Categories
Healthy Relationships Wellbeing

How To Unpack And Interpret Mixed Signals

You hear it time and time again: Communication is key to a successful relationship. But how can you ever get to that point if the person you’re seeing keeps sending you mixed signals?
They tell you they need space, then text you all day long. They don’t want you to date other people, but they don’t want to be exclusive. They seem really into you, yet don’t prioritize time together. What gives?
Mixed signals might as well be ancient Egyptian hieroglyphics when it comes to the energy it takes to decipher them. But once you get to the root of where the miscommunication is coming from, you can begin interpreting what mixed signals really mean for your relationship—and communicate in a way that makes you both feel heard and understood.
To help you unpack mixed signals in your love life, HealthyWay sat down with Shirani Pathak, LCSW, a relationship counselor, holistic psychotherapist, and founder of the Center for Soulful Relationships. Here, she shares how conflicting attachment styles might be to blame for crossed wires, why miscommunication might not always be a red flag, and examples of mixed signals you’re most likely to encounter when you date. Plus, she offers some effective communication strategies that can help you both say what you really mean—no shame or blame necessary.

What are mixed signals?

You’ve heard your girlfriends groan that they’re getting mixed signals from guys and girls they’re dating—and now you suspect you’re experiencing them yourself. What are mixed signals?
“Mixed signals are when someone’s being inconsistent in the messages they’re giving people,” Pathak explains.
Mixed signals can simply be miscommunication—your partner tries to express one set of feelings, and it comes out wrong. They can also be intentional, like the dude who’s keeping you on the back burner while he waits to see if someone “better” comes along. But no matter the reason for the mixed signals, they definitely add a new layer of stress and frustration to dating.
“Mixed signals make us feel crazy. We wonder if we’re reading the relationship properly, whether or not this person even has interest in us. It can make you feel like you have no idea what’s going on in a situation and can trigger insecurity in people when mixed messages are coming through,” she says.
[pullquote align=’center’]“Mixed signals are when someone’s being inconsistent in the messages they’re giving people.”
—Shirani Pathak, LCSW[/pullquote]
Sending and receiving mixed signals can occur at any point in a relationship, whether you’ve known the person for 10 days or 10 years. That being said, messy communication like this tends to be more prevalent early in relationships. That’s when we’re still getting to know each other and are often too vulnerable to be who we really are.
“It usually happens early on. Online dating has absolutely made mixed signals even more common because there are just so many more options [of people to date] out there. People are constantly on the search for someone better,” says Pathak.
No matter when or where mixed signals happen, they can be equal parts confusing and frustrating—especially if you really like the person. But your partner’s behavior is in no way a reflection of who you are. At your wit’s end with mixed signals? Don’t blame yourself.

The Psychology Behind Mixed Signals

Most people don’t get into a relationship in an attempt to mislead their partner. And yet, poor communication between two people who like each other means they don’t always convey what they really mean. Why do people send mixed signals, despite intending to be open and honest?
One of the biggest problems is that most of us haven’t quite learned how to say how we truly feel. It gets tied up in blame, doubts, and insecurities that then turn into mixed signals. We build walls in our relationships when we don’t express our true feelings.
“We haven’t been taught how to communicate clearly, with love and kindness, about what we really want and need. It’s a skill set that needs to be cultivated,” says Pathak.
On-screen communication catalyzes mixed signals as well. Without hearing a person’s voice or seeing their body language, it’s all too easy to misinterpret an otherwise neutral text message (like “I’m not sure what my plans are”) as something else entirely. He might be trying to let you down easy if he wants to decline a date…or he could simply be letting you know that his schedule really is up in the air and he doesn’t want to commit to something he might have to cancel down the road. It’s hard to decipher without those other clues.
And in a world where instant communication is the norm, a delayed response to a text can be the loudest mixed signal of all. We interpret the radio silence as the person being uninterested, and it tends to spiral as we ruminate on what that potential lack of interest says about us. Was it something I said? Maybe he’s not into me anymore. Is she seeing someone else? Why doesn’t she like me? Or…maybe the person got distracted and forgot to text back. It happens!

Mixed Signals and Attachment Styles

All of these types of mixed signals really go back to something much deeper: our attachment style. We all have one.
About half of us have a secure attachment style, meaning we strive for intimacy and comfort in relationships, while the other half is divided into two groups: the avoidant attachment style and the insecure attachment style.
Those with the avoidant attachment style can get totally freaked out by close relationships and push partners away, while people who have the anxious attachment style crave closeness and tend to come off as a little clingy or overbearing. Those who fall into the avoidant or anxious attachment style categories tend to be the ones sending and receiving mixed signals.
[pullquote align=’center’]Most of us haven’t quite learned how to say how we truly feel. It gets tied up in blame, doubts, and insecurities that then turn into mixed signals.[/pullquote]
“People who have the anxious attachment style are really good at picking up when someone’s starting to distance themselves or when someone’s being inconsistent,” Pathak explains. “That oversensitivity can be a gift when cultivated, but it often comes out sideways [as] mixed signals.”
“As for the avoidant type, they’re the ones constantly looking for someone better out of fear of true intimacy,” Pathak says. “Their mixed signals can lead you to feel like you’re not good enough and wear on your self-esteem.”
There’s no good excuse for sending a mixed signal. But understanding where it’s coming from can help you interpret it, find the right response, and figure out the healthiest way to move forward.

Common Mixed Signals (and How to Interpret Them)

Communication is rarely perfectly clear in a new relationship—you’re haven’t quite learned the inner workings of the other person’s personality. But how do you deal with mixed signals when they come up? Here are some common examples of mixed signals, along with what they might mean.

1. Going Hot and Cold

Everything’s perfect when you go out together: You’re laughing, having deep conversations, and generally enjoying each other’s company. But the next day, they’re completely distant. You try to invite them out again, but all you get is wishy-washy responses—talk about mixed signals! Why can’t they just decide if they like you, once and for all?
What it means: They might be intentionally keeping their options open, or their avoidant attachment style is causing them to pull away. Either way, there’s clearly a barrier to bonding with this person. It’s caused by an inability for them to say what they might really mean, like “I’m still figuring out if this is going to be a fit, and we should keep our options open.”

2. Not Trying to Impress You Anymore

When you first started dating, she dolled herself up for every date, right down to the high heels. You loved seeing her across the table from you, looking her very best. But now that the relationship is settled into a rhythm, it seems like she’s stopped putting in effort. She has swapped her heels for sneakers, her dresses for jeans and a nice top. Instead of asking you out to dinner, she assumes Netflix and takeout for the fifth weekend in a row sounds good. Her casual appearance and too-chill attitude might feel like a mixed signal itself—what happened to the woman I was dating?
What it means: She probably didn’t show up as her most authentic self when you first started dating. She thought she needed to be glammed up to get you to like her.
“We think we have to give off a certain persona in order to be attractive to people,” says Pathak.
Now that she feels comfortable with you and confident you like her, she feels like she can finally be who she really is—and that might be a jeans-and-tee, on-the-couch-homebody kind of girl.
It’s naturally confusing to watch someone’s style do a 180, but it doesn’t necessarily mean she has stopped caring about impressing you and putting effort into the relationship.

3. Mismatched Sex Drives

Your partner told you he loves getting it on all that time. And you’re super into that. But it just doesn’t seem to be happening all that frequently in reality. It feels like a rejection—but is it?
What it means: “Lots of people get upset when their partner’s not as kinky as they thought they were,” says Pathak.
Confusion in the bedroom can be interpreted all sorts of ways. He might feel like you are having sex a lot, and you’ve just got different interpretations of what “a lot” means. He might be stressed out about stuff that has nothing to do with you. Or you both might need to express what does and doesn’t turn you on and make a few tweaks next time you get intimate.

Avoiding Mixed Signals

Mixed signals are just one symptom of a larger issue: an inability to communicate effectively.
This is an issue for both sides of the relationship—the sender of the mixed signals and the receiver. Learning to communicate in a kind, loving, authentic, and direct way can help you get to the bottom of just about any mixed signal. Here are some relationship therapist–approved communication tips for decoding mixed signals:

Show up as your true self.

The best way to avoid misinterpretations is to exude authenticity. Don’t change who you are just to impress a person you’re going out with. Instead, be genuine in how you look and behave starting from day one of any relationship.
“When you give off mixed messages about who you are, you’re going to receive mixed messages. Showing up as the best version of you, and not who someone else wants you to be, will help cut down on mixed messages,” says Pathak.

Approach mixed signals with open curiosity.

It’s really easy to fall into the trap of blaming ourselves when we feel rejected by someone or confused about a relationship. Shift that self-blame into genuine curiosity for your partner as you try to figure out what’s really going on.

Start the dialogue with “I” statements.

The only thing you can ever be sure of in a relationship is how you feel. Using statements that start with “I,” rather than “you,” focuses the dialogue on something that’s true for you, hopefully without putting your partner in defense mode.
[pullquote align=”center”]Mixed signals are just one symptom of a larger issue: an inability to communicate effectively.[/pullquote]
“Pause and check in with yourself and what you’re noticing. It’s okay to say ‘I’m feeling insecure and I’m feeling like I’m getting mixed messages from you.’ Taking ownership of your own feelings can help you more clearly communicate with someone in a relationship,” says Pathak.

Avoid shame and blame.

Conversations about mixed messages can be tense, but shaming and blaming your partner is the fastest way to get them to shut down completely. Aim to stay neutral in your language in as self-assured a way as possible.

Know when it’s time to move on.

If you can’t find common ground in your communication, it might be time to move on. And that’s okay—it has nothing to do with your worth as a partner. It just means the relationship wasn’t the right one for you.
“No matter what happens in a relationship, always remember you are lovable and valuable,” says Pathak. “You are worthy of affection, regardless of a pattern in giving and receiving mixed messages.”

Categories
Food Philosophies Nosh

What Is Carb Cycling And Does It Work? Here’s What Experts Say

It seems like every day there’s a new theory about the healthiest way to eat carbs. Some food philosophies shun them entirely, while others offer a prescription for the best carbohydrates to consume. The latest craze, carb cycling, takes a slightly different approach to this important macronutrient: Cutting back on carbohydrates some days and indulging in your favorite carb-laden foods at other times.
Carb cycling is an approach that’s a lot more balanced than some diets, but it requires you to pay closer attention to how much you’re eating at certain times throughout the week or month. The payoff might be worth it: Followers of carb cycling say the diet helps them burn fat, lose weight, and hit fitness goals—all without giving up the foods they love.
Wondering if carb cycling is the right eating plan for you? Read on to learn how carb cycling works, why it’s important to balance your carbohydrate intake with other macronutrients, and the best ways to get started.

What is carb cycling?

There are probably as many theories about effective carb intake as there are carbohydrate sources in the world. But when it comes to figuring out exactly what these diet plans entail, there seem to be conflicting definitions. So, let’s level set: What is carb cycling?
“Carb cycling is basically eating higher amounts of carbohydrates on some days and lower carbohydrates other days,” explains Amy Goodson, a registered dietitian and board-certified specialist in sports dietetics. “Many people use carb cycling to maximize their fitness, performance, weight loss, and body composition goals.”
The concept of carb cycling is fairly easy to grasp: Days with heavy training should be fueled by higher amounts of carbohydrates, whereas you’re supposed to cut back on carbohydrate intake during periods of low physical activity. But things start to get less clear once you try to nail down the specifics. How many carbs should you be eating? And how do you decide when to alternate between high- and low-carb days?
[pullquote align=”center”]“Carb cycling can work if you do it very carefully, but most people should be working with a registered dietitian to dial in on what they need.”[/pullquote]
Experts agree that the specifics of carb cycling will depend on your lifestyle and the goals you’re striving to achieve. Carb cycling has been traditionally used by professional athletes to help their bodies reach peak performance and appearance ahead of a competition. (So that’s how people drop that last bit of weight before stepping in front of the cameras and commentators!) It’s generally effective at helping people burn fat while maintaining their muscle mass and strength.
How carb cycling fits into your exercise routine and eating habits will vary, but there are some guidelines you can use to start carb cycling. Celebrity fitness and nutrition expert JJ Virgin, author of The Sugar Impact Diet, makes the following recommendations for carbohydrate intake.

