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15 Beauty Treatments That Are A Total Scam

We constantly see new beauty products and treatments that promise amazing results, from picture-perfect skin to waist-length, shiny hair. But the unfortunate truth is that a number of products out there don’t have much, if any, scientific backing. They can be ineffective at best and downright harmful at worst.
You should always do your research before spending your hard-earned money. Here’s what the experts say to be wary of.

1. At-Home Derma Rollers

Maybe you’ve heard of micro-needling—running a roller of tiny sterile needles over your skin to boost collagen production and help absorb skincare products. According to Jacqueline Schaffer, MD, micro-needling can be really effective—but you should always have this done at a doctor’s office, never at home.
The needles of a derma roller range from 0.25 millimeters to 3.0 millimeters in length (though anything over 1.5 millimeters is not recommended for at-home use under any circumstances), meaning they can go quite deeply into your skin and potentially cause damage if used incorrectly.

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“It’s something that can actually worsen your skin,” Schaffer says. “It can cause more injury and disturb your skin’s texture. Your [desired] outcome is to have a more even skin texture, which is what the fine needles should do, because it should stimulate collagen and repair. But because it’s manual and not done by a machine, [at-home derma rollers are] actually causing damage and unevenness in you.”
Ultimately, Schaffer says, your skin can end up looking irregular—and there are safety concerns, too.
Without proper sterilization, your derma roller could put you at risk for serious infections or flare-ups of existing skin conditions. The U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) is looking to regulate these devices to keep users safe.
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“With anything that is going to puncture your skin, you can really hurt yourself,” Schaffer adds. “It’s going to be a complete shock to your skin, and [at home] there’s no supervision.”

2. Eye Cream in a Jar

The skin around your eyes is generally thinner and more delicate than the skin on the rest of your face, as Rachel Nazarian, MD, a board-certified dermatologist, told HuffPost. As such, you may well want a specific cream to help hydrate that area—but make sure it comes in the right type of container.
“You need to be very, very careful with certain eye cream,” Schaffer says. “If it comes in a jar, after the cream is exposed to oxygen it’s going to oxidize. So that expensive eye cream is going to be goop.”

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“Oxygen, sunlight, and microbes, which cosmetic products are often exposed to during storage and use, can change their characteristics, [resulting] in strange odors, discoloration, or contamination,” researchers said in a review (link opens as a PDF) published in the Journal of Pharmaceutical and Scientific Innovation. “This reduces the shelf life of the product and degrades its quality and effectiveness once opened.”  
So, despite the luxurious look, eye cream from a jar may actually be less effective and full of germs after only one use. But don’t give up on all eye creams just yet.
Schaffer suggests this alternative: “You want to make sure it comes in an airless tube.”
The researchers agreed. “… The danger of contamination and degradation is almost non-existent for airless packaging,” they said.

3. SPF Nail Polish

Obviously, proper sun care is very important. As dermatologist Fayne Frey, MD, explained to HealthyWay, you are exposed to the sun’s rays every day, even while walking to your mailbox or driving during the daytime.
Because of this, you should definitely make sure a chemical sunscreen (which will absorb the potentially harmful UV rays) or a physical sunscreen (which will block the UV rays entirely by reflecting them off your skin) is part of your everyday regimen.

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Other safe sun tips include staying away from tanning beds, wearing baseball caps and long-sleeved shirts or UV-protective outfits, and wearing sunglasses to protect your eyes from UV rays.
What you don’t need? SPF nail polish.
While the sun can certainly burn the skin under your nails if the rays are strong enough, regular nail polish should act as a good enough barrier. Just make sure you pay attention to your hands and nails when applying sunscreen: If you’re already wearing nail polish, some chemical sunscreens can ruin your manicure, cosmetic chemist Joseph Cincotta told Allure.

4. Tanning Beds

Tanning beds are a scam (even though they technically do give you a tan) simply because they are dangerous to use.
Tanning beds give off UVA and UVB radiation, which can cause adverse effects, including increased cancer risks. According to the American Academy of Dermatology (AAD), “Researchers estimate that indoor tanning may cause upwards of 400,000 cases of skin cancer in the U.S. each year.”

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What’s more, according to the AAD: One single session in a tanning bed can increase your risk of developing squamous cell carcinoma by 67 percent, basal cell carcinoma by 29 percent, and melanoma by 20 percent.
Despite these risks, the AAD estimates that 7.8 million adult women in the United States tan indoors.
The safest way to get a sun-kissed glow is to get a spray tan, or use fake tanning lotion. And if you are low on vitamin D, the AAD recommends eating foods like fatty fish, cheese, and fortified cereals, drinking orange juice, or looking into vitamin D supplements.

5. Split End Repair Serum

Split ends—when individual strands of hair separate at the ends into two or more pieces—are caused by hair damage from heat tools, over-brushing, or chemical dyes.
You can prevent split ends by getting enough protein in your diet, avoiding heat tools and excessive hair handling whenever possible, and brushing your hair gently, among other healthy hair habits. But once you have them, forget about fixing them with expensive serums or oils.

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Sadly, products that claim to repair split ends really don’t work. They can temporarily glue the split ends back together until your next shampoo, or add moisture to conceal and prevent further split ends, but they can’t actually repair your hair.
“Once your ends are split, the only solution is to go to the salon to get them trimmed,” WebMD explained.

6. Stretch Mark Creams

Stretch marks are incredibly common. They are caused by tearing in a layer of the skin called the dermis and are especially likely to occur during puberty or pregnancy, when the body is growing.
“Stretch marks are caused by the skin rapidly pulling to accommodate weight gain, growth, or stretching from other causes,” says Jennifer Caudle, DO, a board-certified family physician. “Genetics can play a role, and certain medications can as well. Stretch marks may fade somewhat over time, but they are generally considered to be permanent.”

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Though stretch marks can vary in appearance, some people don’t like the way they look and seek to get rid of them. Unfortunately, topical creams that claim to treat stretch marks usually don’t do much to help.
Some clinical trials suggest that certain creams help decrease the appearance of stretch marks, but more than likely won’t eliminate them. The Mayo Clinic explains, “Products made of cocoa butter, vitamin E and glycolic acid, for example, aren’t harmful, but they probably won’t help much either.”
Caudle agrees: “Many over-the-counter creams claim to remove stretch marks, but they usually provide moisture without a proven benefit of stretch mark removal. For treatment options that may help reduce the appearance of stretch marks, it’s best to talk with your doctor.”

7. Sheet Masks

Sheet masks have become insanely popular over the past few years, to the point where it’s not unusual to see people using them on airplanes. But experts are divided on whether they actually work.
The point of sheet masks is to hold the mask close to the wearer’s face and trap moisture, aiding in absorption. Effectiveness depends on the active ingredients in a sheet mask.
However, even when those ingredients are beneficial, does the paper mask itself actually make any difference in how well they work when applied to your face?

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Paula Begoun, the Cosmetics Cop, doesn’t think so.
“Sheet masks don’t deliver ingredients to the skin any better than well-formulated skin-care products,” she said in a recent interview with The Cut. In fact, she considers them a waste of time. She explained that absorption depends on the molecular size of the ingredients, not on something holding those ingredients to the skin. So all those single-use sheets are fairly useless.
You can get the same (or better) results by investing in a good leave-on face cream. It will last longer and, as Begoun emphasized, allow you to make better use of your time.

8. Bee Pollen Weight-Loss Products

Bee pollen weight-loss products have been touted by some health experts as a quick way to shed pounds. These products are made from the pollen bees collect from flowers and feed to their larvae. Sellers make grand (unsubstantiated) claims about the supposed benefits of these products, which can include anything from quick weight loss to increased longevity.
Scientists are still researching the effectiveness of these products, but some bee pollen products have already proven themselves dangerous and deadly.

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“Some bee pollen products marketed for weight loss have been found to contain hidden and potentially dangerous ingredients that may be harmful for people who have conditions such as irregular heartbeat, high blood pressure, and bipolar disorders,” said Gary Coody, the FDA national health fraud coordinator, in a consumer update.
Over 50 people have reported adverse health effects, including renal failure and anaphylactic shock, after using bee pollen weight-loss products—and shockingly, one person has died.
“It is tempting to believe that a quick and effortless weight loss supplement is safe for use,” FDA regulatory manager Jason Humbert said. “But given the fact that these products contain a hidden dangerous ingredient, consumers should avoid taking them.”

9. Gold-Infused Face Creams

We totally understand the appeal of gold face creams; they’re slightly shiny, they leave you feeling moisturized, and they contain real specks of gold. What’s not to love?
For starters, the price tags. Real gold is expensive, and facial creams that include precious metals aren’t ideal for budget-conscious consumers. Some gold-infused eye creams and moisturizers cost upwards of $200. More importantly, gold doesn’t do anything to improve skin health. 

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“At best, [gold skin creams] do nothing, and at worst, they can give you irritation of the skin,” dermatologist Judith Hellman told The New York Times in 2010. “I would tell people to put that money into gold that they can wear around their neck or on their fingers.”
While some other doctors note that gold may have anti-inflammatory properties that could potentially provide a real-world benefit, we couldn’t find any research supporting that claim in relation to skincare.

10. Bee Venom Lip Plumpers

Ever notice that your favorite limp plumper makes your lips hurt? That’s by design.
The fastest way to increase the size of body tissue—to “plump” up—is to cause irritation. That’s exactly what plumping glosses and lipsticks do; most contain cinnamon, peppermint oil, capsicum (an extract from peppers), and other mild irritants, which draw blood flow to wherever you apply them. You might notice your lips stinging for a while, and repeated use can cause your lips to dry out or crack. 

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Those are annoying side effects, but they’re relatively minor, and hey, sometimes you’re willing to put up with a little pain in the name of beauty. We’re not here to judge, but know this: Some lip plumpers use stronger ingredients, including products derived from bee venom (Kourtney Kardashian endorsed one such product, because of course she did).
If you’re prone to allergic reactions, make sure to avoid these glosses. And if you’re not, still be wary. Some dermatologists don’t recommend any irritating products, but if you really crave that fuller pout, stick with the peppermint- or capsicum-based products. Oh, and use them with moderation—nobody likes cracked lips, even if they do look rather plump. 

11. Collagen Supplements (Maybe)

Your body uses collagen to grow skin, hair, and fingernails. Give your body more collagen, and you’ll have better hair, skin, and fingernails—it makes sense, doesn’t it? 
Unfortunately, there’s not much evidence to show that collagen supplements do much of anything. While a few studies have shown that regular supplements can improve skin collagen density, moisture, and elasticity, those studies used small sample sizes…and tended to be sponsored by the companies making those supplements.

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“I don’t think that I am in a position to pooh-pooh it and say this definitely doesn’t work,” Diane S. Berson, associate professor of dermatology at Weill Cornell Medical College, told The New York Times in 2018. “But as a physician, I would want to see more evidence-backed science.”
Another issue: In many of the studies, participants took relatively large amounts of collagen, so to get the same possible benefits, you’d have to take six pills per day or pay upwards of $40 per month for powdered collagen. Again, there’s not a ton of evidence showing that the supplements actually have a noticeable effect, so that’s a lot of effort for limited benefits.
And as we’ve covered in other pieces, many supplements contain far less of their active ingredients than the amount listed on their labels. If you do decide to supplement, make sure you trust the source—and don’t count on breathtaking results.

12. Activated Charcoal Foods

Emergency responders use activated charcoal to treat patients who have consumed poison or overdosed on medications. It’s effective at sucking out toxins, allowing them to harmlessly pass through the gastrointestinal tract.
But while charcoal is incredibly effective in some emergency scenarios, it’s not the type of thing you want to take regularly—despite what manufacturers say. Charcoal is said to whiten teeth, brighten skin, and reduce bloating, but physicians are skeptical of those claims.

