely to twist or compress the nerves,” says Bautch. “Sleeping on your back is definitely the preferred way.”
Just be sure to get a few extra pillows. Place a small one behind your knees, bending them slightly. (If you want to get technical, bend your knees to 135 degrees—the angle prescribed by ergonomist Bart Haex in his book Back and Bed: Ergonomic Aspects of Sleeping.) Find a pillow that keeps your neck and shoulders in line with your ears and hips, which will keep your spine straight all the way to the base of your skull.

Lateral Sleeping

The lateral sleeping position—lying on your side—can also be a good sleeping position for back pain. Pull your knees a bit upward toward your torso to maintain stability. The right mattress also goes a long way here. You want your hip and shoulder to sink into the mattress just enough to keep your spine straight. Perfect the lateral sleeping position by placing a firm body pillow between your knees.
“If you sleep on your side, think about if you looked down and said, ‘Okay, here’s how wide my knees are when I’m standing normally,’” Bautch says. “I’m a big fan of body pillows. You put them between your knees, from your ankles to your knees, all the way to your arms. You hug them, and you have a tendency to keep your arms and legs in the right place.”
Try to align your hips, shoulders, and ears. If you can’t, adjust your pillows. “From your shoulders, you could draw a line on your spine and it would go all the way to your pelvis,” Bautch says. “And if I drew that line, it would continue right through between your knees and all the way to your ankle. That’s how I’d want to try to sleep.”
Long story short: The best sleeping positions for back pain are supine (on your back) and lateral (on your side). Use pillows to support parts of your body that aren’t sinking into the mattress, and to keep your body stable during sleep. Remember, you won’t be awake to purposely adjust.
And if that back pain gets worse, or doesn’t go away? Talk to your doctor.  

Best Sleeping Positions for Neck Pain

Neck pain and your sleeping position are strongly associated with one another. In fact, poor sleeping positions can not only lead to unhealthy sleep, but to musculoskeletal disorders in the neck and shoulders as well. You want the neck to remain straight, lying in the neutral posture. Unfortunately, that’s not something most contemporary pillows are built for.
“Most pillows are biggest in the middle and smallest at the edge,” says Bautch. “But they really need to be bigger on the edge and smaller in the middle because our head needs to sink down so we stay neutral all the time.”
If you have a conventional pillow, you probably need more neck support to get truly healthy sleep, especially if you sleep on your side. Your pillow alone is unlikely to keep your neck and spine aligned, which means it can exacerbate neck pain rather than providing relief.
Bautch suggests you modify your pillow. “Roll up a towel or something. You need to get an edge. The edge needs to be more supportive than the middle.”
Again, sleeping on your back is the best sleeping position to keep your body in a neutral position. If you can drift off on your back (and don’t snore, especially if you’re sleeping with your boo), you won’t go wrong with that sleeping position. Your neck will thank you.

Best Sleeping Positions for Digestion

Everyone knows they’re not supposed to eat just before bed, but many people do it anyway. Maybe you worked late and got home starving. Maybe dinner was just so satisfying that it put you into a food coma and bedtime became inevitable. No matter what happened, your sleeping position can determine how well your body is able to digest that late-night meal. 
Figuring out your best sleeping position is particularly important if you’re prone to heartburn or acid reflux. The gold standard that doctors recommend for people with gastroesophageal reflux disease (GERD) is to raise the head of the bed with six- to eight-inch tall blocks. Extra pillows just won’t cut it according to “Effect of Bed Head Elevation During Sleep in Symptomatic Patients of Nocturnal Gastroesophageal Reflux”—a study published in the Journal of  Gastroenterology and Hepatology in 2012—because they may only lift the head and shoulders. Besides, you might just roll off the pillows in your sleep.
If you’re just looking for relief from an overfull stomach, though, and you don’t want to break out the wood blocks, try sleeping on your left side, which is considered the best sleeping position for digestion. Just be sure not to lie on your right side. A major study found that reflux was significantly worse in healthy subjects when they lay on their right sides rather than their left.
Researchers fed 10 subjects sausage-and-egg biscuits and coffee, then had half of them lie on their left sides and half on their right. The latter group suffered more acid exposure and more episodes of reflux. The takeaway? Next time you overindulge just before bed, try lying on your left side. Just don’t forget that pillow between your knees.

