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How To Budget For Your Wellness Goals In The New Year

Balancing your wellness needs with your financial goals can be pretty difficult. We’re fully aware that $50 a week for yoga and $10 post-workout juices aren’t in everyone’s budget. But maintaining a fitness routine is an essential investment in your health and happiness, regardless of how much money you can spend on it.
Learn how to step up your fitness and self-care games without breaking the bank this year.

Stretching Your Wellness Dollars Further

Making your fitness goals happen may mean some strategic compromises when it comes to allocating your fitness budget. Prepping your own workout snacks can help with dollars and cents here and there, but the main cost of your wellness routine probably comes in the form of a gym membership, workout class passes, or wellness treatments.
Different services vary by location, which can make budgeting more or less difficult depending on where you live. For example, using ClassPass in Pittsburgh will cost you $60 for 10 classes (six bucks a class isn’t half bad!), but the same 10 classes cost $135 in New York City. You probably aren’t going to up and move for more reasonably priced wellness services, so searching out the best deals in your area may take a little bit of time.
Surprisingly, the best time of the year to join a full service gym isn’t in January according to Consumer Reports—so you might want to hold of on locking in. Instead, they found that the best deals (like no startup fee or freebies tossed in) for gym memberships are offered during the summer months. They also suggest checking with your health insurance company to see if all or part of a gym membership might be covered by your insurance.
If you’re going to wait it out rather than taking the gym membership plunge, we suggest exploring individual classes using Groupon. Prices at local businesses like yoga and pilates studios are going to vary as well, but, in our experience, dropping in and doing one yoga class will cost you between $10 and $15. If you love the yogi life but can’t commit to hefty monthly memberships, see if you can budget for a class or two each month.
You can also use Groupon to find low prices on everything from cryotherapy and massages (a wellness must, if you ask us) to spin class sessions. Groupon deals are usually only available to first time clients, but the benefit of all the class hopping is significant financial savings and guaranteed variety.

Ultra Low Cost Wellness Plan

If your fitness and wellness budget is closer to the range of zero dollars (we’ve been there!), you can still put together a strong wellness routine—it may just require a little more creativity and doing it yourself.
Instead of splurging on fitness classes, look for local running groups (or cycling, yoga, or walking—whatever floats your fitness boat) on social media. Being part of a community can encourage you to work out and you can get together with new friends to run around a local park (which is totally free, BTW).
We also strongly recommend incorporating at-home workouts. YouTube fitness channels have made working out at home easy and—dare we say it?—fun. Our favorite fitness channels are the following:

Besides doing bodyweight exercises, you may want to invest in a couple of low-cost home gym essentials. Check out resale websites like Craigslist to find deals on weights, which can be pretty expensive to buy new. We suggest starting off your home gym with a pair or two of free weights, a kettlebell, or resistance bands (which can be reasonably priced on Amazon, too). These will help you target specific muscles and add more intensity to your home workouts. If you need a little guidance on what to do with your new weights, check out YouTube channels like BeFit and Fitness Blender for routines.
If you’re ready to take your wellness routine beyond workouts, look for free opportunities both on and offline.
UCLA, The Chopra Center, and many other mental health and wellness authorities host free guided meditations that you can use to educate yourself about the benefits of mindfulness. A yoga studio or community center in your area might offer free or donation-based classes, so make a habit of checking schedules and making calls to find out what’s available.
You can also:

Having a diverse wellness routine doesn’t need to cost you an arm and a leg. If you spend your money wisely, you’ll feel empowered in achieving your wellness goals (and maybe even save up for a treatment or two throughout the year), we promise.
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11 Products That Will Help You Save Money In The New Year And Beyond

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Everyone goes into the new year with at least one resolution, whether it’s losing weight, stressing less, or being more positive. Another popular resolution that can feel pretty difficult to achieve? Managing to save some money as you commit to buying healthier (and often more expensive) food and maybe a monthly gym membership or passes to your favorite exercise class.
Fortunately, there are plenty of ways you can save money throughout the year, whether they’re immediate or build up over time. With these incredible products, you’ll be able to cut down on your utility bills, make cooking easier and more affordable, and even permanently replace some of your spendy everyday go-to’s.

In the Kitchen

1. The Spatty and Spatty Daddy Set

It can be difficult to get the last little bit of product out of certain containers, whether it’s a small can of tomato paste or a jar of foundation. Even when you spend the time trying to scrape everything out with a spoon or your smallest spatula, there’ll undoubtedly be some left behind—until now.

The Spatty and Spatty Daddy are a skinny spatula set designed to fit into any container so you can use every last bit of product inside. You’ll be able to throw empty jars and bottles away without any frustration, knowing you’ve truly gotten your money’s worth.

2. 6-Quart Programmable Crock-Pot

Let’s face it—the reason why many of us spend so much money eating out is because we’re too tired to cook at the end of the day. Either that, or we just don’t know how to make things we actually want to eat and don’t necessarily have the time or desire to learn how.

If that sounds like you, a Crock-Pot will become your new best friend. They’re not only designed to cook large quantities of food at once—hello, multiple meals!—but you can just dump ingredients in and forget about them as they cook, so there’s not a lot required on your part. This model in particular is programmable, meaning you can set it to start cooking even when you’re not around.

3. FoodSaver Vacuum Sealing System

Many people turn to stores like Costco and Sam’s to buy items they use often in large quantities, and you can definitely get some great deals by doing so. However, getting those amazing prices doesn’t really matter too much when that food goes bad before you can use it, or when it gets ruined by freezer burn.

The FoodSaver allows you to vacuum-seal your food to make sure it stays fresh and usable for as long as possible, whether it’s meat, cheese, or even more delicate baked goods. The heavy-duty bags will keep frozen food free of freezer burn, so you’ll never have to worry about your deep freezer ruining your food again.

The Whole Home

4. Power-Conserving Surge Protector

Surge protectors are a necessity for any home that uses computers, fancy televisions, and gaming consoles. However, most people just tend to treat them as power strips without truly realizing that their electronics are still using power even when they’re sleeping or appear to be off.

This surge protector will not only save your devices in the event of a power surge, but it also has six outlets that can be turned off with a remote, meaning they can truly be stopped from using any electricity when not in use. There are also two “always on” outlets for things like your internet router, so you can truly assume control of your electricity bill!

5. Nest Learning Thermostat

During the summer and winter months, most of us prepare to see our gas or electricity bills skyrocket. There’s only so long you can heat or cool your home with the windows open, and the furnace or air conditioner will typically stay on once a certain temperature hits.

