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The Benefits Of Witch Hazel (And How To Use It Daily)

All it takes is a few scrolls through Pinterest and you’re bombarded: You need to be using witch hazel right now! Witch hazel could change your life!
While dabbing a little bit of this naturally-occurring astringent on your acne doesn’t exactly rank up there with weddings, births, and funerals on the “life changing” charts, there’s no question that witch hazel—a centuries-old wellness pick—is making its way back into our wellness routines, and for good reason. The uses for witch hazel are numerous, and as scientists and skincare junkies alike are finding promise in natural remedies for everything from acne treatment to easing inflamed skin, it makes sense that witch hazel is topping the list of favorite ingredients.
But before you hit the drugstore (or Amazon) for a bottle of holistic astringent, is witch hazel the right fix for what ails you? Wondering what the top uses for witch hazel are?
We talked to the experts about the good, the bad, and everything in between!

First of all, what is witch hazel?

Witch hazel has gained its spot in the zeitgeist in no small part because many of us are trying to ditch beauty products with ingredient lists chock full of complex chemicals we can hardly pronounce and move toward more natural options instead.
In 2015 alone, natural beauty lines grew by by 7 percent in the U.S., compared to a 2 percent rise in the overall beauty market that same year, and natural wellness options are only expected to become more of a presence as time goes on.
The good news if you’re after holistic remedies: It doesn’t get much more natural than witch hazel. That’s because the liquid isn’t cooked up in a factory. It’s actually derived directly from the witch hazel plant.
Common witch hazel or American witch hazel is actually a large woody shrub or tree, Dayna Valenti-Gaeta, community horticulture program coordinator at Cornell Cooperative Extension in Sullivan County, New York, tells HealthyWay. Dubbed Hamamelis viginiana, the tree is native to the eastern half of North America, and you’ll find them growing out in the wild anywhere from Quebec down to Texas and Florida.
“It is found in the understory, in areas where there is acidic soil (near pine, oak, maple, hickory, and wild blueberries) and part sun/light shade,” Valenti-Gaeta explains. “The shrub/tree can grow to about 15 to 20 feet tall and wide.”  

What Science Says About the Benefits of Witch Hazel

“Witch hazel has been used extensively throughout history,” says Tanya Kormeili, MD, a board certified dermatologist from Santa Monica, California. “It contains chemicals called tannins, which can help with inflammation, to reduce swelling, help repair broken skin, and fight infections such as bacteria. ”
It’s not just years of use that points to witch hazel’s effectiveness, either. Scientists have dug into whether or not witch hazel is therapeutic, and the results have been largely positive. In one study out of Kingston University, London, for example, researchers observed “significant” anti-inflammatory effects of witch hazel. That study was funded in part by Neal’s Yard, a British company that sells organic natural health and beauty products, but researchers declared no competing interests and the potential uses of witch hazel (and proof of it working) don’t end there.
Another study published in a 2007 edition of the European Journal of Pediatrics determined that hamamelis ointment, a product made with witch hazel, is an effective and safe treatment for minor skin injuries, diaper dermatitis, or localized inflammation of skin in children under age 11. Yet another study that dates back to 1998—when it was published in the journal Dermatology—shows the effectiveness of a lotion made from the witch hazel plant in treating redness of the skin.
In light of these and other studies, it’s clear witch hazel has a wide variety of scientifically legitimated uses. Ultimately, according to celebrity facialist Ildi Pekar, it’s the versatility of witch hazel that makes it so popular.

Witch Hazel Uses You Should Try

1. Treat acne.

Witch hazel is a naturally occurring astringent that constricts blood vessels, which in turn reduces swelling and inflammation. When used as a toner, witch hazel can reduce inflammation caused by acne and decrease excess oil. Using a formula made without alcohol won’t give you the overly dry, tight feeling some people have come to expect of alcohol-based toners.
Pekar suggests using witch hazel after you wash your face to help further clean the skin topically from bacteria and reduce inflammation associated with breakouts you may be experiencing. Grab a cotton ball, soak it in the liquid, and swab your most acne-prone areas.
“It can be a little tricky because there are different forms of acne, and some may not benefit from alcohol in witch hazel,” she warns, in which case she recommends using a mineral-rich toner instead.

2. Soothe sunburn.

Need to take the sting out of that sunburn? Add a few drops of witch hazel to a squirt of aloe vera gel and smooth the concoction over your skin. The aloe will cool you down while the witch hazel will work on the inflammation. Some burn ointments even mix the two, so check your labels: You might find a two-for-one deal in the drugstore aisles.
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3. Remove make-up.

Put down those expensive, disposable make-up removing sheets and grab a washcloth or paper towel that’s been soaked in witch hazel instead. The tannins in witch hazel can help dissolve debris and oil buildup on the skin according to Anca Tchelebi, MD, a dermatologist at Park Avenue Medical Spa in Armonk, New York.

4. Take the puffy out.

If you’ve been crying, suffering through allergy season, or didn’t get enough sleep, run a cotton pad soaked in witch hazel over your puffy eyelids (making sure to keep your eyes closed to avoid irritation). The astringent in witch hazel helps to constrict the blood vessels, Tchelebi says, which will help return your eyes to their less-puffy state. Some products, like the Detox Eye Roller from First Aid Beauty, package that witch hazel hit right into a roller to ensure easy application.

5. Take the sting out of hemorrhoids.

If you’ve tucked into a box of TUCKS pads to get some relief from the burning and itching of hemorrhoids, you may have noticed the brand boasts its active ingredient is—you guessed it—witch hazel.
If you’ve ever heard of models and big stars using these medicated pads on their faces, well, now you know why! The witch hazel is what helps bring down puffiness in the face, making them red carpet–ready (and you ready to face the day).  

6. Alleviate postpartum pain.

You can use those same TUCKS pads to get after-birth relief. Seriously. Keep your pads in the freezer, pull one out, and gently dab your undercarriage when the stinging is too much. You can also soak a giant maxi pad in alcohol-free witch hazel and freeze it before use. Stick it in the mesh underwear you get at the hospital and you’ll feel instant relief.

7. Take the itch out of bug bites.

Witch hazel is said to have been used hundreds of years ago to soothe the itch of mosquito and other bug bites, and that hasn’t changed. A little dab’ll do ya for this treatment. Resist scratching and allow the tannins to tackle the inflammation and cut down on the reaction to the allergens left behind by an insect’s bite.  

8. Coax an ingrown hair out from under your skin.

If you get painful red bumps on your bikini line after you’ve visited your waxer, you may have ingrown hairs that are trying to make their way out of the skin. Kormeili tells us you can use witch hazel to treat these spots.
The witch hazel will both relieve the inflammation and help kill the bacteria that’s causing it, allowing the trapped hair to work its way to the surface. Apply once a day to the bump, allowing the witch hazel to air dry.

Witchy Myths: The Witch Hazel Uses That Don’t Work

It sounds like witch hazel is a miracle of nature, doesn’t it? Maybe those Pinterest headlines aren’t exaggerating, after all.
And it’s true: Witch hazel is amazing.
But there are a few popular “101 witch hazel uses” pins you may come across that you’ll want to avoid according to dermatologists.
The biggest offender on these lists? No matter what you’ve read, there is no such thing as “natural” sun protection, and using witch hazel in place of sunscreen is absolutely not going to keep you skin cancer-free, so don’t even bother.  
“Some witch hazel enthusiasts claim that due to its antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties witch hazel can be applied to the skin before sun exposure to prevent sunburn or after sun exposure to prevent sun damage,” Tchelebi says. “This is complete junk science, and as a cosmetic physician who sees the devastating effects of sun damage on the health and appearance of people’s skin, these types of claims make me go crazy!”
While witch hazel might help soothe your sunburn, it will not protect you from the sun’s damaging rays, and what you do with it afterward will not reverse any damage that the UV exposure has done to your shoulders, chest, face, or any other skin.  
“I would advise my patients to rely only on sunscreens containing both UVB and UVA protection to protect their skin from the damaging effects of the sun,” Tchelebi says. In other words: You should never rely on witch hazel for sun protection. Stick to sunscreens that are well-rated and scientifically-backed.
Another sobering reality for those who tout the endless uses of witch hazel? Even the promises of inflammation fighting and bacteria killing can come with a dose of reality for those with sensitive skin according to Kormeili.
“ Some patients are very allergic to this plant,” she warns. “Sometimes when applied to open sores or skin it can cause severe irritation as well.
Like most wellness routines, it’s always good to consult with your doctor before adding witch hazel to your arsenal. They may advise you test a small patch of the skin before using it in larger quantities just so you can see if your skin reacts negatively. They may also say you’re not a candidate for witch hazel use based on past skin issues.
Then again, it may get a thumbs up from your doc, in which case it’s time to scope out the best product for your needs!