Best Sleeping Positions for Pregnancy

Expecting mothers develop sleep disorders frequently, which isn’t completely surprising, considering the vast range of hormonal, physical, and emotional changes that accompany pregnancy. Sleeping in the best position is, again, one factor among many. If poor sleep is routinely affecting your quality of life during pregnancy, you’re best off speaking with your OB-GYN.
That said, the American Pregnancy Association says sleeping on your back is one sleeping position you should definitely avoid during pregnancy since it can cause a decrease in both maternal and and fetal circulation. They also advise against sleeping on your stomach, because, well, you’re a little too big for that.
Citing the work of OB-GYN Glade Curtis, the Association says that the best sleeping position for pregnant women is on their left sides, keeping their legs and knees bent. Placing a pillow under the abdomen can improve comfort in the last trimester. If you have hip pain, again, try placing a pillow between your knees. Try to get as much sleep as you can now, mama!

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Think You Might Have A Stomach Ulcer? Here’s What You Need To Know

It’s happening again. You finished lunch a little while ago and that painful burning sensation in your stomach is back. You pop a Tums and wait for relief, but you know that it won’t last and your heartburn will probably start up again soon. You start to feel queasy and hope you don’t need to run to the bathroom. Why does this keep happening after every meal?
You might have a stomach ulcer. There are more than half a million new cases of stomach ulcers every year, and around 25 million Americans will get an ulcer at some point during their lives, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). This health issue is relatively common, but the good news is that ulcers have a high likelihood of being permanently cured.
So how do you know if your stomach pain is caused by an ulcer? HealthyWay asked Will Bulsiewicz, MD, MSCI, the board-certified practicing gastroenterologist behind the popular gut health Instagram account @theguthealthmd, to bust the common misconceptions about stomach ulcers. (Hint: Spicy food doesn’t cause them!) He also shared expert advice on diagnosing, treating, and preventing the disease. Here’s what you should know about stomach ulcers.

Understanding the Condition

There are many myths and misconceptions that swirl around when people talk about stomach ulcers. So let’s set the record straight, starting with the name.
“The term ‘stomach ulcer’ is something that people use liberally to refer to a peptic ulcer, which occurs in the stomach or in the first part of the small intestine, known as the duodenum,” says Bulsiewicz. “A peptic ulcer is basically a breakdown of the lining in the small intestine or stomach due to a disruption in the natural balance between inflammation and the barrier to inflammation that exists in the body.”
In other words, it’s a sore or hole in the lining of the stomach or the first part of the small intestine. Ouch!
So what causes stomach ulcers? You’ve probably heard that spicy food can burn holes in your stomach lining or that a stressful lifestyle contributes stomach ulcers, but that’s not entirely true.
“It does make for an interesting story, though,” explains Bulsiewicz. “After the Germans bombed England in World War II, they found that the rate of stomach ulcers rose substantially, so that’s where the myth that stress causes stomach ulcers comes from. While there’s some truth to the concept of a stress ulcer (they’re common in patients who are critically ill with organ failure), it’s generally caused by a bacterial infection.”
That’s right—rather than a few months of heightened stress causing stomach issues, the Helicobacter pylori bacterium (commonly known as H. pylori) is actually responsible for around 90 percent of ulcers.
“Many people will carry H. pylori without showing any symptoms. There are theories that exist that we have evolved to have this bacteria and it’s protective, but it also disrupts defense mechanisms in the stomach and therefore causes ulcers in stomach or the first part of the small intestine,” says Bulsiewicz.
As for other causes of stomach ulcers, the main culprit can be found right in your own medicine cabinet: non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs), like aspirin, ibuprofen, and naproxen. (Note: Acetaminophen, or Tylenol, is not an NSAID.)
“Long-term use of NSAIDs can break down the natural defense mechanisms in the stomach and small intestine and cause direct harm, wearing away the lining,” says Bulsiewicz. “I don’t love these medicines, because when someone’s having severe gastrointestinal bleeding, it’s often because they’ve been using too much of these medicines to treat arthritis and things like that.”
Stomach ulcers can also be caused by Zollinger–Ellison syndrome, a rare condition that causes the body to produce too much acid. Zollinger–Ellison syndrome occurs in only about 1 in every 1 million people and is more common among men between the ages of 30 and 50, according to the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases. Your doctor can run tests to determine if you have Zollinger–Ellison syndrome.

