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Fat-Burning Foods Or Fad Marketing Gimmick? The Truth Behind This Dietary Trend

Chances are you’ve come across the concept of fat-burning foods if you have any interest in weight loss or just following a healthy diet. The most common examples of supposedly fat-burning foods include foods that burn more calories than they contain and foods that “kickstart” your metabolism so that you’re able to burn calories more efficiently.
But do fat-burning foods really exist, or are they simply marketing hype? And if they do exist, what do they actually do within the body, and which foods fall under this category?

Fat-Burning Foods: Fact or Fiction?

The concept of fat-burning foods isn’t a new one. In fact, Julie Kostyk, a registered dietitian with Pure Nutrition in Victoria, British Columbia, says that “Working as a dietitian for over 12 years, I have most definitely heard the common misconception that certain foods can ‘burn fat.’ I have heard this specifically in regards to things like cabbage soup (especially if it’s spicy!) and have also heard the common belief that foods such as celery actually have ‘negative calories.’”
Kostyk refers to a HuffPost article by fellow registered dietitian Abby Langer, who wrote, “No food burns fat. Not belly fat, not bum fat, not any fat. Even if a food increases your metabolic rate slightly—like caffeine, for example—it’s unlikely to result in perceptible weight loss. If it worked, no one would be fat! End of story.”  
Unfortunately, there is no quick fix for permanent weight loss—especially not in the form of foods that can magically make your body burn fat faster. Some sources even imply that eating junk food can be “canceled” out by eating fat-burning foods before or after a sweet or salty treat. But the reality is that calories are calories, no matter where they come from.

Losing Weight Without Relying on Foods That Burn Fat

Losing weight and then maintaining your weight is a lifelong process that can only be achieved with a healthy diet and regular exercise—not by relying on fat-burning foods. Kostyk offers “some words of wisdom that I share often with my clients, which come from a very well-spoken and intelligent obesity researcher/medical doctor, Yoni Freedhoff: ‘The more weight you’d like to permanently lose, the more of your life you’ll need to permanently change.’ It really speaks to the fact that ‘Your best weight is whatever weight you reach when you’re living the healthiest life you actually enjoy.’ (Another one of his fabulous quotes).”

Finding Value in Fat-Burning Foods

Just because a food doesn’t literally burn fat doesn’t mean it can’t add value to your existing diet. There are many foods labeled as having fat-burning properties that have plenty to offer in terms of nutritional value and their ability to help you feel fuller longer.
Kostyk regularly enjoys and recommends certain foods you might find on a fat-burning foods list, but for different reasons:

In terms of my own personal favorite low-calorie, satisfying snacks, I tend to go for either ½ cup cottage cheese, which has only ~100 calories but 13–15 g of ‘fill-you-up and keep you full’ protein, or I also like celery sticks with 1 tablespoon of natural peanut butter, which not only provides some fiber and protein (which help to fill you up) but also some healthy fats that also help to increase satiety. Personally, I find that snacks that take longer to eat (e.g., chewing celery) fill me up better than the equivalent number of calories consumed in a short period, such as in a beverage or something softer that slips ‘down the hatch’ with minimal chewing!

She also likes to supplement her smoothies so that they’re more filling:

Another tip I use myself is to add a few heaping tablespoons of a ‘health mix’ into my smoothies or yogurt to help fill me up with good sources of healthy fats, fiber, and protein. The recipe comes from a fabulous fellow RD, Helene Charlebois, and the basic mixture is made up of equal parts of: chia seeds, ground flaxseed, oat bran, and psyllium husk. I make a large batch and keep it in my fridge in a Mason jar to add to items I eat daily. I like how it helps to thicken up smoothies and it definitely helps to keep me feeling full and satisfied. The high fiber content can also help keep your digestive tract healthy.

Foods Commonly Labeled as Fat-Burning (That Have Plenty More to Offer)

  1. 1. Cinnamon

    Craving something sweet and comforting? Try adding cinnamon the next time you’re about to eat some fruit (apples, pears, and unsweetened apple sauce taste delicious when they’ve been covered with a light dusting of cinnamon).
    Although cinnamon is often praised for its fat-burning abilities, the truth is that consuming this spice hasn’t been proven to make you lose weight. It should be noted, though, that recent studies on mice show early promise for cinnamon having a positive metabolic effect. In theory, it could potentially help lower blood sugar levels in a way that is comparable to prescription drugs.
    These studies on cinnamon are still in their infancy, but the possible benefits of making cinnamon a regular part of your diet could have far-reaching effects in terms of its anti-aging properties and high antioxidant levels.

  2. 2. Vegetable Soup

    Naturally low in calories, packed with nutrients, and immensely filling, vegetable soup is a great choice for a snack any time of day. A 2005 study actually confirmed that “consuming two servings of low energy-dense soup daily led to 50% greater weight loss than consuming the same amount of energy as high energy-dense snack food.”
    Try sipping on a cup or two of vegetable soup an hour or so before you plan on eating a heavier meal. Studies have shown “that consuming soup as a preload can significantly reduce subsequent entrée intake, as well as total energy intake at the meal.” Choose a store-bought vegetable soup or try making your own using the easy recipe at the end of this article.

  3. 3. Cottage Cheese

    It’s time to reacquaint yourself with cottage cheese! This is a fabulous source of protein (a single cup contains over half your recommended daily amount) along with vitamin B12, riboflavin, phosphorus, and selenium. Regular consumption of cottage cheese (in addition to other high-protein dairy products) has been lauded for its favorable effects on weight loss in women.
    Cottage cheese can be eaten on its own, but it becomes an extra tasty snack when topped with your favorite non-starchy fruits and vegetables. Cottage cheese can also be a valuable source of healthy probiotics. In a study of overweight women, half of the subjects were given a probiotic containing Lactobacillus rhamnosus and the other half were given a placebo. Over a 24-week period, women who had taken the probiotic had lost twice as much weight as the women who had been given the placebo.
    Although the particular probiotic strain used in the study is only found in Nestlé products, scientists hypothesize that these results could be replicated using other naturally occurring probiotics found in dairy products.

  4. 4. Celery

    Celery has never been able to shake its popular reputation as a so-called fat-burning food despite the fact that science has concluded time and time again that this is false. Even if celery were a negative-calorie food, you’d have to eat an incredible amount of it to produce any noticeable weight loss results.
    As registered dietitian Alix Turoff cautioned in a Food & Wine article, “While you might burn a few extra calories eating foods such as celery or grapefruit (another negative calorie food), this won’t replace an exercise regimen. You’d have to eat a TON of celery to get any sizeable calorie burn. Instead, eat foods like celery because they are low calorie foods to fill up on and when you’re full, you’re less likely to eat the higher calorie foods like cookies or pizza.”
    If you’re going to eat celery, do it because you actually enjoy it as a crunchy snack. And try adding some hummus or Kostyk’s favorite accompaniment, a tablespoon of natural peanut butter.

  5. 5. Grapefruit

    Grapefruit has been thought of as a fat-burning food for almost 100 years, when the grapefruit diet (also known as the Hollywood diet) first started making the rounds in the 1930s. Followers of this short-term diet claim that grapefruit has special enzymes that when eaten at certain times (usually before a meal) can help your body burn off fat.
    The reality is that the grapefruit diet works because you end up in a serious calorie deficit, consuming only 800 calories a day—not because of any magical fat-burning properties. Grapefruit has recently made headlines once again, this time with claims that grapefruit could lower blood sugar just as well as prescription drugs for individuals who have type 2 diabetes.
    An article on the UK National Health Service website calls some of these results into question, however, saying that these conclusions are misleading because the testing had been conducted on mice in a controlled laboratory setting and the study itself had been funded by the California Grapefruit Growers Cooperative. In short, don’t look to grapefruit as a miracle weight loss food. Enjoy it because it’s delicious, very low in calories, and high in vitamins A and C.

  6. 6. Green Tea

    A hot cup of green tea is the ultimate pick-me-up during afternoons at the office that seem like they’re dragging on forever. Green tea consumption has been credited with accelerating weight loss and helping those stubborn pounds stay lost for good, but what does the science have to say about it?
    The truth, it turns out, is complicated. Some studies support claims that green tea plays a role in weight loss, but the results have been based on very small sample groups. It seems that the caffeine in green tea has a larger role than the tea itself and that results are largely dependent on how much caffeine the participants normally consume.
    A study of 76 overweight and moderately obese subjects found that for those individuals with low regular caffeine consumption, green tea had a positive effect on weight maintenance (and made no difference for subjects who regularly consumed high amounts of caffeine). Green tea is rich in polyphenols, which are a particularly powerful form of antioxidants. The effects of these antioxidants have been studied extensively on animal models and are widespread, including potentially positive effects on certain types of cancers, stomach ailments, and other chronic illnesses.

  7. 7. Berries

    When it comes to eating berries, the sheer variety is enough to keep you snacking happily for a long time. Whether you love strawberries, cherries, blueberries, blackberries, raspberries, or any of the other fruits from the berry family, you can always feel good about including them in your diet.
    Although berries are not the fat-burning food that some sources promise, a recent study has shown that eating fruit can prevent weight gain from occurring. Strawberries and blueberries were actually credited as being some of the most beneficial fruit in this study, along with apples, pears, and peppers.
    What makes this study so interesting is the fact that subjects in the study could still be eating the same number of calories as before, but when the calories came from fruit, the subjects still lost weight. Scientists aren’t sure whether to attribute these findings to the fruits and vegetables themselves (it’s also important to consider outside factors such as the lifestyle and educational background of the subjects involved), but they do feel confident recommending that people eat more fruits and vegetables based on fiber and nutrient content.

  8. 8. Spicy Peppers

    If you love to pile on the spicy peppers, you’ll be pleased to learn that scientists are currently studying the effects of capsaicin (the chemical in hot peppers responsible for the sensation of heat) on weight loss. Animal studies have shown that capsaicin has a positive metabolic impact on genetically diabetic mice and demonstrates anti-inflammatory properties.
    A small study conducted on 34 human subjects showed a potential link between capsaicin consumption and increased energy expenditure, which led the subjects to burn more fat as fuel. Not a fan of fiery foods? Dihydrocapsiate is a non-spicy chemical that’s also found in chili peppers, and its thermogenic effects are similar to that of capsaicin.

  9. 9. Chicken Breasts

    Chicken breasts are loaded with protein and can be prepared in a number of different ways to suit every taste and every budget. Protein is associated with increased satiety after a meal, which makes it ideal for both meals and snacks. Chicken breast is also a good option for individuals with diabetes, as it helps to lower the glycemic load of the meal. For best results choose chicken breasts without the skin, and opt for organic poultry whenever possible.

“Souper” Filling Vegetable Soup

This recipe for vegetable soup is endlessly adaptable based on your own preferences and what’s in your fridge at any given time. You can make your own vegetable stock or buy a good-quality version for this recipe. This recipe will keep in the fridge for 4 to 5 days and can be frozen for future snacks.
Yields 6-8 servings

Ingredients

  • 6 cups vegetable stock (homemade or store-bought version such as Better Than Bouillon Organic Vegetable Base)
  • 14 oz. can diced tomatoes
  • 4–5 cups chopped non-starchy vegetables (check out this definitive list)
  • Juice of half a lemon or 2 Tbsp. lemon juice
  • 2 Tbsp. red wine vinegar
  • 2 Tbsp. soy sauce or tamari
  • 1 tsp. dried basil
  • 1 tsp. dried oregano
  • 1 tsp. dried dill
  • Kosher salt and freshly cracked pepper to taste

Optional ingredients

  • Shredded chicken breast
  • Fresh herbs (such as parsley, basil, dill, and thyme)
  • Cooked rice or quinoa
  • Cooked small pasta

Special equipment

  • Large stock pot
  • Chef’s knife
  • Cutting board
  • Can opener
  • Measuring cups and spoons
  • Long wooden spoon
  • Citrus juicer (optional)

Method

  1. In a large stock pot, heat the vegetable stock over medium-high heat until it’s simmering.
  2. Add the can of diced tomatoes and chopped vegetables to the simmering stock and cook for 5 minutes.
  3. Stir in the remaining ingredients and cook for another 5 minutes (longer for heartier vegetables). If using any of the optional ingredients, add them at this time.
  4. Taste and adjust seasonings if necessary. Serve piping hot on its own or as a side to your regularly scheduled meal.

The Important Truth About the Fat-Burning Foods Trend

It would be fantastic if fat-burning foods were a reality. The idea of eating snacks that actually burn fat would be incredible, if only because it would allow those looking to lose weight to get some extra help from the foods they were eating. In reality, weight loss requires permanent changes to your diet and exercise regimen.
While a stick of celery or half a grapefruit might not actually burn fat, they are definitely a nutritious addition to your diet thanks to their fiber and vitamin content. Instead of viewing these foods as cure-all ingredients, look at them as a means to take care of yourself and treat your body with respect (which is the most important part of any lifestyle change).

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Conscious Beauty Lifestyle

Move Over AHA And BHA: PHA Is The New Acid Everyone's Talking About

If you’re a self-proclaimed skincare enthusiast, chances are you’re familiar with chemical exfoliation. Depending on your routine, this may look like a nightly cocktail of serums, twice-weekly masks, or even regular chemical peels from your fave esthetician.
Most of these chemical exfoliants use alpha-hydroxy acids (AHAs) or beta-hydroxy acids (BHAs) as their main ingredients, depending on what they’re targeting. If you’re at all familiar with chemical exfoliants, those should be pretty familiar to you, but now there’s a new one trending: polyhydroxy acid.

Polyhydroxy what?