On High-Carb Days:

  • Eat 80 to 100 grams of clean, lean protein.
  • Eat 150 to 175 grams of slow, low carbs.
  • Eat 25 grams of healthy fats.

On Low-Carb Days:

  • Eat 80 to 100 grams of clean, lean protein.
  • Eat around 50 grams of slow, low carbs.
  • Eat 40 to 50 grams of healthy fats.

Even if you’re not actively training for a marathon or competing in a bikini in front of hundreds of people, carb cycling can still be a worthwhile approach to managing your weight and feeling well. The overall goal of this eating philosophy is to give your body the right amount of energy you need to power your days—whether you’re doing back-to-back HIIT classes or binge-watching Real Housewives on a Sunday afternoon. (Hey, we don’t judge.)

Does carb cycling actually work?

The theory behind carb cycling makes total sense—you eat fewer energy-inducing foods when you’re at rest and more carbohydrates when you know you’ll be more physically active. But how exactly does carb cycling work?
It has to do with the glycogen, or the storage of sugar from carbs used for energy, in the tissues of your body.
“When you eat fewer carbs, your body turns to stored fat for fuel,” explains Virgin. “Decreasing your carb intake on low-carb days keeps your insulin levels low, which leads to fat burning. High insulin levels send the signal to your body to store fat and lock your fat-burning doors.”
With that being said, scientific research on carb cycling diets is extremely limited, so results may vary. It’s always best to work with a health professional when starting a new diet to increase the chances of success and reduce potential dangers.
“Carb cycling can work if you do it very carefully, but most people should be working with a registered dietitian to dial in on what they need. If you don’t eat enough carbs, you can experience fatigue and likely not get as much out of your workouts,” warns Goodson.

The Pros and Cons of Carb Cycling

No diet can be classified as completely “good” or “bad.” It all goes back to what works given our own individual circumstances. That being said, there are some clear upsides and downsides to carb cycling.

Pros of Carb Cycling

Carb cycling is accessible and convenient for most people. “One advantage of carb cycling is that it can be less restrictive than low-carb diet plans because it allows folks to consume a higher amount of healthy carbs on certain days,” says Virgin.
Carb cycling is flexible, and you can adjust it based on whatever’s going on in your life at a given time. For example, if you have an active social life, you can make your busiest days less restrictive for carb intake. (Go ahead, enjoy those bar snacks at happy hour, sans guilt!)
You don’t have to cut out your favorite foods. Is a big spaghetti dinner a Sunday tradition in your family? That can totally fit into your carb cycling meal plan.

Cons of Carb Cycling

You have to be disciplined when carb cycling. “It requires some planning and tracking of macronutrients [like healthy fats and protein intake], so it may not work for everyone,” says Virgin. This can be tricky for nutrition novices, and you might experience a learning curve.
You might not feel great on low-carb days. “Many people experience fatigue, headaches, and a lack of energy,” says Goodson.
You might not get enough nutrients. “If you take out lots of grains and fruits when carb cycling, you also take out lots of fiber and nutrients in the diet. While it may provoke a weight-loss response, it’s harder to maintain for most people in the long term,” warns Goodson.

Should you try carb cycling?

Carb cycling used to be reserved for bodybuilders and other high-performance athletes, but it’s since made its way into the mainstream. How do you know if carb cycling is right for you?
First, consider your overall health. Carb cycling might not be a viable option for people with certain conditions, says Goodson.
“People who have blood sugar issues, like diabetes or hypoglycemia, should definitely be working with a registered dietitian if pursuing a low-carb or carb cycling diet. If you have other health conditions, you should definitely talk to your doctor before considering,” she says.
Also, combining carb cycling with other eating plans, like the ketogenic diet, might not be effective or healthy, even though it can get you through those low-carb days.
“True keto diets mean you are in ketosis, which comes from eating next to no carbs and moderate protein. So if you are cycling in higher carb days, you really aren’t eating a keto diet and likely are not in ketosis,” explains Goodson.

Who will see the most benefits from carb cycling?

Overall, carb cycling tends to be a more accessible diet with ample opportunities to consume enough nutrients, but it works better for certain types of people.
[pullquote align=”center”]“Focus on slow, low carbs. Slow means they’re absorbed slowly, which helps with digestion and fat burning. Low means they’re low glycemic and don’t cause inflammation-inducing spikes in blood glucose or insulin.”[/pullquote]
“The people who are most likely to have most success when carb cycling are athletes who participate in endurance training, high-intensity interval training, and weightlifting. Your body relies on glucose and glycogen from carbs for the majority of high-intensity exercise and for about 40 percent of light-moderate endurance exercise,” says Virgin, who recommends using carb cycling only as a short-term diet.
A healthcare professional can help you evaluate whether you’re a good candidate for carb cycling.

Carb Cycling Tips for Beginners

So you’ve decided you want to give carb cycling a try. How do you get started?
First, start figuring out what your carbohydrate intake will look like each week. Choose a day to go high-carb, and then set up a pattern of carb intake around that day. Here are some combinations that Virgin suggests trying.

If you’re new to carb cycling:

Low–High–High–Low–High–High

If you’re looking for faster results:

Low–Low–High–Low–Low–High
A carb cycling calculator can help give you more personalized recommendations about balancing macronutrients, but you should strive to eat what makes you feel your best.
Finally, start building your carb cycling meal plan. In general, each meal should include some protein and fat and lots of whole foods. Choose your carbohydrates carefully, says Virgin.
“Not all carbs are created equal,” she says. “Focus on slow, low carbs. Slow means they’re absorbed slowly, which helps with digestion and fat burning. Low means they’re low glycemic and don’t cause inflammation-inducing spikes in blood glucose or insulin.”
Another added benefit of low carbs (such as oatmeal and lentils) is their fiber content, Virgin adds. “Fiber slows down stomach emptying and takes longer to move through our digestive tract, helping you feel full. In addition, fiber has a host of health benefits from helping you maintain healthy cholesterol levels and manage blood sugar levels to strengthening your gut microbiome and sparking weight loss.”
Feeling overwhelmed? Don’t worry—there are tons of recipes and ideas out there you can use for inspiration. Alisha Temples, a licensed nutritionist at Fueled & Fed Nutrition, has put together a carb cycling meal plan to help you get started:

Carb Cycling Meal Plan for a Low-Carb Day

Breakfast:

Eggs with avocado and salsa + a cup of coffee

Lunch:

Tuna salad + a side of green beans with almonds

Dinner:

Chicken breast + cauliflower rice + roasted broccoli

Carb Cycling Meal Plan for a Medium-Carb Day

Breakfast:

Sweet potato frittata

Lunch:

Chicken salad + carrots + apple + hummus

Dinner:

Salmon + quinoa + mixed veggies

Carb Cycling Meal Plan for a High-Carb Day

Breakfast:

Eggs + oatmeal + an orange + a cup of coffee

Lunch:

Tuna salad sandwich + carrots + apples

Dinner:

Chicken breast + a baked potato + asparagus
Everyone has a slightly different approach to carb cycling. Take these guidelines and adjust them based on your body composition, activity level, and food preferences. And when in doubt, make an appointment with a registered dietitian or your doctor to make sure your whatever dietary approach you’re taking is the right one for you.

Categories
Fitness Advice x Motivation Sweat

Exercise For Anxiety And Depression Could Be The Treatment You’ve Been Looking For

For five years, Tori Madison, who lives in Atlanta, has battled depression. Feeling paralyzed by grief after her brother’s death, she initially isolated herself from others and quickly found that she could no longer do the things she once enjoyed like yoga, training for triathlons, and hiking.
“I went to doctors and psychiatrists who prescribed me anti-anxiety and anti-depression medications, but these never really healed the cause of my depression. Rather, they provided a temporary fix for my agony and pain,” she explains. It wasn’t until she added daily cardiovascular exercise to her overall treatment plan that her anxieties, fears, and sadness started to subside. Today, she’s continuing to transform her life by getting her master’s degree in health and wellness coaching and hopes to help other people address and manage their own experiences with depression.
If you struggle with depression and/or anxiety, you know all too well how difficult it can be to care for yourself—both physically and emotionally. While treatment options such as cognitive behavioral therapy and medication have made life so much better for millions of people, researchers are now finding that people who also use exercise for depression and anxiety are experiencing some amazing results.

What the Experts Says About Exercise for Depression and Anxiety: The Science Behind This Treatment Method

It’s no secret that physical activity is good for your body. But what about the mental health benefits of exercise?
Judy Ho, PhD, a double board-certified and licensed clinical and forensic psychologist, says that moderate intensity exercise appears to improve depression and anxiety symptoms and increase self-concept. And there’s research to back up Ho’s claims.
According to one study, exercise as an add-on to conventional antidepressant therapies improved the efficacy of other treatment options such as antidepressants and cognitive behavioral therapy.
When it comes to the chemical process that takes place in the brain, Prakash Masand, MD, a psychiatrist and founder of the Centers of Psychiatric Excellence, says that in cases of anxiety and depression specifically, exercise helps release essential neurotransmitters like serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine. “This is important because these neurotransmitters are responsible for mood, energy, sleep, concentration, our ability to handle stress, cravings, and more,” he adds.
He explains that people with anxiety and depression have a chemical imbalance of these vital neurotransmitters, and exercise is a natural way of boosting their production.
And licensed psychologist Farrah Hauke, PsyD., points out that increasing the availability of serotonin is the purpose of most commonly prescribed antidepressant medications. In addition to changes in brain chemistry, Hauke also says that exercise results in positive cognitive and behavioral side effects, such as being a welcome distraction from anxious or depressive thoughts and reducing feelings of isolation.

