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Foods To Avoid If You Have Anxiety (And What To Eat Instead)

Unless you’re living in the world of Willy Wonka’s chocolate factory, chances are you are not what you eat.
And yet, if you’ve been suffering from anxiety—either the kind diagnosed by a doctor or just that general on-edge feeling that hasn’t caused you enough concern to visit your GP—you might want to take a peek in your pantry to see what’s going on.
The most common mental illness in the United States, according to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, anxiety affects about 40 million of us—a whopping 18 percent of the American population. And women are nearly twice as likely as men to suffer from anxiety.

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So what does that have to do with your food?
A lot, according to doctors. An increasing number of studies have begun to formulate a possible link between antioxidants—or the lacktherof—and mood disorders such as anxiety and depression. Low antioxidant levels, some studies have found, seem to have a link to people who are diagnosed with one of these disorders. Other studies have posited that there’s a link between your “gut microbiome”—or the bacteria, microbes, and similar organisms in the gut—and development of anxiety.
And there’s long been an understanding in the medical community that there’s a link between poor mental health and nutritional deficiencies. If your body isn’t getting all the nutrition it needs, after all, how can you have good mental health?
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So does this mean you should upend your entire diet? Maybe not—major eating changes should never be made without a talk with your doctor or nutritionist—but making a few simple menu changes could have an effect on how you’re feeling.

Foods to Avoid

Surprise, surprise: Most of the foods doctors suggest avoiding if you have anxiety tend to land on the lists of foods doctors suggest limiting for general health!

Refined Sugars

Has your doctor told you to skip the dessert table a little more often? Suggested you steer clear of that midnight ice cream run? That could help more than your waistline, says Staci Gulbin of Light Track Nutrition.
A registered dietitian, Gulbin says limiting foods high in added sugar, such as processed foods, sugary drinks, and baked goods can help reduce anxiety triggers.
“Anxiety can be worsened by certain foods due to their impact on biochemical markers in the body and mind,” Gulbin explains. “For example, levels of the brain-derived neurotrophic factor have been found to be reduced in rats fed a high sugar diet.”
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Not sure how to tell if you’re eating foods loaded with refined sugars? Check the labels, Gulbin advises.
“It is convenient now that the nutrition label tells you the difference between total sugars and added sugar in food,” she says. “So you can see that some of the sugar in foods may be due to natural sources like fruit or dairy, which are okay in moderation.”

Caffeine

We are a caffeinated nation. It’s fairly common for most of us to start drinking coffee almost immediately after we get up, and some folks don’t stop until they’re getting ready for bed. And yet some 66 percent of Americans are concerned with limiting their intake of java, according to a 2017 survey of national coffee drinking trends from the National Coffee Association.

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One possible reason? There’s a bona fide link between caffeine and our mental health. Too much caffeine intake, in particular, has been linked to an increase in self-reported stress, depression, and anxiety.
It’s exactly what makes caffeine a great wake-up call every morning that can make it so hard on the body…and our anxiety.


“Caffeine is a natural stimulant to the nervous system,” explains Natalya Fazylova, a doctor of nursing practice and an associate professor at the City University of New York.
Because of this, Fazylova says drinking caffeine “could trigger symptoms of anxiety such as heart palpitations, agitation, insomnia, and jitteriness…to name a few.”

Food Additives and Artificial Sweeteners

Junk food is delicious. It also tends to be loaded with the sorts of chemicals that cause various disruptions in body functions and worsen symptoms on anxiety, Fazylova warns. She suggests checking nutrition labels for additives and artificial sweeteners such as aspartame, MSG (short for monosodium glutamate), and high fructose corn syrup.


In addition to anxiety, additives and processed foods can also have an effect on digestion, which in turn can fuel anxiety.
“There is a direct connection between the nerves of the stomach and the brain,” registered dietitian Sarah Mirkin, owner of the Kitchen Coach nutrition coaching service in Beverly Hills, California, says. “If someone is having digestive distress, it will typically trigger anxiety. Those with IBS [irritable bowel syndrome] and uncontrolled SIBO [small intestinal bacterial overgrowth] usually have problems with anxiety.”

So avoid all that. Seek these foods out instead.

As challenging as it may sound to cut some of your favorites—donuts! coffee!—out of your daily intake, it’s not all bad news.
Some of the best advice for keeping your anxiety in check may simply be eating balanced meals throughout the day rather than skipping breakfast or loading up at lunch.

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“It is more important to pay attention to the quality of the food eaten, and not quantity,” Fazylova says. “For instance, one regular sized donut has 320 calories, and one bowl of oatmeal with fruits and nuts might also have approximately 320 calories.”
“Doughnuts have only empty calories packed with refined sugars and fats,” she continues, “while oatmeal is full of fiber and other healthy nutrients and vitamins.”
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What else can you eat?

Lots and Lots of Vegetables

You may not be ready to go full-on vegetarian, but by infusing more into your diet, you could see your anxiety take a dip, Gulbin says.
“A plant-based diet not only contains antioxidants that can combat oxidative stress, but other nutrients found in such foods such as potassium, B vitamins, vitamin C, iron, and selenium, to name a few, can help improve mental health outcomes, according to recent research,” Gulbin notes.

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Brazil nuts, beans, spinach, and similar vegetarian favorites are a good source of selenium, for example, while spinach, broccoli, and lentils will help you load up on iron. Potatoes, sweet potatoes, bananas, and citrus fruits are great sources of potassium, and both vitamins B and C can be found in a variety of fruits and vegetables.

Calming Eats

If you’ve ever brewed a nice cup of warm tea before bed to chill out and ready your body for sleep, you’re on the right track, says GinaMarie Guarino, a licensed mental health counselor from New York City and founder of PsychPoint.

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“Foods that are easy to digest and good for the stomach are great for relieving anxiety,” she notes. “Calming foods like chamomile tea, herbal teas, and foods that are high in antioxidants help relieve and minimize the effects of anxiety.”

Foods Rich in Omega-3s

Omega-3s are fatty acids loaded with health benefits. The National Institutes of Health touts their effectiveness at helping to relieve everything from high cholesterol to arthritis symptoms.
And you can add anxiety to that list too, Mirkin says.
Studies suggest fatty fish, such as salmon, is a natural mood lifter and helps to reduce anxiety,” she notes. “Sardines, walnuts, chia and flax seeds are also an excellent source of omega-3 fatty acids and a natural mood booster.”

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If you’re not already loading up on omega-3s, it’s worth noting that the Federal Government’s Dietary Guidelines for Americans 2015–2020 includes recommendations that adults eat at least 8 ounces of seafood per week.
Not a fan of seafood? There are fish oil supplements and other omega-3 supplements that can be picked up at your health food store. Some are even vegetarian-friendly.

Magnesium-Rich Eats

Magnesium-rich foods have long been touted as a fix for PMS mood swings, and it turns out they can have an effect on anxiety, too. You can pop a supplement; studies have found they’re helpful with mild-to-moderate depression.
Or you can turn to meal time.

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Fazylova suggests loading up on eggs, green leafy vegetables like spinach, legumes, nuts, seeds, and avocados for your magnesium fix.

Probiotics

Probiotics tend to make a lot of headlines. Why? Well, live bacteria and yeasts that are actually good for you!
“Probiotics are good for restoring gut microbiome,” Fazylova explains, “which helps us to produce our neurotransmitters, including dopamine, serotonin, and GABA [gamma-Aminobutyric acid].”

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Those neurotransmitters play a crucial role in how the brain works, and they’re directly tied to mental health conditions such as depression and anxiety.
Yogurt, sauerkraut, tempeh, and even some types of cheese have probiotics that’ll boost your gut microbiome.
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While these benefits are packed into these fermented favorites, you can also try probiotic supplements if these don’t seem appealing. 

Eating Right

No matter what you eat, Mirkin says, it’s important to remember to eat enough to maintain health without overeating—a tendency that can be tied to anxiety for many people.

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“They should be eating until they are satisfied, not stuffed or uncomfortable,” Mirkin advises. “People should start eating when they are hungry, not ‘starved.’ The amount varies for everyone, but if you stick with high protein and veggies and moderate carbs, you should be able to eat intuitively.”

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A Lifelong Headache: The Signs And Symptoms Of Chronic Migraines

Migraines are miserable.
Maybe that’s a bit of an understatement for the 12 percent of the American population who suffers from them. They’re agony, anguish, and for chronic migraine sufferers, they’re very literally a constant headache.
According to one survey of Americans, women in the workforce who regularly battle migraines lose a collective 18.8 million work days every year because of them. Stay-at-home peers are far from immune either: Stats from the same survey estimated women at home suffer debilitating migraine symptoms some 38.5 million days in one year (again, these are all those women collectively).

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Migraines are more than miserable. They’re life-altering.
And that’s especially true for the sector of people who have what are called chronic migraines: the types of debilitating headaches that just won’t go away. When it comes to medical terms, chronic means “persisting for a long time.” It’s a term doctors use to address a condition that may even be lifelong.
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But when it comes to chronic migraines, the term is even more specific. Just 1 percent of the population is estimated to suffer from chronic migraines, according to the American Migraine Foundation. Could you be one of them?
Let’s consider the symptoms.

1. Migraines for More Than Half the Month

Some people will have one migraine in their lifetime and never have another. Some folks get them once or twice a year. Some may even have a few a month.
Then there are chronic migraine sufferers. To fall in this group, Tania Elliott, MD, the chief medical officer at EHE, says you need to be experiencing at least five days worth of migraine headaches each month for a three-month period. More typical in women than men, chronic migraines are separated out from other migraines by doctors because of the severity and frequency of symptoms.
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Before a practitioner can diagnose anyone with chronic migraines, a headache journal is a first step. If you’re facing the problem, your doctor will ask you to start writing everything headache-related down, noting when your symptoms start, any triggers that you can identify, and anything that seemed to help alleviate your symptoms. This will help your doctor determine if you’re truly experiencing chronic migraines, allowing them to rule out or diagnose other possible conditions before embarking on a treatment plan.

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All that said, aside from the frequency characteristic that sets chronic migraine symptoms apart from other migraines, Elliott says all other signs and symptoms are the same.
So what else might you be dealing with that could signal you’ve got chronic migraines?

2. Pain

This should be a given, right? After all, migraines are headaches—there must be pain somewhere. But what sets migraines, chronic or not, apart from headaches caused by allergies, viruses, and other conditions is where the pain shows up and what it feels like, says Geoffrey Eubank, MD, system medical chief of general neurology at OhioHealth Neuroscience in Columbus, Ohio.

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Typically, migraine pain is on one side of the head, but it can be on both sides, and it can be in the front of the head or even the face, Eubank says. That can make it confusing for sufferers, who often confuse migraines with sinus headaches.
“[Migraine pain] can also occur or extend into the back of the head and into the neck region,” Eubank notes.
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But what truly sets migraines apart from other headaches is the severity of the pain, and how it interferes with one’s ability to function. While sinus or tension headaches may be uncomfortable, migraine headaches are categorized as debilitating by doctors. This is especially true for chronic migraine sufferers because of the frequency with which their lives and interrupted by severe headaches.

Nausea and Vomiting

Part of the interference with daily life that crops up is a tendency for migraine sufferers to vomit or at least suffer nausea before and/or during a migraine. Often a premonitory symptom, nausea can hit before the pain in the head shows up, signaling that a migraine is on its way. Though the contents of your stomach might come up, the problem has nothing to do with the stomach itself—this is yet another issue caused by the brain.
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“Migraines originate, it is thought, in the brainstem, and a place in the brainstem called the area postrema gets involved,” Eubanks explains. “This area is tied to nausea and vomiting.”

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The area postrema is tied up in why we vomit even when we’re not suffering a migraine. But when the two are combined, it can be one of the most troubling symptoms of migraines for doctors and sufferers both in that it makes it harder to administer oral medications, one of the first lines of defense for chronic migraine sufferers.

3. Aura

For an estimated 25 percent of migraine sufferers, a neurological disturbance known as an aura may show up in what’s known as the prodrome phase of a migraine. This is a period of time that can be anywhere from hours or days before the actual pain hits in the head but signals that a migraine is incoming.

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The word aura may conjure up images of angels, funky colors, and halos hovering over your friends, but Jin Li, MD, chief of neuromuscular medicine at Westchester Medical Center in Valhalla, New York, and an associate professor of neurology at New York Medical College, says there’s a lot more science to this medical term.
“The most common aura is visual aura—when the patient sees a dark spot on the periphery and a flashing light on the outer … rim of the dark spot,” Li says.