Witch hazel should you use? Go for the good stuff.

Of course, even if you’ve gotten the all clear from your doctor to use witch hazel in your skincare routine, you want to make sure the witch hazel you buy (or make!) is the best product for your skin and desired usage.
As one of the only medicinal plants approved by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) as a non-prescription drug ingredient, there’s a plethora of witch hazel options on the market, and all of them claim to be the best. So how do you choose?
There is no regulation from the FDA regarding how much pure plant witch hazel goes into a bottle, Kormeili warns, so you need to read ingredient labels carefully. Many witch hazel solutions on the market are largely alcohol or formaldehyde.
Because alcohols can be drying and irritating, it’s best to steer clear of these products. It’s also important to check labels for the inclusion of “fragrance,” which can cause allergic reactions—especially for people with sensitive skin.
Wondering which witch hazel products we love to use? Here are our witch hazel recommendations:

Thayer’s Original Witch Hazel Toner

This alcohol-free toner is made with aloe vera so it will act as an astringent on acne-prone areas without drying you out or leaving your skin irritated. Use this cult fave toner on a clean face to tighten your pores and refresh your skin. It comes in plenty of scents: original, rose petal (our favorite!), lavender, lemon, cucumber, and even an unscented variety.

Ahava Witch Hazel Hand Cream

If your hands are feeling tight and dry, use this witch hazel cream to soothe and heal them. Since witch hazel is naturally anti-inflammatory, it can calm ongoing issues. Plus, Ahava claims the Dead Sea minerals in the cream “help restore essential moisture.”

Herbivore Rose Hibiscus Coconut Water Hydrating Face Mist

This face mist is the perfect addition to your skincare routine. Incorporate it between using your cleanser and applying your moisturizer. The coconut and aloe leaf waters will moisturize while the witch hazel will tighten your skin.

Dr. Jart+ Water Replenishment Cotton Mask

Who doesn’t love a good face mask? K-beauty giant DR. JART+ has found a wonderful use for witch hazel in this cotton mask that hydrates and provides moisture.
Eager to find the perfect witch hazel product for you? Check out our favorite finds from Thayers, Ahava, Herbivore, and Dr. Jart:

Do-It-Yourself Witch Hazel

The manufacturers of witch hazel products are interested in the bark and twigs of the witch hazel tree. That’s the stuff you’ll want if you’re making your own, too, Valenti-Gaeta says.
“The bark or small twigs are macerated and made into mulch…and boiled to make a witch hazel tonic,” she explains. “You have to boil any woody materials (including roots when making teas and tinctures). Vodka or straight grain alcohol can be added to make the witch hazel shelf stable.” 
If you want to get really DIY with it, the Farmer’s Almanac even offers up tips on how to make your own witch hazel:

  • For a water-based witch hazel decoction, place the chopped twigs and scraped bark into a stainless-steel pot; cover completely with water (use distilled water if you have heavily treated water), bring the contents to a boil, then cover the pot and reduce heat and simmer for at least half an hour. Keep the twigs covered with water. Set in a cool place overnight, then strain into glass jar. Refrigerate and use within a few days.
  • To make a long-lasting alcohol tincture, place chopped bark and twigs in a large glass jar and cover with vodka. Let it sit in a dark, cool place for six weeks, then strain and store, covered, in a glass jar, also in a cool, dark place. To use, dilute a couple of tablespoons in half a cup of water, soak clean gauze, washcloth, or cotton balls in the mixture, and apply.

If all that macerating and boiling sounds like a lot of work, well, it is. But it’s worth it, says Kormeili. Of course it’s also perfectly acceptable to leave hard work to the manufacturers and just pick up a new bottle of witch hazel when you need one!
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In the Kitchen Nosh

Handling Food Waste Like A Pro: How To Get Creative With Food Scraps In The Kitchen

Food waste is a major issue in the United States. In fact, recent data collected by the United States Department of Agriculture (USDA) estimates that between 30 and 40 percent of all food ends up in municipal landfills. Not only could food that winds up wasted be used to feed families who are in need of nutritious food, but the process of decomposition results in the buildup and release of methane gas that makes American landfills the third largest source of methane gas emissions in the country.
Although the stats appear dire, the USDA has developed an initiative called the U.S. Food Waste Challenge, a program that encourages food processors and distributors, grocery stores, industry groups, NGOs, and government bodies to improve their food management systems in order to lower the amount of food waste in our landfills. On an individual basis, the Environmental Protection Agency has released a set of very helpful guidelines to help the public reduce food waste at home that includes a guide to composting, ways to support your community food bank, and meal-planning tips.

Food Scrap Inspiration From the Professional Kitchen

Restaurant kitchens are great examples of how food scraps can be used to their full potential. Tim Harris has been a professional chef for 20 years, working in restaurants and as a private chef, and throughout his training and career he’s learned all about the importance of using food scraps in the kitchen.
“In the best professional kitchens there are very little food scraps,” he says. “Leaving meat on the bone during any butchery is an indicator of your inability. …Vegetable stems and trimmings like asparagus and broccoli are puréed into soup or maybe dried as garnish. It’s about squeezing every cent out of every ingredient.”
Harris even had the opportunity to work under Jacques Pepin, who he says would “wipe that little extra bit of egg white out of each half of the egg shell with his finger tip” because “every dozen eggs has an extra egg white stuck in the shell.”

General Tips for Preventing Food Waste

There are many ways to reduce the amount of food waste in your kitchen. Harris says his number one tip is to “shop more often to reduce spoilage. Plan to use things before you buy them and they won’t end up as science experiments in the back of the fridge.”
It’s also important to learn the difference between “sell by,” “expiry,” and “best before” dates as confusion surrounding these terms can lead to perfectly good food being thrown out before it has actually spoiled. According to the USDA’s “Food Product Dating” resource

  • A “Best if Used By/Before” indicates when a product will be of best flavor or quality. It is not a purchase or safety date.
  • A “Sell-By” date tells the store how long to display the product for sale for inventory management. It is not a safety date.
  • A “Use-By” date is the last date recommended for the use of the product while at peak quality. It is not a safety date except in certain uses on infant formula packaging.

You can learn more about what these terms mean—and how to distinguish actual expiration dates for various products here.
Keeping a whiteboard or notepad by the refrigerator and keeping stock of items as they run out will also help prevent over-shopping and doubling up on items you already have.

Get involved with composting.

It’s easy to set up a bin for composting food scraps and yard waste, especially if you have access to a backyard. Check with your local municipality to see if they have set up composting programs for apartment buildings and condominiums. City-wide composting programs are a growing initiative across the country and help to cut down on food waste in landfills.
If you’re worried about the smell from storing compostable goods on your kitchen counter, there are many indoor compost pails that are made to prevent the emission of strong odors. Another option is to freeze compost until you’re ready to dispose of it.

Get souper creative with food scraps.

Next time you’re faced with a crisper full of vegetable odds and ends or leftover cooked vegetables, add them to a kitchen sink–style veggie soup. Those last remaining bits of meat on a rotisserie chicken or steak attached to the bone will add depth to any soup, so throw in the whole thing (bones and all) and remove the bones before serving for an extra-savory flavor.
Salad leaves (with or without dressing) can also be used to make a quick yet deliciously light soup. Just blend together the salad greens with vegetable stock, Greek yogurt, or crème fraiche, and salt and pepper to taste. For best results, make your stock or broth from scratch using food scraps.

Making Homemade Stock or Broth From Leftovers

According to Harris, one of his favorite culinary experiences was with a Thai chef who had worked in embassies almost her entire career and would often eat the leftover food from functions and galas. “She once took the skin of a salmon I butchered and along with a couple limes, fish sauce, coriander, and chilies made a broth that blew my mind,” he says.
Homemade stocks and broths are an ideal way to use up food scraps in the kitchen. Not only can you use fresh scraps, but you can freeze stems and peels as you cook for use in future stocks or broths.
Harris offers many suggestions for ingredients that should be saved for this purpose:

Any gristle, silver skin, or cartilage is used to enrich a sauce of stock before being discarded. Trimmings of carrot, onion, celery, leek, garlic, fennel, tomatoes, et cetera are all saved for stock and every bone removed ends up in there too.

