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Family Planning: Do You Know What Factors Really Impact Your Chances Of Getting Pregnant?

When my husband and I decided we were ready to try for a baby, I made one discovery: I knew virtually nothing about how to increase my chances of getting pregnant. I mean, I knew how to get pregnant, of course, but that was it. I had some vague inklings about ovulation, but in truth, I had basically no idea that most of the month there was little chance of me getting pregnant. I was 34 years old, and up to that point, all I’d been taught was how not to get pregnant.
Many women are in the same boat—and whether you’re ready to try for a baby or just want to understand your body better, read on!

How do I get pregnant?

We’ve all been taught about the birds and the bees, but that knowledge turns out to be largely insufficient when you’re actually trying to get pregnant. When it comes to making a baby, timing is everything.
Women are born with anywhere between 1 and 2 million eggs (!), but only release 300 to 400 over the course of our lives, typically releasing just one each month starting when we have our first period. This is why it’s absolutely key to time intercourse if you’re trying to get pregnant.
“Eggs only live for 12 to 24 hours,” explains Steven Brenner, MD, a reproductive endocrinologist at Long Island In Vitro Fertilization. He goes on to share that sperm live for two to three days. If you time intercourse correctly, sperm may fertilize an egg on its way to the uterus. If the egg isn’t fertilized within 24 hours, though, it will simply dissolve, which renders your chances of getting pregnant very, very low.
The most important factor if you want to up your odds of conceiving? Getting to know your cycle. The average woman’s cycle is 28 days, but that’s an average. Cycles range from 28 to 32 days, but longer and shorter cycles are possible, too. (Some women go up to 35 or 40 days.) There are four main phases of your cycle:

The Follicular Stage, aka Your Period

This starts with the first day of bleeding. The body releases hormones like follicle stimulating hormone (FSH) that make the eggs in your ovaries mature. Between days two and 14 (on average), those hormones are thickening the inside of your uterus so it can make a cozy home for a fertilized egg. You have little chance of getting pregnant during this time.

Pre-Ovulation

Around day seven, you’ll see some signs that ovulation is on its way as your discharge becomes increasingly white and creamy. Since sperm can stay trapped in fertile vaginal mucus for two to three days (some even say up to five days), fertilization is possible, though not terribly likely. You should have sex now since you might ovulate early. It’s good to cast a wide net if you’re aiming to make a baby.

Ovulation

Sometime between day 11 and day 21—or approximately 14 days after the first day of bleeding—you are ovulating, which means that the egg that’s most ripe is released. For many women, this phase is easy to identify on a purely physiological level—the vaginal mucus becomes thin and stretchy (like egg whites). Some women even experience ovulation pain. The thick mucus helps the sperm make it to (and adhere to) the egg. This is when you should be having sex, at least once every two days for a week.
According to Kelly Smith, licensed acupuncturist, “This is when ovulation predictor kits can be helpful because you can have intercourse until that OPK is positive. …Once it is, you can basically do it once more that very moment and then give up because the ship has sailed.”

Post-Ovulation or Luteal Phase

This is when conception happens—or doesn’t. Your ovaries stop releasing eggs and your cervical mucus dries up. It can take up to six days for fertilized eggs to travel to the uterus. If the embryo implants in the uterus, progesterone levels will stay high and human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) levels will rise. If it doesn’t, the egg disintegrates. If you aren’t pregnant, this phase lasts 14 to 16 days until your period starts up again. There’s little chance of getting pregnant.

How do I keep track of all this?

There are now a wide variety of convenient ways to track your fertility and get to know your ovulation cycle. You can go with a simple chart, websites, or apps. There are many factors to track—temperature, cervical mucus, even your cravings and moods!—but this depends entirely on how far down the rabbit hole you want to go. Brenner believes that if you’re under 30 and having regular periods, there is no need to get an app or an ovulation kit (he doesn’t think store-bought kits are particularly accurate or effective). The most bare bones approach to upping your chances of getting pregnant is to simply follow the schedule stated above and time sex accordingly.
There are additional systems to employ, but none of these are particularly foolproof, and some—like regularly checking your basal body temperature—have been proven largely ineffective. The one advantage to charting your temperature, however, is that it might help you discover that you’re not ovulating.
Smith shares that ovulation predictor kits, on the other hand, are useful only if you keep in mind that they typically tell you when you’ve already ovulated, not when you’re going to ovulate.

How can I increase my chances of getting pregnant?

Know thyself.

“Figure out when ovulation is taking place,” says Brenner. That’s the most important thing. You can have sex all you want, but if you’re not doing it when you’re ovulating, pregnancy is extremely unlikely to occur.
How do you do this? Get to know your cycle. Is it regular? Are the days of bleeding uniform from month to month? Most women know this. (And if you don’t, start tracking it.) If it’s uniform, there’s a good chance you’re ovulating, says Brenner. If it’s inconsistent, you might not be ovulating in each cycle, which is worth discussing with your doctor. Two great resources are Taking Charge of Your Fertility and Cycle Savvyboth by Toni Wechsler, MPH, a women’s health educator and public speaker.
But remember: Just because you don’t have a 28-day cycle doesn’t mean your cycle is inconsistent, it only means that you won’t bleed on the exact same day of every month.
Once you know your cycle, make sure you’re having sex at the right time. This can’t be overstated. Although you will probably ovulate between days 14 and 16, you want to have sex “at least every two days from day 11 and 12 on, for a week, because you might ovulate a little earlier or later,” according to Brenner, and it’s best to cast a wide net.

Be mindful of your weight.

This means in both directions—being either underweight or overweight can diminish your chances of conceiving.

Eat well.

According to a landmark Nurses’ Health Study, diet does contribute to a woman’s chances of getting pregnant. The primary directive is to eat a balanced, healthy, nourishing diet, but a few key takeaways include:

  • Avoiding trans fats and using more unsaturated vegetable oils in your diet
  • Drinking whole milk (skim can actually contribute to infertility!)
  • Taking a multi-vitamin that includes folic acid
  • Eating carbs that are rich in fiber (whole grains, vegetables, fruit, beans)
  • Eating plant proteins (tofu, nuts, beans)

That said: Don’t go crazy. “I treat people who are trying to get pregnant and cut out coffee, alcohol, sugar, and gluten,” Smith says. “But is that stressing you out? If you’re depleting yourself because of this, don’t do it.”

Get enough sleep.

This is vital for all women at any stage of their reproductive journey, but Smith always reminds her acupuncture patients who are trying to conceive how fundamental sleep is to so many basic biological functions. Adults should aim to get seven to nine hours of sleep each night.

Try acupuncture.

Fertility is really affected by stress, whether you’re having sex or being inseminated,” says Smith. “Acupuncture can lower stress levels, help with general wellness, boost immune function, and regulate cycles.” It can also help mitigate some of the side effects of fertility treatments—migraines, major bloating, irritability.
Although acupuncture might not up your odds of getting pregnant per se—it can’t increase your number of viable eggs, or make you magically fertile at 45—Smith explains that it can “bring blood and chi to the right place—the uterus—and increase endorphin levels for a while.”
In some ways, the most vital role acupuncture can play in a woman’s life is to make her slow down and take care of herself. “When people are trying to get pregnant and they’re also busy, busy, busy, this is just another thing they’ve added to their packed schedule. Simply lying down for an hour forces them to take the time to slow down a bit, which is good for the body.”

How soon should I start trying to conceive after stopping birth control?

There’s no reason to wait. But after you come off any kind of hormonal birth control, it takes two to three months before your periods are regular again, explains Brenner. So the real problem with trying to get pregnant right after calling it quits with your hormonal birth control is that you won’t have a clear sense of when your period is coming, meaning you can’t calculate when ovulation will occur. This only means that your chances of actually hitting the mark will be a little lower to begin with.
If your periods still aren’t regular after two to three months, there may be a problem. “Sometimes when you’ve been on the pill a long time, it masks a change that’s happened,” Brenner says. “The assumption is that it’s the pill, but it might have happened in conjunction with being on pill and isn’t related.” For example, hormonal birth control can mask the release of too much prolactin, or you could have developed polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) that went undetected while you were taking hormonal birth control.

Speaking of PCOS…

PCOS is a hormonal disorder that affects between 4 and 20 percent of women of reproductive age. It impacts the length and frequency of a woman’s period, her hormone levels, and the ability of her ovaries to release eggs. Although it is only one possible side effect of many, PCOS can (Can! Not will!) lead to infertility.
Although there’s no one test to confirm that a woman has PCOS, a doctor will do a thorough exam and take a comprehensive history—sometimes talking about issues and symptoms that date back to the beginning of puberty.
Basically, PCOS is a problem with the follicles, that is, the egg sac, not the eggs themselves, and the body’s ability to regulate the hormones that enable pregnancy to happen
In terms of fertility-forward treatments for PCOS, if your doctor detects a problem, she may prescribe Clomid or Letrozole to boost your follicle-stimulating hormones. In other words: Yes, you can get pregnant with PCOS, it just might take some additional help and time.

How do I know if there’s a problem?

“If you’re at or below 28 to 30 years old, most pregnancies occur within three to four cycles,” explains Brenner. “In a textbook you’ll read that ‘infertility’ is when you’ve been trying for a year with regular periods and there’s still no pregnancy. That doesn’t apply for a younger person because it should have happened before then.”
Someone over the age of 39, however, should not wait a year before seeing a doctor, he advises. If you have regular periods and have been trying to conceive for six months, it’s time for an evaluation. This doesn’t mean something is necessarily wrong, but time is not on your side and it’s best not to wait.
When a patient comes in for an evaluation, Brenner begins with non-invasive testing: He draws blood, performs a sonogram, and does a semen analysis if a male partner is part of the equation. If all of that looks normal, he makes sure a woman’s fallopian tubes are open.
Brenner also checks the quality of male partners’ sperm—is it absent or are there only a few sperm? If no sperm are coming out, are any being produced? (Sometimes sperm sits in the testes, not coming out in the ejaculate.) Smith concurs with Brenner when it comes to the importance of male testing—often all the stress and blame that piles up when a couple isn’t conceiving is put on the woman when it turns out to be a problem with their male partner’s reproductive health.

Is my age really an issue when it comes to my odds of conceiving?

Yes, yes, yes.
“Many women are not aware of the influence of age on fertility,” says Brenner. “It’s surprising how often I see somebody whose OB has said that if you’re having regular periods, everything is fine, but in fact things can change even if you’re having regular periods.” In other words, it’s impossible to circumnavigate biology and genetics.
Women are most fertile before age 25, but stay pretty fertile up to age 34 according to a Parents article featuring contributions from Alan Copperman, MD, the director of Reproductive Medicine Associates of New York. If you conceive after that, you’re considered to have what the medical community refers to a geriatric pregnancy. After 35, female fertility declines, with your chances of conceiving decreasing significantly every year and dwindling in your forties. The reason for this is that egg quantity and quality goes down as women age—so while someone might still have a lot of eggs, up to 90 percent of them are chromosomally abnormal in their forties according to Copperman.
“As an acupuncturist, the lion’s share of my patients were women who’d never had children and were in their forties and wanted to conceive,” Smith explains. “They’d been chasing their careers, and were now literally putting all their eggs in one basket and trying everything at the same time. That’s super stressful.”
Smith saw much of her job as educational. “I used to call it sex camp,” she jokes. She’d hand out charts and explain about timing intercourse, which alarmingly few women she worked with knew how to do.
And as for a second pregnancy in your forties? “Somebody who has had no problem getting pregnant in the past has a better chance of having no problem in future,” says Brenner, “but that’s all, of course, related to age.”
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Everyday Stress Management Techniques That Emphasize Self-Care, Mental Health, And Physical Well-Being

“You look…stressed.”
It’s something you’ve probably heard before, whether from a well-meaning spouse, a colleague, or a concerned friend. You’ve probably had to stifle the urge to bitterly reply, “Of course I’m stressed!” After all, the only thing worse than feeling the internal tension of stress is having someone comment on it, proving once and for all that you’re not doing a good job of hiding just how stressed you are.
But again, how could you not feel stressed? In a given day you, modern women have to care for themselves, their careers, aging parents, young kids, spouses, and other loved ones. And that’s just the stress that originates close to home. There are also big-picture stressors like divisive politics, global warming, and mass shootings that leave some of us tangled up in one giant ball of tension.
And if it seems like you’re more stressed than the men in your life, you’re probably right. The American Psychological Association (APA) has found that women consistently report higher levels of stress than men. For example, 65 percent of women stress about money compared to 57 percent of men, and 56 percent of women stress about family responsibilities, whereas only 42 percent of men experience stress about the same thing.
There’s no denying that there is stress in your life. The traditional advice for dealing with stress was to just eliminate stressful situations from your day-to-day, but that’s easier said than done—especially when we have constant access to social media and are inundated with news that exposes us to stressors nonstop thanks to a 24/7 media cycle.
Because of this, it makes more sense for modern women to learn to manage stress than to try to eliminate it completely. Fortunately, there are great stress management techniques that will help you relax and have fun while letting go of the tension that stress can cause.
HealthyWay spoke with experts about the best stress management techniques that you can use to better handle your stress now—and make 2018 the year you’re not overwhelmed.
We promise it will be easy. …Don’t stress about it!

What is stress?