Polyhydroxy acids (PHAs) are the youngest generation of acids, and oh are they powerful.
AHAs and BHAs are key ingredients in many chemical exfoliants and they’re known for their ability to strength the skin’s barrier, fight signs of aging, and provide supple hydration. AHAs, like glycolic acid, stimulate collagen production, meaning they’re great at reducing fine lines; BHAs, like salicylic acid, can penetrate pores deeply.
Studies have found that PHAs offer similar effects as both these well-known acids, but with notably fewer severe irritation responses for individuals with sensitive or dry skin.
The effects of PHAs are as comprehensive as they are plentiful. These acids:

  • Exfoliate the skin, which is crucial for removing layers of dead skin and revealing healthy new cells
  • Increase moisture retention, which can decrease signs of aging and improve the appearance of potentially worn-looking or dull skin
  • Contain antioxidants, which fight free radicals and can increase the effectiveness of sunscreen, further protecting the skin from UV exposure
  • Improve the skin’s natural barrier systems, which protects against harmful substances
  • Reduce inflammatory flares caused by dermatological conditions such as those listed above as well as acne, psoriasis, and melasma.
  • Enhance overall clarity, brightness, smoothness, and elasticity

Who should use PHAs?

While PHAs can be advantageous for every skin type, if your skin tends be hypersensitive when using products or performing peels with AHA or BHA, you’d likely benefit greatly from incorporating PHAs into your skincare routine.
The multiple hydroxyl groups in PHAs contain larger molecules than those in their sister acids, which slows down their absorption rate, meaning they cause less topical irritation. So if you have sensitive skin that can get irritated from too much AHA or BHA use, PHAs might be the acid you’ve been looking for. This means that even individuals with conditions like atopic dermatitis or rosacea don’t need to miss out on acids’ age-defying benefits any longer.
Notice any stinging or redness with AHAs or BHAs? It just might be time to make a switch!
We also want to note that the studies on PHAs’ effects have been replicated for black, Caucasian, Hispanic, and Asian skin, which supports their widespread application and effectiveness.

How should I use PHAs?

As a good rule of thumb, begin your new protocol by applying PHA-containing products once per day or even once every other day. After taking note of how your skin responds, you can increase the frequency to twice a day. This type of progressive onboarding will need to be done for every product you plan on introducing! If you notice any itching, burning, or swelling, stop!
No matter where you are in your skincare journey, make sure you’re using an adequate moisturizer morning and night in addition to sunscreen with at least SPF 25 every single morning. Though PHAs have been shown to not increase sun sensitivity and potential burning like AHAs and BHAs, it’s still a good habit to practice.

Our Current PHA Faves

So, we’re all clear that PHAs should be in our daily arsenals, but which products should you pick up? Easy! Because PHAs have so many benefits, you can can find them in cleansers, creams, lotions, and serums. Whatever your skin may be needing most, there’s sure to be a product that’s perfect for you.
Looking for a cleanser? The Age Reverse Bioactiv Wash from Exuviance combines PHAs, maltobionic acid (derived naturally from maltose sugar), and botanical extracts to remove makeup, resurface your skin, and prep your canvas for the next step in your routine.
Skincare giant Glossier has jumped in the PHA game with the star of their 2018 show, Solution. Use it after cleansing to exfoliate dead skin cells for get brighter, clearer skin. (Just a note, Solution does also contain AHAs and BHAs, so if you’re sensitive, proceed with caution.)
Not using a toner? You should be. Also from Exuviance, this Moisture Balance Toner will even out your skin’s pH while using PHAs to hydrate.
Finally, get in on the PHA serum fun with the Hydrating Serum from PCA Skin. This is a perfect step right before moisturizer as it will condition, boost collagen production, and calm any redness or irritation leftover from exfoliation.

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The Benefits Of Wheatgrass: The Surprising Truth Behind The So-Called Miracle Juice

Wheatgrass is a health-food phenomenon. You might have heard of wheatgrass from a friend who swears it gives her a much-needed energy boost. Or perhaps you’ve read tales of its ability to naturally cure diseases such as cancer, diabetes, and AIDS.

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Wheatgrass is harvested from the early growth (usually the first 7 to 10 days) of the common wheat plant Triticum. It can be freeze-dried and taken as a powder or pill or consumed as a shot of juice. Wheatgrass has a very bitter, grassy flavor. which is why it is often taken as a shot rather than as an actual drink. Wheatgrass has many perceived health benefits that are widely touted by fans of this chlorophyll-tinted green juice.
But are these claims backed up by science? And if they aren’t, should you be including wheatgrass in your diet?

Wheatgrass is Loaded With Nutrients

Wheatgrass is well known for its purported ability to treat all sorts of health problems, but what is its actual nutritional profile? It turns out that wheatgrass is a good source of amino acids; vitamins A, C, and E; iron; and calcium. Fans of wheatgrass believe it should be consumed as quickly as possible after it’s been exposed to air to prevent nutrient loss.
As Loraine Dégraff, author of The Complete Guide to Growing and Using Wheatgrass explains:

The nutrient level of the wheatgrass reduces if it is exposed to air too long before it is consumed. Also, how old is the grass? Grass that is juiced too long past the ‘prime time’ of harvest (7 to 10 days for indoor) is already compromised as far as nutrition is concerned. The method of growth can also affect nutritional absorption. Indoor grass, which is probably more familiar to most, is consumed for therapeutic benefits. Its nutrients include simple sugars, which can cause a spike in blood [glucose] level. Outdoor grass, consumed for health benefits, include[s] complex carbohydrates that are easily assimilated. Of course, both growers feel their method is best. I find, however, that most people can stick with the outdoor grass longer because of the taste factor.

A Brief History of Wheatgrass

Wheatgrass has been a part of American popular health culture since the 1930s. An agricultural chemist named Charles F. Schnabel noticed the wheatgrass that he gave his dying chickens helped the chickens recover quickly. Schnabel began selling dried wheatgrass and eventually received funding from Quaker Oats and American Dairies Inc., at which point wheatgrass began to be sold in powdered form all over the United States.
In the mid-20th century a woman named Ann Wigmore claimed to have cured her cancer thanks to her wheatgrass consumption. She went on to champion wheatgrass as a powerful healing agent in conjunction with a raw food diet, eventually co-founding the Hippocrates Health Institute, an alternative medicine facility in Florida.

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In 1982 Wigmore was sued by the attorney general of Massachusetts because of her false claims that wheatgrass could take the place of insulin for diabetics. She was sued again in 1988 for stating that it could cure AIDS. Although she ultimately won that case on First Amendment grounds, the judge ordered her not to claim to be a doctor who can treat or cure illness.  

The Benefits of Including Wheatgrass in Your Diet

Including wheatgrass in your diet is a great way to get in an extra serving of fruits and vegetables. But in an article published by the UK’s National Health Service, dietitian Alison Hornby says, “There is no sound evidence to support the claim that wheatgrass is better than other fruits and vegetables in terms of nutrition. It cannot be recommended above any other choices in this food group.”

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If you love wheatgrass, then you should certainly include it in your diet. But if you don’t, you can get the same nutrients from eating the same amount of broccoli or spinach.

Is wheatgrass a cure for cancer?

Despite the fact that wheatgrass used to be (and still is) heavily promoted as a cure for cancer—along with many other diseases and ailments—there is no conclusive scientific data to support this claim. There is some potentially promising research that wheatgrass may provide relief from some of the side effects of chemotherapy, but more study is needed to determine what implications this might have for other patients.
It should be noted that the American Cancer Society encourages many forms of complementary therapy to mainstream cancer treatment but “urges patients who are thinking about using any complementary or non-mainstream therapies to first discuss it with their health care team.”

What about chlorophyll?

Wheatgrass is prized for its levels of chlorophyll, a green phytonutrient that naturally occurs in plants so that they are able to absorb energy from the sun. Hemoglobin, a protein found in red blood cells, helps to carry oxygen throughout the bodies of animals. Structurally, chlorophyll and hemoglobin are similar, and both are considered the “lifeblood” of the bodies they inhabit.

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Wheatgrass devotees believe that chlorophyll has the ability to reverse the aging process, suppress the appetite, reverse [linkbuilder id=”6690″ text=”thyroid problems”], and cleanse the blood, although there have been no significant studies to show these claims are actually true.

Are there any side effects of consuming wheatgrass?

Most people who consume wheatgrass don’t experience side effects, but some people may suffer from nausea and may find the strong grass-like taste overwhelming. There is also a possibility that contamination from microbials may occur because wheatgrass sprouts are grown for 7 to 10 days before being harvested for their leaves (for this reason pregnant women are advised against consuming wheatgrass).

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Although some wheatgrass enthusiasts insist this is a detoxification process your body is going through, if your symptoms persist it’s more likely you have an intolerance to wheatgrass. It’s also important to use caution if you have a wheat or gluten allergy, as wheatgrass can occasionally be a trigger for hives or swelling in the lips and tongue.

The Best Way to Include Wheatgrass in Your Diet

According to Dégraff, the best way to consume wheatgrass is to juice it:

The best method for obtaining the full nutritional benefits of the wheatgrass, especially the live enzymes, would be to juice it yourself and drink the juice within minutes of juicing. The nutrient level of the wheatgrass reduces if it is exposed to air too long before it is consumed.

TJ DiCiaula, co-owner of SuperCharge! Foods in Madison, Wisconsin, agrees on the importance of drinking the wheatgrass juice as fresh as possible and recommends doing the following:

Upon juicing—it is always best to consume the juice immediately and ‘chew’ the juice, which means to swish the juice around in the mouth to mix enzymes and absorb as much as you can in the mouth like you would in taking medicine or a tincture under the tongue.

DiCiaula does acknowledge that for most people, it “is more feasible to juice several days to a week’s worth at a time. They say there is one active enzyme in wheatgrass that will oxidize after 20 minutes. Otherwise the shelf life of the juice varies with its nutrient density and bioenergy. It seems the core nutrition remains but enzymes will begin to break down over a couple days and the juice will begin to lose its sweetness.”

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The experts agree that the juice should be made with freshly harvested wheatgrass leaves whenever possible and should be consumed as quickly as possible for optimal nutrient absorption.

Alternative Ways to Consume Wheatgrass

Wheatgrass can also be administered in pill or powder form. Due to the potential for microbial contamination in freshly juiced wheatgrass, some experts recommend reaping the nutritional benefits in supplement form rather than as a juice. It’s important to make sure wheatgrass in pill or powder form follows protocol for food labeling and that the supplements come from an FDA-approved lab.

How much wheatgrass is it safe to consume?

There is currently no established dosage of wheatgrass that is officially deemed safe or unsafe. However, RxList and several other sources give the following guidance: “Wheatgrass is LIKELY SAFE when taken in food amounts. It is POSSIBLY SAFE for most adults when taken by mouth in medicinal amounts for up to 18 months or when applied to the skin as a cream for up to 6 weeks. Not enough is known about the safety of long-term use of wheatgrass as medicine.”

Growing Your Own Wheatgrass at Home

Growing wheatgrass at home ensures you’ll always have fresh leaves to harvest for juicing, and it’s relatively simple to do using only a few special pieces of equipment. DiCiaula recommends the following:

To grow wheatgrass at home you will need a tray, medium, seed, water, and nutrients. Lights may be necessary but good light through a window can also work. Wheatgrass doesn’t like it over 72 degrees or high humidity. Fans can be used to provide some wiggle-room in certain conditions. Of course, the more conducive the environment is to facilitate life growth the better.

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If you’re brand new to growing wheatgrass, Dégraff suggests purchasing a wheatgrass-growing kit, “You can work with a kit that comes with most of what you need or you can gather your own supplies. For growing indoors, you would need:

–wheatberries (seeds)
–a jar for sprouting the wheatberries
–a good soil mixture: one good ratio is 50 percent compost, 40 percent topsoil, and 10 percent vermiculite (a quality organic gardening soil can also be used)
–a tray or some type of container for planting [that’s] at least 2 inches deep
–a second tray (or brown paper) for covering during the germination period
–a spray bottle for misting the plants
–good light and ventilation

The website SproutPeople has detailed instructions for growing your own wheatgrass at home, with videos, images, and notes on best practices for growing and harvesting the leaves from homegrown wheatgrass.

Wheatgrass Precautions

Because wheatgrass is a raw food product, the possibility of accidentally ingesting mold or coming in contact with E. coli, Salmonella, or Shigella bacteria is potentially something to be concerned about.

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Carefully examine wheatgrass plants for signs of rot and mold, making sure to rinse the leaves before juicing (when in doubt, discard it). Well-drained soil is also important for preventing harmful bacteria from growing in the soil, so make sure the tray you’re using to grow the wheatgrass has drainage holes drilled in the bottom. If purchasing ready-made wheatgrass, look for brands that have been pasteurized. This ensures any existing bacteria have been killed via heat.

To Wheatgrass or Not to Wheatgrass

Wheatgrass offers some wonderful nutritional benefits and is a great source of vitamins and minerals. Despite its reputation as an all-encompassing health food that can cure cancer, AIDS, and diabetes, there is no scientific evidence that these claims are true.
Enjoy wheatgrass because it makes you feel good and it adds value to your life. And always remember, if wheatgrass isn’t for you, opt for other green veggies with a similar nutritional profile, such as broccoli and spinach.

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And if you do want to try wheatgrass? We’ve got a recipe for that!

Making It Taste Good: A Simply Sweet Wheatgrass Smoothie Recipe

This wheatgrass smoothie uses powdered wheatgrass instead of freshly juiced for the sake of ease and convenience. Organic Wheatgrass Juice Powder and Amazing Grass Organic Wheat Grass are both high quality and readily available options. Otherwise use your favorite brand for this recipe.