How to Use Exercise for Depression and Anxiety

When it comes to the role exercise plays in anxiety and depression treatment plans, Ho says that in general, more moderate exercise produces greater enjoyment than very intense activity, particularly for individuals who are already struggling with depression and/or anxiety, who might find a very vigorous or frequent exercise program too daunting in their current emotional state.
“Exercise does not need to be lengthy or intense, and fitness gains, like actually losing body fat or weight, are not necessary for patients to experience positive results like symptom reduction,” says Ho.
Hauke says any exercise that is an “upper,” such as aerobic activity that elevates heart rate and breathing (e.g., running, cycling, and dancing) is good for managing the [linkbuilder id=”6857″ text=”symptoms of depression”]. “For a novice exerciser, this also could be any intentional and/or repetitive body movement such as pushing the kids in the stroller, house cleaning, or walking the dog,” she says.
[pullquote align=”center”]“Shallow breathing sends a message to your brain to be alert, whereas when you do deep belly breathing, it changes that message towards a less anxious state.”
—Robert Oppenheimer, LCSW[/pullquote]
When it comes to anxiety-reducing exercises, Hauke recommends exercise or body movement that activates the relaxation response through mind-body connection (e.g., yoga, Pilates, and barre). “The reason for this is that exercises which focus on calm, slow, and intentional movement and breathing help deactivate the fight-or-flight response which is commonly experienced during anxious reactions,” she explains. In fact, studies show that yoga appears to be a promising intervention for depression. Another recent study supports the idea that yoga plays a role in reducing stress, anxiety, and depression
Masand suggests running and fast-pace walking for anxiety and depression, and some studies have shown that doing these activities out in nature (rather than in an urban area or on the treadmill) is even better for those who want to use exercise to treat depression.  
Certified personal trainer Derek Mikulski says cardiovascular exercise, resistance training, and mind-body modalities like Pilates, yoga, meditation, and Tai Chi seem to be the best forms of physical activity if you have anxiety or depression.
“My personal recommendation is for people with anxiety and depression to integrate all of the above types of exercise into their mental health fitness program: lots of cardiovascular activity (35 minutes per day, every day), some resistance training (three times per week), and a mind-body practice two to three days per week,” he says.
“When these three conditions are met, I’m able to see evident changes in client behavior with the largest and most obvious changes being improved mood, increased energy and performance during workouts, and increased willingness to be challenged,” he says.
But it’s not just the obvious benefits that Mikulski notices. There are also more subtle changes he observes that may go undetected by people who aren’t tuned into others’ mind-body experiences. “I have seen clients smile more, laugh more, and walk taller, and these changes may be most important of all,” he adds.

What You Need to Know Before You Start Exercising

Exercising when you’re feeling depressed, anxious, or out of shape can be stressful in itself. That’s why it’s so important to find something you like and feel comfortable doing regularly. The best part about physical activity and its ability to ease the symptoms of anxiety and depression is that you don’t have to be a gym rat to reap the benefits. In fact, Masand says even a 10 to 20-minute brisk walk can do wonders for your mental health.
Robert Oppenheimer, clinical therapist at CAST Centers, says that at first, it might feel like exercise actually makes anxiety symptoms worse, not better. “When you start to increase physical activity, the heart rate goes up, which feels quite similar to anxiety symptoms,” he explains.
[pullquote align=”center”]In cases of anxiety and depression specifically, exercise helps release essential neurotransmitters like serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine.[/pullquote]
The good news: As you continue exercising for a longer period of time, Oppenheimer says you’ll experience fewer and fewer symptoms of anxiety. He also recommends paying attention to how you’re breathing when active. “Shallow breathing sends a message to your brain to be alert, whereas when you do deep belly breathing, it changes that message towards a less anxious state,” he adds.
While exercise can be a wonderful addition to an overall treatment plan, it is by no means a replacement for therapy or a treatment for serious mental health concerns. “In some cases, exercise can be a very useful adjunct to other forms of treatment like psychotherapy and medication,” says Ho. “Especially in cases where depression or anxiety is milder, exercise appears to garner symptom improvement in similar ways that psychotherapy and medication treatment alone do,” she adds.
The bottom line is this: If you’re battling depression or anxiety, talk with your healthcare provider about how you can add exercise to an overall treatment plan. And remember, as Masand says, “the most important thing isn’t what exercise you choose to do, as long as you do something and do it often.”

Categories
Mom x Body Motherhood

Preeclampsia Warning Signs You Have To Watch Out For

Pregnancy comes with a lot of worrying, much of it unwarranted but natural and—dare I say?—unavoidable. But a few things are actually worth knowing about, if not actively worrying about. One of those things is preeclampsia.
Preeclampsia is a pregnancy complication that causes high blood pressure and protein in the urine, and it needs immediate attention. Why? Left untreated, it can lead to kidney and liver failure, stroke, seizures, and maternal death and/or stillbirth.
It is therefore important to be aware of the symptoms so you can spring into action quickly if you sense that something is off.

What is preeclampsia?

“Honestly, most of us are still trying to figure this out!” says Kerry Price, MD, an OB-GYN at Orange Coast Women’s Medical Group in Orange County, California. “It is the number one thing … that [OB-GYNs] still need a definite cause for, and discovering its cause is one of the most researched topics in our field.”  
Here’s what doctors believe: Preeclampsia is a disorder of the vessels in the placenta that causes increased resistance. This increases pressure gradients, which causes maternal blood pressure to rise and puts greater demands on the vital organs. In short, the problem is in the placenta—which is why delivery is the cure.
[pullquote align=”center”]Never doubt that you know your body best and continue to seek out the best medical attention you can find.[/pullquote]
High blood pressure caused by preeclampsia can come on slowly over time or very suddenly, which is why your OB checks your urine and blood pressure at every single visit and why it’s important for pregnant women to be aware of all the symptoms.
That said: The condition can be treated and managed—how effectively is really a question of how early it is diagnosed and how close the mother is to delivery.

How common is preeclampsia?

Preeclampsia affects between 3 and 10 percent of pregnancies. In fact, it’s one of the most common complications of pregnancy. Price says she’s seeing a rise in cases in the U.S. due to two main factors:

  1. The average age of mothers is on the rise. In other words, more women are having babies at age 35 and older.
  2. More women are overweight and obese—and these are both risk factors for preeclampsia.

Signs and Symptoms of Preeclampsia

You know how your urine is tested at every single doctor’s visit? Preeclampsia is one of the things she’s testing for. (We know it’s annoying, but so, so necessary!)
At your 20-week appointment—and then at every other subsequent visit—your OB will likely go over the signs and symptoms of preeclampsia with you, but it’s good to keep them in mind for yourself, too. Here’s what to look out for:

  • A headache that is not responsive to rest, Tylenol, or fluids
  • Blurred vision
  • Epigastric and right upper quadrant abdominal pain
  • Swelling of the hands and face
  • General malaise
  • Fluid in the lungs
  • Signs of kidney trouble
  • A seizure, which is a very late-onset symptom that would actually mean a woman has moved from preeclampsia to eclampsia

Risk Factors for Preeclampsia

There are a few risk factors associated with preeclampsia:

  • History of preeclampsia in a previous pregnancy
  • Chronic hypertension (or elevated blood pressure)
  • Advanced maternal age (over 35 but especially over 40)
  • Young maternal age (under 25)
  • Obesity
  • Type 2 diabetes
  • Kidney disease/dysfunction
  • Smoking/tobacco use
  • Systemic lupus
  • Connective tissue diseases
  • Multiples (twins or higher)
  • Women who develop gestational hypertension or gestational diabetes during their pregnancies are also at increased risk for developing preeclampsia
  • Women who got pregnant via in vitro fertilization (IVF), donor insemination, or egg donation

One very important point: Women of color—especially African American women—are more likely to develop preeclampsia. According to a recent feature story in The New York Times Magazine, their symptoms are often ignored by medical professionals, causing a range of medical complications, including stillbirth.
Never doubt that you know your body best and continue to seek out the best medical attention you can find.

Diagnosing Preeclampsia

In order to be diagnosed with preeclampsia, a woman needs to show signs of two things:

  1. Elevated blood pressure: This means 140 or higher systolic, and 90 or higher diastolic, so 140/90 or higher. Ideal blood pressure is less than 120/80.
  2. Proteinuria, or protein in the urine

You can have elevated blood pressure and not have preeclampsia, and you can spill protein in your urine and not have it. You need both to be diagnosed.
Price explains that there are varying stages of preeclampsia: mild preeclampsia and preeclampsia with severe features. These are indicative of a more serious disease state. “The gold standard for any evaluation is a 24-hour urine protein collection, which can be done as an outpatient or inpatient depending on the severity of the patient’s condition,” Price explains.
That said, high blood pressure at one appointment does not mean you have preeclampsia! This is why your doctor will probably test your blood pressure again four hours later and monitor you closely for at least 24 hours and for the remainder of the pregnancy.

Treating Preeclampsia

If you are experiencing any of the signs or symptoms above, you should contact your doctor’s office immediately and ask for an evaluation. If your OB’s office is closed, Price advises going to labor and delivery for an evaluation or speaking to your doctor’s on-call physician to see if an evaluation is warranted.  
“A patient should never wait hours or days to contact her physician about this,” Price says, “because if preeclampsia is truly there, time is of the essence.”
Treating preeclampsia depends entirely on the severity of the symptoms and the gestational age of the fetus. Milder cases and those closer to term might not necessitate hospitalization or a super-early delivery. These are most often treated with frequent outpatient visits, blood pressure medication, and non-stress testing with amniotic fluid checks. Bed rest doesn’t help with preeclampsia.
[pullquote align=”center”]“A patient should never wait hours or days to contact her physician about this because if preeclampsia is truly there, time is of the essence.”
—Kerry Price, MD[/pullquote]
More severe cases require IV antihypertensive medications, inpatient hospital admission, and more continuous monitoring of the baby. Your doctor is trying to prevent the condition from causing a stroke, fetal abruption, seizures, or severe bleeding. The baby will undergo more monitoring as well: non-stress tests and frequent ultrasounds.
That said, if you are diagnosed with preeclampsia, you will not deliver your baby any later than 37 weeks—it’s simply not safe for you or the baby. More severe cases require preterm delivery to save both mom and baby from the worse outcomes, which can include brain damage or death.
This is what makes preeclampsia so tricky: The only “cure” is delivering the baby.
An OB’s goal is to keep the mother and baby safe for as long as possible—and not push it a moment longer.

Preventing Preeclampsia

There is no way to definitively prevent preeclampsia, but there are ways of improving your odds of staying healthy throughout your pregnancy. Though you should always consult your own physician, here are Price’s recommendations:

For Women at High Risk

As soon as you find out you’re pregnant, take a daily 81 mg dose of aspirin. This has been shown to significantly reduce the risk of developing preeclampsia.

For Women Planning to Get Pregnant (Who Have Risk Factors)

Work on getting to a healthy weight and have any chronic medical conditions (elevated blood pressure, diabetes, kidney disease, lupus, etc.) under control.

For Women Without Risk Factors

Make sure you exercise regularly, eat a healthy diet, and avoid excess weight gain during pregnancy. Excess weight gain is linked to gestational hypertension and gestational diabetes, both of which are risk factors for preeclampsia.

Can preeclampsia come on suddenly?

“Yes it can, which is very scary and why your OB is constantly on the lookout!” Price says.

Can preeclampsia occur before 20 weeks?

In short, no. The longer answer is a little more complex.
“While there are case reports out there of an earlier diagnosis, there is almost always a very significant underlying medical condition, so it is not a true diagnosis of preeclampsia,” Price explains.
If your blood pressure is high before 20 weeks, it probably indicates chronic hypertension (usually diagnosed if your blood pressure is significantly elevated in the first trimester) or another underlying medical condition

How does preeclampsia affect mom?

If the case is mild and managed well, preeclampsia is mostly just uncomfortable and annoying—there are the symptoms (headaches, etc.) and all the trips to the hospital for frequent checkups.
If the case is severe, you can develop HELLP syndrome, which is dysfunction and/or a shutting down of the kidneys and liver. This can lead to uncontrolled bleeding, stroke, and death.
Preeclampsia can also evolve into eclampsia, which involves seizures. These can cause brain damage because of lack of oxygen and aspiration pneumonia if vomit winds up in the lungs.
Again, this is in very severe and unmonitored cases. The long and short of it is: If you suspect something is wrong, contact your doctor immediately.

Does preeclampsia affect my baby?