The Nest Learning Thermostat will help you get better control over your heating and cooling systems because it learns about your habits over time and adjusts the temperature in your home accordingly. You can also program it to turn off when you’re not home, turn on when you’re about to arrive home, and much more. Though it’s a little more expensive than the average thermostat, it’s been proven to save homeowners an average of 15 percent on cooling bills and 10 to 12 percent on heating bills, so it can pay for itself in just two years’ time.

6. High-Efficiency Shower Head

There’s nothing like a long, hot shower in the winter months, but taking them can definitely have an impact on your energy and water bills. Some people might opt for a bath instead, but not everyone has a tub or the time to sit and soak.

To save water while still taking the relaxing shower you want, this high-efficiency shower head can help. The design uses less water, but still creates a spray of water similar to that of any regular shower head. It’s also compact, so it makes a great addition to bathrooms of any size.

Personal Care

7. The Makeup Eraser

If you wear makeup on a regular basis, you know that it can take some work to get it off. Whether you use liquid removers or special wipes, they’re an expense that you might assume will exist as long as you have makeup to remove.

With the Makeup Eraser, though, all you need to get stubborn makeup off your face is this cloth and some warm water—that’s it, even for waterproof makeup. The cloth is ultra-soft, so there’s no tugging or pulling on your skin, and it’ll last through 1,000 washes.

8. Gel Nail Kit

If you’re someone who likes to get your nails done, you know it can be an endless cycle. You get so addicted to the look of perfectly-manicured nails that they become something you can’t go without, sending you running to the salon for a fresh coat more often than you might like to admit.

To save yourself the money, try doing your nails at home with this gel nail kit. It comes with everything you need to get started, from the gel polish to cuticle trimmers and a curing lamp that can be used for both your hands and feet.

On the Go

9. Shopping Cart Organizer 

When it comes to stocking a more healthful kitchen, it’s easy to get overwhelmed. Being more mindful of what you’re eating takes a lot of planning, and it’s easy to throw caution to the wind in the store if you don’t take the time to plan out your grocery list ahead of time.

This organizer makes it easier than ever to keep track of not only a grocery list, but also coupons and recipes, too. It clips onto the grocery cart easily, so everything you need to see is right in front of you while shopping—even your phone.

10. Insulated Travel Coffee Mug

A quick Starbucks run is definitely tempting, especially on mornings when you’re craving something more than a plain cup of coffee, or when you just don’t feel like brewing a pot. However, we’re all too aware of how expensive those fancy drinks are, and they can definitely take a toll on anyone trying to stick to a budget.
 

Avoid the temptation and stick to taking your own coffee on the go with a good insulated travel mug. If you’re prone to waking up late, have a pot of coffee brewing with a machine that can be set to drip at a certain time and you won’t even have to think about making coffee in the morning. Then, just pour your brew and add some of your favorite creamer to the mug as you head out the door.

11. Insulated Lunch Box

When you’re used to going out for lunch, it can be difficult to break the cycle and actually try bringing it from home for once. Not only does it mean either cooking, prepping, and packing, but you’ll also need something to put it in—and let’s be honest, no one wants to carry their food into the office in an old Target bag.

Step up your lunch game with a new insulated lunch box, perfect for toting around your meal and snacks for the day. The design of this one is simple and somehow stylish, making it a lunch box that’ll actually inspire you to pack your lunch (and enjoy the savings!) on a regular basis.

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Dating In The Digital Age: What Dating Apps Can Teach Us About Finding Love

Finding that special someone can be hard (and frustrating and time consuming—we’ve been there!), but it’s all worth it when you find the right person for you. The last few years have seen a huge boom in the use of online dating and dating apps. No surprise there; everyone wants love. And if technology can make it that much easier to find The One, why not use a dating app?

The Rise of Digital Dating

Dating apps are so ubiquitous that they’re just a part of everyday life for many people. According to a 2015 study, 15 percent of adults in America have used dating apps or websites. Although 15 percent may not sound like a lot, this number has almost tripled among 18- to 24-year-olds since 2013.
Part of the reason for this growth? Online dating is no longer taboo. Amanda Bradford, founder of the dating app The League, told Insights by Stanford Business, “we’re cracking a whole new demographic of people that even two years ago wouldn’t even dare to consider online dating because there was still a stigma attached to it. It used to be if you’re online dating, people thought it meant you couldn’t meet people in person so you had to resort to doing it online. I feel like that isn’t true anymore.”
New to online dating or thinking about giving it a try? There is a fairly good chance that it could work for you. A 2016 Consumer Reports survey of 115,000 people found that among those who use dating apps, 44 percent had found a long-term relationship or marriage.
Hearing a success story or seeing a friend in love with a partner they met online is enough to convince just about anyone who’s been reluctant to finally give digital dating a try.

The Best Things About Using Dating Apps

One reason dating apps are so popular is that they’re just so simple to use. You get to skip right past that awkward stage of wondering if someone is actually interested in dating because you know that they are on the market.
As dating apps grow in popularity, each app develops its own niche for what kind of date you’re likely to set up and with whom. Some are inherent in the theme of the app (looking for Jewish singles in your area? There is a dating app for that), but others have gotten a rep by word of mouth or through the media.
Doing a little research allows you to pick and choose which apps you want to use to make sure the other people using the app are looking for the same thing. This can help save you from going on a date with someone who just wants to hook up when you’re looking for a long-term partner.
Of course, even if you’re matched with someone who has the same goals as you do, it may not work out. This isn’t a bad thing, though! You can make friends with people you’ve never met before, see parts of your city you wouldn’t have otherwise, and learn more about yourself and what you need from a relationship.
Dating apps can also provide a ton of options of people to meet. Instead of hoping to connect with the couple of singles in your friend group or maybe hit it off with a friend of a friend, a dating app will allow you to meet basically as many people as you want. And you can find them through the phone that’s right there in your pocket or purse.
But having all those choices isn’t always the best thing when it comes to making an actual decision about a possible partner.

The Downside of Dating Apps

Having so many options is both a plus and a minus when it comes to dating apps. There’s plenty of choice just picking which app you want to use, let alone the numbers of potential partners you can find there. Feeling overwhelmed by choice is the one of the worst bits about dating in the digital age: You could send hundreds of messages across different apps in a day if you really put your mind to it.
This is called the paradox of choice, which boils down to the feeling that nothing (or in this case nobody) is the right choice when you’re given a great many options—meaning it’s easier to choose one person to date when you only have a few options total versus, say, considering every eligible bachelor in New York.
Paul Hokemeyer, PhD, is a licensed marriage and family therapist who tells HealthyWay that dating apps are changing the way that we see romance. “Because these apps provide what seems like an endless stream of options, romance has become a commodity. Something we acquire on the open market, like a pair of sneakers.” He says that this allows us to get easily distracted because there are always more choices.

