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Want To Learn How To Get Rid Of Cellulite? We Asked The Experts Which Treatments Work (And Which Ones To Avoid)

Mattress skin. Cottage cheese thighs. Orange peel tush. There are dozens of words we’ve come up with to avoid talking directly about the cellulite that starts cropping up on our bodies when we least expect it.
The reality is cellulite is simply a part of life—a normal part of life at that. As many as 80 to 90 percent of girls and women who are past the puberty stage have at least some cellulite somewhere on their bodies.
Unfortunately, being one of the girls doesn’t necessarily make us love our lumps. We live in a society where tabloids splash paparazzi shots of celebrity women across their covers with giant headlines labeling the stars “imperfect” and using arrows to point to a few dimples on their thighs. The implication (however false it may be) is clear: Cellulite is proof your body’s falling apart.
We’ve certainly internalized those headlines. In one survey performed on behalf of a company that develops laser treatments, women with cellulite rated their own appearance on average lower than the appearance of women without cellulite. Almost all (97 percent) of the participants with cellulite said they’d change their appearance if they could.
But while there’s almost no avoiding the lumpy fat that crops up on tummies, butts, and thighs of famous models and not-so-famous moms driving minivans around the neighborhood, cellulite treatments are out there if you want them. The problem for most women is sorting through the overhyped claims of fast fixes and overpriced offers to find cellulite treatments that can help us reclaim some of that smooth, pre-puberty skin.
That’s where we come in. We talked to the experts about the most popular cellulite treatments out there and found out what works, what doesn’t, and what you can do if you’re not feeling comfortable in the skin you’re in.

Cellulite: A Female Curse?

Before we even consider treating cellulite, did you ever wonder what the heck was going on down under your skin to make all those bumps and valleys? Let’s take trip back to high school science, shall we?
The skin has three layers: The epidermis is the outermost layer of skin. The dermis is the layer right beneath the epidermis. Below that is the subcutaneous layer, which is made up of fat and connective tissue.
“Throughout the fat layer, there are connective tissue septae, or bands, that run down from the skin and divide the fat layer into compartments,” explains Sejal Shah, MD, a board-certified dermatologist and RealSelf contributor from New York City. “Cellulite occurs when this underlying fat begins to push up against the overlying connective tissue and skin, while those septae pull down the skin, resulting in that characteristic dimpled appearance.”
Essentially, the fat that’s in our bodies sections off into little pockets deep underneath the skin, resulting in the dimples we know as cellulite. It typically begins sometime in a woman’s twenties or thirties—although it can happen earlier (some teenagers have cellulite) or later—and it’s most prevalent on the thighs, butt, and lower abdomen, although it can also appear on the arms.
While these fatty pockets can crop up on men’s bodies, it’s much rarer than it is in women. Just about 10 percent of cisgender men have cellulite, compared to more than 80 percent of cisgender women. There are a number of reasons for the gender divide, but the main thing? It’s yet another thing we can blame on our hormones, Shah says, specifically estrogen, the primary female sex hormone.
“Estrogen plays role in the development of cellulite,” Shah explains. “Women tend to have more body fat, and women’s fat is typically distributed in the thighs, hips, and buttocks, which are common areas for cellulite.”
Also at play in cellulite’s appearance is the way muscle develops in men versus women.
“In men, the connective tissue bands that connect skin and muscle are thicker, more in number, and form a crisscross pattern (unlike the vertical pattern in women), making it less likely for the fat to push through,” Shah notes.
Of course, not all women develop cellulite, and just why that happens and who it will happen to is still somewhat up in the air. Even scientists have yet to suss out exactly why some women wake up one day to cellulite while others never experience it at all.
“Because we don’t know exactly why people get cellulite, it’s not always possible to prevent it, especially since factors like genes and hormones play a role,” Shah says. But there are certain risk factors that tend to up your chances of taking a peek at your butt in the mirror and spotting some cellulite, including:

  • Genetics (both being female and having a parent who had cellulite)
  • A diet high in fat, carbohydrates, and salt, but low in fiber
  • Lifestyle factors such as smoking, being sedentary, and lack of exercise (which results in low muscle tone)
  • Poor circulation
  • Hormonal imbalances or increased sensitivity to hormones
  • Use of hormonal contraceptives
  • Aging (as we age, the skin and connective tissues naturally weaken and lose elasticity, Shah says)
  • Weight gain (but even thin people can have cellulite, Shah is quick to point out)

Of course, that all begs the question: What can you do about it?

Cellulite Treatments

If you have cellulite and it doesn’t bother you, you can stop reading right now. Okay, well hold up—not quite yet.
The truth is, cellulite is normal, Beverly Hills plastic surgeon Deepak Raj Dugar, MD, says. It’s not a disease. It’s not a reason to hit the emergency room. And while some of the potential causes (such as smoking or an unhealthy diet) can adversely impact your health, cellulite in and of itself is not going to hurt you and is not considered harmful to your health by the medical community.
If you want to let it be, there’s no reason to pay it any more attention. But what if you fall in the “I want it gone” camp?
There’s good news and bad news ahead. When asked if there are any means for cellulite treatment that are legitimate and backed by science, most doctors don’t pull any punches.
“Short answer is no,” Dugar says. “There have been no studies to ever show that a device, medication, or system was able to effectively reduce cellulite across the board.”
In fact, some body-contouring plastic surgery methods, such as liposuction, have actually been shown to make the appearance of cellulite worse. Okay, case closed, right? You’re stuck with orange peel thighs and cottage cheese tushie.
Not exactly. While there’s no magic pill that will address every single person’s cellulite issues, there are some options out there.
Here’s the real deal on the most popular cellulite treatments currently available.

Retinoid or Retinol Creams

Can cellulite treatment really be as easy as rubbing a cream on every day for a few weeks? Well, no, says Shah. “It won’t directly treat the cellulite, but [it] may improve skin texture and tightness, therefore reducing the appearance of cellulite.” Be wary of just any cream that you find in the drugstore or online that claims to get rid of cellulite, though. It’s only those with the active ingredients retinoid or retinol that offer that skin-tightening benefits.

Compression Stockings

Like creams, these seem like a fast and easy fix for cellulite woes, but they’re more cosmetic than a long-term solution, Shah says. Wearing support hose can reduce excess fluid, making the cellulite less apparent on your thighs, butt, and tummy. But once you’ve spent some time without that support, the dimpling effect will just return. The same goes for dry brushing and the “wraps” popular on Instagram. The compression effect can help in the short term, but it’s not a long-term cellulite treatment.

Cellfina

The first device to ever get FDA clearance for long-term treatment of cellulite literally cuts the connective tissue bands that pull down the skin and create the dimpled appearance of cellulite, Shah says. Performed by a doctor in an outpatient setting, Cellfina treatments use a small, needle-sized device that cuts those cellulite-causing bands just beneath the skin. The device is “minimally invasive,” according to the company, and side effects are typically limited to tenderness and bruising. The results are expected to last for up to a year, Shah says, although the company boasts patients can be cellulite free for as long as three years.

Cellulaze

Another treatment that can only be done by a doctor, Cellulaze is a cellulite treatment that’s performed in an office setting in an hour or two, allowing patients to go home immediately after treatment. “This [is] a laser treatment in which the laser is inserted just underneath the skin to cut the connective tissue bands that are causing the dimpled appearance,” Shah explains. Again, side effects tend to include tenderness and bruising, and the company notes there may be some leaking from the incision. Patients may have to wear compression garments for a short period of time after the procedure and avoid strenuous activity for as much as two weeks after treatment. The company behind the procedure promises results will improve over time and should last up to a year.

Other Laser Techniques

Cellulaze is a brand name (and one of the most popular treatments), but there are other radiofrequency lasers out there that are used to address the appearance of cellulite. Dugar says these devices use suction pulsing technology to help “separate the fibrous septa from the skin to reduce the herniation fat,” but warns that the efficacy of these is still low, and results are not permanent.

Fillers

Just as some people get fillers injected into their face to address fine lines and wrinkles, it’s possible to use injections to address cellulite. “These injectable treatments can be used to mask the appearance of cellulite by filling in the dimples,” Shah explains.

Brazilian Butt Lift

One of the most invasive cellulite treatments is less of a treatment and more of a way to mask the dimples by creating a barrier between the skin and the subcutaneous tissues below, Dugar says. A Brazilian butt lift involves liposuction, pulling fat from your flanks, abdomen, arms, and legs, and re-injecting that fat into your buttocks and thighs.
“When done properly, you can effectively create a barrier between the skin and the fibrous connective issues below, thereby reducing the appearance of the cellulite,” Dugar says. But, he warns, “this may only be temporary as studies have never shown that this is an effective treatment for cellulite. I have noticed that it can temporarily decrease the appearance of it.”

Diet and Exercise

No, it won’t eliminate all your cellulite, but it can have an impact, Shah says, at least on how your cellulite appears. “Being overweight may worsen cellulite because the more subcutaneous fat you have, the more likely it is to put stress on the connective tissue and bulge,” she explains.
Of course, cellulite can also happen in thin individuals, and exercise does not necessarily get rid of cellulite completely, but it can make it appear differently beneath the skin.
“As the connective tissue underneath the skin weakens or loses elasticity, it allows the fat to bulge,” Shah explains. “Strengthening the muscles in those areas will in turn tighten the skin (and burn excess fat overall), making the skin appear smoother and cellulite less noticeable.”
Any exercise is good exercise, but if you’re looking at your workout as a cellulite treatment, you’ll want to mix up your fitness routine.
“Combining aerobic activity with strength training is key to improving the appearance cellulite, and aerobic/cardio exercise alone is unlikely make much of a difference,” Shah says.
At the end of the day, cellulite may not be something that we can beat or even need to be that concerned about. But if you’re focusing on a healthy lifestyle, from diet to exercise to water intake to avoiding smoking, you may be able to help stave of developing more and help the cellulite that’s already there be just a little bit less apparent. If nothing else, a healthier lifestyle will equal a healthier you.

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Bug Spray And UV Rays: A Guide To A Safe, Healthy Summer

One of my kids’ favorite books is a hilariously ridiculous story we’ve read at least a hundred times since it first appeared at the library two years ago. The main character, a crocodile, begins by professing his love of watermelon, but dissolves into a full-on freak out when he realizes he’s swallowed a seed. Everything turns out okay for this anxious reptile, of course. He belches up the seed on the last page.
I have to admit, my husband and I get a kick out of this book almost as much as our kids do—him because he loves to act out the panic for our kids; me because this fear of swallowing a watermelon seed is something I connect with. As a kid, I fell for the myth that swallowing a seed was dangerous territory. I’m certain it was my older brother who started the whole thing, waiting until my mom was out of earshot before convincing me swallowing the seeds would result in a belly full of growing watermelons.

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I learned the truth eventually. Like most adults, I know better than to believe that a watermelon plant could take root in my guts, but that doesn’t mean we’re not all buying into other summertime falsehoods.
Let’s shed some light on some of the most frequently discussed summer health issues so we can all get back to enjoying our time (and snacks) in the sun.

Food Facts

Cookouts and tailgates are some of the best parts of the summer months, but bad information about food safety can turn a great party upside down. Next time you load up your coolers with your favorite grillable meats and a pack of LaCroix, consider whether or not you’re doing enough to protect yourself and your guests from foodborne illness.

During the summer months, we actually see a rise in foodborne illnesses, according to the United States Department of Agriculture (USDA). We can blame warmer temperatures and the questionable practices that often come with outdoor food prep for this. Food that should be refrigerated often isn’t, and the people in charge of food prep are less careful about spreading germs with unwashed hands.
“Make sure you keep lots of superchilled ice and gel packs,” advises Julie Joffrion, fitness nutrition specialist and owner of All Inclusion Health. This will ensure that your food stays around the ideal refrigerator temperature, she says, which the U.S. Food and Drug Administration lists as 40 degrees Fahrenheit or below.

Additionally, the USDA suggests keeping food and drinks in separate coolers because drink coolers are opened more frequently, causing the inside temperature of the cooler to drop. Make sure you are cooking meats to their recommended temperatures and keeping your hands clean by having hand sanitizer nearby when you can’t make it to a sink.


While we’re talking about summer food, are you still waiting to swim for at least 30 minutes after you eat? This is a summer safety guideline that may be nothing more than and old wives’ tale. According to Duke Health, there isn’t scientific evidence to back up the belief it’s dangerous to swim on a full stomach. As this resource points out, it actually makes a lot of sense to fuel yourself before you engage in rigorous exercise.

“Swimming is a very heavy exercise, and you’ll need good protein and carbs in your system before you dive in,” says Joffrion. Her recommendation for fueling your swim? A turkey sandwich on whole wheat bread.