The aura itself is what Li calls a “manifestation of neuron hyperactivity.” Basically, there’s a chemical wave moving through your brain. Although it’s typically visual, it may be auditory too, meaning your ears may be processing something at a heightened state. Your vision can also become blurry for as much as an hour or more—something doctors call a “visual aura.”
Experts believe the auras from migraines—particularly auras accompanied by temporary numbness—are linked to genes. If your mom, dad, or maybe grandma or grandpa experienced migraine auras, you’re probably at higher risk of spotting them yourself.

4. Speech Issues or Issues With Coordination

Stumbling, slurring, dizziness: These issues can all crop up during the aura phase of a migraine. You may find yourself unable to remember specific words that you use on a regular basis or simply struggle to pronounce those words.

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You may also suffer from vertigo, a sensation that you or the room around you are spinning. This can make it difficult to walk or do other physical activity.
These feelings can return later during what is known as the postdrome phase, Eubank says. “It’s the period that occurs after the migraine headache part is gone,” he notes. “Often times people are tired or listless but can have other symptoms such as dizziness and weakness.”
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While unsettling for someone who is dealing with them, the speech issues and coordination problems typically only last about an hour and are fully reversible. So long as it’s truly a migraine causing the issues, they do not carry over into days when you are not suffering from a migraine.

5. Light and/or Sound Sensitivity

You don’t need to have an actual aura experience to be sensitive to your environment. Lights, sounds, and even smells can intensify the pain of a migraine.
“The cascade of pain responses includes the hypersensitivity or visual and hearing transmission,” Li explains. In other words, the senses that are typical ways we connect with the world can be overwhelming.

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Lying down in a dark room, with room-darkening curtains and even noise-canceling headphones can lessen exposure to these triggers. You may also find yourself triggered by certain smells, Eubank says, so limiting exposure to them can help.

6. Finding Help

Some people are able to find their migraine triggers—certain foods or allergens can bring on a migraine in some folks, for example—and simply avoid those things in order to avoid the pain of a headache. That’s not typically true for chronic migraine sufferers who find their bodies wracked by symptoms so often it’s impossible to pin down any one trigger.
Nor is there any specific cause that can typically be found for migraines, Eubank says.
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“There definitely appears to be genetic influences the predispose some people to migraines, and there are many environmental triggers,” he notes. “Ultimately, it appears there may be an imbalance of serotonin in people with migraines and drops in serotonin levels seem to occur before migraine happens. This causes the release of other neurochemicals within the brainstem that ultimately triggers the headache and many of the other symptoms that occur during migraine.”
Not knowing why the brain acts the way it is can be frustrating, but it doesn’t mean there aren’t options out there for people who suffer from chronic migraines.

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For chronic migraine sufferers, treatment often comes down to opting for pharmaceutical help. Preventative medications are typically used, Li says, along with “abortive” medication, a term that describes medicines that can help stop a migraine in its tracks. Nonpharmacological treatments, such as biofeedback and cognitive behavioral therapy, are also sometimes helpful for chronic migraine patients.

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5 Mistakes Homeowners Are Bound To Make

There’s a great big myth that comes with buying a house. Your mortgage, that giant bill that floats over your head for 20 to 30 years before you finally pay off the bank, is the most expensive part of owning a house. Right?
Wrong!
When it comes down to it, that princely sum you put down on your dream digs is just the start of it. According to the folks at Bankrate, the average homeowner spends at least $2,000 a year on maintenance services alone. And in the most expensive areas of the country, Angie’s List estimates it actually costs $2,000 or more a month to own a house, once you add in mortgage, utility costs, real estate taxes, property insurance, maintenance, and repairs. Even when you work your way down their list to cheaper spots around the country, homeowners are still facing figures in the triple digits to keep up with all it takes to own a home.

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Okay, now hold on a second. Don’t start freaking out.
There are still plenty of science-backed benefits that come with buying your own place, especially from a social perspective. Owning your own space can make you feel good, and that’s always a good thing.
What you need is to be prepared for some of the OMG, I didn’t even think about it issues that tend to come up for homeowners…that end up costing them serious cash.
We asked HealthyWay readers to fess up to some of their worst mistakes as homeowners. They shared, so you can avoid their fate!

1. Roof Regrets

“This is embarrassing, but I really didn’t think about our roof at all until the night we woke up to water pouring into our bedroom. We have a two-story house, and I just … didn’t have a reason to really look up, but when the contractor showed up, he showed us all the gross shingles we should have noticed as a sign that the roof needed to be replaced!”
—Maria B.

A leaky roof can come out of nowhere, and it’s typically not something you’ll notice, at least not until you spot that strange-colored ring on the ceiling—if you’re lucky enough to spot it before the water actually leaks through!
The average roof repair can cost anywhere from $334 to $1,238, according to the estimates from HomeAdvisor, so sooner rather than later is key to saving cash.

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“Roofs are sometimes one of the most neglected—and expensive—components of a house,” says Roger Kautz, owner of Hearthstone Home Inspections in Menomonee Falls, Wisconsin.
“Ideally, one should look at his or her roof—by walking on it if possible—annually, or at least every three years,” Kautz advises. “Obviously, a water stain on your ceiling is a Do not ignore sign of a problem, but other issues to be looking for include curled, cracked, damaged, or out-of-place shingles, metal or rubber flashing—the material used to bridge gaps—that is damaged or not providing a secure seal between components, damaged or clogged gutters, and cracks or deterioration in chimneys.”
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If you’ve got a drone, Kautz suggests putting it to work to do a view of what’s going on on top of your home, without ever having to leave the ground.
“People who have drones now have one of the best tools for inspecting roofs, and if they do it often enough, they are more likely to notice any irregularities,” he says.
It’s also wise to clean your gutters twice a year, says J.B. Sassano, president of Mr. Handyman. It will help prevent roof issues and protect other parts of the home as well.
“Failing to clean gutters can lead to serious and expensive repairs including roof damage, wood rot on decks, windows, and doors, et cetera,” he explains.

2. Filter Follow-Through

“We forget to change the water filter, resulting in no water to the second floor shower … which lead to changing the water filter at 1 a.m.—after getting home from an event where we were sweaty, dirty and gross—in our skivvies so we could shower!”
—Sandra H.

Filters do big jobs all around the house—from the devices filtering rust out of our water to the air conditioning filters snatching dust out of the air. But the more they clean our air, water, and more, the more clogged they get.
The fix is two-fold, Kautz says.

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First, and most importantly, buy good filters! “One should stay away from the really cheap, see-through filters, as they trap only big stuff,” he advises. “The rule of thumb is to replace basic filters every month, during both the heating and cooling season. Better filters can last for up to three months, and the thick 4- or 5-inch filters are typically changed once a year
“Every house and family is different, however, so I recommend one begin by checking the filter monthly, and if it is not obviously dirty, it may be fine for another month,” Kautz notes.
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If you’ve got an oil-burning furnace, it’s also recommended that you get an annual tune-up and cleaning from a professional in addition to making the filter switches as needed. If you’ve got a gas furnace or boiler, you can likely get by with check-ups every two or three years instead.
“But homeowners should also refer to their warranty and not void it by skipping tune-ups,” Kautz warns.

3. Water, Water, Everywhere

“We were trying to save money, so I would set the temperature in the house down while we were out during the day, then turn it back up when we go home. I completely forgot that the pipes needed the heat, too, and I got home from work to find one pipe had burst and we had water everywhere.”
—Tina T.

Water can do big-time damage in no time, so it’s no surprise that burst pipes are not just one of the most common plumbing problems, but one of those home repairs that can cost you big money. HomeAdvisor estimates repairing water damage costs over $2,500, and that doesn’t include the cost of installing new pipes!
“When pipes freeze, they restrict running water, which prevents completing normal tasks such as taking a shower or cooking,” Sassano says. But that’s the least of the problems for many homeowners. When water freezes, it also expands, and if there’s not enough room for that expanding ice, a pipe could burst, sending water everywhere.

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If you’re planning to turn down the heat, it’s important to drain the pipes and turn off the water line. That’s the easiest way to prevent the water from freezing inside. If for some reason you can’t do that, it’s important to check the pipes.
“The most susceptible pipes to freezing are outdoor hose bibs, water sprinkler lines, plumbing in unheated interior spaces lacking insulation such as basement, garages, crawl spaces, et cetera,” Sassano warns.
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He suggests watching for frost on exposed piping; that will indicate it may be frozen. If you fear that your pipes are frozen, turn off the main water line, then open the faucet that is supplied by the frozen pipe to release pressure.
You can then apply heat by turning up the thermostat or using a hairdryer or electric heating pad, Sassano suggests.

4. A Moldy Matter

“My bedroom closet is in a dark corner of the room, and it doesn’t have a light in it. It started to smell a little musty, but I didn’t think anything of it. Come to find out, my closet ceiling and walls were full of toxic mold. Apparently the sink in our upstairs bathroom was leaking into my closet for months, and it cost us almost 10 grand to fix it all!”
—Lyn R.

Mold isn’t just unsightly. It can be downright dangerous, causing a range of respiratory problems. It can also be a huge headache for a homeowner, with estimates for mold remediation sitting at more than $2,000 on average.
The good news, Sassano says, is that most mold growth can be prevented before your home turns into a health hazard. That’s because mold is a bacteria that flourishes in moisture. Warding off that moisture, or cleaning up any water immediately, can keep mold from taking hold.

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Every spring, Sassano suggests checking your attic for mold, as it’s one of the most susceptible spots. Attics should be well ventilated and properly insulated to ward off mold growth. Any leaks—from the roof or anywhere else in the house—should be dried up immediately.

5. Dryer Fire

“We had a fire a few years ago because the vent from our dryer to outside backed up. The fire department came really fast, and we were really lucky, but it was so scary! I never knew you needed to have the vent cleaned.”
—Christa O.

Nearly 3,000 dryer fires are reported every year, costing some $35 million in property losses and an estimated five losses of life, according to the U.S Fire Administration (USFA), a division of FEMA.
Startling as those statistics might be, there is good news: These fires can easily be prevented with regular dryer cleanings.

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The USFA urges people to clean the areas where lint is readily apparent—the lint filter and the back of the dryer—as well as the dryer vent, the oft-ignored catchall for the lint being expelled as the machine sucks the moisture out of your favorite pair of jeans. 
“If your clothes aren’t fully dried after a dryer cycle or an odd smell appears or your exterior vents aren’t expelling air,” Sassano says, the culprit is likely your dryer vent. The issue should be addressed immediately.
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Many homeowners forget about the dryer vent that connects their machine with the rest of the world—usually a vent to the outside of the home. That should be cleaned at least once a year, Sassano says, preferably by an expert who can cart away the build-up that tends to spark a fire. The USFA is more cautious, recommending the vent pipe be cleaned every three months.

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24 Children’s Toys That Fit Their Personalities To A T

Buying presents for kids shouldn’t be nearly as hard as it is. They’re kids! They love toys! That’s what makes being a kid so much fun.
But if you’re a parent, godparent, auntie, uncle, grandparent, or really just anyone who has ever bought a present for a kid only to ask them what they think of it about a week later, you know all too well the frustration of spending countless hours (and plenty of cash) trying to make that special kid in your life happy, only to see it all go to waste.
So do you give up? Of course not.

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The secret to finding the right toy for the kid who tells the best knock-knock jokes in the neighborhood isn’t really that hard to figure out. It comes down to personality.
Don’t believe us?
Take a look at these toys that are tailor-made for kids based on their interests—with a healthy dose of science to back up the benefits of fostering your favorite kid’s love of athletics, music, art, and more.

For the Growing Athlete

They haven’t seen a ball they weren’t itching to kick, and they’ve been running since the moment they got up on two feet.
The studies show that activity is good for kids, but it’s even better if they learn to love playing different types of sports, in part because they’re more likely to stick with exercise as they grow up. Fuel their passion for sports with toys that offer them a variety of options, from biking to stomping to everything in between.

1. Go extreme.

They may not be X-Games ready, but their toy box will be.

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Not only does their Playmobil figure come with a skateboard, mountain bike, and rollerblades for some seriously adventurous pretend play, but the set is packed in a carrying case for fun on the go.
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2. Put a lid on it.

Is a bike helmet a toy or a toy accessory? It turns out it can be both! This kid-sized helmet will keep their noggins safe while they’re rolling around the block on their favorite wheels.