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Baby spinach adds plenty of green nutrients and complements the nutritional profile of the wheatgrass powder. Frozen bananas lend a creamy texture and a touch of natural sweetness, although fresh bananas work just as well in a pinch. Antioxidant-rich blueberries give this smoothie its intensely dark green color. Kefir is a fermented dairy product containing gut-healthy probiotics with a texture that is somewhere between a liquid and solid yogurt.
Yields 2–3 generous servings

Ingredients

  • 2 frozen bananas, sliced into smallish pieces
  • 1½ cups plain or flavored kefir
  • 2 cups frozen blueberries
  • 4 cups baby spinach, lightly packed
  • 2 tsp. wheatgrass powder
  • Ice water or coconut water

Special equipment

  • High-powered blender
  • Measuring cups and spoons
  • Spatula
  • Large glass for your smoothie

Method

  1. Add the frozen bananas, kefir, frozen blueberries, baby spinach, and wheatgrass powder to a high-powered blender.
  2. Blitz the ingredients together until smooth, pulsing occasionally for a super-smooth texture. Add ice water or coconut water as needed to create a pourable texture, scraping down the sides with a spatula so that all the ingredients are fully incorporated.
  3. Pour into large glasses and enjoy!

Bonus

If you have smoothie leftovers, try freezing them in popsicle molds or even ice cube trays for a healthy frozen treat!

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Fresh Fashion Lifestyle

Yes, Athleisure Is Still In: Here’s How To Wear It

When this year started, you probably had some sort of fitness-related goal, right? (We definitely did!) As we’re really digging into 2018, we’re still chasing those goals—and trying to look good while doing it. Our top tip for an easy way to feel fit? Pick up a few new pieces of work-to-workout attire; it’s certainly been helping us up our style game in the gym (and everywhere else).
Get on the fit and fab train by incorporating these athleisure trends into your wardrobe. After all, keeping it sporty and comfortable 24/7 is the dream!

What is athleisure anyway?

At its core, the athleisure trend involves wearing gym clothes outside of the gym—in a fashionable way. The term athleisure has been around since the early aughts but didn’t become a global trend until fall 2014, when the world decided leggings and a hoodie could be worn in a fashion-forward way. (Thank you, Vogue.)
When we think athleisure, visions of yoga pants, leggings, and sports bras dance in our heads, and shopping bags from athletic clothing companies like adidas, Nike, lululemon, and Athleta abound. Pair one or two of those items with some casual closet staples and you’ve got yourself a solid athleisure outfit.
If you haven’t seen women wearing sneakers and sweat-wicking tops everywhere from school to the grocery store, you haven’t been looking. Women’s willingness to take these sporty essentials out of the gym and studio is why athleisure has become—and remains—so popular.
This trend has been seen all over the globe on everyone from big name celebrities to fashion bloggers to your co-workers. Personal trainer Massy Arias even kicked off 2018 in an athleisure outfit on New Year’s Eve when she paired athletic leggings with metallic sneakers, a crop top, and an edgy metallic jacket.
True, some people may say the trend is dying, but a glance around during any shopping trip or coffee run will show you otherwise. If you’re late to the athleisure party, have no fear; we’ve got your back. Read on for our favorite pieces (and how to wear them).

How to Buy Athleisure (That Actually Looks Good)

The great thing about wearing an athleisure look is that you probably already have a gorgeous piece or two in your workout clothing drawer. Beyond those go-tos, we suggest you keep a few things in mind as you begin building your athleisure arsenal.
Ideally, your athleisure wardrobe should consist of functional workout wear. This is most important for leggings or yoga pants because these are items that can get worn out easily. Plus, they’re typically more expensive, meaning you won’t have as many leggings to swap out as you will cotton t-shirts or tanks.
Don’t forget to look for workout gear with interesting details. Shiny leggings that look like faux leather? You got it. Moto-inspired stitching or padding? Absolutely. These are the kinds of things that make an athleisure outfit look intentional, instead of like you forgot to change after spin class.

Athleisure That’s Worth the Splurge

We’re always on the hunt for the newest and best workout gear, and getting a stylish outfit out of the deal is an awesome bonus. That said, prepare to splurge on pieces that you’ll actually wear to work and to work out. High-quality leggings will never be a bad choice; cheaper leggings have a tendency to be see-through (or become see-through with regular washing), which isn’t ideal.
The same goes for yoga pants. “No athleisure outfit would be complete without yoga pants. I love my workout pants, but I often find them too constricting for leisurely activities. Yoga pants work better for me because they’re as comfortable as sweats but look cuter,” says NYC-based fashion blogger Claire Shay.
Other items, such as gym sneakers, jackets, and sports bras, are a great place to invest in your workout wardrobe. Ko Im, who is a yoga and meditation teacher and editor of NY YOGA + Life, says you always need a good sports bra for your favorite workout activity. “And socks—always need more socks.”
We also suggest splurging on pieces you know you’ll wear for years. If you’re just dipping your toes into the athleisure trend and your usual style doesn’t include workout gear, it can be better to save. But if you’re a regular gym-goer who’s ready to incorporate your love of function and mobility into your everyday (and night!) wardrobe, look at pricier athleisure pieces like leggings from Girlfriend Collective and Alo or a supportive bra from Vimmia.

Save your pennies on these athleisure pieces.

There’s no need to drop a bunch of cash on a whole new chic athleisure wardrobe. Pieces you can save on are hoodies, joggers, sweatpants, and your collection of workout tees. Some of these (like cotton tees) you probably already have a whole bunch of. Im, for one, says not to waste your money on workout shirts: “You get freebies all the time and you get tired of wearing the same design anyways.”
These items are pretty much a dime a dozen, and a luxury pair of joggers probably won’t look significantly different from ones you can find at Target.

Our Fave Athleisure Product Picks

“I wear athleisure when I need to run errands or if I want to look cute but don’t feel like wearing a real outfit. Athleisure is also my go-to when I need to travel!” says Shay, who even wears athleisure to work—proving that she’s dialed in to the 24/7 athleisure life.
Here are our favorite picks to get you started:

Jackets

You can’t go wrong with a classic adidas track jacket—it’s an athleisure must-have, if you ask us. If you’re not digging the ’90s vibe, try this PUMA jacket instead. It has a boxy shape and reminds us of a bomber jacket gone sporty. You can wear it in the exact same way as the adidas jacket (without looking like you’re headed to a soccer match).

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Sweatshirts and Hoodies

If you’re going to wear a hoodie in a fashionable way, we suggest looking for interesting details. A plain old hoodie can do the trick sometimes, but if you’re feeling fancy, why not try out something a little different, like this twist front or criss cross sweatshirt? They do the same job but don’t look like the hoodies you stockpiled in high school. We also love this boat neck sweatshirt for understated French girl vibes and this cropped adidas hoodie for changing up the shape of an otherwise standard piece.

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Leggings

If you’re buying leggings specifically for an athleisure look, go for something with a little more oompf than your plain old black leggings. We’re loving moto-inspired leggings: Check out this ultra-chic matte shine and mesh pair from Alo and this leather-look pair from HPE. Both pairs are so stylish that they can be worn from the studio to the streets with ease. If you want something that’s a little more basic but still great for everyday, opt for the Athleta Organic Cotton Be Present Tight.

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Joggers

Need a break from the leggings? Keep it loose and light with a standby pair of joggers. The tapered leg gives you more shape than your typical sweatpant, and they can be scrunched to emphasize a fun pair of shoes. We love these ultra-lightweight Outdoor Voices cropped joggers for spring and summer because you won’t get too hot. For a full-length pair, go for these lululemon joggers or the more budget-friendly adidas classics.

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Sneakers

Picking the right trainer is definitely dependent on comfort and the type of workouts you do, but when it comes to both style and function, we can’t get enough of these APL Running Shoes. (We’re loving those black-and-white speckled soles.) For something less suited to running but equally stylish, you can’t go wrong with the tried-and-true adidas Superstars or Gazelles in a fresh colorway.

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Accessories

Gym accessories are typically limited to headbands and hair ties, but when you’re styling an athleisure outfit, your options are unlimited. To keep things sporty, we’re vibing with this Bando hat (to keep your post sweat-sesh hair locked down) and this neoprene backpack from Dagne Dover that can take you from work to gym and back again—a true athleisure power move.

How to Style Athleisure Pieces

Shopping is the easy part, but styling an outfit can be challenging  if you aren’t used to the athleisure life. “Styling athleisure is so different for everyone because it’s such a diverse area of fashion,” says Shay.
We’ve broken down a few situations to help you come up with your ideal outfit:

Gym to Coffee

The key rule of thumb for all your athleisure looks: Make sure your athleisure gear isn’t dirty, sweaty, or smelly. If it was arms day and your fitness chic leggings are still clean and fresh, switch out that sweaty top for an oversized sweater and grab your favorite statement clutch bag to accessorize. You can pop out for that coffee and feel confident while doing it.

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A Night Out With the Girls

Comfy clubwear coming your way! Philadelphia-based fashion blogger Kylie Francis says, “Don’t be afraid to go out for a night on the town rocking athleisure! Style up a mesh tee and leggings with statement earrings and wedges and you’re good to go!” We also suggest cute joggers with a pair of pumps. (Trust us, it’s way more chic than it may sound.)
As for tops, you can try them in so many different ways. You could tuck in a slouchy tee, wear a cropped tank, or opt for a bodysuit that you can dress up with statement earrings or a bold bag. A night out dancing never felt so good.

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Date Night

Depending on where date night is, athleisure can totally work! Mini golf date, burgers and a movie, or trivia night at a local brewpub? Athleisure is absolutely a-okay. Think trainers, leggings, a tunic, and a jean jacket. It’ll definitely send that laidback vibe you’re going for. That being said, athleisure might not be the best choice for a more formal affair. Dinner at a ritzy upscale restaurant? Save the leggings for tomorrow morning.

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Wear to Work

Wearing athleisure to work depends entirely on your workplace dress code. If you have a strict business-wear dress code, don’t go around getting notes in your HR folder because you’re dying to test the athleisure trend. But for workplaces with relaxed guidelines, we suggest a cool pair of sneakers, your favorite skinny jeans, a tank of your choice, and a zip-up track jacket. Wear your hair in a ponytail and go for fun earrings!
If you can go all-out athleisure style, try Francis’ standard work outfit. She wears “leggings (think fun ones, like crop or mesh) and always pair them with a strappy back bra with a open back tee or sweater. And I always pair my outfit with my Nike Metcons, since CrossFit is my go-to workout!”

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Weekend Wear

Athleisure getups are perfect when you’re going for a casual, comfortable look. We love trainers, scrunched joggers, a plain white tee, and a utility jacket. It’s sporty and casual—but fashionable enough to look like you’re put together.

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Quick Tips: Athleisure Do’s and Don’ts

In the world of fashion, there aren’t really any rules! That’s even more true when it comes to athleisure. When the look is relaxed, so are the rules. Shay says, “I think the great thing about athleisure is that there aren’t any don’ts because you can do what you want with the style!” But we threw together a few tips that can help you get a handle on the trend. From there, you can get experimental and put your favorites together in new ways.

Do:

  • Wear your athleisure look out and about before heading to the gym.
  • Mix with other wardrobe staples. Class up your comfiest joggers with a pair of slick heels. Wear leggings and a sports bra with an oversized sweater.
  • Take notes from Im, who suggests you pair the “sporty and the soft.” She says she likes to pair classic leggings with a cozy sweater, sexy top, or cool jacket and will finish the outfit with “a rockin’ pair of boots.”

 Don’t:

  • Wear your sweaty or stinky post-Bikram sports bra as a fashion statement.
  • Wear old or worn workout shirts with jeans.
  • “Be afraid to show off a fun sports bra with a really cool cutout back tank or tee!” This comes from Francis, who encourages everyone to make sure their bra is a good fit. Shay chimes in, “I find that athleisure outfits never look good on me when I don’t wear the right bra … Most workout tops are designed to be worn with workout bras or designed to have a bit of the bra peeking through for detail. Wearing the wrong bra can really damage that look!”
  • Get too matchy. Francis advises against wearing a distressed tee with distressed leggings, for example. Instead, she suggests picking just one statement piece and rocking it with staple items.

Wearing your favorite workout gear as a fashion statement is a must in 2018. Not only can you wear athleisure trends pretty much anywhere—with the right forethought, they’ll look downright smashing. Use this guide to start you on your way to an all-athleisure, all the time personal style.

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The Creator Of The Five Love Languages Explains How They Can Change Your Relationship For Good

If you’ve ever been in therapy or even just a conversation about relationships, you’ve probably been asked, “Do you know your love language?” Though the concept of love languages is more than 20 years old, the idea that we all have different ways of expressing and receiving love has stuck around.

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Gary Chapman, PhD, published The Five Love Languages in 1995, and it remains one of the best-selling relationship books of all time. It’s helped millions of people relate to each other in relationships romantic and platonic alike. On the book’s website, you can take The Five Love Languages quiz to learn which of the five love languages is your primary language. Once you know your language, though, you might have a few questions like: How do I ask for what I want? What is my partner’s love language? I’m single; why should I care?
If you’re new to the concept of the five love languages, you might be wondering where exactly they came from and why they’ve become such a phenomenon.
We spoke with the languages’ creator, Chapman, to find out how his theory has changed over the years, how he interpreted the response to his original book, and how learning the five love languages might help people make positive life changes—even if they aren’t in a long-term romantic relationship.  

Here’s a basic synopsis of the five languages theory.

Chapman’s beliefs are simple: People express their love in different ways—specifically, through five “love languages.” Those languages are:

Words of Affirmation: Giving Compliments, Thanks, and Other Positive Comments With a Positive Tone

That last part is especially important, as tone can undercut a positive message. Depending on the context and tone of voice, a statement like “You’re great storyteller” might come off as a genuine compliment—or as scathing condescension.