We talk about stress all the time, but how should we actually define it? According to the American Institute of Stress, it’s hard to define, especially because how people experience stress and what they find stressful varies widely.
An early definition of psychological stress as “the nonspecific response of the body to any demand for change” was coined in 1936, but that doesn’t exactly give us lots of information. As psychologists and others studied stress more closely, they began to view stress as “physical, mental, or emotional strain or tension.” Researchers have also found that stress is associated with feeling a lack of control. If we’re not able to control something, we find it stressful.
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So what does all that mean for modern life? Each year the APA publishes a report titled “Stress in America: Coping With Change.” The 2017 study found that 80 percent of Americans reported feeling symptoms of stress during the month prior to being surveyed, and that those symptoms included headaches, anxiety, and depression.
The report found that both personal and social problems contribute to stress. Americans also anticipate stress. Respondents said that they are likely to stress over money (62 percent), the economy (58 percent), personal health concerns (58 percent), and health problems in the family (57 percent) in the next year. Terrorism and gun violence are also sources of stress for 34 and 31 percent of Americans, respectively.
With all these topics weighing on our minds, it’s no wonder that American women feel overwhelmed and are ready to get proactive about relief.

Stress has real health impacts.

You might think of stress as a mental health concern. And while that’s certainly true (and a valid reason to take it seriously), it’s important to know that stress has a huge impact on physical health. Studies including one on biomarkers and chronic stress published in Neuroscience and Behavioral Reviews have found that stress can affect nearly all our bodies’ systems, from the immune system to metabolism and cardiovascular health.
“Chronic psychosocial stress and consequent physiological dysregulations are increasingly viewed as catalysts of accelerated aging and agitators of disease trajectories,” the study’s authors write. In short, stress can make you age faster and make you more susceptible to disease.
Another study concluded, “There [is] a significant relationship between daily stress and the occurrence of both concurrent and subsequent health problems such as flu, sore throat, headaches, and backaches.”
The same study found that some people are more vulnerable to the physical impacts of stress even if they have relatively low levels of stress in their lives.

What can stress management routines do to address its adverse impacts?

Stress can take a toll on your physical and mental health, so it’s important to try to navigate stress in a way that allows you to minimize its negative side effects.
While some of us are more resilient in the face of stress than others, at some point all of us will reach our threshold for how much stress we can tolerate,” says Marni Amsellem, PhD, a psychiatrist at Smart Health Psychology, a private practice with offices in Westchester County, New York, and Fairfield County, Connecticut.
“If we do not find a way to effectively let out our stress, our overall functioning will decline,” Amsellem says. “We will snap at little things that [do not] ordinarily affect us. If we are not checking in with ourselves and are not regularly managing stress, when we hit our breaking point, we may really have a negative reaction.”  
Having a stress management routine is a way to get ahead of stress, addressing it before it begins to have a negative impact on our sense of well-being. Since stress is constantly coming into our lives, it’s important to have a stress management routine that we practice regularly. Whatever stress management technique you choose to use, it’s important to employ it every day.
“It should be practiced as frequently as brushing our teeth—two to three times a day,” says Kelley Kitley, a licensed clinical social worker and founder of Serendipitous Psychotherapy in Chicago. “It’s a self-soothing and emotional regulation necessity.”
The good news is that more Americans are finding ways to handle their stress effectively. The “Stress in America” report found that 41 percent of respondents feel they are managing their stress better than they were 10 years ago.
So how are they doing it? It turns out there are a variety of techniques.

It’s time to get serious about self-care.

All stress management techniques are forms of self-care. You’re taking the time to connect with your feelings and nurture yourself so you can let go of tension and fear. That self-care component is more important than the specific stress management method you use, says Amsellem.
“One strategy that I find is highly effective for my patients is to carve out time each day for self-care,” she says. “What self-care is varies from individual to individual and from day to day. One day, it may mean going to a yoga class after work, another day it may mean leisure reading or catching up with an old friend. On other days it may mean going through that unruly closet in the hallway that is in a constant state of chaos and taking the time to organize it.”
The most important thing is to make sure that you’re making time for self-care daily, even when (and especially when) life gets chaotic.

Breathe the stress away.

Having a self-care routine is a great way to keep stress at bay, but it’s also important to have techniques that you can use in the moment when you are feeling overwhelmed. If you open a negative email from your boss or get a phone call with bad news, what can you do to start coping with that stress immediately?
Breathe.
“When we breathe, we are literally pausing our initial reaction,” Amsellem says. “During that time, we can compose our thoughts to help temper our automatic reactions. Breathing also helps slow down our physiological reactions in our body that can get over-activated in a crisis.”
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Taking a deep breath (or five) can slow the heart rate and stabilize blood pressure—both of which often skyrocket in stressful situations—and can help you control your physical stress response so that you can react to the situation from a place that is more mentally and emotionally aware.

Take time to unplug.

Most of us are never far from our smartphones. We text with friends and check social media obsessively, often making it the first thing we do when we wake up and the last thing we do before falling asleep. That might be contributing to our stress levels, though, so experts say that taking time away from the internet and technology is a great way to manage stress.
Some studies have found that social media use can decrease people’s ability to cope with feelings of being overwhelmed. Other studies have found that being on social media can increase chances of depression.
In addition to those issues, the blue light emitted by tablets, smartphones, and other technology can disrupt our natural sleep patterns. Since sleep is important to coping and feeling less stressed, unplugging before bed is essential.
“Getting a good night’s sleep is critical to the well-being of your mind and body. For a better night’s sleep, consider taking a tech break,” says Neil Shah, founder and director of the Stress Management Society, a U.K. nonprofit that focuses on stress management issues. “Ditch the tech at least an hour before bed.”

Get moving.

If you’re feeling stressed, exercise may be the last thing on your mind. However, moving your body can have powerful stress-busting effects. Studies have found that exercise can lower stress levels and leave you feeling better psychologically (and stronger physically). It also helps you build resilience to stress, which is great if you don’t see your life slowing down any time soon.
Scientists don’t understand exactly why exercise helps relieve stress, but common hypotheses emphasize the release of endorphins, neurotransmitters that facilitate feeling good, involved with exercise. With more endorphins flowing, you’re less likely to feel the negative effects of stress.

Reach for healthy foods.

If you’re feeling stressed, science says that you’re more likely to reach for high-fat foods and other unhealthy treats. Although people report that they reach for these foods to comfort themselves, unhealthy eating can add to your stress in the long term as you worry about the negative implications of your diet for your overall health.
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Rather than reaching for an unhealthy treat when you’re feeling stressed, choose wholesome, healthy foods like fruits, vegetables, and lean proteins. These will help keep your blood sugar stable and your emotions in check throughout the day.

Go on a mental vacation.

Remember how relaxed you felt the last time you were on a vacation without deadlines, carpools, or groceries to worry about? Tap into those feelings that next time you sense stress might overwhelm you—not by booking a flight, but by closing your eyes and visualizing a wonderful memory from that time.
“Creative visualizations are very easy and can be done at your desk or on the sofa,” Shah says. “Just slow your breathing, close your eyes, and use all of your senses to remember your last holiday: Hear it, see it, feel it, smell it, and taste it.”

Take time to find what works for you.

There are many ways to manage stress, so the key is finding what works for you. The “Stress in America” survey found that exercise, talking with friends, reading, and praying are among the most common ways that Americans relieve their stress. But if those don’t sound right for you or if you don’t feel like doing them on a particular day, you have plenty of other options.
“Everyone’s stress management routine will be different,” says Nicole Archer, PsyD, a licensed clinical psychologist in St. Petersburg, Florida. “It is important to try different methods to see what works best for you. Many find exercise to be a great stress relief. Other examples could be getting fresh air, playing with a pet, yoga, breathing exercises, mindfulness, having a cup of tea, drawing, journaling, organizing your closet, a hot bath or shower, aromatherapy, practicing positive self-talk or self-compassion. The possibilities are endless.”
If you don’t know where to start, think about what things have soothed you in the past. If you’ve always loved taking a hot bath, that might be an excellent stress management technique for you.
The key is making the time to care for yourself consistently.
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“Balance is really important,” Archer says. “Our schedules will fluctuate, but try to schedule in self-care and stress management time just like you would a meeting or class. Sometimes you may have time to get a massage; other times you may only have a few minutes to do deep breathing or listen to your favorite song on the way to work.”
If you try a few different things and still feel that you’re struggling to manage your stress, Archer suggests talking to a therapist who can help you develop a stress management routine.
“Stress is impossible to avoid in life,” she says. “We all have responsibilities, traffic, etc. that we are faced with. Since we can’t avoid stress, we must have a stress management routine so that we can better deal with stress in order to not let it interfere with our well-being, relationships, or responsibilities.”
That’s a mission we can all get behind.

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To Eat Or Not To Eat: What’s The Deal With Red Meat?

If you’re someone who can truly appreciate a juicy steak or a rack of lamb, you might find yourself wondering about the pros and cons of regularly including red meat in your diet. Reports on the nutritional value of red meat are often mixed, with some sources claiming red meat has a rightful place in the average American diet while others frame red meat as a dangerous food that should be avoided at all costs.
In 2015, the World Health Organization released a study showing a link between red meat and increased cancer risk—an announcement that made major headlines in the United States, where red meat is consumed at three times the global average. Before disavowing your love of red meat, though, it’s important to examine the potential benefits and drawbacks of including it in your diet, as well as the guidelines for how much and how often red meat should be eaten.

What exactly counts as red meat?

What counts as red meat isn’t as straightforward as one might think. In general, the label “red meat” refers to meat that comes from four-legged livestock including beef, pork, veal, goat, bison, and venison. However, from a culinary perspective duck and goose are often thought of as red meat while pork and veal are considered white meat.
Pork, in particular, is ubiquitously thought of as white meat thanks to the long-running “Pork. The Other White Meat” ad campaign commissioned by the National Pork Board. Food scientists, on the other hand, are more likely to use myoglobin levels to determine whether a meat is considered red or white.

What the heck is myoglobin?

Myoglobin is a type of protein found in animals (including humans!). Myoglobin works by storing oxygen, which is then used to help fuel muscle movement. Depending on the type of animal and how often their muscles are utilized, myoglobin concentrations determine the color of their muscle tissue.
For example, a cow that stands all day and has plenty of room to move around will have a high myoglobin concentration compared to a cow that has little room to move around. Today’s lean white pork is partly a result of pigs not having any room to move around, which results in low myoglobin concentrations in their tissues.
Myoglobin concentrations are also the reason why some wild or very active birds such as duck, goose, ostrich, and emu are so dark in color and are considered red meat by food scientists as well as those in the culinary community.

A Great Source of Iron

Iron is an essential mineral responsible for transporting oxygen throughout your body. According to the National Institutes of Health (NIH), the recommended daily iron intake for menstruating women ages 19 to 50 is 18 milligrams. Pregnant women in the same age bracket need 27 milligrams of iron per day, whereas breastfeeding women only require 9 milligrams of iron daily.
If you follow a vegetarian diet or vegan diet, it is recommended that you consume double the recommended amount of iron per day. This increased need is due to the fact that plant-based iron sources (also known as non-heme iron) aren’t as easily absorbed by our bodies as iron from animal sources.
Ben Sit, a registered dietician who specializes in sports nutrition, recognizes red meat’s role in protein and iron absorption and says that it “can be an easier way to meet protein needs without as much planning since [red meat] protein sources are typically easier absorbed than vegetable proteins. This is because the vegetable protein does not have a heme group attached to the protein, which impairs its absorption. Pairing animal protein sources together with vegetable protein sources will help increase the absorption of the non-heme proteins.”
Red meat provides both a small amount of non-heme iron as well as large quantities of heme iron, which our bodies can absorb very efficiently, which is why those eating a plant-based diet should aim to increase their non-heme iron intake.

Which Meat to Eat for Maximum Iron Intake

Beef, pork, lamb, venison, and moose can contain anywhere from 0.3 to 3.8 milligrams of iron per 2½ ounce serving, giving you plenty of options the next time you’re considering foods with high levels of easily absorbable iron. Offal fans will be happy to learn that 2½ ounces of pork liver contains 13.4 milligrams of iron per serving with liver and kidney from lamb, beef, and veal following closely behind.

The Zinc Link

The recommended daily intake of zinc for women ages 19 years and older is 8 milligrams. This increases to 11 milligrams per day for pregnant women and 12 milligrams daily for those who are breastfeeding. Red meat is an excellent source of zinc, a naturally-occurring mineral needed by our bodies for a variety of functions.
Zinc is necessary for regulating immune response and, in fact, a study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition concluded that individuals with inadequate zinc intake were more likely to fall ill than those with adequate levels. Zinc intake also plays an important role when treating the common cold, preventing retina and vision damage, and healing wounds by decreasing inflammation and bacterial growth.

The Best Red-Meat Sources of Zinc

According to data published by the Dietitians of Canada, a single 2½ ounce serving of beef, veal, pork, lamb, and game meat such as venison or bison can contain anywhere from 2.0 to 8.6 milligrams of zinc. Once again, offal leads the pack in terms of nutrient concentration: 2½ ounces of veal liver contains an impressive 8.4 to 8.9 milligrams of zinc—an entire day’s worth for most women.