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When they get home, they can settle on the couch with a set of markers and re-decorate, because this helmet doubles as a dry erase board!
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3. Get in the swing of things.

It swings. It spins. And it lets them do both at the same time, plus the super spinner swing is rated for 200+ pounds, so little kids can invite a friend (or two) along for the ride!

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The only disadvantage to this rad swing, which can be hung from most trees, is it will be that much harder to get them come inside after playtime. But at least you’ll know exactly where they are in the yard!
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4. Bounce around.

Save money—and a trip to the local playland—with a blow-up bounce center they can use any time they’re feeling like Tigger.

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Made for kids from age 3 to 6, this play gym can also be filled with toy balls for an at-home ball pit adventure.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Intex-Jump-Transparent-Inflatable-Bouncer/dp/B009PXMAYM”]Intex Jump-O-Lene Inflatable Bouncer, $38.24 at Amazon[/link-button]

5. Add a few steps.

Romper Stompers were a big hit a few decades ago, but this generation has their own version, and they’re a whole lot more fun.

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Enter the bucket stilt that helps kids pretend they’ve got giant monster feet! The neon green “feet” can support kids up to 110 pounds as they practice balance and get a chance to learn what life is like when you’re just a little bit taller.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Toysmith-Monster-Feet-Walking-Toy/dp/B001E6IQP0″]Toysmith Monster Feet Walking Toy, $6.15 at Amazon[/link-button]

For the Next Steve Jobs

They’re always tinkering, and they figured out how to make Siri do their bidding by the time they were 2. What could possibly keep your future engineer engaged for more than five minutes? Play!
The science is solid on this one: The more time kids spend playing when they’re young, the bigger brain boost they’re getting. Researchers from the University of California, Berkeley have found that all that time kids spend pretending helps them develop cognitive skills that they can use as they grow up…and turn all that tinkering into a possible career.
From bath time to slime time, here are a few STEM toys to give your little scientist a serious boost in brain power.

6. Rain on the parade.

Bath time is playtime when you’re a kid, but it can be learning time too.

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Give your future meteorologist some weather fun. Fill the cloud with water, and you can make it rain…or stop the rain showers with your finger. Introducing little ones to the cycle of water may not inspire weather person dreams, but it should help them get a handle on water conservation.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Moluk-Plui-Rain-Cloud-Tub/dp/B00IS5DJ5M”]Moluk Plui Rain Cloud Tub Toy, $13.90 at Amazon[/link-button]

7. Head down to Main Street.

Architectural design and structural engineering meet kids right where they are with Wonderhood, a toy brand that pairs every toy set with an activity journal that serves up design and building challenges for kids to solve.

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Curious kids from age 4 to 8 can design and build their own Main Street, including an old-fashioned ice cream shop and a candy store.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Wonderhood-Corner-Shops-Customizable-Creativity/dp/B01LZN1A90″]Wonderhood Corner Shops Play Set, $24.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

8. Let them rule the room.

Designed for elementary schoolers, this kit gives kids the tools they need to build some high-tech inventions to keep pesky little brothers and sisters far away from their stuff.

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While they’re developing STEM skills, they’re also inventing ways to guard their piggy banks and that super secret diary.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/littleBits-Rule-Your-Room-Kit/dp/B01G9HX5O0″]littleBits Rule Your Room Kit, $32.35 at Amazon[/link-button]

9. Get in gear.

Head back to the bathroom and cue the lesson in hydroelectricity. The pipes in this toy can be used together or separately, with mechanisms that will do all sorts of gymnastics when the water flows through them, showing off the secrets behind the energy produced by water.

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The spinning gears suction to bathroom walls, so there’s no need to worry about things spinning out of control (and a deluge in your bathroom!).
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Boon-B11134-Cogs-Water-Gears/dp/B017IQZ616″]Boon Cogs Water Gears, $9.62 at Amazon[/link-button]

10. It’s slime time.

Psssst, come closer. Don’t let the kids hear, but making slime isn’t just fun. It can be an educational scientific adventure too.

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This kit lets kids in on the secret of making their slime glow in the dark and other cool slimy facts, thanks to a National Geographic educational packet that guides them through the process.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/NATIONAL-GEOGRAPHIC-Slime-DIY-Science/dp/B0160JCGGK”]National Geographic Slime DIY Science Lab, $9.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

For the Animal-Lover

Pets can help kids feel less stressed, help them develop empathy, and even help their health. Of course, if you’ve got a kid who loves animals, you know their bedroom would be a zoo if you’d let them have their way. But there are only so many animals you can adopt.
Good thing you can indulge your future veterinarian’s love of all things furry and feathered with some new toys that might ward off the begging for yet another kitty or puppy (or bird or lizard!), at least for a little while.

11. Build a friend.

Tiny hands will make quick work out of turning these block sets into a cat, dog, and baby bird. Combining a basic engineering education with creations that make for fun imaginative play, this animal DUPLO set comes with small “food” blocks so your little one can practice feeding their “pets.”

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The blocks work with other DUPLOs as well, so they can integrate their animals into other play.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/LEGO-DUPLO-Puzzle-Building-Blocks/dp/B075M5SSMV”]LEGO DUPLO My First Puzzle Pets, $7.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

12. Clean things up.

Bath time is a lot more fun with an animal friend. This little dolphin is awfully hungry, and it’s your kiddo’s job to feed them their favorite treat…soap! (Not to mention the little critter doubles as a bath time friend and a sponge to get them squeaky clean.)

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Packed with a bath book, the gift set gives kids an excuse to hang out in the tub and get good and soapy.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Ava-the-Dolphin-Gift-Set/dp/B07774BM4S”]Soapsox Ava the Dolphin Gift Set, $11.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

13. Give them their wings.

Butterflies offer kids a fascinating look at how some animals develop—from little caterpillar to cocoon to beautiful butterfly.

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Give them a taste of what it’s like to go through their own metamorphosis with these printed butterfly wings with tie-on straps. Glitter, paint, and more are packaged in the kit, so they can decorate their wings their way. Then you strap them on (they’re sized to fit kids 3 and up) and let them “fly.”
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Seedling-Design-Butterfly-Wings-Activity/dp/B00K6T177U”]Seedling Design Your Own Butterfly Wings Activity Kit, $19.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

14. Let them wash the dog.

Er, let’s clear this up right away. Your bathroom will be safe from suds even after the kids get done cleaning behind Fido’s ears…at least if Fido is the dog in the Soggy Doggy board game.

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A mini shower and a mini dog that actually shakes like the real thing makes for plenty of good, old-fashioned—dare we say clean?—fun for kids age 4 and up.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Spin-Master-Soggy-Doggy-Interactive/dp/B01MUCC6K3″]Spin Master Soggy Doggy Board Game, $14.79 at Amazon [/link-button]

15. Bring out the blocks.

Toddlers can take off on an adventure under the sea without ever leaving their playroom, thanks to this wooden block set. Handcrafted in the United States and printed using non-toxic, mouth-safe inks, each block features a letter of the alphabet and a close-up of a sea creature with a name that begins with the corresponding letter.

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They’ll learn building skills, improve their fine motor skills, and brush up on all the critters they could find if they were diving in the ocean. Best of all, they (and you) can stay dry the whole time!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07B417SMR”]Uncle Goose Ocean Blocks, $24.00 at Amazon[/link-button]

For the Budding Artist

So, their finger paintings scream Frida Kahlo, and when you clean out their pockets before you throw those tiny jeans in the washing machine, their collections are worthy of a MOMA exhibit.
Art has been shown to help kids with everything from developing better social skills to learning to regulate their own emotions. And of course there are fine motor skills, math basics, and even language being developed while they scribble and doodle.
It’s time to foster the artist within.

16. Bring on the action.

Remember Fashion Plates? They’re baaaaack, but there’s a twist!

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Kids can illustrate their own comic books with the help of Action Plates, the drawing playset that gives them the tools it takes to create their own superheroes.   
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Kahootz-Action-Plates-Drawing-Playset/dp/B00Z0P85IY”]Kahootz Action Plates Drawing Playset, $18.99 at Amazon [/link-button]

17. Open the can.

And open up their adventures! A can full of craft supplies, from air-dry clay to google eyes, feathers, pipe cleaners, felt, pom poms, popsicle sticks, scissors, and more lets your little artist loose to find themselves.

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With more than 100 craft components, this can of fun lets them create whatever it is they want to create. No rules, only their imagination ruling the day.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Creativity-Kids-Big-Can-Components/dp/B00GGTWYD0″]The Big Creativity Can, $14.50 at Amazon[/link-button]

18. Roll out the fun.

A fresh sheet of paper is like a new day: There are no mistakes yet! Grab their crayons, markers, or paints, and roll out a pristine white piece of paper for them to begin their adventures.

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The roller can be re-loaded with fresh paper rolls so they’ll never run out of canvas for their masterpieces. You can rip off a sheet when they’re done or allow the kids to color the entire long stretch of bond paper, then mount the dispenser on the wall and load a colorful, decorated roll for some homemade wall art.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Melissa-Doug-Wooden-Tabletop-Dispenser/dp/B0094RGCOS”]Melissa & Doug Paper Roll Dispenser, $16.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

19. Make mealtime playtime.

Whether they’re out to eat with the family or sitting around the dining room table waiting for dinner to come out of the oven, color-your-own placemats give little artists space to doodle and dream.

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Designed to be washed and re-used, these placemats can be stowed in the car for on-the-go eating or slipped in the cabinet for at-home use.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Kids-Reusable-Washable-Silicone-Placemats/dp/B07639X4S8″]A+ Kids Reusable and Washable Coloring Placemats, $14.95 at Amazon[/link-button]

20. String it up.

Unicorns may not be real, but there’s plenty of magic in creativity, and making their own unicorn out of string art will work kids’ concentration and motor skills. Not to mention they get a pretty darn cool piece of art to hang on their walls when they’re done.

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Aimed at kids 10 and up, this kit comes with everything they need to string up their own mythical creature, plus extra string, nails, and everything else they need to create a bonus heart craft.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Craft-tastic-Unicorn-String-Crafts-Canvases/dp/B07C7TTKP1″]Craft-tastic Unicorn String Art Kit, $29.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

For the Mini Musician

Quick! What’s your favorite child’s favorite song? Most kids have one, even if it’s one they made up themselves. (And honestly, those are often the best!)
The more kids are exposed to music the better, scientists say. It helps with their auditory processing, helps them develop their brains, and a whole lot more. So why wouldn’t you indulge that love at playtime?

21. Snap to it.

It’s Memory for musical kids! The faces of these cards feature musical notes, putting players’ memories to the test along with their recognition of their music.

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Designed for kids age 7 and up, it can be played alone or with a friend, making it a perfect game for only children or kids who are on the go.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/317-Music-Snap/dp/B000F46CUS”]Music Snap Card Game, $11.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

22. Let the dogs out.

Imagine if Elvis could have played a dog-shaped guitar when he told the world that you ain’t nothing but a hound dog? Kids don’t have to imagine it, thanks to this canine contraption.

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Pre-programmed with 20 sing-along favorites (plus musical buttons and guitar strings so they can strum along), the guitar will have them howling with delight.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/B-toys-Battat-Woofer-Guitar/dp/B004Z0VVEK”]Battat B. Woofer Hound Dog Guitar, $49.98 at Amazon[/link-button]

23. Make bath time music time.

Get them started on their shower singing early with a music set created for bath time.

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Including a water xylophone, two mallets, water drum and water flutes, and seven waterproof song sheets, this rhythmic toy set is designed for kids 3 years and up to get into the groove while they’re splashing around.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/ALEX-Toys-Rub-Tunes-Symphony/dp/B000N40W9W”]ALEX Toys Rub a Dub Tub Tunes Symphony, $37.35 at Amazon[/link-button]

24. Do it up “Big” style.

If you can remember Tom Hanks dancing on the giant piano in Big, you had some pretty great childhood moments. Share them with your favorite kiddo in the form of their very own dancing piano!

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Lay out the playmat on the floor, and they’ve got 24 keys to hit with their toys to make up brand new songs or play some of their favorites. “Chopsticks” is a must!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Keyboard-Playmat-71-Playback-Adjustable/dp/B073R2FBWY”]Keyboard Playmat, $36.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

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20 Sleep Hygiene Products For A Better Night’s Sleep

Are you getting enough sleep? Wait. Scratch that. Are you getting the kind of sleep you really need to wake up ready to kick some hind end every morning?
We’re going to go out on a limb and guess the answer is a big fat no. That’s why you’re reading this, right? Your eyelids are probably drooping, and you’ve most likely been guzzling caffeine since you woke up.