People who speak this love language aren’t necessarily fishing for compliments; they crave positive affirmation in general, but it’s not because they’re self-centered. If you notice your S/O looking particularly good one day, let them know. If you loved the dinner they cooked for you, explain why you liked it so much. People who want to hear words of affirmation tend to appreciate hearing positive things in general, so try speaking highly about things that your partner appreciates, and make an effort to avoid unnecessary complaints and other harsh, negative speech.

If you aren’t the type to verbalize your feelings, get in some practice with a few sweet text messages or Snapchats a day. Letting your partner know you’re thinking of them and appreciate them is key.

Quality Time: Giving Full, Undivided Attention and Finding Joy in Activities Pursued With a Partner

“Quality conversation is more about listening than talking,” Chapman writes in the book, “but usually, partners want both.”

To speak this love language, block off time specifically for your partner. We know, we know—that’s easier said than done if you’re already juggling work, kids, your own personal health, and myriad other responsibilities, but your romantic relationship deserves your commitment.

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Unfortunately, spending time in front of a television set binging on Netflix probably doesn’t count as quality time to those who are attracted to and moved by quality time. Instead, consider taking up a hobby together (yoga, we’re looking at you). Go on a walk a few times a week, just you two. Get in bed early and have a conversation about your day. Make sure you think of this time as a non-negotiable. If you or your partner thrive on getting quality time, it needs to be a priority.

Gifts: Physical Tokens That Are Representative of Love

Gifts is one of the most misinterpreted of the five love languages. If your loved one is gift-oriented, it doesn’t mean they’re a gold-digger. Instead, people whose primary love language is gifts respond best to physical reminders that you’re thinking of them. If that seems difficult to you, start small. Pick up a latte for your partner or make an inspirational Spotify playlist if you know they’re having a tough day at work. If you see a pair of socks you know he’d love, pick them up. If she’s been talking about this beautiful notebook, surprise her with it.

Small tokens of affection can be just as meaningful as more expensive gifts, but if your partner responds best to gifts, be sure to give them regularly—not just on special occasions.

Acts of Service: Doing Chores and Other Actions That Ease a Partner’s Burden

Granted, both partners should help with the chores, but people who speak this love language see a direct correlation between their partner’s love and the amount of time spent serving the household or performing acts of care and kindness.

As with quality time, the trick is to dedicate some time every day to your partner’s happiness and well-being. Surprise them by tackling a home improvement project (you know you want to regrout the tile, right?) or taking the kids to the park. If they hate washing dishes or folding laundry, offer to do those while they clean or put the laundry away. Small acts can make a big difference.

Physical Touch: Holding Hands, Hugging, and Other Forms of Physical Intimacy

When we talked to Chapman, he made sure to clarify that “physical touch” isn’t all about sex (but that’s a big part of a healthy relationship!).

People who speak this language need physical touch as a reminder of your love. Make sure that the physical touch is coming from a genuine place of affection instead of being a constant precursor to foreplay. Reaching over to hold a partner’s hand while watching a movie can work wonders; a slight graze of their back in public might be enough to send shivers down their spine.

Make eye contact, smile, and exhibit positive body language; as with the words of affirmation, tone is everything.

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The Five Love Languages makes the case that every person has a primary and secondary love language (they may also “speak” the other languages to a lesser degree). If you and your partner don’t share the same primary love language, it can be hard for both of you to feel loved if you aren’t both working to love each other using your partner’s love language. Those feelings can cause the breakdown of the relationship.
In the book, Chapman discusses each of the five love languages in detail, telling stories to illustrate his points. Occasionally he also references the Bible, which is a possible point of contention, and some reviewers have noted that Chapman’s Christian faith may alienate potential readers of the book. But reviewers like Slate’s Ruth Graham have defended the book’s underlying concepts while noting they were initially resistant to its non-secular approach.

Is there any scientific basis to the five love languages?

The Five Love Languages isn’t based explicitly in science. It doesn’t reference much peer-reviewed research; instead it relies on Chapman’s anecdotes to reinforce its points.
But that doesn’t mean that it’s without academic merit. A 2006 study examined the five love languages and found that they could, indeed, reflect the behaviors that people use to successfully maintain their relationships. More recently, a 2016 study of 400 participants found support for Chapman’s theory.
For adherents of The Five Love Languages, those scientific findings aren’t a surprise. The book uses intentionally simple language and broad concepts to talk about the communication issues that can arise in any relationship, but its core arguments seem quite strong. In any case, it’s certainly worthy of serious discussion.

Talking to the Five Love Languages founder, Gary Chapman

HealthyWay: So I just finished the book. Your background is in anthropology. I was wondering if you could tell me what role that background played in the development of this approach?

Chapman: Ha ha, you know, probably not a lot—at least directly.

A thing that really surprised me—where my anthropology background kind of jumped to the front—was when the book was published. My publisher was approached by a Spanish publisher; they wanted to publish it in Spanish.

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With my anthropology background, I said to my publisher, “I don’t know, does this really work in Spanish? You know, I discovered this in middle America.”

And they said, “Well, they’ve read the book, and they want to publish it.” I said, “Well, okay, let’s just go with it.”
It became their best seller. In fact, they’ve told me the other day that they’ve sold 3 million copies in Spanish. After that, the other editions started, and now it’s been translated in 50 languages around the world.

That surprised me because of my anthropology background. But as for directly impacting the writing of the book, there’s no real connection there.

You wrote something about that in the book—the success you’ve had with different translations, and how the “dialects” of the five love languages change in different cultures. Could you talk about that for a moment? For instance, how it would relate to a Spanish audience?

I think—of course, in English, as well—each of the [five love] languages have different dialects. For example, in words, there’s words of praise, there’s words of encouragement, there are other types of words. That’s still true in other languages. But there may well be different dialects in other cultures that we wouldn’t necessarily have.

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For example, in the Spanish culture … when you greet somebody, just socially, you might kiss them on both sides of the cheek. Well, we wouldn’t do that in American culture. It’s physical touch, but it’s not a dialect that we would use in our culture.
So I think there are other dialects in all languages. And I wouldn’t even be aware of what many of them would be. But obviously, the translator and publisher would be.

What did surprise me, however, is that the five languages do seem to be fundamental to human nature. And, therefore, they make sense in all the cultures in which they’ve been translated.

I saw there was a 2006 study, which I’m sure you’re aware of, that found evidence that your five love languages “may reflect behaviors performed to enact intended, relational maintenance.”

That seems to provide some scientific credence to the languages. Would you like to see more scientific research like that, to confirm what you’ve written?

You know, I’ve always been open that. I’ve had probably three or four grad students in different places that have written me and asked about doing research on a particular aspect of the love languages. I’ve always said, “Yes, I’m happy for you to do that. And when you finish your research, please send me the results.”

Well, I don’t know if they did it or not, but I never got any results. So I don’t know. But yes, I welcome that.

What are the changes from one edition of the book to the next? How do you update the book, or when do you decide it merits a new edition?

Well, essentially we have changed some illustrations from time to time. And also, in more recent years, we’ve used a few illustrations that include social media and that kind of thing, which obviously was not there when we wrote the book.

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But there are no radical changes, really. The concept is still the same, and the five languages are still the same.

That’s interesting—I’m guessing that you notice social media affecting the ways that people communicate emotionally.

I do. Both positively and negatively.

For example, the simple thing of texting can be great for a marriage relationship. I text my wife when I’m traveling. I’ll say, “Okay, I’m at Greensboro airport, da da da,” you know. Then I tell her the next airport. We go back and forth texting, which is more convenient than calling, because sometimes I may be involved and not able to answer the phone.
So, yeah, I think social media has been helpful, but also it can be distracting from the relationship.
For example if a husband or wife spends their free time on the computer, doing whatever, the other person can feel like, “I think the computer is more important to you than I am.” So there’s a downside and a plus side.

One thing that kind of surprised me when I started looking into this, was how many non-religious people seem to appreciate your book and the approach of the five love languages. Is that something that you keep in mind while you’re writing?

Yes, very definitely. When I wrote this book, my desire was to write it in such a way that folks who are not religious would find it helpful.

I knew that religious people would know that all these languages are, for example, found in the Old Testament, the New Testament, and probably in other religious writings. But I didn’t want to write to just one particular group. I wanted to write for a general audience.

And it’s been very encouraging to me, the number of people who are not religious at all—or maybe they have a different religion—how they have found this book to be helpful in their relationship. And that’s what I had hoped would happen.

Do you have any advice for them and how they should approach this book? Should they take a different approach than a person that’s a Christian?

Whatever we read, we bring our religious beliefs, or our philosophy of life. We bring it to a book that we’re reading. We can’t divorce ourselves from our religious or philosophical beliefs about life.

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But I think that, whatever the person’s background—religious or not religious—we all want to have good relationships. And we don’t get married to be miserable. We get married hoping we’re going to have a positive, supportive relationship.

I think that is the appeal the book has to all couples.

I found that the book’s about showing love, specifically, but also more generally about emotional communication. Do you think that the love languages approach could help with other types of relationships, like friendships or workplace relationships?

Yes. As a matter of fact, I’ve written a whole series of books that spin off from this original book. The first one is the 5 Love Languages of Children, which I wrote with a psychiatrist who had had 30 years of experience working with children. It’s written to parents, and the same concept applies—that children have a love language, and you need to give heavy dosage of the primary and then sprinkle in the other four [languages]. We’d like the child to learn how to give and receive love in all five languages; that would be the healthiest child.
So I developed that book, and then parents came to me and said, “Okay, that was very helpful, but now our kids are teenagers, and this doesn’t seem to be working. What’s the deal?”

The third book in the series was the 5 Love Languages of Teenagers, written to parents, helping them learn how to [communicate] while the teenager is going through all of these physical, emotional, and intellectual changes. And that’s been well received by parents.

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So, yes, I think it applies to all human relationships. We all have the emotional need to feel loved, and most people agree that it’s our most fundamental emotional need—the need to feel loved by the significant people in our lives.
The concept [of the love languages] helps us understand how to do that, how to communicate love so that the emotional need is met.

I appreciated that the book is written in this kind of simple, general language, and I could see the theory applying in all of those different instances that you just mentioned. I saw online that there’s also a version of the book for people who have partners with Alzheimer’s, which I thought was interesting.

I wrote that one with a medical doctor whose wife had the disease, and we’re hoping that’s going to be very helpful to caregivers.

Also, we did a military edition at the request of so many military leaders. And for that one, we added the dimension: How do you speak these languages when you’re deployed, so that you can stay emotionally connected? And we got great ideas from military couples who read the original book and were applying it in their own lives.

Given that we’re living in a time where gender roles are changing rapidly, do you think people can get the same effect from your book if they’re not falling into traditional masculine and feminine roles?

You know, I think so. Because none of these languages are gender specific.

A man can have any one of these five as his primary language. A woman can have any one of the five as their primary language. Now, how we express them might be influenced by the change in culture. For example, an act of service: One man who grew up being told to open the door for a woman, he might open the door as an act of service. But maybe she doesn’t like that; she might say, “I can open my own door, thank you.”

And I say, fine. I’m not opposed to women opening doors, that’s fine, if that’s what you want to do. I’m just saying in marriage, ask your spouse what they prefer. If acts of service is their language, what acts of service would they prefer? If they don’t want you to open the door, then fine, don’t open the door—take the trash out, or do something else.

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So, yes, I think culture can affect some of the dialects of how you speak these languages, but fundamentally, the five languages do pretty much cover the bases of what makes a person feel loved.

What is a common misconception people have when they hear about your work?

Well, one common misconception of men is they will say, “Oh, I know my love language, I don’t need to read that book. My love language is physical touch.”

And they mean sex. I say to them, “Well, perhaps that is your language, but let me ask you a question: do non-sexual touches make you feel loved?” And [the guy] looks at me like a deer in the headlights. “Are there non-sexual touches?”
I say, “Well, let me ask you this: If you get out of the car with your spouse, and you start walking into a store, and she reaches over and holds your hand as you walk into the store, does that make you feel loved? Lets says she’s pouring a cup of coffee for you, and she puts her hand on [your] shoulder, does that make you feel loved?

And if he says, “Not really,” I say, “Well, then, your love language is not physical touch. You like sex, but that’s not your love language, okay?”

So that’s a common misconception. Other than that, nothing really jumps to my mind. For the most part, most folks get it. The question most people have is: What if the love language of the other person is something that really does not come natural for you?

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And I understand that, because, for example, if you grew up in a home where you never got affirming words, then affirming words will be hard for you. If you grew up where gift giving was not a part of your life, then gift giving will be difficult for you.

But the good news is that you can learn any of these five languages, even if you did not receive them as a child. Once you understand that this is what really makes the other person feel loved, then you can learn how to do it. Yes, it may be a stiff learning curve, but the more you do it, the more comfortable you become doing it.

It’s really like learning to speak another language. It takes you a while for it to begin to become kind of natural for you. But the good news is that any couple can have a meaningful, loving relationship by learning how to speak each other’s love languages.

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The Amazing Health Benefits Of Kombucha (And How To Make Your Own At Home)

Kombucha has been enjoying a surge in popularity over the last decade thanks to its tangy, effervescent taste and numerous purported health benefits. While kombucha’s benefits have long been appreciated by many cultures worldwide, only recently has the United States cornered the market on this delicious fermented tea. In fact, a 2016 report from market report firm MarketsandMarkets showed that North America claimed 39.4 percent of kombucha’s worldwide market share, with projections predicting a 25 percent market growth each year up to 2020.
Between claims of anti-inflammatory and gut-healing properties, kombucha’s benefits are wide-reaching and only now being studied for in order to determine the fermented tea’s true potential as a health food product.
We take a close look at the scientific and anecdotal evidence surrounding kombucha and provide instructions for easily brewing kombucha at home (no lab equipment required!).

