As we close in on the end of the year, many people begin to give up, slow down, or cruise on through knowing that at the beginning of the New Year they get a “fresh start.” However, I want to challenge you to think differently. I want to challenge you to finish strong—to attack the last few weeks of this year with the same power and hustle that you started the year with. Now is not the time to throw in the towel. Now is the time to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get after it.
1. Revisit your original resolutions or goals. Chances are pretty high that earlier in the year you made either a list of resolutions or goals that you wanted to accomplish this year. Take those out and look at them. How many have you stuck to or accomplished? Are there any that you abandoned that you could recommit to right away?
2. Write out a few end of the year goals. In addition to revisiting your goals from earlier in the year, could you write some fresh new goals that you would like to accomplish before the new year begins? Make these goals realistic and attainable with the time left in the year. This will help you keep motivated to move forward and not let anything slow you down.
3. You don’t need a date to start. Jan. 1 is just another day like any other. Yes, it’s an awesome time to remind us that we can set new goals and achieve new things, but there is no reason that day is any more special or purposeful in setting and achieving goals. You literally can set goals any day of the year. That same mindset is the one that is going to keep you focused to end the year strong.
4. How you end the year is how you start the year. The stronger you finish this year, the stronger you will start the new one. Want to put your best foot forward next year? Then really end this year as positive as possible! The more momentum you have now, the further it will take you later.
5. Get involved in a group. Nervous you won’t be able to finish the year strong with the holidays staring you down? Find others to keep you accountable. Join my DietBet challenge with friends and stay committed to ending the year fitter and stronger—both mentally and physically—than you started. It’s never too late.
Author: Shaun T
6 Surprising Health Benefits Of Dancing
I love to dance. I live for dancing. There’s no better feeling than what I call “living in the 8’s.”
But dancing isn’t just fun. It also provides health benefits, which is something lots of people don’t even realize. So while I love to dance, I also know that it’s good for my body—and my soul.
Here are the benefits.
It’s not just physical fitness
Dance is also mental fitness. Especially as we get older, it’s important to “exercise” our brain. And when you’re dancing, whether it’s just for fun or in a group-exercise setting, having to remember the steps and put them to the beat of the music challenges your brain as well as your body. It improves your memory, your coordination, and your focus.
It brings people together
Taking a dance fitness class, or even dancing at home with friends using a workout program like CIZE, creates a feeling of connection. It’s hard to feel lonely when you’re dancing with friends! That’s why dance has always been a social function at gatherings like weddings and school activities. Dance is the ultimate way to break down language barriers and enjoy life together.
It’s a great workout
Dance is a great cardio workout and really good for the heart! You’ll burn a ton of calories, sweat, and of course have fun. A secret bonus of dancing is that it also strengthens your core. I got my hip-hop abs all from dancing!
It increases your flexibility
Depending on the type of dance you are doing, you may notice your flexibility and mobility start to improve. As that happens, so does your range of motion, which in turn gets you greater results .
It’s a stress reliever
I know this is true for me. If I’m having a bad day or feeling overwhelmed, the first thing I do is turn on some music and just get lost in the moves. I always come out on the other side with an improved sense of calm and happiness. By that same token, dance can also help with depression.
It can help you lose weight
Can you lose weight with dance? YES! I always say my body looks its best when I’m dancing. If your goal is weight loss or improved overall body tone, dance training is a great way to help you achieve your physical body goals.
The bottom line is that dance is fun! And when you’re having fun, you forget everything else. While not everyone may want to do pushups and burpees or go for a run, everyone likes dancing, even if they aren’t “good” at it. If you want to make your life better, be in the best shape of your life, and feel greater happiness, there’s a simple answer: dance more!
Working out consistently is tough enough at home. Add traveling to the mix, and suddenly panic mode ensues. But don’t stress. Take it from me—keeping up with your routine while traveling is very doable, as long as you’re prepared to make some minor tweaks.
I know because I travel. A lot. In fact, I probably travel more than I’m home, so I know the struggle is real! But if you trust and believe in who you are, then I have no doubt you can stay healthy and fit while on the road.
Here’s how to do it.
Check Out The Hotel Gym In Advance
Check the hotel’s website, or just give them a call. Find out first if they have a gym. Then, what are the operating hours? How big is it? What equipment do they have? This will help you better plan your workouts while there. You can also book your hotel based on its fitness center. If the gym’s not adequate for your needs, don’t forget that at-home fitness programs are also great for you while traveling. Exercise in your room, or find an outdoor space like the pool or a park. Then get after it by using your digital device to get in your workout.