If you use Parmigiano-Reggiano cheese, save the rinds in your freezer for stocks, risottos, and pasta sauces (just make to remove the rind before eating). Some ingredients are too strongly flavored to include in a stock or broth recipe, though, so beware of using the flesh of starchier squash, bok choy (in large amounts), cabbage, broccoli, collard greens, kohlrabi, spicy chili peppers, radishes, fresh rosemary, and turnips.

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The 5-Minute Postpartum Skincare Routine All New Moms Need

Bye, bye, pregnancy glow. I hardly knew you.
There are so many things no one tells you about how your postpartum body will look and feel. Even after you’ve lost the pregnancy weight, your midsection will probably look like a blob of dough. Your hair will likely fall out by the handfuls in the shower, even though you’ve been promised by your doctor and hair stylist this is only temporary (it is). But worst of all, no one told you about the resurgence of teenage acne. No one warned you about having skin that is somehow both dry and oily at the same time. And what about all the other skin issues that rear their ugly heads post-pregnancy?
If all this has got you feeling more like a zombie extra on The Walking Dead and less like your usual gorgeous self, we’ve got you covered. You may not think you have a moment to spare for yourself, but this five-minute postpartum skincare routine is so easy you can squeeze it in between a feeding session and tummy time without missing one minute with your sweet (but exhausting) munchkin.

Back to Basics

Fayne Frey, MD and creator of the educational skincare site FryFace, explains why it’s so important we pay attention to our skin: “The skin is an organ. It protects the body from outside elements like bacteria, fungus, allergens, and the damaging effects of ultraviolet light.”
Even if you aren’t wearing makeup as you’re holed up in your house with a newborn, you still need to give your face some love.
So how should you care for your skin? Frey advises getting back to basics with a simple three-step routine.
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Okay, so I did actually try this once and made a horrible mess everywhere. But you should start your new routine by washing your face with a gentle cleanser to get rid of the baby food, makeup, and other residue that has accumulated since your last shower—whenever that was.
I don’t know how it’s possible, but I have skin that’s both oily and dry, which is almost impossible to deal with. My favorite cleanser is Clinique’s Take The Day Off, which is a balm gentle enough for all skin types. You can rub it on dry skin for a minute or two and wipe it off with a wet washcloth.


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To maintain healthy skin, it’s important to stay hydrated. This means drinking lots of water during the day and hydrating your skin with a good moisturizer. Frey says, “When the skin is hydrated it functions optimally. Skin is always losing water into the environment, and studies show that it does so even more during pregnancy and shortly thereafter.”
No matter your skin type, you still need to use a moisturizer after every cleansing sesh (ideally twice a day) to keep your skin balanced.
This non-oily gel cream from Laneige is great for oily, combination, and normal skin that needs hydration. On the other hand, if your postpartum skin is feeling tight and dry, try out Peter Thomas Roth’s Water Drench cream, which contains hyaluronic acid for optimum skin hydration.


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“Ultraviolet light is the single most damaging influence on our skin, before and after childbirth,” says Frey. It’s important to finish up your skincare routine by applying sunblock liberally, even if you’re only outside for a few minutes each day. Adding sunscreen to your everyday skincare routine will ensure that you wear it daily, not just when you’re headed to the beach.
Sunscreens can be notoriously pore-clogging, though, so make sure you choose a sunscreen that is specially formulated for the sensitive skin on your face and neck. I like the Supergoop! Unseen Sunscreen. The formula feels weightless and at SPF 40 with broad-spectrum protection, using it every morning sets my mind at ease. (FYI: Chemical sunscreens like this one should be applied before your moisturizer!)

Bonus Step: Throw in a little extra.

While your five-minute skincare routine is complete once you’ve cleansed, moisturized, and applied sunblock, if you have a few extra minutes (it’ll happen one day, we promise!), consider applying a hydrating face mask once a week.
I like to apply mine after baby goes down for a morning nap, while I’m still in my robe and slippers. I pop on a mask for 20 minutes, heat up my cold coffee, and turn on my favorite podcast.
It’s as close to a spa day as I’ll get anytime soon, but you know what? Knowing I’m intentionally creating time for myself is just as refreshing.

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Conscious Beauty

Makeup Artists Reveal The Industry's Most Important Secrets

With makeup, you don’t always get what you pay for.
You can spend hundreds of dollars on beauty products—and believe us, we’ve been there—but that doesn’t guarantee professional results. That’s not just our opinion, either. One 2016 study showed that professionally-applied cosmetics affected appearance much more than self-applied cosmetics did (no word on whether that study was published in the journal No Duh).
To find out how makeup artists get a flawless, camera-ready look, we decided to reach out to a few professionals (naturally). As it turns out, we’re not so much buying the wrong products as we are using them the wrong way.

Whether you’re a makeup newbie or you already have a talent for your contour palette, these tips can make a big difference. For instance…

Preparation is key.

Before we get to the experts, we’ve got to talk about moisturizing. Think of your face as a canvas: You can have all the best products in the world, but if your skin is dry and dull, you’re going to have issues.
Of course, this won’t come as shocking news to most makeup aficionados. However, while there are hundreds of moisturizers, toners, and serums on the market, there’s one product that’s absolutely indispensable: sunscreen.

When you go outside sans sunscreen, you’re not just risking a sunburn. The Skin Cancer Foundation estimates that 90 percent of skin aging is caused by exposure to the sun. People who use sunscreen with an SPF of 15 or higher everyday have fewer signs of skin aging than those who don’t sport the ‘screen.
You might not like the oily feel of sunscreen, especially on your face. The good news is that many brands make face-specific sunscreens that won’t leave an oily base. You can also purchase makeup foundations that have sunscreen built in.

If you want professional results, prime your face.

“Always use a primer,” says Marissa Hohner, makeup artist and owner of Sugar Skull Makeup in Chicago. “Primers allow your foundation and makeup to have a long-wear application on your skin throughout the day.”
If you’re not using a primer, you’re probably not getting the results you want. Primers even out your skin tone, minimize the appearance of pores, and help smooth out skin imperfections. They also give your makeup something to hold on to, ensuring a better all-day look.
If you want your look to last, you can’t skip this step.

“Allow your primer to seep into your skin for a couple of minutes until it feels a bit tacky to the touch,” says Hohner. “This will ensure a longer-lasting wear for your foundation throughout the day.”
That works because many primers use silicone-based polymers like dimethicone, the same types of silicones found in hair conditioners. Just as you let your hair conditioner sit in place before you wash it out, you’ll need to give your primer some time to work.

Patience is key. Primer takes time. If you rush through and refuse to wait, you won’t be getting better-looking makeup, you’ll just waste expensive primer.
Incidentally, dimethicone-free primers are available, and they’re sometimes a better choice for people with acne and other skin conditions. If you’re noticing a reaction from your primer (or any other cosmetic product), speak with your dermatologist.

There are a few key tricks to using foundation and concealer.

After your face is moisturized and primed, it’s time for the foundation and concealer.
We could easily write an entire piece on foundation and concealer, as there are dozens of high-quality products on the market. To get professional results, you’ll need to do some experimentation to figure out what works best for you and your skin. It’s also important to decide on a look and matching your application to achieve the desired outcome. One pro-ready option: Switching to a beauty sponge.
“Pressing your foundation and concealer into your skin with a damp beauty sponge will give you more coverage and an airbrushed look,” Nashville makeup artist Corrine Towery tells HealthyWay.

As with everything in the world of cosmetics, moderation is key.
“Don’t overdo the foundation,” says Hohner. “If you cake on too much foundation, your skin can look muddy and cakey. A buildable foundation will allow you to start with a thin layer and then add upon that layer with additional product … in trouble areas that may need more coverage.”
In other words, take your time. Hey, we’re starting to notice a pattern here.

Bake your face.

No, this doesn’t involve any kitchen appliances. When you need your makeup to last all day, it’s time to “bake.” That term has been frequently used in the drag community for years—and, by and large, their makeup looks fantastic—but recently, we’ve seen it pop up in more mainstream outlets.

To “bake your face,” you’ll cover your foundation and concealer with a translucent powder and let it set for five to 10 minutes. The heat from your face will set the makeup, creating a creaseless, flawless, long-lasting look. Pretty cool, right?
Baking is especially helpful for treating any areas that are prone to wrinkles.
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“By using a light-weight, loose, translucent powder to set your under-eye concealer, you will prevent your concealer from creasing and accentuating any crow’s feet or fine lines under and around the eye,” says Hohner.
It takes a lot of time and effort to look great. Don’t risk any breaks or cracks.

There’s a trick to making your lips pop.