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In one survey by the American Sleep Association, as much as 37.9 percent of respondents confessed they had unintentionally fallen asleep during the day at least once in the preceding month! Some 30 percent of us struggle with insomnia at least occasionally, and 10 percent of Americans say it’s a chronic condition.
We’re a nation of zombies, walking around with a giant cup of coffee in our hands to fight off the urge to take a midday nap.
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Raising your hand with a guilty expression? Time for a sleep routine overhaul! Quick! Before your boss catches you catnapping at your desk, here are some ideas to improve your sleep hygiene and help you catch some serious ZZZZs.

Top off your comfort.

Up to 92 percent of Americans consider a comfortable mattress a must for getting a good night’s sleep. It’s no surprise, then, that an uncomfy sleeping space is going to keep you up at night and leave you drowsy by the time the alarm starts sounding in the morning.

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If you’re tossing and turning at night on a mattress that’s lumpy or just doesn’t feel like it’s made for your body, you don’t have to head out and buy a whole new one. A memory foam mattress topper can help better distribute a person’s weight, conforming to their body to take pressure off the pressure points.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MYN9K5B”]Linenspa Gel Infused Memory Foam Mattress Topper, $56.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

Treat your tootsies.

No one is falling asleep with feet that feel like they’ve been hanging out in the freezer section of your local Trader Joe’s, and for good reason.

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Scientists have found that warming your feet when you’re ready for bed triggers your brain to think it’s time to sleep. This is because of something called vasodilation, basically dilation of the blood vessels.
Back in the old days, folks made this happen by slipping a hot water bottle under the covers at the foot of the bed. But you can do it even more easily. Stock up on these cozy animal socks to keep your toes warm so they don’t keep you awake.  
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P.S. Forget what they say about socks in bed harshing the mood. You can always take them off if things get interesting!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Women-Animals-Slipper-Slipping-Winter/dp/B07FXR9VVF”]Animal Fuzzy Socks, $16.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

Diffuse your mood.

Essential oils smell amazing, and a whole lot of people swear by them as a fast path to sleep. There’s even some solid science to back up the relaxation benefits. If you’re thinking about kicking off an oil routine to help you sleep, a diffuser can help get you there. A diffuser mixes essential oils with water and uses steam to disperse them in the air, so you can lie in bed and breathe them in.

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With this nature-inspired wood grain diffuser, you can keep your favorite oil scents pumping out into the air while you sleep or turn it off when you feel like you’re ready to drift off. Not sure you want it going all night long? Thanks to the remote, you don’t even have to get out of bed to hit the off switch!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07D48YL8R”]Essential Oil Diffuser With Remote, $20.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

Layer the lavender.

Lavender is a favorite with essential oil fans because of its soothing properties (and it is even considered to be a mild sedative), but lavender isn’t limited to oil form.

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Dried versions of the flower can be brewed in a pre-bedtime tea, sprinkled in a warm bath to help you chill out, or even tucked in small sachets to be stored with your extra set of sheets for a boost of lavender scent when you’re ready to make the bed.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/dp/B016BHH0OE”]Organic Dried Culinary Lavender, $12.91 at Amazon[/link-button]

Spray your way to sleep.

There is absolutely nothing like the thought of sinking your head into a divine-smelling pillow to make you want to go to bed. You could wash your pillow and shams every single day to keep a laundry-fresh scent omnipresent in your bedroom.

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Or you could take the easier route and stock up on a divinely scented pillow spray. This one boasts lavender and other essential oils for deep calming, and it’s free of all those questionable ingredients you might worry about, including parabens, phthalates, GMOs, sulfates, synthetic dyes and fragrances, propylene glycol, mineral oil, and petrolatum. So you can stop worrying and start sleeping!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/ThisWorks-Deep-Pillow-Spray-75ml/dp/B006VT8G1O”]This Works Deep Sleep Pillow Spray, $29.00 at Amazon [/link-button]

Cool off your head.

The National Sleep Foundation recommends your bedroom be no warmer than 67 degrees if you want to get a good night’s sleep, but even turning down the thermostat doesn’t help keep our bed linens cool. Flannel and cotton especially tend to warm up when they come in contact with body heat.

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A silk pillowcase can help keep your head cool, and they come with an added benefit: Many hairdressers recommend silk pillowcases to keep hair from tangling while you sleep!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KDL108M”]Alaska Bear Silk Pillowcase, $22.99 at Amazon [/link-button]

Put some weight on (top of you).

Don’t worry, your body is perfect just the way it is. The only weight in this blanket is sewn right into the fabric. Why? Weighted blankets are believed to help us calm down and relax thanks to deep pressure touch stimulation—essentially, we’re soothed by the feeling of something lying on us.

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A blanket is not a cure for a mental health condition, nor should it take place of a visit to the doctor if you feel that depression or anxiety is keeping you awake. But pressure has long been studied as a means to reduce anxiety, even for people who don’t have a diagnosed condition. At the very least, it could just help you feel a little bit warmer at bedtime!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Weighted-individuals-Sivio-Autism%EF%BC%8CSensory-Processing/dp/B0794MKBFK/”]Weighted Blanket, $57.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

Light smarter.

There are a whole lot of studies out there that warn us against bright lights when we’re trying to sleep. But if you’re someone who absolutely needs to read in bed in order to calm down, you need at least some light in your bedroom to see the pages.

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This beside lamp lets you change just about everything about the light, from the angle it hits you to the color and intensity of the beam, so you can go from having a bright light in the afternoon when you need that boost while you put away your laundry to something dim and soothing when it’s time to settle in with a good novel.  
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00VUTAFR8″]TaoTronics LED Desk Lamp, $29.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

Block it out.

The light on your bedside table isn’t the only one that could be keeping you awake. Ambient light—from streetlights to sunlight—can also play a big role in keeping us awake too late or waking us up too early.

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A set of pretty, printed blackout curtains can help curtail the call of the sun in the early morning and banish the bright lights from your across-the-alley neighbor’s place. This thermal set also adds a layer of insulation between the window and the bedroom, helping keep the room warmer or cooler, depending on the season.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/HLC-ME-Printed-Blackout-Darkening-Thermal/dp/B074N39PY1″] Arrow Printed Blackout Curtains, $34.99 at Amazon [/link-button]

Throw on a mask.

Even when you’re away from home, you need to avoid light leaks at bedtime. You may not be able to take your curtains with you on vacation, but you can slip a sleep mask into your carry-on bag.

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Adjustable straps help you fit this sleep mask to your head so it won’t slip as you sleep and cost you some of your beauty rest, while the soft cotton padding keeps the mask from weighing too heavily on your face.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Lewis-N-Clark-Comfort-Adjustable/dp/B000LY3X7W”]Lewis N. Clark Comfort Eye Mask, $14.95 at Amazon[/link-button]

Be selective about your sounds.

Whether it’s the neighborhood cats putting up a fight or the neighbors crashing and banging when they come home late at night, all that extra noise is not conducive to a good night’s sleep.
White noise machine to the rescue! Designed to create soothing sounds such as ocean waves or falling rain (you choose what you want to hear each night) to lull you off to dreamland, the machine will also help block out all those ambient noises.

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A 15-, 30-, and 60-minute auto-off timer helps save your energy bill and the planet too.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Premium-Sleep-Therapy-Sound-Machine/dp/B01LX27BQI”]Wave Premium Sleep Therapy Sound Machine, $29.99 at Amazon [/link-button]

Activate your alarm long distance.

In case you needed another reason to disconnect from your smartphone once in a while, it turns out they’re harming our sleeping habits.

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The biggest culprit is the blue light, that slightly eerie beam emitted from the screen that casts a blue aura over our faces when we read our phones with the lights off. Blue light can actually prevent us from falling asleep, as it affects the circadian rhythms of our brains, tricking us into thinking we’re still supposed to be awake.
But wait, you can’t kick your smartphone out of the bedroom…it’s your morning alarm, right?
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Not if you opt for a Bluetooth speaker that can be set up by your bed! Dock your phone in the living room, sync it with the speaker in your bedroom, and you’re all set.  
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Amazon-Echo-Dot-Portable-Bluetooth-Speaker-with-Alexa-Black/dp/B01DFKC2SO”]Echo Dot, $39.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

Kick out the clutter…

You may think you’re going off to bed without even noticing that pile of clothes on your dresser, the laundry basket overflowing with folded laundry, or your growing collection of half-used lotions, but it turns out all that clutter could be keeping you awake.
Scientists have even found a link between messy bedrooms and a poor night’s rest. Under-bed storage bins can be slipped beneath the bed to hide those sweaters until winter returns.

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These organizers can also be stacked in a corner, where they’ll remain neat and out of the way.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Sorbus-Foldable-Organizers-Blankets-Bedrooms/dp/B071V5DQ56″]Sorbus Foldable Storage Bag Organizers, $24.99 at Amazon [/link-button]

…and stash your other stuff.

Of course, you still have things you absolutely need to keep on hand.

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These honeycomb drawer organizers make everything easier to store and easier to find. Goodbye, bras hanging off the curtain rods!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00M7V8XWM”]KLOUD City Plastic Partition Bee Style, $13.48 at Amazon [/link-button]

Set the mood.

When movie makers want to indicate the star’s going to bliss out in some serious relaxation in their bed or bathroom, they always light a few (dozen) candles. There’s just something about a darkened room and flickering candlelight that screams “soothing.”
Make this part of your nightly routine with a set of flameless candles that can be turned on and left “burning” while you drift off to dreamland. Because there’s no actual fire, you eliminate the safety hazard that comes with the real thing, and you can also avoid the risk of any carcinogens that may come from burning a live candle.

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The small light they emit also doubles as a nightlight if you wake up for a quick bathroom run at some point during the night.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Flameless-Candles-Comenzar-Batteries-included/dp/B074FV433D”]Flameless Candles With Remote Timer, $30.99 at Amazon [/link-button]

Cut the noise.

Snoring partners. Purring pets. The bedroom can be a surprisingly loud place once you’re lying down and trying to drift away.  
Sometimes you just need something to cut the noise so you can get to sleep. These ear plugs are made from memory foam, so they mold to your ear canals, and reviewers tend to call them out for the quality of the foam.

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Once they start to get too loose and let the sound in, just pop in a new pair!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001EPQ86A”]Hearos Ear Plugs, $11.11 at Amazon [/link-button]

Wrap yourself up.

Don’t be put off by the name: You don’t need to be pregnant to take advantage of the bliss that is wrapping a pregnancy pillow around your body. If you struggle to find just the right sleeping position, a body pillow can help provide extra support as you roll around in bed.
Plus, everybody who remembers snuggling a stuffed animal in bed when they were small knows there’s comfort to be found in wrapping your arms around something cuddly at bedtime.

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This C-shaped pillow wraps around the body, offering something to cuddle any way you turn!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/PharMeDoc-Pregnancy-Pillow-Jersey-Shaped/dp/B0798DDVN7″]PharMeDoc Pregnancy Pillow, $39.90 at Amazon [/link-button]

Bring the outdoors in.

The less stress we have, typically the easier it is to sleep, and there’s a lot to be said for getting some natural stress relief by getting outside in nature. But you don’t have to give up that feeling of spending time in nature when you head to bed at night.

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Decorate your room with some greenery to bring the outdoors in. Bonus of these little succulents? Although they look pretty darn real, they’re fake, so they’re nearly maintenance free!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Decorative-Modern-Artificial-Succulent-Display/dp/B010UVQGA6″]Decorative Artificial Succulent Plants, $24.99 at Amazon[/link-button]

Sleep like a panda.

The shape and height of your pillow matter more than you might think.

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Not only can a poor pillow force you to wake up with neck pain, it can also keep you awake or limit your restful sleep.
Bamboo pillows—yes, bamboo like the pandas eat—are designed to contour to your head and neck, providing you the support you need without putting a strain on your upper half.
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For some people, a bamboo pillow can help reduce muscle strain and alleviate those aching pressure points.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Original-Bamboo-Standard-Shredded-Adjustable/dp/B078H7FTV9″]Original Bamboo Pillow, $34.99 from Amazon [/link-button]

Meditate on this.

Ahhhhhh. Is there anything more relaxing than some mindfulness-focused meditation in bed?