Vitamin B12: A Crucial Nutrient

Vitamin B12, another vitamin essential to human health, is only naturally-occurring in animal products, making red meat an efficient means of getting enough of this important nutrient in your diet. Vitamin B12 plays a major role in brain development and functioning, the formation of DNA, nervous system operation, heart disease prevention, blood clotting, and the management of schizophrenia, depression, multiple sclerosis, degenerative eye disease, and many other functions indicative of overall health. The NIH guidelines recommend women ages 14 years and older consume 2.4 micrograms of B12 daily, 2.6 micrograms daily while pregnant, and 2.8 micrograms daily while breastfeeding.
Vitamin B12 is so imperative for our wellbeing that an intake limit has yet to be established by medical professionals.

Vitamin B12 and Red Meat

Red meat is chock-full of vitamin B12, so including even a very small amount of red meat in your diet will keep you well above the recommended daily intake. A 2½ ounce serving of beef or pork can contain anywhere from 0.5 to 2.7 micrograms of vitamin B12, while organ meats (specifically lamb, beef, or veal) boast as much as 66 micrograms per 2 ½ ounce serving.

So how much red meat should you be eating?

Even in light of the benefits of red meat, the American Institute for Cancer Research recommends eating no more than 18 ounces of red meat per week, including favorites such as steak, hamburgers, roasts, and pork chops. This amount is based on mounting evidence that regular consumption of red meat is linked to colorectal cancer. Based on this recommendation, it’s important to take a look at the potential ill effects that can arise from including red meat in your diet.

A Note on Saturated Fat

Red meat can be high in saturated fats, a nutrient the American Heart Association recommends you consume in quantities of no more than 13 grams per day. Saturated fats have been vilified up until recently and have historically been linked to raising LDL cholesterol levels and causing heart disease. While many dietitians and medical professionals still err on the side of caution when it comes to saturated fats, scientists are discovering that we may be wrong about our stance on saturated fat.
A recent study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, for example, concluded that a diet high in saturated fat actually lowered the levels of LDL cholesterol in some participants. While this theory is promising, the study will have to be replicated many times and with a larger group of people before it gains merit in the healthcare community.

Red Meat and Cancer: A Strong Correlation

A longitudinal study published in the Archives of Internal Medicine in 2012 examined 37,000 men and 83,000 women for 30 years, monitoring participants through self-reporting every four years on topics including red meat consumption, weight, whether they smoked at the time, and how physically active they were in hopes of shedding more light on red meat and its link to early mortality.
Of the 24,000 participants who died over the course of the study, 9,500 deaths were attributable to cancer. The final report concluded that increasing red meat consumption by even a single serving each week resulted in a 13 percent increase in risk of mortality. Further studies have shown a strong link between red meat consumption and colorectal cancer, with results showing mortality rates increased by 20 to 30 percent in meat eaters.

Red Meat and Heart Disease: A Weaker Link Than You’d Think

Heart disease has long been associated with red meat consumption although evidence to support this link isn’t as strong as you might expect. An article published in Current Atherosclerosis Reports examined current information on the topic, revealing only a slight increase in the risk of coronary artery disease in those who regularly consume red meat.
Another separate review of available data on cholesterol levels and blood pressure in relation to red meat consumption published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition also demonstrated a lack of evidence linking red meat consumption to increased risk of heart disease. Specifically, it was found that “consuming more than half a serving per day of red meat, which is equivalent to a 3-ounce serving three times per week, did not worsen blood pressure and blood total cholesterol, HDL, LDL and triglyceride concentrations, which are commonly screened by health-care providers.”

Animal Welfare and Nutrition Density in Red Meat

Factory farming in the United States is not only detrimental in terms of its effects on animal welfare and the environment; it can actually have a negative impact on the overall nutritional quality of the meat we consume. Red meat sourced from factory-farmed livestock has been shown to contain higher levels of saturated fat, largely due to the fact that the animals aren’t given room to move around and develop their muscles.
Red meat from free-range livestock contains higher levels of heart-healthy omega-3 fatty acids as well as higher levels of antioxidants and vitamin E.

Finding the Best Red Meat (for Your Body and Your Budget)

If at all possible, shop for red meat at a local butcher with high product turnover and a trusted reputation. Since not everyone has access to this luxury, most people find themselves buying red meat from the grocery store. If possible, buy small amounts of organic or free-range animals that have been both grass fed and grass finished (the latter can be difficult to find).
While some cuts of meat are best with plenty of marbling (such as ribeye steaks, lamb chops, and pork shoulder), other cuts of red meat are best when very lean (including tenderloin, flank steak, and brisket). Leaner cuts of meat usually benefit from a low-and-slow cooking method and should be sliced against the grain to further tenderize the meat. Look for red meat that is a bright red or pink and is uniform in color as uneven color can be a sign that the meat is past its prime.

Finding a Place for Red Meat in Your Diet

The good news is that if you enjoy eating red meat, there’s definitely room for you to include it in your diet. If you enjoy red meat in large amounts and with greater frequency, you now have the tools to make informed choices, opting for leaner cuts in smaller amounts. Choosing good-quality, smaller cuts of lean red meat whenever possible will allow you to enjoy it throughout the week without feeling deprived.

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Long-Distance Love: How To Make Your Relationship Last

Before Kathleen Adams and her boyfriend started dating, she was scared that it wouldn’t work out. He lived in Spain; she was studying in the U.S. “I always heard that long-distance relationships don’t work out,” she says. “When we fell in love, we considered dating—but I wasn’t sure it would work.” Eventually, they decided to try dating despite the distance. Four years later, they’re still in a committed relationship, and they’re planning on moving in together this year.
Adams, who recently graduated with an MFA, isn’t alone. Long-distance relationships—sometimes referred to as LDR—are becoming more and more common. According to recent U.S. statistics released by the International Communication Association, 3 million married couples live apart, and 75 percent of college students have engaged in a long-distance relationship at some point. These figures also include online-only relationships.
The increase in long-distance relationships could be because of the internet. Online dating apps make it easier to meet people who live far away from you. Technology has also changed the way we manage our relationships. Social media makes it easier to talk to your loved ones from a distance. Thanks to technology, the prospect of a long-distance relationship can seem less scary than it once did. “We wouldn’t have started dating if it weren’t for the fact that technology means we’re able to talk easily,” Adams tells HealthyWay.
Even so, the thought of being away from a partner alarms many people. It’s understandable that you’d feel scared if you fall for someone who lives far away, or if you have to move apart from your partner for practical reasons. Many people feel like they can’t fulfill their partners’ emotional, sexual, or tangible needs when they’re far away. Some believe this might lead to infidelity, conflict, and general unhappiness.
A recent study shows that long-distance relationships aren’t necessarily at greater risk than geographically close relationships, though. The success of a relationship depends its individual characteristics, not on distance. In other words, there’s more hope for long-distance couples than most people realize.
Of course, those statistics might be of little comfort to someone who’s pining for their partner or struggling to maintain their relationship across the miles. Read on for practical tips that can help you address loneliness, communication, intimacy, idealization, and change in your unique LDR.

On Loneliness

For many people, not having a partner around is difficult. In geographically close relationships, you’re able to visit your partner to cuddle, talk, or simply sit in silence. Missing your partner’s company is understandably difficult, especially when you’re having a rough time and you need support.
Adams says her most successful way of dealing with the loneliness involved spending time with others. “Even when I missed him, I didn’t let myself get lonely because I had plenty of friends. I didn’t rely on him for all my emotional support,” she says. She feels that this benefitted the relationship because they both prioritized other important relationships. “We didn’t become consumed with one another. We had our own healthy, full support networks.”
Another factor that helped Adams was savoring the benefits of a long-distance relationship. “We both valued our independence. We had enough time to spend studying and working respectively, and I really value that,” she said.
Matchmaker and CEO of Exclusive Matchmaking, Susan Trombetti, says that independence is a fantastic perk of long-distance relationships. Since you can’t spend a lot of time with your partner, you have time to spend alone or with others. This allows you to pursue your own interests and grow independently.
“When you are in a long-distance relationship, you just have more time for yourself to do whatever you’d like,” Trombetti says. “You don’t need to worry about how late you work, about how many times you went out with your friends, and you can watch whatever you want on the TV.” You can also take classes, pursue hobbies, and socialize without having to consider another person’s schedule.
“Whenever I missed my boyfriend, I’d try to remind myself of these perks,” Adams says. “Reminding myself of the good, healthy aspects of distance kept me from feeling miserable.”

Means of Communication

Of course, frequent communication is the best ways to address and prevent loneliness. Relationship and sex coach Colby Marie Z says one of the most difficult parts of long-distance relationships is communication. “Technology is lovely as it lets us communicate quickly and often long-distance, but unfortunately the quality of that communication is often not as rich as face-to-face communication,” she says. “Additionally, physical touch has been shown to literally change our body chemistry and increase feelings of liking and attachment, and long-distance limits the amount of physical touch couples can give and receive.”
“For couples in long-distance relationships, I can’t recommend enough using channels of communication—whenever possible—that facilitate higher-quality communication. Talk rather than text. Video chat when you’re able.”
Colby Marie Z suggests scheduling virtual dates often, especially if you seldom get to go on dates in person. Skype dates—where you both get dressed up and eat a meal at the same time—can be fun. While you’re apart, you can watch movies at the same time while texting each other commentary. Playing online games together can also be enjoyable. If possible, try to send each other surprise gifts. This can include care packages, flowers, and handwritten letters.

Sexual Intimacy

Let’s be honest: Many people struggle to go without sex for long periods of time. If you’re in a monogamous LDR, chances are you won’t get to have sex as much as you’d like.
Fortunately, though, there are many exciting ways you can create intimacy in an LDR. If you’re both willing, you can create sexual intimacy using technology like Skype, FaceTime, and Snapchat. When it comes to sex and intimacy, the first thing I usually do is challenge folks to reconsider their definition of sex,” says Colby Marie Z. “They can still ‘have sex’ with their partner, even from a distance.” she says.
While you can’t touch one another through your webcam, you can use visual and auditory stimuli to make things fun. In other words, sexy talk, nudity, and flirting can be great. “This type of sex encourages couples to be more creative around their sexual communication, as they may find it helpful to verbally express their thoughts, feelings, desires, and fantasies,” says Colby Marie Z.
Something else to look into? Sex toys that can be controlled remotely. “I often recommend We-Vibe toys, as many of them are compatible with the We-Connect App which allows them to be controlled by a lover from anywhere in the world!” Colby Marie Z says. Yup, the future is now!

Idealization

A common pitfall when it comes to long-distance relationships is idealization. According to the International Communication Association’s report, long-distance partners often idealize each other. When you don’t see your partner every day, you might forget that they’re a human with flaws, which leads to idealization. This might make it hard to get to know your partner’s true personality—flaws and all. According to the report, idealization keeps LDRs going while the couple is apart, but it can lead to problems later down the line.
It’s easy to idealize your partner if you don’t see them in their natural environment, when they’re grumpy after a rough day at work, when they get sick, when they need alone time, or when they look a mess. Experiencing and accepting these realities may be key to ensuring your relationship is sustainable, especially if it’s your aim to be together in person long term.
“One difficulty with LDRs is that it can be tough to really connect with the other person when not physically together. Then each time they do get together, the first part of that is spent trying to relearn and reconnect since the last time they were together,” says Susan Golicic, PhD, a certified relationship coach. Golicic, who co-founded Uninhibited Wellness notes that this might affect your ability to see whether your partner is really suitable for you.
When you reunite with your partner later on, you might see their flaws and realize you can’t move past them. This could compromise the relationship. “It can take longer for people in an LDR to really determine if they are right for each other and want the relationship to progress to another level,” says Golicic.
How do we avoid this? The more you Skype, FaceTime, or meet up in person, the more “real” the other person becomes to you. It’s important to talk about mundane details of your day as you would in a geographically close relationship.

We’re moving near each other—now what?

Sometimes a long-distance relationship becomes a geographically close relationship. Perhaps you’ve decided to move for love. Maybe a career or educational opportunity brought you closer together. If something practical was keeping you apart—such as one partner being away at college or having military duties—that period of your life might end, allowing you to be together again.
Moving closer doesn’t mean your relationship problems will disappear, though it’s tempting to think close proximity will be an instant remedy. In fact, the transition can be difficult. “I see a lot of couples transition in this way without expecting the transition to be difficult, but all transitions take getting used to,” says Colby Marie Z. “Even if the transition is difficult, it doesn’t mean the relationship is doomed to fail. Expect some growing pains.”
Whether you’re living in the same town, house, or apartment as your previously long-distance partner, it can be hard to transition. Couples might find themselves struggling with a number of challenges, so it’s important to prepare yourself and discuss the transition before it happens.
“If one [partner] is giving up a job or career to move, then it is also important to discuss what that person needs to support that,” Golicic points out. “If the relationship doesn’t work out, the one that gave up the job or home could feel a great deal of resentment if they feel they weren’t supported in their decision.”
When you transition into a geographically closer relationship, you’ll also change how much time you spend together. It can be tempting to spend all of your time together, but one or the other of you might feel smothered. “If the couple is going to transition, the biggest challenge they will likely face is spending too much time together,” Golicic says. “It is important to discuss what each needs and wants as far as time together versus alone time, whether living together or near each other. They are both used to having time apart, so if they desire this to continue, that needs to be agreed upon.”
The bottom line is to communicate and respect one another’s needs.

Is an LDR right for you?

