Once upon a time, back when I was a single gal, my bedroom was my private oasis; it was my getaway from lousy jobs, roommates, and sometimes just life in general. From the paint color I meticulously chose in the aisle at Sherwin-Williams to the bedding I scored during a Pottery Barn clearance sale, I designed my bedroom to be an inviting, calming space. Even though I had no idea what it was back then, I was trying to create a feng shui bedroom: a place of positive energy where I could recharge. The ancient Chinese practice of feng shui goes way deeper than picking out paint colors, though. Here’s how to get a feng shui bedroom, according to the experts.
What is feng shui?
The term feng shui gets thrown around a lot to describe things that have a soothing effect, but the practice of feng shui goes so much deeper. It’s actually the ancient Chinese version of geomancy, the practice of using the earth’s energy to place structures and buildings to promote good fortune. “Feng shui is an ancient Chinese art of moving energy, or chi, in order to create harmonious surroundings that enhance the balance of yin and yang energy both within a person and their surroundings,” explains feng shui expert Michelle Cromer. Western feng shui has evolved over the centuries, Cromer says. Four thousand years ago, she explains, “the classical practice of feng shui was an outward-to-in approach emphasizing environmental aesthetics like geography and topography. But Western feng shui has simplified the process into tangible results.”
How to Create a Feng Shui Bedroom
According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, Americans spend almost 10 hours per day on personal care, including sleep. That’s at least one-third of your day! Between snoozing, getting busy, and relaxing, though, we probably spend much more than a third of the day in our sleeping space, which is why creating a feng shui bedroom is so worthwhile, even if you can’t feng shui your whole home. “In feng shui, chi, or energy, enters and exits through all of the windows and doors of any space,” says Cromer. Before designing any feng shui bedroom layout, you’ll want to take note of where your bedroom doors and windows are located. Their location will make a big difference in how you position your bed, which is the most important aspect of a feng shui bedroom. [pullquote align=”center”]How you position your bed is the most important aspect of a feng shui bedroom.[/pullquote]
Place your bed in a commanding position.
For the best flow of energy, place your bed in a commanding position—a powerful spot where you can clearly see, but are not in front of, the door. Put simply, the feng shui commanding position is all about putting you in a position of power, regardless of what room you’re arranging. For example, in your office, you don’t face your desk away from the door toward the wall. Instead, your desk should face out, looking toward the door, putting you in charge when people enter your office. In a nutshell, that’s what you want in your bedroom. So what does this look like exactly?
Place your bed against a wall.
Ideally, position your bed against a solid wall that will provide a strong background to ground the room’s energy, diagonal to the entryway. The perfectionist in you might cringe, but in a feng shui bedroom layout, your bed doesn’t need to be centered on the wall. In fact, you want as much space between you and the door as possible. Try to avoid placing your bed on a wall with windows, says Cromer, as windows allow the flow of energy into the room that could create a feeling of vulnerability. In a commanding position, you want to ground as much of the energy into your bed as possible.
Less is more.
Once you’ve found the commanding position for your bed, continue to ground the room with the rest of your bedroom furniture, and remember: Less is more. Place large furniture, like a dresser or chest, directly opposite the bed if possible to counterbalance the strong, grounded energy of the bed.
Choose a bed with space underneath.
This will allow energy to flow through the room. “We are intimately connected to the energy of our bed,” Cromer tells HealthyWay. “The energy needs to circulate around your body when you sleep, which is not possible if the bed goes all the way to the floor or if there are objects under the bed.”
Don’t place a mirror in front of your bed.
“Mirrors in feng shui have unique abilities. They can double or reflect energy, and they can be used as a water feature since they have reflective properties,” says Cromer. “Mirrors that face a bed can cause restless sleep.” Keep in mind that according to Cromer, TVs are also considered mirrors “since they have the same reflective properties.”
[related article_ids=18513] If you must have a mirror in your room—if it is attached to an existing piece of furniture, for example—Cromer suggests covering it at night with a pashmina so as to keep that energy out of the room as you sleep.
“Symmetry is a simple way to achieve visual balance and harmony. Since the bedroom can be a reflection of the partnerships between the people living in the home, its symmetry is critical,” Cromer emphasizes. To achieve symmetry in the bedroom, Cromer says that both sides of the bed should look identical. If you have a nightstand on one side, you should have one on the other. Likewise with lamps, candles, chairs, and other objects in the room.
Don’t let your room get cluttered.
“Staying organized and having a clutter-free home is crucial and one of the major principles in feng shui,” says Cromer. “Clutter robs the inhabitants of vitality and slows down opportunities and creates health issues. Clutter stops the flow of energy and this has an impact on our internal energetic flow.” To cut down on clutter in your bedroom, give Swedish death cleaning a try (it isn’t as ominous as it sounds, I promise).
Remove EMF pollution.
Electric and magnetic fields (EMF) are invisible fields of energy emitted by electronic devices, like microwaves and cell phones, and they can negatively impact your chi in a big way, says Cromer. To keep EMF pollution at a minimum, try to keep devices—like your phone and other screens—out of the bedroom. If that’s not possible, then charge your device as far away from your bed as possible, Cromer advises.
Feng Shui Colors
In feng shui, different colors are associated with the five feng shui elements: earth, water, wood, fire, and metal. Colors, then, are ultra important in setting the feng shui tone for your bedroom. But if you’re waiting for a feng shui expert to tell you exactly what color to paint your room, you’re out of luck; there are no right or wrong feng shui bedroom colors! Essentially, you want your room to feel safe, secure, and serene. For me, that color is a pale, beachy blue. But for you, that color might be a warm, earth-toned terra cotta. The only color you don’t want in your feng shui bedroom? Too much red, says Benko. “Fiery tones of red and orange are too stimulating for rest and relaxation. Keeping the bedroom in white, creams, pastels, or muted colors [is] more conducive to a good night’s sleep.” But that doesn’t mean red is completely off limits in your feng shui bedroom. According to Cromer, if your room needs more passion, pops of fiery reds, like in your rug or decor, can add just the right amount of emotional energy. As for decorating, feng shui is all about simplicity, but that doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice your own style. “Feng shui of today is not about a banal palette of neutrals; it’s not about using zen-like decor, nor is it about filling your home with culturally rich tchotchkes of Foo dogs and dragons,” says Benko. Instead, for feng shui decorating, think about what moves and inspires you. Don’t clutter the walls, but place a few carefully chosen pieces of art that represent positivity, creativity, and good energy.
Feng Shui on a Budget
“Feng shui is never about spending a lot of money,” Benko tells HealthyWay. “Because feng shui is the art of placement, repurposing items a person already has is normally all it takes,” Cromer adds. “Painting a room or a wall is oftentimes the only expense a person may have when incorporating feng shui into their space.” If you don’t want to spend a ton of money, but you still want an in-home oasis, here are Benko’s favorite tips for getting a feng shui bedroom (and they don’t cost a dime!):
Declutter, pare down, and surround yourself with only the items you absolutely love and use regularly. Get rid of items that are broken, in disrepair, or that you feel obligated to keep.
Get fresh air circulating. Let the sunshine in and keep your surfaces clean and clear.
Make your bed every day. It sets the tone for a prepared day and will give you a mental health boost.
Picking and Choosing Feng Shui Principles
“Good feng shui starts from the inside out. The changes you make in your space will support the changes inside of you and vice versa,” says Cromer. “So I don’t believe in bad energy, only misplaced energy.” Cromer says you shouldn’t worry if you can’t go all the way with a feng shui bedroom because you rent or your bedroom doesn’t have a lot of options for rearranging furniture because you won’t be creating “bad” energy within your home. You can still create a feng shui oasis in your bedroom with these simple tips:
If you rent, you don’t have to be stuck with the bland, beige paint your landlord chose. Use peel and stick paint (I like TemPAINT) to get the feng shui bedroom color of your dreams.
If your bed can only be positioned against a wall with a window, or if your bed cannot be placed flush against a solid wall, recreate one by placing a folding screen or decorative room divider behind your headboard to help anchor the bed.
Get organized to keep clutter at bay behind closet doors. Invest in inexpensive closet organization so you’re not tempted to throw all your clothes on the chair (you know what I’m talking about, ladies).
[pullquote align=”center”]“Good feng shui starts from the inside out. The changes you make in your space will support the changes inside of you and vice versa.”[/pullquote]
Benefits of a Feng Shui Bedroom
Not a whole lot of scientific research has been done to prove whether feng shui actually does have health benefits. But it would seem that many of the individual tenets of feng shui actually are beneficial to your health. For starters, feng shui eschews clutter and disorganization. While it didn’t involve feng shui specifically, a study conducted by researchers at Indiana University found that individuals with tidy, clutter-free homes were more active and healthier overall than messier individuals. Feng shui principles hold that blues, greens, and earth tones are more conducive to calming environments—and they may make you more productive as well. Another study, conducted by Nancy Stone at Missouri University of Science and Technology, found that students who studied in rooms painted red performed poorly on assigned tasks compared to students who studied in blue carrels.
[related article_ids=1247,19578] Additionally, a study out of UCLA found that women who live in cluttered homes have higher cortisol levels, which Stanford University reported led to a decline in self-esteem. (On the other hand, the UCLA study showed that the women who had a home they described as “restorative” actually lowered their stress levels.) People with higher self-esteem, according to one study, tend to have more satisfying romantic relationships. So it’s not too much of a stretch to say that a feng shui bedroom may even help improve intimacy between you and your partner. Cromer says that the practice of feng shui works because it can help make sense of our energy flows. The bedroom is one of the most important rooms in the home, so creating a space where you can momentarily block out life’s stressors and soak up all the positive energy your feng shui bedroom oasis has to offer is critical self-care.
The influencer: We often think of her as an enigmatic, superhuman maven who’s life is so different from our own that we just can’t even. Whether her kind insights have gained her guru status in our hearts or we find ourselves choking back a bit of jealousy when we see perfectly lit shots that are definitive proof of another woman knowing her angles better than we ever will (while erstwhile waking up puffy-eyed day after day), the bottom line is influencers know their stuff. Jenna Anderson Just as we’re the master of our own domains (from our professional lives and family dynamics to our creative passions and the causes that motivate us), these women have hard-earned insights on the products that can take our fitness, self-care, and noshing routines to the next level. These 14 influencers—from Morgan Haley to Laura Scott—told HealthyWay these 24 items are some of their favorite finds. Read on to see whose influence can help you find just the right stuff for stepping into your power. [sul title=”Jules Hunt of Om & the City” subheader=”50k Instagram Followers”] Jules is a yoga instructor, blogger, and founder of AWAKE | The Space—a New York City–based collective that aims to bring women together for “creative workshops, talks, movement, and more.” Her work, which prioritizes human connection, is clearly inspired by her awareness of and openness about her own struggles with body dysmorphia—something so many of us can relate to.
In addition to being head-over-heels for her pup Luna and actively promoting “local businesses, sustainable initiatives, and healthy habits,” Jules also gets behind:
1. A Next-Level Deodorant
Jules told HealthyWay Vapour Organic Beauty’s AER Next Level Deodorant is her go-to. The gel-to-powder stick comes in three scents: Lavender Myrrh, Palo Santo Blood Orange, and Ginger Grapefruit. The astral labels have us instantly intrigued, and we appreciate the fact that they’re formulated with plant ingredients including wildcrafted myrrh and organic oregano and holy basil. Amazon Like many natural deodorants—including Schmidt’s (my go-to)—Vapour’s AER is formulated with baking soda, which helps absorb sweat and neutralize odor. Unlike your run-of-the-mill, grab-it-at-Whole Foods deodorant, however, AER’s botanicals and the fact that all Vapour’s products are cruelty-free, certified vegetarian, and made under a single roof in Taos, New Mexico, make this a truly luxe, and decidedly feel-good, addition to your morning routine.
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2. A Little Jar of Love Bugs
Probiotics, prebiotics, macrobiotics—they’re everywhere. Of course, decision fatigue sets in when it comes to picking one, whether you’re ordering online or buying local. Amazon Jules recommends LoveBug probiotics, which come in more than half-a-dozen different formulations, including an option for immune support during cold season, one addressing yeast overgrowth, a prenatal probiotic, and multiple tiny tummy digestive aids for littles.
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3. Something for Living Your Life Like It’s Golden (Golden)
Jules told us she reaches for Live24k’s Golden Fuel Golden Milk Turmeric + Collagen Blend when she wants a turmeric boost. This blend contains collagen from grass-fed sources, plus organic turmeric and black pepper, and is free of sugars and gums. 🙌 Amazon What’s more, this product was developed by another influencer who’s worked with HealthyWay, which brings us to…
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Of course, both Jules and Minna are fans of turmeric, too. Here are some more of Minna’s favorite products:
4. Saje, Not Sage
“I’m addicted to all of Saje’s essential oils,” Minna told HealthyWay, going on to say that she likes to put them in a diffuser and use them topically. Lucky for us, the brand offers their blends in roll-on applicators and dropper bottles, plus they have multiple diffuser options and aromatherapy hand soap. Amazon Another influencer, Sammy Eason of the lifestyle and momming blog Mother of Chunk, told HealthyWay she loves Saje’s Head Soother Kit. The collection includes three essential oil blends that come in unique applicators so you can roll, mist, or wand your headache away (or at least into gentle submission). They’re 100 percent vegan and are formulated with natural ingredients including oils from flowers, herbs, and seeds—no synthetics or dyes.
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5. Something Grand
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6. A Whip for Your Lip(s)
In addition to Kari Gran’s cleansing oil, Minna has another favorite Kari Gran product. “Her lip whips are to die for!” she told us back in the spring, when a poppy color like Radiant would’ve been perfect. Amazon With fall coming on, we’re feeling rich tones, like Marsala or Jeannie. Of course, Peppermint Naked is a good option for rocking a perfectly hydrated nude lip year round.
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The woman knows how to rock a swimsuit and loves to go makeup- (and pants-) free, which means she gets us and gives us something to aspire to. Here are her skincare picks:
7. A Spritz of This
Okay, more of a spray, considering Payton recommends Dr. Dennis Gross Skincare Sheer Mineral Spray Sunscreen with SPF 50+ protection. Dr. Dennis Gross Skincare This product is formulated with biotin, tea, and Indian gooseberry extract. Water babies and anyone venturing out on a hot day with exposed skin will appreciate that it retains its sunblocking power for 40 minutes in the water or extremely moist, aka sweaty, conditions.
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8. For Busy Bees
Payton recommended this BB cream from Burt’s Bees—and it’s a perfect pick for busy bees, since it will help you moisturize and protect your face even if you’re looking to be as close to makeup- (and pant-) free as possible. Amazon With SPF 15, beeswax (of course), jojoba esters, and sunflower seed oil, this is a moisturizing option that’s meant to firm, conceal, and smooth skin, whether you want a little coverage for blemishes or fine lines and wrinkles.
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When interviewed by HealthyWay, she focused more on her spiritual and cultural interests than making product recommendations—sharing (in the tongue-in-cheek way only a lyrical poetess can), “I am reading Her-Bak: The Living Face of Ancient Egypt, watching my herb trees grow, and listening to my intuition more and more.” Thus, our Jah9 recommendation is some fresh-pressed vinyl for the record player you treated yourself to that really is so much more than a glorified piece of nostalgia.
9. “Things That Make Your Body Feel Good”
The official editorial review for this album points out that “Jah9 specializes in feelings. Her unique vocal delivery spins a narrative thread that attracts fans of reggae and other genres to a new space along the musical landscape.” Amazon If you aren’t familiar with reggae or dub, you owe it to yourself to experience Jah9’s powerful beats. And who doesn’t need to be reminded of the importance of the healthy things (like staying hydrated, working it out on our yoga mats, and eating well) that make our bodies feel good? Cue the needle and give yourself permission to celebrate.
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That said, they’re also passionate about skincare and beauty products. Here are their recs:
10. Back to Basics
With all the extract-, peptide-, vitamin-, ester-, and whatever-other-ingredient-packed lotions, creams, and serums on the market, sometimes it’s nice to evade the extras and moisturize with a single-ingredient option. Jess recommends Desert Essence 100% Jojoba Oil for Hair, Skin, and Scalp. Amazon Desert Essence is a trusted and easily accessible brand, and Jess told us, “I don’t use anything on my skin but this…I even wash my face with it.” Personally, I like to moisturize my legs with it immediately after shaving—especially on rainy days when I’m planning to wear a dress or skirt. True story: I have a weird thing about the feeling of my lotioned legs getting wet after the lotion was supposed to dry. Moisturizing with natural oils means no regret-worthy “lotion slime.”
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11. Eye Like It
Wendy’s a fan of Zuzu Luxe liquid eyeliner, as are over 250 other people who’ve given the product 4- and 5-star reviews. Amazon The eyeliner comes in not one, not two, but seven different colors, which means you can keep it classic with Raven (aka black) or get artsy with the copper-toned Luxor or bright blue Azure.
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One of the things that’s grounded and comforted Morgan during these (very relatable) changes? Tea, and more specifically, dessert tea from Tazo and Bigelow, which we can definitely get behind. She toldHealthyWay she can’t travel without buying these two options:
12. Something Yummy (And a Little Nostalgic)
Bigelow describes Morgan’s number one pick as “Yummy Caramel Tea,” but officially it’s called Salted Caramel. Amazon Each retro-looking box of goodness contains 20 individually wrapped tea bags in foil pouches, meaning it really is perfect to travel with, as air and moisture are locked out until you’re ready to pour yourself a cup of caramel brew. Note that this blend contains black tea, meaning caffeine.
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13. Do blondes really have more fun?
Well, we can’t really ask a tea that, but this Butterscotch Blondie blend from Tazo does come in delightful packaging. Amazon Considering that it contains black tea (so quite a bit of caffeine) and hints of sugar-free, sweetener-free butterscotch and vanilla, it has the potential to fuel a good time for any tea lover—regardless of your hair color.
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But she does so much more than that, like working as the global digital editor at Christian Louboutin, teaching at NYU, and giving those of us who are caffeine free an influencer-approved tea recommendation.
14. Loose Leaf, Caffeine-Free Tea in a Smart-Looking Tin
Nicole and (going by the Amazon reviews) a lot of other smart ladies are fans of this complex tea brought to you by Rishi, which means seer or sage. Fitting, considering the recommendation comes from an NYU professor… Amazon The Turmeric Ginger Ayurvedic blend is hot with a sweet finish, thanks to the inclusion of ginger, licorice, and Meyer lemon, which are all organic. According to Rishi, the pungency of the ginger root in this tea is well balanced, which is something we can aspire to as we pour ourselves a cup.
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In addition to curating a uniquely vibrant feed, Remy’s extremely knowledgeable when it comes to clean beauty, cruelty-free fashion, and living green. Naturally one of her favorite products combines the best of eating fresh with preventing food waste.
15. A Hug for Your Favorite Fruits and Veggies
What better way to say thanks to your fruits and veggies for all their natural deliciousness than by helping them last as long as possible rather than throwing spoiled pomegranate, tomato, onion, or other halves away? Amazon Remy recommends Farberware’s silicone Food Huggers, which will help you do just that without generating any plastic waste.
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She’s also outspoken about how she invests in self-care: from taking solo getaways to whipping up new meals that feature adaptogens and enjoying time at home.
16. Coconut for Days
Tori is a fan of Kopari—and not just because of their “let’s grab life by the coconuts” approach to creating products that “make you look gorgeous with ingredients that make you feel great.” She actually told HealthyWay that Kopari is among her favorite finds because she loves the women behind the company and that supporting brands that are made with love from the beginning is something she loves. Amazon Personally, I’m down to try their organic coconut melt because…massages.
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17. For Cultivating Your Green Thumb
When HealthyWay interviewed Tori back in May, she was reading Rose Ray, Caro Langton, and Ro Co’s House of Plants: Living with Succulents, Air Plants and Cacti, a hardcover that features gorgeous photography by Erika Rax. Amazon Considering that I had to turn the baby succulent my sister bought me a few months ago over to my husband in hopes that he can nurse it back to health, I could probably use this read—and I know I’m not alone. The book covers knowing, nurturing, and sharing your plants and is full of images that will inspire you to step up your plant mama game.
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In addition to inspiring people all over the world to get in shape, Shona knows the realities of working a 9 to 5 office job, struggling through tough breakups, and looking for inspiration from without to nourish the soul within. Thus, a recommendation we can all benefit from, especially on the rainy days.
18. What’s love got to do with it?
Well, everything, considering the book Shona told us helped her survive a tough breakup is titled Essays in Love. It’s written by Alain de Botton—a British-Swiss philosopher who believes in Art as Therapy (yes, my I-got-my-undergrad-in-philosophy-and-like-to-collage interest is piqued). Shona’s take? “I feel forever indebted to this book.” Amazon
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Nikki also notes that she started seeing exercise as a reward, not a punishment, and that shines through, especially in the many IG pics and videos in which she’s striking powerful yoga poses in stunning settings. Still, when it comes down to it, she makes it clear that life is first and foremost about the heart and mind, which makes these books, which were on Nikki’s bedside table back in May, all the more interesting.