Yes. The baby is affected because preeclampsia is a placental issue. “The main fetal effects we see are growth restriction and low amniotic fluid volumes,” Price explains. “This can lead to significant developmental issues, especially if this happens earlier in gestation.”
If preeclampsia develops at term and is diagnosed in a timely manner, the baby is usually unaffected and does very well—which is what makes accurate and timely diagnosis very important. “This is why we dip people’s urine at every visit!” Price says.

Is preeclampsia hereditary?

Nope. So just because your mom or grandmother had it doesn’t mean you will.

Categories
Nosh Nutrition x Advice

What Are GMOs? Experts Unpack This Umbrella Term

You’ve probably heard the initials GMO being used to describe foods you purchase at your local grocery store but might not understand what the term means exactly. In case you aren’t familiar, GMO stands for genetically modified organism, which sounds kind of scary when you break down what it might mean.
In short, GMOs can be plants, animals, viruses, or any bacterial organisms that have human-made modifications to their genes. These modifications are not naturally occurring, which is why so many Americans are concerned about the potential harm that genetically modified products could cause.
For this reason, more and more companies are signing on to the Non-GMO Project, a non-profit organization that certifies that goods are created and manufactured free from genetically modified organisms. A number of big brands have signed on in recent years, including Trader Joe’s and Chipotle.
Some environmental groups, however, are still not satisfied and are taking things a step further by demanding mandatory labeling of all genetically engineered foods. It doesn’t sound like a radical idea—after all, shouldn’t the consumer know what she is putting in her body?
To help clear the air surrounding GMOs, how they’re used in food, and whether they present a danger to consumers (and/or the environment), we asked some common questions about this umbrella term.

What are GMOs, really?

To fully understand what GMOs are and how they work, you have to go back to their inception—on the farm. “Crops that are genetically modified, or engineered, have a specific gene or trait from another species inserted into its DNA in order to adopt that trait as part of its genome,” explains registered dietitian Jennie Schmidt of Schmidt Farms in Ray, Michigan.
[pullquote align=”center”]In Jennie Schmidt’s experience and perspective as a farmer, genetically modifying organisms is not always a bad thing.[/pullquote]
“Conventional breeding includes hybridization, cross breeding, grafting, chemical or radiation mutagenesis, polyploidy, and protoplast fusion—all of which ‘modify’ the genes of the plants they are breeding, and all of which are acceptable means of plant breeding in the certified organic system.”
In Schmidt’s experience and perspective as a farmer, genetically modifying organisms is not always a bad thing.
For example, golden rice recently gained approval in numerous countries (including the U.S.). Golden rice is rice that has daffodil genes inserted into it to increase the amount of vitamin A that rice is otherwise lacking. This is important because vitamin A deficiency is a public health crisis in some developing nations. According to the World Health Organization, more than 250,000 children go blind each year as a result of vitamin A deficiency.  
Another way that GMOs make their way into our food supply is through crops that have been modified with the goal of withstanding the effects of herbicides and pesticides, and some GMO crops are designed to survive periods of low water or drought.

What is the history of GMOs?

Many people don’t know this, but the first GMO was not a food at all. Instead, it was a pharmaceutical—human insulin, which was approved in 1982. “This allowed for production of … insulin that is genetically identical to human insulin … rather than harvesting pancreas[es] of pigs and cattle at the slaughterhouse and extracting insulin that was less pure and more allergenic for insulin-dependent diabetics,” Schmidt explains.
The first genetically modified food crop to be sold was the Flavr Savr tomato in 1994. It was engineered to have less bruising and a longer shelf life, but it was highly unsuccessful because it did not have the fresh-picked flavor of in-season tomatoes.
Various field crops soon followed suit, including soybeans, corn, and cotton, which were engineered with insect resistance or herbicide tolerance and approved for use in commercial production.
“For us, adopting Bt corn (corn that’s been genetically modified) and herbicide-tolerant crops was just next steps of agricultural innovation,” says Schmidt. “My father-in-law saw the adoption of tractors in the ’30s and ’40s, the adoption of hybrid seeds in the ’50s and ’60s, the adoption of synthetic fertilizer in the ’50s and ’60s, the adoption of computers in the tractors in the ’80s and ’90s, so the adoption of these so-called GMOs was in his words ‘a no brainer.’”
These, she explains, were common-sense practices to adopt to reduce agriculture’s impact on the environment. In short, farmers saw benefits.

Are farmers who do not use GMOs negatively affected by the use of GMOs?

One of the main apprehensions non-GMO farmers have is cross-contamination of their crops with GMO crops. “Non-GMO farmers are concerned that pollen from GMO crops could blow into their non-GMO fields and [they could] actually get sued for not properly paying for GMO seeds,” explains Roger E. Adams, PhD, a Houston-based dietitian, nutritionist, and founder of eatrightfitness. “Careful farming practices can prevent this, however, lawsuits of this type are mostly blown out of proportion and many farmers grow non-GMO and GMO crops on the same farm.”

Are GMOs safe?

The World Health Organization, the American Medical Association, the National Academy of Sciences, and the American Association for the Advancement of Science have all come to the same conclusion that there is not enough evidence to support the belief that GMOs are unsafe.
Still, the concept of how they are created—the cross-breeding of DNA to create a food product that is not naturally occurring—does leave consumers with some unsettling concerns.
John Bagnulo, PhD, a food scientist and the director of nutrition for Functional Formularies, believes that GMOs are inherently risky to whoever eats them because our microbiome is easily influenced by these “loosely” held genes. (Loosely held refers to the instability of GMO genes being introduced to the microbiome. As Bagnulo explains, “Once there is genetic modification, genes are much more easily swapped when exposed to microbes.”)

How many products in the U.S. currently use GMOs? What are some of the most common items that incorporate GMOs?

There are only 10 crops that are genetically modified and produced in the United States currently: corn, soybeans, cotton, non-browning potatoes, papaya, squash, canola, alfalfa, non-browning apples, and sugar beets.
[pullquote align=”center”]Studies show that GMOs are making their way into 70 to 80 percent of conventional processed foods in the U.S.[/pullquote]
It’s also worth noting that a growing number of alfalfa-based animal feeds are genetically modified. Because of this, Bagnulo explains, most conventional milk is produced with GMOs—and it’s not just milk. Studies show that GMOs are making their way into 70 to 80 percent of conventional processed foods in the U.S., according to the Grocery Manufacturers Association, since the majority of foods and beverages are produced with one or more of the ingredients listed.

Are food products in the U.S. required to have GMO labels to indicate that they have been genetically modified?

In July 2016, President Obama signed the National Bioengineered Food Disclosure Law, which set a nationwide standard for the disclosure of genetic material that has been modified through DNA techniques. As part of this law, however, a food manufacturer can choose among a set of options to disclose the presence of GMOs in their food. One of these options is a mere electronic scanner or digital link on the packaging that takes the consumer to a website containing this information. Kind of sneaky, right?

Categories
Healthy Relationships Wellbeing

What Emotional Labor Really Does To Us At Work And At Home

When the phrase “emotional labor” was born, it was a way for sociologist Arlie Hochschild to explain the work of regulating your emotions in the workplace.
Ever had to give yourself a pep talk before walking out to deal with angry customers? That’s emotional labor. Ever had to pump yourself up so you could face a classroom full of rambunctious kids who you have to teach? Yup, emotional labor.
If you’re thinking, hey, wait, I’ve been hearing a lot about emotional labor these days, and it had nothing to do with the workplace, well, you’re right. Since Hochschild first coined the phrase in 1983 in her book The Managed Heart, it’s been adopted by countless people to describe situations in which the effort of managing emotions is heaped on a particular person—typically a female-identifying person.
So what is emotional labor? Is it managing your emotions in the workplace, or is it what happens in your house when your partner expects you to always be the one who “fixes” squabbles and makes things right?
Here’s what the experts say about emotional labor and how to manage it.

What is emotional labor?

If you go by Hochschild’s definition, emotional labor refers to regulating or managing emotional expressions with others as part of one’s professional work role.  
For example, Christie Heltzell used to work in a marketing role, where high-paying clients paid for access to her in order to help them utilize marketing software and plan advanced marketing tactics.
“I had one client who was the business owner’s daughter, and she was a spoiled and entitled snob,” Heltzell says. “While trying to help make her ridiculous requests happen despite my repeated explanations that what she was asking for was impossible, she repeatedly put me on hold, once to even answer a call where I heard, ‘Yes, daddy, I’ll be down shortly. This stupid girl is cutting into my lunch break, but I’ll make her finish her job soon.’ When she came back on, she told me, ‘Look, I have a meeting to get to that is really important. Can you do your job or not?’”
Heltzell had to hold her tongue, working to keep her emotions in check in order to do her job.
“As I started to explain again why what she’d asked was literally impossible, she sighed and said, ‘Can’t you just DO it? We pay you to say yes,’” Heltzell says. “I ended up punching my desk, something I’d never done before, while simultaneously trying to keep my voice incredibly sweet and explain for the fiftieth time why what she was asking for wasn’t even a real thing.”
The need to physically hold one’s emotions in check might sound familiar to countless people, but it’s rarely recognized as a physical part of the job.
“Emotional labor [or EL] is parallel to physical labor; both are occupations that tend to require a lot of effort, but EL is effort around emotions and tends to be female-dominated, i.e., service or caring work, and physical labor is effort with the body and tends to be male-dominated,” explains Alicia A. Grandey, PhD, a professor of industrial-organizational psychology and director of graduate studies in psychology at Penn State University.
Grandey, who once worked as a barista at a coffee bar, knows the toll emotional labor can take on someone all too well.
“To perform emotional labor, employees may use deep acting to modify their inner emotions, like ‘pump themselves up’ before going out on the work floor—for example, a teacher may do this on the first day—or doing pep talks—for example, flight attendants reminding themselves that passengers are their guests on this flight,” Grandey says.
That work, although not visible or necessarily quantifiable to the employers who depend on metrics to evaluate just how well their employees are performing, is nonetheless valuable to employers and significant on the part of the employees themselves. You know how you feel when you walk out of work, right? You know that ebb and flow you felt throughout the day?
As Grandey has posited in her studies, “This physiological activity, or ‘bottling up’ of emotions, taxes the body over time by overworking the cardiovascular and nervous systems and weakening the immune system.”
An estimated 40 percent of Americans admit they’ve taken a personal day simply for emotional recovery. Sometimes we need to get an emotional break from our emotions.
“The sheer entitlement and attitude people give you when you work customer service is more exhausting than anything else I’ve ever done,” Heltzell tells HealthyWay. She says people take every break to “vent and blow off steam about the person they just spoke to.”
It’s something employers are (slowly) starting to ascertain. In one Yale study of employee engagement, researchers found that one out of five employees reported both high engagement and high burnout. And according to the American Psychological Association’s 2013 Work and Well-Being Survey, 37 percent of women said they typically feel tense or stressed at work (5 percent more than men in the survey), and just 34 percent of women say they have enough resources to handle stress at work.
“Emotional labor, like physical labor, is effortful and fatiguing when done repeatedly all day long and can be costly in terms of performance errors and job burnout,” Grandey says, “especially when surface acting because it results in feeling inauthentic.”

So what is emotional labor outside of the workplace?