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The reason: Activated charcoal absorbs toxins, but when you’re not actively treating a toxin, there’s really no reason to use it.
“Our bodies have the ability to detox ourselves,” Kristin Kirkpatrick, manager of wellness nutrition services at Cleveland Clinic’s Wellness Institute, told TODAY. “That is the majority of the role of the liver … it does so much of the detoxing.”
Activated charcoal might make prescription drugs less effective, and it can draw out many important vitamins and minerals.
With all of that said, some charcoal skin products (yes, including sheet masks) look cool and feel great, and if you like them, that’s enough of a reason to keep using them. Topical applications of charcoal won’t hurt you—they just won’t suck out “impurities” or “toxins” that aren’t there. Some of those peel-off charcoal skin products are effective at removing blackheads, but many aren’t.
Still, if you use them in moderation, they’re far from the worst treatment on this list. Just be sure to skip those charcoal-infused foods at your local health food store.

13. “Slugging”

“Slugging” involves covering your face with a thin layer of petroleum jelly before you head to bed at night. It gets its name because…well, it makes you feel like a slug. Proponents of the therapy swear by it.
“My face has never been so soft,” Reddit user trainbangled wrote after trying slugging. “I am reborn. I am a new woman. I was not a slug; I was a caterpillar in the cocoon.”
We’re glad that the slug life worked out for her, but dermatologists aren’t sold on the technique. While petroleum jelly can keep moisture from escaping from your skin, it can also plug your pores, causing breakouts.

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“Dermatologists already know that people who use greasy hair waxes or gels tend to breakout more along the hairline, so it is highly likely that slugging would do the same to the whole face,” dermatologist Justine Kluk told Women’s Health.
Other physicians echoed that sentiment.
“I would never recommend this as a first line of treatment to my patients,” dermatologist Steven Swengel told NewBeauty. “Although it is an inexpensive way to hydrate the skin, there is a potential risk for acne prone skin. Pure occlusion can set off some bad outbreaks so this method should be used with caution.”
The consensus seems to be that if you’re considering this therapy, you should talk to your dermatologist first. Other treatments might give you the same results without putting your skin at risk.

14. Sunscreen Pills

Applying sunscreen is a lot of work. Well, okay, not really, but some people don’t like slathering themselves in SPF 30 before spending a few hours at the beach. There’s got to be a better way…right?
Enter sunscreen pills, which are exactly what they sound like: capsules intended to shield consumers from harmful UV rays. The keyword in that last sentence is “intended,” since sunscreen pills don’t work. In fact, several were cited by the FDA for making misleading claims.

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“Consumers should be watchful for unscrupulous companies making unproven claims,” FDA Commissioner Scott Gottlieb said in a May 2018 statement. “When the FDA sees companies taking advantage of people’s desire to protect themselves from the harmful effects of the sun—we’ll step in. There’s no pill or capsule that can replace your sunscreen.”
Nevertheless, we found several “sun skin care” pills from several different manufacturers with a few seconds of Googling (we’re not linking them here to avoid giving them additional traffic). Companies typically claim that their supplements contain ingredients like Polypodium leucotomus, which is said to decrease the damage that UV rays cause to skin cells.
That extract might actually protect skin from the sun when taken regularly in high enough quantities, but more research is needed, and as we mentioned a few paragraphs ago, the supplement market isn’t exactly highly regulated. Until your dermatologist recommends a “sun pill,” stick with the lotions.

15. BB Creams

BB (or “Beauty Balm”) creams claim to combine moisturizer, sunscreen, and makeup into one easy-to-apply product. That’s an appealing concept—if you can apply one pea-sized amount of a single cream and head out the door, you’ll certainly save a lot of time.
Unfortunately, while these balms are safe and useful, they’re not a complete replacement for the aforementioned products.

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“BB Creams are a brilliant marketing concept, however, ‘one cream that fits all’ is a false notion,” dermatologist Dr. Harold Lancer told HuffPost. “There is some modest benefit-moisturizing, but should not be the end all of the fountain of youth and certainly should not replace any other vital steps in skincare.”
The issue is that BB creams vary greatly in terms of their ingredients and efficacy. That’s not a big deal, except when it comes to the sunscreen component. Remember, you really, really need appropriate protection if you’re spending time outdoors, and a pea-sized amount of anything probably isn’t doing the job. If you decide to use BB creams, research them carefully (and consider adding a dedicated sunscreen with an appropriate SPF rating).

Protect yourself.

There are tons of treatments and products out there that truly work and are worth spending your money on. Other products, like these, are total scams, with marketing campaigns designed to appeal to people’s insecurities.
So how can you tell if something is worth trying or not? First, see if you can find trustworthy reviews. Then, if the product or treatment makes grand claims, check the clinical trial registry, find out if the claims are linked to any peer-reviewed research, or see if a licensed medical doctor recommends the treatment. Generally, the more scientific experimentation and backing a product or treatment has, the more likely it is to be the real deal.

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Ultimately, if you’re not sure that something is effective or safe, you should avoid using it. Better to be safe than sorry!

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What Makes Food Taste Better—According To Science

Ever wondered what actually makes food taste good? Obviously, a lot of it depends on the ingredients and preparation, not to mention your personal preferences. But psychological studies have shown a few surprising things that can make a difference. So whether you’re an amateur chef looking to improve, or just interested in the topic, here are a few things you should know about what’s at play when it comes to enjoying a plate of chow.

What you’ve probably suspected is true: When food looks good, it tastes better.

In one study, researchers presented subjects with a salad plated in one of three ways: with the ingredients tossed together, with the ingredients presented neatly, and with the ingredients presented artistically (with the ingredients arranged to mimic a painting by Wassily Kandinsky).

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“Prior to consumption, the art-inspired presentation resulted in the food being considered as more artistic, more complex, and more liked than either of the other presentations,” the paper concluded. “The participants were also willing to pay more for the Kandinsky-inspired plating. Interestingly, after consumption, the results revealed higher tastiness ratings for the art-inspired presentation.”

Novel eating experiences are also more enjoyable.

Ever tried eating popcorn with chopsticks?
As weird as this sounds, research actually shows that you enjoy popcorn more if you eat it with chopsticks. Yes, really! Apparently, eating or drinking something in an unusual way can recreate that feel-good sensation of trying something for the very first time, heightening our enjoyment of its taste (assuming we like it in the first place).

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For a paper published in the journal Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, researchers asked a group of subjects to do various things—like eating popcorn, drinking water, and watching a movie—in either a totally normal way, or an unconventional, new, and exciting way. They found that people who tried things the unconventional way, like eating popcorn with chopsticks or drinking water out of a martini glass, enjoyed their experiences significantly more.
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“When you eat popcorn with chopsticks, you pay more attention and you are more immersed in the experience,” one of the study’s authors said in a press release. “It’s like eating popcorn for the first time.”

Using a totally new utensil could also make food taste better.

Enter the Goûte. This glass utensil, created by designer Andreas Fabian and chef and scientist Charles Michel, is a kind of wand modeled after the shape of a human finger. It’s designed for creamy foods like yogurt, hummus, Nutella, and peanut butter. Fabian and Michel partnered with Oxford University’s Crossmodal Research Laboratory to see how people reacted to the utensil, and they found that participants in a small study said food tasted “significantly better” when eaten from a Goûte rather than a spoon.
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“Conventional cutlery is a technology we put in our mouths every day, and currently it is only designed with functional purposes,” Michel explained. “We want to offer eating utensils that enrich the sensual pleasures of eating.”
Obviously, a new and novel piece of cutlery is not super appealing to everyone. But think about whether you use things like a honey dipper, soup spoon, seafood fork, or lobster cracker. Using these specialized utensils can be very satisfying, and possibly make your food taste better.

Still, there’s something about eating with the “right” cutlery…

Who wants to eat yogurt with chopsticks? A spoon just makes sense.
But what kind of spoon of spoon should you go for, then? Well, researcher Charles Spence asked people to rate yogurt that they tasted from either an artificially weighted spoon or a lightweight plastic one.

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“The results revealed that yogurt was perceived as denser and more expensive when tasted from a lighter plastic spoon as compared to the artificially weighted spoons,” he wrote in a research paper published in the journal Flavour. The paper goes on to indicate that the right utensil will vary depending on the type of food that’s being served and the experience you’re after.
This definitely makes sense. Think about how food tastes to you when you eat it from paper plates using disposable plastic cutlery versus how it tastes at home or at a restaurant using ceramic plates and metal knives and forks.
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This same logic can also apply to drinks. Have you ever thought that soda tastes different when you drink it from a can versus a paper cup? Or what about the holy grail: the OG glass soda bottle? How about movie theater popcorn from a paper bag versus a sturdy bowl, or ice cream from a cone versus straight out of the carton?

The color of your plate, cup, or mug matters, too.

Researchers from the the Universitat Politècnica de València in Spain and the University of Oxford in the United Kingdom served 53 subjects a serving of strawberry mousse on either a black plate or a white plate. Their paper reveals that those served the mousse on a white plate liked it more and rated the mousse as sweeter and more flavorful.
For the most part, restaurants serve their food on white plates—which may well be accentuating the flavor of the food while also making it easier for diners to recognize what they are eating.

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For a paper published in the Journal of Sensory Studies, researchers asked subjects to drink cocoa out of a white, red, orange, or cream mug. “The results revealed that orange (with a white interior) and dark-cream colored cups enhanced the chocolate flavor of the drink and consequently improved people’s acceptance of the beverage,” the researchers wrote.
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This may explain why we all have a “favorite” mug that brings us a little bit of joy every time we take a sip. It also explains the aversion many people have to mugs that are not white on the inside—it affects the color of whatever you’re drinking. Anything that makes my tea look a strange color? Not gonna work for me.

Okay, so we know that the science says. But how can you incorporate of these tricks when serving food to others?

“I always tell my clients that nourishment is a sensory experience,” says Gisela Bouvier, a registered dietitian who focuses on mindful and intuitive eating. “Food, first and foremost, should be visually appealing to them. When they see the food combinations they are about to consume, they should be excited and look forward to the food they are about to eat. Food colors have a lot to do with that. If a meal is too monochromatic, it may not stimulate the senses as much as a meal rich in colors. A combination of colors may make the meal a lot more appealing and therefore more appetizing.”

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Bouvier also says that playing with textures can completely change how someone feels about a certain food.
“When someone is aiming to include more nutrient-dense foods in their daily intake, the texture of their food matters,” she says. “For example: The texture of roasted broccoli versus tender-fork steamed broccoli is significantly different. The slightly crisp texture that occurs from the broccoli being roasted may make a meal a lot more enjoyable to the palate versus a soft-steamed texture of the same vegetable. Further, having different textures in a meal also creates a more enjoyable experience when eating that meal. I always recommend that my clients combine a variety of textures in their meals and snacks, such as crispy, soft, tender, crunchy, and creamy.”
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Rachel Meltzer Warren, a registered dietitian nutritionist based in Jersey City, NJ, suggests other small tweaks you can easily make.
“Top with a sprinkle of fresh herbs,” Meltzer Warren suggests. “Restaurants do this all the time—why not try it at home? Chop a bit of parsley, oregano, or basil and sprinkle on your meal to add intrigue, not to mention nutrients and a burst of fresh flavor.”
Another one of her tips that’s an echo from above? “Use white plates. Having a blank canvas allows the colors of your food to pop and even makes it seem more flavorful.”
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Finally, she suggests playing around with portion size when you’re plating. “Placing one minimal portion of food on the plate allows the food itself to shine; an oversized portion that takes up the whole plate or dish overwhelms the eye and doesn’t show off your food as well,” she says.
When you are thinking about how to make a meal more appealing for yourself or guests, think about aspects of dining that you really enjoy and try to recreate them. For example, if you love the atmosphere of a restaurant, recreate parts of it at home by setting the table, lighting candles, and playing soft jazz or classical music in the background. If you personally enjoy eating from pretty plates or using different knives and forks for each course, go for it.
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And of course, beyond psychology, the quality and freshness of the ingredients in your meal do make a difference. Consider how a farm-fresh summer tomato tastes in comparison to a mealy supermarket tomato that was grown out of season, or what a difference fresh herbs can make compared to their dried counterparts. If you have access to a farmer’s market or seasonal produce stands, make the most of local fare to create fresh, flavorful meals.