19. “A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life”
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: You’ve probably heard of it before. It’s a No. 1 New York Times Bestseller with over 3 million copies sold (at least one of them to Nikki!) and over 4,000 reviews on Amazon, which is a lot. Amazon AmazonPeople say the book has changed their lives, made them better partners, and allowed them to appreciate the world more. Clearly Mark Manson—the blogger and entrepreneur who penned The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and Models: Attract Women Through Honesty, has earned himself a spot on many a nightstand.
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20. Something to Catch on to
Contagious is another New York Times bestseller that Nikki recommends. This read, by Jonah Berger—a professor at the illustrious UPenn Wharton School of business— is “a world-renowned expert on word of mouth, social influence, consumer behavior, and how products, ideas, and behaviors catch on.” Amazon Considering the warp speed at which our lives, screens, likes, and clicks are moving, these are ideas worth exploring.
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21. Are you willing to question everything (even if it’s just for a few minutes a day)?
The intro to Break the Norms: Questioning Everything You Think You Know About God and Truth, Life and Death, Love and Sex is written by none other than the Dalai Lama—which definitely says something about this pick. Chandresh Bhardwaj, the book’s author, is a meditation instructor and “seventh-generation spiritual healer” who’s trained in the tantric tradition. Break the Norms In addition to writing and teaching, Bhardwaj founded the Break the Norms non-profit, which seeks to create meditation communities “in every corner of the world with the purpose of awakening the divine consciousness within them, pulling them away from pre-programmed expectations of lack and loneliness, and facilitating a culture of abundance, gratitude, and self-awareness.” If you’re interested in exploring meditation and spirituality and the value of mentorship and devotion, this book belongs on your bedside table, too.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Break-Norms-Questioning-Everything-Think/dp/1622035410″]Get it on Amazon for $8.85[/link-button] [sul title=”Laura Scott of a Little Bit of Lacquer” subheader=”139k Instagram Followers”] Harvard MD, dermatologist, and mama Laura Scott doesn’t pull any punches when it comes to sharing her thoughts on skincare, social justice, and momming. In addition to sharing glimpses of her life with her beautiful husband and three energetic daughters, she also gives her followers regular doses of real talk about self-care and the changes she’s working to enact in the world.
We appreciate that during a HealthyWay interview she put the dermatologist’s stamp of approval on a very accessible product that has been familiar to most of us since we were littles.
22. Worth Its Weight in Gold
Laura told us, “I am obsessed with Dove Beauty Bars—old news for any dermatologist since we always recommend their sensitive skin bar.” Amazon She recently discovered their scented bars and said the Go Fresh Revive beauty bar was her spring 2018 favorite.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Dove-Fresh-Revive-Beauty-Cream/dp/B07G2T1CYP”]Get it on Amazon for $12.10[/link-button] [sul title=”Nutritionist and Functional Medicine Practitioner Jennie Miremadi” subheader=”34.7k Instagram Followers”] Intellectual property attorney turned integrative health and functional medicine practitioner Jennie Miremadi made a big impression on HealthyWay intern Abby Piper back in June. “Jennie gives her clients the tools they need to create lasting change,” wrote Abby. “She believes that by looking at food together with biochemistry, physiology, spirit, and psyche, we can achieve true wellness.”
Of course, we all exist at the crossroads of biochemistry, physiology, spirit, and psyche, and we can really enjoy and make the most of this when we drop in and dedicate ourselves to good self-care. For many of us, this is directly connected to making responsible, sustainable, cruelty-free purchases and using products that put a little pep in our step (or bounce in our bob?). Jennie’s product recommendation definitely checks those boxes, and then some.
23. A Hair Ritual
You might expect a nutritionist to give tips on the best food-related products, but Jennie actually shared that she recently discovered La Tierra Sagrada’s Dry Shampoo in brunette and loves it. “It’s not only made from completely natural ingredients like cacao, lavender flower, and he shou wu—it’s also brown so it doesn’t make my dark hair turn white, which happens with most other dry shampoos.” Amazon All La Tierra Sagrada—or the sacred earth—products are designed to facilitate “intentional ritual around our hair care.” Their luxe dry shampoos are available in blonde and brunette.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Tierra-Sagrada-Natural-Shampoo-Brunette/dp/B07F1DRFD4″]Get it on Amazon for $48[/link-button] [sul title=”Activist and Amma Emily Baldoni” subheader=”161k Instagram Followers”] Emily Baldoni is another woman whose creative work and family life I adore following. She’s the founder of AMMA—a company that’s “working to elevate the experience of motherhood” and is launching a brand new breastfeeding wrap—and the wife of Jane the Virgin star (and big-time activist) Justin Baldoni.
In addition to all the goodness the Baldoni family is putting out into the world, Emily also has great taste in reads. When HealthyWay interviewed her earlier this month, she said that she was getting ready to re-read a book that’s loved by many and has had a big impact on my creative life, too.
24. Something Magical 🦄
Emily calls Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert—as in the real-life Liz played by Julia Roberts in Eat, Pray, Love—“a fantastic book about creativity,” and she’s exactly right. Treat yourself to a little mental exercise as you reconnect with your innate creativity and see if you can get on board with the idea that ideas are out there in the world, waiting to come to fruition through you. Amazon I recommend picking it up in hardback. The cover alone is worth it.
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This past Christmas, my aunt gifted each of her sisters a jumbo jar of coconut oil because she loves it so much. She keeps a jar in the kitchen (it’s her favorite way to make light and airy stovetop popcorn) and a jar in the bathroom, where she slathers the coconut oil on her skin instead of regular lotion. Despite my aunt’s enthusiasm, my mom—who has notoriously sensitive skin—was skeptical about using coconut oil, especially when I told her I used it to treat my dog’s seasonal eczema with mixed success. Still, she tried it one night instead of her favorite nighttime facial moisturizer. The next morning, my mother woke up with a rash of angry, red bumps all over the lower part of her face and neck. My mom is far from the only one to suffer this same fate, which is why, to put it bluntly, I’m completely flummoxed by the fact that coconut oil continues to be touted as a great natural facial skincare solution. We talked to dermatologists to find out why you shouldn’t use coconut oil on your face. Here’s what they had to say.
Coconut oil is comedogenic.
“Coconut oil has one of the highest comedogenic ratings, which means that it could be a big problem for sensitive or blemish-prone skin,” explains dermatologist Paul Dean, MD, creator of Skin Resource.MD. “This means coconut oil can’t penetrate the pores and actually can suffocate your skin and will clog your pores because it sits on top of the skin.” What is a comedogenic rating? Essentially, beauty products are rated on a scale of 1 to 5 based on their pore-clogging potential, with 1 being the least likely to clog your pores, and 5 being reserved for the worst offenders. The scale doesn’t mean that every single product that’s considered highly comedogenic will clog your pores and cause breakouts, though. A lot of factors—like pore size and how oily or dry your skin is—also affect how your face will react to comedogenic products. But a higher rating does increase the likelihood that a comedogenic ingredient, like coconut oil (which scores a whopping 4 out of 5 on the scale!) will cause a negative reaction.
Coconut Oil for Your Face: Debunking the Myths
A quick Google search reveals that many people believe coconut oil is basically facial skincare magic. Even dermatologists (skincare experts, no less!) have hopped on the coconut-oil-for-your-face bandwagon. So do these purported claims have any merit? Here’s what our experts have to say.
Coconut Oil for Face Acne
Myth: Coconut oil can get rid of acne. Reality: “While coconut oil is soothing and contains lauric acid, it is never a good idea to put any oil on broken skin. It can clog the pores and irritate the skin and make the condition worse,” says Berenice Rothenberg, a certified clinical electrologist (CCE) and licensed cosmetologist practicing in New York.
[pullquote align=”center”]According to dermatologists, few topical collagen skin supplements live up to the hype, and coconut oil is no exception.[/pullquote] Rothenberg is right; coconut oil does contain high levels of lauric acid, a saturated fatty acid with antimicrobial properties. And lauric acid has been shown to reduce inflammation from acne, hence the claims that the lauric acid in coconut oil will result in clearer skin. It’s also true that coconut oil is a good antibacterial agent. In addition to being full of vitamin E, it also contains other proteins and caprylic acids that are known for their antifungal properties, says Dean. And since bacteria causes acne, coconut oil should be great for getting rid of bumps…right? Sadly, Dean says coconut oil “will actually act as a barrier and can cause or worsen acne-prone skin.” Alternative solutions for face acne: If you’ve turned to coconut oil for face acne, there are better ways to treat your acne. The best thing you can do to prevent acne according to Rothenberg? “Never go to sleep with your makeup on!” We love a good double cleanse, but for that first oil cleanse, avoid the coconut oil. Instead, Dean recommends grapeseed oil or hemp seed oil to remove makeup at the end of the day because, despite being oils, both have a low comedogenic rating. Rather avoid oils altogether? Another alternative is micellar water, a French skincare product that can be used as an all-in-one cleanser and makeup remover. (It really is a skincare miracle!) You can even make your own micellar water at home if you use herbalist Rebekah Epling’s recipe. After removing makeup with a makeup remover, you still need to cleanse your skin with a face wash that’s right for your skin type. For acne-prone skin, choose a face wash that contains benzoyl peroxide, an antibacterial agent that helps dry the skin to treat pimples. Or if you’re looking for an all-natural facial cleanser, try a face wash that contains witch hazel or lavender, both of which inhibit bacterial growth, according to Epling.
Coconut Oil as Facial Moisturizer
Myth: Coconut oil is a great facial moisturizer. Reality: “Coconut oil is primarily made up of saturated fats. This is great for repairing your skin’s natural barrier and trapping in moisture. Because of these properties it soothes rashes, combats dry, flaky skin, and speeds up the healing process,” says Dean. Sounds great, right? Well, from the neck down, coconut oil is a great moisturizer. But on your face? Not so much, says Dean. In fact, the very properties that make coconut oil work so well on your ashy elbows and cracked heels are the same properties that make it less than ideal for your face. Though it’ll make quick work of those areas where your skin is thicker, it’s just too heavy for most skin types, leading to clogged pores. Alternatives to using coconut oil for facial moisturizer: Ideally, facial moisturizers should keep your skin hydrated while remaining light enough that they don’t clog your pores. Aloe vera gel is a great all-natural moisturizer for all skin types. Like coconut oil, it can help soothe skin irritation and help wounds heal faster, but unlike coconut oil, it won’t clog your pores. Just make sure you look for aloe vera gel products that actually contain aloe vera—many of the aloe products sold by big-box retailers have been found to contain little or no aloe vera! And, says Rothenberg, don’t forget the power of drinking the daily recommended amount of water to keep your skin hydrated and healthy.
Coconut Oil for Face Wrinkles
Myth: Coconut oil can turn back time and minimize face wrinkles. Reality: Our bodies’ store of collagen, the protein that helps skin maintain elasticity, naturally depletes as we age. Because of its moisturizing properties, coconut oil is purported to be a great collagen-boosting supplement to improve skin elasticity and reduce wrinkles. But according to dermatologists, few topical collagen skin supplements live up to the hype, and coconut oil is no exception. “All oils, when applied to the skin, give the appearance of smoothing out lines,” says Rothenberg. “But these oils do not penetrate the basic layer and cannot produce collagen.” Alternatives to coconut oil for face wrinkles: While coconut oil won’t work to get rid of wrinkles, there are several things that do work to reverse early signs of aging—no expensive creams or serums required. For one, it’s no secret that UV rays can cause serious damage to your skin, so stay out of the sun as much as possible. I know how hard that can be for some of you sun goddesses, so if you must get your tan on, always wear a sunscreen with at least 30 SPF (even if it’s overcast). And, if you’re a smoker (even if it’s just the occasional cigarette), kicking the habit is key if you want to maintain a youthful glow. Plus, going smoke-free is just plain good for your overall health.
[pullquote align=”center”]“Look for coconut oil as an added ingredient in various skincare products so you can reap the benefits and use a product that can be used on most skin types.”
—Paul Dean, MD[/pullquote] Finally, your daily cardio may be doing more than keeping your booty toned; according to recent studies, daily exercise may actually help reverse the signs of aging. In addition to these lifestyle changes, getting more of certain antioxidants in your diet may help reduce the appearance of wrinkles. In particular, vitamin C may help reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles on your face.
Coconut Oil on Your Face Overnight
Myth: Coconut oil is a good overnight emollient. Reality: If you can’t even use coconut oil as a reliable daytime moisturizer because of its comedogenic properties, you sure as heck can’t leave coconut oil on your face overnight for eight hours. (Okay, who am I kidding? I get a full 10.) Using coconut oil overnight is a great way to get clogged pores and wake up to a breakout. Good morning, sunshine, indeed. Alternatives to coconut oil on your face overnight: Not all oils are bad for your face. Grapeseed oil and hemp seed oil aren’t just great makeup removers; they’re also wonderful as overnight emollients to soften skin as you sleep. “Jojoba oil has a low comedogenic rating as well,” says Epling, “It’s ideal as a carrier for other essential essences, like lavender or tea tree oil, to use overnight.”
Coconut oil can help other skin conditions.
I know I’ve been giving coconut oil a bad rap so far, but coconut oil actually is great for a variety of skin conditions (that aren’t on your face). In particular, coconut oil was shown to alleviate physical symptoms of atopic dermatitis—a skin condition that causes an itchy red rash—in pediatric patients. Another study found that in addition to reducing the appearance of atopic dermatitis, coconut oil was effective at combating colonization of Staphylococcus aureus, which produces a certain toxin that causes the immune system to react by breaking out in dry, scaly patches. Another study found that coconut oil was as effective as mineral oil in treating xerosis, a condition similar to atopic dermatitis that also causes dry, scaly skin. Finally, a 2010 study of animal subjects also should that wounds treated with virgin coconut oil healed much faster than those that were not treated with coconut oil. So, if you have a scrape or cut and don’t have Neosporin handy, a dab of coconut oil (and a cute bandage) may help your wound heal faster.
The Bottom Line on Coconut Oil
So here’s the deal: For a very, very small number of people, coconut oil may help skin conditions. As Dean puts it, “Using coconut oil directly on your skin can be extremely beneficial, but not good for everyone.” For instance, he says that for people with severely dry skin, coconut oil may help restore moisture content. But for most of us, using coconut oil on our faces will likely result in more breakouts and clogged pores. All is not lost, however. If you absolutely must have coconut oil as part of your facial skincare routine, Dean says to “look for coconut oil as an added ingredient in various skincare products so you can reap the benefits and use a product that can be used on most skin types.” The bottom line on coconut oil? Skip using coconut oil on your face, and stick to using coconut oil as a delicious addition to stovetop popcorn instead.
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Nobody ever said that planning a wedding was easy (and if anyone did say that, they’re a filthy, filthy liar). In order to make the day perfect, you’ll need a tremendous amount of patience. What you don’t need, contrary to popular belief, is a lot of money. You can customize pretty much every aspect of your wedding without breaking the bank. Etsy offers hundreds of high-quality, handmade wedding products for less than $20. We decided to share a few of our favorites.
1. “Propose” to your bridesmaids with these clever cards.
Being a bridesmaid isn’t easy. These handmade cards let you show your appreciation for your bridesmaids, bridesmen, and maids/matrons/men of honor. The front bears the message “Now act surprised, like you had no idea this was coming.” A ring and heart lets the recipient know what you’ve got in mind. Each card is printed on 100-pound cardstock, and the optional personalized drinking glass is a great add-on.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/566932311/now-act-surprised-like-you-had-no-idea”]”Now Act Surprised” Bridesmaid Proposal Cards, $3.75 on Etsy[/link-button]
2. Don’t make your bridesmaids spend a fortune on the dress.
That’s just bad form. Your bridesmaids will tell you they don’t mind paying $200 for their matching dresses, but they will be lying. No one wants to throw down serious cash on an outfit they’re only ever going to wear once. Choose an affordable option—preferably one they’ll want to wear again. And as a token of your gratitude for them having to shell out their money for a bridesmaid dress, give them something comfy to wear before the ceremony. Thanks to Etsy shop Hundred Hearts, you can outfit out your bridesmaids in gorgeous lace robes for as little as $15 apiece. Even better, these silky bridesmaid robes come in a ton of colors, so you’re sure to find something that matches your palette.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/602545308/silky-lace-robe-bridesmaid-robes-bride”]Custom Bridesmaid Robes, $15.00 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
3. Show your appreciation for your bridesmaids or groomsmen with these customizable gift boxes.
Each brown box has the recipient’s name printed in big, flowing script, so you won’t accidentally give the wrong gift to the wrong person. They’re made from high-quality cardboard, with dimensions of 9” x 4.5” x 4.5”. If that’s not big enough to fit your gift, consider making a “survival kit” with cosmetics, tissues, and other wedding day essentials.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/522327866/personalized-gift-box-bridesmaid-gift”]Personalized Gift Box, $3.61 on Etsy[/link-button]
4. Complete the wow factor of your cake with a gorgeous customized topper.
A wedding cake is so much more than a dessert. It’s a symbol of your commitment, of course, but it’s also an image guests can take with them long after the leftovers are in the freezer. That’s why it’s so important to get the right cake topper, and the folks at the LaserTree Etsy store are here to help. They offer a full range of food-safe cake toppers with a variety of finishes. Excited about taking the same last name? Go with the glittered single-letter monogram. Keeping names separate? Check out LaserTree’s selection of romantic slogans, like “I choose you” and “crazy in love,” each written out in a beautiful script.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/536060111/custom-elegant-rustic-cake-topper”]Custom Rustic Cake Topper, $14.44 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
5. Kick off your bachelorette slumber party with these chic kimono-style robes.
These gorgeous satin robes are remarkably affordable, and they make great gifts for bridesmaids. Choose from 14 colors; prices start at $13, although the “fits most” option is $19. That’s not much for a cute, comfy robe, is it? Etsy creator Lavish Robes ships via Priority Mail and offers monogram options on certain products. All robes should be machine washed with a gentle cycle and ironed with low heat.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/504657590/silk-bridesmaid-robes-set-14-colors-gift”]Silky Bridesmaid Robe Set, $13.00 and up on Etsy [/link-button]
6. Here’s a colorful bridal bouquet that will never wilt.
With all due respect to the floral industry, it doesn’t make that much sense to spend huge sums on a bouquet that’s bound to end up in the compost. We know you can dry them, but try dusting an old bunch of dry flowers after 25 years of marriage; compost starts to look like the right call. Some forward-thinking brides are opting for paper flower bouquets, like these beautiful offerings from FancyMadeFits on Etsy. Name your color palette and go. You can even make custom requests.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/522477518/rainbow-paper-flower-bouquet-colorful”]Paper Flower Bouquet, $19.00 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
7. This garter set features a gorgeous pearl-and-rhinestone setting.
Why settle for a simple garter? This unique set is made with a white elastic lace (other available colors include ivory, light blue, navy blue, black, and red). The rhinestone centerpiece looks amazing and should provide some extra weight when you throw it toward the groomsmen. Etsy creator LucyBridalBoutique also offers wedding baskets, hair combs, and other wedding essentials with a similar aesthetic, so be sure to check out their full selection.
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8. Here’s a gift for the ring bearer who takes his job seriously.