For those who are considering entering a long-distance relationship, there are a few things that are imperative to think about.
Firstly, it’s important to remember that long-distance relationships, like all relationships, require a lot of work. “Relationships are hard even when there isn’t distance. LDRs increase the challenges you’ll have to overcome and work you’ll have to do to make it fulfilling,” says Colby Marie Z. “Long-distance relationships also aren’t for everyone. Some people feel content and satisfied having less constant physical nearness, others don’t and won’t no matter how much effort you put into trying to imitate those experiences from a distance.”
It’s important to be aware of yourself, your personality, and your needs, says Trombetti. “Before entering into a relationship with some sort of distance, you need to know what types of people you are first. Are you the jealous and insecure type? Do you like your independence? Is there a plan to be together with a stopping point to the long-distance part?”
Golicic agrees that self-awareness is key. “It is important for someone to know their love language and what deal breakers are for them in relationship,” she says. “If quality time and being together for all major holidays and events is needed by someone, then an LDR is going to be really difficult for them and may leave them feeling unfulfilled.”
Another factor to take into account is the practicality of the relationship. How far apart are you? How expensive will it be to see one another? Can you afford it? If you can’t afford to see one another often, will you be okay with that? Golicic says that thinking about your own finances is really important.
Maintaining a long-distance relationship can require a lot of effort, but the sacrifice and strategizing can be worth it. “The world is your playground, so why limit yourself to only someone that can get a pizza and watch reruns with you on the couch because they are close?” Trombetti asks. “If you find the perfect person for you, distance shouldn’t be the issue it once was in this digital age.”
Although long-distance relationships can be tough, they aren’t necessarily doomed. They can still be fulfilling, and even preferable, for many people. Ultimately, long-distance relationships rely on the same values as all relationships: communication, respect, and honesty.
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Liver Disease Symptoms Can’t Be Ignored: But Do You Know Who’s At Risk?

Robin West needs a liver. At 34 years old, the U.S. military veteran and mom of a rambunctious toddler spends her days waiting for a call that will change her life—a call that her name on the Colorado transplant list has been matched with someone whose organ can be transplanted into her body.
Born with a rare gastrointestinal disorder called biliary atresia, a condition that progressively destroys the bile ducts that carry bile from the liver to the intestine. She underwent surgery when she was just 8 weeks old, when doctors performed a procedure sometimes known as a Roux-en-Y or a Kasai procedure. It was meant to reroute her bile drainage system and take pressure off her liver.
It bought West’s body time. She had a normal childhood. She went to college. She signed up to serve her country. But she was serving in the U.S. Army in 2016 when she thought she’d caught the flu.
A trip to the emergency room said something different. She was experiencing liver disease symptoms. “My liver enzymes were off the charts,” West tells HealthyWay.
She was diagnosed that day with primary sclerosing cholangitis, a progressive liver disease that has since landed her on the transplant list. She is one of millions of people in America who live every day with liver disease and its symptoms.
West’s childhood diagnosis with biliary atresia was a harbinger that she may have trouble in her future. It’s the most common liver disease that requires transplantation.
 

But for millions of Americans, a liver disease shows up unannounced, and it’s not caused by a childhood illness.
In fact, everything from our weight to our sex lives could eventually lead to damage (or even disease) of the liver. And the numbers of people diagnosed are growing.

What the Liver Does

Located in your abdominal cavity, above the stomach, the liver is one of the body’s biggest organs, and we can’t live without it. The liver is responsible for converting the nutrients we take in into substances the body can use, and when it’s functioning properly it will break down the fats we eat to help make energy.
A healthy liver also helps our bodies to handle toxins, removing things like alcohol and the byproducts of certain medicines from the blood and processing them so they can be released back into the blood or the bowels.

Maybe there’s a problem?

As a society, we tend to think of liver disease as something that crops up in aging alcoholics. The internet is rife with memes that poke fun at the idea that one’s “liver light” might come on after a weekend of partying and t-shirts warning “shut up, liver, you’re fine.”
Tastelessness of the jokes aside, the idea that liver disease is singular to people who drink excessive amounts of alcohol is patently false.
The most common cause of liver disease in America is actually viral hepatitis, particularly hepatitis C, says Lauren Nephew, MD, a hepatologist at Indiana University Health. The chronic (aka lifelong) disease infects some 4.6 million Americans, and an estimated 2,000 die from it every year in the U.S.

“Some risk factors for hepatitis C include [intravenous] drug use, intranasal cocaine, blood product transfusions before 1987, and non-professional tattoos,” Nephew explains.
Hepatitis B also kills some 2,000 Americans annually, although rates of infection are rapidly declining, thanks to vaccinations created in the early 1990s that are now given to babies (and are available to older Americans). Whether hepatitis B is contracted via sex, contact with an infected person’s blood, or birth (it can be transmitted from mother to child), estimates of how many people are affected with it vary wildly. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) puts the figure anywhere between 85,000 and 2.2 million Americans.
Another cause of liver disease that’s taking root in America is non-alcoholic fatty liver disease (NAFLD), sometimes called just fatty liver disease.
“This is expected to be the leading cause of liver disease in the U.S. in the next decade,” Nephew notes. Linked to America’s growing obesity problem, risk factors for fatty liver disease include obesity, diabetes, and high cholesterol. According to the National Library of Medicine, “as the rates of obesity, type 2 diabetes, and high cholesterol are rising in the United States, so is the rate of NAFLD.” It now affects some 25 percent of the global population.

Typically, diseases that damage the liver eventually result in cirrhosis, a swelling of the liver that is usually the result of years’ worth of damage to the liver. It can be (and often is) caused by alcoholism, but it’s also caused by hepatitis C, bile duct diseases (such as cholangitis, which West is currently suffering from), or a genetic condition such as Wilson’s disease or hemochromatosis. Exactly what sort of disease might affect a liver can be related to lifestyle, to genetics…or to gender.

Liver Disease and Women

“Women are more prone to certain types of liver disease, such as autoimmune hepatitis, primary biliary cholangitis, and toxin mediated liver injury, which includes alcohol-induced liver injury.” explains Seth Levin, DO, a gastroenterologist with the OhioHealth Physician Group. “They are also more likely to present with acute liver failure and to develop benign liver lesions.”
While (cisgender) men are considered more likely to abuse alcohol than women, women are more susceptible to its toxic effects on the liver, Levin says, regardless of how much we drink. What’s more, compared to our male counterparts, if a woman develops an alcoholic liver disease, she’s likely to see it progress more rapidly.
 

The difference in body size can’t be ignored here—and it’s one reason scientists think women are taking a bigger hit. But researchers into the gender divide in liver diseases also put the blame on our immune systems, noting differences in the way the female body reacts to toxins.
“Alcohol is toxic to the liver cells called hepatocytes,” Nephew explains. “Over time, that reoccurring damage can cause other cells to attempt to repair the damage and lay down scars. Scar or fibrosis in the liver can progress to cirrhosis.”

What’s happening? Common Symptoms of Liver Disease

Many diseases that affect the liver are asymptomatic, meaning liver disease symptoms won’t show up until someone has reached advanced stages. But if your liver is malfunctioning, there are some basic signs and symptoms of liver disease to look for.

Common symptoms of liver disease include:

  • Jaundice (yellowing of the eyes or skin)
  • Swelling in the lower extremities or abdomen
  • Confusion
  • Unexplained weight loss
  • Bloody or black stools


Some milder liver disease symptoms include itching and fatigue, Nephew says. It’s important to call a doctor immediately if you’re observing some of the common symptoms of liver disease, so your healthcare provider can run blood tests and begin treatment if necessary. Even diseases such as hepatitis C can be treated if they’re caught early enough.

Liver Damage or Liver Disease?

Unsettling as this all may sound, the liver has an amazing trick up its sleeve that’s not present in many other body organs. The liver can repair itself from certain harms.
In other words? Sometimes damage to your liver can be undone…depending on the cause and amount of liver damage.
“We describe liver diseases as acute and chronic,” Nephew explains. “Acute means that the condition is likely reversible when the cause of injury is removed. This could be alcohol, a medication, or a virus that the body quickly clears. …After an acute injury, the liver can repair and be normal again,” she continues.
Chronic liver diseases, on the other hand, are conditions that are not immediately reversible and require treatment or monitoring.
“Over time, a chronic liver disease can cause enough damage to the liver that that damage is not reversible,” Nephew says. “We call this damage fibrosis. If there is enough fibrosis present we call this cirrhosis.”

Still, there is hope with a chronic disease. Chronic liver disease does not (always) immediately lead to death. There are people walking around living with chronic liver diseases. There are people receiving treatment for chronic liver disease and living relatively normal lives. The outcome depends, once again, on the reason for the disease and sometimes on a patient’s willingness to adjust their lifestyle.
But people like West fight a stigma that comes with chronic liver disease every day.
“I get a lot of people thinking I drank a lot or have hep C,” she says. “Not all of us are alcoholics, some are born this way or develop problems over time.”
In West’s case, lifestyle changes aren’t enough. Because her liver was affected by biliary atresia, the disease she has had since birth, the development of cholangitis was a natural progression of the disease.
“Basically, it means I need a new liver, because my old one will not last very much longer,” West says.
 

West has a drain on her side for the bile that builds up in her body, bile that a healthy liver would process. She can’t work. She has to be careful when playing with her little girl because she fears the drain will fall out and she’ll land back in the hospital. Infection could kill her. Infection also pushes her down the transplant list.
This is life with a chronic liver disease. For thousands of Americans, this is the way it is. For thousands more, there’s still hope.

Ch-ch-changes

If you’re fortunate enough not to be born with a liver condition or genetic predisposition, prevention is key…and relatively simple for the bulk of conditions that affect the liver.
Because of the spike in fatty liver disease diagnoses on the horizon, lifestyle changes can make a real difference. Ask your doctor to run blood tests to determine your cholesterol levels. Keep your weight in line with your doctor’s recommendations. Address any blood pressure concerns.
If you’re on regular medications, ask your doctor if they can affect the liver. Antidepressants, in particular, are often linked to liver damage, especially those classified as monoamine oxidase (MAO) inhibitors. If you’re taking an antidepressant regularly, your doctor may recommend regular blood tests to determine your liver’s health. Acute damage from a medication can be repaired, Nephew says, so it’s important to follow up on blood testing recommended by your doctor rather than putting it off because you hate needles!
If you haven’t already received the hepatitis B vaccine, the CDC recommends calling your general practitioner and scheduling the shot immediately to protect yourself from the blood-borne disease.

Hepatitis C risks, such as intravenous drug use, should be avoided for simple health reasons, but if you had a blood product transfusion before 1987, Nephew suggests asking your primary care physician to do a hepatitis C screening.  
And if you indulge in alcohol at all, it’s wise to keep your drinking in check. Although it’s not the only cause of liver damage and disease, Mommy’s wine time can quickly become a problem, not least because of the role our gender plays in risk factors.
“Women should make sure not to drink more than the recommended amount of daily alcohol,” Nephew says. “Women should know that our livers are more sensitive to the toxic effects of alcohol than men’s livers; therefore it takes a smaller amount of alcohol to damage the liver.”
The recommendations from the doctors are strict: Women should have no more than one alcoholic beverage per day, and that doesn’t mean one bottle of wine. One 12-ounce beer, one 5-ounce glass of wine, or 1.5 ounces of liquor is the limit.

“Levels higher than that can over time damage the liver,” Nephew warns.  
A final piece of advice comes from West: Be vigilant if you are noticing what you think might be symptoms of liver disease.
“I wish I would have gone to the doctor when I first got sick,” she says. “I thought I had the flu and it would pass. I was wrong. If you have any unusual symptoms, I’d suggest getting them checked—particularly, yellow skin, fevers, abdominal/back pain, flu-like symptoms.”

Help for Those Who Need It

If your liver is in good condition, you can help out those who are struggling. Most transplants come from deceased donors, but the liver is one of the few organs that can be transplanted from a living donor. That’s because only a section of the liver needs to be transplanted, as it will regrow in both the donor’s body and the transplant recipient’s body.

If you know someone who needs a liver, you could consider being tested to see if you’re a match for a living transplant. You can also sign yourself up as an organ donor to help someone after you die.  
Even if you’re not a candidate for donation, it’s important to ignore the myths about liver disease…for your sake and for those who suffer.
Someone who doesn’t exhibit the most common symptoms of liver disease isn’t necessarily abusing drugs or engaging in risky behavior. “Just because someone doesn’t look sick doesn’t mean they are not or [they don’t] have issues going on. So be nice and kind to everyone,” West says.
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Living A Sedentary Lifestyle? Advice From A Medical Researcher And A Personal Trainer Will Get You Moving Despite Your Busy Schedule

How many hours in a day do you spend sitting? If you’re like many American women who work in an office, it may be enough to sabotage your health. More American women are living sedentary lifestyles than ever before. Our jobs, our neighborhoods, and the amount of time we spend interacting online have changed the way we think about physical activity.
Where activity was once built into our lives, now it’s extremely common for the walk from the house to the car, the car to the office, and then the car back to the house to be the primary physical movement we get in a day. But our bodies just aren’t built to live that way.
Never mind weight, clothing size, or judgment. What really matters is your health and happiness, and with our real, practical advice sourced directly from experts and tested by women like you, you’re closer than ever to ditching a sedentary lifestyle and feeling like your most vital self in 2018.

Are you sedentary without even knowing it?