But what about the emotional labor that isn’t labor in the traditional sense? It’s true that Hochschild coined the term to refer to labor in the traditional sense, e.g. what you do in the office or on a factory floor. But more often of late, “emotional labor” has been used in reference to the type of emotions you put forth in your day-to-day, even after you’re punching a time clock.
Gemma Hartley scored a viral hit with a Harper’s Bazaar article dubbed “Women Aren’t Nags—We’re Just Fed Up,” and she’s author of the forthcoming book Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward.
To Hartley, emotional labor isn’t just the sort of work for which folks might be paid—even when the work itself is ignored—it’s also work put forth on the emotional front in the home.
“I define emotional labor a bit more broadly than the original sociological definition,” Hartley says. “When I am talking about emotional labor, I am talking about the largely invisible mental and emotional work, mostly done by women, which helps keep those around them comfortable and happy.”
Not sure what she means?
Take, for example, this slice of life from Hartley’s viral essay. After asking her husband to hire a house cleaner as a Mother’s Day gift, Hartley was faced with a holiday spent wrangling her children as her husband—who’d opted to do the job himself—hoisted a toilet brush:

I was gifted a necklace for Mother’s Day while my husband stole away to deep clean the bathrooms, leaving me to care for our children as the rest of the house fell into total disarray.

Her “gift” was forcing her to be “on” while her kids screamed for mommy, mommy, mommy.
Although it’s not quite what Hochschild had in mind when she coined the term, this feeling has its own place, says Tina Tessina, PhD, a couples therapist and author of How to be Happy Partners: Working it out Together.
When working with couples, Tessina terms it “self-management,” in other words the ability to manage whatever emotional reactions or basic emotions one has in order to succeed better in relationships, social, or work settings.  
“We all have a variety of emotional responses to the stimuli around us, as well as emotional responses to our own attitudes, beliefs, expectations, and prejudices,” Tessina says.  “Learning to become aware of our own feelings, and process or regulate them on an ongoing basis, is a primary life skill. Those who have the skill to understand and manage their own feelings generally do better in all kinds of relationships, and create less unnecessary stress in their lives.”
Just as employers need to become more mindful of the emotional tasks they demand of their employees, Tessina says it’s important for partners to be cognizant of the emotional burdens they lay on each other.
Emotional labor in relationships comes down to “work necessary to manage and enjoy intimacy with your partner in a long-term relationship,” Tessina says.
Some of that is natural. We all have to grin and bear it sometimes for the sake of compromise, but when you find yourself always fighting your emotions to put on a happy face, your emotional labor may be a bit above and beyond.
For example, if you wake up in a bad mood or are feeling “down,” it might be work or emotional labor to raise your spirits before encountering your partner. If you’ve just had a bad day at work where you didn’t get a promotion, it would be considered self-management to train yourself to grin instead of launching into what a bad day you had.
Just like the workplace, where we can lose our jobs if we lose our cool, emotional labor can have a substantial effect. Not only are there ramifications for our health, but unresolved and unexpressed grief over unrecognized labor can cause marriages to fail, Tessina warns.
[pullquote align=”center”]“You control your reactions, they don’t control you.”
—Tina Tessina, PhD, couples therapist and author[/pullquote]
“Intimacy is usually easy in the beginning of a relationship, when euphoria sweeps you into emotional synchronicity,” she explains. “As the relationship matures, and the euphoria subsides into companionship, generating intimacy and sexual desire becomes harder. Learning to do the necessary work to keep your intimate connection going can make the difference between a successful relationship and a divorce.”

How to Get Out From Under the Weight of Emotional Labor

Whether you’re at work or at home, a certain amount of emotional labor is just going to be part of life—if only because we don’t need to wear our hearts on our sleeves at every moment.
But that doesn’t mean you need to acquiesce to a life of making nice with nasty customers or grinning at your partner while inside you’re breaking down.
When possible, Grandey says “deep acting” is a less harmful way of performing emotional labor. Although she admits it’s not always possible, this essentially means pretending to be an actor at your job. Instead of showing your true emotions, you work to align your internal feelings with organizational expectations. This, along with modifying one’s own stress via mindfulness training and the like, seems to help, she says.
What’s more, Grandey recommends availing yourself to a back room for recovery breaks and being “real” with co-workers as much as possible as it “helps reduce the strain of surface acting with customers/patients.”
For employers, she stresses allowing for autonomy and supporting employees as much as possible to reduce the strain of emotional labor.
The best advice she can give a manager, she says, is to give employees the freedom to decide how they should respond to situations with customers or clients.
And let’s face it: Incentives, especially financial incentives, can’t hurt, and Grandey’s research backs up the the benefit of incentivised rewards in helping balance the negative effects of emotional labor at work.
Of course, there’s no amount of money that can make up for emotional labor at home. That’s where learning to take charge of your own emotions can be helpful.
“You control your reactions, they don’t control you,” Tessina says. “When you’re too reactive to your partner, he or she can easily draw you into a fight that stops you both from focusing on fixing the problem. When you’re faced with an emotional situation, self-control is not easy. In the face of your partner’s actions, it’s difficult not to react.”
The key is learning to stop and think, to respond thoughtfully and carefully rather than quickly and automatically. It takes practice.
Tessina offers up these tips to take back your control and spend less time working on your emotions at home:

Use self talk wisely.

“Self-talk is one of the most powerful tools you can use to learn emotional self-control,” Tessina says. “Everyone has a running mental dialog, which often is negative or self-defeating.” Try repeating a mantra, an affirmation, or a choice over and over to create new pathways, which will eventually become automatic. “The new thoughts will run through your head like the old thoughts did, or like a popular song you’ve heard over and over,” Tessina says. “Only this song won’t be about your lost love, it will be about supporting yourself.”

Practice patience.

Of course, this is easier said than done, but step back. Think. Is that emotional labor you’re putting in really necessary?
To be more patient, consider not only waiting to react but also making better use of your perspective. Do you really need to put on that fake smile? How about a little self-understanding? Why are you doing it? You may think it’s because your partner expects it or even that it makes you feel better, when in reality it only makes you feel worse in the long run.
Your emotional labor may not be seen by others, but it’s important that you acknowledge the place it has in your life and understand the effect it has on your well-being.

Categories
Favorite Finds Sweat

Mind, Body, And Wallet: The Best Budget Yoga Mats And Sets For Your Practice

Looking for a new yoga mat (or maybe even your very first mat) can be an overwhelming experience. There are so many to choose from! I remember when I first started my yoga practice I wanted a mat of my own that I could easily carry with me but that wasn’t too pricey since I wasn’t sure if yoga was something I was going to fall in love with right away.
Whether you’re not quite ready to commit to a higher-priced option or you need to leave wiggle room in your budget for something else, I’m here to help you pick a mat you can afford and enjoy.

The Criteria I Considered When Testing Budget Yoga Mats and Sets

When you’re first starting out your practice it’s completely understandable to not want to break the bank with the purchase of an expensive yoga mat. I do, however, think that it’s a good idea to purchase a mat you can call your own—and maybe one that you’re excited to roll out will help keep you committed to your practice.
My top suggestion for anyone looking to purchase their first yoga mat or seeking a budget-friendly mat or set is to look at thickness, stickiness, and weight. Try to find a mat that provides enough support for your joints and is comfortable in seated poses, has enough grip to help you feel stable during Downward Dog and other inversions, and is easy for you to carry to and from the studio (or wherever your practice may take you).
budget yoga mats
As I mentioned during my review of best yoga mats for everyday use, keep in mind that this is just a summary of my experience with these mats, so the process of finding your ideal yoga mat could be different depending on your preferences and needs. I am simply sharing my honest thoughts in the hopes of helping you find a mat that fits your flow.
[sul title=”Clever Yoga BetterGrip Mat” subheader=”Mat Dimensions: 72” L × 25¼” W × 6 mm | 2 lb”]
I tested this yoga mat at a studio class and in my home. Upon initial inspection, this reversible mat felt to be the most durable out of the three I considered. The material is eco-friendly and made from 100 percent recycled materials. It’s also free from latex, PVC, and the potentially toxic materials that are found in many budget-friendly mats.

Pros

The 6 mm thickness of the Clever Yoga BetterGrip Mat provided great support and protection for my joints. I found the extra cushioning to be beneficial when I was doing anything seated or on my back. When you’re practicing in a studio, the wood or cement floors can be tough, especially when you’re doing anything on your hands and/or knees. Luckily this mat provided enough cushion that I could go through my flow without having to prop up on a blanket during class.
budget yoga mats clever yoga
Out of the three mats I reviewed, this one is the longest and widest. I am 5′7″ and prefer a mat that’s on the longer side so my head and feet aren’t hanging off the ends. This is a common request from taller yogis who want to be free from distractions during class. I could see it being a bit too long for someone who is shorter but don’t see that being an issue that would cause them to lose focus. For me, the more surface area the better!

Cons

The thing that I found a little challenging while practicing with the Clever Yoga BetterGrip Mat was some of the balancing poses. Mats with any extra thickness make it more difficult to stand on one leg while trying to keep your focus. I have found that the thinner mats work better for these types of poses so this is definitely something to keep in mind.
This mat is truly reversible, just as Clever Yoga claims, and both sides provide a fairly good grip. The biggest downside, however, is that there is a sticky film on both sides of the mat.
Although there was no foul odor, even just touching the mat to roll and unroll left that sticky film on my hands and feet. I’m talking very sticky—and it’s hard to get off, too. I also noticed that my hands and feet left visible stains on the mat. The stains came off after I cleaned the mat but were apparent after each use.

Considerations

This yoga mat was easy to roll up but did take some time to keep its shape on the floor once it was unrolled. I followed the directions on the packaging and wiped it down with a wet cloth. I would not suggest using any kind of cleaner that contains essential oils or vinegar. If you’re sticking to a wet cloth cleaning method you should be safe to clean this mat after every practice.
Overall I would consider this to be a decent option for a first-time purchase or someone newer to yoga. It’s extremely lightweight and rolls up easily. There were no accessories included with the purchase of this mat, so I would recommend buying a strap or yoga bag to carry it in.
[link-button href=”https://amzn.to/2LVO0je”] Get it from Amazon here [/link-button]
[sul title=”Gaiam 2-Color Yoga Mat” subheader=”Mat Dimensions: 68” L × 24” W × 3 mm | 2.2 lb”]
The Gaiam 2-Color Mat is a great budget-friendly option for anyone looking to practice at home on a carpeted space or at a studio that has padded floors. It is 3 mm thick and therefore does not provide a lot of cushion or support. I used it at home in my personal yoga space, which is fully carpeted, and had no issues being on my hands and knees.

Pros

This mat is lightweight and easy to carry around. Because of the 3 mm thickness it also stores easily in the car and at home without taking up a lot of space.
I was satisfied with the grip, especially seeing as this mat is priced below $25. I didn’t try any hot classes with this yoga mat, but it stayed in place pretty well through the transitions of my home and studio flows. It’s worth mentioning that I did notice a little sliding on the floor of the studio, which caused me to make some minor adjustments here and there.
[related article_ids=1003916]
budget yoga mats gaiam
Just like the BalanceFrom mat (see below!), I found the Gaiam mat was easy to clean and didn’t require that I followed any specific care instructions. This mat wiped clean easily and dried quickly, making it convenient to pack up and go about my day post-practice.

Cons

Although my carpeted practice was pleasant, it’s when I took this mat to a studio class with hardwood floors that I began to have issues. I couldn’t do any poses that put a lot of weight on my wrists, knees, or ankles without needing a blanket for extra support. My Downward Dogs even got a little uncomfortable toward the end of my practice because of the lack of support related to the thinness of this mat.