Back in the day, ring bearers carried their treasure on a pillow. That doesn’t seem very secure. Today’s ring bearers are serious about security, which is why they’ll love this alternative to the traditional ring pillow. It’s a classic briefcase, the kind you might find handcuffed to a government official, printed with the words “RING SECURITY.” Choose a size based on your ring bearer’s proportions. Match with a toy cuff for an adorable scene at the altar.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/195777412/ring-security-briefcase-ring-bearer”]Ring Security Briefcase, $19.95 and up on Etsy [/link-button]
9. This personalized wedding cake topper adds a nice flourish to your reception.
Made with natural wood and acrylic, this handmade cake topper features the text “Mr. and Mrs. Last Name,” with your last name, obviously, and the date of the wedding. It’s relatively inexpensive for a personalized wedding item, and the real wood doesn’t feel cheap or flimsy. It starts at $9.99, but we’d recommend picking up the optional memento box. Etsy creator PersonalizationLab offers additional customization options, so if you’ve got a great idea for a unique topper, send them a message.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/500690492/personalized-mr-mrs-last-name-date-heart”]Mr. & Mrs. Last Name Cake Topper, $9.99 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
10. Plan the perfect sand ceremony in any shade you can imagine.
Match the unity sand for your ceremony to your perfect overall palette—without waste or pollution. Colored sand options from Etsy shop The PICKED are extensive. Just take a look at the color chart available on the site to find your ideal shades. These sands are totally non-toxic and environmentally friendly, reports the seller. They don’t have free quartz or silica floating around, and with half-pound and full-pound orders available, you can get the amount you need, in every color you desire.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/514962357/wedding-sand-ceremony-100-natural-and”]Natural Wedding Sand, $2.98 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
11. Ask your bridesmaids to be a part of your big day with a message in a bottle.
Looking for a classy way to “propose” to your best friends? These personalized bottles should do the trick. A cork-topped bottle features the recipient’s name on the side; inside, a printed letter asks them to join you on your big day. You can customize the roles—so, for example, one letter might ask the recipient to be a matron of honor, while the other might ask them to be a flower girl, junior bridesmaid, or anything else—and the elegant, flowing script is a nice touch.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/557920455/will-you-be-my-bridesmaid-message-in-a”]”Message in a Bottle” Bridesmaid Proposal, $5.65 on Etsy[/link-button]
12. These soaps make great bridal shower gifts.
Showers are for washing, right? So why not send bridal shower guests home with a little hunk of handmade vegan soap to celebrate the occasion? These little soaps ship wrapped in an eco-friendly paper band that reads “From my shower to yours.” Alternately, you can choose “From our shower to yours.” Actually, you can have the labels say whatever you want; they’re customizable for a little extra fee.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/475736708/mini-soap-favors-set-of-10-baby-shower”]Bridal Shower Mini Soaps, $9.98 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
13. Give your bridesmaids a functional gift with these colorful compacts.
You’ll definitely need a few touch-ups on the big day, but so will your bridal party. These compact mirrors will help everyone look their best, and they’re the type of keepsake that they’ll actually want to keep. A push-button top opens to two mirrors (and yes, one of them is a magnifying mirror). The front of the mirror bears the recipient’s name sealed beneath a scratch-resistant resin/epoxy finish. The backside of the mirror is rounded.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/557609311/bridesmaid-compact-mirror-bridesmaid”]Bridesmaid Compact Mirror, $7.99 and up on Etsy [/link-button]
14. This is the perfect decoration for a “storybook” wedding.
When your two favorite English majors decide to tie the knot, there’s only one way to decorate the ceremony: with paper roses made from real discarded book pages. These book-page roses from Etsy seller FancyMadeFits combine the natural beauty of the flower with a little literary kick. Unfortunately, you can’t request particular books, since these are ecologically sourced from old, ruined books. So no Naked Lunch roses, which is probably a good thing, since your grandmother will be there.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/264907825/book-page-roses-set-of-12-paper-roses”]Book Page Roses, $8.00 on Etsy[/link-button]
15. It’s not a wedding in 2018 if there aren’t a few Mason jars.
When did Mason jars become wedding essentials? We don’t know, and we don’t care—we’re completely on board. These Mason jar mugs make a memorable keepsake for the bride and groom, wedding party, and/or guests, and they’re an essential pickup if you’re planning a chic wedding. Each mug bears the name of the bride and groom along with the date of the wedding. And they’re laser etched so they’re dishwasher safe.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/461360706/groom-and-bride-to-be-wedding-day-single”]Wedding Day Mason Jar, $9.10 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
16. Thank your wedding party with these gorgeous cards.
When the wedding’s over, you need to thank everyone who helped make the day special. A standard, by-the-numbers thank you card won’t work—and that’s where these hand-designed cards come into play. Printed on high-grade card stock, they feature an intricate graphic on the front and a blank interior. Choose from a variety of colors, then pick up your pen and tell your wedding party what you really think (positive thoughts only, of course).
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/195495812/wedding-thank-you-card-set-rustic”]Wedding Thank You Card Set, $10.00 on Etsy[/link-button]
17. If you’re tossing a garter at your wedding, this is the one to toss.
Odds are, the bride is only going to wear a garter once in her life. You may as well make the most of it. An Etsy store called LovingItDesigns offers a personalized, embroidered lace garter with your own special message. Maybe you just want to go with a name or both of your names. Maybe you’d prefer a cheeky little note to the catcher of the undergarment. “You’re Next!” is always popular. Anyway, these are available as garters to toss or keep. They’re even available as both. Choose between ivory or white lace. Just don’t ask to add a date; these do not include dates.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/546694682/personalized-wedding-garters-yes-this-is”]Embroidered Personalized Wedding Garters, $9.75 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
18. Simplify your wedding reception with these place card holders.
Sure, you could ask your guests to read confusing seating charts, but these affordable card holders are a much better option. Made from brass wire (gold, silver, copper, and black options are available), they’re a classy option for receptions, and they’re remarkably affordable. An angled bar on the front holds the name card in place.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/525059875/mod-place-card-holder-4-color-options”]Place Card Holder, $3.00 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
19. Bring a natural, woodsy aesthetic to your wedding table decorations.
Rustic chic is still in style at today’s high-fashion wedding. Pull off the look for less by sourcing your own centerpiece vases made of beautiful natural birch bark. These vases make ideal table decorations, and along with simple wildflower arrangements, they tie together the room with a warm, natural vibe. Pick up a few and hand them over to your florist for a professional touch. A great arrangement starts with the right vessel; this could be the one for you.
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20. These personalized clothes hangers add a nice touch to your wedding prep.
You’ve done all of the legwork, picked up all of the dresses and suits, fielded about a thousand calls from your mother, and somehow survived the bachelorette party. Now, all you’ve got to do is actually get dressed for the wedding. That’s where these custom hangers come into play. Are they necessary? Absolutely not—but they’re a great way to add your personal touch to those final few hours before the ceremony. Each high-quality hanger incorporates some text, and you can add a top date line for an extra $7.50.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/541026568/sale-personalized-wedding-hanger-with”]Personalized Wedding Hanger, $3.75 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
21. Once she says “yes,” you still have to pop the question to your ring bearer. Here’s a great way to do it.
Sure, your ring bearer might be 6 years old, but it’s still polite to ask. This easy-building jigsaw puzzle is a fun way to invite your chosen participant to be part of your wedding ceremony. It’s fully customizable, of course, so you can include your names—and the name of your ring-bearing hopeful—to the image itself. A whimsical font reads, “Will you be our ring bearer?” Of course, the recipient will have to do a little work before the message becomes legible. That’s what’s so fun about it! Kids love puzzles, and they love invitations, and therefore this is a thing that kids will love.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/538250670″]”Will You Be Our Ring Bearer” Puzzle, $7.20 on Etsy[/link-button]
22. When the bachelorette party gets going, guests will be grateful for these cute hair ties.
Who doesn’t love a pineapple? These hair ties feature your choice of wedding-themed message on a print of the cutest of all fruits. Bachelorette party favors are best when they employ dad-joke-worthy wordplay, and here’s a winner in the genre: “To have and hold…YOUR HAIR BACK.” This phrase appears on many of the 12 slogans you can choose for these party favors. Others include more earnest fare, like “I can’t tie the knot without you!” and the ever-classy “Thank you!” Choose your color of paper and ink for the label. No customization available on the cards, we’re afraid, but you’re bound to find the one that’s right for you.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/236699856/pineapple-bachelorette-hair-tie-favor”]Pineapple Bachelorette Hair Tie Favors, $1.91 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
23. Send wedding guests home with a reminder of your beach ceremony.
Nothing’s more romantic than a beach wedding, and some of the magic comes from the salty scent of ocean air. Here’s an adorable, hand-poured soy candle that exudes the freshness of a beach party. In fact, you don’t have to get married on the beach to bring the atmosphere to your ceremony; just light a few of these and enjoy! Each candle comes poured in a 4-ounce glass jar, complete with a traditional metal screw-on cap. Ask for customized paper labels to remind your guests of the special day. A length of twine with a cute metal starfish charm completes the package.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/263620632/beach-wedding-candlewedding-candle”]Beach Wedding Soy Candle Favors, $5.25 on Etsy[/link-button]
24. Bring a gentle glow to your outdoor wedding with these beautiful rustic fairy lights.
These warm-glowing LED lights bring a romantic ambiance to any nighttime event. But we’re here to talk about weddings, and these lights are built for the event. They’re powered by a few AA batteries and glow for something like 80,000 hours (or until the batteries run out, whichever happens first). Short strings make magical centerpieces coiled in a Mason jar. Longer lengths can transform a tree into a gigantic lamp. Bulbs appear regularly along silvery copper wire, which is easy to bend into shape. In short, if you’re throwing an outdoor wedding after the sun goes down, these fairy lights are the key to setting the scene.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/550734658/100-leds-10-meters-fairy-lights-wedding”]LED Fairy Lights, $1.71 and up on Etsy [/link-button]
25. When your save-the-date notice comes with a customized pencil, your guests can’t say they “forgot” to RSVP!
Your wedding really starts with your save-the-date notice. That’s your chance to prepare the guests for your style and color palette, providing a gentle hint as to what they can expect on the big day. So you can see why we love these wood-finished customized pencils. Professionals engrave the names of the couple along with the wedding date. Choose a backing card and envelope to complete the package. If you plan to elope, just order the single-pencil sample pack and keep it for yourself; it’s your wedding, after all!
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/516227047/save-the-date-pencil-us-in-wedding”]Engraved Save the Date Pencils, $1.31 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
26. When your girl is getting married, “OMG” is the only appropriate response.
It takes a special kind of friend to commemorate your wedding with a tattoo—unless, of course, you give them a shiny gold temporary tattoo for the bachelorette party. These flash tats say what was written all your friends’ faces when you told them you said yes: “OMG.” A huge diamond sticks up out of the O, adding a dash of bling to an already pretty blinged-out skin decoration. Tats come individually packaged for sanitary reasons, and they default to glittery gold; other colors are available through the Dunkirk Designs Etsy store.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/468220445/gold-bachelorette-party-flash-tats-omg”]OMG Gold Bachelorette Temporary Tattoos, $2.00 on Etsy[/link-button]
27. If you’re opting for cupcakes over a cake, these heart toppers make an adorable addition.
They feature a heart design inspired by the flag of Maryland (but if you’re not in Maryland, you can just ignore that little detail). The muted colors give them an elegant look, and they’re attached to a small wooden dowel for sticking into cupcakes or other snacks. You can get a set of 25 for $10; larger quantities are available at a reduced price per item.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/254594129/maryland-flag-cupcake-toppers-heart”]Maryland Flag Cupcake Toppers, $10.00 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
28. Say it loud, say it proud: You’re with the bride.
Psyched to be a bridesmaid? Ready for the bachelorette party? Why not tell the world? These shirts come in your choice of T or tank. Choose between two text options: “Bride” or “Squad.” Stand next to your bestie to show the world who you’re rolling with. These shirts make ideal gifts for bridal parties. They’re indispensable during a girls’ night out (including the ultimate girls’ night out, which is a bachelorette party). In fact, the only time when you probably shouldn’t wear your Bride Squad shirt is during the ceremony itself.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/609071598/bridesmaid-shirts-bridesmaid-proposal”]Bride/Squad Shirts, $12.99 and up on Etsy [/link-button]
29. Give your bachelorette a “tattoo” of her groom (or anyone else).
You really shouldn’t take the groom along on the bachelorette activities—that’s sort of the entire point of the party—but these temporary tattoos will bring him along in spirit. Upload his image, then choose your hashtag (other options are available for adding additional text). These temporary tats make for hilarious party favors, and they’re easy to wash off with soap and water. You know, just in case his all-knowing glare starts to freak you out.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/521442615/bachelorette-party-favors-bachelorette”]Temporary Tattoo Bachelorette Party Favors, $2.69 and up on Etsy [/link-button]
30. Let your guests request songs—while still letting the DJ do their thing.
These classy song request cards should help your DJ stay organized. Your guests simply write down their song request in a standard “Song Title – Artist” format, and the DJ can flip through them, filtering out all of the “Electric Slide” requests as needed. They’re available via digital download, so they’re a great last-minute addition before the reception. Customizations are available, courtesy of Etsy creator TheNiaDesigns.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/107154257/diy-printable-wedding-dj-song-request”]Printable Wedding DJ Song Request Card, $10.00 on Etsy[/link-button]
31. Keep your guests hydrated well into the night with these engraved steel bottles.
The wedding day can get long. That’s great, since it’s a blessed event and everything, but you can’t have guests passing out on the dance floor. You’ve got to keep everyone hydrated. That’s what makes these tasteful steel bottles such great bridal party gifts. Choose your text—you get two lines of up to 14 characters each, so there’s plenty of room—and hand them out at the reception. They’ll make great keepsakes, and since they’re stainless steel, they’ll last forever. The walls are double insulated, so they’re pretty good for coffee, too. During the wedding, though, maybe everyone should stick to water.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/485351729/engraved-personalized-stainless-steel”]Personalized Steel Water Bottles, $19.99 on Etsy[/link-button]
32. These engraved corkscrews make great gifts for groomsmen.
The wooden handle is engraved with the name and role of the recipient along with the year of the wedding. Etsy creator ForeverWeddingCrafts notes that they can customize the handle to say “anything,” so if you’ve got additional ideas for customization, be sure to contact them. Eight design options are available. Each bottle opener also contains a corkscrew and an additional fold-out opener. If you want to give the type of gift that they’ll actually use for years after the big day, this is an excellent option.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/619464834/groomsmen-gift-idea-personalized-bottle”]Personalized Bottle Openers and Corkscrews, $9.99 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
33. Remind your husband-to-be why he’s marrying you in the first place.
You’re not supposed to see the groom before you walk down the aisle. It’s bad luck. But that doesn’t mean you can’t send him a little reminder that when you said “yes,” he lucked out big time. This adorable gift bag is the perfect way to send your love while he’s in quarantine with the groomsmen. It’s a simple drawstring sack made of natural cotton. Hand-printed text reads, “Husband to be, a little gift for you before we say ‘I do.'” You can add custom text, like the time of your ceremony, or your name. The real gift is your marriage, of course, but a token like this certainly won’t hurt.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/278565986/wedding-day-husband-to-be-personalised”]Husband-to-Be Gift Bag, $2.97 and up on Etsy[/link-button]
34. If you haven’t considered a silicone wedding ring, this might convince you.
No one grows up dreaming of the beautiful silicone wedding band they’ll slip on at the ceremony. That’s a shame. Silicone actually has a lot going for it. It’s safe, comfortable, and totally hypoallergenic. It can even prevent injuries—don’t even ask what a “ring avulsion” is. And they can actually look pretty good. These silicone wedding bands from Knot Theory offer a gorgeous, low-cost alternative to precious-metal rings. Some couples use them as substitutes for when they travel or when metal rings might interfere with work. Others pick silicone from the get-go. Have a look; this could be the answer to your wedding-band woes.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/254807426/silicone-wedding-ring-band-by-knot”]Silicone Wedding Band, $19.99 on Etsy[/link-button]
35. Send your guests home with the gift of music.
It’s customary to give gifts at weddings and not just to the bride and groom. You might give keepsakes to the bridal party, the groomsmen, or even all your guests. This might be the most romantic wedding gift we’ve seen, and we spend a lot of time on Etsy. This small cardboard music box has a classic, almost antique charm. A music staff and Italian text complete the look. The real magic happens when you give the thing a crank. Even better, you get to choose your favorite melody from a pretty extensive list. We’d go with the “Gymnopédies” by Erik Satie, but maybe you’re more of a Game of Thrones theme type. Shoot, you can even pick “Jingle Bells” if you want.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/161867719/music-box-musical-staff-hand-cranked”]Hand-Cranked Music Box Gift, $13.71 on Etsy[/link-button]
36. When you say “I do,” feel it in your sole.
Sorry, but we couldn’t let that pun slip by. These removable stickers are easy to apply; peel them back, then press them to the arch of your shoes. The adhesive crystals spell out “I do,” with the “o” in the shape of a wedding ring. Sure, nobody will see these during the ceremony, but they’ll catch a glimpse while you’re dancing at the reception, and they’re a lot of fun to display during your wedding pictures. Each order includes a cute instruction card.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/103815073/i-do-wedding-shoe-stickers-in-silver”]I DO Wedding Shoe Stickers, $7.00 on Etsy[/link-button]
37. You might want to send these socks to the groom, just in case.
Some folks get really nervous as the wedding day approaches. Most, even. This might not be the best time to make jokes about “cold feet.” On the other hand, when better to make those jokes? These personalized socks will give some guys a chuckle while provoking anxiety attacks in others, so know your audience. “So you don’t get…cold feet,” they say. “Love [your name here].” Oh man, what if you were freaking out in the dressing room and these socks turned up? That would either be hilarious or the opposite of hilarious.
[link-button href=”https://www.etsy.com/listing/469868799/personalised-so-you-dont-cold-feet-socks”]”So You Don’t Get Cold Feet” Socks, $5.30 on Etsy[/link-button]
With the amount of shady products for sale on the internet, it can be hard to buy something you can trust. Even the world’s biggest online store has been infiltrated with fakes, knockoffs, and counterfeit products that are at best simply annoying and at worst downright dangerous. Luckily, Amazon’s reviews feature makes it easier to suss out which products are worth your time and which ones are truly deserving of a 1-star review.
We looked through literally hundreds of items on Amazon (you’re welcome) to find 50 amazing products that have at least 1,000 5-star reviews. Note that this doesn’t mean these products’ reviews are all 5 stars on average, but of their many reviews, at least 1,000 of them give the product the highest marks possible. Ready to dive in and see which products are worth ordering?
Beauty
Avoid the counterfeit products: Anything on our list of beloved beauty products is legit.
[sol title=”Aztec Secret Indian Healing Clay” subheader=”13,101 5-star reviews out of 18,218 total reviews – 4.4/5 average”]
If you’ve been on a beauty website at any point in, oh, the last five years, you’ve probably at least heard of the Aztec Secret Indian Healing Clay Mask. Aztec Secret claims it’s the world’s most powerful facial and plenty of reviews—over 13,000 5-star reviews, in fact—seem to agree. It’s made of 100 natural calcium bentonite clay; Aztec Secret says that clays have been used since the time of Cleopatra as a natural beauty treatment. Who wouldn’t want to be like Cleopatra? (Well, minus the snake thing.) Aztec Secret Indian Healing Clay / Amazon
The Aztec Secret clay, which comes from Death Valley, California, is meant to be used just five to 10 minutes at a time to cleanse your pores and draw out impurities. At under $10, it’s definitely worth a shot for a head-to-toe treatment.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Aztec-Secret-Cleansing-Original-Bentonite/dp/B0014P8L9W/”]Get it on Amazon for $8.30[/link-button]
[sol title=”Thayers Alcohol-Free Rose Petal Witch Hazel with Aloe Vera” subheader=”8,416 5-star reviews out of 10,645 total reviews – 4.5/5 average”]
We’ve written about Thayers before and we really do love it. It’s a cheap witch hazel toner that works on just about every skin type. In fact, it’s the favorite choice of 8,400 reviewers, who all gave it 5 stars on Amazon. Thayers Alcohol-Free Rose Petal Witch Hazel with Aloe Vera / Amazon
The best part about Thayers’ witch hazel is that it comes in alcohol-free varieties, so while the witch hazel will act as a natural and gentle astringent you may be looking for in a toner, you won’t have to deal with overly drying alcohol. Plus, the rose petal and aloe vera combination is divine and will definitely make you feel fancy.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Thayers-Alcohol-free-Petal-Witch-Hazel/dp/B00016XJ4M”]Get it on Amazon for $9.29[/link-button]
[sol title=”TruSkin Naturals Vitamin C Serum” subheader=”7,221 5-star reviews out of 9,826 total reviews-4.3/5 average”]
Who doesn’t love a good serum? This vitamin C serum is made with vitamin E and hyaluronic acid that work together to combat signs of aging like dark spots, wrinkles and lines, and general dullness. TruSkin Naturals Vitamin C Serum / Amazon
There are plenty of $50+ vitamin C serums on the market but the 7,000 5-star reviews on this product don’t lie. It’s a plant-based formula you can feel comfortable wearing, knowing that its active botanical ingredients are safe for all skin types.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/TruSkin-Naturals-Vitamin-Topical-Hyaluronic/dp/B01M4MCUAF/”]Get it on Amazon for $19.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”Bio-Oil Multiuse Skincare Oil” subheader=”3,626 5-star reviews out of 3,817 total reviews – 4.1/5 average”]
Skin oils are poppin’ these days, so it’s time for you to hop on the bandwagon. Bio-Oil was originally developed and dermatologist-tested for use on scars and stretch marks, but as oils for skin have become more popular, more and more people are buying it to help other skin issues, like dry skin, wrinkles, and uneven skin tone. It’s gotten a lot of love in the industry and on Amazon—3,600 people have given it 5 stars, which shows just how varied its uses (and fans) are. Bio-Oil Multiuse Skincare Oil / Amazon
It’s hypoallergenic and non-comedogenic (meaning it won’t clog your pores), plus its many botanical ingredients—calendula, lavender, rosemary, and chamomile oils—are gentle on all skin types.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Bio-Oil-200ml-Multiuse-Skincare-6-7oz/dp/B00AREGVUM”]Get it on Amazon for $22.33[/link-button]
[sol title=”Burt’s Bees 100% Natural Moisturizing Lip Balm” subheader=”3,115 5-star reviews out of 3,817 total reviews – 4.6/5 average”]
Yes, Burt’s Bees is still around, and yes, their stuff is still awesome. Compare this lip balm to the “leading brand,” and you’re sure to see a difference: Burt’s Bees uses 100 naturally derived ingredients, meaning no parabens, phthalates, or sulfates. Burt’s Bees 100% Natural Moisturizing Lip Balm / Amazon
These lip balms are made with beeswax—of course!—plus vitamin E and peppermint oil to hydrate dry lips and give a little tingle. At under $8 for a pack of four, we’re not saying no.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Burts-Bees-Moisturizing-Original-Peppermint/dp/B0054LHI5A”]Get it on Amazon for $7.59[/link-button]
[sol title=”LilyAna Naturals Rosehip & Hibiscus Eye Cream” subheader=”2,442 5-star reviews out of 3,538 total reviews – 4.3/5 average”]
An eye cream for under $20? We’ve gotta be kidding, right? Fortunately for us all, we are not kidding; this eye cream really is a guaranteed (5)star by over 2,000 people. LilyAna Naturals manufactures this (beautifully packaged) rosehip and hibiscus eye cream at their FDA-registered and USDA organic–certified facility; it’s vegan-friendly, cruelty-free, and smells incredible. Plus, it’s made with vitamin C, vitamin E, rosehip seed oil, and organic hibiscus flower extract—botanical ingredients that pack a real punch. LilyAna Naturals Rosehip & Hibiscus Eye Cream / Amazon
Not convinced? They even offer a 30-day money back guarantee; that’s how sure they are that you’re going to love this eye cream. Be sure to check out the before and after pics that customers have shared in the reviews—if those don’t convince you this cream is the real deal, what will?