Skin Deep

When it comes to summer health tips, skincare and sun protection shine through most—and have the most fiction among the fact. Is it okay to get a base tan? Is sunscreen protecting you from cancer risk, or is it actually a part of the problem?
It’s important to understand that all burning of the skin, or even tanning, is skin damage on some level. The idea of a base tan being safe or protecting you from further burning is completely unfounded, according to Tsippora Shainhouse, MD, FAAD, a skincare specialist.

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“If your skin gets tanned, it means that it has been assaulted by UV radiation and damaged,” she explains. “Your skin puts down this ‘base tan’ in an attempt to protect itself from burning and further damage, but it means that it has already been damaged.”

So, sunscreen—we all should wear it, right?

The answer is yes.
But in 2014, multiple publications reported on a study published in the journal Naturethe study found that sunscreen “only provided partial protection” against melanoma, and one study author told the Daily Mail that sunscreen should still be used—just in conjunction with other preventative measures, like “wearing hats and loose fitting clothing, and seeking shade when the sun is at its strongest.”


The Melanoma Research Foundation cites numerous studies which state that sunscreen reduces the incidences (not increases, as some online publications claim) of melanoma. The organization recommends generously applying high-SPF (30 or above) sunscreen year-round, no matter the weather, but they also recommend wearing protective clothing, seeking shade when sun rays are the strongest, and refraining from tanning. To avoid a deficiency, people should consume ample amounts of vitamin D, particularly if they live in areas with low sun exposure.

“Everyone should try to avoid direct UV exposure from tanning beds and during peak sun hours (10 a.m. to 3 p.m.), wear a broad-spectrum sunscreen … which covers both UVA and UVB rays, and wear protective clothing, sunglasses, and wide-brimmed hats when outdoors,” says Shainhouse.
There aren’t really any exceptions to this rule. So if you’re still hanging on to the idea that you can’t get a burn on a cloudy day or you believe you’re protected from the damaging effects of overexposure to the sun because your skin is dark, think again. Everyone needs to wear sunscreen if they’re spending time in the sun. And, when it comes to makeups with added SPF, they’re probably not enough to protect your skin.

Bug (Spray) Bites

Protecting yourself from bug bites is about so much more than avoiding annoying itching and scratching. Some bug bites are associated with a risk of illness or disease.
We know that tick bites, specifically from ticks native to the northeastern region of the United States, are related to an increased risk for Lyme Disease, as reported by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Mosquito bites are also associated with risks of disease and infection, according to the Mayo Clinic. In both cases, prevention is the best defense.

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Even so, there are fears surrounding the use of bug spray containing DEET. Several years ago, there were reports of DEET exposure causing seizures. Although these reports were true, the National Pesticide Information Center, an organization that works to provide “objective, science-based information about pesticides and pesticide-related topics,” reports that these instances were associated with improper use of the product, including ingestion.


The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends foregoing insect repellants on children younger than two months.
Not only is it true that DEET is safe when used as directed, it is also the best way to repel ticks while outdoors. Dermatologic surgeon Sejal Shah, MD, says that, ultimately, the risks of a bug bite–related infection or disease are much worse than any potential risks associated with DEET.

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Stick with the recommendations from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention: Wear long sleeves and pants while hanging out in heavily wooded areas, and use bug spray containing at least 20 percent DEET (the AAP recommends not using any product with more than 30 percent DEET on children).
When selecting a bug spray, Shah encourages consumers to pay close attention to the ingredients in their bug spray and double check how effective it will be at protecting you from specific insects in your area.

More Than a Fashion Statement

Many people falsely believe that their skin is the only organ in their body that needs a little extra protection from the sun, according to Ryan Parker, doctor of optometry and director of professional services at Essilor.
“[Most] people don’t realize the sun can be as harmful to their eyes as it is to their skin,” he says. “Repeated exposure can increase your chances of developing eyelid skin cancer, cataracts, or experiencing temporary blindness.”

Repeated exposure can add up over time, causing serious damage to your eyes. To protect your eyes from sun damage, the American Academy of Ophthalmology recommends wearing sunglasses that protect your eyes from UV rays all year long as well as wide-brimmed hats. Avoid looking at the sun directly, and don’t forget to wear your shades on cloudy days, too.
According to Joel Schlessinger, MD, a dermatologic surgeon, many people are unaware or ill-informed about how the sun can damage their scalp. They may be vigilant about keeping their skin protected but forget to cover their heads. He recommends hats as the simplest protection, but also points out that sunscreen powders do exist for use on the scalp.

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A healthy summer is a fun summer, so take care of your body during the hottest months of the year. Getting the facts straight on sun protection, bug bite prevention, and food safety is a good first step toward being an informed advocate for your own health.

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What's The Best Birth Control? The One That Works For You; Here’s How To Find It

You know that you don’t want kids (or more kids) right now, or maybe ever. But you don’t want to have to worry about changing your lifestyle choices in order to avoid pregnancy. Instead you want the best birth control: something that is reliable at preventing pregnancy, doesn’t have nasty side effects, and fits in with your daily schedule.
Luckily, in 2018, you can have all those things.
For decades, birth control meant one option: the pill. Now, however, there are myriad choices. Women looking for the best birth control can chose low-hormone or even non-hormonal options. There are birth control options that you take daily, only use when needed, or get once and don’t have to think about again for years. You can even decide whether you want to have a monthly cycle or would prefer to skip your periods altogether.
All that choice is a wonderful thing because it allows you to find the best birth control for your body and lifestyle. Unfortunately, it can also be a bit overwhelming. Choosing the best birth control can mean doing a lot of research—and some soul searching—to decide what you really want.
HealthyWay spoke to women’s health experts about the advantages and disadvantages of the most common [linkbuilder id=”736″ text=”forms of birth control”], as well as what women should consider when trying to find the best birth control option for them. Here’s what they had to say:

What is the best birth control?

Finding the best birth control is individual to each woman, says GG Collins, MD, a fellow of the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists and a fertility specialist in Progyny’s provider network.
“There are benefits to each form of contraception, and matching the option that works best with your lifestyle and minimizes your side effects is the right choice,” she says.
Considering the effectiveness of the birth control, how long it is designed to last, and any side effects are all important when you’re trying to find the best birth control for you.
Here’s a breakdown of these factors for popular birth control options, arranged from most effective to least effective at preventing pregnancy.
As you consider what’s the best birth control for you, remember that most of these forms of birth control do not protect against sexually transmitted infections or diseases.

Copper IUD (ParaGard)

Effectiveness: Intrauterine devices (better known as IUDs) are the most effective form of birth control, preventing more than 99 percent of unwanted pregnancies. The copper IUD prevents pregnancy as soon as it is placed. It is also an extremely effective form of emergency contraception: If it is placed within five days of unprotected sex it will prevent pregnancy more than 99.9 percent of the time.
How It Works: All IUDs are t-shaped devices that sit in the uterus and disrupt how the sperm would normally get to an egg. With the sperm unable to reach the egg, pregnancy is unlikely to occur. The copper on ParaGard also provides an additional level of protection by creating an environment that is toxic to sperm and eggs.
This may be the best birth control for you if:

  • You want effective, long-lasting birth control. The copper IUD can prevent more than 99 percent of pregnancies for up to 12 years.
  • You do not want hormonal birth control. The copper IUD has no hormones, making it a popular choice for women who don’t want to disrupt their natural hormonal balance. “Many women choose the copper IUD because it does not have a hormonal component,” Collins says.
  • You’re breastfeeding. The copper IUD can be used by breastfeeding moms.
  • You need emergency contraception after having unprotected sex.
  • You might want to become pregnant in a few years. Fertility returns quickly after any type of IUD is removed.

This may not be the best birth control for you if:

  • Some women shy away from the copper IUD because it must be inserted by a physician. This can be uncomfortable, particularly for women who have not had children, Collins says.
  • Some women also experience ongoing cramping or irregular bleeding, and more intense periods, Collins says. “The main reason for discontinuation tends to be due to heavier and more painful periods that occasionally occur with the copper IUD,” she explains.

Hormonal IUD

Effectiveness: Like ParaGard, hormonal IUDs (sold under the brand names Mirena, Kyleena, Liletta, and Skyla) prevent more than 99 percent of unwanted pregnancies. However, they can take up to seven days to start working fully, so be sure to use a back-up form of birth control in the meantime.
How It Works: Hormonal IUDs thicken cervical mucus and disrupt sperm’s journey through the uterus, making it less likely that sperm will reach an egg. In addition, these IUDs release the hormone progestin, which prevents the ovaries from releasing an egg. Depending on the brand, hormonal IUDs can prevent pregnancy for up to six years.
This may be the best birth control for you if:

  • You want long-acting, effective birth control that you only need to think about once. “Once an IUD is in place, women don’t have to think about it,” says Jessica Grossman, MD, CEO of Medicines360. “It’s ‘set it and forget it’ contraception, a key benefit for women ages 20 to 40.”
  • You have heavy periods. Unlike copper IUDs, hormonal IUDs make periods lighter or can stop them all together. You’ll also likely experience fewer cramps.
  • You might want to become pregnant in a few years. Fertility returns quickly after any type of IUD is removed.

This may not be the best birth control for you if:

  • Having a period gives you peace of mind: “Some women like to have a monthly period for social or personal reasons, and many women with the hormonal IUD do not have regular periods,” Collins says. You might also experience irregular spotting.

Tubal Ligation

Effectiveness: Tubal ligation, also known as female sterilization or having your tubes tied, is 99 percent effective at preventing pregnancy.
How It Works: During a surgical procedure, a doctor blocks or cuts the fallopian tubes, the pathway that an egg takes to get from the ovaries to the uterus. With the tubes blocked, sperm cannot reach the egg, so pregnancy can’t occur.
This may be the best birth control for you if:

  • You are sure you don’t want to become pregnant in the future. This is a permanent procedure.

This may not be the best birth control for you if:

  • You’re unsure about having kids, or you would like the option to have more kids in the future.
  • You don’t like the idea of surgery. Unlike many long-lasting birth control options that can be placed in an office, tubal ligation is a surgical procedure that requires some anesthesia (it can be done with general or local anesthesia).

Birth Control Implant

Effectiveness: The birth control implant is more than 99 percent effective at preventing pregnancy. It is effective immediately if you get it within the first five days of your cycle. If not, use backup birth control (like condoms) for a week.
How It Works: The birth control implant is a rod the size of a matchstick that is implanted under the skin of your upper arm. It releases the hormone progestin, which stops an egg from being released, and also thickens the mucus around the cervix, making it harder for sperm to get into the uterus. The implant lasts for up to four years.
This may be the best birth control for you if:

  • You want to avoid estrogen. While most hormonal birth controls contain estrogen, the implant provides highly effective birth control without it, making it a popular choice for women who want fewer hormones, Collins says.
  • You want lighter periods or none at all. One third of women who use the implant stop getting a period within a year.

This may not be the best birth control for you if:

  • You’re squeamish. Inserting and removing the implant is normally an easy procedure, but it does involve cutting the skin open. Sometimes the implant can migrate a few centimeters, making removal more difficult, Collins says.
  • Most women don’t have many side effects with the implant, but some experience weight gain, cysts, or breast soreness.

The Birth Control Shot

Effectiveness: The birth control shot is 94 percent effective at preventing pregnancy with real-world use (which accounts for women who fudge a little on their shot schedules), but if you always get your shot on time, it is 99 percent effective.
How It Works: The shot contains progestin, which stops ovulation and thickens cervical mucus. You need to get the shot every three months.
This may be the best birth control for you if:

  • You want long-term effectiveness without an implant or IUD.
  • You don’t mind visiting the doctor. Although you need to go to the doctor every three months, getting the shot itself is quick, easy, and relatively non-invasive.

This may not be the best birth control for you if:

  • You forget appointments. You must make an appointment every three months to get your shot in order to reliably prevent pregnancy.
  • You want to get pregnant soon. Although you need the shot every three months to maintain peak effectiveness, there can be some delay in getting pregnant for up to 10 months after stopping this form of birth control.

The Birth Control Ring

Effectiveness: The ring is 91 percent effective. Because it must be inserted and removed, effectiveness depends upon your ability to put it in and take it out on time, as well as storing the ring properly (out of sunlight and sometimes in the refrigerator). Some antibiotics and other medications can also make the ring less effective.
How It Works: The small, flexible ring is inserted into the vagina for three weeks at a time, and then removed for a week. It releases the hormones estrogen and progestin, which thicken cervical mucus and stop an egg from being released each month.
This may be the best birth control for you if:
You don’t want to think about birth control daily. “Many women like this form of contraception if they would like a longer-acting form of contraception but do not want a long acting device placed like the IUD or implant,” Collins says.
You have other health concerns. The ring can help control acne, PMS, and cysts. It can also help you avoid bone thinning and iron deficiency.
This may not be the best birth control for you if:

  • You’re not okay inserting it. “The ring placement requires you to be comfortable putting the ring in and removing it from the vagina,” Collins says.
  • You’re forgetful. The effectiveness of the ring depends on you remembering to put it in and take it out on time.
  • You’re on other medications. Since some medications can decrease the effectiveness of the ring, talk to your doctor about how your medications might interact with it.