Signs You Might Have a Stomach Ulcer

Everyone suffers from the occasional stomachache—it’s no fun, but it usually passes after a couple hours without cause for alarm. But what if the pain is recurring? Could it be an ulcer? What do stomach ulcers feel like?
“The classic indicator is pain in the upper part of the stomach in your midline, but not quite in the chest. It’s the epigastric area,” says Bulsiewicz.
The doctor goes on to explain that mealtime can influence when you feel the worst.
“If it’s a stomach ulcer, the pain happens right after eating. If the ulcer is in the small intestine, it will hurt two or three hours after a meal,” he added.
However, pain isn’t the only sign of a problem. Other stomach ulcer symptoms include nausea, getting full too quickly (a condition known as “early satiety”), and anemia. Abnormal vomit and stools, such as if they’re bloody or look like coffee grounds, can also be big warning signs.
“If you have severe abdominal pain or any of the other symptoms, you should go see your doctor,” warns Bulsiewicz. “Don’t wait until it worsens to ask what’s going on.”
Delaying treatment for a stomach ulcer could lead to potentially serious complications.
“It might erode all the way through the lining of your stomach or intestine and create a perforation. You’ll develop peritonitis and there’s be a sudden onset of severe abdominal pain. It’s also possible to develop an obstruction, where the ulcer causes a deformation of the tube, or lumen, of the intestine and food can’t get through,” says Bulsiewicz.
If you suspect you might have a stomach ulcer or another gastrointestinal issue, get in touch with your physician as soon as possible. Early treatment can help you avoid painful complications down the road. 

How to Get a Diagnosis

When it comes to any health issue, reading about symptoms on the internet should be used strictly for gathering background information. Only a medical professional can say for sure whether you have a stomach ulcer.
Generally, your doctor will start by checking for an H. pylori infection, which might indicate a stomach ulcer. They can look for the bacteria through a stool, blood, or breath test.
You may also need to undergo an upper endoscopy, one of the best ways to diagnose a stomach ulcer, says Bulsiewicz. You’ll receive anesthesia, then the gastroenterologist will slip an endoscope (a thin, flexible tube with a light, camera, and tools to collect tissue for a biopsy) down your throat to look for sores.
“Once I’ve diagnosed it as an ulcer, I can administer a treatment during the procedure if medically appropriate. The endoscopy is the most direct test. It presents the least likelihood of missing an ulcer and it offers opportunity for treatment,” he says.
While used less frequently, a barium swallow can also help determine whether you have a stomach ulcer. This test involves swallowing a liquid with barium sulfate, which will coat the upper part of your gastrointestinal tract. Then the doctor will take a series of X-rays to watch the contrast and potentially spot an ulcer.
Your doctor will provide a recommendation on the best way to diagnose a stomach ulcer in your body.

Treating the Problem

Once your doctor confirms you have a stomach ulcer, he or she can begin making recommendations for treatment. The good news is that most stomach ulcer treatments are short and will help you feel better fast. Stomach ulcers are relatively common and easily cured with the right medical interventions.
“If you have H. pylori, the classic treatment is called a triple therapy. It’s a combination of two antibiotics—usually amoxicillin and clarithromycin—and a proton-pump inhibitor (or PPI), such as Prevacid, Nexium, and Prilosec, to reduce stomach acid,” says Bulsiewicz. “You’ll start to feel better in a few days unless you have a severe ulcer.”
Some doctors may treat a stomach ulcer with a histamine-2 (H2) receptor antagonist, rather than a PPI, to help your body cut down on acid production. The exact combination of drugs, dosage, and duration of treatment will depend on your medical history and the severity of your stomach ulcer.
As with almost every drug, stomach ulcer treatments such as PPIs do come with the risk of side effects. However, Bulsiewicz says that PPIs are safe and effective for the treatment of stomach ulcers.
“Many of the studies people have seen reported in the news about PPIs and their risks are overblown. In general, we believe these medicines are very safe. While there are risks, taking the medicine for 4 to 8 weeks is going to be completely safe for most people,” he says.
Your doctor may also provide recommendations for treating stomach ulcers with natural remedies in addition to medical preventions. For example, Bulsiewicz says that in addition to a PPI, he’s used fiber and probiotics to treat ulcers. This approach fosters gut health and may help prevent future stomach ulcers.
Fiber, probiotics, and possibly fermented foods: These are things I believe in. What’s cool is that most things that contain fiber also have prebiotics, the food found in plants that feeds our gut microbiome and helps our body work the way it’s supposed to,” Bulsiewicz says.
Garlic and licorice root may potentially help heal stomach ulcers, but more research is required before they can be relied on as a natural treatment, adds Bulsiewicz.