More of us are routinely sedentary than you’d think. In fact, research says at least 25 to 35 percent of all American adults have chronically sedentary lifestyles. There are lots of ways to define a sedentary lifestyle, but one of the clearest involves a measure of the steps you take daily. If you’re routinely moving fewer than 5,000 steps a day (or the equivalent), which is about two and a half miles, your lifestyle is considered sedentary by researchers at Pennington Biomedical Research Center.
That said, there’s a difference between sedentary behaviors and leading a sedentary lifestyle. We all have sedentary behaviors, like working at a desk for several hours a day, commuting in traffic, jamming out to Netflix on the couch, or (I’m looking at you, Chrissy Teigen) lying down and playing Animal Crossing on our phones.
[pullquote align=”center”]If you’re routinely moving fewer than 5,000 steps a day, your lifestyle is considered sedentary by researchers at Pennington Biomedical Research Center.[/pullquote]
A study published in the American Journal of Epidemiology also found that women who sit inactively for more than six hours every day are nearly twice as likely to experience life-threatening health conditions as women who sit less than three hours per day, meaning women are even more susceptible to the negative effects of sedentary life than men. Yikes.
And if you’re thinking the average female with a desk job falls into this category, you’re right: She does.

Sitting is the New Smoking (and How to Ditch the Habit)

It turns out that even women who get some regular exercise can be affected by “sitting disease,” a term coined to describe the negative impact of too much time spent sitting still in a day. In fact, the World Health Organization says, “Insufficient physical activity is one of the leading risk factors for death worldwide.” Okay, that’s definitely unnerving, but don’t freak out yet. There is hope, even if you’ve tried before and failed to change your sedentary lifestyle.
As Esther Avant, a certified nutrition coach and personal trainer, tells HealthyWay, “About 99 percent of the women I work with have been in that exact situation.” She goes on to share that she has personally witnessed hundreds of formerly sedentary women go on to kick ass and live active lifestyles by working on making small, sustainable changes, rather than focusing on quick, all-or-nothing fixes.
[pullquote align=”center”]Hundreds of formerly sedentary women go on to kick ass and live active lifestyles by working on making small, sustainable changes, rather than focusing on quick, all-or-nothing fixes.[/pullquote]
It’s so important to remember that a little movement is better than none. In fact, a 2015 study found that as little as 20 minutes of brisk walking daily can significantly reduce your risk of an early death related to physical inactivity, not to mention giving you an instant mood boost.

Self-Motivation: Bidding Self-Judgement Farewell and Embracing Positives (Even When You’ve Failed Before)

Michelle Segar, PhD, master of public health, and director of the University of Michigan’s Sport, Health, and Activity Research and Policy Center says that even though there are tons of scary statistics thrown around in an attempt to frighten people away from living a sedentary lifestyle (like worsening depression and anxiety, increasing your risk for cancer, causing blood sugar spikes, and generally increasing aches and pains), scare tactics don’t generally work to change behaviors long term.
Instead, “we want to promote [movement] for its immediate benefits,” she says. So rather than trying to shame yourself into moving more, Segar encourages women to focus on all the benefits movement can have. “Let’s tell people it will immediately generate energy and help them lift their moods. Now isn’t that a more compelling reason to get out of the chair?”
[pullquote align=”center”]Even though there are tons of scary statistics thrown around in an attempt to frighten people away from living a sedentary lifestyle, scare tactics don’t generally work to change behaviors long term.[/pullquote]
Avant agrees that focusing on the positives, like how good gentle exercise can make you feel, and avoiding pushing yourself too hard at first are the secrets to succeeding in a fitness regimen that addresses physical inactivity, even if you thought you’d never be able to. “The key to successfully going from sedentary to active is starting small, even smaller than you think,” she emphasizes.
“Start small and prove to yourself that you can do it. Set small goals and then accomplish them. That empowers you to realize that you can do a little more the next week, so maybe you add a fourth day or one day of bodyweight exercises. Each week, you build your confidence and motivation when you accomplish your goals and you do a little bit more. This sure beats the old approach of trying to change everything at once week one, falling short, getting disappointed, and quitting.”

Change your “why” for working out.

In her book, No Sweat: How the Simple Science of Motivation Can Bring You a Lifetime of Fitness, Segar writes about how we’ve been taught we need to work out to lose weight, look a certain way, and avoid bad health. “But those are logical and pragmatic reasons to move,” she says, “not the type of emotional motives and hooks that [actually help women] stick with it long term.” So rather than thinking about all those “shoulds” for why we need to get exercise, what would work better? “We need to help people learn the immediate emotional and positive, feel-good benefits they’ll get from moving instead, like joy, vitality, and connection,” she emphasizes.
[pullquote align=”center”]“Let’s tell people it will immediately generate energy and help them lift their moods. Now isn’t that a more compelling reason to get out of the chair?”
—Michelle Segar, PhD, MPH[/pullquote]
So being kind to yourself works—even when trying to combat what can sometimes feel like a stigmatizing sedentary lifestyle? Sounds good to me! It seems that if you truly want to change your sedentary behavior, focusing on the potential negatives of physical inactivity rather than on how good you can feel when you’re active will likely backfire.
It’s not about weight. It’s not about appearance. It’s about remembering to give yourself the best care and nurturing that you can. It’s about body positivity, feeling healthy and vivacious, and making changes that make you feel good—both in the moment and over the long term. In many cases, the biggest barriers to addressing a sedentary lifestyle, sedentary behavior, and physical inactivity are your thought patterns, so get ready to start small—and with honest introspection—to make lasting change.

Starting Small and Winning Big: A One-Month Beginner’s Plan

Even if your starting point is a truly sedentary lifestyle and you’ve already tried (and maybe even failed) to get active, we’ve got your back. Avant designed and shared this step-by-step routine to take HealthyWay readers from deskbound and binge-watching to vital and capable movement mavens.
Here’s what she recommends:

Week 1

Pick three days when you’ll walk for 30 minutes. Pencil these walks into your calendar like important appointments so you make them happen. Shooting for three walks during the week gives you plenty of opportunities to make up a walk you might miss—so have a backup day planned in case something pops up.

Week 2

Pencil in three walks and add in one day of bodyweight exercises. A quick, total-body workout could include the following exercises performed in a circuit for two sets of 10 reps: push-ups, squats, bench (or chair!) dips, lunges, and 30-second plank holds.
[pullquote align=”center”]“We need to help people learn the immediate emotional and positive, feel-good benefits they’ll get from moving instead, like joy, vitality, and connection.”
—Michelle Segar, PhD, MPH[/pullquote]

Week 3

This week, commit to three walks and two days of the same bodyweight workout you completed once during Week 2.

Week 4

Add a third set to your bodyweight workout circuit and increase the length of your three walks by five to 10 minutes each.
Initially, you committed to 30 minutes of exercise, three times a week—by the end of the month, you’ll be up to 30 to 45 minutes of exercise a day, five days a week, with a combination of strength and aerobic training, which Avant calls a major improvement! Talk about busting out of your sedentary lifestyle and committing to an endorphin- and confidence-boosting routine!

Common Excuses (and High-Impact Solutions)

I asked both Avant and Segar about the most common reasons women don’t exercise, and what their most motivating responses have been. Here are some of the best motivational rebuttals inspired by the pros.
Excuse: I don’t have time.
Solution: Redefine how much time it takes to work out. If you’re truly strapped, just take a brisk one-mile walk around your neighborhood. You won’t need to change clothes or drive all the way to the gym, so you’ll save that time. And if you’re willing to be a bit introspective here, think of it this way: It’s not necessarily that you don’t have time to work out, it’s that you have other priorities that you’re putting before overcoming your sedentary lifestyle. Ask yourself: Am I willing to change around any of my priorities to address my physical inactivity? Your answer to yourself should be enlightening and may lead to a shift in priorities.
Excuse: I can’t afford a gym membership, or when I get to the gym I don’t know what to do and feel silly.
Solution: Just start with walking. You can walk outside, or even around a mall if it’s miserable out. After you’ve done that for a while, you might move on to slowly running, or following one of the many couch-to-5k programs out there (I recommend this one from famous running coach Hal Higdon, which I used once upon a time when I was a newbie to fitness). Once you gain confidence in your base fitness, go ahead and try the gym again if you can afford it. If not, troll YouTube for free no-equipment-needed workout videos or check out HealthyWay’s free Holiday HIIT series or ultra low-cost wellness plan advice.
[pullquote align=”center”]Ask yourself: Am I willing to change around any of my priorities to address my physical inactivity?[/pullquote]
Excuse: I just don’t like exercise.
Solution: Well, you may be working out too hard. Yes, really. If you hate running, for instance, you may be trying to run too fast for your current fitness level. Exercise should feel mostly good, so slow down, don’t compare yourself to others, choose activities that fit your interests, and learn to love the boost exercise can give you, especially when it means freedom from deeply entrenched patterns of physical inactivity and sedentary behavior.

Finally: 6 Ways to Trick Yourself Into Moving More

We think nearly everyone will be able to succeed by making small changes, focusing on the positive feels, and giving themselves as many chances as they need to address their sedentary lifestyle or sedentary behavior. That said, if all else fails, what’s wrong with simply fooling yourself into moving more and reaping the benefits? Here are some ways to sneak activity into your week:

  1. Buy a standing desk converter. Okay, so you may not be able to control what desk your office provides for you, and you may not want to stand all day long anyway. But with an adjustable standing desk, you can convert your existing desk into a standing work station for part of the day, then just push it back into place when you need to sit back down.
  2. Schedule walks with friends instead of coffee shop chats.
  3. Track your movement (I love my Fitbit, which also tracks heart rate and calories burned) and share the data with friends or co-workers for a little friendly competition and support. Lots of people find that they get kind of obsessed with the data and that it keeps them motivated.
  4. Make exercise a seamless part of your day by trying a human-powered commute. This won’t work in every circumstance, but if you live close to work, try walking a few days a week. If you live a little further (but not crazy far) try strapping your helmet on and riding your bike. It may take some time to start this new habit and convince yourself to leave the car keys or MetroCard on the shelf, but you can change your ways slowly by starting with doing the human-powered commute just once or twice per week. I’ve gone so far as to leave my kid’s car seat at a friend’s house so I would have no choice but to bike my daughter to and from her daycare (with helmets and kiddy bike seat, of course)!
  5. Even if you can’t commit to an entirely human-powered commute, park further away and walk more. The stress of finding a spot close to the office, school, or grocery store dissipates, and you’ll get more steps in. You can also commit to avoiding your building’s elevator in favor of climbing the stairs.
  6. Download an exercise motivation app like MyFitnessPal to incorporate your love of tech with your health and fitness pursuits.

Do you need a sign to inspire your commitment to making 2018 the year of you? Consider this it. We’re rooting for you.

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Going Gray The Right Way: Everything You Need To Know About Gray Hair

One day you will find yourself going about your morning routine, when all of a sudden you’ll do a double take in the mirror after applying your mascara.
That second look isn’t because you look amazing (although you do!). No, you spotted a glint of silver in your blowout.
Your first gray hair.
First, don’t panic. Although silver-haired men seem to get all the glory (Anderson Cooper is still bae, y’all), there are plenty of women who make going gray look ultra chic. I mean, have you seen Helen Mirren lately? She’s a total silver foxy lady!

Going gray? You can thank your parents.

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You may have inherited your mom’s gorgeous smile or your dad’s eye color, and you can also thank your parents for your salt and pepper locks. Gray hair can strike at any age, and when it appears is largely thanks to genetics.  
Going gray is a genetically programmed process that appears to have multiple genes that are interacting to start the process,” says Amy McMichael, MD, chair of dermatology at Wake Forest Baptist Hospital in Winston-Salem, North Carolina.  
According to McMichael, the interferon regulatory factor 4 gene (IRF4) plays a key role in when you’ll develop gray hair. IRF4 genes code proteins that affect the immune system and help protect the body against viruses. In addition, IRF4 genes regulate melanin production, which determines skin and hair color and is the pigment made by cells called melanocytes.
“There are two types of melanin,” says Fayne Frey, MD, board-certified dermatologist and founder of FryFace, an educational dermatology site. These two types of melanin are “eumelanin, which imposes a brown to black color, and pheomelanin, which is a reddish yellow color. Both types are made in melanocytes. Which type and how much of each is genetically determined with a wide variation.”
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Before we’re born, our hair is actually white, because it’s completely free of melanin. Over time though, the melanin begins to color our hair, resulting in each person’s unique hair color. Just as melanin colors our hair when we’re young, we lose melanin pigment as we age, which can result in silver strands.
The BCL gene family, which keeps certain cells from dying by coding a protective outer membrane around the cell, also plays an important role in why we get gray hair. BCL genes may protect melanocytes. When the body doesn’t have a sufficient number of melanocytes, hair may turn gray faster. In one study, BCL-deficient mice experienced graying faster than mice who were not BCL deficient.
A more recent study from the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center claims to have pinpointed a protein called KROX20 that some scientists believe is responsible for graying hair. KROX20, also known as early growth response protein 2 (EGR2) is a protein that aids in neural crest cell development (these are the cells that end up forming hair and skin, smooth cartilage, and bone, among other things).
KROX20 produces another protein, called stem cell factor (SCF), which is the protein needed for hair color to form. When KROX20 no longer produces SCF proteins, pigment is no longer produced, which results in gray hair.
So does this mean we can reverse gray hair?
Not quite.
The study was performed on mice and has yet to be examined in human subjects. Other scientists and doctors believe it may be a bit too early to determine if SCF proteins may be the secret to keeping colorful locks longer.
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But I’m too young for gray hair!