Considerations

This was the least durable of the three mats I reviewed. I didn’t notice any flaking during the few classes I took, but the filling of this product is made from PVC—not the most durable if you plan on using it several times per week. I love the grip for the price, but I wouldn’t recommend this mat for long-term use. The quality just isn’t there and you might wind up having to buy another new mat sooner rather than later.
[link-button href=”https://fave.co/2Iv6rcy”] Get it from Target here [/link-button]
[sul title=”BalanceFrom GoYoga Eco-Friendly Mat” subheader=”Mat Dimensions: 68” L × 24” W × 6.35 mm”]
The BalanceFrom Eco-Friendly Mat measures in at ¼ inch thick, which is about 6 mm. I compared the thickness side by side with the Clever Yoga BetterGrip mat and found them to match up almost perfectly. As I was practicing, however, I thought this mat felt much thinner than 6 mm.  

Pros

I took a heated and non-heated class and noticed that this mat wicked moisture pretty well during both practices. I was pleasantly surprised by how much grip this reversible yoga mat actually had on both sides.
In a non-heated class, I was able to stay in Downward Dog without any slipping or sliding. I also had zero trouble with the mat sliding on the studio floor. I did notice in the hot class I slid a bit more when I was really sweaty. Therefore, I’d recommend a yoga mat towel if you’re planning to do any intense, sweat-heavy classes with this mat.
Although the carrying strap provided wasn’t high quality, the weight of this mat made it easy to transport to and from class.
budget yoga mats eco friendly
I’m also happy to share that the cleaning process was a breeze, as both sides of the mat wiped clean very easily. There are no special care instructions provided for this yoga mat, so I used a water, vinegar, and essential oil blend cleaner and it worked perfectly. As an added bonus, this yoga mat dries fast, so I was able to quickly roll it up and head out.

Cons

Despite the thickness of this mat, I still felt the need to use a mat towel while I was in any pose that put weight on my knees.

Considerations

The one thing I noticed when I first opened this mat is that the card that came with the product says it’s “eco-friendly.” However, the card does not state what this budget-friendly mat is made of. I turned to their website to find more information, and to my surprise, I couldn’t find anything on their site that mentioned the words eco-friendly, nor could I see what the mat was actually made of.
When I reached out to BalanceFrom in regards to the eco-friendly claim their response was, “The mat is made of NBR. All our mats are eco-friendly, they all pass eco test.
Since NBR, or nitrile rubber, is a synthetic product, this may not be the mat for yogis set on getting a mat made of truly eco-friendly, sustainable materials.
[related article_ids=26396]
This product does come with a mat carrying strap and a two-year warranty. The strap is fairly short, so it handles more like a carrier than an actual yoga strap, and it isn’t high quality (but it did come off and go on with no real issues).
All that being said, out of the three mats in this category, I would pick this one as my go-to. The grip and support it offered my hands and knees were definitely superior to the other budget mats I tested.
[link-button href=”https://amzn.to/2O7aWtf”] Get it from Amazon here [/link-button]

Budget Yoga Sets Tested

Budget sets are a great investment if you’re wanting to start a home practice. It can be challenging to find time to get to a studio several times a week, and it can also be quite expensive to pay for classes regularly. If you’re on a budget but want to stay committed to your practice, finding a space in your home to bring your yoga practice to life is the perfect option. What you’ll want to invest in first, especially if you are a beginner, is a yoga set equipped with a mat and props.
A typical yoga set includes a mat, two blocks, a strap, and a long towel to place over your mat. Sometimes a smaller hand towel will be included as well. For your home practice what you really want to focus on is finding a yoga set with a quality mat, two blocks, and a strap. Here are two sets that include all the essentials:
[sul title=”Sivan Yoga Set” subheader=”Mat Dimensions: 71” L × 24” W × ½” thick”]
Set Includes: Mat | Two Yoga Blocks | One 6’5” Yoga Strap | One 68” × 24” Yoga Mat Towel | One 30” × 20” Yoga Hand Towel
The Sivan Yoga Set includes everything a beginner yogi needs to get started: a mat, two blocks, a strap, and two towels (one hand towel and one yoga mat towel). The only thing not included was a bag. The items came boxed up and individually wrapped. If you’re wanting to travel with these items, I’d suggest getting a yoga bag big enough to fit everything included in this budget set.

Pros

Although the carrying strap wasn’t the best quality, it was fairly easy for me to get the Sivan mat in and out the strap. The mat also rolled up easily but took some time to lay flat on the floor.
budget yoga mat sets
The other items in this set were of decent quality. I prefer a thicker block, whereas these particular ones are smaller and thinner than those in the CelverYoga set I tested (see below!). I found the towels and strap to hold up well and definitely believe the items add value to this set.

Cons

The strap included in this set was designed to carry your mat more like a holder and is not long enough to actually fit over your shoulder for carrying, meaning I had to adjust it quite a bit during transport as I found the mat sliding around. This is something to consider if think or know you prefer to use a strap to carry your yoga mat.
One big thing to note about this set is the nature of the mat itself. It is extremely thick for a yoga mat. A mat of this thickness is great for fitness classes where you’re on your back and knees quite a bit. For a yoga class, though, it’s not ideal.
I did two home practices on this mat, one in my carpeted yoga space and the other in my office, which has hardwood flooring. I found it to be extremely difficult to practice with this mat on the carpet because of its thickness. Even on the hard floor, my hands would sink into the mat during Downward-Facing Dog. During my standing poses, I noticed my feet sinking, which made Vinyasa transitions and balance poses more challenging. Overall the extra thickness caused more of a distraction than anything.

Considerations

This would be a great mat and set for more fitness-based classes. I noticed the woman on the box was even wearing tennis shoes and was in more of a “workout” style position. I can’t speak to workout classes, but I would not recommend the mat included for a yoga practice unless you know you’ll do more restorative flows that involve mostly seated postures and stretching, in which case this budget set may be the perfect fit for you.
[link-button href=”https://amzn.to/2LPkXP5″] Get it from Amazon here [/link-button]
[sul title=”Clever Yoga Set” subheader=”Mat Dimensions: 72” L × 25¼” W × 6 mm”]
Set Includes: Mat | Two Yoga Blocks | One 8’ Cotton Yoga Strap | One Yoga Mat Towel | One Yoga Hand Towel | One Carrying Bag
I was blown away by everything that was included in this set for the price tag. I also found the overall quality of the items included to be pretty impressive considering the affordable nature of this set, which truly has everything you need to get started. There’s even a quick video on their website that walks you through what you need to know about each piece of equipment.

Pros

The carrying bag was a great addition to this set. The other six items fit perfectly inside, which means they can be packed away and transported nicely. The bag features two little straps that hold the yoga blocks in place and a compartment on the outside that would be ideal for storing keys or other small items if you decide to travel with it.
budget yoga mat sets clever yoga
The blocks are thick and sturdy. The strap is durable and long enough for me to use in every pose. The two towels were moisture wicking and stayed in place with minimal sliding when I used the longer towel to lay over the mat during one of my home practices.

Cons

The yoga mat included in this set is the same as the Clever Yoga BetterGrip Mat that was reviewed in the budget-friendly mat section. As mentioned previously, this mat still had that sticky film but did not leave the same staining effect that I noticed on my hands and feet with the first Clever Yoga mat I tested. I did, however, notice a little more slip while in Downward-Facing Dog with the mat included in this set. That being said, I thought the quality of the remaining items was on point.

Considerations

Out of the two budget sets, I would pick the Clever Yoga set to be the winner in this category. The big difference I saw during my testing process was the quality in all of the products included. The Clever Yoga mat had better grip and was more suitable for an active yoga practice. The blocks were also thicker, and this budget set included a carrier that allowed me to travel easily to and from the studio and conveniently store my set at home.
I would absolutely agree that this set is worth the price tag. It has everything that a yogi wanting to practice from home will need!
[link-button href=”https://amzn.to/2O5y9fj”] Get it from Amazon here [/link-button]

Categories
Life x Culture Lifestyle

How To Get A Job You Feel Unqualified For

Making a leap in your career can be daunting, especially if you feel underqualified for the job. But with the right mindset and approach, you can make your application stand out, impress people in your interview, and land the job you’re dreaming of.
So if you spot an open position and you’re telling yourself, “I am not qualified for this job,” hold on. We’ve got insider deets on how to ace the recruitment and hiring process.

Should you apply if you feel unqualified?

While it may not be fruitful to apply for the CEO position after your first year on the job, there is some wiggle room in terms of the years of experience and required skills mentioned in most job postings.
Rebecca Ebner, a talent acquisition business partner and operations integration lead, and her team have discovered that “Women, in general, will only apply for a job if they meet 90 percent of the criteria—sometimes even 100 percent—whereas men will apply if they only meet about 75 percent of the job requirements.”
That’s a huge difference, isn’t it? And if women continue to feel like they shouldn’t apply unless they meet every requirement, we’re at a serious disadvantage in the workplace.
“Because women are more inclined to make sure they’re 100 percent qualified before applying, they are more apt to find themselves in a non-challenging position,” shares Ebner. It’s hard, then, to expect growth in a role like that. Oftentimes, though, women stay in a job because they look at the next level and feel like they don’t meet that next set of criteria.
So, let’s break this harmful cycle!  

Catch Their Eye: Tips for When You’re Unqualified

Align your resume with the job qualifications.

The first thing Ebner suggests is pulling out your resume along with the job description for the new position. Compare the job posting qualifications, years of experience necessary, and required skills to what’s on your resume. Where are the gaps? And what are the aspects you need to clarify on your resume?
“If possible, sit down with a trusted friend, a previous manager, or a mentor,” suggests Ebner. You’ll gain an outside perspective and receive guidance on how to modify your resume.
[pullquote align=’center’]If women continue to feel like they shouldn’t apply unless they meet every requirement, we’re at a serious disadvantage in the workplace.[/pullquote]
Don’t forget to adjust your older work history, either, even if the job was several years ago. “A lot of people don’t go back and update all of their experience,” says Ebner. For example, if you were a cashier at McDonald’s, you might list tasks such as “dealt with customers” or “exchanged money.” Ebner recommends editing the tone of these descriptions to include things like, “provided high level of customer service” or “processed orders and managed cash register during high volume.”
By making small modifications that align your past experiences with the new job, you’re showing that your background does indeed match with what your prospective employer is looking for.

Talk about all of your years of experience.

“Perhaps you haven’t done the specific tasks listed on the job description, but chances are you have experience related to some of the skills they’ve included: leadership, critical thinking, project management,” says Faith Shovein, talent acquisition manager at Domino’s Pizza Headquarters. “If you’re able to reference examples of these qualities in your work and confidently communicate their relevance, chances are the employer will make the connection.”
And sometimes it’s not just your previous jobs that relate to a position but your extracurriculars too. Whether you led a project as a volunteer or guest lectured at a university, add all of your related experience and skills to your resume. Consider highlighting activities such as volunteering for charity, taking training courses, being a member of an organization, or participating as an elected individual on a local council or parent–teacher association, for example.
By highlighting your related experiences, both career-based and otherwise, you’ll have a more well-rounded application that’s likely to catch the eyes of a recruiter or hiring manager.

Sealing the Deal: Tips for Your Interview

You’ve landed an interview. Congratulations!
Whether it’s a phone interview or you’re meeting in person, specific strategies will help you stand out.
Remember, though, that honesty is always the best policy. “Your interviewer has your resume, so they know your background. It’s okay to say that you’ve never done something before,” says Karen DeVries, a practice manager at Mercy Health who hires for clinical jobs, front end staff, team leaders, and physicians.
So how can you be honest and still boost your interview performance?