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She’s The Breadwinner: Why Happiness On The Homefront Might Be At Stake When Women Out-Earn Their Partners

There’s something interesting happening with a number of heterosexual couples: When the woman in the couple earns more than the man, the two spouses tend to report their incomes differently. The woman in the couple will say she makes less than she actually does, and the man will undervalue what she makes, too.
Meanwhile, the man is more likely to say he earns more than he actually does—and the wife is likely to say the same. Translation: Some people are still struggling with the idea of a female breadwinner in a heterosexual marriage.

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The Census Bureau recently discovered this trend among married couples when they saw that couples’ self-reporting didn’t always match their IRS filings.
“When a wife earns more, both husbands and wives exaggerate the husband’s earnings and diminish the wife’s,” according to a Census.gov article published in July 2018. “But husbands overstate their own earnings less than wives do, and wives devalue their own earnings less than husbands do.
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Basically, women who out-earn their male partners underreport their earnings, downplaying their financial success; the men in these relationships understate their wives’ earnings even further. Further, both parties overstate the husband’s earnings, with women exaggerating the most.
It’s clear that our culture is uncomfortable with women earning the majority of the money in their relationship. Why is this, and how common are female breadwinners anyway? Here’s what you should know.

In the United States, it wasn’t common for married or coupled women to work outside the home until a few decades ago.

Of course, women have always labored and contributed to their partnerships or families. Women around the world have done agricultural work for millennia and continue to do so today. Women also took on the brunt of work around the home, including cooking, cleaning, childcare, and laundry. Worldwide, many single and coupled women work outside of their homes to bring in an income, supporting themselves and their families.

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That said, in the United States specifically, it wasn’t common for married women to work in non-agricultural, professional settings until World War II. According to a book by labor historian Kim Moody, “The rate of participation of women in the labor force rose from about 28 percent in 1940 to 37 percent in 1945 and then fell to 30 percent in 1947. By 1950, it was around 32 percent, below the wartime peak but above the prewar level.”
In 2018, according to the U.S. Department of Labor, there are 74.6 million women in the American civilian labor force. Almost 47 percent of people working in the U.S. are women. And moms are currently the “primary or sole earners” for a full 40 percent of households with kids under 18. Back in 1960, this number was just 11 percent. And data from the Pew Research Center suggests that 28 percent of women earn more than their husband or male partner, while 3 percent earn the same salary.
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Data also shows that many people still hold old-fashioned opinions about what men and women’s roles within a partnership or family should be. According to the same Pew research, 71 percent of Americans say it’s “very important” for a man to be “able to support a family financially to be a good husband or partner.” Only 32 percent say the same about women. And 51 percent of Pew survey respondents believe that kids are better off if they have a mother who stays home with them and doesn’t hold a job outside the home—compared to 8 percent who say the same thing about a father.  

Research shows that issues can arise when women out-earn their male partners.

One study found that woman breadwinners were more likely to spend time on household chores than their partners and that these couples were “less satisfied with their marriage and are more likely to divorce.” Another found that heterosexual men’s self-esteem took a hit when their partner was successful at a given task. Another found that working moms were still more involved in childcare than their working partners.

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Essentially, the research indicates that working women who out-earn their male partners are more likely to take on the bulk of the housework and, if they have children, to handle the majority of childcare. Plus, their partners were more likely to struggle from self-esteem issues due to their success. Unsurprisingly, this can cause all sorts of problems.
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Lisa Earle McLeod, founder of McLeod & More and author of Selling with Noble Purpose, has been the breadwinner in her family for the past ten years. She says that other people’s questions regarding her family dynamic were extremely frustrating, and notes that no one asked her about her feelings when her husband was the breadwinner for a decade.
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“You think you have it all,” she says. “Your career is rocking, you’re providing for your family, your business is growing, you feel fulfilled, it’s everything your mother and grandmothers dreamed about for you. Then someone asks, ‘Is your husband okay with your success?’”


McLeod says her reaction to this type of question or comment varies. Sometimes it saddens her, and other times she’ll hit back with a sarcastic response. If a man asked her the question, she says she will ask him if his wife is okay with his success. She says that these type of comments can make her and her husband self-conscious, even though he is incredibly supportive of her career.
“This conversation spills over into your marriage,” she says. “We like to think we’re immune to the opinions of others, but we’re not. You find yourself asking, ‘Is it weird for you? Do you feel uncomfortable?’ The worst is when you find yourself minimizing your accomplishments—something men rarely do.”
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Sadly, research shows that couples where the woman is the breadwinner are more likely to divorce. Data collected by the University of Chicago’s Booth Business School found that a woman out-earning her husband “increases the likelihood of divorce by 50 percent.”

Ultimately, every couple should do what works for them and their family.

But if you are a woman breadwinner (or plan to assume that role in the future) and your partner isn’t handling it well, what should you do?
Experts say that frank communication is key.
[pullquote align=”center”]“In my relationship, there have been times that I was the main breadwinner. …By treating everything as ‘ours’ and making plans together, there is never resentment whenever one of us is the bigger breadwinner.”
—Jamie Klingman, real estate broker[/pullquote]
“Create time in your relationship to talk about this dynamic and how you both are feeling about it, says couples’ therapist Heidi McBain. “Have a conversation about what this ‘role reversal’ means to each of you personally as well as professionally, and figure out ways that you can best support each other. Actively listen to what your partner is saying, even if it’s hard to hear at times.”

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Communication and prioritizing each person’s happiness is how Jamie Klingman, a real estate broker, makes things work when she is earning more than her partner. She and her husband have learned to adapt and compromise depending on the other person’s schedule and duties.
“In my relationship, there have been times that I was the main breadwinner. We both prioritize happiness in our careers, and that leads to times where one of us makes more than another,” Klingman says. “We plan for each season and share our financial goals and expenditures. By treating everything as ‘ours’ and making plans together, there is never resentment whenever one of us is the bigger breadwinner.”
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“We also realign duties depending on our workloads,” she says. “I take the bigger share when my schedule isn’t as taxed, and he does when his is less. By regularly evaluating and adjusting and prioritizing each other’s most important ‘musts,’ the rest follows suit.”
McBain says that couples who are struggling to talk things out on their own should think about seeing a therapist together to tackle the issues they are facing. There is nothing shameful about going to therapy—a counselor’s office can be a safe space to share any feelings of frustration, resentment, or sadness. Plus, trained counselors can offer you helpful communication tools and ideas for repairing your relationship if needed.
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“Couples’ counseling is a great resource and safe place to have these conversations if you’ve tried on your own and haven’t gotten anywhere,” she says. “A trained therapist can help you see the dysfunctional patterns in your relationship and help you to create new, healthier ways of interacting with each other.”

Going forward, it seems likely that young people plan on forging their own paths, regardless of traditional gender roles.

Research shows that college students don’t necessarily plan to follow the caregiver–breadwinner model in their families or partnerships. To be clear, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with this model—it works for many people and families across the United States and all over the world. 
But women who want to be the breadwinners in their families, or earn the same as their partners, should be just as widely accepted as those who earn less than their partners or are full-time caregivers or homemakers.

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Young people of all genders report that they plan to up-end traditional family frameworks and do what works for them—and we should all be on board with that.  

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8 Beauty Treatments That Are A Total Scam (And What To Buy Instead)

We constantly see new beauty products and treatments that promise amazing results, from picture-perfect skin to waist-length, shiny hair. But the unfortunate truth is that a number of products out there don’t have much, if any, scientific backing. They can be ineffective at best and downright harmful at worst.

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You should always do your research before spending your hard-earned money. Here’s what the experts say to be wary of.

1. At-Home Derma Rollers

Maybe you’ve heard of micro-needling—running a roller of tiny sterile needles over your skin to boost collagen production and help absorb skincare products. According to Jacqueline Schaffer, MD, micro-needling can be really effective—but you should always have this done at a doctor’s office, never at home.

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The needles of a derma roller range from 0.25 millimeters to 3.0 millimeters in length (though anything over 1.5 millimeters is not recommended for at-home use under any circumstances), meaning they can go quite deeply into your skin and potentially cause damage if used incorrectly.
“It’s something that can actually worsen your skin,” Schaffer says. “It can cause more injury and disturb your skin’s texture. Your [desired] outcome is to have a more even skin texture, which is what the fine needles should do, because it should stimulate collagen and repair. But because it’s manual and not done by a machine, [at-home derma rollers are] actually causing damage and unevenness in you.”
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Ultimately, Schaffer says, your skin can end up looking irregular—and there are safety concerns, too.
Without proper sterilization, your derma roller could put you at risk for serious infections or flare-ups of existing skin conditions. The U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) is looking to regulate these devices to keep users safe.
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“With anything that is going to puncture your skin, you can really hurt yourself,” Schaffer adds. “It’s going to be a complete shock to your skin, and [at home] there’s no supervision.”
So, leave the skin-puncturing to the professionals. In the meantime, what can you do instead?
For starters, make sure that you’re protecting your skin from collagen-damaging UV rays. A University of Michigan Medical School study published in JAMA Dermatology found that daily, low-level exposure of lightly pigmented skin to a common component of sunlight, UVA1, promoted aging by breaking down collagen. (The dose mimicked the UVA levels of about two hours of strong sun exposure.) Damage started on a molecular level after only two exposures and got worse with each subsequent exposure. To protect against the full spectrum of rays, make sure your sunscreens include zinc oxide or avobenzone, like this EltaMD UV Daily Facial Sunscreen Broad-Spectrum SPF 40.
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Keep in mind that a lot of clothing does not protect against the sun’s rays, so if you’re outside for even a couple of hours every day, this could amount to a lot of cumulative damage. You can offset this by slathering up your bod with some broad-spectrum sunscreen, such as EltaMD UV Sport Sunscreen Broad-Spectrum SPF 50. (Yes, sunscreen is pricey, but remember that you can use your flexible spending account [FSA] to cover it.)
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As for reversing damage that’s already been done, if you choose to go the DIY route (i.e., without a dermatologist’s guidance), you’re going to want to turn to active ingredients like acids (alpha-hydroxy [AHA], salicylic, et al) and retinol that can resurface your skin. This 14 percent glycolic alpha hydroxy acid (AHA) Intensive Renewal Serum from Alpha Skin is paraben- and fragrance-free, with a pH level of 3.7. The product is supposed to reduce the appearance of lines and wrinkles, support collagen production, and even skin tone and texture.