Most men start seeing their first gray hairs sprout at around age 30, whereas women tend to see them a few years later, at 35.
Any gray hair that occurs before this age is considered prematurely gray hair.
[pullquote align=”center”]“Stress has been implicated in every possible way with hair loss and the process of graying,”
—Amy McMichael[/pullquote]
Aside from genetics, several other factors can also play a role in how early you’ll go gray. Some—like hormonal imbalance, age, and certain environmental factors—are beyond your control. Others, like stress and smoking, may be reduced by lifestyle changes.
Frey says, “There are multiple studies that consistently show smoking linked to premature graying. The exact mechanism of how smoking affects hair pigment is unknown, but an increase in free radical (unstable atoms that can wreak havoc in the body) formation within the hair follicle is one theory.”
As we age, free radical production increases, which also causes an increase in oxidative stress, which is stress that actually changes cellular makeup. As free radicals in the body increase, so does the damage to melanocytes, thereby causing prematurely gray hair.
“Stress has [also] been implicated in every possible way with hair loss and the process of graying,” says McMichael.
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According to McMichael, similar to the oxidative stress caused by smoking, long-term physiologic stress may affect the graying process. These long-term stressors include chronic illness and severe caloric restriction. Scientists theorize that long-term stressors cause oxidative stress, thereby causing melanocytes to die prematurely. However, scientists are still working to prove this theory. So one stressful day at the office is probably not the cause for your gray hair, but a whole year in a seriously stressful work environment might be.
Unfortunately, McMichael says there are no proven methods of reducing or reversing gray hair. “While there are labs that are working on this process, it is not clear that any group really has this figured out.”
If a product promises to slow or reduce gray hair growth, it’s probably too good to be true. Instead, focusing on lifestyle changes is the best way to slow the growth of gray hair.
Limiting stress and stopping smoking has many added benefits besides delaying the graying process. Manage stress by exercising daily or practicing mindful meditation. (And if you’re trying to quit smoking, you don’t have to do it alone. Visit smokefree.gov for information, resources, and support to quit smoking.)

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Help! My gray hair isn’t on my head.

So you noticed a few gray hairs…everywhere on your body except your head.
According to Frey, graying patterns vary from person to person. “Based on my personal experience, I’d say hair on the temporal scalp (above the ears) seems to gray first on many individuals.”
McMichael says that anecdotally, “Some feel that the facial hair grays before the hair on the scalp, but this is not a hard and fast rule.”
What dermatologists do know is that your hair down there will go gray eventually.
Even though you might be totally freaked out, it’s usually totally normal for your body hair to start graying around the same time as the hair on your head.
Sometimes though, gray or white strands in your nether regions do signal a health problem.
If you notice silvery white strands while you’re landscaping downstairs, it could be the result of a severe vitamin B12 deficiency. A vitamin B12 deficiency can cause anemia, which interferes with red blood cell production, depleting the source of oxygen that most cells need to thrive. Fortunately, with treatment, hair will usually return to its normal color if a B12 deficiency is the culprit.
White piedra, a fungal infection, is another reason your hair may appear gray or white prematurely. White piedra is caused by a yeast-like fungus. While it can occur anywhere on the body, it is more likely to be found in the groin than anywhere else. The fungus attaches to individual hair follicles, giving the hair a white or gray appearance. The good news is that this asymptomatic fungal infection is easy to treat by trimming the affected hair (a great time to do some grooming!) and over-the-counter fungal creams.
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If you want to go gray gracefully…

I only have one gray hair (that I can see). It’s right at the front of my hairline, and it insists on sticking straight up, Alfalfa-style. When I frantically called my stylist, Emilee Phillips, who is the owner of the organic Green Goddess Hair Salon, she told me very sternly not to pluck it no matter how much I wanted to do so.
“The old wives’ tale that plucking a gray hair will cause two more to sprout in its place isn’t true, but you still shouldn’t pluck a gray hair,” says Phillips. “Just like tweezing your eyebrows, over time, repeated plucking will damage the hair follicle so much that it won’t grow back at all.”
So how do stylists recommend caring for gray hair?
Jamie Church Ball, a veteran stylist at Shear Shakti Salon in Boone, North Carolina, says “Styling products depend on what the client is looking for just the same as natural hair, but there are shampoos formulated for gray hair.”
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Ball recommends Oribe products, which has two products that work for gray hair. Oribe Silverati shampoo and conditioner are specially formulated for gray and white hair. This illuminating shampoo brightens hair and removes yellow tones that makes silver strands shine.
Ball also recommends Oribe’s Bright Blonde shampoo, which works for both blonde and silver hair. Many people with lighter skin tones are afraid that gray hair will wash out their complexion, but they needn’t worry. This revitalizing violet shampoo corrects brassiness and yellow tones while brightening natural highlights for hair that is healthier, shinier, and lit from within.
Another way to boost lighter complexions while sporting gray tresses is to wear bold colored clothing. Think rich jewel tones, like Pantone’s 2018 color of the year, Ultra Violet
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While you don’t have to wear makeup to be beautiful, Hope Alfaro, a makeup artist in Durham, North Carolina, shared some of her favorite makeup tips to balance your complexion with gray hair.
“Embrace cool tones,” says Alfaro. “As you embrace your natural gray hair, try new shades like mauves or taupes that compliment the coolness of gray tones. Lipstick and blush with cooler undertones will start suiting you better as well.”
In addition, Alfaro says if you do only have time for one thing in the morning, make sure you don’t neglect your eyebrows.
“If you are in the later stages of graying, your eyebrows and eyelashes may have also turned gray. Even two minutes with a pencil defining your eyebrow shape can make a world of difference to your face.” A few products we love are Glossier’s Boy Brow, Anastasia’s Beverly Hills Brow Wiz Eyebrow Pencil, and Maybelline’s Total Temptation Eyebrow Definer Pencil.
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If you’re not feeling the gray…

Gray hair is totally having a style moment right now. Celebs from Kim Kardashian to Zosia Mamet have paid big bucks to have their hair dyed gray on purpose. If you just can’t jump on the gray-hair trend, you can color your hair to hide the gray. Before you reach for that box of Clairol, there are some things you need to know about dyeing gray hair.
“I can tell you that gray hair is very coarse, which makes it resistant to color,” says Ball. “So your stylist has to formulate the color for gray hair and let it process about 10 minutes longer than normal.”
In addition, Ball says, because gray hair is resistant to color, stylists end up using a double pigmented color, which can end up being pricier than your standard dye job. After the color is applied, your stylist will probably use a developer, which helps open up the hair cuticle so the color can totally penetrate your hair.
Justin Barnett, owner of Justin Salon and Spa in Vero Beach, Florida, says, “regular hair grows up to a half an inch a month so every 4 to 6 weeks, you should plan to touch up your color.”
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One perk of dyeing your gray hair is that color-treated hair is often softer, which makes it easier to style. The downside? Coloring your hair can add up to a big monthly expense.
Whether you choose to color your gray hair or not is totally up to you, but the same styling tips apply to both.
Exposing hair to prolonged high heat from styling tools can seriously damage hair, so always use a heat protectant, like amika’s The Wizard Multi-Benefit Primer, before styling your hair.
[pullquote align=”center”]“A lady’s grays are life’s trophies. Celebrate your age, wisdom, and accomplishments through your natural beauty.”
—Justin Barnett[/pullquote]
Additionally, because gray hair is already coarse, try to avoid washing your hair daily, which can strip your hair of natural oils, leaving hair brittle and dry. Instead, aim for washing your hair every two to three days, and use a dry shampoo in between washings.
“In one way I feel that I shouldn’t encourage women to embrace their gray hair,” Barnett jokes. “Women embrac[ing] their gray hair doesn’t pay my salon bills! However, I do believe that a lady’s grays are life’s trophies. Celebrate your age, wisdom, and accomplishments through your natural beauty.”
So will you embrace your gray strands as they are or will you cover them up? Whatever you decide is totally fine either way.
Because you know what’s really sexy? A woman who’s in love with her own look, even if that includes a gray strand or two.

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Healthy Fast Food Guide: How To Leave The Drive-Thru With Less Regret

You’ve got back-to-back meetings, a project due by the end of the day, a post-work networking event, and a couple of errands to run to top it all off. Before you know it, it’s 2 in the afternoon, your stomach’s rumbling, and you’ve got just 10 minutes to find something to scarf down. Looks like fast food is the only solution today.
So as you enter the drive-thru, your eyes scan the menu. Juicy cheeseburger with piping-hot fries…crispy chicken sandwich on a fluffy white bun with a generous slather of mayonnaise…maybe even a chocolate milkshake to wash it all down. Looks like your healthy eating plan is out the window for today, right?
Not necessarily.
“Nowadays, there are lots of really healthy options at fast food restaurants,” Amy Goodson, a registered dietitian in Dallas, tells HealthyWay. “It doesn’t mean you have to eat a burger with fries and a milkshake every time you visit the drive-thru. You can make small changes to improve the overall nutrition value of the meal.”
Goodson teaches busy families, students, and professional athletes about the healthiest fast food options available when they’re on the go, and she wants to help you leave the drive-thru with a little less regret.
Here’s her expert advice on the healthiest fast food options at big chains and how to avoid a calorie bomb while still enjoying your favorite foods—because the last thing you need is to leave the drive-thru feeling remorseful on a jam-packed day.

Let’s face the facts.

You’re probably not surprised when you read news headlines about the unhealthy nature of most fast food. But what exactly makes some of these convenient meals so bad for you?
“The typical fast food choices, like burgers and fries and onion rings, are really processed. You’re looking at meat that’s generally not the leanest cuts, lots of processed carbohydrates, and tons of stuff that’s fried in oil,” Goodson explains.
It’s not that a burger in general is unhealthy, she adds. It’s just that the typical ones from the drive-thru have been prepared in a facility many miles away, loaded with preservatives to extend their lifespan, and infused with synthetic flavorings and large quantities of sodium to make it taste good.
“There’s a reason it only costs a couple bucks. If they were providing you with a lean cut of meat and high-quality ingredients, it would definitely cost more,” she notes.
In short: Fast food restaurants are on a mission to churn out tasty meals that can be made as quickly and cheaply as possible. And it comes at a cost to our health.

So why do we keep coming back?

Roughly 8 in 10 Americans eat at a fast food restaurant at least once a month, according to a Gallup poll. Yet the majority of those surveyed admit the food is not good for you. So why do we keep coming back?
“This day and age, people are always in a hurry,” says Goodson. “People are on the go, and they don’t have the time people once did to cook and make meals at home.”
Goodson also observes that fast food restaurants have become more ubiquitous over the years. In fact, the top 500 chains (which includes McDonald’s, Subway, and Starbucks) boosted the number of locations by 2.1 percent from 2015 to 2016. So when you’re out and about and you find yourself hankering for something quick to eat, chances are high that you’ll end up at a fast food restaurant—they’re everywhere!
The good news is that the industry is changing. Fast food restaurants have started displaying calorie information, offering nutritious alternatives (like apples instead of fries and milk instead of soda), and adding more fresh veggies to their menus in an effort to appeal to increasingly health-conscious customers. So even though we don’t have much time to cook at home and we’re surrounded by fast food chains, we can now make healthier choices when we need a quick meal on the go.

“Eat fresh!”

What’s the healthiest fast food restaurant in America? Although nearly all of the big chains offer a couple of nutritious options, Subway boasts the largest quantity of nutrient-dense meals, says Goodson.
“You can load your sandwiches up with lots of fresh vegetables and choose whole wheat or honey oat bread for more fiber,” she says. “They also offer a variety of lean proteins, like turkey and ham.”
Subways wins points for offering a variety of sauces without a lot of fat, like the sweet onion, honey mustard, and red wine vinaigrette. They boost flavor without adding significant calories to your meal.
Goodson also notes that Subways seem to be everywhere—there are more than 26,000 locations in the U.S. as of 2016. Whether you’re in the airport, shopping at the mall, or driving on the highway, you’ll probably stumble across a Subway—good news when you crave a healthy, quick bite.
“At Subway, you can make a smart choice when you’re traveling or busy, and it’s pretty inexpensive,” says Goodson.

The Short List

A cheat sheet can certainly come in handy as we browse fast food menus looking for something healthy. Here are Goodson’s picks for the healthiest fast food options to choose when you visit popular fast food restaurants:

At Chick-fil-A

Get the Grilled Chicken Cool Wrap, suggests Goodson. The lean protein will help fill you up, and the fresh vegetables add vitamins. She also says you can ditch the wrap and choose a grilled chicken salad to cut down on carbs.

By the Numbers

350 calories, 14 grams of fat, 29 grams of carbohydrates, and 37 grams of protein

At McDonald’s

Goodson recommends the Southwest Grilled Chicken Salad. “It’s lower in saturated fat than the crispy chicken because it’s skinless and grilled. Since the dressing comes on the side, you’re in charge of how much you put on, so you can keep it light,” she adds.

By the Numbers

350 calories, 11 grams of fat, 27 grams of carbohydrates, and 37 grams of protein

At Wendy’s

The Grilled Chicken Sandwich is Goodson’s top pick at Wendy’s. “They use good quality lettuce, whereas many fast food restaurants just use iceberg. They also use mustard instead of mayo, which makes it healthier,” she notes.