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Cream-Moisturizer-Natural-Anti-Aging/dp/B00LV6VDG2/”]Get it on Amazon for $17.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”EltaMD UV Clear Broad-Spectrum SPF 46 Facial Sunscreen” subheader=”2,320 5-star reviews out of 3,099 total reviews – 4.4/5 average”]
EltaMD is a huge player in the SPF game so when we saw that one of their sunscreens has over 3,000 total reviews—2,300 of which are 5 stars—we had to look into it further. It’s key to wear a broad spectrum sunscreen and this SPF 46 oil-free sunscreen checks all the boxes! EltaMD UV Clear Broad-Spectrum SPF 46 Facial Sunscreen / Amazon
This sunscreen is derm-approved because it won’t clog pores or cause any sensitivity issues. On top of being the perfect choice for a daily sunscreen that’ll protect you from the sun’s rays, it also contains niacinamide, a skin-restoring ingredient, and hyaluronic acid that aids in moisture and hydration.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/EltaMD-Clear-Facial-Sunscreen-Broad-Spectrum/dp/B002MSN3QQ/”]Get it on Amazon for $33[/link-button]
[sol title=”BS-Mall Rose Gold Makeup Brush Set” subheader=”2,191 5-star reviews out of 3,029 total reviews – 4.5/5 average”]
There are a lot of makeup brush brands on the market, which seems great—we love having choices! But from high-end choices that run $30+ a brush to more affordable drugstore sets, it can be hard to know which ones blend beautifully…and won’t shed worse than your furbaby. This synthetic brush set, which has nearly 2,200 5-star reviews, is a solid choice when you need a lot of brushes that really don’t suck. BS-Mall Rose Gold Makeup Brush Set / Amazon
The set comes with five kabuki-style face brushes and nine eye brushes for eyeshadow application and blending, eyeliner, and eyebrow work. Plus they’re rose gold and we’re never not going to love rose gold.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/BS-MALL-Premium-Synthetic-Foundation-Concealers/dp/B01LZ3RLPC”]Get it on Amazon for $10.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”Dermal Korea Collagen Essence Full Face Facial Mask Sheet, 16 Combo Pack” subheader=”2,126 5-star reviews out of 3,108 total reviews – 4.3/5 average”]
Sheet masks can be a little controversial: Some people swear by them and mask five nights a week, while others think they’re a waste of time. If you haven’t made up your mind on the issue yet, this pack of 16 Dermal Korea sheet masks are the best way to test it for yourself—for under $11! Dermal Korea Collagen Essence Full Face Facial Mask Sheet / Amazon
There are 16 different masks here, all targeted to a different issue, and the set has earned itself over 2,000 5-star reviews. Some of our favorites include the aloe mask, which soothes the skin; the charcoal mask, which sinks deep into your pores; the smail, which uses snail secretion extract (yes, from real snails) to aid skin cell regeneration; and the hyaluronate, which uses hyaluronic acid to seriously hydrate. And that’s only four! Try out these and the other four for yourself today—just don’t forget to let us know what you think.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00BAM7F8C”]Get it on Amazon for $10.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”COXRX Acne Pimple Master Patch” subheader=”1,739 5-star reviews out of 3,035 total reviews – 3.9/5 average”]
We’re of the opinion that these COSRX Pimple Patches should have way more than 1,700 5-star reviews. They work a treat on acne that’s come to a head on the surface of the skin and can nearly clear up a breakout overnight. COSRX Acne Pimpe Master Patch
They won’t work on under-the-skin acne, like cystic acne, and that seems to have been the source of some of the more negative reviews, but when used properly—and with reasonable expectations—these pimple patches just may become your new best friend.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/COSRX-Pimple-Master-Patch-Patches/dp/B00PBX3TN6″]Get it on Amazon for $4.97[/link-button]
Books
Books that almost everyone agrees are amazing really do exist.
[sol title=”Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are So You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be by Rachel Hollis” subheader=”3,853 5-star reviews out of 4,201 total reviews – 4.9/5 average”]
Heads up: This is currently the No. 1. Most read book on the Amazon Charts. So yeah, you might want to get on it. With nearly 4,000 5-star reviews, this book (from February 2018) by CEO Rachel Hollis has resonated with thousands of readers in a very short amount of time.
Throughout the book, Hollis talks about 20 different lies we tell ourselves and misconceptions we believe that ultimately hold us back from achieving our goals. It’s not all negative either: She also includes specific, actionable advice that everyone can try to figure out what’s going to make you happy and how to get there.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Wash-Your-Face-Believing/dp/1400201659/”]Get it on Amazon for $13.79[/link-button]
[sol title=”Educated: A Memoir by Tara Westover” subheader=”1,486 5-star reviews out of 1,868 total reviews – 4.7/5 average”]
Another winner on the Amazon charts (with 5 stars from almost 1,500 readers), Educated is one book that’s sure to take you out of your comfort zone and make you really examine that opportunities you’ve had in life. Westover was born into a secluded, religious family, was lightly “homeschooled” in topics of herbalism and midwifery, and experienced things no child should.
Though she didn’t step into a classroom until age 17, Westover ended up attaining a bachelor’s degree from Brigham Young University and ended up getting her PhD from the University of Cambridge. Educated is a true story of tenacity, religion, socioeconomic class, access, resources, and feminism—and is an incredibly honest look at a life most of us could never imagine.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Educated-Memoir-Tara-Westover/dp/0399590501″]Get it on Amazon for $16.80[/link-button]
[sol title=”Crazy Rich Asians by Kevin Kwan” subheader=”1,076 5-star reviews out of 2,288 total reviews – 4.1/5 average”]
You’ve probably heard of Crazy Rich Asians by now—the movie adaptation of this 2014 book that stars Constance Wu and Henry Golding was released on Aug. 7, 2018. Before you see the movie, why not read the book?
Kevin Kwan’s first novel in this trilogy received plenty of praise from The New York Times and The Boston Globe (and 5 stars from over 1,000 Amazon reviewers). The movie holds a 93 percent Rotten Tomatoes rating and grossed $25.2 million in its opening weekend. Get it while it’s hot.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Crazy-Rich-Asians-Trilogy/dp/0345803787″]Get it on Amazon for $9.60[/link-button]
Fashion
Yes, you can buy cute things on Amazon. We’ll prove it.
[sol title=”Mancro Laptop Backpack” subheader=”3,129 5-star reviews out of 4,976 total reviews – 4.3/5 average”]
Look, we all love a cute shoulder bag for work: They’re stylish and they can go with you from office to dinner, but, well, they hurt. If you’re just using your bag for some light papers, you may not need anything more sturdy, but if you’re bringing your laptop with you to and from work, a backpack is where it’s at. Mancro Laptop Backpack / Amazon
Not only is this choice from Mancro solid enough to keep your back and shoulders in-line, it is an organizer’s dream, so say 3,000 5-star reviews. With three main pockets (one of which is a separate, padded space just for your laptop), nine inner pockets, and two sealed outside pockets, you’ll have a space for everything you need day and night. Add in a theft-proof combination lock and we’re completely on board.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Backpack-Computer-Resistant-Business-Mancro/dp/B01LY3QXGP/”]Get it on Amazon for $29.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”Everest Signature Waist Pack” subheader=”2,071 5-star reviews out of 2,970 total reviews – 4.4/5 average”]
Bum bags are back—sorry ’90s kids! Whether you call them waist packs or bum bags (skip the “fanny pack” phrasing to seem a bit more au courant), these little bags are perfect for quick trips running errands and for longer events like hiking or festivals. Everest Signature Waist Pack / Amazon
When you need your hands to be free for bags, leashes, or drinks, there’s nothing better than having a little bum bag by your side. There are 2,000 people on Amazon who loved them enough to fork over those 5 stars.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003BHCWEQ”]Get it on Amazon for $7.65[/link-button]
[sol title=”Leopardd Leather Wallet” subheader=”2,052 5-star reviews out of 2,742 total reviews – 4.6/5 average”]
A leather wallet for under $20? Don’t ask; we’re just going by the 2,000+ 5-star reviews. Leopardd Leather Wallet / Amazon
This small wallet is perfect for minimalists who don’t want to carry a small duffel bag every time they leave the house: It’s big enough for your ID, 10 cards, bills, and coins, but zips up small enough to fit in your back pocket! It comes in 12 different colors and blocks RFID readers from scanning your cards.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Blocking-Leather-Wallet-Womens-Genuine/dp/B00WSAOTZW/r”]Get it on Amazon for $17.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”icyzone Racerback Tank Top” subheader=”1,078 5-star reviews out of 1,712 total reviews – 4.3/5 average”]
We’re the first to admit that we love those bougie workout and athleisure clothing brands…but sometimes paying upwards of $60 for one tank top doesn’t exactly feel financially responsible. That’s why we were excited to find this women’s racerback tank top that has over a thousand 5-star reviews. icyzone Racerback Tank Top / Amazon
At only $20 for a pack of three (and around $9 for just one), we’re ready to buy one in every color—and there are a lot of choices available.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/icyzone-Activewear-Running-Workouts-Racerback/dp/B0713WY9M2/”]Get it on Amazon for $8.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”COCOSHIP Retro Flounce High Waist Bikini” subheader=”1,047 5-star reviews out of 1,724 total reviews – 4.3/5 average”]
Amazon bikinis are the best. Seriously. If you were to do a poll of women wearing the cutest swimsuits at the beach, we’d bet money that a lot of them are wearing swimsuits they got on Amazon. COCOSHIP Retro Flounce High Waist Bikini / Amazon
This high-waist bikini in particular is a big fave of ours (and of 1,000 people who rated it 5 stars). It comes in 20 different color ways so at this price, you could buy a few to mix and match!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/COCOSHIP-Antigua-Flounce-Falbala-Swimsuit/dp/B076RHLCKM”]Get it on Amazon for $26.99[/link-button]
Fun + Games
Whether you’re looking for a new hobby, a fun gift for a friend, or something to entertain yourself, we rounded up the products that get major love.
[sol title=”Cards Against Humanity” subheader=”29,083 5-star reviews out of 32,412 total reviews – 4.8/5 average”]
The “party game for horrible people” has been one of the most popular games of the past seven years. If you haven’t played it yet, brace yourself for one of the most offensive but hilarious games that’s ever been made. With nearly 30,000 5-star reviews, you’re missing out. Cards Against Humanity / Amazon
If you have played it at a friend’s and don’t have your own copy—what are you waiting for?!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Cards-Against-Humanity-LLC-CAHUS/dp/B004S8F7QM”]Get it on Amazon for $25.00[/link-button]
[sol title=”BalanceForm GoYoga All-Purpose Yoga Mat” subheader=”5,229 5-star reviews out of 7,730 total reviews – 4.3/5 average”]
Time to get your flow on! Step onto the mat with this BalanceForm all-purpose yoga mat. This half-inch thick yoga mat, beloved by 5,000 Amazon reviewers, is perfect for those of us yogis who need a little more cushion for the pushin’, but its double-sided non-slip surface means our bare toes will stick to the mat in any pose. BalanceForm GoYoga All-Purpose Yoga Mat / Amazon
Choose from seven different colors (or get one for every day of the week—we wouldn’t judge). It even comes with a carrying strap for when you want to to yoga on the go!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/BalanceFrom-BFGY-AP6RD-Anti-Tear-Exercise-Carrying/dp/B00FO9ZRYQ”]Get it on Amazon for $17.95[/link-button]
[sol title=”Fujifilm Instax Mini 9″ subheader=”1,528 5-star reviews out of 2,121 total reviews – 4.6/5 average”]
If you thought the bum bag/waist pack was a throwback, brace yourself for the Instax camera. After years of using grainy point-and-shoot cameras up through the evolution of the iPhone X (which you’re probably using wrong, by the way), film has made a comeback, at least according to 1,500 Amazon reviewers who say the Instax Mini 9 is the ideal photography tool. Instax Mini 9 / Amazon
But of course, as the humans we’ve become with three-second attention spans à la goldfish, we want it now. Instant film is hot: Take a snap, wait for it to develop, take a picture of that picture on your phone, and put it on Instagram. Then wait for the likes to roll in.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Fujifilm-Instax-Mini-Instant-Camera/dp/B06WWBTB3G”]Get it on Amazon for $56[/link-button]
[sol title=”Strathmore Series Sketch Pad” subheader=”1,232 5-star reviews out of 1,462 total reviews – 4.7/5 average”]
It’s time to get arty and party. Relieve a little stress with some doodling—or some serious pro-level sketching. A sketch pad is a great (and cheap) way to get started on a new hobby. Strathmore Series Sketch Pad / Amazon
Whether you’re aiming to create realistic portraits, try your hand at, well, hand-lettering, or you just feel the compulsion to create whatever comes to mind, a handy-dandy notebook like this 100-page sketch pad, which has 1,200 5-star ratings, might just be for you.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Strathmore-400-Sketch-Pads-12/dp/B0027A39PY”]Get it on Amazon for $10.43[/link-button]
[sol title=”Winsor & Newton Cotman Watercolor Painting Set” subheader=”1,045 5-star reviews out of 1,407 total reviews – 4.6/5 average”]
Painting more your speed? Try out this watercolor painting set to discover your inner artist. Winsor & Newton Cotman Water Color Painting Set
This set comes with 8 tubes of Cotman watercolor paints and one No. 5 brush, complete with a plastic carrying case so you can get your art on wherever you go. Head outdoors and just see what you can create—it might be the beginning of a brand new hobby. And with a thousand 5-star reviews, for only about $30, it’s worth a shot.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Winsor-Newton-Cotman-Colour-Painting/dp/B000PD3LYY”]Get it on Amazon for $31.24[/link-button]
[sol title=”Knock Knock To-Do List Pad” subheader=”1,017 5-star reviews out of 1,244 total reviews – 4.7/5 average”]
Constantly losing your to-do list? Do you not even have a to-do list? You might want to consider one of these Knock Knock pads that will help even the most unorganized person sort through what they need to do every single day. Knock Knock To Do List / Amazon
From tasks to errands to correspondence, you can be sure you won’t miss a thing—as long as you don’t forget to write it down.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/dp/1601061528″]Get it on Amazon for $7.08[/link-button]
Home
Make your home the coziest ever with these incredible picks.
[sol title=”Mellanni Bed Sheet Set” subheader=”31,665 5-star reviews out of 42,904 total reviews – 4.4/5 average”]
That’s not a typo: This sheet set really does have over 31,000 5-star reviews. You can get these sheets in any bed size and 39 colors and patterns; each set comes with one fitted sheet, one flat sheet, and two pillow cases. Plus they’re fade-, stain-, shrink-, and wrinkle-resistant, making them a perfect choice for daily use, kids, and guests. Mellanni Bed Sheet Set / Amazon
The reviews are pretty effusive, with some of those 31,000 5-star reviewers saying these are the softest sheets they’ve ever felt and the best sheets they’ve ever slept on. At around $30 and under for all sizes, they’re definitely worth a try.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Mellanni-Bed-Sheet-Set-Hypoallergenic/dp/B00NLLUMOE”]Get it on Amazon for $18.97[/link-button]
[sol title=”URPOWER Essential Oil Diffuser and Cool Mist Humidifier” subheader=”21,041 5-star reviews out of 28,340 total reviews – 4.5/5 average”]
Whether you’re looking forward to jumping on the essential oil train or you just need a humidifier to tackle dry skin or stuffy noses, this URPOWER device does it all. Just put the 100 percent pure essential oil of your choice into this diffuser to spread their scent throughout your house—try chamomile or lavender for serious relaxation! URPOWER Essential Oil Defuser and Cool Mist Humidifier / Amazon
This diffuser/humidifier combo is also safe for babies and children as the humidifier puts out cool mist, instead of the potentially harmful hot mist. Plus with a seven-color LED light built in, you’ll have a cute little night light on top of it! Over 21,000 people have given this 5 stars, and it’s easy to see why.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/URPOWER-Essential-Humidifier-Adjustable-Waterless/dp/B00Y2CQRZY”]Get it on Amazon for $16.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”Linenspa White Down Alternative Quilted Comforter” subheader=”4,780 5-star reviews out of 6,736 total reviews – 4.4/5 average”]
In the market for a new comforter or duvet cover? This cheap down alternative comforter is the best choice on Amazon. It’s the No. 1 best seller in their duvets and down comforters category and has nearly 5,000 5-star reviews. Unlike true down comforters, this won’t irritate allergies or poke you with feathers in the middle of the night. Instead, this reversible, microfiber comforter has hypoallergenic down alternative fill that will keep you warm in winter and cool in summer. Linenspa White Down Alternative Quilted Comforter / Amazon
It’s not just a comforter though; it also has eight duvet corner and side loops so you can use it as a duvet with your favorite duvet cover. Ranging in price from $29.99 to $79.99 depending on size (and yes, they’re all available), you won’t find a high quality comforter/duvet insert that’s this affordable anywhere else.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/LINENSPA-All-Season-Alternative-Quilted-Comforter/dp/B00VGR4VW4″]Get it on Amazon for $29.99 – $79.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”Safavieh California Shag Rug” subheader=”4,168 5-star reviews out of 5,240 total reviews – 4.6/5 average”]
Sink your toes into this shag rug from Safavieh, one of the most popular rug brands around. No matter what size you’re looking for, they’ve got you: This rug comes in 27 sizes from 2’3″ x 5′ to 8′ x 10′, and in all shapes, too. Plus with 13 colors, you’ll definitely be able to find one that matches your home. This rug is Safavieh’s No. 1 selling shag rug and it’s Amazon’s highest reviewed shag rug as well. Safavieh California Shag Rug / Amazon
The great thing about shag rugs—besides how they remind you of the ’70s—is how plush and cozy they are. Since thousands of reviews say it’s incredibly soft and never sheds, you’ll be set for years.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Safavieh-California-Premium-Collection-SG151-1313/dp/B0051HEDFK/”]Get it on Amazon for $35.99 – $567.00[/link-button]
[sol title=”Vivere Double Hammock” subheader=”3,795 5-star reviews out of 4,733 total reviews – 4.4/5 average”]
Head outside with this double hammock from Vivere that comes with its own stand. The hammock can comfortably accommodate two adults or four wiggly kids—or any combination thereof up to 450 pounds. It comes in cotton, polyester, and a weather-resistant Sunbrella fabric, so you can rest assured knowing your new fave place to doze off is a high-quality purchase. Vivere Double Hammock / Amazon
Choose from 15 fabrics, set it up within minutes, and join the 3,800 people who gave it 5-star in reading—and napping—in the great outdoors.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Vivere-Double-Hammock-Space-Saving/dp/B00AXN35WY”]Get it on Amazon for $89.97[/link-button]
[sol title=”Ikee Design Acrylic Storage Set” subheader=”3,613 5-star reviews out of 5,639 total reviews – 4.3/5 average”]
This is the best little drawer set for storing skincare, makeup, or jewelry. Personally, I use it for makeup and I’ve found that the four drawers are perfect for mascara, powder, and eyeshadows while the top tray holds brushes, lipsticks, and more. Ikee Design Acrylic Storage Set / Amazon
At 9.5″ wide and 5.5″ deep, it fits perfectly on my makeup table while still managing to hold a lot of my stuff. Add my voice to the over 3,000 5-star reviews—this acrylic set is well-worth the money.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Ikee-Design-Acrylic-Jewelry-Cosmetic/dp/B00DUJEWDE/”]Get it on Amazon for $13.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”AmazonBasics Velvet Hangers” subheader=”3,459 5-star reviews out of 4,617 total reviews – 4.5/5 average”]
In the words of Faye Dunaway in Mommie Dearest, “No wire hangers!” (And if you’re still using plastic hangers, it’s time to step it up a notch.) Do yourself—and your closet—a favor and “invest” in these velvet hangers. Not only do they look much better than a mish-mash set of hangers leftover from college, they’ll help maximize space in your closet. AmazonBasics Velvet Hangers / Amazon
Since switching over, I swear I can fit at least triple the clothes in my closet. Perfect for a maximalist like myself.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/AmazonBasics-AQ-M0006-Velvet-Suit-Hangers/dp/B0793FBDC8/”]Get it on Amazon for $14.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”TaoTronics LED String Lights With Remote Control” subheader=”3,218 5-star reviews out of 4,499 total reviews – 4.3/5 average”]
How are you going to have a patio or sun porch without twinkly lights? These uber-affordable LED string lights are dimmable, waterproof, and even come with a remote control. TaoTronics LED String Lights With Remote Control / Amazon
String them up around your garden or patio, around your porch, on a Christmas tree, or around your bedroom for a cozy vibe any guest would love.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/TaoTronics-TT-SL036-Dimmable-Waterproof-Decorative/dp/B00NXEB0W2″]Get it on Amazon for $15.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”Skip Hop Moby Bath Spout Cover” subheader=”2,121 5-star reviews out of 3,154 total reviews – 4.2/5 average”]
Babies are wriggly. Wet babies are wriggly and slippery. Giving a baby a bath can be a dangerous process if your little one likes to move and groove. Thankfully, most bathtubs have smooth surfaces…everywhere except the bath spout. Skip Hop Moby Bath Spout Cover / Amazon
Protect your babe’s cranial integrity with this adorable whale bath spout cover. The thick but soft rubber is a much better alternative for an accidental head knock than the hard metal of a bath spout.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Skip-Hop-Spout-Cover-Universal/dp/B001WAJVZM”]Get it on Amazon for $13.00[/link-button]
[sol title=”Best Friends by Sheri Machine Washable Pet Bed” subheader=”1,851 5-star reviews out of 2,618 total reviews – 4.4/5 average”]
And don’t forget about your furbabies! (Sheri certainly didn’t.) This washable pet bed has garnered nearly 2,000 5-star reviews for the plush comfort it offers kitties and doggos alike. It comes in 14 colors and two sizes to match your pet’s size and personality. Best Friends by Sheri Machine Washable Pet Bed / Amazon
Plus, it’s self-warming, offering warmth, security, and comfort for aching or anxious pets. And you’ll love the waterproof bottom, since, you know, accidents can happen.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Best-Friends-Sheri-OrthoComfort-20x20x12/dp/B008GQV00E/”]Get it on Amazon for $24.95[/link-button]
[sol title=”Zinus Upholstered Button-Tufted Platform Bed” subheader=”1,395 5-star reviews out of 1,627 total reviews – 4.7/5 average”]
So we’ve talked about sheets and we’ve talked about comforters, but what good do those do if you aren’t also putting your mattress on a really good-looking platform bed? This button-tufted upholstered headboard and bed frame is an ideal choice for someone with simple but high-end taste. Zinus Upholstered Button-Tufted Platform Bed / Amazon
At less than $300 for any of the four sizes offered, it’s no wonder it’s gotten over 1,600 5-star reviews.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Zinus-Upholstered-Premium-Platform-Support/dp/B01LZQGBWB”]Get it on Amazon for $285[/link-button]
Kitchen
Let’s move into the kitchen, because food is life.