Getting to Know Kombucha (and That Mysterious Floating Blob!)

If you’re just beginning to learn about kombucha and all its benefits, consider this a crash course in getting to know your new favorite fermented tea beverage. Kombucha tea is lightly fizzy (thanks to the wonders of fermentation) and has a subtly sweet taste that’s punctuated by a delicious tanginess. You may have seen images of a mysterious mushroom-shaped blob accompanying articles about kombucha (or at your fermentation-loving friend’s house) and wondered just what the heck that thing is.
What you’re looking at is called a SCOBY (an acronym that stands for symbiotic culture of bacteria and yeast), a floating colony of helpful bacteria and yeast needed to give kombucha its carbonation and acidity. Other names for a SCOBY include kombucha mother (like the “mother” found in vinegar), kombucha mushroom, and the decidedly less-appealing kombucha fungus. Making homebrewed kombucha—or any kombucha for that matter—requires a SCOBY, which can be grown from scratch, borrowed from a fermentation-loving friend, or purchased.

Sweet Tea: Making Kombucha Magic

Besides a SCOBY, the other main ingredients in kombucha are tea and white sugar. The yeast feeds off of the sugar to create alcohol, and in turn the bacteria feeds off of the alcohol to create kombucha’s trademark tangy flavor (which is why kombucha isn’t wildly sweet despite the addition of white sugar). This process is important because it creates and maintains the correct pH level (between 2.5 and 3.5) to will prevent dangerous microorganisms from growing and ruining your batch of kombucha.
According to Kombucha Brewers International, homebrewed kombucha is generally fermented for 10 to 12 days while commercially made kombucha takes two to three times longer to ferment due to the large amounts of kombucha being made at one time. In terms of kombucha’s longevity, store bought versions will be stamped with an expiry date. As long as kobucha maintains the correct pH balance, homebrewed kombucha can be stored for up to a year although its flavor will diminish the longer it sits.

Is kombucha considered an alcoholic beverage?

Kombucha does contain a small amount of alcohol as a result of the fermentation process, but for the most part it’s a negligible amount (less than 0.5 percent), which means kombucha can be sold as a non-alcoholic beverage in the United States. According to the Alcohol and Tobacco Tax Trade Bureau sales restrictions occur when kombucha alcohol levels meet or exceed 0.5 percent at which point kombucha must be labeled alcoholic and cannot be sold to minors.

Can you drink kombucha while pregnant or breastfeeding?

Although kombucha contains an extremely low percentage of alcohol, the American Pregnancy Association still advises that “no amount of alcohol has been deemed safe during pregnancy.” Err on the side of caution and save the kombucha for after baby’s arrival.
Breastfeeding? You should be safe to consume kombucha again. According to Elizabeth Smith, patient services coordinator and breastfeeding specialist at University of Utah Health Care, “If Mom is feeling the effects of alcohol, she should avoid breastfeeding until she feels sober. But there’s no need to pump and dump as long as drinking is kept to a minimum.”
Considering kombucha’s low alcohol content and the fact that it can be sold as a nonalcoholic beverage, it won’t get you buzzed or taint your breastmilk.

A Brief History of Kombucha

People have been making kombucha all over the world for at least a thousand years. Kombucha is thought to have originated in China during the Tsin Dynasty (around 220 BCE) where it was known as “The Tea Of Immortality.” Genghis Khan himself was rumored to carry a flask filled with a sour tea-like substance, and according to legend he spread his love of kombucha via the Silk Road far across what is now known as Asia and beyond. Other stories have attributed kombucha’s creation to Korean and Japanese cultures, which is why SCOBYs are sometimes referred to as the Japanese mushroom by kombucha brewers in Russia and other parts of Europe.
Kombucha’s popularity in the United States is very new in contrast to other countries, although American enthusiasm for kombucha seems to be growing rapidly. In fact, kombucha sales in the United States are expected to reach an impressive $785 million by the end of 2018.

Are the health benefits of kombucha as miraculous as they seem to be?

Commercially made kombucha is often advertised as an all-natural elixir that promotes the health and well-being of all who partake in the tea, and fans of kombucha swear by its impressive antioxidant and probiotic content. Scientists are only just beginning to study the effects of kombucha in clinical settings, but for those who have been fermenting their own kombucha and drinking it regularly, the benefits are obvious.
Hannah Crum is a commercial kombucha consultant, the founder of Kombucha Kamp, and the coauthor of the Big Book of Kombucha. She’s also a firm believer in the healing benefits of kombucha. For her, the gains associated with drinking kombucha are widespread. “Most commonly people report more energy, better digestion, clearer skin, and a general feeling of well-being.” That said, she adds the caveat that “some people experience none of these—or even side effects of consuming living foods if they are not used to them.” She says this is uncommon but acknowledges that every body is different.
Crum has noticed many improvements in her physical health since falling in love with kombucha. She says it ultimately comes down to the fact that kombucha is a healthy food, “which means it contains nutrients that help the body thrive.” Reflecting on her journey with kombucha, she tells HealthyWay, “I noticed that it helped to alleviate digestive distress, maintain a regular system, and improve my skin’s appearance. Over time, I noticed other benefits such as regulation of my menstrual cycle as well as wound healing and skin softening.”
Eric Childs is the founder and CEO of KBBK Kombucha, a Brooklyn-based business dedicated to providing top-of-the-line kombucha-brewing supplies and tutorials. What he loves about kombucha as a health food is the multiple sources of nutrients found in a single drink. He explains that “due to its complex makeup, kombucha offers all sorts of benefits: energy, immune support, detox, antioxidant support, digestion support, and overall healthy feeling after drinking it. This is due to the complex group of acids that are formed during fermentation along with the probiotics, as well as the main ingredient, which is tea.”

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Breaking It Down: Kombucha and Probiotics

Probiotics are defined by the World Health Organization as “live microorganisms which, when administered in adequate amounts, confer a health benefit on the host.” Thanks to the fermentation process the tea undergoes, kombucha is teeming with healthy probiotics. So what does that mean for your health as a kombucha drinker? Scientists have begun exploring and publishing on kombucha’s positive effects on immunological, endocrinological, cardiovascular, gastrointestinal, and urogenital aspects of health, and their findings support both Crum and Childs’ observations.

In the Beginning (Before Tea Becomes Kombucha)

Given all the excitement around kombucha, fermentation, and probiotics, it can be easy to forget about the antioxidant-rich tea that is the base of all kombucha. Green tea, in particular, has been researched extensively for the effects its antioxidant levels have on human health. Polyphenols, which are powerful antioxidants found in green tea, work by neutralizing harmful free radicals and the damage they can have on cells. Clinical studies have shown a strong correlation between green tea consumption and lowering LDL cholesterol. Other studies have concluded that green tea has a positive effect on several different types of cancer (including breast, ovarian, colorectal, lung, and pancreatic cancer), IBS, diabetes, and liver disease.

Kombucha and Bacteria

Preliminary studies have shown kombucha that had been allowed to ferment for 21 days possessed some antibacterial and antifungal properties against Staphylococcus epidermidis, Listeria monocytogenes, and Micrococcus luteus. While studies like these need to be replicated, kombucha definitely holds promise as a potentially powerful antibacterial and antifungal treatment.

Putting It All Together: Making Kombucha at Home

If the thought of home fermentation seems overwhelming, the following tips should help to assuage your kombucha-making fears. Childs shares three excellent pieces of advice KBBK Kombucha gives to all beginners:
First of all, it’s important to “source a clean full-spectrum SCOBY from a reliable source. There are too many at-home SCOBY growers putting out low-quality SCOBY to the market. Make sure your source is good so you start in the right place. This is true for those wanting to start from a commercial bottle of kombucha.”
Keeping with the theme of quality ingredients, his second tip is to “Use high-quality pure ingredients. The kombucha symbiosis wants pure cane sugar and camellia sinensis tea (black, green, white, pu-erh, oolong). Anything outside of this will change the genetics of your SCOBY and make you something different.”
Finally “Keep your environment as steady as possible. Temperature and other environmental items make or break your brew. Get your environment dialed in and keep it there.”
If making kombucha tea still seems stressful but you’re ready to give it a try, you can always sign up for a free e-book and DIY guide from Komucha Kamp. This in-depth tutorial will provide plenty of help and guidance for anyone curious about kombucha and the home fermentation process.

Kombucha Tea Recipe

To make kombucha tea at home, you’ll need a kombucha starter culture (also known as a SCOBY). As mentioned above, it’s important to use a SCOBY from a trusted source such as Kombucha Kamp or KBBK Kombucha.

Yield: 1 gallon of kombucha

Ingredients:

  • 1 SCOBY
  • 6 bags of green, black, or oolong tea
  • 1 cup of pure white cane sugar
  • 1 cup raw bottled kombucha

Special Equipment:

  • Kettle
  • 1-gallon heatproof jar
  • Clean cloths
  • Rubber band
  • Clean bowls
  • Antibacterial soap

Method:

  1. Boil 4 cups of chlorine-free filtered water.
  2. Add the tea bags to a 1-gallon heatproof jar. Pour the boiling water over the tea bags and steep for 15 minutes.
  3. Remove the tea bags and add the sugar, stirring to dissolve.
  4. Fill the rest of the jar up with cool chlorine-free filtered water. At this point the tea should be lukewarm (about 100°F). If the tea is still hot, cover the jar with a clean cloth and set aside until lukewarm.
  5. Wash hands thoroughly with antibacterial soap.
  6. Carefully place the SCOBY in the lukewarm tea and pour the raw kombucha on top.
  7. Cover the jar with a clean breathable cloth and secure with a rubber band, storing away from direct sunlight at warmish room temperature (about 80°F).
  8. Let the sweet tea ferment for anywhere from 7 to 21 days, tasting the tea after 5 days to see if it’s heading in the right direction.
  9. As soon as your kombucha tastes delicious, it’s time to reap the rewards of your hard work. The first thing you need to do is reserve 1 cup of the kombucha for your next batch by pouring it into a clean bowl.
  10. Remove the SCOBY (with clean hands) and place in another clean bowl. Cover it with a clean cloth (cleanliness is an important component of kombucha making!).
  11. The remaining fermented tea is the kombucha, ready for drinking (and flavoring if you’d like).
  12.  Use your SCOBY and reserved kombucha to begin the process all over again!

Love kombucha but aren’t interested in fermenting your own? Luckily there are many options when it comes to commercially made kombucha. Our favorites include Synergy Kombucha and Kombucha Wonder Drink, both of which are tasty and unpasteurized (meaning they still contain all the healthy probiotics and antioxidants).

A Happy Kombucha Conclusion

While kombucha shouldn’t be considered a magic bullet for fixing all of your health concerns, it definitely offers many benefits in terms of antioxidants and probiotics. Kombucha’s benefits are being studied extensively and the evidence seems to speak for itself. Regularly including kombucha and other fermented foods in your diet is a definite plus when it comes to feeling healthy and energized.

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Yeast Infection Symptoms Every Woman Should Know

If there’s one thing most of us hate to talk about, it’s probably vaginal health. Sure you can dish with your girlfriends about politics, money, and sex, but when it comes to questioning disconcerting or uncomfortable symptoms in your genitals, most women clam right up.
It’s not hard to understand why. Talking about yeast infections symptoms, such as burning, itching, or discharge, just sounds unpleasant. Add to that the fact that yeast infection symptoms can be associated with stigmatized conditions like sexually transmitted diseases, and it gives you even more reason to keep quiet.
But keeping vaginal health a taboo subject doesn’t do anyone any good. As women we need to be aware of our vaginal health—and how to know when something is amiss. One of the most common vaginal issues is yeast infections, so knowing what to look for when it comes to yeast infection symptoms is very important.
About 75 percent of women will have a yeast infection during their lives, according to the Office on Women’s Health (OWH), part of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. About half of women will have more than one. Because yeast infection symptoms are most common during the childbearing years—between puberty and menopause—chances are that you’re in the age group that is most affected.
Yeast infection symptoms can be tough to talk about, but knowing what to look for can help keep your entire system in optimal health. Here’s everything you need to know about yeast infection symptoms, including how to treat the infection and when it’s time to get professional medical help.

What are yeast infections?

Yeast infections occur when the body has too much of a fungus called candida, according to the OWH. This species of fungus is naturally found in the gut and genitals of most healthy people, but its growth is kept in check by bacteria and the natural acidity of the body. If either of those fall out of balance, however, candida can thrive, which leads to infection.
When we think about yeast infections, we most commonly think of vaginal yeast infections. Although these are the most common types of yeast infections, there are other types to be aware of. Men can experience yeast infections on their genitals as well. Yeast infection symptoms in men include itching in the genitals.
Infants also commonly experience yeast infection in their mouths, a condition that is known as thrush. With thrush, yeast infection symptoms manifest as small white dots and soreness in the infant’s mouth. Breastfeeding mothers can also experience thrush on their nipples, which is characterized by a burning sensation, especially when nursing.
“The pain is usually ongoing and doesn’t go away with improved positioning or attachment of the baby or in between feeds,” says Hannah Braye, a nutritional therapist and technical advisor at Protexin.
Yeast infections can also take root in the gut, on the skin, or in the mouths of adults, particularly older adults who use dentures. If you have a yeast infection in one area, you might want to keep a closer eye on other areas of your body, looking out for yeast infection symptoms.
“Oral and genital yeast infections are also a common indication that there may be yeast overgrowth in the gut,” Braye says.
Vaginal yeast infections occur when there is too much yeast in the vagina. This causes yeast infection symptoms, including an itching and burning sensation on the vulva, the exterior area around the vagina. The infection can also cause excess discharge.
Since vaginal yeast infections are most common and most concerning to many women, that’s what we’ll focus on. When we mention yeast infections, we’re referring to vaginal yeast infections from this point forward.