Digital Dating on Your Brain

The growth in the number of dating apps and the number of people using dating apps leads many to wonder what kind of emotional impact this has on all of us. Psychologist and relationship expert Paulette Sherman, PhD, says that we need to be careful using dating apps because it can “depersonalize” a new relationship until you’ve met several times.
Depersonalization means “the person may not allow themselves to get too excited initially and they may be more practical and jaded” than excited. Sherman says “Romance is fueled by the heart not the head, so this initial mental (or judgmental) context can decrease romance in favor of practicality at first.” But, have no fear, you can still build a romantic relationship from a slightly awkward first date. “Things can still get more romantic after they have met offline and are connecting in real time.”
Sherman suggests that if you’re using dating apps, you should try to meet someone in person sooner rather than later. “Too many singles text back and forth for months before meeting and that virtual relationship feels intimate and real. But oftentimes that person may not intend to put effort into meeting in real time and you respective real lives would not mesh. So make this transition early on.”
It’s also a good idea to start off small if you’re new to the world of digital dating. Hokemeyer suggests treating dating apps like you would a condiment: “use them sparingly and with discretion. The main nutrients of a robust romantic life should be physical encounters with other human beings who you can experience with the fullness of your senses.”  

The Best Dating Apps

There are more dating apps right now than any one person could possibly ever use. Although they have some fundamental similarities (like the most basic goal of finding you a date) they’re all different in their own way.
These are 18 of the most popular dating apps and a little bit about each.

Tinder

The app that brought the dating world the swipe left or right feature is most popular with young adults looking for romance. Tinder finds users who are in close proximity to your location that you swipe through. If you and a potential date both swipe right you can chat within the app.
Erin Shields, a 26-year-old startup account manager in New York, met her current boyfriend of eight months nearly seven years ago, but they had lost touch when she moved to a new city. They were able to reconnect by matching on Tinder when he moved to the same city, and they’ve been happily dating ever since.
Tinder is free to start but limits the number of right swipes in a day (you can opt to pay for extras).

Bumble

Bumble is similar to Tinder in that you are matched with people based on your location, and it features the swipe left and right function. Bumble differentiates itself by only allowing the woman (in a heterosexual match) to message first. Either person can message first in a same-sex match.
No matter who is messaging, the other person must reply within a day or the match disappears. “I use Bumble most often because I have fun coming up with interesting conversation starters. Though be warned: Dudes apparently don’t like it when you ask if Amy Dunne was justified in Gone Girling herself” says Tegan Reyes, a 25-year-old publicist from New York. Bumble is free to start and you can choose to pay for extras.

Grindr

For LGBTQ+ people, there is Grindr, which calls itself “the world’s largest social networking app for gay, bi, trans, and queer people.” It’s similar to the above apps, because it chooses matches by location. You can scroll through photos and send messages to people you’re interested in chatting with. Grindr is free, but you can pay for premium features.

Clover

Clover bills itself as a mix of just about every dating service you’ve heard of. It’s got a similar setup to Tinder, except you can see everyone who has liked you. Clover finds potential matches based on location but allows you to turn your location off. You can also filter by different physical types (e.g., height, hair color), and you can set up group chats as well as one-on-one messages. Clover is also free but you can pay to get extra features.

Raya

Raya is the dating app for celebrities only—or so we’ve heard. Raya is very hush-hush about who is accepted into their “private network” and why. If you get make it through their tough acceptance algorithm, Raya costs eight bucks a month. According to Nylon, you just may be able to chat it up with celebs like Cara Delevingne, Ruby Rose, Cody Simpson, Elijah Wood, and more. Let us know if you do!

Hinge

Hinge is a subscription-based service that calls itself “the relationship app” because their goal is for you to find a lasting relationship (as opposed to a casual fling). Instead of swiping or sending a like, you can comment on people’s profiles, which puts a little more thoughtul interaction into each match.
“Hinge is great because it allows you to engage with diverse aspects of someone’s personality, rather than just a picture and their height. Through the questions and prompts that you can answer on your profile, you are able to get a sense of whether or not you might click with that person” says Rachel Benzing, 25-year-old freelance performance artist from Chicago.

OkCupid

OkCupid uses a detailed questionnaire to help find matches with similar interests through their algorithm (as opposed to finding people based on location alone). When OkCupid matches you with prospective dates you can send a message. OkCupid is free to use but you can pay for extras such as advanced filters.

Match

Match claims it’s the #1 dating app. Think of this subscription-based service as a mix between Tinder and OkCupid. You can choose to see people who are near your location, and Match can use their algorithm to set you up with people they think you will like. From there you can send winks and messages.

Tastebuds

Tastebuds seeks to match you with possible dates through your taste in music. Everyone needs a good concert buddy! Tastebuds can be used to find both romantic and platonic relationships. If music is a big part of your life, this would be an awesome app to try. Add your favorite bands and get to know new people nearby by sending them a song in app. Tastebuds is totally free to use.

The League

The League is a dating app geared toward working professionals. Unlike other apps where you can swipe through a great number of different people per day, the League narrows it down to just a few prospects. If you choose to go for the free app you get three matches per day; if you pay to become a member you get five (and other bonuses).

JSwipe

JSwipe, which bills itself as the number one Jewish dating app, is pretty darn similar to Tinder (location based, swipe left and right, chat with people who match with your right swiping). It’s free to join but it’ll cost extra for perks, such as boosting your profile to be seen more often and connecting with people across the globe (as opposed to just those nearby).

Plenty of Fish

Plenty of Fish (POF) says they have “more conversations than any other dating site,” and it has you take a “chemistry test” to help find matches who have similar interests. You can send as many messages as you want for free. You can also choose to pay to upload more photos to your profile, among other perks.

Happn

Happn tries to match you with people you’ve literally crossed paths with. Want to meet that cutie you saw in the elevator? Happn is the app for that. You can see users whose path you’ve crossed and like the people you’re interested in meeting. If they like you too then you can send messages to each other.
All of that is free, but if you want to send a hello without waiting for someone to like you back it costs one in app token (you free tokens to start, then you pay to get more).

Fliqpic

If you’ve been catfished before, you may want to use Fliqpic. Their whole selling point is that you can instantly video chat with matches before meeting in real life.
Similar to Match and OkCupid, you take a personality test and are matched with people through your answers. Another selling point? It’s totally free.

Once

Once brings you one hand-picked match every day instead of using a computer to choose matches for you. Your and your match of the day get 24 hours to decide if you like each other before the two of you can chat. Once is free to use, but if you would like more than one match per day you can pay for a premium subscription.