Walk It Out
Walk, walk, walk! Is your room on the 3rd floor? Take the stairs! Headed out to a restaurant to get a bite to eat? Skip the Uber and walk! I find it helps tremendously if I walk more and sit less while traveling. Consider using an activity tracker to count your steps, and do your best to get in 10,000 of them!
Hit The Grocery Store
Can you book a room with a mini-fridge? Do it! Then hit up a local grocery store for supplies so you can limit how often you’ll need to eat out. And while you’re there, stock up on water! I find that when I travel I don’t drink enough water, so it really helps to have a case of water in my room for easy grab-and-go. Drinking water is essential, especially when we travel. It helps keep down the bloat and weed out the toxins we might incur on the road.
Modify The Menu
You’re going to have to eat out while you travel, but you don’t have to fall victim to the menu! Don’t be scared to modify the menu as you see fit in order to feel good and maintain your goals. After all, you’re paying for this food, so you have the power to change items to meet your needs! Halve your portions, ask for no butter or cheese, or pass on the bread. And make smart choices with drinks: choose soda water with lime instead of a cocktail, for example. The possibilities are endless—if you’re strong enough internally to make changes.
Don’t Beat Yourself Up
You aren’t going to be perfect when you travel (or even when you’re at home!). Treating yourself is what makes life fun, and it’s okay! Do the best you can do. The mental anguish isn’t necessary. If you’re eating 85% healthy and maintaining a consistent exercise regimen, your 15% fun foods won’t destroy your fitness journey.
Traveling is a fun part of life. Whether it’s for work or pleasure, it doesn’t have to derail you on your journey to a healthier, happier you.
You may have heard me say it before: Form over speed equals results.
This isn’t just a slogan on a shirt or something I say in my videos. This is a true statement that I wish more people would understand. When you have great form, you’re able to achieve a better range of motion. With better range of motion, you will definitely get better results.
So let’s talk about a few simple movements: planks, push-ups, plyometrics, lunges, and squats. Making some small tweaks to how you’re doing them can help get you to good form. And good form with these leads to good form in most movements. Just keep a close eye on your form while you’re working out—either face a mirror or put your phone in selfie mode. You don’t have to even hit record on the phone; watch yourself on the screen and see what your body looks like through different movement patterns.
I promise you that these simple tweaks will create a huge impact in your workout routines—and your results!
Plank
Do It Right: Plank is the foundation of many movements, especially those that activate the core, so maintaining proper positioning is critical to your results. Place your hands directly underneath your shoulders. Your butt should be down and your back flat. Press all the weight into your heels. Your neck and head should be in alignment, so be sure to look slightly out, not directly down at the ground. Be cautious of letting your hips sink to the mat or pike up in the air. To modify plank, simply drop the knees to the ground and keep the rest of your body in alignment. Whether you’re on knees or toes doesn’t really matter—do whatever is right for you and your body. Just make sure to follow these guidelines so you’re getting the most out of this movement.
Push-Up
Do It Right: Push-ups are a functional exercise and a great way to work the upper body without equipment. A lot of the principles of plank also apply to the push-up—with a few minor tweaks. There are of course multiple kinds of push-ups, but for the standard one, your arms should be slightly wider than the shoulders so that the work is in the chest. All of the other plank principles apply as far your body alignment is concerned. Same goes for modified plank. Don’t stress out over range of motion at first. Over time you’ll be able to go deeper into your push-up as you perfect the movement. In the beginning it’s better to perform the move in a modified position and focus on form, rather than try to do it on your toes with bad form. Form breeds results, but it also protects us from injury.
Plyometrics
Do It Right: People are often afraid of injuring their knees with plyometrics, but when done with excellent form, they’re completely safe. First, you have to go down to go up! In other words, your movement for any plyo work should start with a squat or soft bend in the knees. Second, land softly. Just think toe, ball, heel. These are the parts of the foot that you want to land through in order to not put undue strain on your joints. Third, finish where you started…in a squat. If you need to modify any plyometric movements, simply remove the jump but keep the “explosive power” by squatting and rising up onto the balls of the feet.