By the Numbers

360 calories, 8 grams of fat, 38 grams of carbohydrates, and 35 grams of protein

At Dunkin Donuts

It might be hard to believe that a restaurant with “donuts” in the name serves up anything nutritious, but Goodson says that Dunkin actually has a good breakfast option. “Go for the ham, egg, and cheese on an English muffin,” she says. “The biscuits can top 300 calories without anything else on them, so the English muffin is better because it has fewer calories and fat. It’s a great choice for your way in to the office.”

By the Numbers

380 calories, 16 grams of fat, 37 grams of carbohydrates, and 21 grams of protein

At Subway

You’re spoiled for choice at Subway, but if you’re looking for the healthiest option, try the 6-inch Fresh Fit sub with turkey breast. “Turkey, ham, or chicken are much leaner sources of protein than pastrami or meatballs,” Goodson notes. Plus, it contains two full servings of fresh vegetables for a lunchtime win.

By the Numbers

280 calories, 3.5 grams of fat, 46 grams of carbohydrates, and 18 grams of protein

At Burger King

When it comes to the healthiest fast food, you won’t find too many nutrient-rich choices at Burger King, says Goodson. “But the Grilled Chicken Sandwich will help you cut back on the saturated fat found in other menu items,” she says. Skip the fries in favor of a side of applesauce.

By the Numbers

470 calories, 19 grams of fat, 39 grams of carbohydrates, and 37 grams of protein

At KFC

Not all the chicken at the restaurant formerly known as Kentucky Fried Chicken is fried, and the grilled version is your best bet if you’re watching what you eat, says Goodson. “Grilled chicken is a lot better than fried. Everyone eats the skin on fried chicken and it becomes a really high-fat item, but the grilled chicken is skinless,” she notes. Make a meal out of it with sides of green beans and mashed potatoes.

By the Numbers

For a piece of grilled chicken breast and a grilled drumstick: 290 calories, 11 grams of fat, 0 grams of carbohydrates, and 49 grams of protein

At Chipotle

Skip the tortilla shell and go for a burrito bowl with brown rice, beans, fajita vegetables, chicken, tomato salsa, and guacamole, Goodson suggests. “A typical tortilla at Chipotle has around 300 calories before you put anything in it. They’re huge! When you choose a bowl, you knock off quite a few extra carbs,” she notes. Why splurge on guac? “It’s a much better option than sour cream if you’re looking to round out your meal with a healthy fat, and you can still enjoy the goodness of what’s inside of a burrito.”

By the Numbers

795 calories, 36.5 grams of fat, 71 grams of carbohydrates, and 47 grams of protein

At Starbucks

Stay away from the Frappuccino, Goodson cautions. “They have lots of added sugar, calories, and fat. A Caffè Latte is so much better for you.” Lattes boast a high amount of protein compared to a typical beverage, coming in at 13 grams of protein in a grande.

By the Numbers

190 calories, 7 grams of fat, 19 grams of carbohydrates, and 13 grams of protein

At Domino’s

Pizza places make healthy eating a little tougher, but you can cut calories and fat by choosing a thin crust and topping it with vegetables, says Goodson. If you’re ordering Domino’s, try the Pacific Veggie specialty pizza on thin crust. “Blot your pizza to get rid of some of the grease (and fat) on top of it,” Goodson suggests.

By the Numbers

For ¼ of a medium Pacific Veggie pizza: 330 calories, 17 grams of fat, 29 grams of carbohydrates, and 15 grams of protein

As for the sides…

What would a fast food meal be without sides? Sure, it’s fun to indulge in french fries sometimes, but you can make the overall meal a lot lighter if you choose an alternative, says Goodson.
Apples, small salads, soups, yogurts, and fruit cups are some of the healthiest fast food sides on offer at chain restaurants. And if you do crave fries, try to make the entree portion of your meal a little healthier than usual.

Hard and Fast Rules

You won’t always have the nutritional info at hand when you visit a fast food restaurant. Fortunately, Goodson has some easy-to-remember rules that will help guide your food choices:

Choose a “healthy friend.”

“A lot of times, when people say they’re going to get fast food, they automatically think of a high-fat, low-nutrient meal. But if you pair your favorite item with something a little bit healthier, your meal improves,” she explains. For example, if you really want a cheeseburger, pair it with a fruit cup so you can satisfy your craving and do your body a little bit of good at the same time.

Check out the kids’ menus.

“Most have smaller portions and offer the option to pair the meal with something healthy,” says Goodson.

Don’t size up.

While customers are no longer asked if they want to supersize their meal, they still tend to order larger sizes than they need to get full, says Goodson. “Serving size is everything. If you’re eating a kids’ cheeseburger with some fruit and milk, that’s probably enough for lunchtime.”

Order your spreads and dressings on the side.

These tend to be high-fat items, so you want to limit how much you put on your meal. “Avoid the white, creamy spreads, like mayo, ranch dressing, and sour cream,” cautions Goodson. “They tend to be higher in fat than colorful options like mustard and balsamic vinaigrette.”

Choose whole grains over white bread.

“They’ll have more fiber and they’ll usually be a little less processed,” notes Goodson. “Choose thinner versions, like flatbread, to help cut down on carbs.”

Leave the guilt behind.

As much as you might try to avoid fast food, we all end up under the Golden Arches from time to time. It doesn’t have to mean your healthy diet plan is down the drain.
“If you have to grab fast food, it’s not a big deal. Just be aware of your choices and try to pick a healthy option from the menu,” says Goodson.
And when you lick the salt from the fries off your fingers, enjoy it. The other positive choices you make throughout your week will make up for it, and you’ll ultimately become a healthier, happier you—no guilt necessary.  

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Acupuncture Explained: Why This Ancient Practice Should Be A Part Of Your Holistic Health Routine

When you think of acupuncture, what comes to mind? If you’re like most Americans, the first word you think of after hearing acupuncture is needles. Many of us have seen acupuncture portrayed in movies or other media and have formed our own skeptical or fear-based ideas about the practice. After all, don’t those needles hurt? And isn’t acupuncture some kind of outdated treatment that should have been shuttered once modern medicine came around?
Although you’ve probably seen depictions of acupuncture, most people don’t understand the theory behind the practice, or the fact that acupuncture has proven health benefits (yes, even according to Western medicine). With more Americans looking into alternative wellness and putting a focus on preventative healthcare, now is a great time to learn about acupuncture and the positive effects it can have on your life.
So, keep an open mind and read on. We promise that this treatment is about so much more than being stuck with needles! If you give it a chance, acupuncture might just become one of your favorite parts of your holistic health routine.

What is acupuncture?

Acupuncture is an approach that is part of traditional Chinese medicine. The process itself involves very intentionally stimulating certain parts of the body. Most often this is done using thin metal needles that are inserted into the skin, but there are other approaches that don’t involve needles at all (so if fear of needles is holding you back, it’s time to reconsider acupuncture).
“Acupuncture originated in China thousands of years ago as part of the region’s healthcare traditions,” says Yunuen “June” Beristain, a licensed acupuncturist and founder of Amplify Acupuncture in Los Angeles. “For thousands of years, it has remained as one of the region’s widely used therapeutic methods due to its efficacy.”
Traditional Chinese medicine is grounded in the idea that everything in nature is powered by qi, or energy, Beristain explains. This includes our bodies, which should function as a perfectly balanced system. When that system becomes disrupted or unbalanced, health ailments can emerge. Acupuncture aims to realign the system, allowing qi to flow as it should.
[pullquote align=”center”]“For thousands of years, it has remained as one of the region’s widely used therapeutic methods due to its efficacy.”
—Yunuen “June” Beristain, Amplify Acupuncture[/pullquote]
“By understanding this energy along with its functions, mechanisms, and pathways in the body, acupuncture is able to stimulate it. In doing so, it effectively stimulates the body’s own healing mechanisms,” Beristain says.
Rather than healing ailments, practitioners of traditional Chinese medicine believe acupuncture allows the body to access its own healing powers and rebalance its systems.
“Our bodies know how to heal. They are constantly healing themselves. Acupuncture uses our own body’s wisdom and healing mechanisms to improve health,” Beristain says. “It works with the body, not against it. This makes acupuncture an excellent choice for natural medicine, with little to no side effects but with excellent results.”

What does Western medicine have to say?

All that talk about energy flow and natural healing sounds wonderful, but if you’re like many savvy health consumers, you probably want to know what Western medical research says about acupuncture, like how it functions and whether it works.
The short answer? It sure does.
According to research reviewed by the National Institutes of Health (NIH), acupuncture is an effective treatment for many ailments, particularly chronic pain and menopause-related symptoms including hot flashes, sleep interruptions, and anxiety. In fact, one study found that acupuncture reduced menopause symptoms by nearly 37 percent. Women who received acupuncture during the study also reported improved quality of life.  
When it comes to certain chronic conditions including chronic pain, one review of studies involving nearly 18,000 individuals being treated for chronic pain found that those who had acupuncture experienced less pain than people who received simulated acupuncture—a placebo situation designed to make them believe they were getting acupuncture when they weren’t.
[pullquote align=”center”]According to research reviewed by the National Institutes of Health (NIH), acupuncture is an effective treatment for many ailments, particularly chronic pain and menopause-related symptoms.[/pullquote]
An in-depth NIH resource on acupuncture reports that “results from a number of studies suggest that acupuncture may help ease types of pain that are often chronic such as low-back pain, neck pain, and osteoarthritis/knee pain. It also may help reduce the frequency of tension headaches and prevent migraine headaches. Therefore, acupuncture appears to be a reasonable option for people with chronic pain to consider.”
The resource goes on to say, “The effects of acupuncture on the brain and body and how best to measure them are only beginning to be understood.”
While studies have shown that acupuncture can be effective for pain relief, Western doctors don’t entirely understand why it works so well. It is believed that acupuncture affects the electronic transmissions that take place in all areas of our bodies, explains Joseph Feuerstein, MD, director of integrative medicine at Stamford Hospital in Stamford, Connecticut, and assistant professor of clinical medicine at Columbia University in New York City.
“Research suggests that acupuncture is working on multiple different parts of the central nervous simultaneously, including releasing pain-modulating substances in the local area and also work[ing] at the level of the spinal cord and higher areas of the brain,” Feuerstein says.
Beristain agrees with this characterization.
[pullquote align=”center”]“Acupuncture is working on multiple different parts of the central nervous simultaneously, including releasing pain-modulating substances.”
—Joseph Feuerstein, MD[/pullquote]
“Acupuncture stimulates the minuscule electrical impulses that energize every cell, every tissue, and every function in our bodies,” she says. “For example, connectivity tissue, which is prevalent throughout the entire body, has high electric activity. By the strategic insertion and manipulation of tiny needles, acupuncture stimulates the electric activity in the body that stimulates healing.”

Who should try acupuncture?

Given your new understanding of both the Western and traditional Chinese explanations of how acupuncture operates, you might be wondering if you should give it a try. Most Americans who try acupuncture come to it when other medical options have failed to give them relief or help them heal. However, Beristain points out that in traditional Chinese medicine acupuncture is an important preventative health measure.
“You don’t have to experience any health challenges to benefit from acupuncture,” she says. “Just like a healthy diet, exercise, and mindfulness, acupuncture is a great practice to maintain your health.”
That said, since acupuncture has been shown to relieve chronic pain and alleviate symptoms of menopause, people with those conditions could benefit from therapeutic acupuncture.
Many people turn to acupuncture for help with fertility issues, too, and all the experts who spoke with HealthyWay for this piece say that acupuncture can help with fertility. However, the research is not clear-cut around this issue. One study found that acupuncture can improve coping for women who are having difficulty getting pregnant and that it may positively influence female reproductive health. Another study found that acupuncture did not increase pregnancy rates for women undergoing in vitro fertilization overall, although it did result in some improved pregnancy rates at IVF clinics with lower success rates.

What to Look for in an Acupuncture Provider

Opting for acupuncture can be scary, especially since Western medicine can’t fully account for how it works. Mysteries aside, it’s also not easy to find a person who you can trust to poke and prod you with a bunch of needles!
That’s why it’s important to find a qualified acupuncturist who can help set your mind at ease. Ralph Esposito, a naturopathic physician, licensed acupuncturist, and functional medicine doctor with offices in Bridgeport, Connecticut, and New York City, says it’s important to go with someone who is a licensed acupuncturist or LAc. Other doctors can be trained in acupuncture without understanding the basics of traditional Chinese medicine, which are essential for making acupuncture work, he says. The National Certification Commission for Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine can help you find a licensed acupuncturist in your area.
[pullquote align=”center”]“Just like a healthy diet, exercise, and mindfulness, acupuncture is a great practice to maintain your health.”
—Yunuen “June” Beristain, Amplify Acupuncture[/pullquote]
Beristain points out that licensed acupuncturists have undergone years of training in order to provide you with top-notch care.
“The amount of training to become a licensed acupuncturist is vast and challenging,” she says. In California, where she practices, licensed acupuncturists have to complete a four-year program and go through a multi-level certification exam.