Why do I get yeast infections?

As we mentioned above, yeast infections are caused by an overgrowth of naturally occuring bacteria. But what allows that to happen?
Fungal growth in the body is kept in check by beneficial bacteria and environmental conditions. If either of those change, there can be a surge in fungus, like candida. One way this can happen is through use of antibiotics, which wipe out infection but also can deplete good bacteria that keep fungus like candida in check. If you’re on antibiotics, be sure to keep an eye out for yeast infection symptoms.
But antibiotics are just one of a host of reasons that your body’s natural system can be thrown out of whack.
“Levels of beneficial bacteria and the immune system can become depressed by a number of factors, including prolonged antibiotic use (the biggest risk factor), nutrient deficiencies from a poor diet, impaired liver function, decreased digestive secretions, smoking, alcohol, hidden food intolerances, oral contraceptives, and other medications and stress,” Braye says.
In short, there are many reasons that you can naturally develop a yeast infection.
However, it’s important to remember that yeast infections can also be passed through sex (although they’re not considered a sexually transmitted infection because there are other ways to get them). According to the OWH, about 15 percent of men will get a yeast infection if they have unprotected sex with a woman who has an infection. Between female partners the transmission rate is higher. If your partner has been diagnosed, be sure to keep a close lookout for yeast infection symptoms in yourself.

What are the symptoms of yeast infections?

Most often, yeast infection symptoms include burning, itching, and a cottage cheese–looking vaginal discharge, according to Mary Jane Minkin, an OB-GYN at Yale New Haven Hospital. Although the discharge is distinctive looking, it should not smell bad. Women might also experience pain while urinating or having sex and burning during intercourse.
Yeast infection symptoms can mirror the symptoms of many other conditions, so it can be tough to know whether you truly have a yeast infection, Minkin says.
“Women often think they have a yeast infection when they really have another type of vaginitis (vaginal infection),” says Minkin. “Also, women may have topical irritation from a bubble bath, soap, or laundry detergent which will present just like a yeast infection.”
If you think you have yeast infection symptoms, you can try using an over-the-counter cream to treat the infection, Minkin says. If it doesn’t improve fairly quickly, you’re probably dealing with another condition that is mirroring yeast infection symptoms.
For the fastest and most definitive answer to whether you have a yeast infection, visit your healthcare provider. In addition to looking at your vagina and vulva, a healthcare professional can take a swab of the area and examine the fungus under a microscope to determine whether it is in fact candida.

Yeast Infections During Pregnancy

Experiencing yeast infection symptoms during pregnancy can be frightening, especially as you’re navigating all the changes that pregnancy brings and worrying about the health of your unborn baby. Frustratingly, yeast infections are fairly common among pregnant women.
“Vaginal yeast infections are especially common during pregnancy because hormone changes can disrupt the pH balance of the vagina,” Braye says.
In most cases, having a yeast infection while pregnant will have no effect on your baby. However, as a precaution, it’s important to get treatment as soon as you begin seeing yeast infection symptoms, especially if you are close to delivery.
“If the infection is left untreated until the time of birth, there is an increased chance of the infant picking up the infection as it passes through the birth canal. This most commonly manifests in the infant as a yeast infection in the mouth or skin,” Braye says.
Minkin says it is perfectly okay to use an over-the-counter product like Monistat to treat yeast infection symptoms while pregnant. Vaginal creams or suppositories that contain miconazole or clotrimazole are safe during pregnancy, but you should not use the oral fluconazole tablet to treat a yeast infection during pregnancy, since it has been linked to birth defects.

What are recurring yeast infections?

If you’re experiencing yeast infection symptoms regularly, it’s time to talk to your healthcare provider to identify factors that could be the underlying cause.
“If women keep on getting yeast infections, I would encourage them to check in with their healthcare provider, because women can have recurrent yeast infections from diabetes or even HIV infections,” Minkin says. “So with recurrent infections, do check it out.”
There are a number of factors that can contribute to reoccuring yeast infections. According to the OWH, women who have diabetes, HIV or other immunocompromising diseases, or who are pregnant or taking hormonal birth control are more at risk. Taking antibiotics frequently can also increase your risk.
If you’re experiencing yeast infection symptoms regularly, work with your doctor to evaluate why that might be the case. 
“Reoccuring yeast infections typically occur when the root causes of the problem (including poor diet, bacterial imbalances, and lifestyle factors) aren’t addressed,” Braye says. “While medications can reduce levels of yeast in the short term, if the underlying causes persist, the yeast is likely to regrow, as the body’s defenses are still compromised. Addressing the underlying drivers of infections by making dietary changes, rectifying nutrient deficiencies, rebalancing the gut and genital microflora, and reducing stress levels etc. is therefore necessary for long-term resolution.”

Preventing Yeast Infections

Yeast thrives in warm, moist environments and feeds on sugar. Typically the candida fungus is kept in check because of vaginal acidity and the presence of bacteria. With these things in mind, there are certain steps you can take to prevent yeast infections and keep those unpleasant yeast infection symptoms from ruining your day, according to the OWH.
First, don’t douche. Doing so can disrupt the natural balance of your vagina, eliminating good bacteria and making the environment more alkaline instead of acidic. All of that can allow candida to flourish.
In addition, avoid using scented products around your vagina and vulva, including bubble baths, sprays, and scented tampons or pads. Reducing moisture can also help prevent yeast infections. Although the genitals are naturally moist, you should take care to change pads and tampons regularly, remove wet swimsuits quickly, and wear cotton underwear, all of which will help to increase airflow and reduce moisture.

Dietary Changes to Prevent Yeast Infections

What you eat can have an impact on how often you are seeing yeast infection symptoms. Since yeast thrives on sugar, people who eat lots of sugary foods or who have blood sugar that is not well controlled may experience yeast infection symptoms more regularly.
“Yeast love sugar, so make your yeast mad, and don’t give it to them,” Minkin says.
Yogurt, which contains healthy bacteria and other live cultures, is commonly thought to be beneficial for preventing yeast infection symptoms. Research has shown that women who regularly consume yogurt have less fungal growth in and around their vaginas. Specifically, women who eat yogurt containing Lactobacillus acidophilus bacteria are up to three times less likely to experience yeast infections.

Medical Preventions and Treatments for Yeast Infections

If you have tried natural ways to prevent yeast infections but are still experiencing uncomfortable symptoms, it’s important to treat your infection. Some yeast infections will clear up on their own. But if your symptoms have stuck around for a while, you probably need to treat them, since a yeast infection can spread to other areas of the body
The most common treatment for yeast infections is over-the-counter fungal creams. These are applied topically to the affected area and help to normalize the growth of candida fungus. In addition to creams, there are also antifungal vaginal suppositories available without a prescription. Treatment with these options typically lasts about a week.
Doctors can also prescribe an oral dose of fluconazole or other antifungal medications. Generally this option is given when over-the-counter treatments do not work or when a woman is experiencing recurrent yeast infections. If you regularly experience yeast infection symptoms, your doctor may want you to take oral antifungal medications for up to six months. It’s important to remember, though, that oral antifungal medications are not generally safe to take during pregnancy.
Having a yeast infection certainly isn’t pleasant, but it’s a common experience and nothing to be embarrassed about. Most importantly, remember that it’s best to treat yeast infection symptoms as soon as you see them.

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Tired of Sleepless Nights? Try These Natural Sleep Remedies

If you often have trouble falling asleep, you’re not alone. According to the American Sleep Association, between 50 and 70 million adults in the U.S. experience symptoms associated with sleep disorders at some point in their lives. Insomnia is the most common sleep disorder among adults; 10 percent have chronic insomnia, and 30 percent of the population will experience insomnia at some point.
There are a number of different causes for sleeplessness. Chris Brantner, a certified sleep science coach at SleepZoo, says that smartphone usage is a common cause of restless nights. “Studies show that the majority of people use their phones within 30 minutes of bedtime,” Brantner says. “The light from the phones inhibits melatonin production, tricking the brain into thinking it needs to stay awake.” In case you aren’t familiar, melatonin is a natural hormone produced within our bodies to regulate our sleep patterns. Indeed, numerous studies have shown that screens affect our melatonin levels and thus our circadian rhythm, which is an “internal clock” that tells us when to sleep.
Other major causes for sleep disruption include stress, anxiety, and depression, says Brantner. “Mental health issues and sleeplessness have a symbiotic relationship. Mental health issues hurt sleep and sleep deprivation makes them worse, creating a vicious cycle,” he explains.
Jeffrey Durmer, MD, PhD, says that heightened anxiety is a common cause of sleep-onset insomnia—that is, difficulty initiating sleep. When we experience stressful events, our sleep is typically affected. Durmer, who is the co-founder and chief medical officer of FusionHealth, notes that it’s hard to get back to your regular sleep pattern once it’s been disrupted. “The perpetuation of insomnia—falling asleep, staying asleep, waking up too early, or just feeling tired after sleep—is usually related to a cognitive and/or behavioral problem that we create for ourselves,” he says.
According to Durmer, other causes for sleep-onset insomnia include pain, itchiness, excessive movement, and the presence of other sleep disorders such as obstructive sleep apnea, restless legs syndrome, and circadian rhythm disorders. “Discovering the root cause for the ‘symptom’ of insomnia is key to applying therapy(ies) that will resolve the problem,” he says.

What happens when you don’t get enough sleep?

If you’ve had trouble getting some shut-eye, you’ve probably noticed that your mind struggles to function the next day. Sleeplessness has dire effects on both your mind and body, according to Arielle Levitan, MD, a physician of internal medicine and co-founder of Vous Vitamin. Levitan notes that sleeplessness impairs your cognitive functions, meaning that it becomes harder for us to focus when we’re tired. We can also become more irritable and distracted. “Many chronic medical issues can get worse with less sleep—high blood pressure, diabetes, fibromyalgia, depression and more,” she says. “Bottom line is, sleep is essential for us to feel and function our best.”
If you’re struggling to regulate your sleep pattern, there’s no doubt it has an impact on your health. So how can you naturally restore your sleep cycle?

Natural Remedies That Can Be Used for Sleep

For those who don’t want to take prescription medication for sleep, there are a number of supplements that can aid sleep naturally.

Melatonin

As mentioned above, melatonin is a hormone produced by the brain to naturally induce sleep. Levitan says that it can be taken as a supplement consistently over a few weeks to “retrain” the brain and regulate the sleep cycle. It’s a very common and effective sleep remedy.
However, as Brantner notes, melatonin can have side effects. “It can leave you feeling groggy when you wake in the morning, as the supplement may override your internal biological master clock,” he says. Although it’s a naturally occurring hormone, many people might want other natural options to avoid this grogginess.

Magnesium

Levitan says that she often recommends magnesium to promote muscle relaxation.
And Brantner explains that “magnesium can help you relax as it activates the parasympathetic nervous system. Magnesium not only aids in getting to sleep but has also been shown to improve sleep quality.”

Vitamin B12 and Vitamin D

Levitan says that both vitamin B12 and vitamin D can aid in sleep restoration. “Vitamin B12 is known to help with nerve-related issues and prevent numbness [and] tingling in certain nerves that disrupts sleep,” she says. “Vitamin D helps with muscle relaxation as well and prevents muscle aches and cramps, which often disrupt sleep.”

Iron

If restless legs are causing you to toss and turn throughout the night, Levitan recommends an iron supplement. “Iron plays a role in sleep for those who have restless legs, as iron deficiency is often the underlying cause for restless legs syndrome, a common cause for lack of sleep,” she notes.

Valerian Root

“The natural herb we recommend for sleep [is] primarily valerian root. It has natural sleep-inducing properties,” Levitan says. Some studies have suggested that valerian root can be an effective remedy for sleeplessness, although further research is needed.
“However, be cautious in choosing a reputable certified (USP or GMP) brand and be aware that it often smells or tastes bad,” she adds. To tone down the taste, try mixing the valerian root into some chamomile tea.

Lavender

Levitan says that lavender has soothing properties when inhaled as an essential oil. Indeed, a 2016 study of college students showed that inhaling lavender improved their sleep hygiene and quality of sleep. Further studies have shown that it can improve sleep, perhaps because it has a relaxing effect on the body and mind. Drinking some aromatic lavender tea or diffusing some essential oils might help you sleep.

Cannabidiol Oil and Medical Marijuana

Brantner points out that cannabidiol (CBD) oil, which is derived from cannabis plants, can be used as a sleep aid. It can also help by reducing factors that contribute to insomnia, such as anxiety and chronic pain. Notably, a 2008 study shows that medical cannabis reduces the amount of rapid eye movement (REM) sleep we get. Since REM sleep is the period in which we have dreams (or nightmares), it can improve sleep for those who have post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)–related nightmares.

Chamomile Tea

Although published research on chamomile tea is limited, one 2013 study showed that regularly drinking chamomile tea might have positive effects. The study focused on 80 sleep-disturbed mothers struggling with postpartum depression. Researchers found that chamomile tea seemed to relieve sleeplessness and some symptoms of depression—but only in the short term.
It’s always important to be aware that many natural substances have limitations. Although it’s essential that you speak to your physician before trying these natural sleep remedies, most have few if any side effects. Durmer notes that many of these supplements—including valerian root—need to be studied further to confirm their effect on sleep.
Cause and effect studies are lacking, but many people derive benefits with little to no side effects,” he says. “Unfortunately, there is not a single accepted production standard or testing for supplements, so it is a ‘buyer beware’ environment.”