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2. Eye Cream in a Jar

The skin around your eyes is generally thinner and more delicate than the skin on the rest of your face, as Rachel Nazarian, MD, a board-certified dermatologist, told HuffPost. As such, you may well want a specific cream to help hydrate that area—but make sure it comes in the right type of container.
“You need to be very, very careful with certain eye cream,” Schaffer says. “If it comes in a jar, after the cream is exposed to oxygen it’s going to oxidize. So that expensive eye cream is going to be goop.”

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“Oxygen, sunlight, and microbes, which cosmetic products are often exposed to during storage and use, can change their characteristics, [resulting] in strange odors, discoloration, or contamination,” researchers said in a review (link opens as a PDF) published in the Journal of Pharmaceutical and Scientific Innovation. “This reduces the shelf life of the product and degrades its quality and effectiveness once opened.”
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So, despite the luxurious look, eye cream from a jar may actually be less effective and full of germs after only one use. But don’t give up on all eye creams just yet.
Schaffer suggests this alternative: “You want to make sure it comes in an airless tube.”
The researchers agreed. “… The danger of contamination and degradation is almost non-existent for airless packaging,” they said.
The three-in-one Voibella Beauty Under Eye Cream comes in an airtight container to protect its active ingredients—including hyaluronic acid, retinol, and peptides—to reduce under-eye bags, puffiness, dark circles, fine lines, and wrinkles.
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Another eye cream that comes in an airless pump construction is the InstaNatural Youth Express Eye Gel, which employs plant stem cells, hyaluronic acid, and amino acids to address puffiness and defend against the early signs of aging.
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3. SPF Nail Polish

Obviously, proper sun care is very important. As dermatologist Fayne Frey, MD, recently explained to HealthyWay, you are exposed to the sun’s rays every day, even while walking to your mailbox or driving during the daytime.
Because of this, you should definitely make sure a chemical sunscreen (which will absorb the potentially harmful UV rays) or a physical sunscreen (which will block the UV rays entirely by reflecting them off your skin) is part of your everyday regimen.

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Other safe sun tips include staying away from tanning beds, wearing baseball caps and long-sleeved shirts or UV-protective outfits, and wearing sunglasses to protect your eyes from UV rays.
Coolibar is a sun-protective line offering clothing, UV-protection swimwear, sun hats, and sunscreen. While “sun-protective clothing” doesn’t sound very sexy, there are outfits designed to block out harmful rays, like this Oceanside Tunic Dress, that we wouldn’t sneeze at.
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What you don’t need? SPF nail polish.
While the sun can certainly burn the skin under your nails if the rays are strong enough, regular nail polish should act as a good enough barrier. Just make sure you pay attention to your hands and nails when applying sunscreen: If you’re already wearing nail polish, some chemical sunscreens can ruin your manicure, cosmetic chemist Joseph Cincotta told Allure.

4. Tanning Beds

Tanning beds are a scam (even though they technically do give you a tan) simply because they are dangerous to use.
Tanning beds give off UVA and UVB radiation, which can cause adverse effects, including increased cancer risks. According to the American Academy of Dermatology (AAD), “Researchers estimate that indoor tanning may cause upwards of 400,000 cases of skin cancer in the U.S. each year.”

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What’s more, according to the AAD: One single session in a tanning bed can increase your risk of developing squamous cell carcinoma by 67 percent, basal cell carcinoma by 29 percent, and melanoma by 20 percent.
Despite these risks, the AAD estimates that 7.8 million adult women in the United States tan indoors.
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The safest way to get a sun-kissed glow is to get a spray tan, or use fake tanning lotion. And if you are low on vitamin D, the AAD recommends eating foods like fatty fish, cheese, and fortified cereals, drinking orange juice, or looking into vitamin D supplements.
Some experts suggest that you should get the majority of your vitamin D from dietary sources, meaning you’ll need to chow down on the right things. Since wild-caught salmon can have as much as four times the amount of vitamin D as farmed salmon, you’ll want to stock up on something like Wild Planet’s boneless and skinless wild pink salmon, which is affordable and requires no preparation.
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As for the tan part, you’ll have to turn to fake bake. One sunless tanner that has received glowing (haha) reviews is, well, Fake Bake, specifically the Flawless Self-Tan Liquid in medium.
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If you hate putting artificial stuff on your skin, your only other option is to chase the natural blush that you can achieve by getting your heart rate up or eating more produce rich in beta-carotene.

5. Split End Repair Serum

Split ends—when individual strands of hair separate at the ends into two or more pieces—are caused by hair damage from heat tools, over-brushing, or chemical dyes.
You can prevent split ends by getting enough protein in your diet, avoiding heat tools and excessive hair handling whenever possible, and brushing your hair gently, among other healthy hair habits. But once you have them, forget about fixing them with expensive serums or oils.

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Sadly, products that claim to repair split ends really don’t work. They can temporarily glue the split ends back together until your next shampoo, or add moisture to conceal and prevent further split ends, but they can’t actually repair your hair.
“Once your ends are split, the only solution is to go to the salon to get them trimmed,” WebMD explained.
After you’ve scheduled your next haircut, the rest of the preventative care is up to you. To make sure you’re getting sufficient protein, aim to consume about 30 grams at each meal. Adding a daily protein shake can be a good way to meet your goals. This Integrated Supplements Whey Protein in chocolate blended up with a frozen banana (the frozen part is important), a cup of milk (two percent is good and whole is a darn treat), vanilla extract, and a dash of salt tastes like a milkshake and will get you a little over 29 grams of protein (for a total of only 345 to 375 calories, depending on the milk you use).
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If you’re looking for more hair-strengthening options that come from within, you might consider a supplement that’s specifically suited to address your roots. While your nutrition should primarily come from diet, and the long-term use of supplements is highly suspect, several people (after 5,892 reviews, it’s received a 4.4-out-of-5 rating) have seen good results from these HairAnew vitamins from naturenetics. (Of course, check with your doctor before taking anything to make sure there won’t be any unexpected interactions.)
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6. Stretch Mark Creams

Stretch marks are incredibly common. They are caused by tearing in a layer of the skin called the dermis and are especially likely to occur during puberty or pregnancy, when the body is growing.
“Stretch marks are caused by the skin rapidly pulling to accommodate weight gain, growth, or stretching from other causes,” says Jennifer Caudle, DO, a board-certified family physician. “Genetics can play a role, and certain medications can as well. Stretch marks may fade somewhat over time, but they are generally considered to be permanent.”
[pullquote align=”center”]”Many over-the-counter creams claim to remove stretch marks, but they usually provide moisture without a proven benefit of stretch mark removal. For treatment options that may help reduce the appearance of stretch marks, it’s best to talk with your doctor.”
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Though stretch marks can vary in appearance, some people don’t like the way they look and seek to get rid of them. Unfortunately, topical creams that claim to treat stretch marks usually don’t do much to help.
Some clinical trials suggest that certain creams help decrease the appearance of stretch marks, but more than likely won’t eliminate them. The Mayo Clinic explains, “Products made of cocoa butter, vitamin E and glycolic acid, for example, aren’t harmful, but they probably won’t help much either.”

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Caudle agrees: “Many over-the-counter creams claim to remove stretch marks, but they usually provide moisture without a proven benefit of stretch mark removal. For treatment options that may help reduce the appearance of stretch marks, it’s best to talk with your doctor.”
According to the American Academy of Dermatology (AAD), using products with centella (an herb) or hyaluronic acid (which our skin naturally contains) may prevent stretch marks from forming. This COS Naturals Stretch Marks And Scars Cream made with vitamins C, E, and B, and hyaluronic acid looks like a good option.
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Mederma Stretch Marks Therapy, made with hyaluronic acid and Centella asiatica plant extract, is another.
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Your best bet is to treat stretch marks while they’re still red or purple—that is, when they’re fresh. As for those that have already been around for a while, you might work with a dermatologist to come up with the best treatment plan for lessening their appearance, which might include chemical peels, laser therapy, microdermabrasion, radiofrequency, or ultrasound. The AAD says that if you’re going to try and use a gel, cream, or lotion to fade stretch marks, for optimal effectiveness, you should try to use the product on marks as early as possible, take time to massage the product gently into your skin, and apply the product every day for weeks.

7. Sheet Masks

Sheet masks have become insanely popular over the past few years, to the point where it’s not unusual to see people using them on airplanes. But experts are divided on whether they actually work.

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The point of sheet masks is to hold the mask close to the wearer’s face and trap moisture, aiding in absorption. Effectiveness depends the active ingredients in a sheet mask.
However, even when those ingredients are beneficial, does the paper mask itself actually make any difference in how well they work when applied to your face?
Paula Begoun, the Cosmetics Cop, doesn’t think so.
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“Sheet masks don’t deliver ingredients to the skin any better than well-formulated skin-care products,” she said in a recent interview with The Cut. In fact, she considers them a waste of time. She explained that absorption depends on the molecular size of the ingredients, not on something holding those ingredients to the skin. So all those single-use sheets are fairly useless.
You can get the same (or better) results by investing in a good leave-on face cream. It will last longer and, as Begoun emphasized, allow you to make better use of your time.
Instead of dishing out dollars for the sheet masks, invest in an effective moisturizer. Sebamed Age Defense Q10 Protection Cream, formulated with panthenol and vitamin E, has a pH balance of 5.5, which the manufacturers say stabilizes the skin barrier function, traps moisture, and defends against disease-causing pathogens.
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8. Bee Pollen Weight-Loss Products

Bee pollen weight-loss products have been touted by some health experts as a quick way to shed pounds. These products are made from the pollen bees collect from flowers and feed to their larvae. Sellers make grand (unsubstantiated) claims about the supposed benefits of these products, which can include anything from quick weight loss to increased longevity.
Scientists are still researching the effectiveness of these products, but some bee pollen products have already proven themselves dangerous and deadly.

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“Some bee pollen products marketed for weight loss have been found to contain hidden and potentially dangerous ingredients that may be harmful for people who have conditions such as irregular heartbeat, high blood pressure, and bipolar disorders,” said Gary Coody, the FDA national health fraud coordinator, in a consumer update.
Over 50 people have reported adverse health effects, including renal failure and anaphylactic shock, after using bee pollen weight-loss products—and shockingly, one person has died.
“It is tempting to believe that a quick and effortless weight loss supplement is safe for use,” FDA regulatory manager Jason Humbert said. “But given the fact that these products contain a hidden dangerous ingredient, consumers should avoid taking them.”
We all already know the answer to weight loss, and it isn’t new or exciting: diet and exercise, done well and consistently. Move your body with regularity—sweat, lift heavy things. Eat fewer calories than you burn. Fill up on more low-calorie, nutrient-dense fruits and vegetables, and up your protein to increase satiety.
If you don’t already have a food scale, it can make your weight-loss journey a lot easier. Etekcity Digital Kitchen Scale Multifunction Food Scale is lightweight and made of stainless steel, so it’s easy to clean and maneuver, and it looks sleek in your kitchen.
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If you struggle to get enough fruits and vegetables in your diet, you might benefit from something like this Five-a-Day Fruit & Vegetable Cookbook, which offers over 200 recipes to help you get the expert-recommended number of servings of produce daily. The cookbook contains over 1,000 color photographs, plus advice about the availability, storage, and preparation of a variety of fruits and vegetables, so you have plenty of information to inspire your creativity. Bon appétit!
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Protect yourself.

There are tons of treatments and products out there that truly work and are worth spending your money on. Other products, like these, are total scams, with marketing campaigns designed to appeal to people’s insecurities.
So how can you tell if something is worth trying or not? First, see if you can find trustworthy reviews. Then, if the product or treatment makes grand claims, check the clinical trial registry, find out if the claims are linked to any peer-reviewed research, or see if a licensed medical doctor recommends the treatment. Generally, the more scientific experimentation and backing a product or treatment has, the more likely it is to be the real deal.
Ultimately, if you’re not sure that something is effective or safe, you should avoid using it. Better to be safe than sorry!