Research the job and company ahead of time.

While it may seem like common sense, a large portion of candidates don’t do ample research about the company or position ahead of time. Doing thorough research puts you at a serious advantage.
“If you don’t have experience with something listed on the job description, make sure you’ve gained a reasonable understanding so you’re not caught entirely off guard when it’s mentioned in an interview,” shares Shovein. “The more you know about the company, the better you can understand the job and how your skill sets will contribute to the success of the role.”
[pullquote align=’center’]“Before any interview, set aside time to review your key professional experiences so that they’re fresh in your mind when you’re asked for specific examples in an interview.”[/pullquote]
“You should be able to ask questions about the role itself, even if you’re not experienced in it,” says DeVries. “Come to the interview prepared with a brief statement about why you’re interested in the position and how you’re hoping to grow or learn, along with a few narrowed questions about the role or department.”
That’s right: An interview is a two-way street.
“People go into interviews thinking they have to ace it to get the job, but sometimes a job truly isn’t the best fit. Be sure to ask questions about the culture, business, and growth opportunities,” suggests Ebner. These aspects make a big difference when deciding if the job is right for you, too.

Prepare, prepare, prepare.

“After 10 years in recruiting, I’m still shocked when I stump candidates with questions like ‘What interested you in this job?’ or ‘Tell me about your most recent accomplishment,’” shares Shovein.
Her tip for having solid answers ready? Study yourself!
“Before any interview, set aside time to review your key professional experiences so that they’re fresh in your mind when you’re asked for specific examples in an interview. This should alleviate the time spent sulking after your interview when that perfect answer finally came to you.”

Allow yourself time to answer.

Arriving at your interview prepared is essential, but you won’t have perfect responses for everything. “If you come across a question and you’re unsure how to answer, you can say, ‘Let me think about that for a moment,’” says DeVries. “By requesting more time, it shows you give good thought to your answers and you’re not just giving scripted responses.”

Redirect the answer if necessary.

If you get to the interview and are asked about something you don’t have experience with, modify your answer rather than simply saying you’ve never done it before. “Try saying something like, ‘That’s not something I’m well-versed in, but I did have this experience that relates,’ or ‘I’ve never done that, but here’s what I’m looking to do in future experiences,’” suggests DeVries.
By changing the angle of your answer, you’re providing the interviewer with honest information and showing you can think critically and connect your other experiences.

Follow the STAR method for behavioral-based interview questions.

Almost all companies and HR departments include behavioral-based interviewing in their recruitment process. Behavioral-based questions prompt you to describe previous experiences—revealing how you handled situations and which skills you utilized.
[pullquote align=’center’]“Choose simplistic colors instead of bright ones. Let the interviewer ask the complete question before cutting them off.”[/pullquote]
“With behavioral-based questions, always follow the STAR method,” says Ebner. STAR stands for Situation, Task, Action, and Result. Find behavioral-based question samples by searching online (or check out The Balance Careers’ list here), then practice describing the situation, the tasks you accomplished, the actions you took, and the final results. By incorporating these four components, you’ll give your interviewer a well-rounded response.
Remember that interviewers want to hear examples. “If you say you’re organized, be ready to describe how you’re organized,” says DeVries. Anyone can say they’re a team player or dedicated. But if you can show how you put those qualities into practice, hiring managers will understand the incredible value you offer.

Demonstrate your adaptability and willingness to learn.

Ebner shares that managers may choose lower-qualified candidates if they demonstrate that they’re trainable and adaptable. “If candidates show a positive demeanor in the interview and provide examples of being flexible to change, a hiring manager will have an incentive to hire that person.”
So, it’s not just about years of experience after all. It’s about who you are as a person, too.

And…don’t forget the interview basics for getting a job.

Making a great first impression is key, and that can start with what you wear to your interview: “Come to the interview in professional attire. Choose simplistic colors instead of bright ones. Let the interviewer ask the complete question before cutting them off,” reminds DeVries.
It’s normal (and even healthy) to be a bit nervous for an interview, but try to remain calm, and focus on answering the specific question asked.  
Ebner suggests keeping your answers to two to four minutes long so the interview feels more conversational. By sticking to answering the question, the interviewer will have time for follow-up questions and discussion.

What Not to Do When You Feel Unqualified in a Job Interview

“First of all, don’t show that you feel unqualified,” says Ebner. She recalls a time when a candidate interviewed and said to the manager, “I know I’m unqualified, so this interview is just for good practice. Thank you for having me.” The manager was immediately turned off from hiring them due to their lack of confidence.
“It’s natural to experience impostor syndrome when you feel unqualified for a job,” says Ebner. She recommends bringing confidence to the interview and pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone. That’s part of leaping to that next level.

When to Call It Quits

“Sometimes the hiring process is slow,” admits Ebner. Even if a company has a rockstar candidate, they might be waiting on funding or someone could be on vacation. “Just because you haven’t heard back on an application or interview isn’t indicative that you’re unqualified or not the right fit.”
But if you’ve put forth continual effort in applying for similar roles and you’re not getting anywhere, take a step back and assess the situation, says Ebner. “Ask yourself questions like, ‘Do I have real leadership skills? Have I put myself in positions to direct others in their work?’ Identify gaps between your current experience and the role you want. Consider joining organizations or project teams or asking for new assignments to pursue opportunities to build specific skills.
“If you can’t seem to move up immediately in your own organization, consider moving to another company,” says Ebner. You can always come back once you have new skills and experiences.
Set your eyes on that next role and keep chipping away at achieving your dreams. It will happen.

Categories
Nosh Nutrition x Advice

Are The Benefits Of Ashwagandha Real? Here’s What We Learned

Also known as winter cherry and Indian ginseng, ashwagandha (Withania somnifera) has recently gained a lot of popularity. There are a number of scientifically-proven benefits of ashwagandha—and the time-tested remedy could potentially have dozens of uses.
Ashwagandha is an adaptogen, which is a type of herb that helps one’s body adapt to stress. According to Erin Stokes, ND and Medical Director at MegaFood, adaptogens have been used for thousands of years in the traditional Indian system of medicine known as Ayurveda. “Ayurveda, a Sanskrit word, literally means the ‘science of life’,” Stokes says.The highly developed traditional system of medicine is centered around establishing balance in different systems of the body.”
While ashwagandha isn’t new, it’s becoming increasingly popular in wellness communities. Ashwagandha isn’t the only kind of adaptogen that exists, but it’s one of the most widely-used and well-researched of all, Stokes says. The root, leaf, and fruit of the plant are used for medicine.
Adaptogens reportedly work by targeting our cortisol levels. When we’re stressed, our bodies go into fight-or-flight mode, which increases the production of a stress hormone called cortisol. It’s normal and healthy to experience stress once in a while, but chronic stress leads to chronically high levels of cortisol. This has a damaging effect on our physical and mental health.
Because stress can affect the entire body, it follows logically that an herb that regulates our stress levels can have a broad range of positive health benefits.

What are the health benefits of ashwagandha?

“Ashwagandha is one of the most versatile of the adaptogenic botanicals because it is uniquely suited to benefit many people,” Stokes explains. “Plants each have their unique qualities, just like the people who take them.”
Alissia Zenhausern, NMD, a naturopathic physician at NMD Wellness of Scottsdale, says that ashwagandha is one of her favorite herbs because of its numerous benefits. “As ashwagandha is one of the most researched herbs, it definitely has a lot of research supporting its benefits, and clinically I have definitely seen its power,” she says.
Here are a few of the possible health benefits of ashwagandha.

Anxiety and Stress

As mentioned earlier, ashwagandha is primarily considered an adaptogen—meaning it helps the body adapt to cope with stress and anxiety. One study suggests that the anti-anxiety effects of ashwagandha are comparable to that of lorazepam (Ativan), a common prescription anti-anxiety medication. This same study also found that ashwagandha may have antidepressant effects, too.
Further studies done in 2000, 2009, and 2012 all suggest ashwagandha can reduce anxiety in people with anxiety disorders.
Zenhausern notes that although ashwagandha is great for stress, it’s more appropriate for treating long-term or chronic stress. “The reason this herb is not good for short-term stress is because it takes at least one to two months of continual use to notice improvement in stress management and anxiety. Although long, this is totally worth the wait,” she says.
[pullquote align=”center”]“Ashwagandha is one of the most versatile of the adaptogenic botanicals because it is uniquely suited to benefit many people.”
—Erin Stokes, ND [/pullquote]

Sleep

Since ashwagandha can be such a powerful anti-anxiety herb, it makes sense that it can also improve your sleep quality—especially if anxiety is keeping you from getting some shut-eye.
“Ashwagandha can also help promote restful sleep when taken over time,” Stokes says. “In fact, the genus name somnifera—Withania somnifera—means ‘sleep inducer’ in Latin.” Indeed, studies have shown that regularly taking ashwagandha can improve sleep quality, since an active component of ashwagandha can induce sleep.

Cancer

Ashwagandha has potential cancer-fighting effects, but more studies are needed to confirm this. Multiple trials done on animals suggest ashwagandha can help fight cancer—specifically, it has been shown to reduce the spread of lung, breast, ovarian and colon cancer—by causing adaptosis, the death of cancer cells, and by preventing the spread of cancer to new cells.
Unfortunately, there aren’t enough human trials to confirm whether ashwagandha could have a cancer-fighting effect in humans, too. Hopefully, future studies will help us harness the anti-tumor properties of this incredible herb.
Some trials, though, have suggested that ashwagandha can improve the quality of life of cancer patients, specifically through reducing chemotherapy-induced fatigue.

Improving Muscle Mass

Ashwagandha is Sanskrit for “strength of the stallion,” Zenhausern says, and it’s traditionally been used to improve one’s strength.
A few studies have suggested that the herb does indeed improve one’s ability to gain muscle. One study indicated that ashwagandha can significantly improve one’s physical performance and endurance during physical activity.

Immune Function and Inflammation

Inflammation is an immune response that helps the body protect itself from “attacks” such as infections, sores, and some bacteria. In itself, inflammation is not always a bad thing.
For those who have autoimmune disorders, however, inflammation often gets a little out-of-hand. The science suggests that ashwagandha has anti-inflammatory properties and supports the immune system. Zenhausern notes that, in traditional Ayurvedic medicine, ashwagandha was often given to people recovering from illness to support their immune system.
Because of its anti-inflammatory properties, ashwagandha could be a potentially useful treatment for rheumatoid arthritis, an autoimmune disorder.

Libido and Fertility

“The herb has even been shown to help with low libido and infertility in both males and females,” Zenhausern says. Indeed, human studies have shown that ashwagandha increases testosterone levels and sperm quality in men.
A 2009 study showed that ashwagandha can improve the semen quality in stress-related male infertility. In this study, the subjects underwent treatment for three months where they were given a high dose of ashwagandha every day. After this three-month treatment, 14 percent of the subjects’ partners became pregnant.
That said, the reproductive effects of ashwagandha aren’t totally understood, as it surprisingly had spermicidal effects in some animal models.

Brain Function

Ashwagandha is considered a rejuvenating plant, and it’s believed to help improve cognitive function. It’s one of the Ayurvedic medicines that have traditionally been used to prevent dementia and improve memory. A few studies have suggested that ashwagandha can improve brain function and memory.
Additionally, ashwagandha might prevent or reduce the acceleration of neurodegenerative diseases like Alzheimer’s disease.
Although the plant is well-studied, further studies are needed before we understand all the benefits of ashwagandha. If you’re curious about whether ashwagandha can help you specifically, it’s best to speak to a trained healthcare professional who has knowledge of Ayurveda.