Birth Control Pill
Effectiveness: The original form of hormonal birth control is 91 percent effective with typical use. For optimal effectiveness the pill must be taken at the exact same time every day. Medications and antibiotics can also reduce the effectiveness of the pill.
How It Works: The birth control pill stops ovulation. There are many brand names, but two main types of birth control pills:

  • Combination pills contain estrogen and progestin that stop ovulation and thicken cervical mucus.
  • “Mini pills” contain only progestin. They thicken the cervical mucus and stop ovulation, but not as consistently as combination pills. Because of this, mini pills are only about 87 percent effective at preventing pregnancy.

This may be the best birth control for you if:

  • You’re looking for a simple solution. “The birth control pill tends to be a very popular option for most women due to its ease of use,” Collins says. Because it doesn’t have to be inserted or removed by a doctor, some women feel this is an easier birth control solution.
  • You’re addressing other health issues. “Some women start the pill for contraception, but also use it to establish regular periods, to reduce acne, and potentially to reduce ovarian cysts,” Collins says.
  • You need to avoid estrogen. The mini pill is a good option for breastfeeding moms, women over 40, women with gastrointestinal issues, and people who have had negative side effects on birth controls containing estrogen in the past, Collins says.

This may not be the best birth control for you if:

  • Your schedule is unpredictable. Taking the pill at the same time each day is essential for effectiveness.
  • You have other health concerns. “Due to primarily the side effects of the estrogen found in birth control pills, there are both absolute contraindications (meaning you should never take these medications) and relative contraindications (meaning speak to your physician before taking and decide if the benefits outweigh the risks),” Collins says. For example, women who have blood clots, impaired liver function, breast cancer, undiagnosed vaginal bleeding, or who are smokers over the age of 35 should never take a combination pill.

The Birth Control Patch

Effectiveness: The patch is 91 percent effective with real-world use. Some antibiotics and medication reduce its effectiveness. It can also fall off occasionally. In addition, the user must remember when to apply and remove the patch for it to be most effective.
How It Works: The patch contains estrogen and progestin that are released into the skin. A new patch is applied once a week for three weeks, then taken off for one week.
This may be the best birth control for you if:

  • You want something you can apply yourself but don’t want to take a daily pill.

This may not be the best birth control for you if:

  • You’re sensitive to estrogen. “The estrogen levels in women using the transdermal patch are higher than with most birth control pills,” Collins explains. In fact, the FDA now requires the patch to have a warning, since it exposes women to 60 percent more estrogen than the pill does.
  • You weigh over 198 pounds, in which case the patch may not prevent pregnancy.

Fertility Awareness

Effectiveness: Fertility awareness methods—also known as natural family planning and the rhythm method—are between 76 and 88 percent effective.
How It Works: There are a variety of fertility awareness methods, but all share a common idea: You monitor your monthly cycles (using a chart or app) in order to know when you are most fertile. During that time you either avoid intercourse or use a backup birth control method like condoms, a diaphragm, or a sponge.
This may be the best birth control for you if:

  • You want to avoid hormones or implants. Fertility awareness relies on your intimate understanding of your body, without any additional prevention methods.
  • It wouldn’t be a huge issue if you got pregnant. Since fertility awareness methods are less reliable, they’re best for people who wouldn’t be upset if they became pregnant.
  • You have a solid understanding of how your cycles work. “If you wish to pursue the natural family planning method, it would be worthwhile to consult with a reproductive endocrinologist to grasp a strong foundation in the menstrual cycle,” Collins says.

This may not be the best birth control for you if:

  • You absolutely do not want to be pregnant. No matter how well you track your cycles, there is always room for error with this method, Collins says. “Natural family planning is the least effective form of contraception as [menstrual cycles often] vary and the peak fertility time periods may shift each month,” she explains.
  • You have irregular cycles. That makes it even harder to regularly track your fertile window.

Condoms and Withdrawal

Effectiveness: Effectiveness ranges from 78 percent (for withdrawal, also known as pulling out) to 79 percent (for female condoms) to 85 percent (for male condoms).
How It Works: These are options that you are likely to use in the heat of the moment. Male condoms prevent pregnancy (and STIs) by preventing sperm from entering the vagina. Using the withdrawal method, a man does not ejaculate in the vagina, reducing the risk that sperm will meet with an egg and result in pregnancy.
Male condoms and withdrawal alone aren’t the best birth control since they are often ignored in the heat of the moment. “Condoms and the withdrawal method are the least effective forms of contraception as they are often forgotten at the time of intercourse,” Collins says.
Condoms are effective at preventing many STIs, and should be used even by people who are on other forms of birth control. “All patients, regardless of what contraception they are using, should consider the use of a condom from the beginning to protect against sexually transmitted infections,” Collins says.

How to Find the Best Birth Control for You

In addition to considering the information above, it’s a smart idea to book an appointment with your doctor to discuss what the best birth control for you is given your health history, lifestyle, and future reproductive plans.
“Each woman should have a discussion with either their gynecologist or their reproductive endocrinologist about their concerns and desires to match the best form of contraception with what would work best for her lifestyle,” Collins says.
When you’re talking to your doctor, consider these questions:
Do you plan to have children in the future? When?
This question can help you identify how long you would like your birth control to last.
Do you have other health concerns?
Sometimes a birth control method isn’t a good choice for women with certain health conditions. If you’re a smoker, have physical or mental health conditions, or have painful periods, these factors need to be part of your discussion with your doctor about the best birth control given your needs. You want one that is safe to use with your condition or can even help alleviate it, Collins says. In addition, it’s important to talk about any other medications that you’re currently taking, since some medications can affect the reliability of birth control.
If you’re particularly concerned about uterine cancer (perhaps due to a family history), the patch, pill, ring, and shot can offer some protection. The patch, pill, and ring can also help protect you from ovarian cancer.
Have you experienced positive or negative side effects from birth control in the past?
Think about your experiences with past birth control options. Have you gained weight on the pill, for example, or had your acne clear up? Perhaps you enjoyed not getting a regular period when you had an IUD. Think about what has worked well for you in the past (and what hasn’t), and discuss both good and bad side effects with your doctor.
What does your sex life look like?
Considering your sex life is a huge part of finding the best birth control for you. For example, if you have multiple partners, no matter what birth control method you use, you’ll also want to use a birth control method that prevents STIs, like male condoms, Collins says. If you rarely have sex, you might be more comfortable relying on as-needed methods, whereas if you are frequently sexually active, you might want a birth control form that you don’t need to think about in the moment.
If you try something new but suspect it might not be the best birth control for you, try to give it six months before changing, Collins recommends. Of course, if your symptoms are severe (like chest pain or shortness of breath) stop the birth control immediately and call your doctor.
Finding the best birth control for you can be an intensive process, but Grossman says it is important: “Knowing which method best suits your lifestyle is important to your overall health and well-being, and ultimately, for avoiding unintended pregnancy.”
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Got A Big Medical Bill? Here’s What To Know About Crowdfunding In Healthcare

Everything was going well for Angie Ebba, a 37-year-old woman in Washington, until she got sick and needed to turn to crowdfunding to pay her bills. She took medical leave from her job to get “poked, prodded, zapped, run through multiple types of machines, passed from doctor to specialist to naturopath, given supplements and medications, and turned into a walking (or depending on the day, sometimes not walking) medical experiment.” Her medical team just could not figure out the cause of her health issues.
Then, she lost her job—and that’s when the real trouble started. The cost of all that poking, prodding, and zapping had really racked up, and the bills were starting to come in. How could she come up with all of the money she needed while still trying to manage her health and find long-term solutions? It was completely overwhelming.
“I kept getting bills in the mail and I thought, ‘I can’t pay these, they’re going to go to collections.’ I had insurance, but the costs of copays, deductibles, and all of that stuff, especially when you’re so sick and they’re trying to figure out why, can really add up. In attempt to alleviate some of that stress, I turned to GoFundMe,” she says.
She had seen friends on social media use crowdfunding to pay for emergencies, but she had never imagined she’d be the one [linkbuilder id=”3261″ text=”asking for help”] online.
“I am not one to ask for money,” she wrote on her GoFundMe crowdfunding page. “I’d much rather raise money for someone else. But today, as much as I hate to do so, I am asking for your help. I have 16 bills totaling close to $3,000, with more coming in each week.”
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When it comes to crowdfunding in healthcare, Ebba’s not alone. From 2010 to 2016, crowdfunding campaigners on GoFundMe raised about $930 million for healthcare costs. YouCaring, a crowdfunding platform dedicated to personal, medical, and charitable causes, has raised more than $1 billion—a significant portion of which was for healthcare costs, says Camelia Gendreau, head of integrated communications at the company. GoFundMe and YouCaring are just two of dozens of crowdfunding sites that people are turning to when they need help paying their medical bills.
“Crowdfunding in healthcare is on the rise, unfortunately,” says Gendreau. “Medical fundraisers make up about half the total fundraisers on our website. We’re here because too many Americans are slipping through the cracks, and they need financial support from friends and family.”

Why do people crowdfund their medical costs?

Scroll through your Facebook feed on any given day and you’re bound to see a friend asking for donations for their medical bills. Why are so many people crowdfunding the costs of their healthcare? One of the biggest reasons is the fact that medical treatments cost a lot more than people expect, even if they have insurance, says Gendreau.
“Almost half of Americans can’t afford a $400 emergency expense,” she says. “In 2016, the U.S. spent about $10,000 per person on healthcare. When you take those stats and compare them to the fact that around 60 percent of personal bankruptcies in the U.S. are caused by medical expenses, it paints a dire picture of healthcare in America. Crowdfunding is a last resort.”
But economics are only half the reason for the ubiquity of crowdfunding in healthcare. Prior to widespread use of the internet, people may have held pancake breakfasts, yard sales, and other local events to raise money for a neighbor’s medical expenses. But as people started moving their in-person communities to the digital space, much of that effort has gone online to crowdfunding platforms.
“[In previous generations,] you could always ask to borrow some money from a neighbor, or get emergency childcare. But as we’re all pursuing economic opportunities and moving away from our homes, our networks have become more widely distributed and it’s harder to tap into them in person. Crowdfunding allows people to recreate these social support networks in an online environment,” says Gendreau.
Not only do distant friends and relatives offer financial support, they also send words of encouragement—helping the person in need feel less alone during a tumultuous time.

Benefits of Crowdfunding for Healthcare

The most obvious benefit of crowdfunding in healthcare is the increased likelihood that someone will wind up with the money they need to pay their medical bills. The donations can make a big difference in keeping someone afloat. But there are a number of other positives to crowdfunding as well.
Ebba said asking for money online connected her to loved ones in a way that lifted her spirits when she was dealing with her medical issues. People reached out to send well wishes, offered rides to doctors’ appointments, and even dropped dinner off on her front porch.
“Creating the campaign and asking for help was incredibly difficult at first, but then it became very liberating when I saw I had people in my life who wanted to support me and care for me,” she says. “Of course, the monetary donations were helpful, but the people who reached out and offered support created a sense of community. That act of vulnerability turned out to be really beautiful.”
The emotional support Ebba felt through her fundraiser is common among those crowdfunding in healthcare, says Gendreau.
“The primary non-monetary benefit of crowdfunding in healthcare is getting people to rally around your cause. Most people start fundraisers on YouCaring because they have a financial need, but the most positive comments we get from successful fundraisers are around the social aspect and the emotional support they received,” she says. “They often turn around and donate to people in similar situations, and share their own inspiring stories that give people a breath of fresh air and some hope during a hopeless time.”

The Pitfalls of Crowdfunding in Healthcare

Crowdfunding isn’t all free money and cheerful words from afar. Raising money for medical bills online does come with some potential downsides people should consider before creating a crowdfunding campaign.
American culture is fiercely independent (we’re built on that whole “Pull yourself up by your bootstraps” philosophy). As such, you have to swallow a lot of pride to start asking for help from the people around you.
“It was awful and hard to ask for help at first,” admits Ebba. “So much of our general sense of self-worth is tied about in our ability to take care of ourselves.”
Crowdfunding in healthcare also requires people to give up privacy and talk publicly about their personal medical issues. These stories are what inspire donors to open up their wallets. Crowdfunders who don’t explain in detail why they need money may not see much success, says Gendreau.
“Not everyone is comfortable opening up and telling their stories. Some people are so crippled by their fear of opening up that they start crowdfunding campaigns with very cursory descriptions that don’t let donors into their lives. Those fundraisers don’t usually do very well, so that’s a downside,” she says.
That running total of donations you see on crowdfunding campaigns might not actually be the amount that ends up in the beneficiaries’ pockets, either. While YouCaring has never required fundraisers to pay a portion of proceeds back to the company, GoFundMe only recently made its personal campaigns free for users (prior to that, it took 5 percent of donations). Other platforms still charge fees for crowdfunding in healthcare, and beneficiaries can almost always expect to lose a portion of donations to cover payment processing.
Beneficiaries of crowdfunding may face tax implications, as well.
“We advise everyone who starts a fundraiser on YouCaring to consult with a tax advisor to ensure they have all information they need before they start receiving money,” says Gendreau. “Typically these donations are considered non-taxable gifts, but we’re not tax experts and we like to refer people to professionals in taxes and accounting.”