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Here’s The Deal With ‘Chivalrous’ Workplace Sexism

When Claire Goodwin was in college, she spent two years working for a company with over 500,000 employees, about 40 percent of whom were women. During her time there, Claire regularly experienced offers of help from her male co-workers—but it was help she had never asked for and didn’t need. Her colleagues would insist on lifting heavy packages for her, fixing computer issues she had already fixed, or re-explaining something to a customer that she had just explained to them—while she was still standing there.


“I believe the offers of help were intended to be innocuous or even well-intentioned, but the subtle ways in which they devalued female authority and competence were harmful to the work atmosphere and caused a lot of resentment across gender lines,” Claire says. “While it is true that some customers will cooperate faster or give greater respect to male authority, the solution is not to solidify that misconception by letting a man step in every time to make things move faster.”

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Claire, now the office manager at Joseph Farzam Law Firm, is one of many women who have faced workplace sexism at the hands of co-workers who think they are being polite, helpful, or chivalrous. But this behavior actually undermines women and makes it more difficult for them to succeed at work.
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“Chivalrous behavior that undermines women at work fits into the category of benevolent sexism,” says psychology professor Peter Glick. That’s different from hostile sexism, which is when someone believes women are inherently lesser than men or objectifies women and views them only as sexual objects.
As for what benevolent sexism actually means, Glick and psychology professor Susan Fiske explained it in a 1996 paper they wrote together: “We define benevolent sexism as a set of interrelated attitudes toward women that are sexist in terms of viewing women stereotypically and in restricted roles but that are subjectively positive in feeling tone (for the perceiver) and also tend to elicit behaviors typically categorized as prosocial (e.g., helping) or intimacy-seeking (e.g., self-disclosure).”
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Examples of benevolent sexism in the workplace include: asking women to take on planning or note-taking tasks because they are assumed to be better at these tasks than men, focusing on a woman’s appearance and personality rather than the results of her work, apologizing to only the women in the room after using a profane word, male colleagues insisting on taking over difficult tasks, and so on.
“Benevolent sexism is not necessarily experienced as benevolent by the recipient,” Glick and Fiske explained in their paper. “For example, a man’s comment to a female coworker on how ‘cute’ she looks, however well-intentioned, may undermine her feelings of being taken seriously as a professional.”
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This type of benevolently sexist behavior can be difficult to deal with. In many cases, the perpetrators truly believe they are acting appropriately and don’t understand why women might find their behavior demeaning or disruptive. People don’t want to confront their co-workers or cause bad feelings, particularly in close-knit workplaces.
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A number of women told HealthyWay they didn’t feel like they could discuss this sort of treatment with their bosses or HR departments because it wasn’t obviously offensive. But these actions, which get in the way of women doing their jobs and prevent them from bonding with their co-workers, are just another thing making workplaces unwelcoming to women.

Constant, everyday sexism can be incredibly frustrating.

“I’ve had my share of encounters with male bosses and colleagues who have walked right into the world of sexism, most often without any bad intentions,” says Lisa Barone, the chief marketing officer at creative agency Overit. She remembers men interrupting her, using sexist language, stepping in to “help explain what she meant” to clients, and generally treating her like she was less experienced, eloquent, or capable than her male colleagues.

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“I had a colleague not long ago who spoke to me like I was an idiot,” she recalls. “It didn’t matter that I was equal to him on the company hierarchy or that I had owned my own agency previously; he was constantly explaining to me how business worked, how to present myself in meetings, how to dress so men would take me seriously, and generally how to exist in an office environment. He thought he was helping and showing me the ropes, very much oblivious that I didn’t need the assistance.”
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Another major issue was men cutting her off in meetings. “Most men don’t realize they are doing it, but it happens a lot more to my female co-workers and to myself than to the other men in the room,” she says. “Men interrupt only to make the same point or to finish the thought I was trying to make. They, of course, then get the praise for the comment shared.”
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Barone also says a number of men have exhibited white knight syndrome—treating her like a damsel in distress who needs to be rescued from an imaginary danger. “For example, a male colleague who expressed—loud—concern to another gentlemen that I am married, and therefore he should watch how he speaks to me,” she says. “In doing so, he implied the only reason the man was speaking to me was because he wanted to sleep with me; he also took away my own ability to set up my own boundaries or to stand up for myself if I felt I needed it. Before you act like a white horse, make sure one is wanted.”

Gender discrimination in the workplace is illegal, but it can be hard to crack down on sexism disguised as chivalry.

Nonetheless, these so-called harmless interactions can affect women’s career satisfaction, workplace happiness, and even their professional progress.

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Research has suggested that women who came to expect benevolent sexism in their workplace “became unsure of themselves, got distracted, and consequently performed poorly.”
Women surrounded by male colleagues who seem to underestimate them, treat them as though they are delicate, and assume they cannot tackle difficult tasks may find themselves resentful. Women in this position must also dedicate time to finding ways to tackle this treatment, rather than focusing on their work.
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“In the face of such circumstances now, I have learned to stand my ground,” says Claire. “I politely, but firmly, dismiss the ‘help,’ and proceed to show co-workers and customers alike that they don’t need a man—they have me.”
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If a woman is being patronized in the workplace, this can also affect how her colleagues and customers view her. Research shows that people who witness a woman repeatedly being treated “chivalrously” by a man—for example, he insists on pulling out chairs for her—will view that woman as less independent.

A number of organizations are working to change companies for the better by making them less sexist.

Eileen Scully was fed up with experiencing sexism in the workplace. So she founded a consulting firm, The Rising Tides, which focuses on ways to improve companies for women. She says reshaping corporate culture can make a tremendous difference.

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“A big part of my consulting practice looks at what defines each individual corporate culture,” she says. “What are [the] systemic problems, what [behaviors] are invisible to the executive layer, and what practices and policies are driving behaviors? For example, at its most basic level, what positions of power and influence do women at your organization hold? How often are women present during strategic planning and decision sessions?”
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Once she has gathered that information, her firm looks at the structures and practices that make a workplace sexist or hostile to women. They then figure out what changes the company can commit to, as well as a reasonable time frame for implementing these changes.
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“I also encourage companies and individuals who want to invest in their women to look carefully at the companies they hire or who sponsor the workshops to which they’re sending employees,” she says. “Right now, many of them are still run by all men. And I find it a little disingenuous that they’re profiting from hosting women’s leadership sessions, but they’re not doing anything inside. We can do much better than that.”
Scully says organizations need to truly want to make lasting change—not just tick a box and say an issue is resolved.

Oftentimes, people are really just trying to be kind to their co-workers, and many people who are benevolently sexist genuinely don’t realize their behavior is a problem.

But if something makes you uncomfortable or affects your job, you should feel free to say something. It’s important that you don’t feel discriminated against at work—and chances are, your co-workers want you to feel valued, too. Simply flag the behavior you found problematic and explain what the issue is. While it’s annoying that you sometimes need to be the agent of change, rather than people independently recognizing their own bad behavior, advocating for yourself in the workplace can be invaluable.

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Busting Botox Myths And Misconceptions

I had never been nervous about going to the dermatologist until the morning of my first Botox appointment. I was 26 years old and about to pay a lot of money for someone to inject tiny doses of a toxin into my armpits to prevent me from sweating. I’d spent weeks doing research—how did Botox work? Did it hurt? How long would it last? What were the potential side effects? Most of all, would I regret this?
Botox, or Botulinum toxin, comes from a bacteria called Clostridium botulinum. In large doses, the toxin is lethal, but small doses have been FDA approved for a variety of cosmetic and medical purposes.

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Until I started thinking about underarm Botox, I didn’t know much about Botox—at all. There are so many myths and misconceptions surrounding Botox, so let’s set the record straight.

MYTH: Botox can get rid of all facial lines and wrinkles.

REALITY: Only certain facial lines and wrinkles can be treated with Botox.

Wrinkles and lines on your face are completely natural, and a variety of things can cause them—including normal muscle movements, sun damage, the aging process, smoking, and some medications. Botox works by blocking nerve signals to the muscles it’s injected into, which stops those muscles from moving and causes wrinkles to relax. So, Botox only really works on lines and wrinkles caused by muscle movement in the first place, like forehead lines, crow’s feet, and frown lines.

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“Botox treats dynamic wrinkles, which develop from movement,” says Joseph Cruise, MD, a board-certified plastic surgeon. “Botox improves the appearance of these wrinkles by relaxing the muscles. Static wrinkles are the result of sun exposure and aging. These wrinkles do not respond well to Botox treatment.”
There are some other cosmetic uses for Botox, too. “Botox can also be used to elevate downturned corners of the mouth, to reduce a cobblestone or dimpling on the chin, to sculpt the jawline, prevent the tip of the nose from moving downward when smiling, and to prevent vertical neck bands from showing,” says Cruise.
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And if you do have static wrinkles that you’re self-conscious about, Cruise says you can get fillers to help lessen their appearance. And no, Botox and fillers are not the same thing—more on that later.

MYTH: Botox is only useful for cosmetic treatments and is just for women.

REALITY: Botox is a great cosmetic tool, but it has a number of medical uses for people of all genders.

Botox is an awesome cosmetic tool if you choose to go that route, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with making informed aesthetic changes to your own body. It also has some medical benefits that aren’t related to appearance.

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Dacy Gaston, a registered nurse trained in injectables, says Botox can be used to help clients suffering from hyperhidrosis (excessive perspiration), bladder spasms, and eye spasms. Botox is also approved by the FDA to treat migraines (link opens PDF).
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And according to the Botox Cosmetic website, approximately 1 in 10 people who use Botox for cosmetic reasons are men. There’s nothing inherently feminine about wanting to feel confident about yourself, and something like Botox can address insecurities for people of all genders.

MYTH: Botox and fillers are the same thing.

REALITY: The two have very different purposes.

Botox and fillers are both things you inject into your face, but they serve different purposes.
“Botox relaxes wrinkles, and fillers replace volume; two different products for two different problems,” says Susan O’Malley, MD, owner and medical director of Madison Med Spa in Madison, Connecticut. “Botox works very nicely from the eyes up, and fillers work wonders from the eyes down.”

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Katerina Gallus, MD, a board-certified plastic surgeon, explains it like this: “Fillers do what they suggest: ‘fill’ or restore volume to an area of the face that is lacking volume, like a wrinkle or region such as the cheeks.”
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This isn’t the same thing as Botox, which, as mentioned earlier, blocks nerve signals to certain muscles.

MYTH: Botox will “freeze” your face and stop you from emoting.

REALITY: It totally depends on how much Botox you have injected and where.

While using too much Botox can occasionally make it difficult for people to emote, it’s not a given that Botox injections will “freeze” your face or prevent you from making natural facial movements.
“Botox, performed properly, should not get rid of your important facial expressions,” explains Jacob Steiger, MD, a board-certified facial plastic surgeon.


If you are interested in Botox but worried about a frozen look, make sure you go to a qualified provider and discuss your concerns with them beforehand. They should be able to calculate the appropriate dosage amount for your desired result.
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“If injected by a qualified provider who listens to your goals and discusses expectations, you can create a softening and natural result with Botox,” says Gallus. “This is dependent on the dose and the technique of the injector and is an important reason to seek out credentialed providers and not the ‘discount’ deal.”
Because Botox is so patient-dependent, it’s hard to predict how much you’ll need until you have spoken with your doctor about it.