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A meditation app such as Headspace or Calm is a science-backed path to better sleep, lowering your heart rate and helping direct your breathing, so your body can ready itself to go into relaxed mode.
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What Emotional Labor Really Does To Us At Work And At Home

When the phrase “emotional labor” was born, it was a way for sociologist Arlie Hochschild to explain the work of regulating your emotions in the workplace.
Ever had to give yourself a pep talk before walking out to deal with angry customers? That’s emotional labor. Ever had to pump yourself up so you could face a classroom full of rambunctious kids who you have to teach? Yup, emotional labor.
If you’re thinking, hey, wait, I’ve been hearing a lot about emotional labor these days, and it had nothing to do with the workplace, well, you’re right. Since Hochschild first coined the phrase in 1983 in her book The Managed Heart, it’s been adopted by countless people to describe situations in which the effort of managing emotions is heaped on a particular person—typically a female-identifying person.
So what is emotional labor? Is it managing your emotions in the workplace, or is it what happens in your house when your partner expects you to always be the one who “fixes” squabbles and makes things right?
Here’s what the experts say about emotional labor and how to manage it.

What is emotional labor?

If you go by Hochschild’s definition, emotional labor refers to regulating or managing emotional expressions with others as part of one’s professional work role.  
For example, Christie Heltzell used to work in a marketing role, where high-paying clients paid for access to her in order to help them utilize marketing software and plan advanced marketing tactics.
“I had one client who was the business owner’s daughter, and she was a spoiled and entitled snob,” Heltzell says. “While trying to help make her ridiculous requests happen despite my repeated explanations that what she was asking for was impossible, she repeatedly put me on hold, once to even answer a call where I heard, ‘Yes, daddy, I’ll be down shortly. This stupid girl is cutting into my lunch break, but I’ll make her finish her job soon.’ When she came back on, she told me, ‘Look, I have a meeting to get to that is really important. Can you do your job or not?’”
Heltzell had to hold her tongue, working to keep her emotions in check in order to do her job.
“As I started to explain again why what she’d asked was literally impossible, she sighed and said, ‘Can’t you just DO it? We pay you to say yes,’” Heltzell says. “I ended up punching my desk, something I’d never done before, while simultaneously trying to keep my voice incredibly sweet and explain for the fiftieth time why what she was asking for wasn’t even a real thing.”
The need to physically hold one’s emotions in check might sound familiar to countless people, but it’s rarely recognized as a physical part of the job.
“Emotional labor [or EL] is parallel to physical labor; both are occupations that tend to require a lot of effort, but EL is effort around emotions and tends to be female-dominated, i.e., service or caring work, and physical labor is effort with the body and tends to be male-dominated,” explains Alicia A. Grandey, PhD, a professor of industrial-organizational psychology and director of graduate studies in psychology at Penn State University.
Grandey, who once worked as a barista at a coffee bar, knows the toll emotional labor can take on someone all too well.
“To perform emotional labor, employees may use deep acting to modify their inner emotions, like ‘pump themselves up’ before going out on the work floor—for example, a teacher may do this on the first day—or doing pep talks—for example, flight attendants reminding themselves that passengers are their guests on this flight,” Grandey says.
That work, although not visible or necessarily quantifiable to the employers who depend on metrics to evaluate just how well their employees are performing, is nonetheless valuable to employers and significant on the part of the employees themselves. You know how you feel when you walk out of work, right? You know that ebb and flow you felt throughout the day?
As Grandey has posited in her studies, “This physiological activity, or ‘bottling up’ of emotions, taxes the body over time by overworking the cardiovascular and nervous systems and weakening the immune system.”
An estimated 40 percent of Americans admit they’ve taken a personal day simply for emotional recovery. Sometimes we need to get an emotional break from our emotions.
“The sheer entitlement and attitude people give you when you work customer service is more exhausting than anything else I’ve ever done,” Heltzell tells HealthyWay. She says people take every break to “vent and blow off steam about the person they just spoke to.”
It’s something employers are (slowly) starting to ascertain. In one Yale study of employee engagement, researchers found that one out of five employees reported both high engagement and high burnout. And according to the American Psychological Association’s 2013 Work and Well-Being Survey, 37 percent of women said they typically feel tense or stressed at work (5 percent more than men in the survey), and just 34 percent of women say they have enough resources to handle stress at work.
“Emotional labor, like physical labor, is effortful and fatiguing when done repeatedly all day long and can be costly in terms of performance errors and job burnout,” Grandey says, “especially when surface acting because it results in feeling inauthentic.”

So what is emotional labor outside of the workplace?

But what about the emotional labor that isn’t labor in the traditional sense? It’s true that Hochschild coined the term to refer to labor in the traditional sense, e.g. what you do in the office or on a factory floor. But more often of late, “emotional labor” has been used in reference to the type of emotions you put forth in your day-to-day, even after you’re punching a time clock.
Gemma Hartley scored a viral hit with a Harper’s Bazaar article dubbed “Women Aren’t Nags—We’re Just Fed Up,” and she’s author of the forthcoming book Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward.
To Hartley, emotional labor isn’t just the sort of work for which folks might be paid—even when the work itself is ignored—it’s also work put forth on the emotional front in the home.
“I define emotional labor a bit more broadly than the original sociological definition,” Hartley says. “When I am talking about emotional labor, I am talking about the largely invisible mental and emotional work, mostly done by women, which helps keep those around them comfortable and happy.”
Not sure what she means?
Take, for example, this slice of life from Hartley’s viral essay. After asking her husband to hire a house cleaner as a Mother’s Day gift, Hartley was faced with a holiday spent wrangling her children as her husband—who’d opted to do the job himself—hoisted a toilet brush:

I was gifted a necklace for Mother’s Day while my husband stole away to deep clean the bathrooms, leaving me to care for our children as the rest of the house fell into total disarray.

Her “gift” was forcing her to be “on” while her kids screamed for mommy, mommy, mommy.
Although it’s not quite what Hochschild had in mind when she coined the term, this feeling has its own place, says Tina Tessina, PhD, a couples therapist and author of How to be Happy Partners: Working it out Together.
When working with couples, Tessina terms it “self-management,” in other words the ability to manage whatever emotional reactions or basic emotions one has in order to succeed better in relationships, social, or work settings.  
“We all have a variety of emotional responses to the stimuli around us, as well as emotional responses to our own attitudes, beliefs, expectations, and prejudices,” Tessina says.  “Learning to become aware of our own feelings, and process or regulate them on an ongoing basis, is a primary life skill. Those who have the skill to understand and manage their own feelings generally do better in all kinds of relationships, and create less unnecessary stress in their lives.”
Just as employers need to become more mindful of the emotional tasks they demand of their employees, Tessina says it’s important for partners to be cognizant of the emotional burdens they lay on each other.
Emotional labor in relationships comes down to “work necessary to manage and enjoy intimacy with your partner in a long-term relationship,” Tessina says.
Some of that is natural. We all have to grin and bear it sometimes for the sake of compromise, but when you find yourself always fighting your emotions to put on a happy face, your emotional labor may be a bit above and beyond.
For example, if you wake up in a bad mood or are feeling “down,” it might be work or emotional labor to raise your spirits before encountering your partner. If you’ve just had a bad day at work where you didn’t get a promotion, it would be considered self-management to train yourself to grin instead of launching into what a bad day you had.
Just like the workplace, where we can lose our jobs if we lose our cool, emotional labor can have a substantial effect. Not only are there ramifications for our health, but unresolved and unexpressed grief over unrecognized labor can cause marriages to fail, Tessina warns.
[pullquote align=”center”]“You control your reactions, they don’t control you.”
—Tina Tessina, PhD, couples therapist and author[/pullquote]
“Intimacy is usually easy in the beginning of a relationship, when euphoria sweeps you into emotional synchronicity,” she explains. “As the relationship matures, and the euphoria subsides into companionship, generating intimacy and sexual desire becomes harder. Learning to do the necessary work to keep your intimate connection going can make the difference between a successful relationship and a divorce.”

How to Get Out From Under the Weight of Emotional Labor

Whether you’re at work or at home, a certain amount of emotional labor is just going to be part of life—if only because we don’t need to wear our hearts on our sleeves at every moment.
But that doesn’t mean you need to acquiesce to a life of making nice with nasty customers or grinning at your partner while inside you’re breaking down.
When possible, Grandey says “deep acting” is a less harmful way of performing emotional labor. Although she admits it’s not always possible, this essentially means pretending to be an actor at your job. Instead of showing your true emotions, you work to align your internal feelings with organizational expectations. This, along with modifying one’s own stress via mindfulness training and the like, seems to help, she says.
What’s more, Grandey recommends availing yourself to a back room for recovery breaks and being “real” with co-workers as much as possible as it “helps reduce the strain of surface acting with customers/patients.”
For employers, she stresses allowing for autonomy and supporting employees as much as possible to reduce the strain of emotional labor.
The best advice she can give a manager, she says, is to give employees the freedom to decide how they should respond to situations with customers or clients.
And let’s face it: Incentives, especially financial incentives, can’t hurt, and Grandey’s research backs up the the benefit of incentivised rewards in helping balance the negative effects of emotional labor at work.
Of course, there’s no amount of money that can make up for emotional labor at home. That’s where learning to take charge of your own emotions can be helpful.
“You control your reactions, they don’t control you,” Tessina says. “When you’re too reactive to your partner, he or she can easily draw you into a fight that stops you both from focusing on fixing the problem. When you’re faced with an emotional situation, self-control is not easy. In the face of your partner’s actions, it’s difficult not to react.”
The key is learning to stop and think, to respond thoughtfully and carefully rather than quickly and automatically. It takes practice.
Tessina offers up these tips to take back your control and spend less time working on your emotions at home:

Use self talk wisely.

“Self-talk is one of the most powerful tools you can use to learn emotional self-control,” Tessina says. “Everyone has a running mental dialog, which often is negative or self-defeating.” Try repeating a mantra, an affirmation, or a choice over and over to create new pathways, which will eventually become automatic. “The new thoughts will run through your head like the old thoughts did, or like a popular song you’ve heard over and over,” Tessina says. “Only this song won’t be about your lost love, it will be about supporting yourself.”

Practice patience.

Of course, this is easier said than done, but step back. Think. Is that emotional labor you’re putting in really necessary?
To be more patient, consider not only waiting to react but also making better use of your perspective. Do you really need to put on that fake smile? How about a little self-understanding? Why are you doing it? You may think it’s because your partner expects it or even that it makes you feel better, when in reality it only makes you feel worse in the long run.
Your emotional labor may not be seen by others, but it’s important that you acknowledge the place it has in your life and understand the effect it has on your well-being.

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Orthorexia Is The Eating Disorder No One Talks About

There was no name for orthorexia when Lisa Fogarty started showing the signs of the eating disorder as a young tween. “I gave up eating foods with sugar when I was 12,” Fogarty recalls. “I lost a little weight and got positive attention for it, so I kept going. I remember loving how it felt to not feel full, so I gradually restricted more and more until I was skipping meals and labeling a lot of foods, including carbs and veggies like sweet potatoes, as bad.”
Most of us associate some foods with being inherently “bad” for our bodies—after all, no one is eating a platter of brownies expecting it to make us healthier. But people with orthorexia don’t just categorize some food as “bad” and some as “good”: They’re preoccupied with the differentiation, and they eschew the “bad” and only eat the “good.” Put more simply, people with orthorexia are obsessed with healthy eating—to the point of what doctors call disordered eating (which commonly includes having an eating disorder).
After dire warnings about the childhood obesity crisis in the aughts, Americans have slowly but surely come around to the idea that a nutritious diet is crucial to our overall health. Spend more than a few minutes on any social media site, and you’re bound to run into a slew of posts about eating healthy: Raw food. Clean eating. Farm-to-table. Whole30. Non-GMO.
Surely those people are just trying to make good choices for their bodies, right? Well, most of them are!
But what happens when you go from eating healthy so you can sustain your body and mind to allowing healthy eating to become an obsession? How do you go from a diet that’s designed to keep your heart muscles happy and your mind sharp to a therapist’s office and a diagnosis of orthorexia?

What is orthorexia?