Align

Align seeks to match you with the perfect person based on your astrological signs. (It uses Western astrology, Chinese zodiac, and the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator to find out as much as possible about you.)
Then you can send messages and get to know your matches. This app is only available in Los Angeles, New York City, and the San Francisco Bay area. If you live in one of the three lucky cities, Align is totally free.

Coffee Meets Bagel

Having more detail makes finding the perfect date easier, right? Coffee Meets Bagel (CMB) uses your interests, preferences, and Facebook connections (so you can meet friends of friends) to help find you a match. Their algorithm learns over time what you’re looking for to help find you better matches, and the app has a new video feature. CMB is free to use, but you can pay for premium features like deeper insights into your matches.

Pure

Pure doesn’t beat around the bush with their users. It’s a subscription-based app for finding people to casually hook up with, not for long-term relationships. Pure matches you with people nearby, and you can chat for up to an hour before the app totally deletes your conversation (similar to Snapchat).
Ready to give one or more of these dating apps a try? We’ve got some tips for that!

Digital Dating Safety Tips

Once you’ve connected with someone and you’re planning to meet up, it’s important to take a few precautions just to make sure you’ll be safe. It’s not just for your sexual health (where bringing protection is a good plan) but also for your physical safety. Most of these are common sense but bear repeating.
Getting together with someone you’ve never met before isn’t a necessarily a bad thing. But if you have a roommate, friend, or co-worker you trust, letting them know your plans is an easy precaution to take. Just give them the name (and number, if you have it) of the person you’re meeting and the when, where, and for how long. That way you have some backup if things go amiss.
Also, you’ll probably want to provide your own transportation to and from the date. Being stuck in a car with someone you just don’t click with isn’t exactly fun. The University of South Carolina also suggests setting your first meeting during the day in a public area.
Finally, trust your instincts. If you feel like a date is going south, your date is raising some red flags, or you just don’t have chemistry, you don’t need to stick around. This is when having your own transportation or cab money is super helpful. Text your trusted friend to let them know you’re leaving early and head on home. No harm done.
Relationship expert Sherman reminds us to appreciate the ease that comes from dating apps. Dating should be fun, after all! She says “dating is a numbers game, and with people being so busy these days, dating apps are a good tool to meet one-on-one with other singles at a time and place that works for you.”
Now that you have a good idea of which dating app is the right fit for you, set up an account and get busy meeting your perfect person!
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3 Chic DIY Gifts That Your Girlfriends Will Love

Until recently, the last time I made homemade holiday gifts was when I was in elementary school. Since then, DIY holiday endeavors have brought to mind childlike crafts that never come out quite as planned. Needless to say, DIY and chic were not terms I associated very closely.
However, this year I discovered that DIY holiday presents have grown up. Thanks to social media (hey there, Pinterest and Instagram) there are now plenty of do-it-yourself holiday projects that are fun to make and even more enjoyable to receive. Most of us have a secret—or not-so-secret—love of crafting, so this year why not reconnect with the thrill and satisfaction of making the perfect gift with your own two hands?
Plus, you’ll be able to avoid the stores, which at this point are packed with last-minute shoppers. Here are three chic DIY gifts that will leave your girlfriends going gaga!

Personalized Coffee Mug

What You’ll Need:

In winter, almost everyone loves curling up with a warm cup of cocoa, coffee, or tea. It’s even more enjoyable when you’re sipping from a great mug that puts a smile on your face. That’s why making custom coffee mugs for your friends is such a great idea. You can customize each mug, delivering just the right dose of inspiration, silliness, or sarcasm to get your friend through her morning.
This technique from the blog Glued To My Crafts is great since you don’t need to worry about things getting messy with paints and brushes. Just order or pick up plain ceramic mugs and oil-based Sharpies (not the ones we see most often since those will wash off in the dishwasher).
You can use stencils, or just draw whatever comes to you. When you’re done, make sure your kitchen is well ventilated and put the mugs in the oven at 350°F for half an hour. Then turn off the oven and leave the mugs inside until they’re cool. In just a few hours, you’ll have a great DIY gift that your friends will love!

Infused Olive Oil

What You’ll Need:

If your girlfriends have a taste for savory treats, consider making them infused olive oil, which can be used for cooking, dipping breads, or dressing salads. This chic twist on the classic holiday treat jar looks beautiful and is an unusual gift that most people will enjoy using. Plus, your friend might even invite you over for a great meal featuring the oil you gifted her.
To get started, purchase a large container of high-quality olive oil. Simply pour oil into each of your selected containers, adding ingredients that have complimentary flavors. Rosemary, peppercorns, and sun-dried tomatoes will all look pretty in the packaging while delivering great flavor. Thyme, oregano, and sage are also popular options.
Over time, the olive oil will pick up the flavors from the jar, giving it an extra level of sophistication. One note of caution: Be sure to only use dried herbs (nothing that contains water), to avoid bacteria growth.

Bath Salts

What You’ll Need

If your friends are as busy as you are, they probably need time to relax. What better way to do that that in a luxurious bath? Gifting your friends bath salts will inspire them to take some time for themselves, which is exactly what most busy women need around the holidays—or at least first thing in the new year!
To make your salts, combine one part baking soda, three parts Epsom salts, and six parts sea salts (according to Martha Stewart’s recipe). Add a few drops of fragrance and color (if desired) and mix it all together. For an especially festive take, layer different colored salts on top of each other in a clear jar. Just be sure to seal the container tightly to keep the salt from clumping before use.
This year, save money and have fun by giving DIY gifts. Your friends—and your bank account—will love it!

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Gift Ideas That Encourage Fitness And Time In The Great Outdoors

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The best gifts are ones that motivate their recipients to be more adventurous, active, and healthy. Instead of simply receiving an item, they will unwrap the encouragement to go on a hike, a trip, or a jog through the park. These are the gifts that people really appreciate, and here’s a quick and easy way to decide which ones you should be giving this season.

1. Give a head start on the path to enlightenment and stress-free living with an everything-included gift package.

This six-piece yoga set includes a mat, two yoga blocks, a mat towel, a hand towel, and a yoga strap. It’s perfect for someone looking to change their lifestyle or upgrade their worn out gear.

The 71- by 24-inch mat is made from half-inch thick memory foam to pad bodies as they get into shape. One side is ribbed and one side is smooth, and a carry strap is attached.

2. We’ve all heard that sitting for long periods of time is bad, but that’s not the case with this unusual office chair.

The Gaiam Balance Ball Chair improves core strength and back health by engaging your muscles while you sit. The set comes with a 52-centimeter exercise ball, an air pump, the chair frame with wheels, and a desktop exercise guide.