Lunge
Do It Right: Lunges are a great functional movement and are especially effective at working the lower part of your body. It’s important to keep your body in the proper position by ensuring that your ears, shoulder, and hips are in alignment. Toes should be tracking forward, and you should have a wide enough stance to be able to drop your knees down toward the ground in two 90-degree angles. Don’t let your knees push past your toes. The motion should be up and down, not forward and back.
Squat
Do It Right: There are many variations of squats, but for standard squats, your feet should be about hip distance apart. You want all the weight in your heels, so much so that you can slightly lift your toes off of the ground. Push your butt back but keep your back flat, shoulders pulled back, and chest lifted. To modify a squat, simply decrease your range of motion or turn your toes out ever so slightly to open up your hip flexors and ensure that your knees don’t track inward.
Social media is not just a fun way to stay in touch with your family and friends. It’s also a valuable tool and resource for staying accountable to your health and fitness goals. Let’s put our love for social media to good use with these tips and tools on how social media can actually help you stay on track with your fitness goals and keep you headed down the right path on your journey.
1. Announce it to the world.
When you share your goals with the world of social media, you are far less likely to stop or give up on what you are doing. Knowing that you’ve shared a goal online holds you accountable for actually following through with that goal and seeing the finish line. Be vulnerable and share your goals with your social media pals. Let them know you are scared or nervous—or even excited—and that you need their support to get through this. Why not invite them to join in with you?! Life is more fun with friends.
2. Participate in hashtag campaigns.
Instagram especially is a great place to participate in fun hashtag campaigns like #motivationmonday, #transformationtuesday, #workoutwednesday #throwbackthursday, #flexfriday, and #staturday. This can allow you to share motivation or look at other people’s motivation to help keep you going. This is also is a nice way to track your progress beyond the scale as you begin to see yourself transform in the pictures you are sharing.
3. Create Pinterest boards.
Pinterest is like the modern day magazine, so use Pinterest as a way to search for healthy recipes, meal prep ideas, workout inspiration, and much more. You can also create your own boards to share what you are finding, what you are loving, and what is working for you. It’s a great way to collect and keep things organized.
4. Find a group.
Groups on Facebook are a great way to find other like-minded individuals and motivate each other. You can search based on specific interests, such as running or dance, or even search by the area where you live. Or you can start your own group as a way to gather some friends and stay motivated. Do daily check-ins, share favorite recipes, or even complain about how your workout was that day!
5. If you don’t post about it, did it really happen?
Don’t be afraid to use social media as a way to document and track your daily workouts, nutrition, and progress. Ate an amazing salad for lunch? Post it! Took a really hard yoga class? Post it! Not only will it help you see your habits and create consistency, but chances are it will motivate someone else to get more active and healthy and join you on your journey.
Social media is just that…SOCIAL! A way for you to share with your friends and let them help you be the best you possible. So use it to your advantage!
Why You Should Cleanse
Do you ever feel like you have let life start to get the best of you? You get busy, and when that happens your nutrition tends to be the first thing that starts to go. Eating out, drive-through restaurants, grab and go…we all become victim to this cycle. When that happens, I often feel out of control and I need to gain back the control in order to feel happiness.
So how do you gain control over your nutrition and start to get your life back in order? One way that I find really helpful and that I try to do at least once—if not twice—a year is a cleanse.
Now before I continue on, I want to remind you of a few things. First, you should not cleanse often. This is something to do when you need to reset your body. It is not a lifestyle, it’s more of a quick fix when you feel like it’s time to get things back in order.
Also, cleansing is not easy. It can be very challenging both physically and mentally, so you have to go in with a prepared mindset. In addition, when it’s time to end your cleanse and go back to your normal way of eating, don’t derail your results by making your first meal an unhealthy one.
Okay, now that we have gotten those reminders out of the way, let’s talk about the benefits of cleansing in greater detail so you can decide if this is something you want to try.
1. Cleansing is helpful in removing the toxins that we endure in our daily life. Even if you try to eat organic food as often as possible, you are still exposed to pesticides, chemicals, and preservatives; too much exposure to these over time can lead to health issues eventually.
2. Cleansing is also a great way to strengthen our immune systems, which we need to be strong to keep us healthy in a world that is filled with so many germs!
3. Probably a lot of people’s favorite reason to cleanse is to lose weight, and this is why I said earlier that cleansing should only be done a few times a year. This is not a weight loss solution. Instead, cleansing helps boost your metabolism by cleaning out the toxins from your fat cells.