Just as you need to prepare your skin before applying makeup, you need to make sure that your lips are in great condition before reaching for the lipstick.
“Any flakiness should be removed prior to a lipstick application,” Artistic Director for Osmosis Colour Mineral Cosmetics Alejandro Falcon tells HealthyWay. “[After moisturizing], use a lip liner to shape and outline your lip area. I usually fill in the lip liner halfway inside the lips for a more precise look.”

If you want your lips to appear fuller, use a little bit of highlighter.
“Grab your favorite liquid illuminator and apply it to your cupid’s bow vertically,” says Caitlin Picou, makeup artist and owner of Kismet Cosmetics. “This makes your top lip pop. Take it further by applying the same illuminator to the inner parts of your lips, as well.”

Want someone to get lost in your eyes?

What’s that saying…the windows are the eyes of the house? It’s something like that.
In any case, you can command a room with your wicked winged liner and flawless smokey eye with this foolproof eye makeup process.
“Start with a cream eyeshadow base to intensify the staying power and the pigments in the shadow,” says makeup artist and founder of Formula Z Cosmetics, Zach Dishinger. “After you apply the base, line your eyes with eyeliner and blend it on top of the cream base. Next, move on to your powdered shadows.”

Mascara can take your look to the next level, but it’s not always easy to apply. The brushes can be unwieldy, and if you say that you’ve never accidentally poked yourself in the eye, you’re either remarkably coordinated or lying.
“Place a finger or a makeup sponge behind the lash to prevent the mascara from smudging on your face or eye area,” says Dishinger.
What if you make a mistake and apply too much? “Let the mascara dry completely,” Towery says. “Once it’s dry, take a clean Q-tip and wipe it off. It won’t smudge and ruin your makeup.”

When your favorite tube has run out, always save the brush.
“Keep the wand and use it with cheap mascara to save some money,” says Towery. “Mascara is mascara; the wand is what makes the difference.”

Some cosmetics are remarkably versatile.

“If there are colors you don’t use in your contour and highlight palettes, use them as eyeshadows,” says Towery.

Pretty much any cosmetic can work as a highlighter, although you’ll want to check before putting a product near your eyes or lips if it’s not designed for that express purpose. We’re big fans of the eyeshadow-as-lip-liner movement, but some intense colors have mineral additives that we’d rather not consume accidentally.

Finally, don’t assume that the most expensive brands are worth the money.

As we mentioned earlier, you don’t need to buy the most expensive beauty products to see the best results. Cheap mascaras are essentially the same as the expensive ones (other than the brush), and you can easily find decent makeup for $10 or less.

“Drugstore products are a great way to save money. Not everything is amazing, but there are hidden gems,” says Towery. “Instead of having trial and error and wasting money on random products, look up reviews and tutorials on YouTube on products to see what to buy. Some of my holy grail products are from the drugstore.”
Here’s more on drugstore beauty products vs. their high-end counterparts.

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How To Bring The Ancient Art Of Sage Cleansing Into Your Home

Think of a time when you had a bad feeling or negative outlook that you just couldn’t shake. Maybe negative emotions left over from an upsetting encounter were at play or you went into a new space and immediately felt something was “off.” Whether you credit this to intuition, energy, spirits, or something else entirely, we’ve all had the experience of our sixth sense kicking in. Although these moments are usually fleeting, they can be a real nuisance if they stick around, and you might wonder if there are any ways to turn the feeling around. Enter sage cleansing.
Burning sage, a practice also known as smudging, is said to help clear negative energies. It can be done to clear the energy around a particular person—yourself included—or to remove bad energy from a space.
The practice has caught on in recent years as evidenced by social media, but it has been around for much longer than our likes, saves, and Pinterest boards. In fact, Native American shamans have used sage smoke to carry away conflict, anger, unrest, and other negative emotions for generations.
We cleanse negativity out and we use this also to pray. It’s very spiritual in our culture,” Mary Ellen, a member of the Mi’kmaw people, an indigenous culture native to eastern Canada, tells HealthyWay.
While it may sound unusual or even exotic, many people who have experimented with and adopted sage cleansing in recent years report that they’ve had positive experiences. Here’s everything you need to know about sage cleansing, from what to expect to how to smudge at home—regardless of where you live or your culture of origin.

What is sage?

Sage is a low-growing shrub that belongs to the mint family. Many of us are familiar with its use as an herb in culinary applications, but sage has also been associated with healing and wellness since ancient times—and not just in North American indigenous cultures. The Romans used sage in sacred ceremonies and the herb’s scientific name, Salvia, which comes from Latin, actually means “to be in good health” or “to save,” proving that the plant has long been associated with well-being and renewal.

What is sage cleansing?

One of the most common questions about sage cleansing goes something like this: “But what is it?” Because many people are unfamiliar with the concepts behind smudging, it’s a good idea to start with its most basic definition.
[pullquote align=”center”]Native American shamans have used sage smoke to carry away conflict, anger, unrest, and other negative emotions for generations.[/pullquote]
“Sage cleansing, otherwise known as ‘smudging’ is simply the act of burning sage or sage-scented incense in your home,” says Caleb Backe, a health and wellness expert who works for Maple Holistics.
Donna Henes, a Brooklyn resident and urban shaman who makes a living doing space clearings and blessings that often involve burning sage says, “As long as there have been houses, people everywhere have made sure to cleanse them spiritually to ensure a safe, supportive, comforting environment in which to live.”
She goes on to say, “All sorts of methods have been and still are employed to accomplish this. The fragrant smoke of burning herbs is probably the most common method.” People have relied on different herbs indigenous to their environments including juniper, camphor, frankincense, and myrrh, but sage—commonly used by Native Americans—has become the go-to herb for smudging.

The Spiritual History of Sage Cleansing

Sage has and continues to play an integral part in diverse rituals and complex belief systems, and the basic premise that supports its use for smudging is that sage smoke can carry away negative feelings.
“The belief is that the smoke will blow any negative energy away and also carry the blessings and prayers for a sacred home out into the universe,” Henes says.
Lori Knowles, a professional space clearer and founder of Soul Advancement Path in Nashville says that burning and smoke are tied to renewal in many cultures and spiritual belief systems.
“Fire is destructive and smoke is a by-product, but spiritually these forces purify and cleanse.”
She goes on to say, “Rituals use fire and smoke to facilitate purifying and cleansing without the destruction.” Sage, specifically, has additional benefits according to Knowles.
“I believe sage smoke grounds inharmonious energy and that’s why it’s most commonly used. Our bodies are wired to unconsciously ground our energy when we smell sage smoke.”
[pullquote align=”center”]“Fire is destructive and smoke is a by-product, but spiritually these forces purify and cleanse.”
—Lori Knowles, Soul Advancement Path[/pullquote]
Mary Ellen explains that the Mi’kmaw people use sage cleansing often. “Our people smudge regularly,” she says. “It’s to get the negativity away. We smudge in ceremonies and events. We pray to the creator for positive outlook in our troubling times but also for strength and clarity.”
She says the use of sage is representative of people wanting harmony in their lives—and she doesn’t just mean the Mi’kmaw people.
According to Mary Ellen, people of all ethnic and cultural backgrounds have always been invited to participate in sage cleansing, so she is not concerned by the ritual’s sudden-onset mainstream appeal. She says she’s noticed lots of individuals who are not Indigenous people use smudging to cleanse.
“It doesn’t bother me because when we have gatherings we invite everyone to smudge.”

The Psychology of Sage

Sage cleansing is definitely a spiritually-inspired practice, so a certain level of belief can help people tune into the richness of the ritual. That said, Knowles tells HealthyWay that most people can tap into some connection with the practice of smudging.
“You don’t have to have a spiritual belief system to benefit,” she says. Most people understand the idea of a “vibe,” and Knowles says that feeling or concept can be used to understand sage cleansing, even for people without deep spiritual beliefs.
[pullquote align=”center”]People of all ethnic and cultural backgrounds have always been invited to participate in sage cleansing, so she is not concerned by the ritual’s sudden-onset mainstream appeal.[/pullquote]
“The vibe is the energy being emitted from a person, place, or thing,” Knowles says. After sage cleansing, the vibe will likely feel different, even to people who are skeptical.
Still not sold? Consider this: Backe says, “When sage is burned, it is known to change the ionic composition of the air that it comes into contact with—which can have a notable effect on our stress levels.”
Erick Kenneth French, a licensed clinical social worker and author and illustrator of Iphelia: Awakening the Gift of Feeling, points out that the smoke and the smell of sage change a space in small ways that our minds and bodies pick up on.
“The smell of the environment is changed and there is a very subtle change in the temperature and texture of the air when sage is burned which is highly symbolic and suggests to the subconscious mind that things are now different,” he says.