This ergonomic design is great for those who feel joint and muscle stiffness due to prolonged periods of sitting. Health and fitness experts created this chair to make sitting healthier and more comfortable. If you know someone who’s tight and stressed at the end of every work day, pamper them with this ultra-comfy chair.

3. Some people question why you would want a smart watch if you’ve already got a smart phone.

Then they see the innovative features on the Fitbit Blaze and they understand. This watch is simple and intuitive to understand, yet capable of providing a plethora of health and fitness information.

The Blaze allows you to enable GPS to map your walks or runs and track the pace and duration of workouts. You can set it to remind you when you haven’t been active or track weekly workout goals with the click of a button. This smart watch offers an easy way to understand your body and compile all of your fitness goals without ever picking up a pencil.

4. There’s one secret to going to the gym regularly that people don’t often talk about.

Having stylish workout clothes, like running gear from Athleta, gives you an extra push to get off the couch. Sure, it’s vain, but it works.

Wearing sleek compression tights with a flattering fit makes you look and feel great. And when you actually want to wear your gym clothes, you’re a lot more likely to go to the gym.

5. If you want to give a more general workout-themed gift, remember that everyone needs a gym bag.

This workout bag from Athleta has a very necessary internal satchel for gym shoes. It comes with other handy features like a water bottle sleeve and easy-access storage.

But just because this bag is perfect for the gym doesn’t mean that it’s a one-trick pony. It’s also great for weekend trips, beach outings, or just going to work. With its easy-access storage and stylish looks, this bag is perfect for a wide range of activities.

6. For a sportier look, Under Armour has you covered.

This water-resistant, heavy-duty duffle bag can handle equipment for just about any sport. It’s made of durable polyester and has abrasion-resistant bottom and side panels to guarantee it lasts without wearing and tearing.

Its padded grab handle makes it ergonomic to carry, even when it’s stuffed full of heavy items. It also has a mesh compartment for sweaty or wet clothes that makes it perfect for workout gear. Use it for camping, traveling, your favorite sport, or anything else that takes you out of the house.

7. A really great gift can inspire your loved ones to go on memorable outings.

This versatile hammock folds up small but provides a comfortable place to take a nap or sleep overnight. Whether someone takes it to the local park or on a multi-day trek in the backcountry, it’ll provide hours of soothing relaxation.

This very affordable, heavy-duty hammock has an incredible review history on Amazon. It comes with everything you need to take a load off during an unforgettable adventure. Choose from a wide variety of colors and get ready to kick back and take it all in!

8. If you know someone who’s ultra-motivated but needs a little direction, we’ve got the perfect gift.

The P90 workout is famous for fast-tracking people into shape. Yes, it takes a lot of sweat and energy, but it works.

This DVD set includes 10 workouts of varying lengths and difficulty levels. It also includes a nutrition guide since much of a healthy lifestyle starts in the kitchen. Choose from a six-day shred or a 90-day workout calendar.
If someone sticks with this highly acclaimed workout regimen, they will make tremendous gains, and when it comes down to it, they’ll have you to thank!

9. Looking for workout equipment that goes along with a tiny-home lifestyle?

This three-piece resistance band set can hit all of the major muscle groups without taking up a ton of room. In fact, the entire set can fit in your pocket. Going on vacation doesn’t have to kill your workout momentum now that you can bring your equipment along.

Each band is 5 feet by 4 inches, and each color gets progressively more resistant. Use them for toning, building, or rehabbing muscles.
After working out with resistance bands, you can see and feel improved posture, increased strength, and improved balance. There are few workouts that are as effective with such simple and inexpensive gear.

10. Here’s the perfect way to spoil the jogger in your life.

Lightweight, super-comfy running shoes make suiting up and hitting the road a luxurious experience. The Launch 4 from Brooks has air mesh fabric for better breathability and moisture control.

Abrasion-resistant rubber throughout the outsole improves durability, while blown rubber toes give the shoes extra spring. Unlike many performance running shoes, Launch 4s come in a wide variety of stylish color combos.

11. For men who love to jog, we have something a little different in mind.

The Gel-Quantum 180 2 running shoes from ASICS are everything a good running shoe should be—durable, lightweight, and cushiony. Their trademarked GEL cushioning system is easy on the feet and joints.

Welded mesh panels make the Gel-Quantums exceptionally breathable and comfortable. They’re perfect for long-distance running on everything from tracks to asphalt.

12. Give the yoga lover in your life the most stylish accessory in the class.

This head-turning yoga bag from Nordstrom is both functional and artsy. With a shoulder strap, zip closure, and an exterior pocket, it has everything someone needs to tote their gear to class.

With “give beautiful energy” printed on it, this bag sends out plenty of positive vibes.

13. Give a practical, tried-and-true mode of transportation.

Bikes are eco-friendly, good for health, and great for motivating someone to get out of the house and explore. The Carlton Mixte 8 from Raleigh Bikes comes in green or purple matte with a basket for toting groceries or a carryout meal.

This 8-speed has a low-slung frame to make getting on and off easier (and to facilitate riding in a skirt). Inspire someone to go on adventures the old-fashioned way with a bike that’s heavy-duty and stylish.

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How To Plan Your Day To Beat The Mid-Day Slump

Delicious and comforting as they may be at first, caffeine and sugar can actually backfire on you when you use them to get over the famous mid-day downswing in your workday energy. If you find yourself feeling foggy or fatigued halfway through the day, you need to try these tricks! Here’s how to plan your smooth, slump-free day the healthy way.

Wake and sip.

Did you know one of the major symptoms of dehydration is fogginess and fatigue? I like to start my day by drinking a big glass of water (then coffee and cream, I’m only human). And I keep sipping water or fruit seltzer throughout the day. Bonus: If you’re full of water, you could be less likely to indulge in mindless snacking. (See our tasty hydration ideas here!)

Ditch sugary breakfasts.

Starting out your day with sweetened cereal, pancakes with syrup, or even a glass of OJ may be tasty, but it’s a likely cause for that blood sugar crash that knocks you down later in the day. Instead, try something high in fiber and protein and low in simple carbs, like whole grain toast with a little peanut butter or Greek yogurt with berries.

Where you munch matters.

Most of us want to hole up and eat lunch at our desk sometimes. But you’ll do yourself a favor if you get up and walk somewhere to eat, picnic style. Not only will you likely feel refreshed by a walk, but researchers at Stanford University found that you’re also likely to be a more creative thinker when you return to your desk after a lunch walk.