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“Patients cannot base how much Botox they need because it’s the amount of units their friend gets,” says Edward Alvarez, a cosmetic dentist. “A 5-foot, 105-pound woman may look ‘perfect’ after 20 units of Botox, but those same 20 units will barely do anything to the 6’4” former pro linebacker that wants to look younger. Botox dosage has to be individually tailored to each patient, and the dose has to be left to the expert injector they have chosen. Getting the proper dose based on your individual needs is key to having a beautiful and successful result.”
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Basically, you can’t tell how much is too much by comparing yourself to other people.

MYTH: Botox can give you botulism, aka food poisoning.

REALITY: Botox is not botulism.

You may have heard of botulism—a rare but severe illness caused by a toxin that attacks the nerves in your body. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, botulism is usually spread by food (specifically, “improperly home-canned, preserved, or fermented foods”), and the symptoms include double vision, droopy eyelids, slurred speech, trouble breathing, and muscle paralysis.

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“Botox is made from the bacterium Clostridium botulinum, the bacteria that causes botulism,” Cruise says. “When certain foods are not stored properly, this bacteria can grow. When a person ingests the bacteria, it multiplies and spreads through the bloodstream. This process releases a protein named Botulinum toxin, which is the active ingredient in Botox. The toxin attaches to the nerves on large muscles such as those responsible for breathing or those in the arms and legs. This can make it difficult to breathe, walk, or perform other movements. For this to happen, the live bacteria must multiply and continue releasing large amounts of the toxin. When Botox is used for cosmetic purposes, more toxin is not produced. Also, such a low dose of Botox is used compared to the amount needed to cause these side effects, and the amount of Botox used in cosmetic treatments is not enough to enter the bloodstream and spread to other muscles.”
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So while cosmetic Botox and botulism are derived from the same bacteria, the two are very different: Botox used for cosmetic and medical purposes is approved by medical professionals and generally extremely safe.
“The Botulinum toxin used for cosmetic and medical purposes is not the same concentration as that found in bubbled-up cans of food,” explains Tsippora Shainhouse, MD, a board-certified dermatologist. “It remains local in the muscle into which it was injected and has never been reported to cause systemic paralysis and respiratory failure.”
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To lessen your risk of getting botulism from food, the CDC recommends following safe home canning practices if you preserve food at home.

In conclusion, Botox is nothing to be scared of.

I was incredibly nervous going into my first appointment for underarm injections, but the whole thing was a breeze. My dermatologist put a numbing cream on each armpit and left it for a while to work, then came in 20 minutes later and gave me around 15 super quick injections on each side. It took less than two minutes, barely hurt at all, and there was no bruising or pain after the fact. And a few weeks after that first appointment, I danced the night away in my wedding dress without worrying about sweat patches appearing on my gown.

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If you’re into the idea of Botox, whether for cosmetic or medical reasons, just make sure you have done adequate research. Plus, you should get the treatment from a licensed medical professional who can talk you through your options and choose the right dosage for you.
Some people may assign a value judgment to Botox, but the fact remains that it’s a safe, FDA-approved tool that can make a big difference for certain individuals. I know it did for me.

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7 Myths About Makeup That Need To Be Wiped Away

Wearing makeup is a completely personal choice. If you choose to do so, the number of products and styles available can be intimidating.
The good news is that there’s tons of great information and resources out there like YouTube videos, step-by-step articles, makeup forums, and Instagram tutorials.

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The not-so-great news? There are tons of myths and misconceptions out there. What really happens if you sleep in a full face of makeup every night? Is it true that you can ignore expiration dates on your products, especially if you don’t use them that often? And how often do you really need to clean your makeup brushes? Here are seven common myths and misconceptions debunked.

Myth 1: If you’re going to wear makeup, you have to put on a full face of it.

“I’d say the number one misconception people have about makeup is that you need a full face of it,” explains makeup artist Suzy Gerstein. “Let’s say we’re talking about foundation. The most important thing to get right when choosing a foundation is the color match.”

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“Once you match your skin tone exactly, you can apply the product sparingly and only where more coverage is needed. In fact, by letting the areas that don’t need coverage remain bare, you get a more modern, realistic look to your makeup application.”
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Basically, you should wear whatever amount of makeup you are comfortable with. If you only want a couple of dots of concealer on some red spots, great. Excited to get a whole face of makeup on, complete with false lashes? Excellent. But don’t feel like you have to cover your whole face every single time, because you don’t.

Myth 2: Makeup is a “girly thing.”

In reality, people of all genders wear makeup, and there is nothing inherently feminine about it. Men in Hollywood often wear makeup on the red carpet, which Benedict Cumberbatch called “a wonderful thing.” And obviously, actors and actresses wear makeup while filming television shows and movies.
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Brands are also becoming more inclusive to all people who might be interested in makeup. Makeup artist and beauty blogger Manny Gutierrez became the first male Maybelline ambassador in 2017, after Covergirl named makeup artist and model James Charles an ambassador in 2016. More recently, makeup artist Jessica Blackler made headlines after she launched a vegan, cruelty-free, unisex makeup brand called JECCA, with products designed to address the concerns of transgender individuals—for example, covering up facial hair stubble.
“JECCA overlooks gender and celebrates individuality,” Blackler told The Cut. “We’re not a brand that concentrates on just women.”

Myth 3: It’s NBD to fall asleep with your makeup on.

If, on rare occasion, you end up sleeping in makeup after a long night, chances are that nothing bad will happen. Just don’t make it a regular occurrence—at the very least, it could irritate your skin and stain your bedding.

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It could also be worse. A case study published recently by the American Academy of Ophthalmology showed one potentially disastrous outcome. When Theresa Lynch, a 50-year-old housekeeper, complained of irritated, swollen eyes, her doctors discovered that small, calcified deposits of mascara were embedded in her eyelids. The cause? She had worn heavy eye makeup almost every day for 25 years but didn’t remove it properly each night.
“I had fallen into a bad habit of wearing a lot of makeup and not washing it off,” Lynch said in an interview with The Daily Mail. “I should never have let it get this far.”
Lynch was extremely uncomfortable, and the deposits were scratching her eyes, potentially causing a risk to her vision. Her doctors were concerned about potential infections, so Lynch had surgery to remove the deposits and now has permanent scarring inside her eyelids.
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This is certainly an extreme case, but it shows that nasty things can happen if you consistently neglect to remove your makeup before bed. Keep makeup remover and cotton balls—or whatever your preferred makeup removal method is—in an easy-to-access place, like near your toothbrush or on your bedside table. Make taking off your products part of your bedtime routine.

Myth 4: There’s only one “right way” to apply makeup.

“Even the same person needs a different approach to her makeup depending on the season, situation, or day,” Gerstein says. “I like to tell clients to step back and look at the whole picture. …And then ask yourself: What do I need today that will make the most impact? Perhaps it’s a quick shot of blush, maybe it’s the curl of your lash, or maybe you want to skip lashes all together and give yourself a little extra help in the brow department. It could also be a statement lip, or perhaps it’s simply a good facial massage with a gorgeous vitamin C serum or facial oil.”

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According to Gerstein, the best part about putting on makeup is playing and experimenting with new things.
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“It’s key to throw out the ‘shoulds’ and the paint-by-numbers charts, and instead look at what is in this moment,” she recommends.

Myth 5: Natural makeup brushes are better.

In reality, so-called “natural” makeup brushes are made with animal hair. Some animal hairs could potentially cause an allergic reaction, and they may be made using cruel practices (though you can buy cruelty-free natural brushes from certain brands). Plus, animal hairs are more porous than synthetic fibers, meaning they absorb more of your product and could host harmful bacteria.
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“A brush made of animal hairs is really bad,” says Jacqueline Schaffer, MD. “We want to use a makeup brush that is cruelty-free and synthetic. These are more gently packed with fine bristles, providing an even tone.”
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Schaffer explains that the hairs in a natural brush can also be uneven, causing an uneven application of makeup.

Myth 6: You don’t need to clean your personal makeup brushes that often if you only use them on yourself.

Cleaning your makeup brushes can be a drag—you don’t want to damage the delicate bristles, and they can take a while to dry, which can be annoying if you want to use the brush later on that same day. According to Schaffer, we should all be cleaning our makeup brushes after every single use. But realistically, she says deep cleaning them once or twice a week is okay, too. Regular brush cleanings will make your brushes last longer. Plus, sticking to clean brushes is good for your skin in the long run.


“You will end up saving money on your skincare products because you won’t have all that bacteria building up on your skin,” she says. “You won’t need to cover up that much because you won’t be the cause of your skin reacting.”
Invest in some brush cleaning wipes, baby shampoo, or special brush shampoo and commit to a regular cleaning schedule. It’s particularly important to clean beauty blenders or similar items after every use because they absorb a lot of product.

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In a similar vein, if you ever get your makeup done professionally, make sure the brushes are clean first. Professional makeup artists know exactly how important this is, so anyone who tries to use dirty brushes may be inexperienced.

Myth 7: You can ignore makeup expiration dates.

Yes, I hate to break it to you, but makeup expires—and it’s very important to pay attention to that. Firstly, the consistency of the products will change over time which can make them less effective. But more importantly, old makeup can harbor bacteria which could irritate your skin and eyes.

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“Look at when you bought your mascara,” Schaffer advises. “Past the four-month marker, it can build up bacteria and cause serious damage. The mascara is more likely to be clumpy, so it will weigh down your lashes, and they will fall off faster. It can also make you look older.”
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Generally speaking, Schaffer says, “If you use makeup that is too old, you’re going to ruin your skin.” So go through your makeup collection and toss anything that’s expired, pronto.

Ultimately, makeup means different things to different people.

For some, it’s an art form. Others use it to feel more confident or incorporate it into their daily routines. Some wear it as part of their professional uniform, and others love nothing more than playing with fun looks for a night out. And of course, some people opt not to wear makeup at all.

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Many so-called makeup “rules” are stylistic, and you should feel free to ignore them—who cares if a green eyeshadow doesn’t “fit” with your skin tone?—but other guidelines are expert-backed, and they are definitely worth following.
So always be sure to clean your brushes, follow expiration dates, and wipe off your makeup before you go to bed. Everything else is up to you.

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8 Beauty Treatments That Are A Total Scam

We constantly see new beauty products and treatments that promise amazing results, from picture-perfect skin to waist-length, shiny hair. But the unfortunate truth is that a number of products out there don’t have much, if any, scientific backing. They can be ineffective at best and downright harmful at worst.
You should always do your research before spending your hard-earned money. Here’s what the experts say to be wary of.

1. At-Home Derma Rollers

Maybe you’ve heard of micro-needling—running a roller of tiny sterile needles over your skin to boost collagen production and help absorb skincare products. According to Jacqueline Schaffer, MD, micro-needling can be really effective—but you should always have this done at a doctor’s office, never at home.
The needles of a derma roller range from 0.25 millimeters to 3.0 millimeters in length (though anything over 1.5 millimeters is not recommended for at-home use under any circumstances), meaning they can go quite deeply into your skin and potentially cause damage if used incorrectly.

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“It’s something that can actually worsen your skin,” Schaffer says. “It can cause more injury and disturb your skin’s texture. Your [desired] outcome is to have a more even skin texture, which is what the fine needles should do, because it should stimulate collagen and repair. But because it’s manual and not done by a machine, [at-home derma rollers are] actually causing damage and unevenness in you.”
Ultimately, Schaffer says, your skin can end up looking irregular—and there are safety concerns, too.
Without proper sterilization, your derma roller could put you at risk for serious infections or flare-ups of existing skin conditions. The U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) is looking to regulate these devices to keep users safe.
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“With anything that is going to puncture your skin, you can really hurt yourself,” Schaffer adds. “It’s going to be a complete shock to your skin, and [at home] there’s no supervision.”