Why would I want to do a sage cleanse (and when)?

People who practice sage cleansing regularly tend to smudge because they believe burning sage removes heavy, negative energy out of a space or away from a person. Henes, for one, says “The practice of burning sage or any other substance serves to clear the air of stagnant, disagreeable energy and to lift the aura of the surroundings.”
Some people incorporate smudging into their lives almost daily, while others reserve it for religious or ceremonial events. And then there are those who first experiment with sage cleansing when they’ve had a negative or intense experience they want to move past.
Journalist Karen J. Irvine of Brattleboro, Vermont, for example, first found herself sage cleansing after tenants caused roughly $10,000 in damages to a house she owned.
“I scrubbed and scrubbed for days, but I still felt like there was an bad aura that lingered,” Irvine says. “I had to try something else.”
Irvine called her sister, who she says has always had an interest in herbs and rituals. Her sister recommended using sage to cleanse the space. Irvine found that the concept didn’t feel as foreign as one might have anticipated.
“It made sense because every time I have moved into a new home I roast a chicken as soon as I can using plenty of thyme.” After that, she says, “the house always feels more like home.”
Irvine collected sage from her garden and began spreading its smoke throughout the house.
[pullquote align=”center”]“When sage is burned, it is known to change the ionic composition of the air that it comes into contact with—which can have a notable effect on our stress levels.”
—Caleb Backe, Maple Holistics[/pullquote]
“As I did this I said a silent prayer and told the ill will to go away, not with anger but determination,” she recalls. The results were impressive. “I felt immediately better. Now our home felt like ours again—with a predominating positive energy.”
French, the licensed clinical social worker, uses sage cleansing in his therapy practice, especially after particularly intense group therapy sessions.
“The work we do is very powerful and can often lead to very strong cathartic releases of sadness or shame or even rage,” he says. “The most important thing for me is to shake off or cleanse any residual feeling-energy from the very intense and traumatic emotional releases that take place in our therapeutic work.”
Smudging after emotional release—like an argument, mourning a loss, or coming home frustrated and winding up even more agitated by the messes in your living space—might be a way for you to tune into and take care of your surroundings, then reset and move on from the negativity.
French also suggests that beyond clearing a space, sage cleansing can have a positive impact on the way you think and feel about yourself.
“There is a subtle energetic field that surrounds our bodies that has a powerful effect on how we feel and how we perceive ourselves and the world,” he says. “Smudging with sage is a way of disinfecting that subtle energy field.”

Will I feel different after sage cleansing?

The idea of sage cleansing or “disinfecting” a space can be hard to grasp if you’ve never tried it, but people who use the method say they feel an immediate difference once they’ve started implementing the ritual.
“Generally, I would say my mind is more clear and it is easier for me to be fully present for next activity,” French says of his experience after sage cleansing. “And even though I may actually be a little dirty from having just been dusted with smoke and ash, I feel clean.”
[pullquote align=”center”]“The most important thing for me is to shake off or cleanse any residual feeling-energy from the very intense and traumatic emotional releases that take place in our therapeutic work.”
—Erick Kenneth French, LCSW[/pullquote]
French says he also sleeps better after cleansing himself and his space with sage. Likewise, Knowles experiences a big difference in her outlook after sage cleansing.
“Before a sage cleansing, I will feel heavy, emotional, reactive energy. I see less color and life. My body is affected. It’s hard to breathe. I feel more emotional,” she says. She also points out that the structure and makeup of her surroundings is less obvious to her before cleansing.
“After a sage cleansing, I will feel the land, the structure, the items in structure, and the people who live and work there are lighter. There is less perceivable energetic weight. I feel that it’s easier to breathe, the atmosphere is crisper, energetic data can move quicker, and peace abounds.”

How To: Buying Sage and DIY Sage Cleansing

Whether you’re looking to create a spiritual experience, establish a self-care ritual, or experiment with the many ways in which changing your atmosphere can impact your mood, you may be keen to give the practice of sage cleansing a try for yourself. The first thing to do is find white sage, the species typically used for sage cleansing.
White sage is different from the sage used for cooking and is known for a host of health benefits, from healing wounds to relieving menstrual pain. That said, for sage cleansing purposes, it’s best to seek white sage out separately. Luckily, it is readily available online, and you can even purchase bundles or wands that are bound specifically for burning so you don’t have to do that yourself. Some people also like to incorporate a seashell into their smudging practice to catch the ash that falls as the sage burns, although a plate or similar object will also work well.
When you’re ready to begin the the sage cleansing process, light the sage and walk through each room of your house or apartment, making sure that the sage reaches the corners of every room by wafting the smoke in the right direction. You can also concentrate on windows and doors, Henes says.
Her advice: “As you spread the smoke, also spread your blessings for a home that is safe, comfortable, and welcoming.”
French says it’s important to take a moment to set your intention and to remember it as you move throughout the space burning the sage.
“Intention is everything and feelings are real, so the person smudging the environment should hold their intention in mind to cleanse whatever’s just been released or anything glomming on from the past or from having participated in someone else’s work or emotional processing,” he says.
[pullquote align=”center”]“As you spread the smoke, also spread your blessings for a home that is safe, comfortable, and welcoming.”

—Donna Henes, Mama Donna’s Space Clearning & Blessings[/pullquote]
If you’re doing a sage cleanse on yourself, begin at your head and swirl the smoking sage around your trunk and all your extremities.
“I make sure to spread the smoke all around me, covering every area of my aura and body,” says Charlotte McFarlin, a yoga instructor in Brownsville, Vermont, who does sage cleansing regularly.
Although the process will not take long, the results of the sage cleansing should take effect immediately.
“After you have smudged your house with the smoke of burning sage you will feel that the atmosphere that surrounds you has cleared and your mood will feel uplifted,” Henes says. “Even your pets will exhibit a relaxed calmness after a sage cleansing of your space.”
Ready to give it a try? Check out our favorite picks for an at-home smudging experience:

 
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Rest & Recharge: Products That Promote A Better Night's Sleep

Sleep doesn’t always come easy once you enter the adult world, and sometimes the sleep you do manage to fit in isn’t restful. If you’ve ever sworn that you’d pay an unimaginable amount of money just to wake up feeling well rested, you’re definitely not alone. But you don’t have spend lots of money or jump through crazy hoops to make it happen. With these simple products, you can get the great night’s sleep you’ve always wanted with minimal effort.

Natural Sleepy Time Lavender

Scents can help soothe you to sleep when it’s time to hit the sheets, and this salve is the perfect addition to your nighttime routine. When you’re ready to go to bed, just smooth the salve over your temples, on your chest, under your nose, and even on the bottoms of your feet to help get your body into a relaxed state. With lavender flowers and essential oil, it’s the perfect way to calm your mind, body, and soul for a night of restful sleep.

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Diffuser and Essential Oils

If a salve isn’t quite your thing, you can get the same calming effects of aromatherapy by diffusing essential oils. Not only do diffusers add a decorative touch to any room, but using them also helps to add moisture to the air, making it easier for you to breathe and feel better rested when you wake up. Pair the diffuser with this starter kit of relaxing essential oils, and once you incorporate it in your routine, we’re confident it’s a practice you’ll keep.

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This Works Deep Sleep Pillow Spray

For the simplest way to incorporate aromatherapy into your nighttime routine, look no further than the Deep Sleep Pillow Spray from This Works. There’s no plugging anything in or rubbing anything on—all you do is mist your pillow with the lavender-infused spray and reap the benefits. Keep the bottle on your nightstand for an instant spritz of relaxing, natural fragrance whenever you need a little extra help keeping your eyes closed.

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Marpac Dohm White Noise Machine

Whether you live in a bustling city or just need a little something in the background to help you fall asleep, a white noise machine can mask sounds that would otherwise keep you from getting good rest. The machine works by giving your brain one constant sound to focus on, helping you to relax your way into a deep sleep. Whether you use it at home or take it with you when you’re on the go, the sound is adjustable so you can always get to sleep no matter where you are.

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WelleCo Sleep Tea

If your normal cup of bedtime tea just isn’t doing the trick anymore, why not try a blend that’s specifically made for promoting a sense of calm and relaxation? The Fortified Calming Tea from WelleCo combines lemon balm, valerian root, and passion flower for a powerful drink that’ll help you get to sleep at night—or even just slow down a little during the day.