In 1997, a name appeared for the restricted diet that’s followed Fogarty and thousands like her into adulthood. That’s when Steven Bratman, MD, a physician from Fort Collins, Colorado, wrote an article in Yoga Journal that changed the face of the eating disorder discussion in America and around the world. It’s believed to be the very first time the term “orthorexia” was written down.  
Titled “Health Food Junkie,” the article centered around Bratman’s premise that healthy eating can be good for you, but it can also become an unhealthy obsession.
“Many of the most unbalanced people I have ever met are those who have devoted themselves to healthy eating,” Bratman wrote at the time. “In fact, I believe some of them have actually contracted a novel eating disorder for which I have coined the name ‘orthorexia nervosa.’ The term uses ‘ortho,’ meaning straight, correct, and true, to modify ‘anorexia nervosa.’ Orthorexia nervosa refers to a pathological fixation on eating proper food.”
How does someone end up, as Bratman described in 1997, “dominated by efforts to resist temptation, self-condemnation for lapses, self-praise for success at complying with the chosen regime, and feelings of superiority over others less pure in their dietary habits”?
The experts say orthorexia has direct ties to other eating disorders (such as anorexia, bulimia, or binge eating disorder) and the risk factors inherent in them all.

Signs of Orthorexia

Of course, just because you love kale smoothies and could live the rest of your life without ever eating an Oreo doesn’t mean you’re orthorexic. Some people have better dietary habits than others, and just about every medical practitioner out there will tell you to eat a nutritious diet as often as possible.
“Orthorexia is defined as an ‘unhealthy obsession’ with healthy eating, a term which literally means ‘fixation on righteous eating,’” says licensed marriage and family therapist Ashley Moser, site director at the Renfrew Center, an eating disorder treatment facility in Charlotte, North Carolina.  
Here’s how Moser says you can tell if you (or a loved one) might be crossing the line into an obsession with healthy eating:

  • Compulsively checking of ingredient lists and nutrition labels
  • Refusal to eat foods labeled as “unhealthy” or processed
  • Showing high levels of distress when “healthy” foods are unavailable
  • Variety of foods eaten becomes fewer and fewer
  • Increased social isolation and eating alone

Typically folks who battle orthorexia have similar risk factors to those who battle other eating disorders, says Lauren Smolar, director of programs at the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA). She divides those risk factors into three categories: Social pressures, psychological risk factors, and/or biological predispositions.
For example, someone with a family member who has (or had) an eating disorder might have a biological predisposition to disordered eating, whereas someone who struggles with weight stigma or teasing and bullying might have social pressures that increase their risk of an eating disorder, including orthorexia.
From a psychological standpoint, issues such as body image dissatisfaction and a personal history of an anxiety disorder can up one’s risk for an eating disorder such as orthorexia.
What’s more, there are typically what doctors call comorbidities that come along with orthorexia. That means that you can have two (or more) conditions at the same time. With orthorexia, that typically involves other eating disorders as well as an anxiety disorder and/or obsessive–compulsive disorder (OCD), Smolar says. OCD in particular is often found in folks with orthorexia, but because orthorexia isn’t an “official” diagnosis, there is little research on why the two crop up together so frequently.

Diagnosing Orthorexia: How does it work?

If you look at the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th Edition (more commonly known as the DSM-5), you won’t find orthorexia nervosa listed.
The DSM-5 is the diagnosing manual used by the American Psychiatric Association, which declined to add orthorexia as its own diagnosis in its most recent edition.
So does that mean orthorexia doesn’t exist as anything more than a word thrown out by Bratman once upon a time?
Not at all, says Thom Dunn, PhD, a professor of psychological sciences at the University of Northern Colorado who has committed much of his time to researching orthorexia.
Although orthorexia isn’t in the DSM, neither was binge-eating disorder before 2013, “although it was widely acknowledged that it existed before then,” Dunn tells HealthyWay.
Researchers like Dunn have found conclusive evidence that orthorexia is real, and professionals in the eating disorder field—such as the folks at NEDA—do recognize orthorexia as something that can not only occur with other disordered eating conditions but is a separate condition in and of itself.
[pullquote align=”center”]“The irony is that people are being unhealthy in their pursuit of being strictly healthy.”
—Thom Dunn, PhD[/pullquote]
What sets orthorexia apart from other eating disorders is an obsession with being “healthy” that takes someone to the point of actually being the exact opposite.
“For some people, their desire to be healthy becomes all consuming and it starts to affect their ability to live their lives,” Dunn explains. “For some, they get malnourished. The irony is that people are being unhealthy in their pursuit of being strictly healthy.”
So, if orthorexia isn’t an “official” diagnosis, how can someone be diagnosed with it?
Often, patients aren’t—at least not where health insurance companies are concerned.
“Most often these people get an anorexia diagnosis since they are underweight,” Dunn says. That can be enough to trigger a health insurance company to start paying for treatment. If not, practitioners like Dunn may diagnose someone with other specified feeding or eating disorder(OSFED), which is in the DSM.
For Fogarty, that’s exactly what had to happen. Now 40, she spent her twenties and thirties drifting in and out of therapy for anorexia; it was at age 34 that a therapist and nutritionist both told her that she had “orthorexic tendencies” and began treating her for her food-related obsessions in addition to her tendency to starve herself.
She works with a nutritionist now to help develop the skills she needs to vary her diet. “The biggest obstacle I have is overcoming the fear of new foods or foods that I still associate as bad,” Fogarty says, “like taco shells or white pasta. The recent campaign against carbs really screwed with my head a bit, I admit.”

Orthorexia Treatment and Recovery

For those who have extreme orthorexia that has caused them to become malnourished, hospitalization may be required. After all, Moser says, while it’s sometimes referred to online as the “good eating disorder,” there’s nothing positive about restricting your food intake to the point of getting sick.
And someone with orthorexia can get very sick. “Some of the risks include medical complications from malnutrition, which affects every organ system in the body,” Moser points out.
It’s a fact Fogarty knows all too well. When she was 21, she was slated to enter a hospital and be force-fed food, which is what first prompted her to seek treatment.
Fogarty has been trying to make treatment work for nearly 20 years. That’s because there is no quick cure for an eating disorder. Often recovery begins with treatment—be it hospitalization or intensive, outpatient therapy—and turns into living in recovery.

Living With Orthorexia

It’s partly because of the near constant and often contradictory headlines about what different foods will do to our bodies (butter’s healthy—no, it’s not—wait, yes, it is!) that orthorexia recovery can be so difficult.
While an alcoholic may be able to steer clear of bars and ask their friends to throw booze-free bashes, we can’t ignore all the news or stay away from the grocery store and its human-sized displays touting the purported benefits of the latest health craze.
[pullquote align=”center”]“It is important to provide education on balanced eating and approach food with a more neutral stance of ‘all foods fit.’”
—Ashley Moser, LMFT[/pullquote]
That’s why orthorexia treatment focuses not just on therapy but on forming a healthier relationship with food.
“It is important to provide education on balanced eating and approach food with a more neutral stance of ‘all foods fit,’” says Moser. “It’s helpful to remember these messages when faced with societal pressure to eat healthy.”
If you’re struggling to develop a food plan without falling back on old habits, set up an appointment with a nutritionist. They can help you map out meals that are healthy—both in the sense of giving your body the nutrition it needs and in the sense of stretching beyond orthorexic tendencies. You may also want to start a food journal, which you can review and/or share with your nutritionist on a regular basis to ensure you’re actually meeting your nutrition goals rather than denying yourself.
You can also work with a nutritionist to set goals that test the bounds of what you’ve come to consider as “safe” and “okay” foods. For example, Fogarty has been challenged by her nutritionist to eat dessert at least once or twice a week with her family.
“That’s hard,” she admits. “But my nutritionist is trying to make me understand that the things I think will happen, like losing control or gaining 10 pounds overnight, won’t happen when you just let go of some of these fears. It’s an ongoing process and it takes therapy and nutritional counseling.”
Not sure where to begin? That’s okay. Call the NEDA support line at 800-931-2237 or look into their online chat options to talk to someone on their team.

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Tick Bite Symptoms You Shouldn’t Ignore (And Some That Never Show)

Tick bite symptoms are about as maddening as it can get. Sometimes they show up. Sometimes they decide to hide like an ostrich with its head in the sand.
And yet, everywhere you turn, there are warnings that getting bitten by a pesky tick can put you at risk for some serious diseases, including Lyme, the most rampant tick-borne disease of them all.
If you’ve been bitten by a tick or you’re wondering if one of those wily arachnids snacked on your skin, you’re probably searching for a rash that looks like a bullseye somewhere on your body. So what happens if you find one? And, for that matter, what happens if you don’t?

Tick Bite Symptoms: The Bullseye

The bullseye rash has become synonymous with tick bite symptoms ever since Yale University researchers first discovered Lyme disease and deer ticks—the critters spreading the infection—way back in the 1970s. The first cases of Lyme disease cropped up in and around Lyme, Connecticut (hence the name), where 51 residents were diagnosed with juvenile arthritis or arthritis of unknown cause. The more research scientists did, the more sure they were that the problem was the bite of the deer tick, or Ixodes scapularis.
Fast forward some 40 years, and the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) estimates 329,000 cases of Lyme disease now occur annually in the United States. The species of tick that makes people sick has spread from Connecticut to 14 states in the Northeast and upper Midwest, and they typically come out to bite people during the late spring, summer, and early fall (from about April to October).
As the tiny disease-carrying creatures have spread, the tick bite symptoms that doctors tell patients to look for have changed rather drastically too.  
The bullseye that was once known as a classic sign that someone has been bitten by a tick and was at high risk of contracting Lyme is no longer a given, says Bruce Robinson, MD, a clinical professor of dermatology at Lenox Hill Hospital in New York City and the creator of JAS, Just Amazing Skincare, a plant-based skincare collection.
“It can look like an ordinary mosquito bite,” Robinson says of a tick bite. “It can look like any version of a bite from a filled-in circle of red to a bullseye.”
In fact, Robinson finds that many patients show up thinking they have a “new mole,” only to find out that the new spot on the body is actually a tick bite.
Even more confounding? Different bodies react differently to tick bites, says David Claborn, doctor of public health and director of the master of public health program at Missouri State University. Your tick bite symptoms might include itching. Your friend’s tick bite symptoms might involve pain. But each of you could have been bitten by the same little critter!
“Much depends on the body’s reaction to the bite,” Claborn explains. “Allergic reactions can cause a great deal of discomfort—or worse. If the person has pulled the tick off, the tick’s mouthparts may have been left in the bite site and these can fester up.”

Why Tick Bites Are So Dangerous

Being bitten by a tick is unpleasant. It can itch. It can cause pain, and for some people, diseases and other conditions can set in.
For example, Claborn says, if the tick is feeding near the spinal cord or base of the brain, a type of paralysis called tick paralysis can occur. This usually resolves quickly after the tick is removed or drops off. Another condition linked to tick bites causes an allergy to red meat, Claborn says, although the full explanation for how this allergy develops is not yet known.
There’s also ehrlichiosis (a bacterial disease fairly common in parts of the U.S.), Rocky Mountain spotted fever, tularemia (a bacterial disease often associated with hunting rabbits that is actually transmitted by ticks) and diseases common to the Midwest caused by the Bourbon virus and the Heartland virus.
[pullquote align=”center”]“For some people, Lyme disease can go away on its own within several weeks, but for others, if not treated, Lyme disease can spread to the central nervous system, muscle and joints, eyes and heart.”
—Jack Cornwell, MD[/pullquote]
Finally, there’s  Lyme disease, the most common tick-borne illness in the U.S. Every year, approximately 30,000 cases of Lyme disease are reported to the CDC by state health departments and the District of Columbia, but the CDC estimates there are substantially more cases that go undiagnosed and thus unreported.
It’s Lyme disease that gets the most attention in part because it’s most prevalent but also because it has devastating effects for some people who don’t get treatment or aren’t treated in a timely manner.
“For some people, Lyme disease can go away on its own within several weeks,” explains Jack Cornwell, MD, medical director at CareWell Urgent Care, “but for others, if not treated, Lyme disease can spread to the central nervous system, muscle and joints, eyes and heart.”
“Everyone’s body reacts differently, and symptoms may vary in severity,” Cornwell continues, “but since Lyme disease can affect multiple systems, it’s important to see a doctor right away if you suspect it.”

When will tick bite symptoms show up?