2. Eye Cream in a Jar

The skin around your eyes is generally thinner and more delicate than the skin on the rest of your face, as Rachel Nazarian, MD, a board-certified dermatologist, told HuffPost. As such, you may well want a specific cream to help hydrate that area—but make sure it comes in the right type of container.
“You need to be very, very careful with certain eye cream,” Schaffer says. “If it comes in a jar, after the cream is exposed to oxygen it’s going to oxidize. So that expensive eye cream is going to be goop.”

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“Oxygen, sunlight, and microbes, which cosmetic products are often exposed to during storage and use, can change their characteristics, [resulting] in strange odors, discoloration, or contamination,” researchers said in a review (link opens as a PDF) published in the Journal of Pharmaceutical and Scientific Innovation. “This reduces the shelf life of the product and degrades its quality and effectiveness once opened.”  
So, despite the luxurious look, eye cream from a jar may actually be less effective and full of germs after only one use. But don’t give up on all eye creams just yet.
Schaffer suggests this alternative: “You want to make sure it comes in an airless tube.”
The researchers agreed. “… The danger of contamination and degradation is almost non-existent for airless packaging,” they said.

3. SPF Nail Polish

Obviously, proper sun care is very important. As dermatologist Fayne Frey, MD, recently explained to HealthyWay, you are exposed to the sun’s rays every day, even while walking to your mailbox or driving during the daytime.
Because of this, you should definitely make sure a chemical sunscreen (which will absorb the potentially harmful UV rays) or a physical sunscreen (which will block the UV rays entirely by reflecting them off your skin) is part of your everyday regimen.

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Other safe sun tips include staying away from tanning beds, wearing baseball caps and long-sleeved shirts or UV-protective outfits, and wearing sunglasses to protect your eyes from UV rays.
What you don’t need? SPF nail polish.
While the sun can certainly burn the skin under your nails if the rays are strong enough, regular nail polish should act as a good enough barrier. Just make sure you pay attention to your hands and nails when applying sunscreen: If you’re already wearing nail polish, some chemical sunscreens can ruin your manicure, cosmetic chemist Joseph Cincotta told Allure.

4. Tanning Beds

Tanning beds are a scam (even though they technically do give you a tan) simply because they are dangerous to use.
Tanning beds give off UVA and UVB radiation, which can cause adverse effects, including increased cancer risks. According to the American Academy of Dermatology (AAD), “Researchers estimate that indoor tanning may cause upwards of 400,000 cases of skin cancer in the U.S. each year.”

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What’s more, according to the AAD: One single session in a tanning bed can increase your risk of developing squamous cell carcinoma by 67 percent, basal cell carcinoma by 29 percent, and melanoma by 20 percent.
Despite these risks, the AAD estimates that 7.8 million adult women in the United States tan indoors.
The safest way to get a sun-kissed glow is to get a spray tan, or use fake tanning lotion. And if you are low on vitamin D, the AAD recommends eating foods like fatty fish, cheese, and fortified cereals, drinking orange juice, or looking into vitamin D supplements.

5. Split End Repair Serum

Split ends—when individual strands of hair separate at the ends into two or more pieces—are caused by hair damage from heat tools, over-brushing, or chemical dyes.
You can prevent split ends by getting enough protein in your diet, avoiding heat tools and excessive hair handling whenever possible, and brushing your hair gently, among other healthy hair habits. But once you have them, forget about fixing them with expensive serums or oils.

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Sadly, products that claim to repair split ends really don’t work. They can temporarily glue the split ends back together until your next shampoo, or add moisture to conceal and prevent further split ends, but they can’t actually repair your hair.
“Once your ends are split, the only solution is to go to the salon to get them trimmed,” WebMD explained.

6. Stretch Mark Creams

Stretch marks are incredibly common. They are caused by tearing in a layer of the skin called the dermis and are especially likely to occur during puberty or pregnancy, when the body is growing.
“Stretch marks are caused by the skin rapidly pulling to accommodate weight gain, growth, or stretching from other causes,” says Jennifer Caudle, DO, a board-certified family physician. “Genetics can play a role, and certain medications can as well. Stretch marks may fade somewhat over time, but they are generally considered to be permanent.”

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Though stretch marks can vary in appearance, some people don’t like the way they look and seek to get rid of them. Unfortunately, topical creams that claim to treat stretch marks usually don’t do much to help.
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Some clinical trials suggest that certain creams help decrease the appearance of stretch marks, but more than likely won’t eliminate them. The Mayo Clinic explains, “Products made of cocoa butter, vitamin E and glycolic acid, for example, aren’t harmful, but they probably won’t help much either.”
Caudle agrees: “Many over-the-counter creams claim to remove stretch marks, but they usually provide moisture without a proven benefit of stretch mark removal. For treatment options that may help reduce the appearance of stretch marks, it’s best to talk with your doctor.”

7. Sheet Masks

Sheet masks have become insanely popular over the past few years, to the point where it’s not unusual to see people using them on airplanes. But experts are divided on whether they actually work.
The point of sheet masks is to hold the mask close to the wearer’s face and trap moisture, aiding in absorption. Effectiveness depends the active ingredients in a sheet mask.
However, even when those ingredients are beneficial, does the paper mask itself actually make any difference in how well they work when applied to your face?

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Paula Begoun, the Cosmetics Cop, doesn’t think so.
“Sheet masks don’t deliver ingredients to the skin any better than well-formulated skin-care products,” she said in a recent interview with The Cut. In fact, she considers them a waste of time. She explained that absorption depends on the molecular size of the ingredients, not on something holding those ingredients to the skin. So all those single-use sheets are fairly useless.
You can get the same (or better) results by investing in a good leave-on face cream. It will last longer and, as Begoun emphasized, allow you to make better use of your time.

8. Bee Pollen Weight-Loss Products

Bee pollen weight-loss products have been touted by some health experts as a quick way to shed pounds. These products are made from the pollen bees collect from flowers and feed to their larvae. Sellers make grand (unsubstantiated) claims about the supposed benefits of these products, which can include anything from quick weight loss to increased longevity.
Scientists are still researching the effectiveness of these products, but some bee pollen products have already proven themselves dangerous and deadly.

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“Some bee pollen products marketed for weight loss have been found to contain hidden and potentially dangerous ingredients that may be harmful for people who have conditions such as irregular heartbeat, high blood pressure, and bipolar disorders,” said Gary Coody, the FDA national health fraud coordinator, in a consumer update.
Over 50 people have reported adverse health effects, including renal failure and anaphylactic shock, after using bee pollen weight-loss products—and shockingly, one person has died.
“It is tempting to believe that a quick and effortless weight loss supplement is safe for use,” FDA regulatory manager Jason Humbert said. “But given the fact that these products contain a hidden dangerous ingredient, consumers should avoid taking them.”

Protect yourself.

There are tons of treatments and products out there that truly work and are worth spending your money on. Other products, like these, are total scams, with marketing campaigns designed to appeal to people’s insecurities.
So how can you tell if something is worth trying or not? First, see if you can find trustworthy reviews. Then, if the product or treatment makes grand claims, check the clinical trial registry, find out if the claims are linked to any peer-reviewed research, or see if a licensed medical doctor recommends the treatment. Generally, the more scientific experimentation and backing a product or treatment has, the more likely it is to be the real deal.

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Ultimately, if you’re not sure that something is effective or safe, you should avoid using it. Better to be safe than sorry!

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How To Know If You’re In A Toxic Friendship—And What To Do About It

In high school, Michelle (whose name was changed for privacy) was incredibly close to her group of friends. They rented a summer beach house together, went as a group to prom, and counted on each other for emotional support during times of stress.
The friends drifted apart during college, and when Michelle moved away to take a job after graduation, things got worse between them. Michelle’s mom was sick with multiple sclerosis, but her friends didn’t ask how she was doing or offer support. They refused to be flexible with their plans and didn’t keep in touch. Michelle learned they had been talking about her behind her back. And then things came to an ugly head.

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“During a visit home, at a bar, one of my so-called friends confronted me, criticizing me for something trivial like failing to wish her happy graduation,” Michelle recalls. “More hurtfully, she criticized my choice to live and work far away from my ill mother. …Such criticism in a public place really stung.”
Michelle realized that someone she had long considered a close friend was, in fact, a toxic presence in her life. She made the difficult choice to cut that person out of her life for the sake of her own mental well-being.
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It can be hard to recognize when your friend is exhibiting toxic behaviors, and it can be harder to figure out whether those toxic behaviors are just bad habits or signs that this person may not truly be your friend. You may have a long history of friendship with a person, which can make it difficult to objectively evaluate the relationship. And they likely aren’t terrible all the time—otherwise, you wouldn’t be friends!
But the truth is that successful friendships shouldn’t negatively affect your well-being. Sometimes a friendship doesn’t last, and that can be hard to accept. If you often feel upset or stressed after spending time with a friend, it may be worth evaluating their behavior.
[pullquote align=”center”]“It is very important to define the lines that others may not cross.”
—Fran Walfish, PsyD[/pullquote]
Here are seven toxic friendship behaviors that could be causing issues:

1. They embarrass or belittle you constantly.

“Many of my clients in toxic friendships will describe feeling small and unimportant when they are with their friend,” says Maureen Maher-Bridge, a licensed social worker at The Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center’s Harding Hospital.

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“They will tell me that they frequently feel criticized and demeaned and end up doubting themselves,” she adds. “They feel less confident and often blame themselves for feeling this way. A healthy friendship can offer honest, constructive criticism. A toxic friendship is critical without empathy or an understanding of how their criticism might make the other feel.”
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Vartika, who is based in India and works in social media, remembers a friend who did this to her.
“One day we got into a fight over something silly, and I was about to let go,” she says. “But then, she decided to insult me by blaming my mental illness. She said this disease had gotten into my head, making me hallucinate things and go berserk.”

2. They are controlling or possessive of you.

Alaina Leary, an editor from Boston, had a high school friend, Ellie (whose name has been changed), who she describes as “extremely possessive.”
“When I started college,” Leary says, “she became very jealous of a new girl I befriended, Christine (whose name has also been changed). Christine quickly became my best friend and the person I trusted most because she’s a genuinely empathetic and caring person. [She] was really jealous of that and would often bring up how much she hated Christine—for no reason, having never met her—in front of all our old high school friends at sleepovers and parties when we were all back in town from college.”

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While a certain level of jealousy is inevitable in friendships, one friend trying to prevent the other from forming other relationships enters the realm of possessiveness and fosters a dangerous codependency.

3. They make your private business public.

That could mean they share your secrets with other people or gossip about you behind your back. It could also mean they confront you in public about private concerns—like Michelle’s so-called friend did.
Michelle said that having her private life discussed in a public place, in front of other people, was particularly hurtful.
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In an article for Psychology Today, counselor Suzanne Degges-White, PhD, wrote that some friends simply don’t understand the potential consequences of letting your secrets spill: “… if you find out that a friend is broadcasting your secrets, take control of where the friendship goes: Edit what you share. Edit the time you spend together. And edit your expectations.”

4. They compete with you over everything.

Maybe for every story you tell, they have a similar story or experience to share. Maybe they simply can’t stand losing to you at board games, beach games, trivia, or other fun activities. Maybe they compete with you professionally, hit on your romantic interests, or run out and buy a new dress every time you do. If you feel like you can’t do anything without your friend turning it into a competition, it’s likely worth discussing with them.