[sol title=”Ozeri Digital Kitchen Scale” subheader=”10,453 5-star reviews out of 13,687 total reviews – 4.6/5 average”]
We’re going to believe the best of you, dear reader, and assume that you’re interested in this product for purely culinary reasons. Over 10,000 5-star reviews show that it’s a great choice for those culinary pursuits! (And probably other less lawful uses as well.) Ozeri Digital Kitchen Scale / Amazon
This little scale weighs items with precise graduations of 0.05 ounces or 1 gram, and converts between grams, pounds, pounds to ounces, ounces, and milliliters. Using recipes from other countries will never be a problem again with this super-precise scale.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Ozeri-Digital-Multifunction-Kitchen-Elegant/dp/B01LAVADW2/”]Get it on Amazon for $14.06[/link-button]
[sol title=”Rubbermaid 42-Piece Food Storage Container Set” subheader=”7,788 5-star reviews out of 10,400 total reviews – 4.5/5 average”]
If your food container storage system is a bit messy (aka, just thrown into a cabinet with zero rhyme or reason), this is the food storage set for you. This 42-piece set from Rubbermaid has earned nearly 8,000 5-star reviews, mostly thanks to its Easy Find Lid feature. Rubbermaid 42-Piece Food Storage Container Set / Amazon
The lids all snap together and the containers all nest perfectly, so you can take out one at a time. Plus, they’re dishwasher-, microwave-, and freezer-safe, in addition to being BPA-free. Meal prep will never be a problem again.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Rubbermaid-Storage-Containers-42-Piece-1880801/dp/B00COK3FD8/”]Get it on Amazon for $19.97[/link-button]
[sol title=”Spiralizer Vegetable Spiralizer and Slicer” subheader=”7,415 5-star reviews out of 9,467 total reviews – 4.6/5 average”]
This spiralizer is made by Spiralizer, a spiralizer company that loves their spiralizers so much that they named their company Spiralizer. And their love for their spiralizer is not unfounded: 7,400 people love the Spiralizer spiralizer so much they gave it 5 stars on Amazon. Spiralizer Vegetable Spiralizer and Slicer / Amazon
Want to make some zoodles? This will spiralize that zucchini in a pinch. Trying out the keto or paleo diets? You can cut, spiralize, and slice plenty of foods with the five blade attachments. Getting bored of your food? They’ll also send you a recipe e-book. Buy a spiralizer from Spiralizer and get to spiralizin’.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Spiralizer-Vegetable-Strongest-Heaviest-Gluten-Free/dp/B00GRIR87M”]Get it on Amazon for $24.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”Lodge 10.25-Inch Pre-Seasoned Cast Iron Skillet” subheader=”7,365 5-star reviews out of 9,619 total reviews – 4.4/5 average”]
How to know if someone knows what they’re doing in the kitchen: They cook on cast iron. You, too, can look like you know what you’re doing in the kitchen: Cook on cast iron. Luckily for you, there’s no need to spend a pretty penny on a cast iron skillet when this beloved, 7,000-great-review-strong skillet from Lodge does the trick. Lodge 10.25-Inch Pre-Seasoned Cast Iron Skillet / Amazon
It comes pre-seasoned (you have to season cast iron skillets in order to use them, FYI), ready for you to start sautéing, frying, searing, and even baking. You can use this skillet for literally decades—as long as you take care of it.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Lodge-L8SK3-4-Inch-Pre-Seasoned-Skillet/dp/B00006JSUA/”]Get it on Amazon for $14.88[/link-button]
[sol title=”Victorinox Fibrox Pro Chef’s Knife” subheader=”5,176 5-star reviews out of 6,159 total reviews – 4.7/5 average”]
Another sign of a solid cook? A great chef’s knife. Skip the knife blocks with 20+ knives you don’t really need. As long as you get your knife skills up to par, a chef’s knife might just be all you need. Victorinox Fibrox Pro Chef’s Knife / Amazon
Victorinox are the makers of the original Swiss army knife and are well-known in the culinary circuit as well, meaning this stainless steel blade is definitely high quality. Over 5,000 people think this blade is ideal for chopping, slicing, mincing, and dicing, and we have to say, we completely agree. Don’t forget to wash it by hand!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Victorinox-Fibrox-45520-Frustration-Packaging/dp/B008M5U1C2″]Get it on Amazon for $43.95[/link-button]
[sol title=”Dash Rapid Egg Cooker” subheader=”4,855 5-star reviews out of 6,713 total reviews – 4.4/5 average”]
An egg cooker just sounds like one of those things you don’t really need, right? After all, you’ve probably got a stove. But once you try this egg cooker from Dash, you’ll see that you were wrong—oh, so wrong. An egg cooker may seem like a ridiculous purchase, but it is 100 percent worth all of the money in the world—we and 6,700 5-star reviewers say so. Dash Rapid Egg Cooker / Amazon
You can hard boil, poach, or scramble up to six eggs at a time, and because Dash apparently loves us, you can also make omelets. All within minutes. And it has an auto shut-off feature. We especially like it in this cute aqua color!
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Dash-Rapid-Egg-Cooker-Scrambled/dp/B072JBFR58/”]Get it on Amazon for $19.98[/link-button]
[sol title=”Hamilton Beach 8-Cup Food Processor” subheader=”2,963 5-star reviews out of 4,454 total reviews – 4.2/5 average”]
First of all, you need to accept that for $40, you’re not getting a Vitamix. You’re just not. But for $40, you can still get a really great food processor. You can use food processors for things like chopping fruits and veggies, mixing sauces, grating cheese, and making soups and dips. Hamilton Beach 8-Cup Food Processor / Amazon
This processor comes with a stainless steel blade, two different speeds (plus a pulse setting), and the bowl and blades are dishwasher-safe. Forty dollars well spent, we say (and so do 3,000 people who rated it 5 stars).
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Hamilton-Beach-70740-8-Cup-Processor/dp/B00755KNCS”]Get it on Amazon for $39.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”RXBAR Whole Food Protein Bar, Pack of 12″ subheader=”2,199 5-star reviews out of 3,653 total reviews – 4.1/5 average”]
If you listen to the incredible Who? Weekly podcast, you’ve probably heard the advertisement from host Lindsey Weber’s mom quoting RXBAR’s packaging: “They’re no bulls***!” Guess what: She’s right. These whole food protein bars come in 16 flavors and are definitely no B.S. RXBAR Whole Food Protein Bar, Pack of 12 / Amazon
They’re made with simple, straightforward ingredients: What’s on the front of the package is what’s in the bar—plus, you (and 2,200 5-star reviewers) can rest easy knowing there are no (added) sugars, no gluten, no dairy, no preservatives, and no fillers.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/RXBAR-Whole-Protein-Chocolate-Ounce/dp/B0143NQVQ6″]Get it on Amazon for $20.39[/link-button]
[sol title=”Anova Culinary Sous Vide Precision Cooker with Bluetooth” subheader=”2,044 5-star reviews out of 2,870 total reviews – 4.3/5 average”]
Okay, fancy pants, we see you eyeing this sous vide cooker. If you’ve ever had meat cooked sous vide, you’ll know it’s seriously gourmet-quality cooking. Over 2,000 customers loved this particular cooker so much they rated it 5 stars. Anova Culinary Sous Vide Precision Cooker with Bluetooth / Amazon
Snap this precision cooker onto any pot to get your meats, cheeses, fruits, and veggies to the perfect temperature every single time. Plus with Bluetooth and an app to control it with, you can head to the living room while your dinner cooks—to the perfect temp—in the kitchen.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Anova-Culinary-Precision-Cooker-Bluetooth/dp/B07G4TQ2F4/”]Get it on Amazon for $89.99[/link-button]
Tech
Talk nerdy to me, baby.
[sol title=”Amazon Fire TV Stick” subheader=”138,651 5-star reviews out of 191,296 total reviews – 4.4/5 average”]
If you don’t have a smart TV, you need the Amazon Fire TV Stick. If you do have a smart TV, you still need the Amazon Fire TV Stick. Smart TVs have come a long way (you know, since from not existing at all), but they still can’t do everything the Fire Stick can. Amazon Fire TV Stick / Amazon
With the Fire Stick, you can access the old standards: Netflix, Hulu, YouTube, Spotify, and more, but you can also get access to over 500,000 movies and shows through Prime Video and individual channels’ apps.
I have a smart TV. Going forward, I will only buy smart TVs. But I’ll also make sure I always have a Fire Stick plugged into every TV I own. With over 138,000 5-star reviews, I don’t think I’m alone.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00ZV9RDKK”]Get it on Amazon for $39.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”Amazon Echo Dot” subheader=”76,068 5-star reviews out of 114,880 total reviews – 4.3/5 average”]
If you’re thinking of making your home a smart home, the Echo Dot is the most obvious choice for in-home assistant, at least for the 114,000 customers who say the Dot has earned a 5-star rating. These little voice-controlled speakers use Amazon’s Alexa to answer questions, control your smart devices, play music, set alarms, and even make calls. Connect Bluetooth devices for speakers, jam out with internet services like Spotify and Pandora, and use Amazon’s ever-expanding list of skills to have Alexa play games, tell jokes, and order you a Lyft. Amazon Echo Dot / Amazon
At only $40, they’re inexpensive enough to have in every room of the house—and yes, you can now use them as inter-room intercoms.
[link-button href=”www.amazon.com/Amazon-Echo-Dot-Portable-Bluetooth-Speaker-with-Alexa-Black/dp/B01DFKC2SO”]Get it on Amazon for $39.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”Anker PowerCore+ mini Portable Charger” subheader=”18,559 5-star reviews out of 26,514 total reviews – 4.3/5 average”]
Unfortunately, our iPhones and Android phones don’t have the battery life of the Nokia bricks of the ’90s. (RIP, Snake.) We have to charge these puppies a lot. Thankfully, though, there are some seriously reliable portable chargers on the market, and it seems that Anker makes the best ones. Anker PowerCore+ mini Portable Charger / Amazon
This little lipstick-sized one can fit in any bag or pocket and can charge most phones fully once after only charging itself for three to four hours. Anker does have larger, more powerful chargers, but we—and 18,000 5-star reviewers—like this one for its size, since how often are you out of the house long enough to need to charge your phone fully four times, anyway?
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/Anker-PowerCore-Lipstick-Sized-Generation-Batteries/dp/B005X1Y7I2″]Get it on Amazon for $18.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”Mpow Bluetooth Headphones” subheader=”11,722 5-star reviews out of 15,786 total reviews – 4.5/5 average”]
Whether you have an iPhone that got rid of the headphone jack (sigh) or you’ve just yanked your headphones out of your laptop when jamming a bit too hard, it’s time to look into Bluetooth headphones. Mpow says that “impressive sound quality is the ultimate goal” and reviews seem to agree that they’ve achieved that goal. Additionally, you can get 13 hours of listening time on these and they charge fairly quickly. Mpow Bluetooth Headphones / Amazon
Sure, intense audiophiles might need something a bit more fancy, but for us regular folk who are content listening to the new Ariana Grande album at normal quality (run, don’t walk, to iTunes to download Sweetener, by the way), these headphones more than suffice. People on Amazon can be pretty intense about headphone reviews but these have garnered over 15,000 5-star reviews, proving that even though they’re affordable, they’re also quality.
[link-button href=”https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B06XW4MCSQ”]Get it on Amazon for $39.99[/link-button]
[sol title=”iOttie Dashboard and Windshield Phone Mount” subheader=”9,264 5-star reviews out of 14,669 total reviews – 4.0/5 average”]
I love this little dashboard mount. I’ve made it a goal in the past few years to just never use my phone while I’m driving, but hey, sometimes you need to change a song or glance at Google Maps. iOttie Dashboard and Windshield Phone Mount
With the iOttie phone mount, you can keep your phone in your line of sight without it being a distraction. Safety first!
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[sol title=”Tile Mate” subheader=”5,981 5-star reviews out of 8,965 total reviews – 3.8/5 average”]
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Sometimes the ultimate test of a relationship is how well you travel together. More often than not, the best way to really connect with someone is when you’re both out of your element. “Taking a break from the daily routine, the hustle, and the kids is healthy to reconnect. Sleep in and take time to enjoy pure and simple activities with each other,” says Lillian Aviles, director of business development for luxury travel company Journey Mexico. “Sometimes we get so caught up in the day-to-day that romance gets pushed to the side. Turn off your phone and take a look at the beauty that surrounds you.” From international trips for couples to romantic vacations on a budget, these are 19 top romantic vacations for reconnecting with your partner and discovering new things about the world and each other.
Top Vacation Destinations for Storybook Romance
1. Vienna
Storybook charm permeates Vienna from Schönbrunn Palace (the private residence of the imperial family) to the Spanish Riding School, where Lipizzan horses have been trained for more than 450 years. Walk the routes Mozart walked and marvel at the twinkling lights that bedeck the plazas around the holidays.
“Hotel Bristol has stately, ornate rooms and a beautiful view of the opera house that makes you feel like you’re on a grand tour in the 19th century,” says Alexandra R. “The city is filled with old-world charm, and staying in a hotel that similarly reflects this helps keep you in the fairytale moment even after a long day (or night) of roaming the streets.”
2. Paris
Paris is called the City of Love for a reason. You won’t find a more romantic or iconic city for couples anywhere else in the world. Elegant architecture, romantic side streets, and sidewalk cafes barely scratch the surface of what Paris has to offer couples. Cap it all off with a kiss under the glittering Eiffel Tower by night, and you’ll soon see why Paris is always a good idea. Le Roch Hotel & Spa
The boutique city hotel boasts a swanky address in Paris, in the 1st Arrondissement, between Place Vendôme and Place de l’Opéra. Its 37 rooms overlook Rue Saint-Roch, a charming side street dotted with iconic wrought-iron balconies.
3. Positano, Italy
“The romance in Positano is inherent,” says Alexia G. “It actually seems like a form of currency that keeps this bustling, coastal beach town alive with energy.” Le Sirenuse Explore Italy’s idyllic summer coast for a new kind of storybook romance. Sunbathe and sip Peronis, or explore the local vendors that pop up through the town’s narrow corridors. Hire a private car service to drive down the Amalfi Coast for a day, and spend the entire time stopping in at restaurants and landmarks, such as Ravello, the highest point in Amalfi.
Top Vacation Destinations for Couples Seeking Adventure
4. Iceland
Iceland is an adventure-lovers’ paradise, full of white-water rafting, hiking, scenic drives, kayaking, snowmobiling on a glacier, and so much more. Each moment can be filled with adrenaline-pumping activities, but it would be a shame to miss the relaxing, meditative moments in Iceland’s many hot springs—which are often the perfect end to a day spent chasing thrills.
“Lambhús offers quaint little cabins in the countryside of southeast Iceland. It’s like you have your own tiny house, surrounded by snow-capped mountains and Icelandic horses,” says Joni S. “And you can get up early, whip up your own breakfast, and watch the sunrise before taking a kayaking adventure on a glacial lake filled with icebergs.”
5. Phuket, Thailand
“Thailand encompasses so many different categories and bottles them into one country. Once you’re on those incredibly turquoise-blue islands, surround by massive mountain rocks, it’s complete romance and adventure,” says Cessie C. From elephant riding to hiking to the Tiger Cave Temple in Krabi to exploring Maya Bay (the famous spot where Leonardo DiCaprio filmed The Beach), the opportunities for adventure in Phuket are seemingly endless.
Napa is an absolute must for foodie couples—especially those who appreciate good wine. The happy marriage between the two (food and wine, not you two lovebirds) is prevalent all throughout this region. Hire a private car or hop Ubers to check out some of the best off-the-radar wineries, including Artesa, Sterling, and Tank Garage. If you’re considering Thomas Keller’s The French Laundry—one of the country’s best restaurants—just do it. You only live once. Napa River Inn
“Staying near the Napa Riverwalk means you can enjoy some of the city’s best dining, including La Toque and Morimoto,” says Alexia. “Make sure to stop by the Oxbow Public Market for some of the best casual dining in the region as well.”
7. New Orleans, Louisiana
NOLA has an intoxicating atmosphere that just makes you want to live life, bite by bite. Start with a sinfully good breakfast at the Cake Cafe. Stop in at Coop’s Place for an ice cold beverage and marinated crab claws. A visit to Erin Rose for a frozen Irish coffee and a poboy from Killer Poboys helps to round out this food tour on foot. For dinner, Pêche is a seafood favorite; you can’t go wrong with anything from the raw bar, and the whole grilled fish is an Instagram-worthy entree. Other classic recommendations (that don’t swing too touristy) include Cochon Butcher, Herbsaint, the Carousel Bar, Coquette, Commander’s Palace, and Bacchanal. @maggietyson_
“We love staying here as it’s within walking distance to the French Quarter, but not so close that you’re on top of all the noise and chaos,” says Becca D. “It’s so centrally located, so you can walk off all the calories you’re bound to inhale.”
8. Mérida, Mexico
When people think of authentic Mexican cuisine, Yucatán is often overlooked. But the state, with Mérida as its capital, is teeming with a wide and unique offering of delights. Local specialties include pan de cazón (layers of tortilla with a tomato, onion, and Serrano chili sauce filled with local white fish), poc chuc (grilled pork marinated in sour orange), and sopa de lima (shredded chicken and strips of tortilla with a sweet and tangy lime broth). Rosas & Xocolate Boutique Hotel + Spa
“Its rich colors, outdoor showers, and chic rooftop terrace—great for a cocktail—make for a wonderful choice for a younger, sexy, and trendier experience,” says Lillian A.
Top Vacation Destinations for Beach and Chill Couples
9. St. Lucia
St. Lucia is fairly small in comparison to other Caribbean islands, but it has something for everyone. Its beaches are stunning for lounging, offering views of the iconic Pitons. Sample fresh cocoa beans at a plantation, sip local rum, or simply sit back and relax. If couples should want a little action, the botanical gardens have hot springs and waterfalls as well as top sites for snorkeling. @_tbrumm
“This resort, the sister property to world-famous Jade Mountain, is overall a bit quieter, with more dramatic cliffside rooms. I love this property for the views, and the staff’s attention to detail,” says Daniela H.
10. The Maldives
Couples know that they will spend a bit more on a splurge trip like the Maldives, but the memories are simply priceless. There is a world-class coral reef, so be sure to grab snorkel gear and spend time exploring the reef. Simply stunning ways to spend the day with your boo include stand-up paddleboarding or a sunset cruise on a dhoni, a traditional boat used in the Maldives to see the dolphins making their daily migrations. Six Senses Laamu
“This is the perfect resort because you can spend all day doing nothing but luxuriating on their picture-perfect beaches or by their gorgeous pools, or just relax at your own luxury villa,” says Becca.