Smart snacking is a thing.

It’s a long way from noon lunch to a 7 p.m. dinner. Don’t bring on a hangry episode by trying to rough it without food. Set yourself up for success, not a sugar crash, by planning a healthy yet filling snack sans added sweeteners, like an apple and cheese or carrot sticks and mixed nuts. Figure out what time of day you personally feel the slump (it’s mid-afternoon for me) and break out your smart snack a bit before then.

Sniff something citrus scented.

Japanese researchers have found that in addition to actually making you feel happier and more comfortable, taking a whiff of lemon scent can actually help you be more productive and make fewer mistakes in your work. Try this and see if you notice a difference.

Take a mini yoga retreat.

After hours of sitting focused at a computer, you could probably use a little respite. My favorite online yoga teacher, Esther Ekhart, says that even five minutes of yoga at your desk can be beneficial for your workday. Here’s a free short desk yoga routine on her YouTube channel that I do and love.

Do what comes naturally.

If you’ve tried all our healthy tips and still find yourself regularly sinking into an afternoon funk, think of the old “if you can’t beat ’em join ’em” adage. If you’re able to organize your day so that you leave less demanding tasks for the time you might expect to experience your slump, you can try honoring your senses and let your activity fit your mood (until you come out the other side).

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10 Secret Santa Gifts Under $30 You’ll Want To Keep For Yourself (But Won’t)

Picture it: the office holiday party, 2014.
It was a tradition to play Secret Santa, the game we all know and love, in which we’d all draw a name at random and secretly give that person a gift at the annual holiday party.
When it was my turn to draw a name, my worst fear came true. (Ok, my worst fear is getting stuck at the top of a roller coaster, but this is a close second.)
I drew my coworker Sally.
Sally (whose name I’ve changed just in case she’s reading this article and learns the truth about my 2014 Secret Santa snafu) was a perfectly nice person. The only problem was that I knew literally nothing about her!
Seriously, not one thing.
She kept no personal mementos on her desk. Even her computer desktop background was a plain blue screen.
The only intel I had on Sally was that she ate a tuna melt every single day, which did not endear her to the office.
So, it was safe to say I was at a total loss when faced with the pressure of buying her a Secret Santa gift.
For weeks I tried to find out more about her, to no avail.
Finally, the day before the holiday party, I spied a coffee-table craft cocktail guide at TJ Maxx and thought, “Good enough.” It seemed like a generic gift almost anyone would enjoy.
Fast forward to the party, where Sally opens up her Secret Santa gift.
I could immediately tell she didn’t like it.
To her credit, she politely put on a brave face and tried to guess who’d gifted her the book.
Later, I found out that Sally didn’t drink at all due to her religious background, and while she wasn’t offended by the gift, it wasn’t exactly something she could use.
Yikes.
Since then, I’ve become an expert Secret Santa gift-giver. I don’t want to let anymore Sallies down with lackluster Secret Santa picks.
If you have no idea what to give your Secret Santa recipient this year, I’ve got you covered.
From your mystery coworker to your dad, here are the best Secret Santa gifts under $30 that are sure to impress this year:

1. Birch Box Subscription

I love subscription boxes. One of my personal favorites is Birch Box—the popular beauty product subscription that can be gifted to just about anyone: your work wife, best girlfriend, or mom will all love getting a personalized box of goodies each month.
Starting at $30 for a three-month subscription, Birch Box now offers men’s subscription boxes, truly making them a gift anyone will enjoy.

2. Nuns Having Fun

“A wall calendar? But that’s so boring!”
Au contraire, my friend.
My roommates and I stumbled across the Nuns Having Fun calendar in college, and it has been my go-to wall calendar for the past decade. It’s a great gift for someone you don’t know very well because, seriously, can you imagine anyone who wouldn’t smile seeing nuns having fun?
At under $15, this is an affordable gift that can easily be paired with another item, like a gourmet chocolate bar, for the perfect office Secret Santa gift.

3. Essential Oil Diffuser

Is your work bestie stressed about a big upcoming project? How about giving her an essential oil diffuser this year?
Diffusers like this one from URPOWER are pretty inexpensive but can be used at home or in the office. Along with the diffuser, gift your Secret Santa a couple of different essential oils. Just make sure you buy oils from a reputable source.

4. Bacon, Bacon, Bacon

Does your Secret Santa love bacon?
Who am I kidding?
Everyone loves bacon.
Assemble a bacon-forward gift basket with the retro-inspired 101 Things To Do With Bacon cookbook, gourmet bacon-flavored salt, and a petite bottle of bacon-flavored hot sauce.
No time to assemble something yourself? While Man Crates are designed for men, they’re really a great gift idea for any whiskey-drinking, meat-eating guy or gal and they aren’t just for Secret Santa either. When Valentine’s Day rolls around, send your boo a delicious heart filled with gourmet jerky.

5. Have Mug, Will Travel

This isn’t your average travel mug. The Thermos insulated travel mug was tested by Good Housekeeping and was crowned one of the best travel mugs of 2017.
Everyone can use a good travel mug (especially if they’re like me and can never find a clean one in sight).
Not only does it keep drinks hot or cold for 18 hours, but it even has diffuser options for bag or loose leaf tea. It’s the perfect Secret Santa gift for a coworker or your dad (whose 30-year-old thermos probably needs an update).

6. Cozy Slippers

Studies show that the more comfortable you are, the more productive and happier you are at work. Alan Hedge, PhD, found that employees who were warm enough were more productive than those who worked in the chilly conditions of most office buildings.
You may not be able to change the thermostat in your office, but you can gift your Secret Santa a cute pair of slippers to slip on under their desk. These rose gold Minnetonka slippers will be sure to keep your Secret Santa’s feet feeling toasty and looking fabulous, even when the office feels like the frozen tundra.

7. Ready, Set, Write!

With New Year’s Eve right around the corner, this journal is a great gift idea for your coworker, friend, or anyone you know who is working toward a specific goal. While it does come in just a few dollars above the $30 price point, it’s well worth the extra expense (less than a cup of coffee!) for the motivation it provides.

8. There’s no place like home.

Is your Secret Santa homesick over the holidays? Cheer them up with these Homesick Scented Candles. Each state’s candle smells like a bit of home. I love to light my beloved North Carolina candle, which smells a little sweet and a little bitter, just like the perfect bite of NC barbeque.
Homesick candles cost between $25 and $35 each and can be purchased on Amazon.