Soothe with food.

What you put in your body can have a big influence on how you feel when you have a stomach ulcer. Bulsiewicz recommends eating a high-fiber diet (as long as you don’t have an obstruction) and limiting consumption of spicy and acidic foods.
“They can aggravate an ulcer. You should also avoid processed foods, which may impair healing of the ulcer,” he says.
It’s a good idea to lay off alcohol and smoking when you’re treating a stomach ulcer, Bulsiewicz cautions.
So what are the best foods to eat when you have a stomach ulcer? Stick with fresh, low-acid fruits and vegetables and lean meats. They’ll give your body the essential nutrients it needs during a time of healing. You may also consider eating homemade sauerkraut, which contains beneficial bacteria for your gut.

Stomach Ulcers and Pregnancy

During pregnancy, there are always heightened concerns about the impact health woes will have on the mother and the baby.
“Pregnancy may actually be protective when it comes to peptic ulcers, because increased progesterone levels from pregnancy lower stomach acid output and create more protective mucus. Nonetheless, ulcers can still happen and are more likely in those who smoke or who have a prior history of ulcer disease,” says Bulsiewicz, adding that if you think you might have a stomach ulcer while you’re pregnant, your doctor can perform an endoscopy—ideally during the second trimester—to make a diagnosis.
“There are safe medication options that could be used to treat the ulcer, such as the H2 receptor antagonists,” says Bulsiewicz.
Your doctor is the best source of information for diagnosis and treatment of a stomach ulcer during pregnancy.

Preventing Stomach Ulcers

Perhaps you’ve figured out that something else was the cause of your stomach pain (ate one slice too many at a pizza party? We don’t judge!), but now that you’ve read about stomach ulcers, you’re worried about getting one. How can you prevent it from happening to you?
“Be cautious with your use of NSAIDs. That’s what I see as the dominant controllable factor,” says Bulsiewicz.
He also recommends moderating the amount of alcohol you drink, quitting smoking, and eating a clean, healthy diet.
“Maximizing your consumption of fruits and vegetables and really doing your best to not consume processed foods is to everyone’s benefit,” says Bulsiewicz.
If you’re worried about getting a stomach ulcer, talk to your doctor so you can work together to decide the best way to check for an H. pylori infection and prevent gastrointestinal issues.

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6 Basic Rules For Teaching Your Kids Internet Safety

If you’ve spent any time at all on social media lately (and let’s face it, what parent doesn’t escape to Facebook now and again for some adult conversation?), you’ve probably seen one of the “good old days” memes. They’re all slightly different, but there’s one general sentiment: Kids today are spoiled brats, and technology is to blame.
It’s easy enough to hit share when you’re thinking back to your glorious childhood of climbing trees and reading battered paperbacks. But if you’re a parent struggling with the question of when to let your kids into the world of modern technology and just how to keep them safe, the memes can be a slap in the face.
Of course you were out on your bike instead of texting on an iPhone when you were 12…the iPhone hadn’t yet been invented! But now you’re raising a child in the era of digital natives, and at some point gadgets are going to end up in their hands, if only because they’re part of most public school programs in this day and age.
So what can you do to keep your kids from being swallowed up by the internet behemoth?

1. Use technology to your advantage.

By the time your kids are 18 months old, it’s okay to let them have some screen time, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics. They even offer up recommended time limits for each age group. If you’re looking to stick to the doctors’ limits or make your own, there’s no need to clock watch while you’re trying to do laundry and make dinner. Technology is on your side.
Internet filtering and monitor systems are a wise (and relatively inexpensive) investment to make from the get-go. Some, like Disney’s Circle, allow parents to preset sites kids can visit and allot an amount of time kids can spend online before the system shuts them out, turning that iPad in your 2-year-old’s hand into a really expensive sippy cup coaster. Before you purchase something new, dig out the guidebook for your wifi router. Some have similar controls.

2. Follow the rules.

Most of the age-related guidelines are just that, guidelines. There’s no punishment if you’re down with the flu and your toddler (gasp!) watches three hours of Paw Patrol.
Most social media platforms, on the other hand, have hard and fast rules that kids cannot create profiles until age 13. If a child is discovered on the platform, they can be kicked off entirely.  
Sure, your kids are (almost definitely) going to have friends whose parents let them break the platform rules. They’ll tell you that they want to be on Instagram just like Jamal or Joanie. But pulling up each platform’s terms of service can help quash the complaints.
Although you don’t want to badmouth another parent, remind your kids that rules in your house are meant to be followed. Placing internet rules in the context of home rules can also cement in their mind that there’s no wiggle room…not even on that “no dessert before dinner” rule.