11. Rosemary Beach, Florida
The beach towns, restaurants, and laid-back living will make you feel as though you’ve stopped into a Ralph Lauren summer collection ad—and you don’t need a passport or a mega time commitment to do so. Pro tip: The best way to explore Rosemary Beach and the surrounding beaches is by bike. St. Joe Club & Resorts
“Surrounded by Spanish architecture and thriving locally driven restaurants, you can rent a bicycle and bike along 30A highway, where you’ll stop along various picturesque beach towns,” says Alexia.
Top Vacation Destinations for Nature-Loving Couples
12. Belize
Belize is a visually stunning country that’s packed with nature activities. It is covered in sinkholes and boasts the world’s second largest barrier reef—as well as the famous Blue Hole diving paradise. Hamanasi Adventure & Dive Resort
“This resort is an amazing way to experience unique activities in the jungle and on the water,” says Elena O. “They offer a wide variety of nature adventures—from cave tubing and waterfall rappelling to diving the Blue Hole—that will please any nature lover.”
13. Lost Coast, California
The 25-mile trek that is the Lost Coast is perfect for nature lovers, as this is as close to roughing it as it gets. The entire trail is a stretch of California coastline nearly 300 miles north of San Francisco; it’s so rugged, roads have not yet been able to conquer it. If it can be done in nature, you can do it on the Lost Coast, from hiking to backpacking, fly-fishing, biking, walking, or even just sitting outside together sipping a California craft brew. @briforthespirit
Stay at: Various Campsites
“There are no designated campsites, mostly lightly suggested areas in which to pitch a tent,” says Mary Kate B. “The trail is astonishingly beautiful. You will pass through meadows, tide zones, and forests. If you’re looking for a challenging and secluded getaway for even the most experienced backpackers, this is it.”
14. Alaska
In Alaska, nature is all around you, no matter where you go. Rent a car and drive the state, but be sure to take your time and research before you go so you can see the things that are important to you as a couple. Hiking is number one for nature lovers, especially those hikes that are surrounded by water and waterfalls.
“One of our favorite memories was in a small town called McCarthy. We drove 60 miles of dirt road to get there. The only hotel in town is called Ma Johnson’s. You are in the middle of nowhere with beautiful mountains surrounding you,” says Steph M.
Top Vacation Resorts for Couples to Get Busy
True, you can get down with your partner anywhere—we don’t need to tell you that. But if you’re looking for something a bit more on-the-nose, try one of these resorts specifically meant for sexy time. Get it, girl.
With a name like Hedonism, this resort leaves little to the imagination. The experience in person is no different. Hedonism is a nudist resort designed for couples who live “The Lifestyle”—a not-so-secret code for people who enjoy swinging. But don’t let that scare you off. It’s actually an incredibly curated, fun, provocative, safe, and clean experience—at a luxury all-inclusive resort in Jamaica, to boot. Hedonism II Hedonism II hosts sexy theme nights, erotic-inspired shows, pool parties, and more. But the culmination of any visit to Hedonism is a trip to the Romping Shop Playroom, where couples (and singles) are invited to explore whatever comes naturally to them. From voyeurism and monogamous fun to swapping and sharing, anything goes in the Playroom— provided you ask permission first. But rest assured, if you don’t feel comfortable going quite that far, there’s plenty for everyone to enjoy. Only one half of the resort is nudist, and clothing is required in all dining areas and the gym. And sex is not a requirement; it’s simply easily accessible for those who want to explore.
“Breathless is a high-end all-inclusive resort with a sexy twist, and it definitely doesn’t disappoint, nor does it cross the line for those who might not be so comfortable with some of the clothing-optional hotels out there,” says Elena. “Everything from the room design to colors and music to the topless pools and late night parties makes you feel excited and open to possibilities.” Breathless puts on nightly themed shows that get your mind racing about possibilities. One of the pools is always topless optional and holds foam parties with dancers every afternoon. And should you need time away from the resort, Riviera Maya is packed with activities, including snorkeling cenotes, visiting local parks, zip lining, and exploring local markets.
Top Vacation Destinations for Couples on a Budget
17. Montenegro
“Montenegro is an absolutely breathtakingly beautiful country that has gone largely undiscovered,” says Elena. “Food entrees run about 3 to 4 euros, beer is 2 euros, and an average, no-frills hotels price is 40 euros a night. Still, you’re experiencing the same type of beauty as you would in Italy but for half the price.” Some wonderful ways to experience Montenegro on a budget are to taste the local food, hike (which is always free), or raft down the Tara River.
Hawaii might not have the reputation of being a destination for romantic vacations on a budget, but through a few hacks, couples can experience the magic of the islands without breaking the bank. Snorkeling and hiking are two Hawaii musts that are always free. Visit Two Steps on the Big Island, or Kee Beach on Kauai, which has a beautiful, free hiking trail that is about two hours each way. The Road to Hana on Maui is also packed with hidden pools and waterfalls. Vincent Printy
“Even cheap hotels in Hawaii are not cheap, so why not get an experience out of your stay?” asks Noa H. “One Airbnb was almost like a treehouse in the middle of the jungle. Another was a converted garage. The family that lived in the main house caught a 28-pound fish one day and invited us and the entire neighborhood for a cookout. That doesn’t happen in hotels.”
19. Medellín, Colombia
Medellín is doing a wonderful job showcasing its transformation from cartel stronghold to travelers’ paradise. Though it doesn’t shy away from shedding light on its once treacherous past, the city is focusing on its urban socialism, art, and growing culinary scene. “In a city that is now just getting used to being in the travel spotlight and experiencing a sudden rush of tourism, Medellín still proves to be extremely affordable,” says Prin B. “The local fare is cheap, with stands offering delicious arepas, empanadas, and other goods at every corner.” Take the Inside Medellín Tour of Comuna 13. The free tour is conducted by locals who grew up in Comuna 13—one of the most violent neighborhoods in the ’90s and early 2000s. Today it is filled with street art and the famed Escaleras Electricas. Then take a cable car for just $1 to take in panoramic views from Santo Domingo and Parque Arví.
Trendy luxury and boutique style come together at The Charlee Hotel, which sits across from Medellín’s Lleras Park. The hotel has its own rooftop swimming pool and a retro style that is whimsical and fun. A full tropical breakfast is served each morning, and at night couples can dine on homemade Italian cuisine.
Think about your perfect wellness retreat. Maybe you envision beach yoga at sunrise, rehydrating with fruit smoothies in every color of the rainbow, wandering down cobblestone streets (arm-in-arm with your new travel friends), and relaxing on a massage table as a caring therapist kneads your body from head to toe. Ahhh—how dreamy.
But one look at the price of some of these luxe vacations, and those dreams come crashing down, fast. Are there any affordable retreats where you can soothe your mind, body, and soul without stretching your travel budget beyond capacity?
Once upon a time, you had to shell out big bucks to bliss out on a rejuvenating retreat. Nowadays, there are tons of affordable retreats around the world, complete with invigorating activities, inspiring workshops, cozy accommodations, and plenty of opportunities to bond with fellow travelers. So say sayonara to sticker shock, and check out these 13 cheap retreats. This is bliss on a budget.
Affordable Fitness & Yoga Retreats
In the mood for a getaway to reconnect with your mat and work up a sweat? Check out these affordable yoga and fitness retreats with totally zen prices.
When: Anytime! What: Known worldwide for its deeply moving yoga instruction, Kripalu Center for Yoga & Health invites guests for flexible, affordable retreats in the Berkshires. You can drop in on yoga classes, outdoor activities, and mindfulness workshops that will prove to be equal parts introspective and expansive. The beautiful mountain scenery will inspire you to disconnect from your screens and reconnect with yourself.
Kripalu Center for Yoga & Health
It’s not all woo-woo, though. Kripalu stays grounded with its weekly whole foods cooking demonstration, where executive chef Jeremy Rock Smith will have you giggling about all the activities you’re taking so seriously during the day (and fueling your retreat with some seriously tasty meals). It brings everything back down to earth. Price: Starts at $177 per night for rest & relaxation retreats, including accommodations
When: October 14 to 17, 2018 What: How can a yoga retreat at a five-star hotel in Switzerland actually be affordable? We’re not sure, but somehow Giardino Ascona is offering just that. This yoga retreat includes four full days of pampering, complete with revitalizing vinyasas, Ayurvedic cooking classes, and optional spa treatments.
Giardino Ascona Pop-Up Yoga Retreat
During your downtime, take one of the hotel’s complimentary bikes out for a spin. It’s just a short ride among beautiful scenery and fragrant flora down to serene Lake Maggiore. Talk about bliss! Price: Starts at $950 for three nights, four days
When: Various dates throughout the year; see the upcoming retreat schedule. What: Between strolling miles of pristine beaches and taking yoga classes with internationally-acclaimed instructors, you might never need to slip on a pair of shoes when on a retreat at Prana del Mar. However, these inexpensive yoga retreats aren’t just about spending time on your mat.
Prana del Mar Yoga Retreat & Wellness Center
You can also add on a range of other fun activities, like watching sea turtles hatch, surfing, whale-watching cruises, horseback riding trips, cooking classes, and ATV tours. With so many natural treasures around the area, Prana del Mar does its part to preserve its surroundings by adhering to eco-friendly practices (like using solar power to heat the lap pool and recycling all wastewater) throughout the property. Unplug, and let the sound of the ocean waves soothe you throughout your time on one of these yoga retreats. Price: Starts at $280 per night
When: Various dates throughout the year; see the retreat calendar. What: Dream of learning how to surf? There’s no better place to give the sport a try than the surf breaks in the Atlantic, especially with a group of likeminded women on a retreat with Chicks on Waves. These cheap retreats include surf lessons every day, along with body-strengthening yoga classes that will give you the balance and control you’ll need to hang 10 when you’re getting started on the board.
From transportation to the beach and surf gear to yoga mats and towels, everything’s included—the only things you’ll need to bring are some bravery, a bathing suit, and a willingness to bond with other women. Price: Starts around $930 for a six-night surf and yoga retreat
When: Anytime! What: With its wild red cliffs, epic hikes, and breathtaking vistas, Zion National Park is a bucket list-worthy destination in and of itself for nature lovers. But Red Mountain Resort formalizes the retreat experience at this popular park with a package deal that includes healthy cooking demonstrations and fitness classes.
Red Mountain Resort
The real appeal of this natural park retreat, though, is hikes throughout Zion with one of the resort’s highly trained guides. They’ll even pack a to-go lunch to keep you fueled while you tackle Angels Landing (or one of the easier trails, if that’s more your fancy). And after all that trekking, you’ll love a soak in the resort’s indoor and outdoor seasonal pools. No need to compromise your creature comforts to have an adventurous outdoor retreat. Price: Starts at $340 per night
When: Anytime! What: If you’ve ever thought about running away and joining the circus, now’s your chance to give it a try at eXtreme Hotel. The eco-friendly retreat center will have you up in the flying trapeze, learning how to juggle, defying gravity on the aerial silks, and trying acrobatics in up to eight circus classes per day.
The quirky, inexpensive retreats also include tours of eXtreme Hotel’s organic farm, river tubing, and farm-to-table breakfasts and dinners. And if the circus retreat inspires you to quit your job and become a tightrope walker, don’t say we didn’t warn you. Price: Starts at $1,200 for seven nights, eight days
Cheap Spa Retreats
Perhaps your ideal retreat consists of massages, body scrubs, facials, and all-around pampering. What could be better than that? These spa retreats will soothe your body without stressing your finances.
When: Anytime! What: Every culture takes its own approach to pampering. At Jaya House River Park, you can experience the distinctive art of Khmer healing on an affordable spa retreat. The expert staff will apply gentle finger pressure to ease tension throughout your body and re-energize tired muscles (a welcome relief after a long-haul flight to Cambodia!).
Jaya House River Park
Guests at the stunning hotel and spa—which makes its own shampoo, lotion, and body scrub—get a complimentary treatment every day of their retreat. No need to feel guilty about self-indulgence here; Jaya House River Park supports local organizations in artistic endeavors and landmine removal, among other socially responsible efforts. Price: Starts around $206 per night
When: Anytime! What: Want a wellness retreat on the cheap? You can’t do better than at Museflower Retreat & Spa. Its affordable six-day retreats include a signature 90-minute massage, body scrub, foot massage, Thai massage, and a bunch of other spa treatments you’ll definitely enjoy.
Museflower Retreat & Spa
When you’re not getting pampered, take a dip in the Himalayan saltwater pool, drop in on a yoga class, indulge in an herbal steam, or bike around the local town. Then, snuggle into your cozy cottage for some rest and relaxation. This is a retreat, after all. Price: Starts at around $765 for five nights, six days
When: Anytime! What: Everything centers around the thermal water at this Slovenian destination spa. The mineral water supposedly has therapeutic properties, which you can soak up on a spa retreat at the resort’s various pools and water-based treatments.
True to its Eastern European roots, Lasko Thermal Spa Resort also uses another type of liquid therapy as the basis for some spa treatments: Beer! It’s used in special beer baths and massages, which pamper the skin with natural vitamins, according to the spa. (Did Homer Simpson dream this up?) Price: Around $96 per night for the Wellbeing Package
Cheap Retreats For Creativity & Mindfulness
We all need some headspace from time to time. These creativity and mindfulness retreats will give you just that, plus a whole lot of inspiration to take home with you.
When: Anytime! What: Art and music are at the heart of Art Ovation, a recently opened boutique hotel in Florida. Rooms come with their own musical instruments, like ukuleles, cellos, and guitars, along with sketching materials to help you get back in touch with your creative side.
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But the art doesn’t stop once you leave your room—Art Ovation’s events calendar is chock-full of music lessons, art and wine tours, recitals, drop-in improv comedy classes, origami workshops, painting classes, and tons of other activities. Da Vinci, eat your heart out. Price: Starts at $179 per night
When: October 20-28, 2018; November 17-25, 2018; December 15-23, 2018 What: Indigenous tribes of the Amazon have used ayahuasca, a tea made from psychoactive plants, for healing and spiritual purposes for thousands of years. You can experience the powerful effects of this psychedelic substance for yourself on an ayahuasca retreat, guided by experts who have studied with shamans around South America. The music and setting have been carefully designed to give you a safe, comfortable, and supportive experience throughout your inner journey.
Spirit Vine Ayahuasca Retreat Center
You’ll also have the opportunity to explore the jungle with a local guide, visit a waterfall, take yoga classes, and go on “visionary art explorations.” Your body will need to go all the way to Brazil for this retreat, but your mind will go much, much further. Price: Starts at $1,650 for eight-day retreats
When: Various dates throughout the year; see retreat inquiry form. What: There’s no one path to wellness—that’s why Talalla offers a diverse selection of activities on its wellness retreats to help you achieve health, serenity, and happiness. Your body will get some TLC on the twice daily yoga, Pilates, and “Boxilates” classes, along with the surf lessons and spa treatments. Your mind gets its own workout through guided meditation and writing exercises.
Talalla Wellness Retreats
And unique experiences, like Sri Lankan cooking classes, visits with elephants, and bike rides in local villages, will create memories that will inspire you for years to come. Who said the benefits of a retreat end on the last day? Price: Starts around $1,015 for seven days
When: Anytime! What: Perhaps you’re looking for a retreat for your spirit. If so, you’ll find it at Le Monastère des Augustines, where you’ll stay in a restored cloister and choose a retreat theme that will feed your individual soul. Some of the monastery’s wellness retreats promise to renew your body through holistic health consultations, private spa treatments, and healthy meals, while others immerse you in local culture though guided tours of the property and contemplative museum visits.
But the most spiritual practice of all might be the vitality breakfasts—held in complete silence, so you can sip your coffee and be at peace with your earliest thoughts of the day, sans interruptions. That’s an affordable retreat ritual you can take home with you. Price: Starts at $74 per night
Here’s the deal: You only have one bag of skin to carry you throughout this mortal plane. And you’re probably treating it like dirt! What are you doing?! Skincare is definitely having a moment right now (which I love), but in some circles it’s still considered high maintenance to do, well, any maintenance on it whatsoever. In the same way that we need to eat well and exercise to take care of our bodies, it’s also crucial that we take care of our skin—after all, it’s our largest organ. But maybe you’re reading this and thinking Hey, I do wash my face! Well, that’s great! Really. But it’s still highly likely you’re making these common skincare mistakes. It’s time to up your skincare game and learn how to truly take care of your skin.
You’re soaking up the rays in all the wrong ways.
You probably remember your mom getting after you to put on sunscreen. And you probably begrudgingly dashed it on, failed to rub it in properly, and never reapplied, right? Well hopefully now you know better than that, but even the most serious SPF devotees can make some big sunscreen mistakes. And unlike a small error that might lead to just a breakout, failing to protect yourself from the sun the right way can increase your risk for skin cancer. Let’s go through some basic sunscreen rules: You need to use a broad spectrum sunscreen. Here’s a fun tip you may not have learned: SPF only refers to a how well a sunscreen will protect you from the sun’s UVB rays. And it’s important that you’re protected from those rays. UVB rays are what cause sunburns and most skin cancers; plus the more sunburns you get in your lifetime, the higher your risk of skin cancer. But that’s leaving out those pesky (and incredibly damaging) UVA rays. In order to get full protection from the sun, you need to use a broad spectrum sunscreen; any broad spectrum sunscreen will say that it is on the bottle. If you’d rather not sort through sunscreens to find out which ones will really protect you, we did the leg work for you:
Neutrogena Beach Defense Water + Sun Protection SPF 70
You don’t need to go expensive to get a solid broad spectrum sunscreen. This has been rated one of the best sunscreens in the United States and it’s Amazon’s No. 1 best seller in sunscreens. Plus, since it’s oil-free you won’t need to worry about any body breakouts. Neutrogena Beach Defense Water + Sun Protection SPF 70, $6.39 from Amazon
Blue Lizard Australian Sunscreen, Sensitive SPF 30+
Do like the Aussies do with Blue Lizard, a physical sunscreen that happens to be water-resistant, paraben-free, and, of course, broad spectrum. It’s rated a Top Choice from the Environmental Working Group, thanks to its high-quality ingredients that won’t hurt you or the environment. Blue Lizard Australian Sunscreen, Sensitive SPF 30+, $14.23 from Amazon You need to wear sunscreen every. single. day. Yes, really. Even if it’s cloudy or rainy out. Unless you’re only leaving the house between the hours of 10 p.m. and 1 a.m. (whatcha doin?), sunscreen is a must. The sun’s UVA rays can penetrate car windows and windows in your home and office, so even if you’re just walking from your house to car to office, you still need to apply sunscreen. If you’re used to thick, gloopy sunscreens that sit on your skin giving you the dreaded white cast, try these incredible sunscreens that’ll go on your face smoothly, leaving a perfect palette for makeup (or not!):
Supergoop! Unseen Sunscreen Broad Spectrum SPF 40
This is an incredible sunscreen. It’s actually clear so you’ll never have to deal with a weirdly white glow on your face and it goes on matte so you won’t have the sunscreen shine. Plus, it doesn’t smell like coconuts. Supergoop Unseen Sunscreen Broad Spectrum SPF 40, $32 from Sephora
Shiseido Urban Environment Oil-Free UV Protector Broad Spectrum SPF 42 For Face
Tatcha is another brand from Japan whose skincare products have really shaken things up. This sunscreen is derm-tested with high quality ingredients that leave a weightless, silky finish. The PA+++ part of this product name comes from the Japanese sunscreen grading system, wherein each additional plus sign informs buyers about UVA ray protection. As mentioned, SPF refers to UVB protection so when you buy this Tatcha sunscreen, you know you’re getting both forms of oh-so necessary protection. Tatcha Silken Pore Perfecting Sunscreen Broad Spectrum SPF 35 PA+++, $65 from Sephora You need to reapply sunscreen every two hours. Yes, really. Even if it’s cloudy or rainy out. Wait, this is the same stuff we said above. There’s a reason for that: It’s still true! Applying sunscreen only once is what leads to sunburns and skin damage. Even if you’re using the highest SPF in the world (which, by the way, is kind of a waste), you still need to reapply—very carefully—every two hours. Can’t fit a giant bottle of sunscreen in your work bag or purse? We got you. These sunscreen sets are full of travel sizes that easy for on-the-go use:
COOLA 4 Piece Organic Suncare Travel Set
This four-piece travel set (well, five, if you count the cute bag) comes with an SPF 30 face sunscreen, SPF 30 sunscreen spray, SPF 30 Liplux lip balm, and their Environmental Repair Plus Radical After Sun Lotion on the off chance you do get burned. Take it all with you when you leave the house and you’ll be ready for anything the sun throws at you. COOLA 4 Piece Organic Suncare Travel Set, $37.99 from Amazon
Supergoop! At Play Tote Value Set
We love a good value set, obviously. This is another five-piece set (four SPF products + a great bag) and it contains everything you need for the sunniest of days. Supergoop! has included their SPF 50 Everyday Sunscreen, SPF 50 Antioxidant-Infused Sunscreen Mist with Vitamin C, SPF 40 Skin Soothing Mineral Sunscreen, and SPF 30 Mintfusion Lip Balm. Supergoop! At Play Tote Value Set, $45 from Amazon You need to use more than you think. Your one pump of sunscreen for your entire body just isn’t cutting it. Sure, it’s better than nothing, but it’s not really doing you many favors. Dermatologists recommend you use 1 ounce for your whole body—which, conveniently, is about the size of those little glasses you had lying around at parties in college. Alternatively, head into your kitchen and look at your measuring spoons. Two tablespoons is how much you need to use from head to toe; a nickel-sized glob is how much you should use for your face. For convenience’s sake, you may as well have a giant bottle at home to apply before you head out the door. Our favorite picks for protection in bulk:
Yes, you can now have the biggest bottle of sunscreen we’ve ever seen. It comes with a full-on pump to make sure you aren’t skimping out with a squeeze. This water-resistant, broad spectrum formula is ideal from nose to toes and despite being incredibly lightweight, it’s effective and moisturizing. Supergoop! Everyday Sunscreen with Cellular Response Technology SPF 50 (18 oz), $48 from Amazon
Banana Boat Sunscreen Sport Family Size SPF 50 (12 oz)
Grab the family size of the traditional Banana Boat sunscreen we’ve all been using since childhood. On the plus side, this is the sport performance formula, meaning it’ll resist water and sweat for 80 minutes. Additionally, it’s safe for coral reefs since it’s made without oxybenzone and octinoxate, two effective but damaging-for-reef ingredients found in many sunscreens. Banana Boat Sunscreen Sport Family Size SPF 50 (12 oz), $9.44 from Amazon
You’re skipping a step before sleep.