9. Grow your own tree.

Give a gift that keeps on giving (in a good way) by gifting your Secret Santa a Bonsai Garden Starter Kit from Nature’s Blossom. In addition to giving them reason to slow down and take the time to plant and tend to their little bonsai, as the tree grows, it will enhance their space, whether it finds its home at the office or somewhere around their house or apartment.
An added bonus? Houseplants help rid the atmosphere of carbon dioxide and release oxygen thanks to photosynthesis, which means, in a way, you’ll be gifting them a breath of fresh air for the new year!

10. Stylish Reusable Tote

This solid jute tote from MudPie is a stylish, versatile take on the reusable tote. It’s a steal that can be used to carry everything from groceries to beach gear.
Want to make this gift extra thoughtful? Consider having your Secret Santa’s initials monogrammed on the side as a special touch.

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White Elephant Gift Ideas

Funny items are great for providing a laugh when they’re unwrapped. Bizarre items capture the crowd’s attention. And of course you can buy a genuinely nice gift that everyone will want to get their hands on.
If you can find an item with all three of these characteristics, you’ll have won the day. We’ve collected some of our favorite suggestions to help you secure your title as the best gift giver of them all!

1. File this one under “Bizarre but slightly useful.”

The Couch Guest Book from Knock Knock is a hilariously fancy tome in which the people sitting on your couch can record their names, thoughts, doodles, and other random scribbles. As the book fills up with illustrations and messages, it will become a book for guests to thumb through as well.

The sophisticated book measures 8.5″ by 5.5″ and has a ribbon page marker. A padded hardcover and metallic foil stamping complete the look of this absurd item. It’s perfect for an office with frequent visitors or for a home coffee table.

2. If you have a co-worker who is always complaining of being hot, throw this fun gift in the mix.

The Desktop LED Message Fan gives a message while cooling off its operator. It is powered by a USB port and has three display settings: “I’M FEELIN’ YOU,” “YA FEELIN’ ME,” and smiley faces.

This simple gift will grab people’s attention as they read the various LED messages. It also comes in handy when an office or room gets stuffy.

3. Give something adorable, practical, and nostalgic.

These tiny walkie talkies are sure to be a hit at any party. They are fully functional and can communicate with one another from up to 150 feet apart.

These powerful little devices can send a signal through walls and floors, so you never have to be incommunicado with your office mate or neighbor. These nugget-sized blasts from the past look great on a shelf and even make a great throwback children’s toy.

4. The future is here, and you can give it to your friends, family, or co-workers.

These prism glasses are the perfect white elephant gift. They’re bizarre and funny-looking, but they also serve a very practical purpose.

These affordable, futuristic glasses allow a tired couch potato to watch TV fully reclined. That’s right! We no longer have to prop ourselves upright to binge watch. Simply lie back, put on the glasses, and watch your favorite TV show reflected squarely into your view. Everyone at your gathering will want to take a look through these peepers. The only hard part will be holding onto them as others try to steal this gift away.

5. Darling it’s better, down where it’s wetter—take it from me.

This handmade, artisanal mermaid tail (mermaid tails can be artisanal, right?) is sure to be a big hit—especially for those who get chilly easily. The knitted tail will keep its recipient warm while transforming them into a colorful mer-person.

It works great for movie nights, lounging, sleepovers, or more casual (and thermostat-challenged) office environments. You don’t have to be a super-fan of The Little Mermaid to want this cozy tail for yourself. Just be sure to take it off before you try to walk anywhere.

6. Who says ‘90s technology is obsolete?

These floppy disk coasters prove that there’s still space for slower, more fragile digital storage devices in our lives. They won’t fit in a modern computer, of course, but they can protect a coffee table from unsightly condensation rings.

This throwback to a couple decades ago comes with six silicone floppy disk coasters in a variety of colors that will remind some people of elementary school and others of their first jobs. Younger participants may need a brief explanation of the contraption we once used and loved.

7. You might cripple your office’s productivity with this popular game, but it’ll improve morale.

Desktop bags will be an instant hit among procrastinating co-workers. It can be played solo or in teams, and it will help stave off boredom and get the creative juices flowing.

The set comes with four mini bean bags and one board with a hole in it. See who has the best motor skills in your office with this addictive little game.

8. Give your office misanthrope the gift that says everything for them.

A “Now You May Speak” coffee mug is the perfect way for grumps and grouches to display their cantankerousness without opening their mouths. As they progress through their morning coffee, the cup will let others know how close they are to becoming approachable.

This mug communicates a love for coffee and an inability to function without it. It’s also a great way to signal to coworkers that you’ve just arrived and could use a little more time before entertaining any requests for help.

9. The most sought-after item in your home or office might just be a pint of Cherry Garcia ice cream.

Which would make this Ben & Jerry’s Euphori-Lock the second most valuable item in the joint. Never worry about dessert theft again with this high-tech, specialized pint locker.

This functioning lock comes with a pre-assigned three-digit combination and a twist-lock installation. Of course, as the person giving this gift, you might glance at that super-secret combination just in case you get the munchies one day in the future.

10. This little projector packs a big punch.

Parents will jump at the chance to grab this rotating night light projector. Anyone else who loves seeing the night sky projected throughout a room will too.

This gadget is perfect for a baby or child’s room, but it’s also a great mood-setter for a party. For those who like to wind down before bed at night, it offers a simple way to relax with some ambience. The gentle but inspiring night sky can make any room more peaceful.

11. Sometimes you just want to bring a super-weird item for a white elephant gift exchange.

This cat pillow case really does the trick in those instances. While most participants will try to avoid the stylish kitty, there will almost certainly be a cat person who can’t live without it.

And why wouldn’t they swap or steal in order to take kitty home? The pillowcase is a soft 50-percent cotton, 50-percent polyester blend that’s machine-washable. It fits most standard size throw pillows and is a beauty to behold.

12. When someone’s watching four hours of Mindhunter or Stranger Things, they don’t want to end up haggard in the end.

That’s why this binge-watching beauty kit will be such a hit. It has 21 items to usher someone through the daunting task of staying current during the new Golden Age of Television.

There are lotions and face masks to care for the skin and a decision-making coin that answers the difficult question, “Should I stay or should I go to bed?” This gift will gets lots of laughs, but it’s as practical as anything else. Of course it should go without saying that it includes a pair of ultra-comfy fuzzy socks.

13. Make the Harry Potter fans in your gift exchange very happy.

This awesome Muggles mug is simple but irresistible. Whoever ends up with it will have a reminder each morning that even though not everyone is magic, some of us are.

Choose between two sizes—11 or 15 ounces. The minimalist art and tongue-in-cheek sentiment will spread smiles and camaraderie among all the office Rowling fans.