How to Create a Successful Crowdfunding Campaign for Medical Bills

The success of crowdfunding in healthcare can be all over the board. You might see someone exceed their goal of raising $300,000 to cover the medical costs of managing multiple sclerosis, while another crowdfunder seeking $2,500 for an X-ray might not receive a single dollar. What makes a medical crowdfunding campaign successful?
First and foremost, you need to tell a compelling story. Giving vague reasons about your need for a large sum might make potential donors think twice about sending money to your campaign. You should share why you’re trying to raise money. Be as specific as possible about where the funds will go, whether it’s to help pay for medical equipment, transportation to healthcare appointments, or an invasive surgery, says Gendreau.
Crowdfunding in healthcare also sees the most success when the goals feel achievable to donors.
“If you think the total you’ll need might be closer to $100,000, that number could seem daunting to the community, so we recommend starting with $50,000,” she says. “If you hit that goal, it’s really easy to up the goal to $100,000, and it’s a good opportunity to give donors an update and thank them for their support.”
Speaking of updates, those are critical to success when crowdfunding. Letting people know how you’re doing—for better or for worse—helps build a community focused on your needs.
“Honesty makes a great update, plain and simple,” advises Gendreau. “Positive updates are really empowering and helpful to donors. But if you aren’t having a good day and the reality is that chemotherapy has made you really nauseous and you’re struggling, it’s important to say what you feel in the moment to rally support. Let the community know how they can help.”
Sharing your crowdfunding campaign on social media, including Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, helps build awareness and could ultimately lead to more donations.
“Social media was the only way that I promoted my crowdfunding campaign. Friends would then share the campaign with their friends,” says Ebba. “Social media gets a bad rap from a lot of people, but for people with disabilities and chronically ill folks, it can be a lifeline to humanity.”
Like many crowdfunding platforms, YouCaring gives fundraisers the chance to be featured on its site. This extra exposure can help increase the chances of hitting your goal.
“We use an algorithm that takes into account geography, fundraising goals, and other diverse factors to choose campaigns to feature. Once you’ve raised more than half your goal, you increase your chances of being featured on the homepage,” says Gendreau.
Finding a way to give back to donors demonstrates gratitude for people’s generosity, and encourages them to make repeat donations. You don’t have to spend money on special gifts and products, though. Ebba gave back to donors by publishing an original poem every time her crowdfunding campaign allowed her to pay a medical bill.
“I didn’t want to ask for money without giving something back in return, but I didn’t have a whole lot to give. Writing a poem related to whatever bill I paid off or the procedures that had taken place inspired some people to donate. It also helped me feel better,” says Ebba.
Not a poet? There are dozens of other ways to show your appreciation, says Gendreau.
“Thank donors with emails, notes, cards, or however you see fit. Posting a video of yourself thanking donors also works well. If you find a beautiful, meaningful way to thank donors, they’ll really appreciate it,” she says.
Finally, when thinking about what success means for crowdfunding in healthcare, remember that it’s not only about the money. Even though Ebba raised less than 25 percent of her crowdfunding goal, she is grateful for the campaign for other reasons.
“Crowdfunding was a success in that it helped financially, but beyond that, it made me realize the vast support network I had. It became easier to reach out for smaller things, like a ride to an appointment,” she says.
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Calcium Deficiency Can Cause These Conditions; Here’s How To Make Sure You’re Getting The Amount Your Body Needs

When you were a kid you were probably told to drink your milk with every meal in order to grow strong and healthy bones. While each glass won’t equate to an inch in height, it’s true that dairy is a great source of calcium, an essential mineral. That said, in America, 6 percent of the population say they’re vegan, up from just 1 percent in 2014, and whether you’re #plantpowered or still drink milk daily,  it’s important to make sure that you’re getting enough calcium.
Chances are that you might not have given much thought to your calcium intake until recently. However, calcium deficiency doesn’t just affect adults, but also infants and children, so you’ll want to know the signs to ensure that no one in the family is suffering from the condition.
Luckily, with a bit of extra planning, it’s entirely possible to get enough calcium either by eating dairy and meat or as part of a plant-based diet. Luckily, eating an array of foods can help you avoid calcium deficiency, so there’s no need to put all your stock in dairy if you’re looking to boost your calcium intake.
Here is everything you should know about calcium deficiency, from the signs and symptoms to how to get more calcium into your diet.

What is calcium’s role within the body?

Calcium is an essential mineral that keeps your body functioning well. Most people know that calcium is associated with bones and teeth. In fact, 99 percent of the calcium that you consume is used to keep your [linkbuilder id=”6657″ text=”bones and teeth strong”] and healthy according to Vanessa Rissetto, a registered dietician and nutritionist in Hoboken, New Jersey, and former senior dietitian at Mount Sinai Hospital in New York City.
Calcium is also needed to help your muscles move and ensure your nerves can carry messages according to the National Institutes of Health (NIH). Additionally, calcium helps your blood move through your body and clot, and is important for the release of hormones and enzymes that control a range of bodily functions from digestion to menstruation. With so many important functions controlled by calcium, it’s critical to make sure that you don’t suffer from calcium deficiency.

How much calcium is enough to avoid calcium deficiency?

Each day we naturally lose calcium when we shed nails, skin, or hair, use the bathroom, or sweat, according to the National Osteoporosis Foundation. Although calcium is always leaving our body, it’s impossible for our bodies to make more calcium. Because of this, we need to make sure we’re getting enough calcium in our diets so that we don’t develop a deficiency.
So, how much calcium should you be getting? It depends on how old you are. Here are the recommended daily intakes from the NIH:

  • Infants younger than 6 months need 200 milligrams of calcium each day, which can come from breast milk or infant formulas. Unlike any other age group in the U.S., nearly 100 percent of infants get the calcium intake they need, whether they’re breastfed or on formula, which means unless you have a preterm infant or baby with other special dietary needs, you shouldn’t have to worry about your infant’s calcium intake.
  • Infants 7 to 12 months need 260 milligrams of calcium each day. Since yogurt can be introduced into a baby’s diet once they’re over 6 months old, a 4-ounce serving of plain, low-fat yogurt (207.5 mg according to the NIH) and a cup of kale baby food (90.5 mg) would exceed an older baby’s need by 38 grams while diversifying their diet.
  • Kids ages 1 to 3 need 700 milligrams of calcium each day. According to the NIH, a slice of white bread, a half cup of cottage cheese, a cup of calcium-fortified orange juice, and a cup of whole milk would exceed a toddler’s daily need by 66 mg.
  • Kids ages 4 to 8, adults ages 19 to 50, and men over 50 need 1,000 milligrams of calcium each day. A cup of black-eyed peas, 24 almonds, a cup of frozen, boiled collards, a quarter block of tofu, plus the cup of orange juice mentioned above (all plant based!) would exceed a child or adult’s need by 149 mg. Of course dairy, fish, or meat sources of calcium can be swapped in, too.
  • Kids and teens ages 9 to 18 need 1,300 milligrams of calcium each day. Adding a cup of trail mix (nuts, seeds, and chocolate chips—which contains approximately 159 mg of calcium) to the selections listed above will ensure they consume 8 mg over their recommended daily value.
  • Women over 50 and all people over 70 need 1,200 milligrams of calcium each day, meaning people in these age ranges can aim to consume the same amount of calcium-rich foods we’ve recommended for kids, teens, and adults of other ages.

Pregnant and breastfeeding women do not need to consume additional calcium, but according to Rissetto it is especially important to make sure you are getting the recommended daily dose if you are pregnant or nursing.
“If a pregnant woman has low levels of calcium, the fetus will draw calcium from the maternal bones in order to get the amounts that it needs,” she says. This can cause the mother’s bones to demineralize more rapidly. In addition to weakening the bones, this can also release lead into the bloodstream, which can potentially harm mom and baby, Rissetto says. To avoid this, she recommends that all pregnant women take a calcium supplement. Note that most prenatal vitamins contain between 200 and 300 mg of calcium (but be sure to check the label!).

Why is vitamin D important to help avoid calcium deficiency?

In order to make sure that your body is getting enough calcium you need to get enough vitamin D as well. This is important because your body needs vitamin D in order to properly absorb calcium into your bones.
“Vitamin D helps to put calcium into the correct location, the bones, rather than the blood vessels and the arteries,” says Prudence Hall, MD, author of the book Radiant Again & Forever.  
Vitamin D is most readily found in sunlight, according to the NIH. When ultraviolet rays from sunlight hit your skin, they trigger vitamin D synthesis. This releases vitamin D into your system, which in turn helps with the absorption of calcium. However, wearing sunblock can affect the production of vitamin D, since even an SPF 8 reduces vitamin D production by 95 percent. This can make it harder to absorb calcium. It can also be difficult to get enough vitamin D during the darker winter months.
Because of this, many people need to turn to food or supplements to get additional vitamin D. Vitamin D is found in fish including tuna, salmon, and mackerel. Other foods including milk, orange juice, and cereals are fortified with vitamin D. However the most foolproof way to make sure that you’re getting enough vitamin D to avoid calcium deficiency is to take a vitamin D supplement.
The Centers for Disease Control recommends that all breastfed infants receive a vitamin D supplement. While infant formula is fortified with vitamin D, breast milk does not contain the vitamin, meaning breastfed babies benefit from supplementation.
Note that scientists are learning that vitamin D isn’t the only vitamin that is essential to preventing calcium deficiency. Researchers are beginning to look more closely at how vitamin K affects calcium absorption and bone strength. It is believed that vitamin K can help keep calcium in the bones and out of the blood. People who are concerned about calcium deficiency should consider supplementing their diets with vitamins D and K, Hall says.

What are the signs of calcium deficiency?

It can be hard to tell if you’re not getting enough calcium from your diet. That’s because rather than showing symptoms, your body will begin pulling calcium stores from your bones in order to perform essential functions and compensate for the calcium deficiency according to the NIH.
Over time you may begin noticing that your nails and teeth appear more brittle or weakened, Rissetto says. That can be an early warning sign that something is wrong.
“Healthy nails and teeth aren’t necessarily a sign of sufficient calcium intake, but they are an indicator,” she says.
Over time, the symptoms of calcium deficiency can become more alarming. Numbness in your hands and feet, tingling in your fingers, and abnormal heartbeat can all be signs of calcium deficiency according to the NIH. Depression, muscle cramps, and memory loss can also be signs of calcium deficiency, Rissetto says.
Since calcium deficiency can be hard to detect until it becomes severe, Rissetto suggests talking to your doctor if you are experiencing any of the symptoms of calcium deficiency. Oftentimes people wait until they break a bone to discuss calcium deficiency, but by that point the calcium deficiency is already severe. She also notes that people who are concerned about their vitamin D levels should talk to their doctors, since that can directly contribute to calcium deficiency.

It is possible to get too much calcium?

Getting enough calcium is important in order to avoid the symptoms above, but getting too much calcium can cause negative health effects ranging from constipation to kidney stones. Additionally, studies referenced in a Harvard School of Public Health resource point to high milk, lactose, and calcium consumption being related to ovarian cancer and advanced and fatal prostate cancer. The ovarian and prostate cancer section of the resource concludes, “Clearly, although more research is needed, we cannot be confident that high milk or calcium intake is safe.”
Most children and adults under 50 should not consume more than 2,500 milligrams of calcium each day. Adults over 50 shouldn’t eat more than 2,000 milligrams of calcium in a day.

Who is most at risk for calcium deficiency?

Most Americans get enough calcium from their diets and do not need to supplement in order to avoid calcium deficiency according to the NIH. However, some groups are at a higher risk and should closely monitor their calcium intake and consider whether they need to take a supplement. These include:

Postmenopausal Women

Women who have gone through menopause absorb calcium less effectively. “Postmenopausal women are at greatest risk for calcium deficiency due to the acceleration of bone breakdown after 30 and the decrease in estrogen levels after menopause,” Rissetto says.
A study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition found that the decrease in the ability to absorb calcium begins at menopause and continues with age, so older women should be on the lookout for signs and symptoms of calcium deficiency.

Vegetarians and Vegans

People who eat a plant-based diet are at increased risk because they do not eat dairy, which is the main source of calcium in most people’s diets. These people should take care to eat foods that fit with their lifestyle and are rich in calcium.