3. Be a good netizen.

When someone brakes hard in front of you and you let out a stream of curse words, you know your toddler is bound to pick up a new vocabulary. Kids watch us. They learn from us. And that applies to what we do online too.
If you are using “iffy” websites to download free movies that you’re not quite sure are legal or if you’re engaging in some nasty rage tweeting, your kids are taking notice…and the chances that they stumble on those iffy sites or turn into cyberbullies themselves are much higher.

4. Lock things down.

The services a child needs to access on a gadget vary wildly depending on their age and why you gave them the gadget in the first place. If you give a 4-year-old a tablet for reading books, for example, they likely don’t need internet access. And a 6-year-old may like looking up facts about animals, but they don’t need to be able to iMessage with anyone.
Before you hand over any gadget, get acquainted with what it does, and turn off any services you don’t feel your child needs or is ready to handle. That could mean giving your 4-year-old an iPad with the texting, email, and internet browser shut off, plus a password lock that prevents them from downloading any new content without your approval.
Or it could mean removing apps such as YouTube and replacing them with kid-friendly video apps such as YouTube Kids so your animal-crazy 6-year-old can see funny cat videos without finding something more insidious.  

5. Monitor the situation.

Reading a child’s texts or checking their internet browser history may feel like a violation of privacy to some parents, but the stakes are much higher on the internet than they are with a handwritten diary shoved under the mattress.
Make kids aware from the start that their gadgets are a privilege, not a right, and that the sites they visit and the texts they send will be monitored. This can help ease your guilt while also making them think each time they use their tablet or phone, “Hey, Mom or Dad is going to see this. Do I want them to?”

6. Don’t shy away from the hard stuff.

Sexting and cyberbullying aren’t just serious parenting issues. They can be legal issues too. Even a photo of themselves can be construed as child pornography by the police. Talking to our kids early and often seems to be the most effective way to head off these issues, so don’t delay.
Even before a child has their own gadget with a camera, they need to know that they should be wary of their friends taking photos (even if they’re innocently changing in the background at a sleepover or taking wild selfies). Make sure they’re keenly aware that anything can be screenshot and saved, even on apps like Snapchat, where media is designed to “disappear.”
When in doubt, remember: You know your kids. The rules you lay down should fit them and your family both.

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When Heartburn Has You Down: How To Deal With Acid Reflux During Pregnancy

“I had acid reflux so badly by the end of my twin pregnancy that I couldn’t lie down at all for the last six weeks,” says Kelly Smith, a mom of two in Minneapolis. “I ate Pepcid every couple of hours and ‘slept’ in a reclining treatment chair from my acupuncture practice. My stomach was so displaced that I could only eat three or four bites of food at a time (like every hour), and often had to choose between eating—since I was always starving (twins)—or drinking water because I had the thirst of a trillion deserts.”
Ah, pregnant life with acid reflux. Why is it so, so horrible? And what can you do about it?

What is acid reflux and what does it feel like?

A hot, burning feeling in your chest. The constant need to burp. A feeling of pressure around your throat. An inability to eat or drink without burning in your chest or the feeling of wanting to hurl: This is what acid reflux feels like. Unfortunately, it’s very, very common.
“Acid reflux woke me up in the middle of the night,” says Sarah Tucker, mother of one in Los Angeles. “I had to sleep propped up on a wedge pillow my husband called ‘the ski slope.’ Not comfy!”
“With my second pregnancy, I took so many Tums I started twitching and having charley horses multiple times a day, and still I got no relief,” says Ashley Patronyak, who lives in New York City with her two boys. “The nurse at my doctor’s office told me there were no other options and to take even more Tums, so I went to Dr. Google for a second opinion, then went to Duane Reade that same afternoon and bought the biggest box of Zantac they had.”
“I felt awful all the time, and didn’t want to eat anything because I thought it would make the sensation worse,” recalls Becky Weiss, a physician in LA. “The heartburn was worse at night and I tried not to eat too much at dinner because if I got into bed too soon afterwards, I would feel the acid in my chest.”

What causes acid reflux?