How does one use ashwagandha properly?

Ashwagandha is available in a range of different forms, including teas, powders, capsules, and tablets, Stokes notes.
Zenhausern highly recommends taking the root powder form of ashwagandha, but make sure you’re buying it from a reputable source.
It is important to make sure the supplement is standardized for human consumption,” she says. The active part of the herb is called the withanolides, and Zenhausern recommends ensuring the withanolides content in the ashwagandha is in the range of 1 to 10 percent before buying it. Only buy ashwagandha if the supplier clearly marks the withanolides content, she advises. “The reason it is important to make sure the withanolide content is between 1 to 10 percent is because the higher the withanolide content, the stronger the supplement’s effect will be,” Zenhausern explains. Thus, the withanolides content will determine the dosage of ashwagandha.
Ashwagandha powder does not taste great, unfortunately. While you can mix it up with a little water and drink it, it has a very unpleasant, chalky taste. An alternative is to add ashwagandha powder to a smoothie so that the other ingredients mask the taste.
As always, it’s best to check in with a healthcare practitioner before using any herb or supplement. Not only can they ensure its safety, but they can also advise you on what dosage to take. “Always consult with your doctor before starting a new supplement,” Zenhausern advises. “The typical dose I recommend starting with is 300 to 500 mg of ashwagandha per day. You can slowly increase for a max dose of 1,500 mg per day.”
Of course, the ideal dosage of ashwagandha will vary from person to person, depending on your personal biology and the health benefit you hope to gain from taking the supplement.

There are many benefits of ashwagandha, but is it safe to use? Who should steer clear of it?

Studies have shown that ashwagandha is safe to consume, but both Stokes and Zenhausern agree that it shouldn’t be taken by children or pregnant people.
“Ashwagandha should never be used in pregnancy, as it contains abortive properties that can lead to miscarriage,” Zenhausern explains.
There aren’t enough studies to show definitely if ashwagandha is safe for children to consume, so it’s best to err on the side of caution and avoid giving the herb to kids.
[pullquote align=”center”]“As ashwagandha is one of the most researched herbs, it definitely has a lot of research supporting its benefits, and clinically I have definitely seen its power.”
—Alissia Zenhausern, NMD [/pullquote]
Ashwagandha might interact with other medication, so it’s important to be cautious if you’re on certain medications. WebMD notes that ashwagandha might interact with immunosuppressants, sedatives like benzodiazepine and central nervous system depressants, and thyroid medication. If you’re concerned about this, speak directly to a healthcare practitioner.
As mentioned earlier, it’s important to get your ashwagandha from a reputable source. Although ashwagandha itself isn’t inherently harmful to adults, it’s important to remember that the FDA doesn’t regulate supplements the same way prescription medications are regulated.
In 2008, the National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health funded a study that involved testing Ayurvedic supplements. Out of the 193 supplements examined, 21 percent contained toxic substances like lead, mercury, and arsenic.
This is why it’s important to check in with your healthcare practitioner whenever you use a supplement, even if it’s herbal and relatively safe, like ashwagandha. The best way to enjoy the benefits of ashwagandha is under the advice of a trained professional who can help you determine the best dosage and source of the herb.

Categories
Nosh Nutrition x Advice

What Causes Indigestion? Get The 411 On Dyspepsia

Who can resist indulging in their favorite greasy, guilty pleasures at the state fair or a fiery curry dinner that’s loaded with spicy veggies? Foods like these taste amazing going down, but they don’t always feel so great when your body starts processing them.
Your stomach might feel uncomfortably full (even if the meal wasn’t huge), you might experience some blush-inducing gas, or you might have a burning sensation. It’s called indigestion, and it shows up in a variety of ways. But what causes indigestion?
“Indigestion is really interesting because it covers a lot of real estate in the digestive system,” explains Will Bulsiewicz, MD, the board-certified practicing gastroenterologist behind the popular gut health Instagram account @theguthealthmd. “Lots of different things can cause indigestion, and even the way you choose to define it can vary quite a bit.”
Indigestion certainly isn’t comfortable, but you’re not alone in the experience: Roughly 1 in 4 Americans experience indigestion every year, according to the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases. Here’s what you need to know about this all-too-common experience, from what causes indigestion, symptoms to watch out for, treatment options for uncomfortable digestion, and when to see a doctor.

What is indigestion?

You’ve heard the term countless times, and you might even be experiencing it yourself. But what exactly is indigestion?
“Indigestion is a really broad term,” says Bulsiewicz. “In general, I describe it as a feeling of discomfort after you consume food.”
While indigestion symptoms can vary from person to person, they often include pain in the abdomen, dull burning in the chest, feeling overly full, nausea, gas, and/or bloating. It’s one of those you-know-it-when-you-have-it conditions.
However, keep in mind that indigestion itself isn’t a disease. Also known as dyspepsia, indigestion is a symptom of something else. This is why it’s important to identify the root of your discomfort so you can find the right treatment options for you.

What foods cause indigestion?

You might notice that every time you eat a specific kind of food, like citrus fruits or a spicy tuna roll (extra wasabi, please!), you experience digestion that’s, ahem, less than pleasant. It’s not surprising, though—certain foods and even some drinks are known to trigger uncomfortable symptoms in some people.
“Spicy foods and acidic foods, such as tomato sauce, classically make indigestion worse because they increase the acidity in the stomach,” says Bulsiewicz.
If you experience symptoms of indigestion after a spicy meal every once in a while, it’s probably not cause for major concern.
“Everyone is prone to overdoing it on food at times. You could be a perfectly healthy person, go to Mexican a restaurant and have too many jalapeños and maybe not feel well afterward. That could be the source of your indigestion,” says Bulsiewicz.
However, chronic indigestion after meals might indicate that foods are aggravating an underlying health issue.
“If you have certain conditions that worsen when you have increased acidity, you’ll have an intensification of pain after you eat anything acidic,” explains Bulsiewicz. “There’s a point at which it crosses the line from sporadic to something you can reproduce. For example, I could drink orange juice all day long and be fine, but there are people with symptoms that flare up after just one glass.”
Keep track of when you feel indigestion, and work with your doctor to determine whether a more serious health concern should be addressed.

[pullquote align=”center”]Indigestion isn’t a disease, it’s a symptom of something else. For a portion of people who experience indigestion, that something else might be a health condition that needs medical attention.[/pullquote]

Another potential cause of indigestion could be how you’re eating.
In today’s fast-paced world, who isn’t scarfing down big meals at lightning speed? Your dining behaviors not only limit how much you enjoy the food you’re eating, they also might be what’s causing your post-meal abdominal pain. (Talk about #saddesklunch!)
Wolfing down food too quickly, laughing a lot while you’re eating, drinking through a straw, and consuming carbonated beverages can cause you to actually swallow air (a condition known as aerophagia), says Bulsiewicz. And that air needs to come out—somehow, some way.
“The air is either going to be belched out or wiggle through your intestines and come out your bottom,” says Bulsiewicz.
The way your body processes and releases the air can cause gastrointestinal discomfort, including abdominal pain, bloating, and other indigestion symptoms. Consider this just one more reason to support the worldwide movement to ban plastic straws—and additional motivation to kick your diet soda habit.

Certain health conditions can cause indigestion.

Remember: Indigestion isn’t a disease, it’s a symptom of something else. For a portion of people who experience indigestion, that something else might be a health condition that needs medical attention.
“When people think about indigestion, the first thing that comes to mind for both patients and doctors is the question of an ulcer,” says Bulsiewicz. “But it takes a lot of skill on the part of the doctor to peel back the layers to figure out what might really be causing someone’s indigestion.”
Health issues in the stomach may be to blame for your indigestion. The doctor may check to see if you have a Helicobacter pylori (H. pylori) infection or gastritis (inflammation of the stomach lining). Your physician may determine you have functional dyspepsia (stomach pain that’s not related to an ulcer).
“Another fairly common cause of indigestion is constipation,” he says. “It can cause abdominal discomfort and pain, nausea, gas, and bloating.”
Sometimes your indigestion might not be rooted in stomach or intestinal issues at all. Instead, another organ might be causing the discomfort you feel after mealtimes.
“If your gallbladder isn’t functioning properly, it could give you discomfort in your upper abdomen, which many people think is their stomach,” says Bulsiewicz. “Indigestion might also be a symptom of exocrine pancreatic insufficiency. While commonly seen in people with a history of alcohol abuse, this condition also occurs in people with type 2 diabetes and people who are aging. You stop producing enough digestive juice in your pancreas, and that can cause pain.”
Finally, indigestion is also a common complaint among pregnant women.
“There’s no one cause for indigestion during pregnancy,” explains Bulsiewicz. “Altered hormones, the baby and uterus pushing up on the stomach, and relaxation of the lower esophageal sphincter can all contribute to these symptoms.”
So, how can you figure out what causes indigestion in your body? Start by tracking your indigestion (what time of day it occurs, what you ate right before) so you can learn what’s triggering it, and see your doctor for a proper diagnosis.

Diagnosing What Causes Indigestion

Infrequent cases of fleeting indigestion are generally not something to be alarmed about (even though getting through it is no picnic!). But when does this problem move beyond uncomfortable annoyance and into the realm of serious health concern? Bulsiewicz recommends watching out for the following conditions:

  • Your indigestion becomes a chronic, recurrent problem
  • It goes on for more than a few weeks
  • Your indigestion intensifies or becomes more painful
  • You start losing weight
  • You feel fatigued, weak, or lightheaded
  • You see blood in your vomit or stool

“All of those would be reasons to get your indigestion checked out by a doctor,” he says.
Your physician may use an upper endoscopy to start looking for clues as to what’s causing your uncomfortable digestion.
“It’s the single most powerful [tool] we have to diagnose this symptom, but it doesn’t provide all of the answers,” says Bulsiewicz.
Depending on what the doctor finds with the upper endoscopy, you may have a diagnosis relatively quickly. Otherwise, you may need to undergo additional procedures, such as a blood test, to figure out what’s going on.
Finding the cause of indigestion isn’t always easy, but as soon as you have the right diagnosis, you can work on starting the proper treatment—and ultimately finding relief.

What’s the best treatment for indigestion?

First, you need to determine if it’s just a random case of indigestion (which everyone gets from time to time) or it’s related to a more severe health issue. If it’s the former, popping a couple of Tums might do the trick.
“Tums are great when you have symptoms and you want to get rid of them,” says Bulsiewicz. “It won’t prevent symptoms or heal an underlying cause, but it’s a fine option to use as needed.”
Stronger indigestion medication might be necessary if you’re experiencing more frequent symptoms. Prilosec, Pepcid, and Zantac are all potential options for relieving the discomfort of indigestion, says Bulsiewicz.
“Pick up an acid-reducing medicine over the counter and do a trial for two weeks to see what happens,” he says. “I would not treat yourself at home for more than two weeks.” If the problem is still occurring after a couple of weeks, or your symptoms worsen, it’s time to get checked out by a doctor.
Remember: If you occasionally experience discomfort after eating, you probably don’t have a more serious underlying condition. If your indigestion is frequent, though, or if you start feeling worse, it could be related to something beyond eating one-too-many jalapeños. If you think your indigestion may be indicative of a more serious issue, see a doctor right away to pinpoint the problem and get on the road to feeling better.