Amenorrheic Women

Women who do not get a regular period are more at risk for calcium deficiency. One cause of amenorrhea (not getting a period) is insufficient diet, and women who are not eating enough are more likely to experience calcium deficiency. Women should work with the doctors to find and treat the underlying cause of their amenorrhea to ensure they are getting enough of the essential vitamins, minerals, and nutrients their bodies need.

Pregnant Women

Pregnant women need to get enough calcium to support their bone health and that of their growing baby. “The fetus requires its bony structure to be made of calcium, which it takes from the mother,” Hall explains. That can leave mothers at a greater risk for calcium deficiency.

What foods can help me avoid calcium deficiency?

Calcium is most readily associated with dairy, but there are plenty of other foods that are rich in calcium, including vegetarian and vegan options.
“Americans [typically] get adequate calcium in their diets, because calcium is found abundantly in leafy greens, seeds, sardines, beans and lentils, cheeses, and almonds,” Hall says.  
The National Osteoporosis Foundation maintains a list of calcium-rich foods. Incorporating these foods into each meals can help you avoid calcium deficiency.

  • Milk: One cup of milk contains about 300 milligrams of calcium, making this a great source of the mineral.
  • Collard Greens: Although most people think of dairy when they think about calcium, a cup of collard greens packs 360 milligrams of calcium, more than a similarly sized serving of dairy. This and other dark, leafy vegetables are great sources of calcium for vegetarians and vegans who want to avoid calcium deficiency.
  • Fortified Beverages: Many beverages including almond milk and orange juice have calcium added. A cup of these drinks can give you 300 milligrams of calcium, the same amount as a glass of milk.

Beans, lentils and broccoli are also great non-dairy calcium sources, Rissetto says.

What other conditions are associated with calcium deficiency?

Since calcium affects many of your bodily functions, calcium deficiency is associated with medical conditions that can be caused or made worse by not getting enough calcium in your diet. These include:

Osteoporosis

Osteoporosis occurs when the body loses too much bone, or makes too little, according to the National Osteoporosis Foundation. Over time the bones develop a porous or honeycomb structure, and can break quite easily. The condition is very common in older adults, affecting half of women over 50 and a quarter of men over 50.
Since calcium is important to strong bones, it can help prevent osteoporosis by keeping bones from weakening. Scientific studies like this one published in the journal Public Health Nutrition have concluded that getting the recommended dose of calcium (and vitamin D) is a safe and effective way to gain some protection against osteoporosis. However, since there are many diseases and conditions (including hormonal changes) that can contribute to osteoporosis, avoiding calcium deficiency does not guarantee that you will not get the disease.  

Hypocalcemia

Hypocalcemia occurs when there is a calcium deficiency in the blood. The symptoms of hypocalcemia include muscle cramps or spasms, tingling in the fingers or toes, irritability, and mood changes.
Although hypocalcemia is characterized by a calcium deficiency, it is most often caused by an underlying thyroid condition in which the thyroid does not produce enough of a hormone that helps to regulate calcium levels. The development of hypocalcemia is most often associated with thyroid surgery and autoimmune disease. However, since the condition causes calcium deficiency, treatment includes supplementing with calcium and vitamin D.

Neonatal Hypocalcemia

Neonatal hypocalcemia occurs when infants experience a calcium deficiency during the first week of life. A baby with calcium deficiency might have trouble feeding, be jittery, or have seizures. Babies who are born premature, have a low birth weight, or whose mothers had diabetes during pregnancy are most at risk for this form of calcium deficiency.  Luckily, the condition is easily treated by giving babies a calcium supplement.
If you’re eating a well-balanced diet, even if it is vegetarian or vegan, you are likely getting enough calcium. However, calcium deficiency can be a serious condition that affects your health and quality of life, and it can exacerbate certain serious health conditions, meaning it’s important for women of all ages to know the signs and symptoms of deficiency.

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Here's Why You Might Be Getting Headaches Every Day (And How To Fix It)

If you’re getting headaches nearly every day, you might think it’s fairly normal. Whether they go away after you pop a few ibuprofen or they turn into monstrous migraines, getting headaches on the regular can be debilitating, even when the pain isn’t severe. In some cases, they can be a sign of serious medical conditions.
While we can safely say that headaches are a common issue, it’s difficult to estimate the scale of the problem. The National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey found that 22.7 percent of adults reported having severe headaches within the last three months, while the 2011 National Health Interview Survey put the number at 16.6 percent. At least you know you aren’t alone.

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Still, you might be wondering when you should seek medical treatment for headaches.
“As soon as the person develops headaches that are unusual, or if they’ve had headaches on a regular basis, they should see a doctor,” says Alexander Mauskop, MD, director of the New York Headache Center and a fellow of the American Academy of Neurology. “Or if they have a headache that’s accompanied by a fever, or if they start out of nowhere, and suddenly you’re having them daily.”
If that doesn’t sound like you though, it’s good to know that some types of everyday headaches can be successfully treated fairly quickly, once you’ve identified what’s triggering them. You might even be able to prevent your everyday headaches—and even some migraines—by committing to certain lifestyle changes.

What to Know When You’re Getting Headaches Every Day

Let’s get this out of the way: Getting severe headaches every day isn’t normal, so you should talk to your doctor, especially if they come on suddenly. Some headaches can indicate neurological disorders that require treatment, and sudden, severe headaches are always a cause for concern.

So, what’s a “severe headache” exactly? Most headaches fall into one of three general categories:

Tension Headaches

The most common type of headache, tension-type headaches can be described as a pressing or tightening pain. You might experience sensitivity to light or sound but nausea is less common.

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Most people who experience tension headaches often don’t consult with doctors, and over-the-counter painkillers like ibuprofen and aspirin might be all you need to deal with these suckers. However, constant tension headaches may indicate an underlying medical condition, and they’re certainly debilitating for some people.

Migraine Headaches

The classic description of a migraine is “the worst headache you’ve ever had.” If you’re not sure whether or not you’re having migraines, you probably aren’t having them. Frequently misdiagnosed, migraines are usually characterized by severe pain that seems to start on one side of the head. Like tension headaches, light and sound sensitivity is common with migraines, but so is nausea. In addition to that, many people experience visual disturbances like shimmering lights or zigzagging lines, sometimes known as auras.

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About 12 percent of the United States population experiences migraines. “Women are three times more likely to get migraine headaches than men,” Mauskop says. “It’s usually a genetic predisposition. On top of that, predisposition can be influenced by various triggers.”

Cluster Headaches

Think that cluster headaches are the same thing as migraines? Think again. Cluster headaches tend to occur along one side of the head or in a cyclic pattern behind the eyes or temples (hence the “cluster” name). They can occur for several weeks, and they’re often severe. However, cluster headaches are uncommon, particularly for women.

If you suffer from cluster headaches, you’ll want to see your doctor. While effective treatments are available, they include high-flow oxygen and subcutaneous injections, both of which need to be administered by a medical professional.

Since cluster headaches and migraines stem from neurological issues, they should be medically evaluated. They’re the “severe” headaches we referenced earlier.

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If you’re suffering from tension headaches seemingly every day, or if you’ve had migraines in the past and they’re starting to occur slightly more often, you can try to reduce the frequency and severity of the headaches by making a few changes.
Just remember that if you’re not able to successfully treat the problem on your own, you’ll need to tell your doctor. There’s no good reason to live with any type of chronic pain.

Why You Seem to Get Headaches Every Day

A variety of triggers can cause or contribute to everyday headaches, but if you can’t figure out what those triggers are, you won’t have much luck fixing the issue
Some of the most common triggers include stress, dehydration, poor posture (yes, really), allergens, caffeine withdrawal, and nutritional deficiencies.

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With tension headaches, experts believe that these triggers affect the skin, sinuses, blood vessels, and other structures more sensitive to pain or the muscles stretched across those structures, resulting in pain. In the case of migraines, the mechanisms are a bit more complex, but in the end, your goal is the same: Remove the triggers, and enjoy a (hopefully) headache-free life.

One of the most common headache triggers is stress, so we’ll address that first. Grab your comfy pants, because you’re going to need them.

Using Meditation to Control Everyday Headaches

People who suffer from migraines and tension headaches every day (or close to it!) are far more likely to use alternative medicine than those who don’t. Meditation seems most successful, but there’s also not much else that has substantial scientific support.
“Meditation can be very effective,” Mauskop says. “We’ve noticed significant improvements in patients who take on meditation as a part of their treatment.” If you’re getting headaches every day, consider starting meditation.

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A 2014 study showed that getting migraines or tension-type headaches every day can lead to feeling stressed—wonder why! What’s more, the headache itself can cause stress, which in turn adds to the pain of the headache (thanks, brain). Exercise can effectively treat stress, but you probably won’t feel like going on a five-mile run while you’re nursing a bad headache every day, so try to get your exercise in before the headache strikes.
In addition to treating stress, exercise can “reduce the frequency and intensity of headaches and migraines,” according to the American Migraine Foundation. The key word here is regular, so commit to a certain amount of exercise per day and don’t let anything interfere with that time.

The Link Between Caffeine and Everyday Headaches

Does caffeine cause those constant headaches or does it cure them? The answer: both.
“Caffeine is a double-edged sword,” Mauskop says. “Over-the-counter medicines often include caffeine. However, headaches can worsen as a result of withdrawal mechanisms, as every regular coffee drinker probably knows. But it can help in small amounts.”
Caffeine causes the blood vessels to constrict, reducing blood flow, which is exactly the opposite of what happens when you’re having a headache or migraine. The pain-relieving effect is significantly improved when combined with acetaminophen and aspirin, which, thankfully, are over-the-counter painkillers.

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However, too much caffeine can cause a rebound effect, which can trigger a headache. If you’re drinking multiple cups of coffee a day, that could be to blame if you’re getting a headache every day.
The National Headache Foundation recommends a daily caffeine intake of 200 milligrams or less. If you’re a regular coffee or tea drinker, you might want to monitor your intake to make sure that you’re under that number. A single cup of coffee can contain anywhere from 125 to 200 milligrams, so consider switching to a half-caff or decaf option if you’ve got a serious habit.

Changing Your Diet When You Get Headaches Every Day

Certain nutritional deficiencies seem linked to the development of severe, constant headaches, especially migraines.

“We often provide supplements to patients, for instance, magnesium supplements,” Mauskop says. “That can be dramatically effective.”

Magnesium supplements can effectively reduce the frequency of migraines. Magnesium may also play a role in the development of tension headaches, but there’s much less scientific support for that hypothesis.
Some migraine patients also show lower levels of folic acid, vitamin B6, and vitamin B12, and supplementing with these vitamins can reduce migraines. Before supplementing, consider whether you could naturally increase your intake of these vitamins by changing your diet. Good sources of folic acid, for example, include vegetables like avocado, lettuce, and spinach.

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CoQ10 is an antioxidant that migraine sufferers may benefit from. While over-the-counter supplements are available, natural sources of CoQ10 include [linkbuilder id=”6681″ text=”soybean oil”], beef, broccoli, roasted peanuts, and certain fish. CoQ10 deficiencies are rare in people with varied diets, but if you’ve been eating a restricted diet and you’re getting headaches every day or noticing a change in the severity of your headaches, consider adding a little variety to your diet.
For tension-type headaches, vitamin D deficiency may be a trigger. Constipation is also thought to be a common trigger, and research indicates that resolving constipation can also resolve the headaches you’re getting every day (so load up on your fiber).
Finally, make sure you’re getting enough fluids. According to some sources, up to 75 percent of Americans suffer from chronic dehydration. On top of that, water deprivation is thought to be a major cause of both tension and migraine headaches.

A Unique Approach to Fixing Everyday Headaches

If you’re having trouble figuring out why you get headaches every day, try tracking information about your diet, water intake, and stress levels.

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You might also add sleep time, exercise, and other factors that could potentially play a role in headache development. Be consistent; while keeping a diary might feel pointless at first, the information could prove vital when you’re looking for ways to treat the issue.

When Your Everyday Headaches Mean You Need a Doctor

If you’re unable to treat your constant headache issues on your own, see your doctor. Alternative treatments are tempting, but in severe circumstances, medical intervention is absolutely essential.
“Treatment options include abortive drugs that you take as needed, just as you would with an over-the-counter drug,” Mauskop says. “There are things like Imitrex and similar drugs in that category.”

What about migraines? A 2014 study published in The Journal of Headache and Pain found that Botox—yes, that Botox—“reduced the number of headache and migraine days, and increased the number of headache free days” while significantly improving patients’ quality of life.

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If you’re skeptical about Botox, Mauskop says that patients will soon have other options. “There’s a new category of drugs coming out this summer that have been subjected to all of the phases of testing,” he says. “They’re called monoclonal antibodies, and they bind to a chemical that releases the headaches for up to three months.”
Monoclonal antibodies have been hailed as a “breakthrough migraine therapy,” and they’re part of a new class of immunotherapy treatments.
If you’re truly suffering from headaches every day, doctors have a variety of ways to help patients treat severe daily headaches. If you’ve tried meditation, exercise, and supplementation, and even OTC pain meds aren’t doing a thing, get to the doctor; it’s worth getting checked out.