4. When our bodies are filled with tons of toxins, we often get headaches, don’t sleep well, have digestion issues, and may even suffer from depression. Simply cleansing can increase your quality of life, and you may find yourself sleeping better, feeling happier, and digesting your food properly.
There are a lot of cleanses out there. Once you have decided to cleanse be sure to do your research and find the one that is best suited to you, your needs, and your lifestyle. And remember, once you complete your cleanse, do your best to keep a healthy lifestyle moving forward. You just put in the work to reset your body—don’t damage it by going back to old habits. Take this opportunity to bring new healthy ways to your life for good!
I will be honest. The first cleanse I tried, I was scared and nervous and it only lasted 24 hours. However, I learned more about myself and what nutrition parameters work within my body, and I was able to be more successful when I tried my second cleanse.
It is okay if it takes you a couple tries to get it right. Health and nutrition are all about taking the “good” parts of many things, seeing what works with your body, and incorporating them into your journey.
Good luck and happy cleansing!
Treat Not Cheat
One of the questions I am asked very frequently both on social media and at live events is how I handle cheat days. I have one very simple answer for that: I don’t cheat, I treat! Let’s start just by looking at the connotation of the two words.
Cheat has a very negative undertone to it, whereas treat has a positive undertone. Just the simple switch in verbiage changes the entire landscape of this question.
So, what are my tips for treating yourself? Read below to find out more:
- You have heard me say this before, but I follow a 85/15 rule. I eat 85 percent foods that are healthy and 15 percent foods that are fun. Don’t overanalyze this! Start by getting out a piece of paper and drawing a line straight down the middle. On the left hand side write down all the healthy foods that you like. On the right hand side write down some of the fun foods that you love. Make sure you are eating more from the left than you are the right, and don’t beat yourself up when you choose food from the fun category.
- Treating yourself doesn’t have to be a weekly occurrence or a giant occasion. I hear a lot of people reference their “cheat days” and I think to myself, “why do you need a whole day of bad eating?” Treating yourself doesn’t have to mean that every Saturday night you go buck wild and have a pizza and fried chicken extravaganza. It doesn’t have to be scheduled either. Just have a treat when it’s something that you really want and can do in moderation. For example, I love donuts…but I don’t eat an entire dozen by myself every Saturday. I have a donut occasionally when I simply can’t resist it—but I also know when to stop so as not to upset my stomach or cause unnecessary guilt in my brain!
- Work out!!! We have all seen the posts on social media that tell you exactly how many burpees it takes to counteract French fries, and in all honesty there is no better method I can think of to help with your treating than with an amazing sweat session. But I want you to go into the workout with the mindset that you are doing something positive for your body, not trying to make up for doing something not-so-positive for your body. Make sense?
- Drink more water! Water heals all things…and it absolutely helps when we are treating ourselves. Make sure to drink lots of water—perhaps more than usual to ensure you stay hydrated, especially if those treat foods you are eating are high in salt.
- Treat slowly…yes, you heard me, slow down! Instead of inhaling that treat meal, enjoy it slowly. This will allow you to feel full. When you eat too quickly, your brain and body haven’t caught up to each other. Thus you will often continue to eat when you are actually already full, but your brain just hasn’t gotten the message yet. If you treat slowly, then you will wind up eating less of that treat and will avoid overindulging.
- Treat and move on…basically, don’t allow yourself to get derailed. The whole idea of having that occasional treat is to keep you motivated to continue moving toward your goals. Don’t let that treat you have take you off course—next meal get right back to the nutrient-rich foods that fuel your body for optimal performance.
Don’t cheat. Treat. Treat on occasion and in moderation. Treat because you love your body enough to know what’s good for it. Treat your body with love and care and remember that food is your friend, not your foe.
Spring Into Fitness
Spring has officially sprung, which means better weather (usually) and preparation for summer. Spring is the perfect time to evaluate your fitness and life goals. Use this time to renew and rejuvenate by trying out some of the tips below.
1. Clean out your closet
You might be wondering what cleaning out your closet has to do with life goals and fitness goals; my answer would be everything! When we are decluttered and organized, we tend to operate more efficiently and feel better. Go through your closets and drawers and get rid of clothes that you don’t wear, are stained, are too big, or are just out of style. This will also allow you to make room for new clothing that you will be inspired to purchase after crushing your fitness and nutrition plan.