If you don’t wear makeup, feel free to skip this. But if you do, you’re most likely skipping a very crucial step in your skincare routine: actually taking your makeup off. Maybe you wash your face every single night, and that’s great. That’s more than great. But taking off your eye makeup before you start cleansing is key. Before moving onto the next step in your skincare routine, you should do the previous steps to the best of your ability—walk before you run, you know? So please, do your skin a favor and use a dedicated makeup remover before you use a face wash. You’ll notice a difference right away. Our favorite makeup removers are so great, in fact, you’ll be happy you picked one up:
Historically, a favorite among many makeup-wearers of the world. Shake it up to combine the oil in the product with the water to lift away even the most waterproof of waterproof mascaras. Safe for contact lens wearers too! Lancôme Bi-Facil Double-Action Eye Makeup Remover, $30 from Sephora
You’re using this one common product.
You may notice in that list of favorite makeup removers that we didn’t list any makeup removing wipes. There’s a reason for that: They’re terrible. Sure, if you stumble into bed late at night not feeling your best, it’s better to use a wipe than nothing at all. But if you’re of sound mind and decision making, don’t open that pack of wipes. Makeup wipes don’t really clean your skin. Instead, they’ll smear the makeup all over your face. They also have some questionable ingredients, like preservatives that can irritate the skin and emulsifiers that can dry your skin out. Some of those preservatives are chemicals that release formaldehyde, a known carcinogen and allergen. If you use a wipe and don’t immediately wash your face with an actual cleanser, you’re letting that stuff hang out on your face all night. Do better for yourself and stick with one of the dedicated makeup removers we suggested above. And then get to cleaning—properly.
You’re only cleansing once.
That’s right: washing your face just once isn’t cutting it. Granted, there are some really great cleansers and face washes out there and they do some really great things, but if you want to get serious about skin care, you need to learn the art of the double cleanse. Double cleansing is the new M.O. if you want skin that’s actually clean. See, a lot of the dirt, environmental toxins, impurities, and other bits of junk that get on our face throughout the day aren’t so water-soluble. So when you’re using a foaming cleanser, you’re certainly cleaning off some of it—but a lot of it is left behind too. Enter an oil cleanser. To truly, actually, really cleanse your face of the daily junk, you’ll need to use an oil cleanser first to get rid of the oil-soluble impurities. Put the oil onto a dry face and massage, then add water to transform it into a milky substance, like a runny lotion. The oil in these cleansers attracts much more of the dirt hiding in your pores, pulls it out, and as it mixes with water, emulsifies to give your skin a nice little hug of hydration. Then follow up with that water-soluble cleanser to get rid of the excess oil before moving onto your next skincare steps. Not sure where to start? Here are our top oil cleansing picks:
Clinique Take The Day Off Cleansing Balm
This is the ideal oil cleanser, in my mind. It’s a solid that, when applied to dry skin (that is, skin without water on it—it’s actually great for all skin types), emulsifies into an oil that’ll whisk off any makeup, dirt, and impurities. Follow it up with a great water-based cleanser and you’ll feel an immediate difference. Clinique Take The Day Off Cleansing Balm, $29.50 from Sephora
L’Occitane Shea Face Cleansing Oil
Feel very fancy with this French cleansing oil from L’Occitane. With 5 percent shea oil, this is an incredibly moisturizing oil cleanser that’s also incredibly effective. Plus, we really like the pump formulation that will ensure you don’t accidentally use too much. L’Occitane Shea Face Cleansing Oil, $24 from Amazon
Simple Kind to Skin Hydrating Cleansing Oil
Go a little more budget with this 100 percent grapeseed oil that will dissolve the toughest-to-remove makeup and soften your skin—without an oily finish. Plus without any artificial fragrances or colors, you can rest easy knowing this is a great choice for your sensitive skin. Simple Kind to Skin Hydrating Cleansing Oil, $7.79 from Amazon
You take scrubbing a little too seriously.
Exfoliation is the trick to clear, soft, smooth skin: the skin everyone wants to have naturally. In years past—think middle school years perusing the aisles at Walgreens—you probably reached for a scrub. In particular, the St. Ives Apricot Scrub. Who didn’t use that at some point? Unfortunately, it’s absolutely terrible for your skin. In fact, in 2016, two women brought a suit against St. Ivesbecause the scrub includes crushed walnut shells. Guess what happens when you vigorously rub crushed walnut shells against your skin? Microtears in your skin. That can cause inflammation, redness, pain, and even infection if you’re too vigorous. Scrubs in general aren’t the best way to exfoliate. There are some incredible microdermabrasion exfoliators out there (we’re talking about you, Dr. Brandt), but most scrubs are made with harsh ingredients that ultimately damage skin in the long run. And if you try to DIY one, you might not be much better off: Many exfoliator recipes floating around the internet advocate including ingredients like salt or baking soda. They actually want you to put baking soda on your face. Please, don’t put baking soda on your face. Instead, skip the scrubs—unless they’re dermatologist-approved, of course. Look to chemical exfoliation. It’s not as scary as it sounds. It typically involves alpha hydroxy and beta hydroxy acids and fruit-based enzymes to gently slough off dead skin cells. Used properly (aka, not every single day), these chemical exfoliators are much more effective. If you haven’t jumped on the chemical exfoliator train, here are our top picks:
Drunk Elephant T.L.C. Sukari Babyfacial
This mask is a dream exfoliator. With 25 percent AHA and 2 percent BHA (plus a blend of glycolic, tartaric, lactic, citric, and salicylic acids), this is an incredibly effective exfoliating mask. It breaks down gross dead skin cells to give you a glow you only thought was possible after a professional facial. Use only once a week for just 20 minutes to get results you’ll love. Drunk Elephant T.L.C. Sukari Babyfacial, $80 from Sephora
Dr. Dennis Gross Skincare Smooth & Flawless: Peel + Moisturize
Get a chemical peel at home with these amazing daily peel pads. There are 14 pads here that you use every day. After two weeks with these glycolic, salicylic, and malic acid pads, you’ll see a huge difference in the glow factor of your skin. Use the included Hyaluronic Moisture Cushion moisturizer for intense hydration. Dr. Dennis Gross Skincare Smooth & Flawless: Peel + Moisturize, $37 from Amazon
Pixi Glow Tonic
This is an incredible but gentler dupe for Biologique Recherche’s P50 Lotion, the cult status fave that can run upwards of $100. The 5 percent glycolic acid makes this an ideal exfoliator: it’ll certainly give you a glow, but thanks to the aloe and ginseng that’s also included, you won’t get irritated. Pixi Glow Tonic, $36.20 from Amazon And if you simply require the scrubby feeling mechanical exfoliation can bring, here’s what we recommend:
Dr. Brandt Skincare Microdermabrasion Age Defying Exfoliator
Age defying sounds pretty nice, right? Dr. Brandt’s microdermabrasion exfoliators will definitely give you the scrub factor but thanks to its lactic acid, which acts as a chemical exfoliator, it doesn’t need to be a harsh scrub. Plus with soothing botanical-derived ingredients, your skin will be soothed while it’s being exfoliated. Dr. Brandt Skincare Microdermabrasion Age Defying Exfoliator, $48 from Amazon
Tatcha The Rice Polish Foaming Enzyme Powder
This physical exfoliator is so gentle you might wonder if it’s even doing anything. Fret not—it certainly is. The Japanese rice bran that gives it its exfoliating power is non-abrasive and the rice and papaya enzymes in the product turn into a beautiful foam that will simultaneously exfoliate and soften your skin. Plus, thanks to a combo of green tea, rice, and algae, you’ll be getting that radiance you see in magazines. Tatcha The Rice Polish Foaming Enzyme Powder, $84 from Amazon
You’re skipping hydration.
Let’s say you’ve seen the light here. You’re down to use a dedicated makeup remover. You’re ready to double cleanse. You are now a sunscreen queen. You are taking care of your skin like a pro—from the outside. But what about the inside? That’s where hydration comes in. There are plenty of incredible moisturizers out there—in fact, we rounded up the best ones for various skin types and budgets right here—but hydration is another story. They’re not actually the same thing. Some products do work on hydrating your skin, and it’s great to use those. But if you’re noticing that you look a little lackluster, you may have dehydrated skin. And the best way to cure that is by drinking water. Listen, we all know that you’re supposed to drink your eight glasses a day. Some nutritionists even recommend drinking half your bodyweight in ounces of water every day is a lot to ask. But most Americans aren’t even coming close. Hydrate your body, hydrate your skin. One way to make it easier for you is to constantly have a bottle of water at your side—and no, we don’t mean a one-use water bottle from the gas station. Try these instead:
S’well Vacuum Insulated Water Bottle
We’re still not over the marble trend. Not sure why. It just looks good with everything. So when we saw S’well, rulers of the water bottle world, had a marble bottle, we had to get it. The double-walled construction of S’well bottles keeps water cold for 24 hours, so there’s really no excuse for not chugging it. S’well Vacuum Insulated Water Bottle, $35 from Amazon
Ello Pure BPA-Free Glass Water Bottle
Skip the BPA worries by just going glass. You can feel safe leaving it in your car on accident without worries of gross chemicals leaching into your water, while the silicone sleeve protects it from bumps and drops. Even better, it’s dishwasher safe. We’re in. Ello Pure BPA-Free Glass Water Bottle, $9.99 from Amazon
I’m guilty of this one myself. I get new products a lot: sometimes when we partner with brands, I’m subscribed to Boxycharm and FabFitFun, and I’m VIB Rouge at Sephora. Trust me, I’m a product junkie. But there is one rule that all product junkies must know. The top rule of skincare: Don’t try more than one new thing at once. If you’ve gotten excited about what we’re talking about here (and I hope you are!), make sure you slowly incorporate your newfound product loves into your skincare routine. If a product ends up interacting poorly with your current routine, you won’t know which one it is if you slapped three new products on your face last night. Similarly, if you have a reaction, you won’t be able to pinpoint what caused it if you’ve tried a whole new routine in the last week. Go ahead, be a product junkie if that’s what you’re into. In fact, I encourage it. Just be smart about it.
No longer am I the carefree twenty-something who wore SPF 15 (when I remembered to wear sunscreen at all) so I could “get a good base.” Now that I’m in my early—okay, mid—thirties, I apply lotions, creams, and serums constantly. I’ll try just about anything that promises to reduce the number of fine lines and (dare I put it in writing?) wrinkles that are slowly appearing on my face. Which is why I am so interested in the current collagen craze. There are a host of collagen supplements that promise to restore and rejuvenate the skin, but do they really work? I spoke with Paul Dean, MD, a San Diego-based dermatologist (and creator of Skin Resource.MD cosmeceuticals) to find out if collagen supplements really can give you better skin or if it’s just wishful thinking. Here’s what he had to say.
What is collagen?
“Collagen is the most abundant protein in our bodies,” Dean explains. “It’s found in muscles, bones, skin, blood vessels, the digestive system, and tendons.” Collagen is what helps give our skin strength and elasticity, and it’s what replaces dead skin cells. Unfortunately, our body’s collagen production decreases as we age, often starting as early as a woman’s twenties and peaking around menopause. And collagen depletion doesn’t just mean more fine lines. It can also affect bone and joint health, which is why it is so important to not only protect the collagen stores your body currently has but to stimulate collagen production, too. Though collagen does naturally decrease over time, certain activities can speed up collagen depletion. “Eating high amounts of sugar, excessive sun exposure, and smoking decreases our collagen production,” says Dean. “So as we age we need to increase our [collagen] levels to slow down the aging process from the inside out.”
A Quick Guide to Collagen Supplements
According to research done by the Nutrition Business Journal, Americans spent almost $100 million on collagen supplements in 2017. That must mean they work, right? Don’t hold your breath. According to Dean, “Collagen supplements simply won’t replace or stimulate new collagen growth in the skin.” Still, some research suggests that collagen supplements may improve wrinkles and skin elasticity. According to one study, significant improvement in skin elasticity was shown in participants who took a daily blend of collagen peptides and antioxidants. However, the study was conducted over a short period with a small number of participants and relied heavily on participant questionnaires. So the results, while promising, are in no way definitive proof that collagen supplements actually work.
[pullquote align=”center”]There is some evidence that collagen drinks and other ingestible supplements actually do improve skin elasticity and moisture.[/pullquote] If you still want to try a collagen supplement, it helps to know a little bit about how collagen supplements—especially powders, drinks, and pills—are made before you buy. And vegetarians and vegans, I’ll warn you now: You’re not going to like it. These types of collagen supplements are made from animal proteins that are often derived from the hides and bones of cows, chickens, and other animals. This is actually the same way that gelatin (yes, the stuff that makes your Jell-O jiggle) is made. When the meat cuts that contain the most collagen (bones, tendons, fatty connective tissue) are cooked slowly to a certain temperature, the collagen begins to melt and eventually forms a thick gelatin, which is what most collagen supplements (and gelled snacks) are made of. The more you know, right? There are hundreds of collagen supplements on the market. Some are focused on collagen as a dietary supplement, but most are found in the skincare aisle, promising more youthful-looking skin by improving elasticity and moisture. Here’s a quick, research-backed guide to help determine if various collagen supplements are worth the cost.
Collagen Powders, Vitamins, and Drinks
Collagen powders are a popular collagen supplement because they are usually tasteless and can be added to everything from your morning oatmeal and coffee to your evening meal. Because they can be added to just about anything—and because one scoop usually provides the recommended supplemental amount of collagen—collagen powders are often pricier than supplements in pill form. Collagen drinks are similar oral supplements and are often marketed as collagen water or collagen juice. These are most often derived from fish (still not vegan, but if you’re a pescatarian, collagen drinks are usually okay to imbibe) and are usually mixed with other flavors to nix the fishy aftertaste. There is some evidence that collagen drinks and other ingestible supplements actually do improve skin elasticity and moisture, but Dean says oral collagen supplements, including powders and drinks, won’t replace or stimulate new collagen growth in your skin. “In fact,” Dean continues, “your body won’t absorb the collagen [from supplements and drinks] as a replacement, and it will just pass through your system as a protein.” Even if you’re not a vegan, there are other issues to consider when taking oral collagen supplements derived from animals. Some doctors and scientists are concerned that there’s a risk that collagen supplements may contain high levels of heavy metals, which are often found in processed meats. Supplements are not regulated by the FDA, so it is up to the consumer (that’s you) to fact-check a supplement brand’s claims. Some supplement brands, like Vital Proteins, do use grass-fed, hormone-free beef and wild-caught fish to reduce the risk of harmful chemicals in their supplements. Plus, Dean warns, “Many supplements can cause allergic reactions since the supplements are usually derived from animal sources and your body may become sensitive to the foreign substance.” While some studies have shown promise that collagen powder supplements may improve skin’s elasticity and texture, Dean doesn’t put much stock in these claims and says, “If you want to stimulate collagen production and protect the collagen you have, stick to using products with hyaluronic acid, peptides, and retinol while wearing sunscreen and eating healthy on a daily basis.”
Collagen Creams and Serums
I don’t like being the bearer of bad news, but that expensive collagen cream you’ve been slathering on your face day and night is probably nothing more than a fancy moisturizer. According to Dean,“Collagen applied topically to the skin will not replace missing collagen in the skin because the collagen molecule is simply too large to penetrate into the deep layers of the skin.” “Collagen proteins are made up of long chains of amino acids (smaller organic compounds that combine to form proteins),” Dean continues. “When this long strand is broken down into short segments of three to five amino acids, these small bundles are called peptides and have been shown to stimulate collagen production.” Some research does show that peptides added to certain skincare products may possibly help boost the production of collagen to help restore skin tone and texture, reduce the appearance of wrinkles and fine lines, and increase skin’s moisture and elasticity due to their small nature.
[pullquote align=”center”]Almost 42 percent of dermal filler treatments administered from 2002 to 2010 were collagen injections.[/pullquote] Still, the best “anti-aging” products to use on your skin are those containing hyaluronic acid (a hydrating substance found naturally in the body), peptides, and retinol (a compound derived from vitamin A), Dean tells HealthyWay. Hyaluronic acid actually boosts collagen synthesis and helps skin retain moisture. “When retinol and other retinoids come into contact with skin, the enzymes in the body convert it into retinoic acid. Retinoic acid then works to increase cell turnover, which stimulates collagen and elastin production,” says Dean. “Because [it encourages] healthy skin cell turnover, retinol can treat and prevent multiple skin conditions from acne and eczema to dark spots and wrinkles”
Collagen Injections
Collagen injections were all the rage 15 years ago. In fact, almost 42 percent of dermal filler treatments administered from 2002 to 2010 were collagen injections. But Dean says that most dermatologists no longer use collagen injections. Instead they favor proven dermal fillers containing—surprise!—hyaluronic acid. “There are also laser treatments that can be used to stimulate collagen on the surface, but laser treatments are extremely expensive and really should be used in conjunction with lifestyle changes to promote collagen naturally,” says Dean.
How to Naturally Preserve Collagen Production
If you don’t want to spend a fortune on collagen supplements that may or may not improve your skin’s elasticity, there are a few things you can do to reduce collagen depletion without spending a dime (and some will even save you money!).
Quit smoking.
First of all, we’re in what I like to call the judgment-free tree. If you’re a smoker, I’m not here to make you feel bad about it. After all, you likely know all the health risks associated with smoking already. But you can add one more to the list: collagen depletion. Smoking depletes collagen production and directly contributes to premature aging. So one of the best things you can do for your skin is to stop smoking. And hey, I know it’s tough to quit, so if you need help to quit smoking, contact Freedom From Smoking, a program sponsored by the American Lung Association, for more information.
Reduce sun exposure.
As you may have guessed, I am a sun goddess. I love to be bronzed more than just about anything. But repeated sun exposure can seriously break down your body’s natural collagen stores, aging skin much more quickly. Luckily, this an easy one to fix! Wear sunscreen daily, even if it’s cloudy out. Not sure what kind of sunscreen you should get? Here’s a handy video on the ABCs of SPF. In addition to wearing your daily SPF, stay indoors when UV rays are at their most damaging, and opt instead to head outside early in the morning or late in the evening to minimize sun damage.
Improve your diet.
Finally, some good news: “Certain foods can increase collagen in our bodies,” says Dean. Dean recommends eating fish, like salmon, that are rich in omega-3 fatty acids. Additionally, avocados are high in omega-3s and vitamin E, which also has a positive effect on skin aging. Red vegetables such as red bell peppers and citrus fruits are high in vitamin C, which promotes collagen production. Because dark green vegetables and sweet potatoes contain high levels of vitamin A (which is where retinol comes from), they’re also an excellent addition to an anti-aging diet. “Not only are these favorable vitamins to consume,” says Dean, “but any of them are also are good to apply topically to promote healthy skin.” Seriously, try this moisturizing (and probably delicious) recipe for a sweet potato face mask.
Get more exercise.
Exercise can minimize your risk for heart disease and diabetes, and now a new study shows that when combined with certain dietary supplements, exercise may even boost the body’s natural collagen production. In the study, participants who ate a vitamin C–enriched gelatin supplement prior to intermittent exercise doubled the amount of collagen protein in their blood, unlike participants who took the placebo.
The Bottom Line on Collagen Supplements
Ultimately, more research needs to be done to determine whether collagen supplements really work. Personally, I’d rather save my hard-earned cash for skincare products that are proven to be 100 percent effective. Still, most derms agree that most collagen creams and serums aren’t bad for your skin, and they can prove to be great moisturizers even if they don’t do a whole lot for collagen production. The best thing you can do for your skin? Take care of it the way you take care of the rest of your body: by eating well, using sunscreen, and getting regular exercise.