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Blackout Curtains

If you’re sensitive to light, closing the curtains and blinds probably won’t be enough to get your room to the optimal dark state you need to fall asleep. To really rid your space of any trace of light, blackout curtains are the way to go. Available in 29 colors to match any decor, these curtains will not only help to block light from entering your space but also insulate your room to keep it at the perfect temperature. They can even help filter out distracting outside noises.

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Therapedic TruCool Memory Foam Pillow

Sleep on the wrong pillow and you’re pretty much guaranteed to toss and turn all night long. Not only that, but some pillows trap heat the longer you use them, so even flipping them to the cooler side won’t work after a few hours. A memory foam will give you the comfort you need during the night, and this TruCool pillow is also designed to allow air to flow through the pillow, keeping your head cool throughout the night so you never have to toss and turn to get comfortable. Back and stomach sleepers can try this version.

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SHEEX Bamboo Sheets

Do you often find yourself getting hot throughout the night, even when it’s cooler outside? It’s a common problem, but these moisture-wicking sheets from SHEEX can help. They are designed to wick sweat away from your body during the night, keeping you dry and cool while you sleep. The lightweight, breathable fabric will feel great against your skin, too, keeping you cozy and comfortable all night long.

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Monkey See, Monkey Do: How To Set A Good Example For Your Kids

When my sister was little, my mother had a particularly foul-mouthed friend. One day, the two women and their two kids were in the car, trying to park on a busy street. The other mom was having a really hard time of it.
Her 3-year-old yelled out from the back seat, “Just park the f***ing car, Mom!”
Cue instant embarrassment.
Don’t worry if you’ve been there—what mom hasn’t? From the mouths of babes tumble forth swear words, insults, and even tales of bodily functions meant to be kept secret.
“I think most children learn to swear in the car, because almost all of us have done it and there’s so much at stake!” says Barbara Kaiser, early childhood consultant, trainer, and co-author of Challenging Behavior in Young Children: Understanding, Preventing and Responding Effectively.
So how do we stop our kids from mimicking our bad behavior? And more importantly, how do we set a good example?

How do kids really learn?

“Babies imitate everything we do,” explains Kaiser. “I was chewing gum recently while playing with my grandson and he was making funny faces with his mouth and I realized he was copying me!”
Kids take in the world through imitation, Kaiser says, and actions speak much louder than words. “They are much more attuned to what you do than to what you say. Research shows that 85 to 90 percent of your message is not what you say but how you say it.” (Want to see a clear example of this? Watch this.) Children are very tuned in to our facial expressions and body language.
“There is nothing more profound than telling kids what to do and then not doing it yourself,” Kaiser says. “You lose trust. They don’t believe you.”
Does this sound familiar? Two siblings are yelling at each other. In order to calm the chaos, you interfere…by yelling “Don’t yell at your sister!” How are they learning to resolve the conflict?
Modeling good citizenship (as opposed to, say, money management skills) needs to start early—like, at birth. Once a child turns 10, it’s a little late to say, “Okay! Time to be a good person!”
Here are three keys points to keep in mind:

1. Treat others the way … you want your kid to treat others.

Although every person is wired differently, it is unrealistic to expect your child to be a loving, considerate, empathetic person if you do not model those behaviors for them. It isn’t enough to say, “Be nice!” or “Listen!” and not do it yourself. A child may not know what exactly those directives mean.
Rather than simply saying “Be kind to others,” do something. Help your spouse around the house, which teaches your kid about teamwork. Pick up garbage and teach them to recycle and compost, which teaches care for the world. Volunteer with your kid. Take food to a sick friend. Speak kindly to others everywhere you go. It is only when a child sees the behavior modeled that she knows every instance in which treating others well and engaging appropriately is possible.
This is particularly important when it comes to fighting gender stereotypes. When my parents come to visit, my father does all the cooking. My daughter declared one day, “Grandpas cook!” No one had told her this. She had simply seen it in action. (This is much better than all the “We are all equal!” declarations in the world that aren’t backed up by much.) To see it is to believe it.

2. Don’t just tell them how to resolve conflicts. Show them how.

There’s a striking moment In Jancee Dunn’s bestselling book, How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids. Dunn admits to having a temper, and in the middle of a couples therapy session, the counselor tells her that when she’s screaming at her husband, her 6-year-old daughter thinks she’s yelling at her. A child often cannot distinguish between the two. They hear yelling and it scares them.
It is vital that our children learn how to resolve conflict by means other than screaming, hitting, or storming out. They also need to learn that simply saying sorry usually isn’t enough to resolve a conflict or mend hurt feelings.
A better way to model conflict resolution is to talk it out and show affection and understanding. This is not to say that you should resolve your marital conflicts in front of your kids! But it is okay for kids to witness conflict—it’s a natural part of being in a relationship, and kids should understand that. What’s not okay is allowing the behavior to spiral out of control with no resolution.

3. Remember: They can hear you.

Actions speak louder than words—especially when kids are really little—but kids are always picking up language. This is sometimes hard to register, especially after you’ve repeated “Put on your shoes” for the 8,000th time, but they are taking in everything you’re saying, whether they’re responding to it the way you wish they would or not.
This doesn’t just apply to swearing but all language—how you talk to your spouse, your friends, the people at the grocery store, on the phone. (In fact, they pick up on tone much more than the actual words.) This doesn’t mean you should suddenly go silent, but be aware that there’s a little brain soaking up your every word, so think before you add a four letter word or particularly biting tone to your vocalizations of exasperated thought.

Need a few practical tips?

Want to limit screen time? Limit your own.

Most of us set rules around our children’s screen time—but do we limit our own device usage in their presence? “What is quality time?” Kaiser asks. “It doesn’t mean standing next to your child on your phone. Are you really spending quality time with your child?”
This is perfect example of monkey see, monkey do. Why should they limit the time they spend on the iPad when their mom’s face is glued to her phone all day?

Don’t clean up after them.

This one can begin very early. Do not get into the habit of letting your kids make messes that you fix or clean up for them. You know those wonderful songs preschool teachers sing? “Clean up! Clean up! Everybody everywhere. Clean up! Clean up! Everybody do your share”? This isn’t just for school.
All the rules that apply in public should apply at home: Teach him to clear his plate, to put away her clothes, and clean up their Legos. With young kids, framing it as a race often makes it a fun game (“I bet I can put away more Legos than you!”).
Keep this in mind: Kids who don’t clean up after themselves at 4 don’t miraculously start doing it at 14.

Teach them the value of money early.

This year for Hanukkah, my husband and I gave our daughter $20 to spend however she wanted. She chose to go to a dance supply store and buy herself a leotard. Of course she wanted everything in the store, so she had to budget, which meant finding a leotard that was on sale and choosing accessories that didn’t send her over her limit. She was thrilled to find what she wanted, and the process of making decisions about what she could or couldn’t afford—and therefore pinpointing what she really wanted—was empowering and educational.

Cook (and garden, paint, and repair the house) together.

How does anything get done around the house? From cooking dinner every night to mowing the lawn on the weekend to repairing leaks in the roof, a parent is usually taking care of business around the home. Rather than shipping the kids off with an iPad, integrate them into the process.
Invite a little one to sit on the counter while you cook (they can rip off mushroom stems or measure and pour); ask for an assistant to help with a repair. This teaches them how a family keeps a household going, and proves they are vital members of the team.

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DIY Your Own Small-Space Succulent Garden

I love having plants around the house. I wept tears of joy when my cactus, which I had nursed back to health after purchasing it from the grocery store clearance bin for a dollar, bloomed this year.
My husband, who has vigilantly watched me for signs of postpartum depression, thought I needed to call my doctor ASAP when he found me shedding tears over a houseplant.
While postpartum hormones probably did contribute to the crying, I was just so overjoyed to see my little plant thriving.
Usually I bring home houseplants only to find them brown and droopy a week later despite my best efforts. But this time, my little cactus that could beat the odds!
That’s what so great about succulents. Even if you’ve killed every houseplant you’ve ever had, odds are you can keep a succulent alive because they thrive with minimal care.
What’s more—a study by NASA suggests that houseplants like succulents are beneficial for your health because they actually remove toxins like benzene (a chemical commonly found in household cleaners and building materials) from the air.
In addition to improving indoor air quality, according to a 2015 study, interactions with indoor plants like succulents may reduce physical and mental stress. The study involved 24 subjects who completed a computer project, then transplanted an indoor plant. After working with plants, the subjects reported feeling soothed, less stressed, and more comfortable. The subjects didn’t just feel better after the transplant task; scientists noticed that participants’ blood pressure was also significantly lower after working with plants, proving that indoor plants can have a positive impact on both physical and mental health.