2. Clean out your pantry
Okay, this one is going to be tough. I totally get it! But after you clean out your closet, head into the kitchen and clean out that pantry. Remove all the food that you know is not good for you. While I do believe in eating 85 percent healthy and 15 percent fun, I also know that the less temptation there is in your house, the better you will stay on track with your nutrition. Don’t just get rid of your temptation foods, check expiration dates too. We often stick something in the pantry thinking we are going to eat it, and next thing we know it’s been in the back of the pantry for years. Clean out that pantry and I guarantee you will clean up your diet!
3. Clean out your refrigerator
Ideally your fridge is always stocked with fresh fruits and veggies, but the refrigerator is another place where sometimes we stockpile foods we don’t need, aren’t great for us, or are expired and we didn’t even realize it. Trust me: Take the time to clean up some of these areas of your life and watch your motivation for sticking to your goals rise! A secret tip going forward—to enhance your tastebuds, your health, your body, and your mind, try to restock your fridge with foods that expire within two weeks. These foods lack the preservatives that negatively affect our health. Fresh foods will make sure your spring has really sprung!
4. Refresh your playlist
I don’t know about you, but nothing motivates me as much as music does. Take the time to go through your playlist and delete songs that no longer motivate you or you have played so much that you’re sick of them. Then find new songs that really get you motivated. Make different playlists for different moods. If you need ideas for playlists, I have a few free ones available for download. Just head over to my website after you finish this article to access my free music mixes.
5. Take it outside
You might know me from the at-home workouts I have created. It’s completely okay to take those workouts outside! Whether it’s grabbing your laptop or iPad and doing those workouts in the sunshine or just going for an afternoon walk, one of the best things about spring is taking those workouts into the fresh air. Throw the frisbee, play tennis, jump rope, go for a run…the possibilities are endless.
6. Find a farmers market
I don’t know where you live, but often in the spring you can find farmers markets popping up all over the place. Not only do you get out in the sunshine, but you are buying the best possible food to put into your belly. It will be fresh, local, and grown with love! This piggybacks my secret tip in No. 3 above!
7. Drink more water
As the temperature rises it will be crucial for you to up your water intake, especially if you’re getting more active outdoors.
Water for your body is like oil for your car: It helps the engine run smoothly, but when there is no oil in the car, the engine locks up! The body does the same thing—no water in the body and the body shuts down! The current health industry recommendation is to drink a minimum of eight 8-oz. glasses of water a day. Another fun tip—add chopped fruit (lemons, limes, strawberries, etc.) to give the water some natural flavor!
Spring is an amazing time of year. Do a little bit of spring cleaning and get motivated to head into summer with the best YOU yet.
10 Steps To Getting Results!
Getting results can be challenging. Often when we don’t see results, we get frustrated and lose our momentum, setting us on a path of self-destruction. I have 10 simple steps that will ensure you’re not only getting results but that you’re also keeping your journey on a forward-moving pathway.
1. Do what you like, not what you are told
There is so much advice out there that it can be overwhelming: It’s hard to know what to listen to and what not to listen to. Just because one form of exercise or eating is popular right now or works for someone else doesn’t mean that you have to do it (or that it will even work for you, your body, and in your life). Find the things that you like and do more of those. For example, one of my friends does not like running. So even though I enjoy running, I don’t encourage her to run for her fitness, because she doesn’t like it. When you like what you are doing you are more likely to stick with it, rather than just doing something someone tells you to.
2. Stop making excuses
When you drop the excuses, you will find all the answers. You need to reframe how you look at things. You aren’t too busy. You can make the time if you really wanted to. Nutritious food isn’t too expensive. There are ways to eat a healthy diet on a budget. Instead of making excuses, start creating solutions.
3. Stop gossiping and get to work
We live in a voyeuristic world filled with reality television, celebrity gossip, media sensationalism, and tabloids. This often infiltrates our daily lives, causing us to gossip. Gossip takes us down a treacherous path and can lead us to lose sight of our goals and purpose. Stay away from gossip at work and instead get to work!
4. Get out of your own way
Sometimes we are our own barrier. In order to get results we have to get out of our own way. Don’t be the thing that holds you back. Be open-minded, be free, be ready for change.
5. Learn when to change it up
Being a creature of habit is not a bad thing, but you do have to be aware of when it’s time to change it up. Maybe you aren’t getting the results you want from your workouts; perhaps it’s time to take a new class or add heavier weights. Maybe you aren’t getting the results you want on the scale; maybe it’s time to clean up your nutrition and eat different foods. (See my grocery list.) They say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting to see different results. So know when it’s time to make a change!