The moment has come. You’ve traveled a long way to get here. This time five years ago you were fingering Cheeto dust at the bottom of the bag, trying to scrape out those last crumbs as you finished binge-watching reruns of Friends. (Alright, that was also you last weekend. Some things will never change, okay?) You were numbing your feelings with junk food and the wrong people, completely cut off from your own mind. You were at a job you hated, just trying to make it to the end of every day because sleep. You couldn’t remember when you’d last taken the time to look closely at your own body in the shower. Now, things are falling into place. You’re going to therapy and doing the internal work. You have a 401k and supportive coworkers. You’re brushing your teeth the recommended number of times a day and sleeping on a regular schedule and eating spinach most days. Crucially, you believe in your ability to live differently. One thing you have always thought would be fun to be—not as a necessity for value, but as the kind of cherry on top of a rich inner world, a fulfilling job, and healthy relationships—is A Polished Lady. You know at least one of these women already. They’re handy and scrappy and effortlessly pretty. They have an encyclopedic knowledge of life and beauty hacks. Their nails and their homes are always clean. They carry healthy snacks with them and can tell you exactly what to order at Starbucks that will keep you within your macronutrient goals for the day and they give great restaurant recommendations and their white shirts stay so, so white. They know how to sort laundry! “Effortlessly” is an illusion, of course. That is the trick! These women work incredibly hard. Either that or they have, over time, mastered a way of incorporating these routine investments in maintenance tasks (tasks that you’ve routinely ignored, because you like to spend as little time as possible in the shower, doing laundry, or staring at your own toes) so that they become effortless. Once you realize this, you can stop A) beating yourself up for being the lovable, beautiful slob that you are and B) telling yourself that you could never be like them even if you tried, so why bother? Now that you are meeting your most basic needs with regularity and are interested in this pursuit of polishedness, read on for 40 recommendations that may help you master the process.
1. Rub some dirt on your face.
Part of looking polished means keeping the largest organ of your body—your skin—healthy and clear. It’s interesting to think about who might’ve been the first human to say, “Let me rub this mud on my face and wait for half an hour while my pores get smaller.” We are glad someone did, though. Since our skin is of the oily, acne-prone variety, one of our skincare favorites is this Dead Sea mud mask, which is supposed to remove dead skin cells, improve acne scarring, stimulate circulation, and unclog pores. Amazon Made from mineral Dead Sea mud, shea butter, and aloe vera, this mask should be used only once a week and left on for 10-15 minutes (though we have definitely left it on for upwards of an hour). The scent is hard to pin down, but the words “floral,” “earthy,” “magical,” and “forest” come to mind. Pure Body Naturals Dead Sea Mud Mask for Face and Body, $12.66 from Amazon
2. Peel off blemishes.
This resurfacing Korean beauty product uses green tea extracts to brighten skin and tighten pores. Centella extract is supposed to help heal wounds, fight wrinkles, and improve skin elasticity. Amazon The product—comprised of 30 solution-soaked cotton pads—acts as both a chemical and mechanical exfoliant. Use it anywhere from twice a week to twice a day, depending on what your skin handles best. Neogen Bio-Peel Gauze Peeling Green Tea, 30 pads, $19.50 from Amazon
3. Patch your pimples.
Beauty writer Rio Viera-Newton swears by Cosrx Pimple Patches, calling them “the Holy Grail.” We all know that you aren’t supposed to pick at your pimples or pop them, but if you do, these patches—which come in varying sizes to help you find the perfect fit—can do serious damage control. Amazon Just put them on before bed and by morning your acne will be flattened and less inflamed. COSRX Acne Pimple Master Patch, 24 Patches, $4.97 from Amazon
4. Shrink and prevent painful bumps.
All bodies manifest stress in different ways. Ours tells us is it is unhappy—because of too little sleep, not eating well, or PMS—by sprouting swollen, angry bumps that scar our delicate skin, making that fresh-faced, makeup-free look kind of an impossibility. Amazon This cystic acne spot treatment uses bentonite clay to draw out impurities and calm irritated skin, making it the perfect balm for an inflamed face. It also employs pink grapefruit, lemon, spearmint, and peppermint, meaning it smells absolutely delicious. TreeActiv Cystic Acne Spot Treatment, $23.70 from Amazon
5. Acupressure your pressure away.
Speaking of stress, it’s best dealt with early. If at all possible, you want to manage your tension before it shows up in your body as a strange skin ailment. Enter the acupressure mat, a treatment you can administer to yourself whenever and wherever you need it. While the scientific literature suggests that acupuncture and acupressure benefits are only placebo effects, these can still be powerful—even equal to the positive effects offered by traditional treatments, according to Harvard Health—particularly in scenarios where your brain is controlling the symptoms, as with pain perception. Amazon Even if you don’t reap the desired benefits, if you have a flexible spending account, you should be able to use it to buy your mat, tax-free, meaning it can’t hurt to give it a try, right? This mat and pillow set comes with a vinyl carry bag for storage and travel, and claims to relieve stress, back, neck, and sciatic pain. The reviews are glowing, with the product receiving a 4.4-star rating out of 5 from 2,593 consumers. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Guess the placebo effect is strong with this one. Nayoya Acupressure Mat and Pillow Set, $39.97 from Amazon
6. Blot your shine.
There’s nothing that can ruin a lovely face of makeup quite like looking as if you’ve dunked your face in oil. For those of you who have naturally dry skin, this sounds like a strange concept, but please believe us when we say that many of us confront the daily reality of makeup melting off our faces because of a naturally oilier disposition. Amazon Rather than layering powder on your nose and cheeks several times a day, you can use blotting papers to get that cleaner T-zone look you crave. Clean & Clear Oil Absorbing Facial Blotting Sheets, $26.42 from Amazon
7. Screen the sun.
Another way to stay looking fresh is to protect your skin from UV rays. How? Get into the habit of wearing sunscreen every single day, rain or shine, summer or winter. Ideally you would do this with all parts of your exposed skin, but if you do it nowhere else, at least protect your face and neck. Amazon We’re fans of this hypoallergenic, noncomedogenic, fragrance-free, and oil-free daily facial moisturizer with broad-spectrum SPF 35 sunscreen, which moisturizes without looking greasy. Neutrogena Oil-Free Daily Facial Moisturizer With Broad Spectrum SPF 35 Sunscreen, $8.69 from Amazon
8. Shield yourself.
Because the importance of sun protection cannot be overstated, we’re going to also recommend mechanically screening the sunlight with a big, luscious hat—one of those floppy, wide-brimmed numbers that make you look classy as all get-out. Amazon Luxury Divas Wide Brimmed Wool Floppy Hat, $24.99 from Amazon
9. Shave with the right blades.
In order to get the best shave, experts recommend choosing a razor with a soothing strip and more than one blade. If you’re going to invest, might as well hit two birds with one stone and go for this Schick Hydro Silk TrimStyle Moisturizing Razor for Women with Bikini Trimmer, so that you can address all your different shaving needs with one razor. Amazon This comes with a built-in waterproof trimmer, an adjustable comb, five “curv-sensing” blades, and a soothing strip with hypoallergenic moisturizing serum. To soften the skin and make hair removal easier, be sure to let yourself warm up in the water for about 10 minutes before putting these blades to work. Schick Hydro Silk TrimStyle Moisturizing Razor, $8 from Amazon
10. Try a man’s razor.
For years we have been a devotee of the Schick Hydro Silk TrimStyle Moisturizing Razor for Women, so we feel pretty confident about this recommendation. But, let’s say you’ve been using that for a while and you’re looking to switch things up, perhaps to see if the grass is a little greener—and better trimmed—on the other, more masculine side of the fence. Amazon If there is one issue we are more inclined to defer to men on, it’s shaving, since the hair they’re removing is literally all across their faces, and it’s coarse. Certainly they’ve had incentive to master the art of shaving coarse hair well. Plus, their products are usually cheaper. GQ recommends sticking to three or fewer blades, as the fourth or fifth blade’s pass over sensitive skin may be too much. Gillette Mach3 Men’s Razor, $7.05 from Amazon
11. Use a pre-shave oil.
This luxe pre-shave oil contains grapeseed oil, organic olive oil, sandalwood oil, meadowfoam oil, vitamin E, wheat germ oil, cranberry oil, red raspberry oil, rosemary extract, and neem oil. It is formulated especially “for men with tough beards, ingrown hairs and sensitive skin prone to razor burn.” Amazon What is a woman’s underbrush if not a small beard? We’re taking a page from the men’s grooming book and buying some for our new shave routine as A Polished Lady. Best Pre-Shave Oil, Sandalwood, $12.97 from Amazon
12. Exfoliate down there to prevent ingrown hair.
To prevent irritation, stick to shaving your nether regions only once every third day, using a disinfected razor that is still sharp. (A razor is officially too old to use once you notice rusting, dulling, tugging of the hair, or nicking of the skin. To prolong your razor’s life, you can cut down your shaves to once or twice a week and store your razor in a dry place instead of in the shower, where it’s more likely to rust or accumulate bacteria.) Amazon Before these shaves, you can exfoliate the skin with these colorful washcloths to prevent those painful bumps where your hair curls back into your body like a terrible magic trick. Unclog those pores before it’s too late! 8-Piece Asian Exfoliating Bath Washcloths, $5.19 from Amazon
13. Nix razor bumps.
In addition to choosing the right razor, letting your skin warm up, and exfoliating, you’ll want to use an after-shave solution to minimize irritation. Amazon After splashing skin with cold water to close up pores and drying the skin, you can apply this solution—made up of organic coconut oil, unrefined African shea butter, vitamins A and E, jojoba oil, olive oil, and willow bark extract—to help with redness, ingrown hairs, and razor bumps. Shea Moisture Tea Tree After Shave & Bump Preventer Herbal Elixir, $8.79 from Amazon
14. Catch strays.
If you thought all you had to worry about was your bikini zone, well, maybe you are right! It is your body, wonderful however you choose to keep it. But, for many of us, feeling put together means making sure we have the means to get rid of some random stray hair, however unlikely a place it might pop up. Amazon Sometimes there are hairs on our faces that catch us by surprise, and for this, we have precision trimmers. If your eyebrows, nose hairs, or delicate ladystache are giving you grief, mow ‘em down with a handy gadget like this one, which comes with multiple attachments to fit your needs. Philips Norelco Nose, Ear, and Eyebrow Hair Trimmer NT5175/49, $17.95 from Amazon
15. Wax on, wax off.
There comes a time in every lady’s life when she considers the pros and cons of waxing. For those of you unwilling to brave the salon (or spend all your money there), you may be interested in at-home options. Amazon According to many, waxing is painful and not worth all the effort—but sometimes the promise of a few extra hairless-without-having-to-shave days is worth it, especially if you’ve got a vacation planned. This waxing kit includes four packs of hard wax (lavender and honey!), a professional-style variety that adheres to the hair instead of the skin. SKINOSM Hard Wax Warmer Kit, $28.99 from Amazon
16. Make your hair removal portable by always carrying a pair of tweezers.
Now that we’ve covered the bases as far as body hair goes, let’s consider the hair on our heads. Flakes in the ’do will not do, so if you suffer from regular dandruff, make sure to have a few shampoos in your lineup to rotate between that make your hair feel luxurious and not sad. Amazon This hypoallergenic shampoo from Maple Holistics is gentle and contains no sulfates or parabens. After 4,484 customer reviews, the product has received a rating of 4.4 out of 5 stars. Maple Holistics Sage Shampoo for Anti Dandruff, $10.40 from Amazon
18. Hot oil treatment yourself.
Your hair needs some hot, hot lovin’ to keep it shiny, strong, and soft. Treat yourself by giving it a weekly hot oil soak.
Whether you suffer from stankfeet, calluses, toenail fungus, or athlete’s foot, regularly dunking your dogs in this tea tree oil foot soak should be your salvation, according to 3,352 reviewers who gave this product a 4.7-out-of-5-stars rating. Amazon Tea Tree Oil Foot Soak, $13.16 from Amazon
20. Peel your way from Baby Dino to baby toes.
Before you begin a regimen of regular soaks, you may want to take on the task of watching your stompers molt like two desert lizards. Amazon Truly, during the treatment, they will seem as exotic to you as two rainforest insects during metamorphosis. You will barely recognize your feet by the end, because, friend, they will be the feet of an infant human, as is promised by the brand name, Baby Foot. Lavender Scented Baby Foot Exfoliant Foot Peel, $15.99 from Amazon
21. File your feet.
If you want to be A Polished Lady while not also becoming A Broke Lady, you will want to invest in the kinds of items that you’d be treated to during a professional pedicure so that you don’t have to spend a big chunk o’ cash on them several times a month. Amazon A foot file is the callus remover you’ll need to make your DIY pedi a reality. Microplane Colossal Pedicure Rasp, $8.99 from Amazon
22. Choose a go-to nail color that’s clean and versatile.
Nude, white, and light pink are all good options for a nail color that will match almost anything while resembling the color of your actual nail or nail bed. Amazon essie nail polish in fiji, $8.77 from Amazon
23. Tend to your cuticles, carefully.
Even if you don’t have time to paint your nails, a little cuticle work and clear polish can go a long way. This stainless steel cuticle trimmer and cuticle pusher are easy to hold because of an ergonomic non-slip rubber-coated handle design. Experts recommend not cutting your cuticles because of the increased risk for nail damage and infection. Amazon The point is this: Your cuticle is your last line of defense against bacteria entering the nail, and live skin should not be cut. Instead, use the cuticle pusher to push back the cuticle skin, only using the trimmer to nip away dead skin and hangnails. ECBASKET Cuticle Trimmer with Cuticle Pusher, $8.49 from Amazon
24. Or keep your cuticles completely intact and condition them.
If you don’t want to do anything at all to your cuticles and are more concerned with making your nails strong and healthy, you can still look polished by keeping your nails filed or trimmed and throwing on some cuticle oil with healing properties, like this option with lavender, lemon, and antifungal tea tree essential oils. Amazon Bee Naturals Nail Oil, $17.83 from Amazon
25. Scrub your paws with a little nail brush.
Your long, gorgeous, pristine nails will only stay that way until you eat lunch, or a chocolate donut, or dig into a bag of Cheetos. Then it’s gunk city. Amazon Even if your nails are painted and you can’t readily see the grime underneath them, it’s just unsanitary. Invest in some nail brushes and keep them around your home and in your purses so that they’re always available when you need them. BTYMS Handle Nail Brush Nail Hand Scrubbing Cleaning Brush, Pack of 6, $6.99 from Amazon
26. Find a tailor and a sewing kit.
One of the surest ways to look put together is to wear well-made clothing that fits you properly. Choose fabrics that are high quality rather than the kind of cheap threads that are designed to fall apart after a single wash. One of the easiest ways to test a material’s durability while you’re shopping is to take a handful of it and ball it up in your fist; if when you let go it stays crinkled rather than returning to its original shape, you should probably pass. Find a good tailor and cherish them. Amazon Then, get a sewing kit for yourself so you can do the simple stuff—like replacing buttons or patching up holes—by yourself. Weecosy Sewing Kit, $9.99 from Amazon
27. Get a couple of travel makeup bags and fill them with the same items to keep in different places.
Once you’ve mastered a shorthand version of your makeup routine—something quick and dirty that you’d be able to do in a mirror the size of the palm of your hand in little more than five minutes—buy those items in sets of two or three so that you can make a few different mini makeup bags to travel with you anywhere.
One way you can cut down on the number of things you need to bring along in your travel makeup bag is by choosing multipurpose items, like a lip color that’s good for any occasion and that can be used as both a blush and a lip moisturizer. Amazon This Lipstick Queen Lipstick in Medieval is a sheer red with moisturizing vitamin E, so it will offer a subtle lip color—modeled after the natural blush medieval women used to create on their lips by rubbing lemon on them—while preventing dryness. Smudge on the apples of your cheeks and you’ve got a quick blush! Lipstick Queen Lipstick, $18 from Amazon
29. Floss.
In addition to the makeup, throw in something mouth-freshening—like toothpaste or mouthwash—and floss. Amazon Floss might seem like overkill, but imagine the number of times you’ve been stuck in public having eaten something seedy or gristly or pulpy, with no way to clean between your teeth. You’ll thank us later. Oral-B Glide Pro-Health Comfort Plus Dental Floss, $5.77 from Amazon
30. Smell good.
In addition to a perfume that you keep at home, you can stash away a small bit of smell-good scent to slap on after the gym or before you go out for after-work festivities. Amazon This fruit-forward rollerball from DKNY is described as “a modern feast for the senses.” Donna Karan DKNY Be Delicious Eau de Parfum for Women, $18.74 from Amazon
31. Remove your stains on the go.
Being A Polished Lady is a lot of work if you haven’t gathered that much yet. It means anticipating problems and already having the solution available. A common problem is STAINS, so another thing you’ll want to have around at all times is a travel-size stain remover since every stain is best dealt with early. Amazon At home you can get to the specifics of how to best deal with the stain, but if you’re out you have to work with what you’ve got. (A quick warning: Don’t treat the stain with this stuff while the clothing is still on your body.) OxiClean Max Force Gel Stick, Pack of 2, $6.88 from Amazon
32. Fit what you need into one or two big purses that will match anything you wear.
As we have established, looking polished is all about planning—and packing. When you’re going out for a long day—one that starts with work and ends in a night out with no time to go home and freshen up in between—you’ll want to rely on a large purse. Amazon Buy a few that you like and at least one that will match with anything you wear and rotate between them. Jack&Chris New Vintage Cow Leather Handbag, Tote Bag, MC506
33. Invest in a pair of earrings that won’t irritate your ears and that you can wear every day.
The point is to look put together but not to spend your life doing so. Hacks like choosing a pair of earrings that you don’t have to change out of every night can make things simpler for you. We love our tiny, endless hoop gold earrings because they are real gold, meaning they cause zero irritation, and they match with everything. Amazon We literally haven’t taken them out a single time in over 7 months. There’s just something that feels glamorous about showering in jewelry! 14K Yellow Gold Continuous Endless Hoop Earrings, $59.95 from Amazon
34. Cheese with confidence—and charcoal.
Pearly whites feeling lackluster? The color of your teeth can have a huge impact on your overall appearance of health. Many (74 percent of 17,128 customers, at least) swear by the whitening powers of stain-sucking charcoal, specifically this Active Wow Teeth Whitening Charcoal Powder. Amazon The product is a natural alternative to peroxides, whitening teeth over time by removing marks from the big offenders like coffee, wine, and cigarettes. Be warned that you will look like your teeth are rotting out of your skull when you’re in the middle of this treatment. Active Wow Teeth Whitening Charcoal Powder, $19.99 from Amazon
35. Or whiten more traditionally.
If you’re a bit skeptical about rubbing something gritty on your teeth because you love your enamel VERY, VERY MUCH and don’t want to risk anything happening to it and are worried about the fact that dentists haven’t exactly given their seal of approval to the charcoal whitening method, you can always rely on the tried and true Crest Whitestrips. Amazon Crest 3D White Glamorous White Whitestrips, $34.79 from Amazon
36. Stop stuffing your workout clothes in your work bag.
Your sweaty, smelly sneakers do not belong right next to your expensive work laptop! Purchase a bag that’s intended specifically for the gym, like this sleek, breathable, and not-too-big option with a special compartment for shoes. Amazon You’ll be a regular gym rat before you know it! Kuston Sports Gym Bag Shoes Compartment Travel Duffel Bag, $29.89 from Amazon
37. Weekend in style.
The days of lugging around your beat-up rolling suitcase from 2009 are over. No longer will you struggle to stuff your barely-meets-size-requirements suitcase into the overhead bin as annoyed passengers look on. Amazon You are A Polished Lady now, and you will travel elegantly with this well-designed weekender bag, which holds three to five outfits and your toiletries while looking extremely pretty. Malirona Canvas Weekender Bag Travel Duffel Bag, $31.99 from Amazon
38. Buy a neutral-colored clutch as your backup purse.
While a big purse is a must-have for the woman on the go, she must also have something smaller to switch to when it’s not a good idea to lug around a giant bag, like at a club or party. Amazon Carrying around a neutral-colored clutch inside your larger bag gives you the option of leaving your larger items at work or at a friend’s place and taking with you only what you need for the night out, without risking a huge mismatch. Humble Chic Vegan Leather Wristlet Wallet Clutch Bag, $19.89 from Amazon
39. Declutter your home and wardrobe.
Sometimes one of the most transformative things you can do is to simplify the space where you spend most of your time. Amazon In this book, Japanese cleaning consultant Marie Kondo gives a detailed guide on how to minimize the things that are junking up your home and stealing your joy. The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, $9.99 from Amazon
40. Hoard some words that ground you.
As you’re making all the external changes, don’t neglect what’s inside. Heather Havrilesky’s weekly advice column, Ask Polly, is one of our go-to reads when despair is high and inspiration is low. Amazon How to Be a Person in the World: Ask Polly’s Guide Through the Paradoxes of Modern Life is a compilation of some of her greatest hits. How to Be a Person in the World, $10.20 from Amazon
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