What tick bite symptoms should you be looking for, and when should you be looking?
Unlike a bee that stings and flies off quickly or even a mosquito that lands, snacks, and flies away within seconds, ticks stick around on your body. An adult female tick can actually stay for as long as 7 to 10 days without being noticed, although nymphs (young ticks) or larvae (very young ticks) tend to feed off a subject for less than four days according to Robinson.
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Some more good news here: In most cases, to transmit Lyme disease, a deer tick has to be attached to its host for 36 to 48 hours, Robinson says. Grabbing a tweezer and pulling that sucker off before it hits that point means you can usually stop potential infection before it sets in, although it’s still good to check in with your doctor as your estimate of how long the tick was attached may be off.
Gross? Yes.
But if you don’t notice a tick using you as a snack, don’t beat yourself up too hard. It happens, and it’s extremely common—hence the CDC’s warning that estimates of Lyme disease are on the low side. Ticks are tiny, even smaller than your pencil eraser, so you may or may not notice one on your body. And they like to move into warm, moist spots on the body, such as the crack of your butt or the fold between your leg and labia (or penis).
And even when they drop off, the signs that a tick has bitten you may not be immediate. Rashes may appear anywhere from 3 to 40 days after a bite, Robinson warns.
Even then, the rash only occurs in about 70 to 80 percent of the population. When it does, it will typically (but not always!) look like a bullseye or target that expands gradually over a period of days, spanning a diameter of 12 inches (30 cm) or more across.
You may also experience fever, chills, headache, fatigue, muscle and joint aches, and swollen lymph nodes. Any or all of these symptoms of a tick bite are reason to head to your doctor ASAP.
If Lyme isn’t caught early, it can progress to additional symptoms, including:

  • Severe headaches and neck stiffness
  • Additional rashes on other areas of the body
  • Arthritis with severe joint pain and swelling, particularly the knees and other large joints.
  • Facial palsy (loss of muscle tone or droop on one or both sides of the face)
  • Intermittent pain in tendons, muscles, joints, and bones
  • Heart palpitations or an irregular heartbeat (known as Lyme carditis)
  • Episodes of dizziness or shortness of breath
  • Inflammation of the brain and spinal cord
  • Nerve pain
  • Shooting pains, numbness, or tingling in the hands or feet
  • Problems with short-term memory

Tick Bite Testing

Once you show up in the doctor’s office, they’ll examine your rash or bite mark—if you have one—and run some blood tests.
Unfortunately, even if you are tested for Lyme, as many as 60 percent of cases are missed by diagnostic testing, says Jo Ellis, director of education with Bay Area Lyme Foundation. And that’s even when doctors use the blood tests that are what Ellis calls the “gold standard” for diagnosing Lyme.
“As a result of the difficulty in diagnosing and treating Lyme disease, at least 500,000 Americans, and possibly up to one million, suffer from its debilitating later-stage symptoms,” Ellis says.
So what does that mean for you if you’ve been bitten by a tick? If you continue to experience any of the symptoms mentioned above, follow up with your doctor immediately. Sometimes performing the test at a later date may result in a positive.
Some doctors have now taken to treating patients prophylactically—aka without a confirmed diagnosis—if it can be confirmed that they were bitten by a tick (an attached tick or a bullseye rash are major indicators). But that means calling your doctor very quickly after a suspected tick bite, Cornwell notes.
[pullquote align=”center”]Many doctors’ offices and urgent care centers have the ability to send ticks out for testing for Lyme, which can help a doctor make the diagnosis even if a blood test is negative.[/pullquote]
“The window for taking prophylactic doxycycline, the medicine that decreases the likelihood that you develop Lyme disease, closes between 48 and 72 hours after infection,” he warns.
If you found the tick attached to your body and you were able to remove it with a pair of tweezers, you can stick it in a Ziploc baggie and bring it along to your doctor’s office for testing, although it’s not required.
“There is no way to know for sure if a tick is carrying Lyme disease or not unless the tick is tested,” Cornwell explains. Many doctors’ offices and urgent care centers have the ability to send ticks out for testing for Lyme, which can help a doctor make the diagnosis even if a blood test is negative.
This only works if the entire tick is intact, however, so Cornwell is quick to warn patients to pull gently with their tweezers so they can ensure they get the entire tick off the skin.
If the tick comes out in pieces, however, don’t stress yourself, especially if you’re not showing any symptoms!
“Plenty of laboratories offer to test ticks to determine whether they’re carrying any diseases. But that’s generally not worth your money,” Robinson notes, explaining that the tests can be $50 or more at some labs. “Even if the tick is infected with something, it doesn’t mean that it was able to transmit that infection, and if your tick comes back positive for Lyme disease or another infection, you probably won’t be treated unless you yourself start having symptoms.”

Don’t anger the tick!

Notice that the experts suggest grabbing a set of tweezers to remove a tick? No matter what you’ve seen on Pinterest or what your best friend swears her grandpa used to do to remove a tick, tweezers are the only doctor-recommended removal method for ticks.
“Common folk wisdom strategies for getting that tick to detach include holding a lit match toward it, smothering it with petroleum jelly or nail polish, and dabbing the spot with acetone or bleach,” Robinson says, but he’s quick to note that “all are questionable ideas!”
“With the lit-match strategy, you may just end up burning yourself, and while you might kill the tick, that won’t necessarily cause the tick to detach,” he warns. “ A dead tick is not going to come off any more easily than a live tick. As for the other methods above, even if they do work—and it’s not clear that they will—they may take long enough to allow a tick to pass on an infection.”
So grab the tweezers and grasp the tick as close to the surface of your skin as possible (this way you get the head as well as the body). Then firmly but steadily pull the tick directly backward from the bite site without twisting or jerking, Robinson suggests.
If there are still bits of the tick in the bite, use the tweezers to remove them as well. After everything’s gone, grab the rubbing alcohol and a cotton swab or a washcloth with soap and water, and clean the area to prevent additional infection of the wound.  

Don’t panic.

Although the number of Lyme cases in the U.S. has been trending upward and tick bites are not to be ignored, simply being bitten by a tick does not mean you will get sick.
“Only 2 percent of tick bites result in Lyme disease,” Cornwell says, “So while it’s important to be proactive, not every bite will result in an infection.”

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How To Choose A Prenatal Vitamin That's Actually Worth It

Whether you recently learned you’re pregnant or you’re thinking about trying to conceive, you’ve got a long list of stuff to do. One thing that needs to be pushed to the tippy top of that list? Buy a bottle of prenatal vitamins and start taking them, ASAP.
We can already hear the questions formulating: If I’m not even pregnant yet, do I really need a prenatal vitamin? and If I’m already taking a multivitamin, isn’t that enough to cover me?
The quick answers are yes and no, but we talked to the experts to find out why you need to take prenatal vitamins when you aren’t even pregnant yet and which are the best prenatal vitamins for you.

What are prenatal vitamins?

The word “prenatal” in the name is a pretty big clue here: These are special vitamins meant to be taken before giving birth, and that sets them apart from your average multivitamin.
“The key nutrients in prenatal vitamins are iron and folate,” explains Bradley Price, an OB-GYN from Austin, Texas. “Iron is a key building block in the machinery for getting oxygen to every part of the body, as well as through the placenta to baby. Very few women have adequate iron stores in their bone marrow, so iron supplementation during pregnancy is crucial.”
[pullquote align=”center”]While a general multivitamin supplement can be helpful for the average population, Price says they’re no replacement for prenatal vitamins.[/pullquote]
That extra iron in prenatal vitamins helps prevent anemia for moms-to-be during pregnancy, and it also helps women avoid the risk of blood transfusion if blood loss is higher than average during delivery.
Prenatal vitamins are also packed with folate or folic acid, a B vitamin that Price calls “one of the most important nutrients women can take to protect the health of the baby.” Among the benefits of folate touted by doctors is a lower risk of baby developing neural tube defects such as spina bifida and anencephaly and a lower risk of preterm birth, which carries with it a variety of risks to a baby.
Dietary guidelines from the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecologists recommend that pregnant women get at least 600 micrograms of folic acid daily from all sources for that reason, and sources can include prenatal vitamins.

The Difference Between Prenatal Vitamins and Regular Vitamins

But you’ve got a multivitamin you’ve been taking for years, so you’re all set, right? Well, unless it’s specifically labeled “prenatal,” probably not.
While a general multivitamin supplement can be helpful for the average population, Price says they’re no replacement for prenatal vitamins as they’re designed specifically for the nutritional needs of those who are pregnant—and their babies.
Even grabbing your Granny’s vitamins thinking it’s better than nothing could put you and baby in a bad spot, he explains, because “supplements marketed for the elderly contain very little iron because this age group requires minimal iron and are actually at higher risk for getting too much iron.”

When to Start Taking Prenatal Vitamins

In part because of the name, there’s a common misconception out there that prenatal vitamins are only supposed to be taken by pregnant women, says Kara Manglani, a certified nurse midwife and founder of The Fertile Times.
“Ideally, you should start taking prenatal vitamins three months before trying to become pregnant,” Manglani says. “In fact, there is no downside to taking prenatal vitamins, so the earlier the better.”
That’s been a recommendation of the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists for years, however a prenatal health and nutrition survey of U.S. women performed on behalf of the March of Dimes in 2017 found just 34 percent of women said they started taking the prenatal vitamin or multivitamin before they knew they were pregnant.
Most providers agree that if you’re of “childbearing age” and thinking about getting pregnant, now is the time to start popping a prenatal vitamin.
Another bonus? Some studies indicate that taking prenatal vitamins may actually reduce baby’s risk of autism. Researchers at the University of California, Davis, followed 700 California families with children from 2003 to 2009. Their study, published in the medical journal Epidemiology in 2011, claims that “women who reported not taking a daily prenatal vitamin immediately before and during the first month of pregnancy were nearly twice as likely to have a child with an autism spectrum disorder as women who did take the supplements—and the associated risk rose to seven times as great when combined with a high-risk genetic make-up.”
[pullquote align=”center”]“Facing this array of side effects, many women are reluctant to take their vitamin regularly, if at all.”
—Bradley Price, MD[/pullquote]
A second study, published in the British Medical Journal in 2017, looked at more than 270,000 kids born in Stockholm, Sweden, between 1996 and 2007. Researchers say they found that women who take prenatal vitamins during their pregnancy may be able to lower their child’s risk of developing autism associated with intellectual disabilities by as much as 30 percent.
Of course, correlation does not equal causation, and other studies have purported that too much of two specific vitamins—B12 and folate—during pregnancy may have the opposite effect!
Still, doctors stress the need to take prenatal vitamins because of what they definitely do know, thanks to other studies.
“We do know that taking folic acid supplementation prior to conception decreases the risk of having a baby born with a neural tube defect, such as spina bifida,” says Mary Jane Minkin, an OB-GYN and clinical professor in the Department of Obstetrics, Gynecology, and Reproductive Sciences at the Yale University School of Medicine.
“We do know that babies in utero take iron from their moms—and if mom is anemic to begin with, she will likely become more anemic—and feel even more exhausted,” Minkin says. “We know that vitamin D is important for many organ systems to work properly. So a good prenatal contains proper amounts of all of those vitamins.”

How to Choose the Best Prenatal Vitamin

Before you hit the vitamin aisle at your local pharmacy, your best bet for finding the best prenatal vitamin for you is a trip to your OB-GYN or midwife’s office. They can test your blood to see what your iron and other levels look like and help you determine what nutrients you really need right now.
Some doctors advocate for a prescription-strength prenatal vitamin, as they typically have different amounts of folic acid than the kinds you’ll find in the store.
While an over-the-counter prenatal vitamin will likely contain about 800 mcg (micrograms) of folate, you’ll find about 1,000 mcg in prescription prenatals, Price says.
“But the key difference is the iron source,” he adds. “OTC sources typically contain iron salts, such as ferrous sulfate, gluconate, or fumarate, which are all poorly absorbed and aggravate acid reflux, leading to nausea, indigestion, heartburn, and constipation. Facing this array of side effects, many women are reluctant to take their vitamin regularly, if at all.”
Price recommends Prenate Mini, a prescription-strength prenatal vitamin that puts the iron molecule between two amino acids, so it’s absorbed efficiently in the same part of the small intestine as amino acids.
But other women may find that an OTC option works for them, says Manglani. “There is a huge selection to choose from when selecting an OTC vitamin,” she says. “This gives you a lot of choice, but it is also important to make sure you select a prenatal vitamin that has all the necessary nutrients.”

What to Look for in a Prenatal Vitamin

To ensure you do select the right prenatal vitamin, Manglani suggests you look for a one that includes the following, or that you take a vitamin that includes some of these ingredients, along with supplements that your healthcare provider approves.