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What Your Cortisol Levels Say About Your Health (And What To Do About It)

Stress: If you don’t have it, you’ve apparently found the pot of gold at the end of the unicorns’ rainbow. If you do—like most Americans—the phrase “cortisol levels” might have come up during one of your visits to your doctor’s office.
Cortisol is best known as “the stress hormone,” a chemical messenger the body produces when we’re feeling like we’re at the end of our rapidly fraying rope. It’s produced and secreted by a part of the body known by doctors as the HPA axis—a combination of the hypothalamus, pituitary gland, and adrenal gland that sends varying amounts of cortisol out to other parts of the body.
Linking cortisol to stress gives it a negative connotation, but in truth this hormone is not all bad, says David Cutler, MD, a family medicine physician at Providence Saint John’s Health Center in Santa Monica, California. In fact, Culter says cortisol is “essential in controlling our growth, organ development, immune functions, inflammatory response, and many other cellular activities.”
And while our cortisol levels do tend to spike when we’re stressed, cortisol production is part of the body’s functioning even when we’re having nice, normal, calm days (hey, they do exist!). Unfortunately, when your cortisol levels get out of whack, so can your body. Cortisol levels that are too high or too low can cause everything from extreme fatigue to blood pressure issues.
So how do you know if your cortisol levels are too high, too low, or just right? And is there really anything you can do about all that stress?
Sit down, chill out, and let’s do this.

What is cortisol, anyway?

Despite its colloquial name as the body’s stress hormone, cortisol is more aptly described by doctors as a steroid hormone, Cutler says—a complex molecule that has a variety of metabolic functions throughout the body.
“Its structure of carbon-containing rings is typical of steroid molecules,” Cutler explains, “And its functions can be mimicked by the synthetic cortisol hydrocortisone or other steroids.”
Yes, hydrocortisone, the tube of cream you grab at the drugstore when you’ve got an itchy rash, is related to cortisol. In the case of an allergic rash, smearing on a few dabs of hydrocortisone can tell the body to chill out and stop reacting to the allergen so you can get a little relief from all that itching. In the body, on the other hand, naturally produced cortisol helps to keep our systems in check, whether it’s maintaining the right levels of blood glucose or maintaining a healthy blood pressure. Basically, cortisol gives the body a little relief…from itching, and a whole lot more.
Much of what doctors know now about stress and the role cortisol levels play in the body’s response goes back to the 1930s and 1940s, when Hungarian endocrinologist Hans Selye explained the role the HPA axis plays in our fight-or-flight response to a problem. Selye found that corticoid hormones like cortisol were “indispensable for the maintenance of life and especially for the acquisition of adaptation to changes in the external or internal environment of the body.”

Cortisol Levels and Your Body

For the body to keep adapting to changes in its external and internal environment, cortisol levels have to change, Cutler says, and that’s usually normal. For example, cortisol may kick in as a response to any sort of stressor on the body,
Of course, this doesn’t just refer to “stress” as we’ve come to know it. Stress isn’t just your boss yelling at you or your child darting into traffic.
Stress can be getting extra busy in between the sheets, sending a message to your heart that it needs to increase the amount of blood it’s pumping to your heart, STAT! Stress can also come from that snacking on a pile of what you thought were gluten-free pretzels, only to find out you just “got glutened,” and knowing your celiac allergies are going to kick in, triggering an immune response.
“The transient rise or lowering of cortisol level is normal and in fact happens on a daily basis as cortisol levels peak upon awakening and bottom out shortly after bedtime,” Cutler explains. “They can also be affected by physical illness, fever, sleep deprivation, inflammation, pregnancy and emotional factors. In addition to internal factors, external factors such as diet, alcohol, caffeine, prescription medication, and nutritional supplements can also affect cortisol levels.”
You’ll notice some of these issues, including emotional factors, lack of sleep, and alcohol and caffeine usage can all be linked to what we traditionally think of as stress, while other factors are stressing the body in a more medical sense.
Semantics aside, when your body encounters stressors, cortisol comes out to play, helping the body keep its systems in check, and keeping your body healthy even in the face of an attack on the immune system. When everything seems okay, cortisol levels are then supposed to drop, increasing again only when they’re needed.
Unfortunately, cortisol levels don’t always work the way they should, says Carol Lourie, a naturopath and functional medicine expert who specializes in women’s health.
“Chronic stress is a contributing factor in elevated cortisol,” Lourie says. Other medical conditions that can increase cortisol levels are pregnancy, Cushing’s syndrome, Addison’s disease, pituitary or adrenal tumors, high blood pressure, obesity, and metabolic syndrome. Prolonged use of certain medical steroids such as prednisone or cortisone can also affect a person’s cortisol levels.

Addison’s Disease

If you have Addison’s disease, for example, your body may not produce enough cortisol and aldosterone (another steroid hormone), says Joseph Geskey, DO, an internal medicine specialist and vice president of medical affairs at OhioHealth Doctors Hospital in Columbus, Ohio. That lack of cortisol can result in a variety of gastrointestinal issues including nausea, vomiting, abdominal pain, diarrhea, muscle weakness, and weight loss.
When managed well, Addison’s sufferers can live a fairly normal life—in fact the most famous Addison’s patient might be President John F. Kennedy, whose disease was kept relatively secret until after his assassination, when an autopsy revealed his adrenal glands were almost nonexistent.

Cushing’s Syndrome

Patients who have Cushing’s syndrome are also affected by cortisol levels that are different from their peers’, but in their case, the cortisol levels are too high instead of too low.
“Cushing’s disease is caused by a tumor in the pituitary gland (located in the brain) that produces a chemical called ACTH (adrenocorticotropic hormone) that stimulates the adrenal gland to produce too much cortisol,” Geskey explains.
Cushing’s sufferers typically have round faces, extra fat on the back of the neck, stretch marks on the abdomen, easy bruising, and extra hair growth on face, neck, chest, and abdomen. If the tumor grows large in the pituitary gland, it can also cause vision loss, Geskey warns. Other complications of too much cortisol can be cataracts, [linkbuilder id=”336″ text=”diabetes”], hypertension, depression, and osteoporosis.

Signs Your Cortisol Levels Are Out of Whack

Despite the rather long list of conditions that might affect the body’s cortisol levels, there is some good news: Cortisol abnormalities are unusual according to Cutler. On the other hand, that also means doctors rarely test cortisol levels as part of an average physical or doctor’s visit.
“Because there is a very wide range of ‘normal’ levels of cortisol, as well as a certain degree of variability in these results, cortisol levels are generally not checked as part of a routine exam, but rather only if there is a high degree of suspicion of there being a cortisol abnormality,” Cutler explains.
So what sort of symptoms might prompt legitimate suspicion in you or your doctor? Lourie says it’s good to mention your concerns to your doctor if you have any of the following symptoms:

  • Feeling you are overreacting to certain situations, have a very short fuse, or are easily angered
  • Feeling anxious frequently for no apparent reason
  • Feeling tired all the time no matter how much sleep you get
  • Inability to relax and calm down, even during a restful moment
  • Inability to sleep or waking up feeling unrefreshed
  • Unexplained weight gain (without changing diet or exercise routine)
  • Inability to lose weight (despite exercise and dedicated diet change)
  • Unexplained acne
  • High blood pressure
  • Hormonal problems such as irregular menses or extreme cramping during menses

Many symptoms that would seem to indicate cortisol level abnormalities can be explained by other issues and will go away with treatment of said issues, but there are blood tests that can be done for cortisol levels to get to the bottom of the issue if other treatments don’t address the problem.
“Levels may seem abnormal when, in fact, there is no disease. And subtle symptoms may be found to be the result of cortisol abnormalities after more common causes have been excluded,” Cutler notes.

Managing Cortisol Levels

If a cortisol level abnormality is suspected, a primary care doctor will typically refer a patient to an endocrinologist, says Muneer Imam, MD, lead physician at the CIIT Medical Center, Long Island. The endocrinologist will call for blood tests, typically performed early in the morning and later again in the day to address the fact that cortisol levels fluctuate through the day.
Imam says a normal cortisol level is 6.2 to 19.4 micrograms per deciliter. “Anything below or above is out of normal range.”
If the numbers aren’t in range, the next step is determining why levels are too high or too low.
In cases of Addison’s disease, medicine is typically required. Doctors will turn to a class of pharmaceuticals known as glucocorticoids to replace the cortisol and mineralocorticoids to replace aldosterone, Geskey says. If an Addison’s patient gets sick, they can suffer an adrenal crisis, in which case doctors may administer cortisol via an injection.
For Cushing’s syndrome patients, on the other hand, treatment can involve surgery, medication, and radiation therapy. Surgical removal of the tumor that causes the condition offers the only long-term cure, Geskey says.
Diet changes may also be recommended by your healthcare provider, as food can have an effect on cortisol levels for some people.
Addison’s patients are often directed to increase their calcium and vitamin D levels, as well as salt intake, Geskey says, while Cushing’s patients may be told to eat a diet with foods rich in calcium and protein, which can possibly prevent muscle and bone loss associated with having too much cortisol.
Even those who are otherwise healthy and whose levels are not severely off track may benefit from dietary changes. For example, Lourie says, “Fast food choices and chronic stress add up to elevated cortisol levels.”
She starts patients off with an anti-inflammatory diet, eliminating sugars, processed foods, alcohol, and coffee. “The focus is on lots of fresh vegetables, healthy fats, gluten-free whole grains, small amounts of organic chicken, meat, and fish, as well as fruits.”
If upending your entire diet isn’t in the cards, it’s still a good idea to simply increase the amount of healthy foods in your diet, Lourie says, as that can put your entire body on a track to better health.
For other people with cortisol level issues that aren’t directly related to a medical condition that needs to be treated, diet, exercise, and other lifestyle changes are all on the table. Stress in life, after all, is part of what can make your cortisol skyrocket, and with it the side effects of cortisol levels that are too high.
Stress reduction techniques such as meditation, yoga, and acupuncture have all been found to help reduce cortisol levels.
“Although they are different, one of the common denominators is they all lower the body’s sympathetic nervous system, the fight or flight response, and activate the parasympathetic nervous system,” Lourie explains. “This is the part of the body’s nervous system which is calming and encourages relaxation and joy.”
Even focusing on something calming such as an art class to take your mind off your day-to-day could have benefits. In one small study performed by researchers at Philadelphia’s Drexel University, cortisol levels were tested on a group of 39 healthy adults before and after a 45-minute art class. The results? Three quarters of the group saw a drop in cortisol after letting their creative juices flow.
Of course, any treatment approach should be discussed with your medical practitioner, but if lifestyle changes can reduce your stress, you may just kill two birds with one stone.
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Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (And How It Affects More People Than You Might Think)

Post-traumatic stress disorder, or PTSD, is often thought of in terms of its effect on military veterans who have witnessed or participated in the horrors of war. The reality of this life-altering disorder is that it can occur after any type of trauma, from being a victim of violence to enduring a catastrophic natural disaster to being bitten by a dog as a child.
Considering the ubiquitous nature of trauma and the 24.4 million Americans who suffer from this disorder, it’s important to address the stigma surrounding PTSD and the people who experience it day-to-day. When it comes to PTSD, knowledge is empowering for everyone.

What is post-traumatic stress disorder?

The National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) states that post-traumatic stress disorder “can develop after exposure to a potentially traumatic event that is beyond a typical stressor. Events that may lead to PTSD include, but are not limited to, violent personal assaults, natural or human-caused disasters, accidents, combat, and other forms of violence.” They highlight the fact that while most people will, at some point in their lives, be exposed to an event which fits the criteria of trauma, only a small percentage of people will go on to receive a diagnosis of PTSD.

Types of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

Uncomplicated PTSD

This type of PTSD occurs when an individual has experienced loss of life or widespread destruction for an extended amount of time. People suffering from uncomplicated PTSD seek out ways to avoid the traumatic event through denial and this can lead to detachment from people and real world situations.

Complex PTSD

Complex PTSD is a result of repeated, inescapable tragedies that are endured over months and years. As a result of natural coping mechanisms in the brain, sufferers of complex PTSD often have the false belief that if the trauma is never spoken about they will be okay. This belief is caused by the disconnect the survivor has placed between themselves and their trauma.

Acute Stress Disorder

This disorder is defined as the formation of severe anxiety, dissociation, and emotional detachment. Those who suffer from acute stress disorder are likely to avoid anything or anyone who reminds them of the original trauma and may become easily irritated or startled and experience difficulty sleeping.

Comorbid PTSD

Current data shows that the majority of people suffering from PTSD have also been diagnosed with at least one other psychiatric disorder (such as anxiety, depression, or substance abuse). Scientists believe that the higher risk for drug and alcohol abuse in these individuals can be largely explained by the increased likelihood of self-medication.