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Generally, people who are competitive about their houses, kids, dinner parties, and so on are either insecure or arrogant and want to prove superiority,” wrote Melanie Greenberg, PhD, in an article for Psychology Today.
“Ellie was very toxic about anything she was jealous about, like her friends’ success in college and their chosen careers,” Leary recalls.
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If you feel a little like Leary, Greenberg suggested a few ways to react: “Try to figure out why this person is being competitive and what their needs and goals are. Also, see if there are any common goals that you can use to get them to work with you, rather than against you.”

5. They pressure you into doing things you’d rather not do.

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Maybe they talk you into ordering another round of drinks when you’d rather switch to water, spending more money on an activity or meal than your budget allows for, or insisting you stay somewhere when you’re ready to leave. They may also pressure you into making potentially dangerous decisions.
[pullquote align=”center”]“If you’re constantly worried that you might do or say something to set them off, [then the] relationship’s probably not healthy.”
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Emily Mendez, a mental health writer and former private practice psychotherapist, says you should ask yourself: Does your friend make you feel guilty for saying no?
“Maybe they accuse you of not caring just because you say no,” she says. “If you’re constantly worried that you might do or say something to set them off, [then the] relationship’s probably not healthy.”

6. They aren’t respectful of your boundaries.

Maybe she asks questions about things you’ve said you don’t want to discuss (like a fraught family relationship) or continues to do things you have asked her to stop doing (like eating in your car). Once you have clearly communicated your boundaries to someone, there’s no reason for them to repeatedly stomp all over them.

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“You can set boundaries and regain control by using gentle language that drives your point home,” said psychologist Fran Walfish, PsyD, in an interview with MadameNoire. “It is very important to define the lines that others may not cross. It is a quiet strength when someone can do this in a benign, clear, and matter-of-fact tone.”

7. The above issues are persistent problems.

“I will ask my clients to consider… whether these problematic behaviors in the friendship are ‘new,’ or if this is a pattern of unhealthy behavior,” says Maher-Bridge. “If the behavior is new, perhaps there is a reason why the friend is behaving in this way. Maybe they are going through a difficult time and are having trouble coping; ask yourself, are there other redeeming qualities about the friendship that I respect and value? Is the friendship one that allows you to talk about your concerns openly and honestly in order to address these issues?“

So is there any way to repair a toxic friendship?

Again, there’s a difference between a friend who is occasionally annoying and a friend who is a toxic presence in your life. In many cases, it’s totally possible to talk to your friend about their behavior and repair the relationship moving forward.
[pullquote align=”center”]”We need to trust our intuitions and not disregard red flags. Weigh: How do I feel after spending time with this person?”
—Jessica Zucker, PhD[/pullquote]
“It depends how severe the situation is, how uncomfortable you feel, and what you think the other person is capable of,” says clinical psychologist Jessica Zucker, PhD. “Ideally, you could attempt to have healthy, clear conversation in a non-threatening, non-defensive, and loving way. Is there any way to talk this through simply? Trying to have a straightforward conversation and seeing if there is room for growth, change, or understanding might be a good first step.”
If you are nervous about talking face-to-face, Zucker suggests writing a letter. “This gives you a chance to have an uninterrupted forum to express yourself and your point of view, with the opportunity to say what you want without getting into a sticky argument.”

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An ideal way to approach this is by stating the facts. In an email to HealthyWay, psychologist Holly Richmond, PhD, outlines a potential script: “I feel [emotion] (fill in the blank with sad, mad, frustrated, etc.) when you do/say [bad behavior]. I’m curious if you realize this, and maybe you can help me understand. We’re friends, and I know we don’t want to intentionally hurt each other’s feelings. I want to understand where you’re coming from. Can we talk?”
Zucker says that the next step depends on how your friend reacts. If they are defensive, mean, or angry, that’s not a great sign. Another red flag is when someone can’t or won’t recognize the hurt their behavior has caused you.
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If you do decide to move away from the friendship, Zucker recommends taking small steps. Maybe you interact with that person less through texting or calling, or maybe you stop following them on social media if their posts stress you out. After some time apart, you can evaluate how you feel without that person in your life. If you are sure you don’t want to maintain this friendship any longer, you can tell the person why—but you aren’t obligated to.

It’s easy to feel guilty about confronting someone for their behavior or even cutting them out of your life, but sometimes it’s the right choice to make for your own well-being.

It’s important that you have supportive, loving friends in your life—there’s plenty of research showing how friendships can improve your mental and physical health. No one is perfect, and we will all make mistakes. But the people you surround yourself with should be positive forces in your life.
“We need to trust our intuitions and not disregard red flags,” Zucker says. “Weigh: How do I feel after spending time with this person?”

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America Is Far From The Happiest Place On Earth, And Here's Why

Every year since 2012, the United Nations has released a World Happiness Index report. The recently released 2018 report ranks 156 countries by their happiness levels—and in those rankings, the U.S. came in at 18.

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Here’s how the report works: Researchers gather data from at least 3,000 people in each participating country. Participants are asked to imagine that they are on an imaginary life ladder that has 10 rungs. The top rung (10) represents maximum happiness; the bottom rung (0) is where things are as bad as they possibly could be. Participants are asked to rate what rung they are on in six different categories: Income (GDP per capita), healthy life expectancy, social support, freedom, trust (absence of corruption), and generosity.
On the 2018 report, Americans’ average rung number was 6.886. In comparison, the top five countries scored over 7.4, and the bottom five countries scored under 3.3. The no. 1 happiest country was Finland, followed by Norway, Denmark, Iceland, and Switzerland.
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In many of the categories studied, the U.S. is doing great. However, there are two major areas where the U.S. could improve: extending healthy life expectancy and building stronger social support.

Do Americans have a healthy life expectancy?

One potential reason people in America aren’t as happy as people in other countries is that Americans may be struggling with their health. Jeffrey Sachs, a co-editor of the World Happiness Report and a professor of Health Policy and Management at Columbia University, suggested in a press release that the ranking was “in part because of the ongoing epidemics of obesity, substance abuse, and untreated depression.”

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Life expectancy for Americans is actually declining. The average American will live around 80 years, compared to 82.6 in Switzerland, 83.1 in Iceland, and 82.1 in Sweden. (The country with the highest life expectancy in the world is Monaco, with 89.4 years). So what’s behind that decline, anyway?

Widespread obesity is affecting Americans’ health.

According to the Centers for Disease Control, over a third of Americans are categorized as obese—36.5 percent, to be precise. Research from the Organization for Economic Co-operation and Development suggests that America has the highest obesity rates in the world. WHO data suggests that only 23 percent of adults in Finland are obese, 21.5 percent in Norway, and 18.2 percent in Denmark.

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As the National Institutes of Health website explains, obesity is linked to a number of health problems including high blood pressure, heart disease and stroke, type 2 diabetes, sleep apnea, fatty [linkbuilder id=”6542″ text=”liver disease”], kidney disease, some types of cancer, and problems in pregnancy including an increased risk for a c-section delivery.
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Childhood obesity is also widespread, and obese children are likely to become obese adults. The University of California San Diego Health website explains that “obese children and adolescents have a greater risk of social and psychological problems, such as discrimination and poor self-esteem, which can continue into adulthood.”

And the opioid epidemic is affecting individuals and families across the country.

Sadly, many Americans struggle with addiction and substance abuse. In recent years, addiction to opioids has surged—the National Institute on Drug Abuse estimates that over 115 people in the United States pass away every day due to opioid overdoses. In 2016 alone, 11.5 million people misused prescription opioids, and the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) declared the epidemic a national crisis in 2017.

Mental health issues are also quite common.

The National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) estimates that one in five Americans will experience mental illness in any given year. One in 25 adults will experience a serious mental illness that “substantially interferes with or limits one or more major life activities.”

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Mental health conditions are particularly high among people living homeless and incarcerated individuals. What’s more? Serious mental illness costs the U.S. $193.2 billion in lost earnings every single year.

And many Americans struggle to access—and pay for—adequate healthcare.

Many people are unable to pay out-of-pocket to see a doctor, and at least 28.2 million people in the U.S. do not have health insurance. A substantial number of families struggle to pay medical bills, the National Health Interview Survey reports. And a study from 2009 found that among Americans declaring bankruptcy, medical debt played a huge role in their financial issues.

Ultimately, health problems can and do affect happiness.

“There are many underlying medical conditions that can affect happiness, and I have seen this with my own patients,” says family physician Jennifer Caudle, DO. “For example, chronic disease such as diabetes, arthritis, and COPD can affect someone’s outlook on life, and thus happiness.”

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“Another example is that sudden changes in our lives—such as the [loss] of a family member, loss of a job, or stress in a relationship can affect happiness as well. I also believe that how we interact with others (online vs. in person, for example) can affect our happiness. Finally, it’s important to consider mental health diagnoses, such as depression and anxiety, as these may play a role as well.”

Another area where America could improve? Social support.

Back in 2015, the American Psychological Association (APA) surveyed people around the U.S. about their feelings on social support—meaning whether they believe they are cared for and have people they could turn to for assistance.

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“Many Americans don’t feel they have access to this valuable resource,” the APA website states. “When asked if there is someone they can ask for emotional support, such as talking over problems or helping make difficult decisions, 70 percent said yes. However, more than half (55 percent) also said they could have used at least a little more emotional support.”
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Many Americans have a strong, supportive community through their neighborhood, school, profession, religious institution, or hobbies, and feel that they are adequately supported and cared for. Others are not so fortunate. What’s more, the U.S. does not have the widespread structural support for families that other, higher-ranked countries in the World Happiness Index offer.

Compared to the countries in the top 5, America’s family leave policies leave a lot to be desired.

Parents who are welcoming a new addition to the family often have to work around limited or non-existent parental leave policies at their jobs. While many two-parent families would ideally like to have both parents at home during the transition period when a newborn or adopted child comes into their lives, that’s not always possible. That means that responsibilities might fall more on one parent, and parents may be required to go back to work far sooner than they would like to after a child’s arrival.

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“Parental leave is horrible for moms and even worse for dads,” says Jenni Skyler, a licensed therapist from The Intimacy Institute.
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Under the Family and Medical Leave Act, some companies are required to offer new parents up to 12 weeks of unpaid leave to care for a new child. But there is no legal requirement for companies to provide paid leave. In fact, according to the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development, America is the only developed country in the world where employers aren’t required to offer paid leave to new moms.
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This can put additional financial and emotional stress on families at times when they need extra support. For some people, it’s simply not feasible to take much unpaid time off work.
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Skyler also says that limited vacation time can put stress on families (there’s no legal minimum paid vacation in the U.S., meaning employers decide how much paid and unpaid time off to grant their employees). “When you are able to spend quality time, certainly with your spouse and your family, that’s an investment in your relationship towards happiness,” Skyler notes.

Happiness is difficult to quantify, but it sounds like there are a few things we could learn from the countries ranked higher than the U.S. in the World Happiness Index.

This ranking is only one way of measuring quality of life, and many things are left out of it. And, of course, the results are an average—there are people in the U.S. who are much happier, and much unhappier, than that final ranking. That said, given how strong the American economy is, the fact that it ranks 18th in the listing does come as a surprise.

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The number one happiest country, Finland, offers free education, generous parental leave and vacation policies, and publicly-funded universal healthcare. From Finland and other higher-ranked countries, perhaps there are some things America could learn.
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How can we improve the health of America’s population and increase life expectancy? How can we ensure that families and individuals receive the support they need to adequately care for themselves and their loved ones? The solutions likely involve the government, social institutions, and the population working together to create a healthier, happier country.