Methyl-folate

Compared to folic acid, Manglani says methyl-folate is better absorbed by the body but still provides the necessary nutrients. The recommended intake is between 400 and 1,000 mcg per day.

Iron

This mineral will help mom stay healthy, Price says, and it will also help your body as it works to produce more blood to pump through the body and carry oxygen to the baby. Look for a vitamin that delivers 30 mg per day.

Vitamin A

The recommended daily intake of vitamin A is 770 mcg, and this is not a case of “770 is good, so more is better.” Manglani advises moms-to-be to be wary of anything with more than 5000 IU (short for International Unit), as vitamin A toxicity can lead to birth defects.

Vitamin D

It’s recommended that you get at least 400 units of vitamin D, a fat-soluble vitamin that’s typically found in fish and dairy products, a day. Most adults also get vitamin D from spending time in the sun. Because it’s recommended that parents keep newborns out of direct sunlight to protect their fragile skin, recent studies have shown a risk of vitamin D deficiency in babies. Consuming vitamin D in your prenatal vitamin has not only been linked to a reduction in the risk of pre-eclampsia during pregnancy, but it helps boost baby’s vitamin D levels.

Calcium

Moms-to-be should shoot for at least 1,000 mg per day, Manglani says. This will help the fetal skeleton develop, and it can be obtained via your prenatal vitamins and the consumption of calcium-rich foods such as yogurt and milk.

Iodine

Because of the impact pregnancy can have on the thyroid gland, the American Thyroid Association recommends iodine supplementation before and during pregnancy as well as while breastfeeding. Look for a supplement with about 150 mcg per serving.

Choline and DHA (Docosahexaenoic Acid)

Thought by scientists to help improve a baby’s brain development, these nutrients are not always available in prenatal vitamin form and may require an extra supplement, Manglani says. You can check with your provider to see if there is one that’s good for you. The recommended level of DHA is 200 to 300 mcg, while it’s suggested you get about 450 mgs of choline.

When Prenatal Vitamins Aren’t Worth It

In addition to making sure your prenatal vitamin has those ingredients outlined above, there are also a few other things to watch out for. Buying the wrong prenatal vitamin might not be worth it. Here’s what the experts recommend:
You’ll want to make sure any bottle of vitamins you’re considering has been thoroughly reviewed by reputable agencies, warns Vin Amin, president of vitamin maker Eu Natural.
“Look to see that the supplement has been made to meet FDA standards and cGMP, which stands for current Good Manufacturing Practices,” Amin suggests. “This ensures your product has been manufactured and packaged based on the latest regulations.”
[pullquote align=”center”]Prescription vitamins may be covered by your health insurance. That could net out to a cheaper or even free prenatal vitamin.[/pullquote]
You’ll also want to be wary of junk “fillers” added to a prenatal vitamin, Amin warns. Check the supplement facts panel in the “other ingredients” section on the bottle. If you spot magnesium stearate, titanium dioxide, or silicon dioxide, you know you’ve picked up a vitamin packed with fillers.
If you’re a vegetarian, you should also beware that many prenatal vitamins come in gelatin capsule form, which means they’ve been made from animal products. “Vegetarians will definitely want to avoid these products,” Amin says.
And while it’s tempting to load up on gummy vitamins (hey, who says the kids get to have all the fun?), Amin says they’re not as potent as the capsule formulation, which means a whole lot of extra sugar intake to get the same dosage.
One final thing to consider, Manglani says, is cost. While over-the-counter prenatals are cheaper for some and may be the best bet if your provider recommends an OTC vitamin, prescription vitamins may be covered by your health insurance. That could net out to a cheaper or even free prenatal vitamin, Manglani says.

Prenatals Without the Pain: Treating Nausea From Prenatal Vitamins

Some 97 percent of women do take prenatal vitamins during pregnancy according to the March of Dimes poll—which is good news—but while they should be taken all the way through pregnancy and even while breastfeeding, that doesn’t always happen.
The culprit is often nausea, says Sherry Ross, an OB-GYN at Providence Saint John’s Health Center in Santa Monica, California.
“With the high amounts of vitamins and minerals, prenatal vitamins are notorious for causing nausea during pregnancy,” Ross says.
To help quell the nausea and stick to your prenatal vitamin routine, she suggests taking your vitamins right after eating or before going to sleep at night. It’s also okay to cut that vitamin in half (many are scored for this purpose), taking half in the morning and half at night.
“If the nausea persists, I have my patients take a one-a-day multivitamin instead of a prenatal until they have a stronger stomach,” she says. Changing brands may also be a helpful option!

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How To Snag A Job You're Overqualified For

When Carol Lee was eyeing a job as a secretary at a prestigious Atlanta, Georgia, university, she already knew she was overqualified. She had a master’s degree, after all.
Then again, she had just finished an eight-year stint with the military, moved to a new town, and was stuck temping until she found a “real” job. What’s more, Lee knew that starting as a secretary in the college’s fundraising department could kick-start her career, giving her that foot in the door she needed to work for an employer with growth opportunities.  
So when a human resources officer told Lee she was indeed “overqualified,” she kicked her efforts into high gear to convince them otherwise.
The result? Not only did she grab the secretary position, but Lee says she loved the job and her new boss.
“Used to going over and beyond my duties, able to work autonomously, and make decisions—courtesy of the military—we made a great team for little over a year until he got promoted and went to a new job at the university,” she tells HealthyWay. “And it did jumpstart my career!”

The Problem With Being Overqualified

The word “overqualified” can signal a death knell in many a pursuit for a job, especially for those with advanced degrees who have a great educational background but little to no experience in an industry where they want to grow.
Imagine walking out of school with a marketing degree and dreams of landing a gig at a cool digital agency, only to be told your degree is just too good for that junior position that you so desperately want. It happens—a lot.
The fact is, as many as one in four college-educated workers in America are considered overqualified for their jobs. But as grads like Lee can attest, being overqualified doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t want the job or that it won’t be a perfect fit!
If you’re on the hunt for a job and can’t find a help wanted ad that matches your qualifications, you don’t have to throw in the towel or pull up stakes and start over in a new town. There are some ways around the “overqualified” curse.

What Overqualified Really Means

If you’ve ever been called in for an interview and thought you nailed it, only to get the call from HR that they’ve passed on you because you’re “overqualified,” you might be frustrated. You might also be asking what the heck it means.
According to Marielle Smith, vice president of people at GoodHire, the answer isn’t as simple as a mismatch between your education level and the needs of the company or even a matter of “too much” experience.
[pullquote align=”center”]As many as one in four college-educated workers in America are considered overqualified for their jobs.
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“It could mean you are significantly more senior than the level sought, which could impact their costs—perhaps they haven’t budgeted for someone at your level,” Smith says, “Or it could mean that your compensation expectations are too high.”
So why didn’t they just pass on your name when you sent in your resume? Again, being overqualified can be complicated, and sometimes the red flags don’t come out until you’ve sat down for that face-to-face interview.
“They could also be telling you that the level of work this role entails are at a lower level than your capabilities and would be boring for you,” Smith says. “Sometimes if someone says you’re ‘overqualified,’ it’s a proxy for ‘I think you wouldn’t be happy in this job.’ And if that’s the case, it will be very hard to change their mind.”
So, being overqualified means you won’t get the job? Actually, no! You just need to know how to play up the “good” over those qualifications!

Why It’s Okay to Be Overqualified

There are countless reasons why someone might apply for a job for which they’re technically “overqualified.”
You might be like Augusta, Georgia, resident Rebecca Alwine: a primary caregiving parent, married to an active-duty military spouse, who needs to work a flexible schedule not typically available at higher-powered jobs.
You might have moved with your partner to a new area and still be in the process of transferring career certifications across state lines.
Or perhaps you lost your job unexpectedly, and the basic need for a salary to keep a roof over your head and food in your tummy is more important than the need to find a job that challenges you.
Life would be simpler if we could just wait for that dream job to become open, but unemployment benefits typically stop after 26 weeks in most states. What’s more, studies have found that the longer you’re out of the workforce, the harder it can be to find a job, as hiring managers are wary of gaps in a resume.
There are, however, benefits for employers who hire overqualified workers. In one study out of Portland State University, researchers determined that empowering overqualified employees made up for any negative effects of perceived overqualification on job satisfaction, intentions to remain, and voluntary turnover.

How to Get a Job When You’re Overqualified

So you really want that job? Heck, you need that job? You may still be able to talk your way in the door!
When Rebecca Alwine applied to stock grocery store shelves, she already knew she was overqualified for the job. She has a masters in emergency management and disaster planning, among other degrees and certifications. She also needed a job that would allow her to supplement her husband’s military income and still allow her to be there for her kids when they needed her. And she wanted to stock shelves. The grocery store said no, but it taught her a valuable lesson in how to use her qualifications for her instead of against her.
Alwine went on to apply for a position that was directed to applicants with an associate’s degree, despite the fact that she had her master’s.
“I was able to talk my way into it during the first interview by explaining why I wanted the job, why I thought I would be good at it, and why I wasn’t looking for something full-time/on my degree level at that point,” she explains.
Here’s how the hiring managers say you can copy her example:

Address objections head-on.

Going through issues a hiring manager may have and addressing them head-on in an interview is important, Smith says. They allow you to take charge of the conversation, instead of the hiring manager having to read between the lines.
“To convince someone to hire you despite your over qualifications, you need to address possible objections—whether you’re too senior, would be bored in the role, don’t have the right skills to do the operational work that the role entails, or you’re too expensive—that’s what they want to know and what you need to address,” she advises.

Talk up your hands-on experience.

If you’ve got more qualifications, that means you know how to do everything at the lower level too, right? Not exactly, Smith says.
If you’ve spent a significant amount of time in senior roles, for example, a hiring manager may assume you don’t have the operational or hands-on experience necessary to perform lower-level work required for the role, casting you into the overqualified bucket.
“The amount of effort and time the company would have to spend to get that person up to speed with the skills necessary to perform those functions would not be a good deal for them, especially if they are paying a higher salary based on their senior level,” Smith notes.
If you do have those skills, now’s the time to tell the hiring manager! Focus more on your technical expertise and how operational you’ve been in previous roles, and be as specific as possible.
“Don’t take the high-level approach, or they won’t see the operational side of your skills and how hands-on you can be,” Smith says.
Part of that should happen before you’re even in the door at the interview, with a resume built to address the needs of the job (based on your actual skills, of course).
“I will never leave experience off an application/resume,” Alwine admits, “but sometimes I rearrange it so they fall in love with me before they realize I’m overeducated!”

Promise to stick around.

Finally, show your commitment to the position. If a company is going to invest in training you, they need to know you aren’t just taking this job until something better comes along.
Greg Shepard has been hiring staff to clean homes at Texas-based cleaning service Dallas Maids since 2014, and one particular resume has always stuck out to him. The applicant’s last position was as a corporate executive, but she was applying to clean homes after being struck by a need to live life more simply.
It was a desire Shepard understood, enough so that he scheduled an interview. But it was the knowledge that the applicant wouldn’t stick with the job for long that made him eventually opt not to hire her.
[pullquote align=”center”]“Overall, I, and I suspect most employers, want to ensure the job benefits the employee better than the job before because I want the employee to be happy.”
—Greg Shepard[/pullquote]
“We want employees that will be with us for many years, not just a few months as they find something that pays better,” Shepard explains. “Having low turnover is important for several reasons: 1. We don’t lose money on training, 2. Our customers prefer to have the same ladies cleaning their home year after year, and 3. Keeping talent means consistent cleanings for our customers. Each house has a learning curve, and sending new teams means a lull in quality as the team learns how to clean the home.”

Explain how this job helps you.

Shepard suggests applicants show a hiring manager how this job would be an improvement over your last position, even if the pay is lower or the title seems less impressive.
“Candidates that we have hired that had made more at their previous jobs were ones that this position would still have been a step up,” he explains.
For example, if someone says they’re coming to the company because it offers great hours that will enable them to continue working when they might have otherwise left the work world, Shepard sees someone who is getting a benefit from the position and is more likely to stick around.
“Overall, I, and I suspect most employers, want to ensure the job benefits the employee better than the job before because I want the employee to be happy,” Shepard says. “Happy employees will be productive and stay with the company long-term, resulting in more happy customers and less costly turnover. So if an applicant is overqualified for a position, communicate genuine reasons why the job is not a step down and why you see yourself working for years to come!”