How is post-traumatic stress disorder diagnosed?

In order for an adult to be diagnosed with PTSD they must meet the following set of criteria as presented in the DSM-5 (the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders):

Exposure

They must have been exposed to death, threatened death, actual or threatened serious injury, or actual or threatened sexual violence (such as direct exposure, actually witnessing the trauma, learning a loved one was exposed to trauma, or indirect exposure to trauma through professional duties).

Re-Experiencing

They must have at least one re-experiencing symptom, such as unwanted and upsetting memories, nightmares, flashbacks, emotional distress, and physical reactivity to traumatic reminders.

Avoidance

They must have at least one avoidance symptom, such as avoidance of trauma-related thoughts, feelings, or trauma-related reminders.

Arousal and Reactivity

They must have at least two arousal and reactivity symptoms, such as irritability or aggression, risky or destructive behavior, increased alertness to their surroundings, heightened startle reaction, difficulty concentrating, and difficulty sleeping.

Cognition and Mood

At least two cognition and mood symptoms, such as trouble remembering important features of the event, overly negative thoughts about themselves and the world, exaggerated blame of themselves or others for causing the trauma, negative mood, decreased interest in activities that once brought joy, feelings of isolation, and difficulty feeling happiness.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and Young Children

Young children can be susceptible to PTSD if they have experienced trauma such as death of a loved one, abuse, neglect, war, disaster, and even dog bites (although the symptoms may be slightly different than those of an adult).
Young children can have difficulties remembering the correct sequence of events that occurred at the time of the trauma. They might also practice omen formation, which is “a belief that there were warning signs that predicted the trauma.” Other symptoms of childhood PTSD can include a fear or mistrust of strangers and family members, traumatic play (where components of the trauma are acted out), and regressive behavior such as thumb sucking and bedwetting.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and Teens

Teens experiencing PTSD have symptoms that may include separation anxiety, difficulty with impulse control (which can manifest as problems with drugs and alcohol), and aggressive behavior (such as instigating fights with friends and family members).

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and Women

Although women have a slightly lower chance of experiencing trauma when compared to men (around 50 percent of women will endure trauma during their lives), women are over two times as likely to develop PTSD. The sad truth is that women have a much higher chance of experiencing rape, sexual abuse, childhood sexual abuse, or physical and mental abuse at the hands of their partners.
PTSD symptoms for women can include an overall sense of nervousness, becoming easily frightened, developing anxiety and depression, and avoidant behavior. Women are also more likely to shoulder the blame for incidents of trauma, placing responsibility on themselves even if they were the victim.

Why does post-traumatic stress disorder happen?

Considering the atrocities of war that both soldiers and civilians are exposed to, it’s no surprise that PTSD is most often associated with the military. It’s estimated that, depending on the war in question, anywhere from 11 to 30 percent of veterans have experienced PTSD during their lifetime. Unfortunately, the reality of PTSD is that anyone who experiences trauma is at risk of developing the disorder.
Jennifer* is a 30-something teacher, visual artist, wife, and mother who also happens to suffer from PTSD due to the sudden death of her father. She shares:

I have been struggling with PTSD for 17 years. For a long time, I never knew what it was or what was happening to me. When I was 16 I watched my father died of a massive heart attack in front of me. He was lying on the couch downstairs. I was upstairs on the computer and I remember my mom yelling his name over and over. I went downstairs to find him holding his chest and staring at me. It sounded like he was trying to say something but I was just trying to reassure him that the ambulance was on its way and that he was going to be okay. He wasn’t okay. By the time we got to the hospital he had already passed away. This was 17 years ago last November.

It’s important to point out that PTSD-related reactions to situations and people don’t have to directly mirror the circumstances of the original trauma. Jennifer explains that after her father’s death she would panic whenever she had any sense something bad might have happened to a loved one, even it was unrelated to her father’s heart attack:

If anything would happen that related to heath, I would panic. It would take me back to that image of my father in the couch. I now know that people die. They can die at any time and they can die right in front of me. If my mom wouldn’t answer the phone I would automatically assume she was lying on the floor dead or hurt. If I had a pain in my chest, it was a heart attack. That thought, that image of him. Still there. I always just lived with this feeling. These thoughts and extreme fear were a part of my life now. I just assumed I was broken. Actually, I just assumed that everyone was going to die in front of me.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and Motherhood

The effects of PTSD on everyday life can’t be overemphasized. They can be overwhelming, panic-inducing, and life-altering. For mothers, PTSD can be exceptionally difficult to deal with, let alone overcome when they are so busy taking care of their children. When Jennifer had her children, she found herself experiencing panic when she thought of her father’s death and the inevitability of death in general:

After having them (and less sleep) I really found myself having a hard time not thinking about my dad, and how much I loved him and how now I have these little boys that I love so much—more than anything in the world—and what if I lost them like I lost him?

Jennifer says if her kids’ names are called and they don’t answer, it takes her back to the day she was upstairs and her mom was calling her dad’s name:

As a mother, I try to shield my kids from how I feel when I am panicking, but it is impossible. They see me react. They know I am afraid. I feel terrible about it. I worry constantly that I am going to give them fears that are irrational.

The compound nature of anxiety, wherein one small worry quickly escalates into an end-of-the-world scenario in the victim’s mind, can be greatly exacerbated by motherhood. Suddenly, good mental health hygiene practices (such as plenty of sleep, time for self-care, and plenty of partner support) that may have been common practice prior to having children can inadvertently be pushed aside by the demands of motherhood. Jennifer is very familiar with this conundrum, saying, “I also found that with the kids, I am finding it hard to make it to my CBT appointments. I am so busy with work and being a mom that I am not taking care of my mental health nearly as much as I should be.” It’s clear that accessible, affordable treatment is needed for mothers (and others who suffer from PTSD), so what does PTSD treatment look like?

Treatment of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder: A Multi-Pronged Approach

PTSD is commonly treated with psychotherapy and medication. Different approaches and treatment options include:

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT addresses PTSD patients’ thought patterns and focuses on the mental constructs (like phobias) that are adversely impacting their day-to-day life. Specifically, a therapist will help a patient recognize self-doubt, social anxiety, and fear that the traumatic event will reoccur. CBT can combine talk therapy, journaling, and education about anxiety-management techniques.

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

EDMR is a type of therapy that involves processing trauma while following guided movements. Over the course of treatment, the practice eventually helps change your reaction to the traumatic thoughts.

Exposure Therapy

Exposure therapy involves addressing traumatic thoughts directly and can involve discussions with a therapist or physically doing activities related to the original trauma. Exposure therapy is often combined with cognitive behavioral therapy.

Medication

Antidepressants that fall under the SSRI (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) heading are the drugs most commonly used to combat the symptoms of PTSD. These include medications such as Celexa, Lexapro, Prozac, Paxil, and Zoloft. Antidepressants are often used in conjunction with psychotherapy.

Alternative Treatments for Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

While psychotherapy and medication have been proven to be the most effective treatments for PTSD, many people use alternative or complementary therapies as further means to support themselves through their daily lives. Animal therapy, acupuncture, meditation, and guided relaxation are all examples of commonly used alternative or complementary therapies. Although research in these area is limited or inconclusive, the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs supports the study of these methods and their use when combined with psychotherapy and/or medication.

How are children treated for post-traumatic stress disorder?

Treatment of children who have PTSD utilizes cognitive behavioral therapy and eye movement desensitization in addition to play therapy. Play therapy is used for children ages 3 to 8 and involves the use of natural expression (play) as a therapeutic means for coping with emotional stress and trauma.

How to Support Someone Who’s Struggling With PTSD

Relationships with others are especially crucial for individuals with PTSD and support from friends and family has proven to have a lasting positive effect on individuals coping with PTSD. Why are relationships so important? They can help alleviate guilt that is attached to the incident, they lower the chances of depression and overwhelming anxiety, and they can shift the focus of the individual away from the traumatic event and themselves and onto maintaining healthy relationships with other people.
Therapy is also important, both for the person with PTSD and for those doing the supporting, and can take the form of marriage counseling, counseling from a place of religious worship, family education classes, anger management, or group therapy.
In addition to in-person sources of support, there are many online organizations that provide help in the form of internet forums, education and awareness, volunteer work, and 1-800 hotlines that provide counseling and support over the phone.
Sidran: Traumatic Stress Education & Advocacy provides resources for survivors and their loved ones as well as information for mental health workers and advocates.
NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) offers a wealth of information on mental health and illnesses, including PTSD. It also offers information and support for mothers suffering from PTSD.
The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs’ website provides excellent information on the diagnosis and treatment of PTSD as well as resources for loved ones. It also hosts information pertaining to PTSD caused by non-military events.
*Some last names have been omitted from this article to respect contributors’ privacy.

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Can You Manage Social Anxiety Disorder? Psychologists Share Their Insights

Many of us get nervous when it comes to public speaking. We might feel slightly frazzled or shy in social situations. We might even avoid large gatherings or unfamiliar social spaces.
But what does it mean if you have a constant fear of social situations? What if you worry about events for days or weeks before they take place? What if your avoidance of social situations affects your career, schooling, or relationships? What if your anxiety is affecting you on a physical level, causing you to become sweaty or nauseated around others?
If you have experienced these symptoms, you’re not alone. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, recent statistics suggest about 12.1 percent of U.S. adults experience social anxiety disorder at some point in their lives. There are a few risk factors that increase your chances of having social anxiety disorder, including being divorced or widowed and experiencing stressful life events. Women and girls are more likely to experience social anxiety disorder.
“Having negative social experiences and growing up in stressful environments are two environmental factors that can contribute to the development of social anxiety disorder,” says Amy Serin, PhD, a neuropsychologist and founder of The Serin Center. “As with most diagnoses, there is a dynamic interplay between genetics and environment that can determine the eventual development of a disorder.”
Fortunately, Serin notes, social anxiety disorder can be effectively treated. Here’s what you need to know.

What exactly is social anxiety disorder?

Social anxiety disorder isn’t simply about being shy or introverted, although a socially anxious person may appear that way to others. Social anxiety disorder typically leads people to avoid social situations entirely, or to have great difficulty in those situations. In some cases, the anxiety stems from being afraid of how people perceive them.
“Introverts simply recharge their energy during solitude but can have no anxiety when dealing with others. There is a preference for being alone versus being with others,” Serin says. “Shyness may be a less severe form of social anxiety and occurs when a person may clam up or prefer to avoid social interaction in general.”
Social anxiety disorder, on the other hand, includes severe stress responses to social situations. “Social anxiety disorder typically presents as marked fear in social situations, above and beyond what one would typically expect given the situation,” says Jana Scrivani, PsyD, a licensed psychologist with expertise in the diagnosis and treatment of social anxiety.
Before a psychologist diagnoses someone with the disorder, certain criteria must be met. Psychologists use the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) criteria to inform their diagnosis. “In order for a fear of social situations to be considered a disorder, it must interfere in someone’s life,” says Scrivani. In other words, the social anxiety must make it difficult for someone to function to be considered a disorder. “Additionally, the distress needs to persist for at least six months, and not be attributable to something else,” she says. For example, if someone avoids school because of a long-term illness or an unpleasant encounter with a particular teacher or classmate, that’s not attributable to social anxiety.
Anxiety disorders can also be accompanied by a number of physical symptoms including heart palpitations, excessive sweating, shaking, hot and cold flashes, shortness of breath, dizziness and lightheadedness, and trouble swallowing. These might seem like symptoms of the flu, but are often linked to anxiety. Anxiety results in these physical experiences by producing a flight-or-fight stress response in our bodies, which in turn affects our hormonal system and ultimately impacts our physical health.

Can social anxiety disorder be treated?