Because of their size, succulent gardens are also ideal for small spaces. Even if you’ve only got a windowsill or small shelf to spare, you’ve got room for a succulent garden.
Not sure where to start? Here’s a handy how-to guide for creating your very own succulent garden.

Succulent Succulents

The word succulent comes from the Latin root word sucus, which means “juicy” and, everyone’s favorite word, “moist.”
And that’s exactly what a succulent plant is.
Succulents are plants with extra fleshy tissues that are able to retain large stores of moisture, making them well-suited for arid climates with little rain. Succulents are also usually pest-resistant, which is just another reason they’re so easy to care for.
While succulents generally require little maintenance, you do need to know a little bit about succulent care to start your own succulent garden. I spoke to Justin Hancock, Horticulturalist and Garden Expert at Costa Farms, a house and garden plant company headquartered in Miami, about everything you need to know to grow your own succulent garden.

Dirt is dirt, right?

Au contraire, ma petite plante succulente.
Outdoors, any sandy or well-draining soil works well for succulents,” says Hancock. “If your ground is heavy clay, it’s best to grow succulents in raised beds or containers so the roots don’t stay too wet.”
For indoor succulents, Hancock recommends getting a potting mix made specifically for cacti and succulents, like this custom-mixed soil from Farmbrook Designs, and using a pot with drainage holes at the bottom instead of a solid base.

So how much should I water my succulents?

“Outdoors, in general, you may not need to water your succulents at all if they’re in a spot that’s exposed to natural rainfall,” Hancock explains. “If they’re in pots or you’re going through a severe drought, water them on an as-needed basis.”
Hancock goes on to say, “Indoor succulents may need watering once every 10 to 20 days or so, depending on conditions (the type of succulent, how big the pot is, how dry the air is, how warm it is, etc.).”
So how can you tell if your succulent needs water?
“One way that’s fairly straightforward to tell with indoor succulents is to insert a toothpick up a drainage hole at the bottom of the pot, says Hancock. “If the toothpick comes out clean, your succulent will probably appreciate a drink. If it comes out with little bits of potting mix sticking to it, there’s usually enough moisture in the potting mix.”
Outdoors or indoors, if your succulents are thirsty, the leaves may turn a grayish color or develop purple tones around the edges. Just like your skin, if succulents get really, really thirsty, the leaves may start to wrinkle.

Help! My succulent is growing out of its pot!

“Most cacti and succulents have relatively small and tidy root systems, so they grow well in small pots,” Hancock explains. “As a general rule though, if the plant gets too big for the pot and wants to tip over, the pot is too small.”
To successfully repot a succulent, you’ll need potting mix and a new pot with drainage holes that is between two and three inches larger than your succulent in diameter.
Fill the new pot with potting mix and water until the soil is wet, but not saturated. When you see water leaking out of the drainage hole, it’s time to stop watering.
Next, gently place your succulent in the new pot, taking care not to injure the roots as you take the succulent out of its current container.
Cover the succulent with the dampened potting mix, but do not water it again. Wait about a week before watering to prevent the roots from rotting in the pot.

Succulents need vitamin D, too!

“If you’re growing succulents inside, the biggest thing to know is that they like lots and lots of light,” says Hancock. “If you have a succulent in a dim spot, it’s not going to be happy and thrive.”
A good spot for an indoor succulent is a windowsill that gets indirect sunlight for most of the day.
While succulents do like lots of sunshine, they can actually sunburn just like people do, especially if they’re planted in an outdoor garden.

So how do you know if your succulent is sunburned?
Look for white discoloration on the outer edges of its leaves or deep brown scar-like ridges on the parts of the plant that were in direct sunlight.
If you notice your succulent is getting too much sun, move it to a shadier location immediately. If the sunburn is mild, moving it to a better location will help reverse the sunburn. If the sunburn is severe, the damage is permanent and the plant will just have to grow the damage out over time.
“We say all the time how easy succulents are to grow, and it’s true from a watering standpoint,” Hancock says, “but only if they get the right amount of brightness.”

How does your (succulent) garden grow?

Even if you’re not the artsy-fartsy type, a succulent garden is the perfect way to really let your creativity show. Jess Riddle, who grows and designs gorgeous succulent gardens with her two assistants, rescue pups Eddie and June, and showcases her work on Instagram, shares her favorite succulent garden design tips:
Consider the color palette of your space and what colors would work best with your surroundings. If you have a warm space, try some succulents with orange, red, and golden tones. If you have a more tranquil relaxing space, then try a mixture of blue, pink, and purple tones,” says Riddle. “But, you can never go wrong with a classic green succulent in any environment!”
Riddle also advises beginner succulent gardeners to choose a container carefully, making sure that any succulent container you choose has a way for water to drain away from the plant’s roots.
“Think of your container as a canvas that helps the plants in the arrangement to really pop,” Riddles says. “Personally, I prefer a simple white ceramic pot with minimal design detail. I find that simpler pots tend to allow the succulents to shine instead of taking away any of the spotlight. Also, concrete and terra cotta pots are great for wicking away excess moisture from the soil. The aesthetics of these pots also lend themselves to either traditional or more modern spaces.”
Riddle goes on to say, “Arranging succulents is dance between the mixture of color, texture, size and, most importantly, the succulent’s own individual needs.”
You may need to experiment a bit to find which succulents work best together, but don’t be afraid to play around and find a combination that you love.
“When I create a succulent arrangement I try to include a range of sizes from tall kalanchoe to chubby medium-small sized echeveria and sedums that drape over the edge of your container,” Riddle says. “Including a range of sizes and shapes creates a more dramatic and engaging arrangement.”

Succulent Garden Guide

Not sure what to plant in your succulent garden? Here’s a handy beginner’s guide to the best succulents for your space:

Single and NOT Ready to Mingle

These succulents don’t like to share. They grow best solo in a single pot.

Aloe Vera

Aloe vera is one of the most well-known succulent plants because it has been used medicinally for thousands of years. Aloe vera can grow quite large, so it’s best to plant aloe in its own pot and place it in a sunny spot. I keep my aloe plant in the kitchen, where I can easily reach it if I accidentally get a minor burn or scrape while cooking.

Mother-in-Law’s Tongue

Sansevieria, more commonly known (in my opinion, a little harshly!) as mother-in-law’s tongue, is a hardy succulent great for gardening beginners. Sansevieria is also one of the best plants to grow for indoor air purification.
According to the NASA air quality study, sansevieria removed benzene and formaldehyde from indoor environments in large quantities. Be careful, though: This succulent is toxic to dogs and cats, so if you have pets, keep it somewhere safe.

These succulents love the great outdoors.

Have a small outdoor garden spot? Consider planting stonecrops. These colorful succulents in the Sedum family are adorable, low-growing plants that come in several varieties and are perfect for mini gardens and ground cover.
Three pretty stonecrops to put in your outdoor succulent garden are:

Sedum Makinoi (Ogon)

This bright green succulent is ideal for outdoor gardens in USDA gardening zones 6 through 9 (these zones are the gold standard for determining planting seasons, so get to know yours), which includes about two thirds of the U.S. Ogon is perfect if your garden is a little on the shady side, especially if you live in a hot, humid climate. This little succulent grows super fast and blooms with little yellow, star-like flowers in the summer months.

Blue Pearl Sedum

Blue Pearl Sedum is a charming little stonecrop that, as its name implies, has brilliant blue leaves and bright pink blooms in summer. If you’re doing your part to save the bees, Blue Pearl is a great addition to a backyard garden space designed to attract pollinators.

Sedum Spathulifolium

Also called broadleaf or Colorado stonecrop, Sedum spathulifolium grows in tiny little rosettes low to the ground. This succulent doesn’t need a whole lot of attention, which makes it ideal for spaces in your garden where you can’t get anything else to grow.

Everything’s better in miniature.

I can’t be the only only who loves tiny things. If you love adorable miniatures, Sempervivum are the perfect tiny succulents for a miniature indoor succulent garden. Also known as hen and chicks, Sempervivum is a family of cold-hardy succulents that grow in a variety of sizes and textures. These succulents are perfect for propagation, because they produce many little “chicks” from one “hen.”
To propagate a Sempervivum, follow the same steps as repotting. Then, pluck a chick from near the bottom of the main Sempervivum and just press it into the top of the soil (no need to dig a hole). Water only when the soil feels completely dry. 
While there are hundreds of varieties, here are three of the most popular and easy-to-grow Sempervivum succulents for a miniature succulent garden:

Sempervivum Tectorum (Royanum)

Sempervivum tectorum, also known as Royanum, is what most people associate with a hen and chicks variety of succulent. This petite succulent’s leaves are bright green, with a deep red border, sort of like little red and green pine cones. These succulents multiply quickly, so you’ll need to snap off chicks or repot if your garden starts getting too full.