Acid reflux occurs when the acid in your stomach—which should stay in your stomach!—travels back up into your esophagus. This happens because pregnancy causes the body’s musculature, including the esophageal sphincter, to relax.
Acid reflux can be particularly bad if you lie down soon after a meal, and it occurs for two main reasons. The first is that your level of progesterone is much higher, which slows digestion down and makes you feel fuller faster. There’s also a basic anatomical reality to it: There’s a lot of pressure on your stomach.
“It’s both hormonal and structural,” explains Jocelyn Brown, a licensed and certified professional midwife in Los Angeles. “A woman can make all the lifestyle adjustments in the world, but sometimes they just have to ride it out, and it’s miserable.”
For some women, acid reflux is particularly acute in the first trimester, when hormones begin slowing digestion down (so that the fetus can absorb the nutrients in your food). For many women, though, acid reflux begins or noticeably worsens in the third trimester because of the baby’s size and its effect on your stomach’s ability to take in and digest food.

Will acid reflux hurt me or my baby?

The good news is that neither the acid nor the Tums hurt the baby, says Brown. But there is a risk for you: overdoing it on the antacids.
Women go to Tums because it’s easy and they are miserable, but antacids neutralize the hydrochloric acid in your stomach,” she explains. “When the drug wears off, the feeling of heartburn gets worse because your stomach actually needs acid to digest your food. As a result, your body will overproduce it.” This causes a vicious cycle.
Sometimes women have this reaction in 20 minutes—they’ll feel great and then instantly worse—or it’ll happen over the course of a few weeks. “If a woman is 39 weeks, I say, ‘pop all the Tums you want.’ But if she’s 24 weeks, I’m worried that the antacids will backfire over time and we look for another solution.”
Rachel Sinex Graves, MD, who works in family medicine and obstetrics in Portland, Oregon, agrees that lifestyle changes are always the first approach to treating acid reflux, but she doesn’t think women should suffer unnecessarily by staying away from medication: “There’s enough suffering in pregnancy,” she says. “Acid reflux can add one other thing that can really weigh on people. Women get depressed about their acid reflux! They can’t eat or drink anything, which makes them feel terrible.”
Graves also points out that Tums can be an incredibly useful tool for women who feel awful and assume it’s morning sickness. “If a woman is miserable—not sleeping, so uncomfortable she can’t eat; if she’s vomiting or gaining weight—she usually assumes she has morning sickness or hyperemesis, but it might just be acid reflux.”
There’s no harm in using Tums to make your life a little easier. Graves says that acid reflux usually goes away right after the baby is born, so taking something for six months to make your life manageable is not the same as taking Tums indefinitely for the rest of your life. One adverse effect it can have, however, is to make you constipated, which can exacerbate the reflux.

Tums don’t work for my acid reflux. Is there anything stronger?

“If women are munching on Tums several times a day, and still symptomatic, then I look at medications,” Graves explains. These medications come in two categories: histamine-2 (H2) blockers, like Zantac, and proton pump inhibitors (PPIs), such as Nexium, Prilosec, or Prevacid, which should only be taken with a prescription.

Will acid reflux medications hurt my baby?

There is very little research on most matters related to medication and pregnant women because pregnant women are usually unwilling to enter a randomized control trial—no one wants anything terrible to happen to their baby!
“With all medication, we minimize use as much as possible and don’t use it if we don’t need it,” explains Graves. “But a woman’s level of suffering is really important to take into consideration. Maternal suffering is not good for baby either.” The research shows that if you’re taking a PPI for your acid reflux once a day so you can sleep, the potential for harm is very low.
A very recent study published in Pediatrics suggests that acid reflux medications—such as PPIs like Prilosec and Prevacid and H2 receptor antagonists (H2RAs) such as Pepcid and Zantac—can be linked to childhood asthma. “Overall, pregnant women who used PPIs and H2RAs were 45% more likely to have children with asthma than women who didn’t use these drugs during pregnancy,” the study concludes.
If you’ve been tossing back the Tums, don’t panic just yet: “Tums are just calcium carbonate,” explains Brown, “so they don’t fall into this category, but some of my moms will graduate from Tums to the PPIs and I can no longer say, ‘don’t worry about it!’”
Speak to your doctor before considering more intensive medication.

Reducing (or Preventing) Acid Reflux During Pregnancy

“What is magical for one woman might not work for another woman,” says Brown. “It’s a crapshoot.” As a result, there are a laundry list of things you can try before popping the antacids.