Social anxiety disorder is difficult to live with, but it can be treated successfully, says Scrivani. “I’ve worked with many people throughout the years who have made significant strides in overcoming social anxiety!” she says. “The first step would be to look for a provider who is experienced with social anxiety disorder.”
Seeing a therapist is often the first step in managing social anxiety. One of the most effective treatments for social anxiety disorder is cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), says Lara Fielding, PsyD, EdM, an Los Angeles-based clinical psychologist and author. CBT is commonly used because numerous studies have shown that it’s an effective treatment for social anxiety disorder. CBT teaches people different ways of thinking, understanding, and reacting to situations.
Another effective form of therapy for social anxiety disorder is acceptance and commitment therapy, or ACT. This involves linking the client’s values with the necessity to persist through the anxiety. Their values are used to motivate them to work through their anxiety.
Exposure therapy is usually used in combination with CBT to treat social anxiety disorder. Fielding explains that during CBT, a therapist might encourage their client to create a hierarchy of feared social situations. These situations range from mildly anxiety inducing to unbearably anxiety inducing. The therapist might then guide them to gradually expose themself to those situations, starting with the least worrisome situation. “The client must stay present to the anxiety until the peak has passed, without engaging in any reassurance-seeking or other safety behaviors, until the anxiety begins to extinguish on its own,” Fielding says. After repeated exposures, the anxiety begins to subside and the client starts to feel more in control.
Fielding also notes that mindfulness-based CBT is incredibly effective for the treatment of social anxiety disorder. With anxiety disorders, you experience primary reactions and secondary reactions. The secondary reactions involve you fearing your anxiety and wanting to avoid that discomfort. “In mindfulness the aim is to practice letting go of the reactivity in such a way that the primary pain is accepted, so the secondary reactivity does not take hold.” Fielding says.
You’ll take note of your heart pounding, your instinct to run away, and so on. You’ll accept this discomfort and learn that it doesn’t have to dictate your actions. “Mindful awareness of the relationship between the thinking, feelings, and action impulses begins to paradoxically reduce the secondary reactivity,” she says.
There are other forms of therapy for social anxiety, such as psychodynamic therapy. However, Fielding says these forms haven’t been studied thoroughly enough. “This type of therapy has little or no evidence for being effective with serious anxiety disorders,” she explains. “CBT and ACT have multiple randomized controlled trials—the gold standard of science—showing them to be effective.”
Serin reiterates that social anxiety disorder can be treated. “At Serin Center, we have treated hundreds of individuals with social anxiety disorder with a combination of neurofeedback, therapy, and bilateral alternating stimulation,” she says. Neurofeedback involves mapping brain activity and then using that to inform therapy, while TouchPoints are wearables that vibrate on alternating sides of the body, altering the body’s flight-or-fight response. This soothes the wearer when they’re feeling anxious.
Anxious about seeing a therapist? Do some research first to put your mind at ease. Ask for referrals from friends. Consider online therapy options like Talkspace or BetterHelp if the idea of a face-to-face conversation is too intimidating. Remind yourself that it’s an investment in your life: You are worth your own effort.

Other Ways to Manage Social Anxiety Disorder

While therapy should be your first port-of-call when it comes to addressing social anxiety disorder, it’s great to have other stress management techniques, too. These coping skills can help you in between sessions or while you’re still looking for a therapist, but they can’t replace a professional healthcare provider altogether.
Here are some techniques to consider.

  • Practice deep-breathing exercises to help you manage your anxiety. This skill can help you soothe yourself in seconds, whether you’re at home, in the bathroom at the office, or in a quiet room at a party.
  • While alcohol or drugs can seem like great social lubricants, relying on them should be avoided. “Resist the urge to use alcohol or other non-doctor-prescribed drugs to manage social anxiety,” Scrivani suggests. “Those coping mechanisms only serve to mask the anxiety, and instead of realizing that you can face a particular situation, you’ll attribute your ability to cope to the alcohol or drug.”
  • While your intuition might tell you to avoid social situations, this avoidance makes it worse. “Avoid the avoidance trap!” Scrivani says. “The longer you avoid an anxiety-provoking situation, the more fear and anxiety that situation will elicit the next time you’re faced with it.”
  • Remember that, in most social situations, people aren’t scrutinizing you. Gently remind yourself that people are usually self-conscious—they’re thinking about themselves, not you, Scrivani says.
  • Consider joining support groups for social anxiety. These groups could be online or in-person. Yes, it seems ironic to suggest a meetup to people with social anxiety, but it can sometimes be comforting and healing to speak to those who have the same fear as you while dealing with that fear. Try meetup.com to find a local support group.
  • If you’d like to talk to someone, consider calling an anxiety hotline. A trained responder can listen to your concerns and help you manage your anxiety. Here’s a helpful list of international hotlines, including some that are anxiety specific.
  • In some cases, medication might be prescribed as a treatment for social anxiety disorder.

While having social anxiety might make you feel hopeless, it can be effectively managed. “It’s important to understand the diagnosis is not a life sentence of anxiety, avoidance, and narrowing down of potential to avoid social interaction,” Serin says. “It’s important to understand that there is hope for people with social anxiety disorder and there are many professionals who can help.”

How to Support a Child Who Has Social Anxiety

Social anxiety can manifest at a young age. Some statistics show that about 9.1 percent of U.S. teenagers ages 13 and 18 have social anxiety disorder.
It’s important that parents are aware of the signs so that they can support their children who might have the disorder. Young children can experience significant struggles to reach out for help, as they might not have the vocabulary to explain how they feel.
The most notable sign of social anxiety disorder is if your child tends to avoid social situations. Another is if they seem particularly uncomfortable or noticeably quiet in social situations. Fielding says that the child might even become angry when they have to engage socially, especially in environments outside their comfort zones.
“The most important and effective thing anyone can do to help a loved one struggling with social anxiety (or any mental health struggle) is start from a position of understanding and validating the difficulty the other person is having,” says Fielding. “Loved ones can often invalidate the person struggling by telling them to just relax or trying to reassure them too often.” In other words, you might want to remind your child that there’s nothing to be worried about—but if you do this too often, it might come off as dismissive and invalidating.
Another thing you shouldn’t do is contribute to your child’s avoidance of social situations, Fielding says. The more someone avoids an anxiety-inducing situation, the scarier the situation can become. While avoiding anxiety-inducing situations seems like a quick fix, it can wind up reinforcing the anxiety.
Instead, Fielding suggests responding compassionately to your child and helping them habituate to social situations—that is, helping them get used to interaction by gradually increasing their exposure. If you’re going to a family event, for example, don’t expect them to socialize for hours right away. Go for only an hour or two. Afterward, point out how they were able to handle it. Use this achievement to praise them rather than to invalidate their initial fears.
If their anxiety seems severe, consider taking them to see a counselor or a psychologist who works specifically with children and adolescents. The counselor can treat your child while giving you helpful pointers for supporting them.
The most important thing to remember about social anxiety disorder is that it’s treatable. It is totally possible to manage the symptoms of social anxiety disorder so that you can live a full life without anxiety interfering. And, while therapy can be a difficult experience, it’s worth it—after all, your mental health is worth the investment.

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I’ve Spent Hundreds On Custom Lingerie And Swimwear (In The Name Of Self-Care)

Editing for HealthyWay is a privilege and a motivator. I spend my workdays supporting writers—most of them women—in asking and answering the question “What is a life well lived?” When I pack it up in the evenings and head into my weekends, it’s my turn to ask and answer those big questions about wellness and womanhood, and I get to take all that inspiration and information with me.
One of the most important things this has precipitated? Getting real about my limitations and needs and feeling a spark of creativity when it comes to defining and investing in self-care.
Working on articles about treating yourself to lingerie, managing stress in ways that prioritize mental health and physical well-being, and making the most of alone time when you’re coupled up gave way to something unexpected: the desire to commission some custom clothing—and when I say clothing, I mean swimsuit tops and bras. Here’s why…

Owning the Over-the-Shoulder Boulder Holder

I hate that phrase, and Mother Nature decided not to bless me with anything that could be called boulders, but hey, we all know what I’m talking about. No grown woman I know likes bra shopping, and for me, it’s long been an uncomfortable (and sometimes shame-inducing) experience.
I have a genetic connective tissue disorder, and during college I was diagnosed with costochondritis—a related condition that results in swelling of the cartilage around the sternum, along with chest wall pain and tenderness. I remember trying on clothing with my sister in a fitting room a year or so after my diagnosis. I wanted her opinion on a little underwire number. Was it a shirt? A bra? Who knows.
“What’s going on with your chest?” my sister asked, pointing to a puff of skin that was protruding where the underwires met.
“Yeah…that…” There was little more to say. She was shocked, I was mortified (but felt cared for and seen), and the top went back on the hanger because obviously it wasn’t for me.
For years I kept forcing myself into underwire bras (front-closing styles are sometimes somewhat more bearable) thinking Something’s gotta give. Eventually my body will get used to it. Then one afternoon in a CPR class, while I was practicing life-saving measures on a dummy, the pain really kicked up. I was wearing one of my favorite Calvin Kleins—a bra that looked so good I couldn’t imagine bidding it adieu. I started to feel nauseated and broke out in a cold sweat.
Suddenly the instructor stopped the class and asked if I was feeling alright. “I don’t want to be performing CPR on you!” I slithered off to the bathroom, where I would’ve cried if it hadn’t been for the tremendous relief of wriggling out of my bra and hiding it in my purse, saved by the cami-plus-button-down combo I was wearing, which easily hides what I’m working with.
Since then, I’ve bought and retired a lot of bras—guilting myself for the money wasted. I’ve got a few go-to sports bras. I’ve even swallowed my pride and tried nursing bras, despite not having any kids. I’ve mourned the loss of endlessly telling my husband “I can’t wear that” when he points out something he thinks I’d look good in. And just when it seemed like there was no sexy left for me in the lingerie department, I ordered a couple of Amuse Society swimsuit tops that wound up being my salvation.

Bringing Sexy Back (ft. a Side of Anxiety)

Longline, wire-free, adjustable straps: just a few bra-related terms that are music to this girls’ ears. I didn’t think I’d find my perfect bra swimsuit shopping, but surprise! That the Bailey Solid Longline Pullover Top was marketed as swimwear? I didn’t care! No one else had to know.
I undid two internal seams—carefully—and inserted soft cups to get that sought-after nip coverage, let out the straps to ensure even pressure around the most irritable part of my ribcage, and eagerly anticipated wearing lower cut, dressier shirts whose aesthetic is ruined by neon racerback sports bras. I’d found my bliss in two colors—black and mint green. All was right with the world. I even risked exposing them to chlorinated pool water during a vacation in Tulum last February, but please believe they are always line dried.
That said, I’ve never outgrown the anxiety that comes from living with chronic pain and sensory processing issues: the panic-inducing possibility that the one thing that makes you feel good will break, wear out, or get lost.
I shouldn’t be wearing these every day until I can buy more! Amuse Society stopped making them.
I’ll go bra free and only wear them on special occasions! That wasn’t the solution either.
Ultimately, I’m not comfortable rocking the bra-free life 365 days a year, and I’m owning that. Initially I wondered if this meant something terrible about me. Should all women be comfortable enough with their unadulterated femininity—and nipples, areolas, and boobs in general—to go bra, cami, and pastie free? I don’t know. The answer is complicated (or there isn’t one), and I’m okay with that. My own attachment to wearing a bra most of the time has helped soften my moralizing about elective surgery, expensive cosmetics, and hair dye. We all have our thing(s), and self-care means facing those and investing in them as needed so we can be nicer and get on with life.
Owning our thing also gives us an opportunity to get creative and support other women. Here’s what that looked like for me:

Make me a bra!

Sitting at work one day, it hit me: I should just have some bras made for me. Why not?
It was an exciting moment that I owe largely to the work I get to do—the inspiration and ingenuity I edit every day was dissolving my narratives of lack and not enough. I can’t afford it, I don’t know where to begin, and That’s selfish weren’t true anymore. Thank you, ladies of HealthyWay!
Stepping into my power meant reaching out to my network. One cannot simply make a bra alone! I DMed a burlesque stage manager (badass, am I right?) I used to work with and asked if she knew anyone in Saint Louis who does custom costume and clothing design. Of course! Another DM, a busy schedule, and a referral to a mentor later, and I had an appointment to talk bra with a legit designer.
I took my precious mint-green brassiere with me and she invited me up to the impeccably decorated shared space on the top floor of her apartment building overlooking the idyllic Central West End. She told me about her work for Disney, showed me some pieces from her swimwear and athleisure lines, and explained that she does sizing and could help with putting designs into production. Then we discussed features I was looking for in my ideal garment and the collection of bras and tops I was envisioning.
She seemed way out of my league but agreed to take my project on anyway. When she asked to hang on to my bra so it could inform her prototype and pattern, I gulped down my fear of never seeing it again. The possibility of more—more colors, more details, a little more sexy without sacrificing my sternum—was too good to pass up.
A few weeks later, I was treated to a fitting in her beautiful apartment-cum-studio. I got my OG bra back and left her place inspired. This weekend, a brand new, swan-white, custom-designed bra will be mine! Up next: floral printed swimsuit tops, maybe a bit of lace, perhaps some pom poms? The sky’s the limit, and yes, I will be drinking more drip coffee and fewer Starbucks cherry mochas to fund the operation.
Bras are complicated. Boobs are complicated. Living with a chronic condition, anxiety, or the body image issues that often come with womanhood adds a dimension that is sometimes hard to put into words or relate to our zest for life. We can feel angry at our bodies. We can be mad at the industry. We can also get creative and work together to be true to ourselves.
Kelly Dillon of Eating Off Plastic recently posted this advice for those with sensory processing disorder, and it’s a dose of encouragement we can all apply: “[Make] your world fit to your sensory needs, rather than trying to fit yourself into a world that doesn’t seem made for you.”
Here’s to thinking outside the box, asking for and investing in what you want, and a summer of rocking body-ready swimwear—whatever that means to you.
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