What to Expect

When you go for your an acupuncture appointment you can expect to spend about half an hour with your practitioner, although the first appointment will take longer as you talk about your health conditions and what brought you in.
Then, it’s time to get started. You’ll relax (usually lying down), while your acupuncturist inserts between five and 20 needles depending on the type and site of treatment. Those are left in for 10 to 20 minutes, during which time you can just sit back and relax. After that the needles are removed and you’re ready to be on your way.
One of the biggest misconceptions about acupuncture is that it hurts, Beristain says. Because acupuncture needles are very thin, they shouldn’t cause you pain when they are inserted.
“One might experience a needle that is uncomfortable, but most people are surprised at the fact that acupuncture can be virtually painless,” she says.
Esposito adds that many people believe the needles are targeting nerves, which is not the case.
“Yes, these needles are very close to specific nerves and they work on the autonomic nervous system but they don’t ‘hit’ nerves,” he explains. “That actually would be very painful.”
Instead, the needles calmly stimulate your body’s qi energy or electrical pulses, depending on whether you’re looking at it from the Eastern or Western viewpoint. Overall, the process is very gentle, so it may take a few sessions to begin experiencing relief.
“Acupuncture is gentle. It works with the body’s own wisdom to, in most cases, go to the root of the issue,” Beristain says. “Therefore, it is rarely used as a therapeutic method that one can do once and expect immediate results.”
Most people treating a specific condition will require two session a week for about six weeks. After that you’ll evaluate your needs with your practitioner and set up a maintenance plan.
It’s ok to go to your acupuncture appointment right after exercising, but it’s important to make sure you’ve eaten recently, Esposito says.
[pullquote align=”center”]Acupuncture needles calmly stimulate your body’s qi energy or electrical pulses, depending on whether you’re looking at it from the Eastern or Western viewpoint.[/pullquote]
“Acupuncture can be great to lower blood sugar and blood pressure, and doing it without any food can cause lightheadedness and low blood sugar,” he explains.
After your session light movement is suggested, but it’s best to hold off on heavier exercise for the rest of the day.

Acupuncture at Home (and on the Road)

To get the full benefits of acupuncture you have to visit a licensed practitioner who has spent years studying the complex theories behind the practice. However, there are some benefits of acupuncture that you can experience at home, no needles required.
For relief from headaches, Esposito recommends activating your large intestine point (LI4), which is located between your thumb and index finger.
“Straighten all your fingers to have them touch and there will be a bump between your thumb and index finger. This is LI4,” he says. “Press here for a few minutes for headache relief.”
Another popular acupuncture point is pericardium 6 (PC-6), also known as the Inner Pass. This is located about two inches up your forearm from the point where your wrist meets your hand, in between the two tendons. You can press on that point until you feel a pulse to relieve nausea. In fact, this is the idea behind the popular motion sickness relief bands that many people wear.
Next time you have a headache or are feeling queasy, give the principles of acupuncture a try for yourself, whether you’re at the office, in the comfort of your own home, or on the go.
Whether you’ve been fighting headaches or hormonal issues, or are just curious about how ancient healing traditions can boost your overall health and wellness, you might want to give acupuncture a try in 2018. After all, there’s got to be a reason that the treatment’s popularity has lasted for thousands of years and spread all the way around the globe.
“It is important to know what a powerful tool acupuncture is for preventative medicine,” Beristain says. “Acupuncture and traditional Chinese medicine focus on achieving balance in the body in order to prevent disease and maintain optimal health. Therefore, the consistent practice of acupuncture is really a great addition to the wellness regime of any person.”
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Everything You’ve Ever Wanted To Know About Eyebrow Shapes—And How To Get Yours Just Right

When the movie Mirror, Mirror premiered in 2012, Lily Collins’ bold eyebrows were far from mainstream. Fast forward five years to now, and her brows are—knowingly or unknowingly—being emulated by almost everyone.
Thanks to the influence of Collins and others, including model Cara Delevingne, thick eyebrows have become a beauty ideal. Much like contouring, creating bold eyebrow shapes is now seen as an essential part of sophisticated beauty routines. Thick brows—and the products needed to create and maintain them—can be found nearly everywhere.
The obsession with eyebrow shapes has even saturated pop culture. “Eyebrows on fleek” has been ubiquitous since 2014, when teenager Peaches Monroee used the term in a Vine. In the UK, overly thick, dark, artificial-looking brows are often called “scouse brows”—a reference to an episode of the British TV show Desperate Scousewives.
Eyebrow trends, including fun, brightly-colored eyebrows and parodical “squiggle brows,” had their heyday in 2017. The brow trend has even involved its fair share of controversy, with many people pointing out that women of color were shamed for having thick brows until white influencers made them trendy.
While eyebrows have gotten bigger over the past few years, they’ve always been an important part of the face: we just didn’t realize it until recently. A 2002 study, for example, shows that eyebrows play a huge role in facial recognition. Eyebrows also contribute greatly to our recognition of emotion in facial expressions.
Different eyebrow trends have punctuated Western beauty ideals over the decades. In the ‘20s and ‘30s, pencil-thin, curved brows were popular. These were ditched for fuller, thicker brows in the ‘50s and ‘60s, which were replaced by more natural-looking brows in the ‘70s and ‘80s. The ‘90s saw women opting for thinner eyebrow shapes, while the early augts saw brows thicken again.
So why have bold, perfectly-groomed brows suddenly become so popular?
In part, it’s because of the influence of social media. “Brows have been become the focal point of beauty trends in recent years due to the new wave of social media marketing and the ongoing evolution of brow products,” says Shobha Tummala, founder of Shobha hair removal salons. “With the growth of visually-driven social networks such as Snapchat, Instagram, YouTube, Tumblr, etc., people are now able to be in touch with beauty trends all over the world at the palm of their hands,” she says.
Selfie culture means it’s easier than ever to see numerous close-ups of celebrities and influencers every day, and there’s no doubt that we’re strongly influenced by the picture-perfect, impeccably groomed eyebrows of our influencers. This includes celebrities like Collins and Delevingne, as well as the Kardashian sisters, who naturally have dark, thick hair due to their Armenian roots. The far-off paparazzi shots of yesteryear could never show off groomed eyebrows as well as a well-lit selfie, and we get to see those all day long.
Bold brows might also be trendy because they contrast strongly with the thin brow trends of the ‘90s—a look that’s now considered outdated. Influenced by celebrities like Pamela Anderson and Gwen Stefani, many women plucked—and over-plucked—their brows until they were pencil-thin.
“The ‘90s did a number on the ladies of my generation. We looked to Drew Barrymore and the cast of Friends as our beauty icons,” says Di Medlock, exhale spa’s national director of waxing.“Many of us tried to force our brows into a thin and highly stylized shape, which is not universally flattering.”
Another reason for the apparent popularity of thick brows? As far as beauty standards go, it’s relatively attainable, says Medlock. “We can’t all be a size two or have legs for days, but brows…that works for everyone,” she says.
And if your brows aren’t currently working for you, they’re relatively easy to fix.
eyebrow shapes diagram

How do I decide between different eyebrow shapes?

When it comes to styling your brows, you want to go bold and trendy while still looking natural. The key to great eyebrows is choosing a good shape.
Unfortunately, there are no universal rules when it comes to shaping your brows. “Brow rules are like horoscopes—they can’t all work for everyone all of the time,” Medlock says. “The human face is too unique for that kind of simplification.” Instead, it’s important to keep certain soft rules and tricks in mind when it comes to choosing an eyebrow shape.
Medlock notes that your different facial features will be accentuated by different brow shapes. “A thinner brow will highlight a dominant feature, whereas a thicker brow will draw attention away,” she says. A thick brow can reduce the look of a large nose, for example, while thinner brows could draw more attention to your eyes. Angled brows can make your features look sharper, while round eyes will emphasize rounder cheeks or lips.
Base your eyebrow shape on the shape of your face, but remember it isn’t the only thing you need to consider. Sabah Feroz, blinkbrowbar brow specialist, says that your ideal brow shape also depends on your brow bone structure and other facial features. Not every round-faced person, for example, would look great with the exact same shape of eyebrows.
Stick to these soft rules, but take your own brow bone into account, too.

Round

eyebrow shapes round face
Round faces are nearly as wide as they are long. If your face is round, it’s widest at the cheeks with a soft jawline.
If you have a round face, avoid rounded brows and go for angled brows with high arches, instead. If a high arch is too bold for you, soften it a little. According to Feroz, this will open up your eyes and balance your facial features, making your face look slimmer.

Oval or Oblong

eyebrow shapes oval face
Oval and oblong faces are relatively round, but a bit longer than truly round faces. They’re widest at the cheekbones and involve a soft jawline.
Generally, any eyebrow shape will suit you if you if you have an oval or oblong face. If your bone structure seems a bit sharp, a low arch can soften your look. Opt for a nearly-flat brow—that is, one with a very low angle—if your face is particularly long.

Square or Rectangle

eyebrow shapes square face
Square- and rectangular-shaped faces are equally wide at the forehead, cheekbones and jawline. They often include a prominent jawline.
If you have a square or rectangular face, the angles of your jaw might look a bit harsh if paired with a dramatically-arched brow. Soften your look by choosing a round or soft arched brow instead. The curves will accentuate your rounder features like your eyes and lips.

Heart Shaped

eyebrow shapes heart face
Your face is heart shaped if it’s widest at the forehead and narrowest at the jawline. You might have a sharp chin, too, and will want to soften your eyebrows to counteract that sharpness.
At the same time, you don’t want your face to look too round, especially if it’s short. Opt for a soft, low arch with a rounded curve to keep your face looking balanced.

Diamond Shaped

eyebrow shapes diamond face
Diamond-shaped faces are widest at the temples. They often look a bit angular and bony, and can include a sharp chin.
A high arch will bring attention to your eyes whereas a soft arch will soften your features, meaning either shape is a good option depending on the look you’re going for.

How should I sculpt my eyebrows?

The shape of your eyebrows is important—but how you shape them is also important. If you don’t sculpt your eyebrows correctly, you might over-pluck, irritate your skin, and cause yourself a lot of unnecessary pain.
When it comes to removing unwanted growth and keeping what’s left behind “neat,” you have several options. Waxing and threading are both popular ways to shape your brows quickly. Although both methods can be painful, they’re a lot quicker than tweezing individual hairs.
“If you’re looking to maintain your brows at home … only remove the stray hairs,” Feroz advises. “Don’t attempt to shape unless you know what you are doing.” She suggests you leave shaping to the professionals and commit to maintaining brow tidiness between scheduled sculpting appointments.

Tweezing

It’s a good idea to shower or wash your face with warm water just before you work on your brows. The warm water will open your pores, making it easier and less painful to remove the hairs. Medlock suggests you brush your eyebrows downward before plucking above your brow to help you see the stray hairs. Use a pair of tweezers with a slanted tip in order to get the best hold.
Be careful not to over-pluck your eyebrows, as this will damage your follicles. You can avoid over-plucking by leaving a fair amount of time between each tweezing sesh. If you have over-plucked, give your eyebrows time to regrow. In that time, don’t pencil over or dye your brows too much, as that can further irritate your skin.

Threading vs. Waxing

Tummala recommends eyebrow threading instead of waxing or tweezing. Threading is a centuries-old technique that was initially popular in the Middle East, India, and China. Many people find it more effective, quicker, and less painful than other forms of hair removal. Those who swear by threading also say that the hairs grow back slower than they would if they were waxed or tweezed.
“The skin around your eyes is super delicate and waxing your brows essentially takes that first layer of skin off. Ouch!” Tummala says. “We always recommend threading your brows since threading is more precise and allows you get the shortest hairs from the root.”
Of course, if you have particularly sensitive skin, hair removal of any kind might irritate it. If you’re maintaining your brows at home, keep some soothing cream on hand. If you’ve accidentally ripped some skin off, a cold compress and some fresh air should help you soothe it.

Beyond Taming: How to Enhance Brows Without Going Overboard

Of course, since the trend is all about thick, bold brows, you don’t just want to remove stray hairs: you want to enhance the shape of your eyebrows, and many people rely on eyebrow pencils, powders, and creams to make their brows look fuller and thicker.

Pencil

If you’re reaching for a pencil to achieve thicker-looking brows, you might want to use an eyebrow stencil to help you create and fill in the shape. If you don’t have a stencil, Medlock gives this advice: “Make a solid line on the underside of your brow and then use upperward feather strokes to fill sparse areas.”
She goes on to say, “I never take the pencil all the way to the top edge of the brow—it looks too artificial.” She suggests brushing over harsh pencil lines with a clean mascara wand to give your brows a softer, more natural look.

Tinting

If your brow hairs are particularly light, you can have them tinted. Salons offer tinting services, and it’s also relatively easy to do at home with a home tinting kit. Just don’t make your eyebrows too dark—start by going a shade or two darker than your natural brow color.

Microblading

For those who have particularly sparse eyebrows, microblading might be the answer. Microblading is a meticulous process that involves tattooing hair-like strokes over your brow area. Unlike traditional eyebrow tattooing, though, microblading involves using tiny needles to deposit small amounts of ink under the skin. The result? Smaller, feather-like strokes that create natural-looking brows.
Microblading is semi-permanent, but some specialists recommend a follow-up appointment after a month to retouch the initial work. After that, the effect should last between one and three years. Microblading is usually priced between $600 and $900—and while this may seem pricey, it could be worth it if you find yourself filling your brows in every day and wanting to invest your time elsewhere.
We can’t all be Cara Delevingne, but we can take inspiration from her look and embrace thick, bold brows—that is, until the next eyebrow trend catches on.
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