Lifestyle Changes to Aid Sleep

In addition to natural remedies that can help you sleep, there are a number of lifestyle changes that can also be effective. As Durmer discussed earlier, our own behavior affects our sleep pattern profoundly, which means that we can improve our sleep by changing our own lifestyles. Here are a few lifestyle changes worth trying.

Exercise during the day.

A little exercise during the day can help you sleep soundly at night, according to a number of studies. One study showed that sedentary older adults found that their sleep quality improved when participating in exercise, whereas another study showed that aerobic exercise can improve sleep among older adults.
Durmer suggests participating in high-output activities such as running, cycling, swimming, or rowing during the day. “[This] increases central nervous system signals for sleep, as well as body temperature signals that not only accelerate sleep onset, but also improve the depth of sleep,” he says. (It’s important to note that this should be done at least three hours before you plan to go to bed.)

Eat mindfully.

Our eating habits affect every aspect of our lives, including our sleep. “When it comes to food/nutrition and sleep, the timing and content of your meals is important. Eating spicy, fatty, and/or high caloric food in the hours before bed can activate the nervous system in your gut, which in turn activates your arousal system,” explains Durmer. He notes that going to sleep on a full stomach can also make you struggle with sleep. In other words, you want to be sated at bedtime, but not full.
Need a midnight snack? Brantner suggests a light dairy-based snack. “A glass of warm milk or a piece of cheese would do well,” he says. “The calcium in dairy can assist with melatonin production.” Your grandma had it right—warm milk is a soothing and relaxing nighttime snack.

Avoid screens.

One of the most important lifestyle changes you can make is avoiding screens. Reduce the time you spend looking at a screen, especially in the evenings. Looking at phone, television, or computer screens can have an impact on melatonin production. For this reason, Brantner suggests avoiding screens for at least one hour before bedtime.

Consider trying cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia.

If sleeplessness is a recurring issue for you and other efforts aren’t fixing the problem, consider cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia, known as CBTi. “Therapists trained in CBTi can tailor a 6–8 week program for your needs or you can try one of the clinically validated online CBTi programs available through the internet,” Durmer suggests. “Both in-person and online CBTi programs are very effective at treating the root cause of insomnia and provide strategies and tactics that make it possible to avoid insomnia from occurring for years.”

Make your bedroom more conducive to sleep.

It’s imperative that your place of rest—that is, your bedroom—is conducive to sleep. You want to make it a comfy, relaxing spot where you can wind down after a long day.
Brantner suggests decluttering your room so that it feels less overwhelming when you enter it. Mess and clutter might overstimulate you, making you feel anxious and worried instead of relaxed. You can also use oil diffusers to release essential oils like lavender. Some studies suggest that white noise machines can also help people fall asleep, so it could be a worthwhile investment for your bedroom.
Try keeping your room cool. According to the National Sleep Foundation, we sleep best when the room temperature is between 60 and 67 degrees. Ensure that your bed is cozy but not too hot. Brantner suggests finding a quality mattress as well as comfortable pillows and blankets.
Lighting is also very important, as light signals to your brain that it’s daytime, which ultimately disturbs your sleep. Brantner recommends using thick curtains to block out light, which can be especially helpful if you live near bright streetlights and busy roads. If you need to use a light in your bedroom before sleep, try dimly lit warm lights.
And of course, make your room a device-free zone. It’s tempting to look at your phone when it’s next to your bed, so place it in another room instead, perhaps charging it for the next day. If you remember you have to email someone during the night and the thought nags at you, keep a pen and paper by your bedside and write it down. Use an old-fashioned, one-function alarm clock instead of your phone.

Pre-Sleep Routine

Both Durmer and Brantner recommend setting a bedtime routine to help you wind down before you sleep. Instead of scrolling through Instagram in bed, for instance, do some relaxing activities that won’t overstimulate you.
These activities could include yoga, meditation, massage, sipping relaxing tea, or some gentle stretching. Since a cool body temperature can help you sleep, Durmer recommends a warm bath or shower. When you get out of the bath or shower, your temperature will rapidly cool, which is the perfect condition for a good night’s rest.
Before you pursue these routines, decide on a time you’d like to go to sleep and a time you’d like to wake up. Brantner recommends waking up around the same time every day. “Your body and mind crave routines,” Brantner explains. “So this will help get your circadian rhythm in check.” It’s also important to ensure you have a hearty, healthy dinner, such as a Buddha bowl, before bedtime.
Different things work for different people, and not all nighttime routines will work for everyone. Gently experiment each night and record how quickly you fall asleep, the quality of your sleep, and how you feel the next day. This could help you figure out what natural sleep remedies will work best for you.
Keen to experiment with routines but not sure where to start? Here’s an example of a weekly outline. Change it according to your own needs.

Monday

  • Have a 15- to 20-minute run during the day, at least three hours before bed.
  • An hour before bedtime, switch your phone to “do not disturb” mode and put it in another room.
  • Have a warm bath with a few drops of lavender essential oil.

Tuesday

  • An hour before bedtime, switch your phone to “do not disturb” mode and put it in another room.
  • Do 15 minutes of yoga. If you need to follow a routine, use a book or print out some instructions so that you don’t have to look it up on a screen.

Wednesday

  • During the day, do some light exercise, such as swimming, cycling, or jogging.
  • An hour before bedtime, switch your phone to “do not disturb” mode and put it in another room.
  • Sip some valerian root tea before bed.

Thursday

  • Try some floor exercises today. Look for a few fun ones online and try out whatever appeals to you!
  • An hour before bedtime, switch your phone to “do not disturb” mode and put it in another room.
  • Meditate for 10 minutes.

Friday

  • Walk for 30 minutes.
  • An hour before bedtime, switch your phone to “do not disturb” mode and put it in another room.
  • Make some chamomile tea an hour before bed.
  • While the tea cools, try some deep-breathing exercises.

Saturday

  • Go on a relaxing walk today.
  • An hour before bedtime, switch your phone to “do not disturb” mode and put it in another room.
  • Try using a white noise machine. If you don’t want to invest in one yet, consider using an app, but don’t look at your screen for too long when you’re setting it up.

Sunday

  • During the day, dance—in a studio, around your room, anywhere—for at least 15 minutes. This pleasurable, fun movement can give you a workout while tiring you out for a good night’s rest.
  • An hour before bedtime, switch your phone to “do not disturb” mode and put it in another room.
  • Give yourself a hand and foot massage using a lightly fragranced lotion or oil.

Once you find a useful routine, stick with it. You can enhance the effect of these lifestyle changes by speaking to your healthcare provider about taking supplements or trying various natural remedies for sleep.
But, as Durmer says, insomnia can be related to a range of factors, and whatever treatment you try, it should directly address the causes of your sleep issues. If you’re struggling to find and deal with what’s at the root of your sleeplessness, speaking to a doctor or sleep coach could be your best bet.
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What's Your Parenting Style (And How Is It Affecting Your Kids)?

You recently got that treasured positive pregnancy test, and there are hundreds of questions whirling through your head: What will the baby be named? What kind of birth will you have? And importantly: What will your parenting style be?
Your mom and dad probably never gave much thought to their parenting style other than “Keep the kids alive” or “Raise good humans.” However, in recent years it’s become easier than ever to find like-minded people online, and the idea of [linkbuilder id=”6511″ text=”parenting styles”] has taken off. Terms like “helicopter parent,” “free-range mom” and “attachment parenting” have become mainstream, and new parents often feel like they need to investigate each parenting style and ascribe to one before their child is even born.
Some parents begin picking a parenting style just as early as they pick a nursery theme or a hospital to deliver at. There are many books and expert opinions on [linkbuilder id=”6516″ text=”different parenting styles”] available, and lots of parents begin researching months before their child is born—or even before they conceive! It’s not all that surprising, though. After all, this is an important decision since your parenting style can have lifelong effects on both you and your children.
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Here’s everything you need to know about parenting styles, from the consequences, behaviors, and everyday parenting choices associated with the most common styles to the drawbacks of having a rigid parenting style picked out.

Where did the idea of parenting styles come from?

When you were growing up, you probably never heard much about parenting styles, and you might be wondering what all the fuss is about. That’s because the idea of defined parenting styles is relatively new.
“Our studies of parenting models or styles are not that old,” says John Mayer, PhD, a practicing clinical psychologist licensed in six states who specializes in working with children, teens, and their families.
Mayer says that in the past children were effectively considered small adults and were expected to behave as such, so no defined parenting styles were needed. That changed a bit in the 1930s when psychologists began studying child development and realized that how kids are parented could affect their personalities as they grew.
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Still, throughout most of the 20th century child rearing was kept fairly simple. Most children were expected to be obedient and respectful, and parents assumed a relatively strict role.
The more modern idea of parenting styles that tap into different social and emotional belief systems is very recent, says Ken Dolan-Del Vecchio, LCSW, a licensed marriage and family therapist and author of Simple Habits of Exceptional (But Not Perfect) Parents.
​“It’s all about marketing,” he says. “Some parenting theorists package their recommendations into neat, catchy titles for marketing purposes​ the same way that dieting experts do.​ The mainstream media needs fresh content, so these new approaches gain visibility and, hence, adherents.”
Today, talking about parenting styles has become mainstream. But it turns out that there is quite a bit of research backing up the belief in the importance of distinct parenting styles.

The Scientifically-Described Parenting Styles

Many parenting styles are indeed new, and almost branded to the specific person who brought them to fruition. However, on a broader level, there is scientific merit to the idea that how children are parented affects the people they grow up to be.
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When researchers look at parenting styles, they’re often talking about different things than most parents are considering when we talk casually about parenting styles. While pop-culture styles like free-range or attachment parenting focus on how parents behave, scientific research tends to focus on four types of parenting styles that are driven by what parents believe. These scientifically recognized styles were first identified by Diana Baumrind, a clinical and developmental psychologist.
In 1966, Baumrind published a scientific paper that defined three distinct types of parenting styles (later scientists would add a fourth: more on that in a minute!). They were:

The Authoritarian Parenting Style

Parents who have an authoritarian parenting style believe that children should not question them. They emphasize the need for obedience and opt for strict punishment if rules are broken. Authoritarian parents would have no problem using the phrase “Because I said so” to justify their actions since they believe a parent has ultimate power to give commands to their kids.

The Authoritative Parenting Style

Authoritative parents have strict expectations of their kids, but will explain why, rather than just expecting the child to obey them because they said so, Baumrind wrote. People who ascribe to this parenting style are willing to explain their decisions using logic and reason, but these parents aren’t interested in their children’s desires or opinions when it comes to making parental decisions.
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For example, an authoritative parent might explain to a preschooler that she needs to wear a matching, coordinated outfit to a family event because dressing nicely is a sign of respect. If the child still didn’t want to dress how the parent wants her to, an authoritarian parent would enforce their expectation and make the child change into an appropriate outfit.

The Permissive Parenting Style

Permissive parents give a lot of weight to their children’s thoughts and opinions when making parenting decisions. People who chose this parenting style are likely to affirm their kids’ feelings and less likely to dole out punishments or have strict expectations. In the example above, a permissive parent would most likely let the child chose his or her own outfit to wear to the event, even if it was not what the parent would ideally like.

The Fourth Parenting Style

In 1983 researchers added a fourth category: the uninvolved parenting style. These parents don’t enforce strict standards, and they are not nurturing or warm toward their children.
These styles are still considered relevant by psychologists today. Gail Gross, PhD, EdD, writes that each is associated with distinct effects. Children of authoritarian parents often seek approval and associated approval with love, she says, while children with permissive parents might be unorganized, lack boundaries, or not have much self-control. Children of uninvolved parents often lose their ability to trust, which can affect their relationships later in life.
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Gross writes that the authoritative parenting style is best for most kids.
“Authoritative parents regularly communicate expectations and potential consequences, thereby raising a child in an environment that provides both security and confidence, which helps build his self-esteem,” she writes.

The Pop-Culture Parenting Styles

While researchers have defined the parenting styles above and studied how they influence development, modern parenting experts have articulated additional parenting styles that have become more well-known in modern pop culture. You’re probably not sitting around with your friends debating the merits of being an authoritative versus a permissive parent, but you’ve probably thrown “helicopter parent” around a time or two.
Although modern parenting styles can be related to the scientific parenting styles outlined above, pop-culture parenting styles all have their own tenants and focuses. While the scientifically recognized parenting styles were defined through observation, modern parenting styles have been heavily influenced by our cultural moments and collective values and desires.
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Here are three pop-culture parenting styles that you’ve probably heard of:

The Attachment Parenting Style

Attachment parenting is a phrase coined by William Sears, a pediatrician. The attachment parenting style focuses on the bond between mom and baby, with particular attention given to meeting a child’s physical needs as a newborn, says Sheryl Ziegler, PhD, a psychologist and author of Mommy Burnout. Attachment parents often emphasize breastfeeding, babywearing, and responding to baby’s every cry.
Advocates of the attachment parenting style claim that it builds a secure bond between parent and child that will set the child up for healthy relationships throughout their lives.
Skeptics, however say that it can have drawbacks as well. “In this parenting style [the maternal–child bond] is often over exaggerated and leads to poor parenting habits such as breastfeeding too long, sleeping with the baby, again, too long, and exclusion of co-parent and other significant others,” says Mayer.