Sempervivum Calcareum (Sir William Lawrence)

A little succulent with a big name, Sempervivum calcareum, known more commonly as Sir William Lawrence, compliments Royanum in a small succulent garden because of its similar coloring. Sir William Lawrence rosettes are still the same brilliant green color, but only the tips are red, unlike Royanum.

Sempervivum Arachnoideum (Cobweb Hen and Chicks)

The only spooky thing about this succulent is its name! Cobweb hen and chicks gets its name from the wispy, white hairs that cover the small rosettes. This cute succulent is perfect for a rock garden because it requires very little water to thrive.
Whatever succulents you choose for your garden, take Riddle’s advice: “As long as you are enjoying yourself, you’re doing it right!”

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In the Kitchen Nosh

Cooking With Cauliflower (And A Roasted Cauliflower Recipe To Fall In Love With)

Cauliflower has been enjoying a lasting resurgence in popularity over the past year and has become a permanent fixture on social media channels and food blogs all over the world. Although cauliflower has become a replacement for all kinds of traditionally carb-loaded foods such as rice, pizza crusts, and even mashed potatoes, it truly shines as an ingredient when it’s tossed with herbs and spices, then roasted.

Why You Should Be Loving Cauliflower

Pleasantly nutty with a mild cabbage-like flavor, cauliflower can be roasted, riced, boiled, puréed, steamed, or mashed in place of potatoes. Next time you’re in the mood for a pasta bake, substitute the noodles with roasted or steamed cauliflower for a gluten-free riff on your favorite recipe. Cauliflower can also be a good starch-alternative if you follow a plant-based diet that’s high in carbs seeing as a single cup of steamed cauliflower contains only 2.7 grams of carbohydrates.
From a nutritional standpoint, cauliflower is very low in calories (a single cup of boiled cauliflower contains only 14 calories), contains a negligible amount of fat, and is an excellent source of vitamin C.

Roasted Cauliflower

Roasting cauliflower brings out the vegetable’s deeply nutty and mildly sweet flavors. Spices such as cumin, coriander, and za’atar add an earthiness inspired by Middle Eastern cuisine. Leftover roasted cauliflower is delicious tucked into a pita or as the base for vegan tacos.

Serves: 4 people as a side or 2 people as a main

Ingredients:

  • 1 medium-sized head of cauliflower
  • 3 cloves of garlic, finely minced
  • 3 Tbsp. olive oil
  • 2 Tbsp. lemon juice
  • 2 tsp. cumin
  • 1 tsp. coriander
  • 2 tsp. za’atar*
  • ½ tsp. chili flakes (or more if you like plenty of spice)
  • 1 tsp. kosher salt
  • 3 Tbsp. slivered almonds
  • ¼ cup cilantro or parsley, finely chopped

*Za’atar is a Middle Eastern spice blend made up of thyme, sesame seeds, and ground sumac. It can be found in many international, Middle Eastern, or Greek grocery stores or online. Substitute a basic Italian seasoning blend for za’atar if you prefer.

Special Equipment:

  • Large bowl
  • Small bowl
  • Paring knife
  • Measuring spoons
  • Baking sheet
  • Parchment paper
  • Skillet

Method:

  1. Preheat the oven to 375°F.
  2. Using a paring knife, trim the cauliflower of any tough green stalks. Cut the cauliflower into 1-inch pieces and transfer to a large bowl.
  3. In a small bowl whisk together the olive oil, lemon juice, cumin, coriander, za’atar, chili flakes, and salt. Drizzle this mixture over the cauliflower pieces and toss to ensure an even coat (use your hands or a large wooden spoon).
  4. Line a standard-sized baking sheet with parchment paper. Pour the cauliflower and marinade onto the baking sheet and spread out into a single layer.
  5. Roast the cauliflower for 30 to 40 minutes or until browned, stirring every 10 minutes to ensure even roasting.
  6. While the cauliflower is cooking, the almonds can be toasted. Heat a skillet over medium heat and add the slivered almonds to the dry pan. Keep a very close eye on them and stir frequently as they will burn easily. The almonds will be done once they become fragrant and begin to brown in spots. Remove from the skillet onto a small plate to prevent further toasting.
  7. To serve the roasted cauliflower, transfer to a large serving dish and sprinkle with the toasted almonds and cilantro or parsley and drizzle with tahini and yogurt sauce (see below). Serve hot or at room temperature.

Tahini and Yogurt Sauce

In addition to being the perfect roasted cauliflower condiment, this super creamy tahini and yogurt sauce can be used as a dip for veggies, spread onto a sandwich with sprouts and grated carrots, or drizzled over sweet potato wedges. While this recipe will keep in the fridge for up to four days, be warned the garlic flavor becomes more pronounced over time.

Ingredients:

  • 1 cup of plain yogurt (2 percent fat is ideal)
  • 3 Tbsp. tahini
  • 2 cloves of garlic, finely minced
  • 2 Tbsp. lemon juice
  • 1 tsp. smoked paprika
  • Kosher salt, to taste
  • Water

Method:

Whisk together all of the ingredients in a small bowl until smooth, adding cold water one tablespoon at a time until the sauce can easily be drizzled over the roasted cauliflower.

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Happy Home Lifestyle

Swedish Death Cleaning Is The Decluttering Method You Didn’t Know You Needed

If there was ever a task that makes curling up in bed and throwing the comforter over your head sound like a good idea, Swedish death cleaning is right up there. What ever happened to hygge and lykke? Isn’t the new trend to adopt the comfiest Scandinavian habits so we can spend our days cuddling in front of a roaring fire in a pair of slippers?
Well, yes. Danish hygge and its Norwegian cousin lykke are all about comfort. And in its way, Swedish death cleaning, or dostadning as it’s known in Sweden, is too—comfort for you now as you declutter your home…and comfort your family after you’re gone.
The name Swedish death cleaning comes from The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning: How to Free Yourself and Your Family from a Lifetime of Clutter, a book released earlier this year. Author Margareta Magnusson is a Swedish artist and mother of five who describes herself as being somewhere between 80 and 100.
Magnusson may be a first-time author, but her book has created a firestorm. In fact, it’s already been dubbed the new KonMari.
KonMari, of course, refers to organizational consultant Marie Kondo’s “art of tidying up,” which has had us pawing through closets full of stuff over the last few years, determining what gives us joy and what should be hauled to the curb on trash day.
But where Kondo has always suggested focusing inward—literally choosing to keep only what gives us personal pleasure—Magnusson’s death cleaning approach is focused outward, on those who you stand to leave behind if (when?) you die.
As she explains in a video created with her daughters, the idea is to “get rid of the things you have collected and had in your home for a long time.”
“One day, when you’re not around anymore, your family would have to take care of all that stuff,” she says, “and I don’t think that’s fair, really.”
Morbid as it may seem to think about your eventual demise, the method has its merits, regardless of your age. Do you really want someone finding that old pair of undies with the elastic torn out that you just keep forgetting to toss? How about that photo of you from college that you’ve banned your roommates from posting on Facebook? (You know the one.)
“I think I’ve always death cleaned,” Magnusson admits in her video, “because I want to have it nice around me.”
Who can argue with that? Certainly not science. Studies have found that women who consider their homes cluttered and unfinished tend to have higher levels of cortisol, a stress hormone, than those who feel their home is restorative.
The impetus for the Swedish death cleaning trend may be somber, but it can help anyone let go of their packrat tendencies. Consider these tricks to make it work for you:

1. Use the Beanie Baby rule.

You remember those tiny stuffed animals that we held onto for years, convinced they were going to make us a ton of cash? We all know how that turned out. If you’re hanging onto things because they may be worth something later, do some research. If there’s evidence out there that you’re on the right path, keep it. If there’s not, it may be time to re-home.

2. Erase the embarrassment.

If you don’t want someone else to see it, why are you hanging onto it? If it’s truly pleasurable (you know what we mean), keep it. If it’s still with you just because you haven’t had time to kick it to the curb, it’s time to step up.

3. Will you use it?

This is a tough one, especially for those of us who try to be savvy spenders. That ribbon from that gift you got six years ago may come in handy one day! If you throw it out now, you’ll end up spending money to buy a new one! If you’re nodding along right now, you’re not alone, but you’re probably up to your ears in stuff. To make it easier to throw things out or donate them, give yourself a time limit, for example, “I haven’t used this in five years, I can throw it out.”