  • Avoid triggers in your diet, says Amanda Broomell, a certified holistic health coach. These include acidic citrus drinks (like orange juice and lemonade), carbonated beverages (even La Croix; sorry!), grains and processed foods (breads and cookies), tomatoes and tomato sauce, and anything with hydrogenated oil. It can also be helpful to avoid eating too much meat. Other triggers: chocolate (boo!), onions, garlic, mint, caffeine.
  • Instead, Broomell suggests, consume easy-to-digest foods: organic fruits and veggies, bone broth, and organic meat.
  • Avoid greasy, fried, or spicy foods. If you eat something spicy, pair it with a cooling food, like cucumbers, avocado, melon, or coconut.
  • Eat smaller portions. Remember Kelly with the twins? She could only eat a bite or two an hour. You may not be that desperate, but it’s best to go easy. The more food in your (already cramped) stomach, the harder it will be to digest it.
  • Get some protein in. Make sure you get protein in every meal—and even with snacks (almonds are a great one).
  • Chew, chew, chew. Broomell recommends chewing 30 to 40 times with every bite. It’s easier to process if the food has already turned to liquid when it gets to your stomach.
  • Suck on hard candies. Lemon and ginger can be especially helpful.
  • Chew gum. “I couldn’t go anywhere without Tums and Orbit gum,” says Megan Heuer, a mom of one in New York City. (For natural gum, we love Simply Gum.) This can be particularly helpful right after a meal.
  • Try drinking organic raw unfiltered apple cider vinegar (it must be organic, raw and unfiltered). Broomell suggests 1 tablespoon in a cup of water 10 minutes before a meal. “Apple cider vinegar supports the digestive system, has natural probiotics, as well as acids and enzymes that restore a natural pH,” she explains. Try it by itself for a week—just so you can be clear about whether it’s working—then add in other remedies over time so you can figure out what’s really working.
  • A digestive enzyme can be super helpful. It can boost the digestive process. We need hydrochloric acid to digest meat, and this can move that process along.
  • Take a probiotic. This can help maintain good gut flora, but there is some controversy over how effective it is for acid reflux in pregnancy because nothing can change the fact that you have an 8-pound baby pressing on your stomach! But there’s no harm in taking one. If it’s too costly, Graves recommends either eating good yogurt with active cultures or taking ¼ teaspoon of baking yeast.
  • Food relief: Try raw almonds, coconut water, aloe vera juice, ginger tea, fennel tea (steep for 10 minutes), and papaya.
  • Sleep propped up or on your left side. Stack pillows, or sleep in a La-Z-Boy if you have to. Lying on your right side actually positions the stomach higher than the esophagus, which can cause even worse heartburn.
  • Eat pickles! There’s a reason women often crave them, explains Brown. They are very acidic and help with digestion—so do all pickled foods. “A woman’s body usually craves what she needs in that moment,” she says. (Tell that to anyone who side-eyes you for your third chocolate shake of the week.)
  • Wear loose-fitting clothing. Wearing tight bras or waistbands that squeeze can also make acid reflux worse.
  • Breathe slowly and deeply. Focus on your breathing; you may be surprised by what breath exercises can do for you.
  • Go for a short walk after eating to stimulate the digestive system (exercising heavily after meals, however, may contribute to heartburn).
  • Try an herbal tea. Teas that contain even trace amounts of peppermint, chamomile, ginger, licorice root, and catnip can help the stomach lining repair itself and improve digestion.

Can I use essential oils for acid reflux during pregnancy?

Essential oils aren’t a cure for acid reflux, but Broomell says that they can help support healthy digestive functioning. “Essential oils are one component of overall lifestyle shift,” Broomell explains. “If people are consuming acidic food and drinks, it’ll be hard to slap on essential oils and feel great.”
You should always consult your doctor before using oils during pregnancy. Broomell advises women in the first trimester to stay clear of ingesting them, but even smelling or diffusing them can make a difference if you’re really suffering. The most powerful oils for digestion are ginger, cardamom, and peppermint. You want to dilute these with fractionated coconut oil (FCO)—1 drop of each oil in 4 to 5 drops of FCO—and you can apply them to the back of your neck, behind the ears, or inhale it.  
Dealing with acid reflux is never fun, but when you’re pregnant it’s even worse. Hang in there, mama. Soon you’ll have your sweet babe in your arms—and hopefully no more acid reflux to boot!