The Free-Range Parenting Style

When journalist Lenore Skenazy wrote about letting her 9-year-old son ride the subway on his own, she sparked a firestorm that led to the creation of the free-range parenting movement. Free-range parenting isn’t based on a medical or scientific belief, but rather the idea that parents need to give their kids a bit of freedom and space, with the general assumption that kids will be safe.
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“The mantra would be something like ‘Kids are not in constant danger…so stop parenting them that way,’” Ziegler tells HealthyWay.
Advocates say that this is the approach that was common throughout most of the 20th century, when kids were sent outside to play unsupervised, or to run to the store for their parents. Advocates also emphasize that the world remains relatively safe for kids and that giving them space encourages independence and self-reliability.
However, detractors says that this approach can put kids in danger. “There is a misnomer that free-range parents are too carefree, don’t care about rules and discipline, and that kids run wild,” Ziegler explains. “However, that is not really the case. Free-range parents do believe in safety but they have more of a fundamental trust in kids and community to take care of itself.”

The Helicopter Parenting Style

Unlike the first two parenting styles, helicopter parenting has a decidedly negative connotation. This parenting style describes parents who are always around and regularly do things for their children that the children could easily do themselves. For toddlers, that might mean keeping hands on them on the playground, whereas older kids with helicopter parents might have their laundry and college applications done for them.
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Parents sometimes find themselves hovering too close to their child—like a helicopter—because of their own anxieties. However, detractors say that this can cause anxiety in kids and can diminish or stunt their belief in themselves.
“This leads to deficits in individual responsibility, maturity, accountability, and personal relationship formation,” Mayer says.

What To Do If Your Parenting Style Isn’t Working

Trying to follow one of these particular parenting styles can be useful for figuring out how you (and your partner, if you have one) will confront the challenges that kids bring. However, having a rigid parenting style can also be a cause of stress. If you find yourself worrying about not doing things the “right” way or making certain decisions just because they’re in line with your chosen style rather than because you genuinely believe those decisions are best for your child, it may indicate that your chosen parenting style isn’t working for you according to Dolan-Del Vecchio.
“Our interactions with our children cannot be fit into neat categories,” he says.
Ziegler says that it’s important to keep some flexibility no matter what approach you think will be best for you and your child. For example, an attachment parent may plan to babywear frequently, but have a child who prefers to be able to move independently. In cases like that, it’s perfectly fine to adjust the tenets of your chosen parenting style to fit your family’s needs.
“Instead of abandoning the style all together, I encourage new parents to take the style—as with many things in life—in moderation,” Ziegler says.
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Creating Your Own Parenting Style

Ultimately, experimenting with different parenting styles can help you find the method that is the best fit for your family.
“I would remind parents that popular parenting styles come and go,” Ziegler says. “If they want to make a change they can do so in certain areas, but can maintain that style at other times. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing.”
Dolan-Del Vecchio recommends parents take lessons from each parenting style and meld them together to create an approach that works the best for their family members’ specific circumstances and personalities.
“The core messages within each of these styles apply well to the particulars of certain situations and not well to others,” he explains. “For example, it is healthy for parents to helicopter when teaching their young child to swim, ride a bike, and use the internet, but unhealthy when their child does his or her homework. It is healthy for a parent to apply strict rules about curfew and time limits on use of technology during their child’s early stages of development but this will hopefully change as their child moves toward adulthood.”
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Letting go of the need to adhere to a specific parenting style can allow parents the freedom to make the decisions that they are most comfortable with, Dolan-Del Vecchio says. He goes on to say it’s important that kids know what to expect from their parents, but it is not important that adults be able to label their particular brand of parenting.
“I think ​having a defined parenting doctrine is wrongheaded. Parenting requires us to be observant of ourselves and our child, flexible in our approach to providing loving guidance, and ready to negotiate and compromise with our co-parent if we have one so that we approach our child with consistency.”
Parenting styles can provide great guidance for raising kids and give you a foundation for building your family’s belief system when it comes to matters of discipline and authority. However, if you find that your parenting style is giving you more stress than relief, it’s perfectly okay to adjust your parenting style or decide that you don’t need a defined approach at all.
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Dry Brushing: A Skincare Miracle Or Too Good To Be True?

If you’re like me, you barely have time to pop on a detoxifying face mask once a week, much less head to the spa for a full-body detox session.
That’s why I was so excited to hear about the practice of dry brushing, a process of brushing your skin with a natural-bristle brush that’s supposed to promote energy, reduce cellulite, and drain toxins from your skin. Best of all, dry brushing is easy to do at home: no spa required.
Naturally, I was a little skeptical that simply dry brushing my skin in a certain pattern would actually work, so I before I invested in a dry brush, I consulted the experts to find out whether dry brushing is a skincare miracle solution or simply too good to be true.

Bye, bye cellulite? Not so fast.

Dry brushing is actually a centuries-old practice dating back to the days of Hippocrates. As the name implies, the practice involves brushing your dry skin with a coarse, short-bristled brush.
So why do it?
“[Dry brushing] works by stimulating the sebaceous glands, thereby encouraging natural lubrication of your skin; removing the top layer of dead cells, leading to significant exfoliation and skin that’s polished and silky; improving circulation and increasing blood flow to the surface of the body,” says Stephanie Tourles, a licensed esthetician, herbalist, and author of Organic Body Care Recipes.
Because dry brushing increases circulation and blood flow to the skin’s surface, it’s also touted as a cure for cellulite.
I’ll be totally honest, getting rid of my lumps and bumps is one of the main reasons I personally started dry brushing.
But, like most things that sound too good to be true, Tania Elliott, MD, a leading New York allergist and Chief Medical Officer at EHE, Inc., says, “There is no evidence though, to support that dry brushing can reduce cellulite.”
However, many people still swear that dry brushing does improve their cellulite.
“I’ve noticed improved tone in the jiggle-prone parts of my body” says Tourles referring to those trouble spots so many of us face: the upper arms and inner thighs.
In reality, dry brushing does increase short-term circulation. Increased blood flow actually puffs up skin, which can reduce the appearance of cellulite—temporarily—which is why I’m guilty of sneaking in a dry brushing session if I know I’m going to be seen in my swimsuit or if my spouse and I have scheduled some grown-up time. Hey, sometimes a girl needs all the help she can get!
And even if dry brushing doesn’t banish stubborn cellulite, you’ll notice immediate results in the smoothness of your skin after just a day or two of dry brushing, thanks to its exfoliating effects. But since there’s really only anecdotal proof that this practice helps reduce the long-term appearance of cellulite, you may have to wait several weeks to see if you notice a reduction in those dimples on the back of your thighs.

Don’t you know that you’re toxic?

Well, not exactly toxic, more like your skin has toxins.
“Over the course of an average day, your skin eliminates more than a pound of waste, including perspiration,” says Tourles. “If your skin is not carrying out normal elimination due to basic neglect of hygiene, illness, dry skin buildup, medication side effects, repeated application of mineral oil-based, pore-clogging body lotions or waterproof chemical-based sunscreens, or nutritional deficiencies, then your kidneys, large intestine, liver, and lungs may be operating on a subpar level.”  
Dry brushing has recently gotten major buzz as an easy way to detox your skin because it promotes lymphatic drainage, which is supposed to help remove toxins.
According to an article published in the Journal of Circulation Research, the lymphatic system “plays an integral role in the regulation of tissue fluid homeostasis, immune cell trafficking, and absorption of dietary fats” and it works in tandem with the circulatory system to regularly flush toxins from the body.
Similar to the way that dry brushing temporarily energizes circulation, it also aids the lymphatic system by stimulating lymph glands just under the skin.
Your lymphatic system carries internal waste to different “dumping sites” in your body, according to the Circuelle Foundation, a non-profit organization focused on long-term breast health. While the heart helps blood pump throughout the body, the lymphatic system doesn’t have a built-in pump. Dry brushing, like massage, essentially acts as the lymphatic system’s pump, pushing toxins out of the body and carrying beneficial white blood cells throughout the lymphatic system.
“The lymph is very delicate,” says Marie Starling, doctor of chiropractic, a chiropractic internist and functional medicine specialist at the Healing Center in Denver. “Too much pressure will restrict the flow within the lymph vessels. When the lymph is stimulated in this way, it is transported to the lymph nodes where it is filtered. The tonsils, adenoids, spleen, and thymus are all part of this system that helps the body detoxify and fight infection.”
In addition to boosting your body’s ability to fight infection on its own, Starling says that dry brushing can also help decrease water retention, which you may see on the scale as a decrease in water weight and bloating.

Really, all you have to do is brush your skin.

Dry brushing really is that simple.
You can dry brush your skin any way you like, but to get the most out of dry brushing, Starling recommends following these steps to promote lymphatic drainage and circulation:

  • Start with the bottom of the feet and work your way up to the knee with brisk, upward strokes. Do one side and then the other.
  • Then, from the knee, stroke upward in small strokes moving toward the abdomen. Do one side and then the other.
  • At the abdomen, brush in small, upward circles.
  • Then move to the arms, starting with the palms and using short strokes that move in toward the torso on both the tops and undersides of the arms, finishing at the armpit. Do one arm and then the other.
  • Gently brush the chest area using circular motions.
  • Continue with small strokes up the neck toward the face.
  • Use a brush with a handle to brush the back in short, upward strokes.

Starling suggests that women avoid dry brushing their breasts, whereas Circuelle suggests dry brushing benefits breast health and hosts a diagram that shows that drainage associated with a dry-brushing ritual occurs in the breasts and other parts of the body.
The ideal cadence is no more than two to three times per week—regular use can damage the skin barrier and lead to irritation,” says Elliott. “Remember, the skin is the largest organ in the body and it is the first barrier of our immune system. Over-irritation and skin breakdown can lead to infection risk.”
If you have concerns about the safety of dry brushing for your skin or breast health, it’s best to chat with your doctor.
Dry brushing in the bathroom? Watch out for water! Elliott says that if your brush gets wet, it can become a breeding ground for viruses and bacteria, so it’s important to clean your brush regularly.
To do so, simply wash and rinse with warm soapy water once a week.
“It will take your skin a while to get used to being brushed,” says Tourles, who recommends using a medium-soft, natural-fiber brush about the size of your palm for dry brushing.
“Never scrub though,” says Tourles. “Your body is not the tub!”
Your skin should be rosy pink, but never red, irritated, or itchy after dry brushing.
“You’ll feel wonderfully invigorated when you’re finished, and your skin will glow,” says Tourles. “If you’re just beginning, your skin may be a bit red immediately afterward, but as it adjusts and becomes more acclimated to the treatment, only a pinkish tinge (depending on your pigmentation) will remain for about five minutes until circulation calms.  If your skin remains red or pink for a longer period, or feels irritated, then either the brush bristles are too firm or you’re brushing way too hard.”
For people with sensitive skin, Sejal Shah, MD, a board-certified dermatologist and RealSelf contributor, says “I generally recommend starting once a week and increasing slowly (up to daily) as your skin tolerates. I do suggest starting with a washcloth and working gradually up to something stiffer once you get to the desired effect.”  
Always brush clean, dry skin before hopping in the shower, so that you can rinse off all the dead skin cells you just sloughed off. After your shower, use a rich moisturizing lotion or body oil to help keep skin soft, especially if you have sensitive skin.
After I shower, my go-to moisturizer is still Johnson and Johnson’s Baby Oil, which I rub on while I’m still wet, just before I towel dry. It smells delicious and keeps my skin literally baby soft all day long.
Though most dermatologists recommend dry brushing a few times a week, if your skin tolerates brushing, you can do it daily, ideally in the morning as an energizing part of your routine, says Tourles.
“It doesn’t take me thirty minutes to wake up in the morning, like it used to!  For me, dry brushing is equivalent to a shot of espresso,” says Tourles.
However, there’s nothing wrong with dry brushing before bedtime if that’s when you normally shower.
So, what’s the bottom line?
Maybe dry brushing isn’t quite the skincare miracle some fans make it out to be, but it isn’t completely bogus, either.
I like dry brushing because it’s a quick and easy way to exfoliate my skin and temporarily hide my cellulite for a day at the beach. Coupled with my ten-minute morning yoga flow, dry brushing really does give me a boost of energy.
But if you’re looking for a quick way to detox, most doctors say there is no substitute for taking better care of your whole body. To boost your immune system and stay healthy, eat a healthy diet, drink plenty of water, get regular exercise, limit alcohol, sugary treats, and saturated fats, and consider adding dry brushing to your skincare routine.
Want to see for yourself if dry brushing lives up to the hype?
Here are some of our favorite products for your dry brushing routine:

The Organic Pharmacy Skin Brush

This natural-bristle brush features a long handle for hard-to-reach places as well as a small elastic band to slip around your hand for close brushing. The bristles are firm, but can be gentle enough to use on sensitive skin.

Dry Body Brush Set

This set includes two boar-bristle brushes (one for each hand!) and a cute bag to store your dry brushes. Plus, by purchasing this set, you’re supporting a small, woman-owned business in addition to getting great skin. Win-win!

EcoTools Dry Body Brush

This synthetic brush by EcoTools is the perfect cruelty-free dry brush for vegans or anyone concerned about animal welfare. At a price point under $10, it’s also one of the most affordable dry brushes out there. While the lack of a handle will make it harder to reach your back, the circular shape makes it easy to swirl on your skin to promote lymphatic drainage.

The Skinsoother by DermaFrida

Okay, so this product is technically for babies, but it’s also the perfect alternative to a stiff brush if you have sensitive skin. The set comes with two brushes, so you can have one and baby can, too! Plus, it features a suction cup on the back, so your brush can hang out in one convenient place.

tulasāra Radiant Facial Dry Brush

This Aveda dry brush is specially made for the sensitive skin on your face. It features medium-firm nylon bristles, so your face won’t get irritated. Just as dry brushing can temporarily reduce the appearance of cellulite, it can also temporarily reduce the appearance of fine lines on the face.

Wholesome Beauty Dry Skin Body Brush

This natural-bristle dry brush scores extra points for its long detachable handle. It also comes with a convenient travel pouch and hook, so you can easily reach your dry brush during your morning routine.