6. Stay knowledgeable
Information is power. The more you know, the more you grow as a person. One of the best things you can do for yourself is arm yourself with information. Let’s say you have decided that you want to try intermittent fasting—the best thing you could do is learn more about it before jumping into it without the right knowledge behind you. Get books, subscribe to blogs, listen to podcasts, and arm yourself with as much information as possible to make the right decisions for you and your body.
7. Put your body first
So many of us put ourselves last when instead we need to put ourselves first. You have to be your first priority. On airplanes they always tell you that you have to put on your oxygen mask first before helping others. Why? Because if you can’t breathe, how can you help others? The same is true in life and in fitness. You have to take care of you first. When you are healthy and happy, you are better equipped to be there for your family and friends.
8. Stop complaining
Negative energy is toxic. Do yourself a favor and try to limit your complaining. When you feel the urge to complain, think instead about what you could say that would be positive. Take a no complaint challenge, and enlist your friends and family to take it with you.
9. Get away from negativity
It’s been said that you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. Evaluate that circle of influence. Are they negative? Are they positive? Try to surround yourself with as much positivity as possible to really radiate through your life.
10. Stop procrastinating
Make a plan for your day and stick to it. Have your workout clothes ready before you head to the gym or have your DVD already set up before you start your at-home workout. Make sure you eat before you work out to fuel your body correctly for the workout. Don’t give yourself the opportunity to pause or to tell yourself “no” before you take action. JUST DO IT!
5 Ways That Love Can Keep You Healthy
Valentine’s Day is all about celebrating love. We shower our Valentines with chocolate, flowers, and romantic dinners, but beyond the fun of Cupid’s favorite day, did you also know that love can be good for your health?
Here are five ways that love can actually keep you healthy and moving forward on your journey:
1. Loving Yourself
One of the most important things you can do is LOVE YOURSELF. When people are struggling to lose weight, the problem often lies inside of them. Do you call yourself names? Do you say things to yourself like “I am fat” or “I am no good”? This attitude can really damage you long term. You have to LOVE yourself before you can accept the love of anyone else. Loving yourself gives you a healthy relationship with your body and your mind. This Valentine’s Day, give yourself the gift of self-love. It will make a significant difference in the rest of your year and the rest of your life!
2. Family Love
Family relationships have their ups and downs and are incredibly dynamic. The more you realize that your family is there to love and support you no matter what, the better life will become. Thankfully due to technology, it is easier than ever to stay connected with our family. Need an extra pick-me-up? Set up a video chat session with your family. You can send texts throughout the day when small things remind you of them. The beautiful thing about families and the love they provide is that its unconditional.
3. Love For Food
We all love food! But it’s your relationship with food that is important. No matter where you are in your journey, you need to love food. It’s what fuels your body and your mind. Food truly should make you happy. When you aren’t eating enough or aren’t eating the right things, your emotions will swing. Food can also change a lot of situations–it can spice up a meeting, it can improve a celebration, and it creates time to talk around the dinner table. Don’t fear food. Instead, love it for what it does. Understand it and become more knowledgeable about it. A healthy relationship with food is one of the best things you can do for yourself.
4. Loving Fitness Is Key
Do you love fitness? Loving fitness doesn’t have to mean you love burpees and pushups…though it can! Loving fitness essentially means you love being active. You love movement, activity, and enjoying different sports, workout routines, and just life in general! So much in life is due to your mindset. If you can convince yourself that you love fitness, then getting more active will be a breeze. And of course, working out releases endorphins, and endorphins make people happy!
5. Let’s Talk About SEX, Baby!
No one ever wants to talk about it, but the reality is, if you are in a healthy relationship, you are probably enjoying a sexual relationship with your partner. The majority of adults are sexual in some way, shape, or form. Beyond even just the act of sex itself, when you feel sexy, you exude a confidence that will reverberate through the rest of your life. Whether you’re talking about a high-five, a hug, a kiss, or the full-blown shut-down session, human touch and contact is something that most of us yearn for in some form. Sex is such an intimate way to relate to your partner and get in touch with your body.
I hope you take a moment to think about how LOVE truly does make this world go around. The more ways you inject love into your life, the happier and, ultimately, the healthier you will be. Love yourself, love your family, love food, love fitness, and love sex. Then watch your life as your life becomes the healthiest it can be!