14. Give something warm now that winter is coming.

Sriracha keychains ensure that their owners will always be packing a little heat. This adorable (but perfectly functional) keychain allows someone to bring their favorite sauce to any restaurant or dinner party.

The set comes with two bottles with clips (sauce sold separately). These can be used for their intended purpose or filled with lotion or creams.

15. It’s time to start preparing for dry skin and icy roads.

This essential winter kit has a little bit of everything to make the cold weather more bearable. For your car, there’s a mini ice scraper. For your home, there are boot wipes to clean off snow.

The pack also has cuticle oil, lip balm, a reusable hot pack, and much more. Everything comes packed neatly in a “Frozen AF” clutch. Cool.


If you end up selecting a gift with an unusual shape, we’ve got your back. Here are some tips on how to wrap oddly shaped presents.

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These Are The Must-Read Books To Finish In 2017

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There’s nothing quite like long cozy nights curled up with a good book. Fall and winter definitely feel like the best part of the year to make extra time for reading. So, whether it’s a lighthearted romance novel to get you through a long flight or a gripping mystery to entertain you in the evenings, here are the top seven books you need to check out before ringing in the new year.

1. Bonfire

by Krysten Ritter

Ritter’s debut book promises to be a huge hit. This suspense novel follows a lawyer, Abby, who has to confront her troubling past when a case she’s working on winds up being related to another case involving her childhood friends. To get to the bottom of both situations, she must confront her hometown’s ugly secret.

2. A Column of Fire

by Ken Follett

In 1558 England, the political climate was less than friendly. A Column of Fire tells the story of one of Queen Elizabeth’s personal guards, his unrequited love story, and the tumultuous political climate at the time. This book is part of the Kingsbridge series, but no worries if you haven’t read the previous books. The plots are unrelated, so if you can’t commit to reading two other 1,000 page novels first, you can definitely start here.

3. Mothers, Daughters & Body Image: Learning to Love Ourselves as We Are

by Hillary L. McBride

For a more serious and thought-provoking read, McBride’s latest book delves into her own recovery from an eating disorder. She also shares true stories from other survivors and research around body positivity and self-love. Pick this up if you’d like a nightly quiet-time read as it’s the only title on this list not available in audiobook form.

4. I Capture the Castle

by Dodie Smith

How about an oldie but a goody? I Capture the Castle was written in the late ’40s but is still endearing and heartwarming today. It tells a story of love and life through the journal entries of a charming 17-year-old girl in England.

5. Before We Were Yours

by Lisa Wingate

This is the book that everyone will be talking about over holiday dinners. Before We Were Yours has been on Amazon’s lists of most-read and most-sold books for the past 13 weeks in a row. Grab the tissues, because this book can be prove to be quite the tear jerker.
Based on a true story, it tells the tale of how poor children in Tennessee were kidnapped and sold to wealthy families under the guise of adoption.

6. The Red Notebook

by Antoine Laurain

Not ready to take on the emotional work of reading about fragmented families? That’s okay.
If what you want is a feel-good read to fly through during holiday travel, pick up The Red Notebook. Quick, easy, and heartfelt doesn’t get much better than this. It tells the story of a man in Paris finding a lost handbag with no information about its owner inside other than the thoughts penned in a red notebook. With little to go on, the man searches for the satchel and tell-all’s rightful owner.

7. A Wrinkle in Time

by Madeleine L’Engle

This nostalgic classic is slated to be a blockbuster come March 2018. The star-studded cast, which includes Oprah herself, ensures the film adaptation of A Wrinkle in Time will be a hit. If you’re in the mood for a childhood classic you can read cover to cover over your holiday break, this is the one. It’s just around 250 pages, and the dynamic plot is sure to keep you hooked.
Having a hard time picking just one? Us too! But hey, is it really the holidays if you don’t have an Amazon wishlist filled with books?

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Netflix And Chill Is So Over: Try These Stay-At-Home Date Ideas Instead

During the warm summer months, my husband and I enjoy an at-home date once a week. After our child goes to bed, we sit outside, watching the stars, chit-chatting, and having a few drinks. We never actually plan it out, but the ritual has become an important part of how we stay connected amid busy jobs and parenthood.
However, once the cold moves in, things get a bit trickier. We can’t just head outside with a bottle of wine, so at-home dates require a bit more planning. Recently, I purchased a couple board games, envisioning at-home date nights, but when I brought them home my husband laughed.
Despite his reluctance (or anyone else’s), at-home date nights are a great option, especially this time of year. These dates save you the hassle of going out in the cold and cut the cost of dinner, a movie, and a sitter if you have kids.
Of course, suggesting an at-home date night to your significant other might seem silly or cheesy. However, if you’re willing to go out on a limb, chances are you will have a lot of fun. So turn off the TV, put down your devices, and prepare for a date to remember, all without leaving the house.
Believe me, I know because my husband ended up enjoying our game night even more than I did.
Here are five at-home date ideas to get you started.

Indulge in a little fantasy.

Not that kind! This fantasy exercise is much more PG!
Where would you go if you could travel anywhere? What does your dream house look like? Spend an evening planning a luxurious vacation that you can work toward or shopping some nearby neighborhoods (or a destination halfway around the globe) for the house of your dreams. If you’re feeling especially creative, you could even grab a stack of old magazines and create a collage of fantasy destinations, dwelling places, and activities for two.
Along the way you’ll talk about your hopes, desires, and wishes, opening you both up for some very intimate and meaningful conversation.

Cook a meal together.

There’s something about being in the kitchen with quiet music on in the background that just gives way to intimacy and good conversation. If your partner hates to cook, don’t write this date idea off just yet. Put them in charge of setting the table, lighting candles, or deciding on the music. Just spending time together working toward a goal—a romantic dinner for two—will remind you of why you fell in love.

Take a trip down memory lane.

Get out the old photo albums (or the computer if you must) and look at pictures from earlier in your relationship. Ask each other about favorite memories, or what your initial perceptions of each other were. What was he really thinking on the morning of your wedding? Looking at old photos will undoubtedly give way to sharing stories that will bring you even closer together.

Get physical.

Why save massages for special occasions or vacation? Transform a room in your home into a spa by turning the heat up and lighting some candles. Then, give each other massages. You’ll build a physical connection without having to commit to anything more, especially if you start with clothed massages like shoulder or foot rubs.

Do some Q&A.

The New York Times article “The 36 Questions That Lead to Love” has caused a stir for all the right reasons. Let the questionnaire spark conversation in your home. The questions range from silly—“When was the last time you sang to yourself?”—to deep—“For what in your life do you feel most grateful?”
This winter, don’t let your relationship fall into a rut. Keep the love alive with these at-home date night ideas and the occasional game night as well!